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Having You

  • 2013
  • Not Rated
  • 1h 32m
IMDb RATING
6.4/10
937
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Having You (2013)
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ComedyDrama

Jack has finally managed to propose to his girlfriend when his life is turned upside down by the arrival of an old one-night stand that introduces him to his seven year old son.Jack has finally managed to propose to his girlfriend when his life is turned upside down by the arrival of an old one-night stand that introduces him to his seven year old son.Jack has finally managed to propose to his girlfriend when his life is turned upside down by the arrival of an old one-night stand that introduces him to his seven year old son.

  • Director
    • Sam Hoare
  • Writer
    • Sam Hoare
  • Stars
    • Anna Friel
    • Romola Garai
    • Andrew Buchan
  • See production info at IMDbPro
  • IMDb RATING
    6.4/10
    937
    YOUR RATING
    • Director
      • Sam Hoare
    • Writer
      • Sam Hoare
    • Stars
      • Anna Friel
      • Romola Garai
      • Andrew Buchan
    • 8User reviews
    • 2Critic reviews
  • See production info at IMDbPro
    • Awards
      • 4 wins total

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    Anna Friel
    Anna Friel
    • Anna
    Romola Garai
    Romola Garai
    • Camilla
    Andrew Buchan
    Andrew Buchan
    • Jack
    Phil Davis
    Phil Davis
    • Peter
    Isaac Andrews
    Isaac Andrews
    • Phoenix
    Steven Cree
    Steven Cree
    • Paul
    Harry Hadden-Paton
    Harry Hadden-Paton
    • Barry
    Hattie Morahan
    Hattie Morahan
    • Lucy
    Julia Deakin
    • Mrs. Haughton
    Sutara Gayle
    • Michelle
    • (as Lorna Gayle)
    John Heffernan
    John Heffernan
    • Dr. Matthew Jenson
    Christopher Kelham
    • Tim
    • (as Chris Kelham)
    Sally Scott
    Sally Scott
    • Jessica
    Bill Thomas
    Bill Thomas
    • Mr. Rivers
    Graham Cawte
    Graham Cawte
    • Fairground Customer
    • (uncredited)
    Chris Cowlin
    • Doctor
    • (uncredited)
    Christian Dixon
    • The Traffic Warden
    • (uncredited)
    Ignacio Guirado
    • Theme Park Visitor
    • (uncredited)
    • Director
      • Sam Hoare
    • Writer
      • Sam Hoare
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    8lindasusanstrang

    Why I Love British Films

    Good actors immersed in their characters carrying us along their emotional journey. No heroes - real people are imperfect! No villains, although an occasional unlikable character.

    In a time where so many films rely on special effects and extreme plot twists and turns, it's lovely to just settle into a film that will pull you in emotionally. Yes, it moves slowly, but it moves you, makes you identify with and empathize with these less than perfect people.

    Jack's flaws are prominently displayed and yet we find ourselves sympathizing with him, understanding the choices he makes even if they are wrong, rooting for him to find his way.
    8MattyGibbs

    Excellent and intelligent drama

    Having You is a small UK drama about a man about to marry his infertile girlfriend, who suddenly finds out he already has a child. It raises an interesting moral dilemma, should he stay with the girl he loves or potentially lose her and instead get to know the child he thought he would never have.

    A strong cast helps featuring the beautiful Anna Friel and the always excellent Philip Davis all help to make the intelligent script sparkle. Andrew Buchan is very likable and evokes real sympathy as the man left in a lose lose situation. Interspersed with some realistic and at times touching drama there are plenty of funny lines. It is one of the rare films that gets the balance between drama and comedy spot on. An added bonus is an excellent soundtrack that fits the film perfectly.

    This is one of those small gems that you occasionally come across unexpectedly. I found this to be an engrossing, believable and enjoyable film with a good pay off. Highly recommended.
    4Prismark10

    Getting to know you

    Having You is a small scale low budget film but which never adds up to much as in scope it really is a television film with some swearing.

    Jack (Andrew Buchan) works fixing old arcade machines, although reluctant to commit, he has proposed to long term girlfriend Camille (Romola Garai) who is a doctor. Jack has an abrasive relationship with his dad who wants to get him a proper job and reminds him of his troubled past which includes alcoholism.

    However just after Camille miscarried some years ago he had a one night stand with Anna (Anna Friel.) She now turns up with their 7 year old son Phoenix and wants Jack to spend time with his son and bond with him. Of course Jack is in a dilemma as he does not want Camille to find out he has a son, especially as it means that he cheated on her.

    The film is low key and uneven. It takes a dramatic turn at the latter part of the movie when Anna reveals the real reason she wants Jack to get to know his son.
    8JamesMcIrish

    An excellent, understated bittersweet drama

    An unexpected gem.

    I started watching this on TV without having heard of it or seen any inkling of what it was about. I was immediately taken in by the story, which portrays a normal, good, average guy dealing with a difficult situation. It managed to capture my attention quickly because of its carefully crafted portrayal of life as it often is; flawed, imperfect, but ultimately well-meaning and plain "normal".

    There is no unnecessary menace. No fabrication of conflict, often derived purely by the script-writers by forcing characters to "act stupid" in order to create drama that wouldn't otherwise exist (Walking Dead is a good example of that popular cinematic crime). Everyone (with perhaps the exception of the father, and Barry) makes decisions which we can all relate to, with no suspension of disbelief required. It is that which made the film both heartfelt, and truly engaging. At every turn I felt I could actually relate to the characters. A rare treat in this world of plastic cinema and counterfeit drama.

    It is certainly slow moving, and lacking in "theatrics", but this is precisely why it works. It doesn't rely on cliches or any of the banal moralising tripe that swamps so many Hollywood films. The decisions and choices that the central characters makes are immediately humane and real.

    If you like blockbusters, and only blockbusters, then you'll probably hate this film for its slow pace and lack of action. If, however, you aren't a soulless dolt then maybe you'll even shed a tear at the finale like I did. Unusually for me, I didn't feel totally manipulated in doing so.

    Great cast, great script, great film.
    10chris-shaver

    Extraordinary Character-Driven Movie

    Beautiful movie. Understated acting, but very expressive - the entire cast. Wonderful sound track. Lighting and sound extremely well done. (My hearing is not great and frequently small-budget movies, especially from the UK are marked by muffled dialogue.)

    The story was moving without a wasted scene. In fact, a few of the scenes were so well done, and unveiled the interior life of the character so well, as to rank with the best I've watched in recent memory.

    The ending was perhaps my least favorite part of the movie. It kept in tone with the rest, so it was of a piece. But it was unoriginal.

    Last, both in the spots where the movie reached for laughs - and a few places where quirky acting hit me unexpectedly, I burst out laughing, which is rare for me. So many movies in this genre are just somber, or unable to hit the right comedic note - just the opposite here.

    All told an extremely enjoyable film experience of the first order!

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      Anna: [In a post death letter to her offspring Phoenix] PS... Don't play too many video games

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      Written and Performed by Will Nott

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    • Release date
      • June 12, 2013 (Hungary)
    • Country of origin
      • United Kingdom
    • Language
      • English
    • Also known as
      • Обладая тобой
    • Filming locations
      • Portsmouth, Hampshire, England, UK
    • Production companies
      • Wigwam Films
      • Holland Park Pictures
      • Finite Films and TV
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    • Runtime
      • 1h 32m(92 min)
    • Color
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