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Gayby

  • 2012
  • Not Rated
  • 1h 25m
IMDb RATING
6.0/10
2.8K
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Gayby (2012)
Jenn (straight) and Matt (gay) are best friends from college who are now in their thirties. Single by choice, they decide to fulfill a youthful promise to have a child together... the old fashioned way.
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Jenn (straight) and Matt (gay) are best friends from college who are now in their thirties. Single by choice, they decide to fulfill a youthful promise to have a child together--the old-fash... Read allJenn (straight) and Matt (gay) are best friends from college who are now in their thirties. Single by choice, they decide to fulfill a youthful promise to have a child together--the old-fashioned way.Jenn (straight) and Matt (gay) are best friends from college who are now in their thirties. Single by choice, they decide to fulfill a youthful promise to have a child together--the old-fashioned way.

  • Director
    • Jonathan Lisecki
  • Writer
    • Jonathan Lisecki
  • Stars
    • Jenn Harris
    • Anna Margaret Hollyman
    • Matthew Wilkas
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  • IMDb RATING
    6.0/10
    2.8K
    YOUR RATING
    • Director
      • Jonathan Lisecki
    • Writer
      • Jonathan Lisecki
    • Stars
      • Jenn Harris
      • Anna Margaret Hollyman
      • Matthew Wilkas
    • 18User reviews
    • 11Critic reviews
    • 58Metascore
  • See production info at IMDbPro
    • Awards
      • 4 wins & 4 nominations total

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    Jenn Harris
    Jenn Harris
    • Jenn
    Anna Margaret Hollyman
    Anna Margaret Hollyman
    • Kelly
    Matthew Wilkas
    Matthew Wilkas
    • Matt
    Christian Coulson
    Christian Coulson
    • Aaron
    Adam Driver
    Adam Driver
    • Neil
    Zach Shaffer
    Zach Shaffer
    • Tom
    Jack Ferver
    • Jamie
    Joanne Tucker
    Joanne Tucker
    • Valerie
    Jonathan Lisecki
    Jonathan Lisecki
    • Nelson
    Emily Wachtel
    Emily Wachtel
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    Mike Doyle
    Mike Doyle
    • Scott
    Satchel Shure
    • Parker
    Jeff Hiller
    Jeff Hiller
    • Showgirls Fan Customer
    Alycia Delmore
    Alycia Delmore
    • Linda
    Louis Cancelmi
    Louis Cancelmi
    • Louis
    Tommy Heleringer
    • Adrian
    Charlie Barnett
    Charlie Barnett
    • Daniel
    Dulé Hill
    Dulé Hill
    • Adam
    • Director
      • Jonathan Lisecki
    • Writer
      • Jonathan Lisecki
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    User reviews18

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    Gordon-11

    surprisingly funny

    This film is about a straight woman trying to have a baby, the only problem is that she is single. Her gay best friend saves the day by agreeing to help her procreate.

    I find "Gayby" a hilarious film. It's light hearted and funny throughout the story. The scene where they first attempt to procreate is very well made, as the awkwardness and embarrassment in the air is shown with a hilarious touch. The story is quite positive as well, even though the lead characters are not super successful people, they are portrayed to be good people that are down to earth and easy to relate to. The film was shot with a comfortable budget, which is a welcomed change for gay films. The sets and settings are nice, and the film appears professionally made. I enjoyed watching "Gayby" a lot, and I found it entertaining.
    8Coralknight

    Well done mainstream gay-themed film

    While the theme of "gay guy and straight woman decide to make a baby" has been done MANY times (The "Wedding Banquet" is probably the Gold Standard) even back in 2012, this rendition absolutely comes off as believable, with well-formed characters, great acting and a solid script. The cliché of being set in NYC is a bit of a turn-off (does anyone outside of NYC care about how neurotic and dysfunctional people are there anymore?) but the acting absolutely makes up for it. Someone here is complaining about gratuitous nudity, and I think they may be referring to a different film, since this one doesn't have any at all...which is why I'm giving it such a high rating; the script carried it without having to resort to that gimmick.
    jm10701

    Surprisingly smart and entertaining... and Tommy Heleringer

    I've gotten so used to terrible gay movies (especially American gay movies made in the last 15 years or so) that it's almost shocking when a good one comes along. Gayby is a good one.

    It's about lifelong best friends Matt (gay) and Jenn (straight), who had said in college that they'd have a baby together some day. Years later the day comes, and they get to work. Meanwhile, each of them has an active work and social life, a miserable love life, and an entertaining and diverse set of friends of various types and stereotypes.

    Unlike some in the gay audience, I don't hate stereotypes, because there are some wonderful people who fit most of the stereotypes... except one - the hairless gym boy with blinding white teeth and a perfect tan on every square inch of his totally shaved body. There are NO wonderful people who fit that stereotype, which is one reason American gay movies in general have become so stupid that 99% of them are unwatchable. The only gym bodies in this movie have hair all over them, teeth the color of teeth instead of chalk, and tans (if they have tans at all) only where people naturally get tanned from being out in the sun - all of which is delightful.

    This movie has a likable and able cast, a very smart and entertaining screenplay, one of the sexiest men on earth in a tiny role (Tommy Heleringer, who plays Adrian, one of Matt's abortive dates; he also plays Scruffy in a web series called The Outs, and he's so delicious I'd eat him up if he ever came to my door) and (thank God!) New York City. The worst movie ever made in New York is better than the best from LA, and Gayby is far from the worst. It may be the best; it's certainly one of the best. Very much worth seeing.
    8withoutahat

    Fresh and hilarious

    Reading the two absurdly negative reviews here I felt compelled to write a brief rebuttal. This was hilariously funny, sharp and extremely enjoyable (yes even to non-target audience like me), and if you enjoy supporting independent film, this should be up near the top of your list to see.

    Someone else mentioned soft core pornography. This is a film about a woman trying to get pregnant, for which one must (in most cases) have sex. In this case it happens to be with her gay best friend. I thought these scenes were brilliantly handled - very funny and original. I cannot imagine how that could fall into any other category.

    See this film, trust me, you'll enjoy it.
    5preppy-3

    Good but slight

    Comedy-drama about two 30-something friends--Jenn (Jenn Harris) and Matt (Matthew Wilkas). They decide to have a baby--the natural way. Problem is Matt is gay. This leads to very predictable situations and a big old happy ending that I didn't believe for one second.

    The two leads are good actors and attractive (especially Wilkas) but this has been done before. The script is predictable, the minor characters are more caricatures than real people (especially Jenn's VERY vicious sister) and I was not that entertained. However it DOES have some funny moments, some hot guy-on-guy kissing and it does have a sweet easy-going feeling about it. I just found it a little too predictable. I can only give it a 5.

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      Matt: I'm a guy. I can put it in anything.

    • Soundtracks
      We Do Not Belong
      Written and Performed by Psychic Friend

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    Details

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    • Release date
      • March 12, 2012 (United States)
    • Country of origin
      • United States
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    • Language
      • English
    • Also known as
      • Sống Thử
    • Filming locations
      • Los Angeles, California, USA
    • Production company
      • Hubbhobb
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    • Gross US & Canada
      • $14,062
    • Opening weekend US & Canada
      • $4,792
      • Oct 14, 2012
    • Gross worldwide
      • $14,062
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    • Runtime
      • 1h 25m(85 min)
    • Color
      • Color
    • Sound mix
      • Dolby Digital
    • Aspect ratio
      • 1.78 : 1

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