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She Came to Me

  • 2023
  • R
  • 1h 42m
IMDb RATING
6.0/10
8.7K
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Marisa Tomei, Anne Hathaway, and Peter Dinklage in She Came to Me (2023)
Follows a composer who suffers writer's block and rediscovers his passion after an adventurous one-night stand.
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A composer who suffers writer's block rediscovers his passion after an adventurous one-night stand.A composer who suffers writer's block rediscovers his passion after an adventurous one-night stand.A composer who suffers writer's block rediscovers his passion after an adventurous one-night stand.

  • Director
    • Rebecca Miller
  • Writer
    • Rebecca Miller
  • Stars
    • Peter Dinklage
    • Anne Hathaway
    • Marisa Tomei
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  • IMDb RATING
    6.0/10
    8.7K
    YOUR RATING
    • Director
      • Rebecca Miller
    • Writer
      • Rebecca Miller
    • Stars
      • Peter Dinklage
      • Anne Hathaway
      • Marisa Tomei
    • 62User reviews
    • 68Critic reviews
    • 53Metascore
  • See production info at IMDbPro
    • Awards
      • 2 nominations total

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    Peter Dinklage
    Peter Dinklage
    • Steven Lauddem
    Anne Hathaway
    Anne Hathaway
    • Patricia Jessup-Lauddem
    Marisa Tomei
    Marisa Tomei
    • Katrina Trento
    Evan Ellison
    Evan Ellison
    • Julian Jessup
    • (as Evan A. Ellison)
    Harlow Jane
    Harlow Jane
    • Tereza Szyskowski
    Joanna Kulig
    Joanna Kulig
    • Magdalena Szyskowski
    Brian d'Arcy James
    Brian d'Arcy James
    • Trey Ruffa
    Judy Gold
    Judy Gold
    • Susan Shaw
    Anthony Roth Costanzo
    Anthony Roth Costanzo
    • Countertenor at Fundraiser
    Samuel H. Levine
    Samuel H. Levine
    • Raef Gundel
    • (as Sam Levine)
    Sue Jean Kim
    Sue Jean Kim
    • Sister Henrietta
    Gregg Edelman
    Gregg Edelman
    • Duftin Haverford
    Aalok Mehta
    Aalok Mehta
    • Anton Gatner
    Chris Gethard
    Chris Gethard
    • Carl
    Dale Soules
    Dale Soules
    • Aunt Moxie
    Sandos Diaz
    • Des
    Joseph Oltman
    • Pete
    Tommy Buck
    Tommy Buck
    • Bartender
    • Director
      • Rebecca Miller
    • Writer
      • Rebecca Miller
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    User reviews62

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    7EUyeshima

    Quirky Roundelay Doesn't Quite Find Its Footing

    Director/screenwriter Rebecca Miller has fashioned quite a quirky relationship roundelay in this 2023 dramedy as she focuses on a dumbfounding love triangle saved from complete absurdity by the dexterity of the three leads. The plot is convoluted. Stephen Lauddem is a famous composer with writer's block who sleeps with Katrina, a shopworn tugboat captain with a sex addiction, and then writes a celebrated opera about their fast affair. Stephen is married to Patricia, a beautiful Manhattan therapist with OCD and a strange obsession with nuns. There's a parallel story of Patricia's son who is in love with the underaged daughter of the family maid whose husband is hellbent on breaking up the relationship. All the story strands come together but don't emotionally resonate nearly as much as they should. Miller seems more preoccupied with the characters' eccentricities. The star performances compensate. Peter Dinklage plays Stephen with jaundiced charm, while Anne Hathaway shows off a welcome edginess to Patricia. Marisa Tomei conveys a convincing lived-in approach to Katrina that helps ground the movie's somewhat flighty tone.
    6BoBo_Goal32

    Everything Everywhere All at Once (Again)

    When Peter Dinklage, Anne Hathaway and Marisa Tomei are knocking on your screen, you cant say no. This is a stylish romantic-Drama-Comedy, which includes so many topics and issues that your head might explode during the time you are watching the movie.

