I'm Not Here

Acting at every age level in this film is exceptional from C.K. Simmons on down. Cute kids offset the struggles of their parents in this story. Tender couples scenes and family moments help soften the extreme regrets and personal isolation depicted to have resulted from alcoholism. There is no happy, heroic rehabilitation shown here. But the human foils and frailties are worth watching.

As a mature adult male, I saw so many parallels to my own life/loves/mistakes/regrets that it was hard to watch at some points. But isn't that what good films can do? Take you so deep into the character (J.K.Simmons is great!) that you feel their pain. A must see for anyone who's ever made a mistake in their life and felt alone.

I'm Not Here is a somber, introspective drama that explores themes of grief, regret, and the passage of time. J. K. Simmons delivers a deeply emotional performance as a man haunted by his past, portraying pain and isolation with remarkable subtlety. The film's nonlinear storytelling, weaving between past and present, adds depth to the narrative but at times feels disjointed, making it difficult to fully connect with the characters.

The cinematography and atmosphere effectively enhance the film's melancholic tone, and there are moments of genuine emotional weight. However, the pacing can be slow, and some scenes feel repetitive, making it a film that requires patience. The story's message about personal responsibility and redemption is thought-provoking, yet the execution lacks the impact needed to make it truly memorable.

I'm Not Here is a film with strong performances and a heartfelt story, but it struggles with its structure and pacing. While it won't resonate with everyone, those who appreciate slow-burning character studies may find something meaningful in its quiet reflection on life's choices.

This movie really touched me, it's very emotional though I think it's an unfinished work! This is very disappointing an hour and a quarter isn't enough :(

What I liked about this film: the acting was excellent, very evocative of the emotions of the situations being shown.

But I'm not sure what exactly happened in certain scenes. I guess we're supposed to assume the details don't really matter or that he's so drunk he can't remember or doesn't want to remember. The ending is what confused me the most. Was he imagining something that he wished had happened, or just felt better knowing that's what he would do if he could?

I suppose this film will appeal to people who had alcoholics in their family. I didn't, so unfortunately, it was a bit too confusing for me.