    Nice? Yes! Entertaining? Yeah, why not? But for a movie with stars from this caliber you expect to be legendary, no less. It is elegant, intelligent (or at least wanna be) and ambitious movie, but the script doesn't align with its leading stars and their appetences.

    This movie is trying to touch art, obsession, religion, young love, advanced love, muse and what not? Each subject gets his five till ten minutes, but for so many issues dealt within one movie, it seems that every two issues could have got a separate movie with separate plot.

    The movie melts and fuses several plot lines, which are interwoven with one another, without having an actual connection, but once again, the movie still maintains as an entertaining movie, with good texts, performances and even subtexts that are piled up one on the other and hiding an actual message to the viewers.

    It's a forgettable movie, not your usual rom-com and the stars of it justifies watching it, just for the sake of watching them get nuts (especially Anne Hathaway in one unforgettable scene), but probably you will forget about it an hour or two after watching it, though it is not so bad.
    8ianharrison747

    Once in a while

    It can be a musician, an artist, a play or a film. It leaves you baffled. Liking it, is just the bonus.

    The roles resemble a box of frogs. Everybody is hiding behind a curtain of creative or functional normal. Only Katrina, who in theory is the maddest of all, has the real sole and sanity. She is the most sincere.

    The film jingles along - dysfunctional and baffling until that moment in the bar when Katrina interrupts sullen Steven. Immediately the chemistry kicks in. Once again Marisa Tomei edges a film.. never obvious. I couldn't issue a plethora of spoilers, as half the time I was grappling with the odd plot. Rebecca Miller directs, produces and writes a challenging and thought provoking parable ? This is a slow burner.
    6destiny_west

    Quirky and Enchanting.

    She Came to Me is about an Opera composer and his dysfunctional relationship with his wife who is also his ex-therapist. One day when writer's block has a harsh grip his OCD wife sends him out for a walk, which will change his life forever.

    The cast is magical. Peter Dinklage is mesmerizing as Steven (the opera composer) Anne Hathaway plays his wife Patricia, who is perfectly cast as this clinical OCD control freak.

    Marisa Tomei as Katrina is quirky, fun, and compelling, she truly is perfection in this role and you can't help but be cheering her on from the sidelines.

    If you like films that are offbeat, original, and quirky then this film is a definite must-watch. I really enjoyed it.
    8ozorjustin

    Soft n sweet

    Thank heavens I didn't let the 6.0 rating deter me from going ahead to see this. I went in almost blind cos I didn't focus much on the plot but I saw the trailer and i was determined to see it regardless of what the critics say and boy was that a spot on decision.

    Everything about it works for me and I really don't like romantic movies but it wasn't even that. It had this subtleness about it with the occasional humor that actually made me laugh once or twice but smiled a lot.

    The cast was perfect. I almost feel like a different cast might not have done justice to what the script was trying to portray.

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    • Trivia
      When the project was first announced, Steve Carell, Amy Schumer, and Nicole Kidman were cast in the lead roles. All three dropped out when after the project got stuck in development.
    • Quotes

      Magdalena Szyskowski: When you are young you think all your promise is your right. When you are talented, the world will give you what you deserve.But it's not like that. It's so easy that everything gets taken away from you.

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      L'amour est un oiseau rebelle
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    • Release date
      • October 12, 2023 (Russia)
    • Country of origin
      • United States
    • Language
      • English
    • Also known as
      • O Bana Geldi
    • Filming locations
      • New York City, New York, USA
    • Production companies
      • AI-Film
      • Killer Films
      • Round Films
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    • Gross US & Canada
      • $733,978
    • Opening weekend US & Canada
      • $355,685
      • Oct 8, 2023
    • Gross worldwide
      • $1,178,149
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    • Runtime
      • 1h 42m(102 min)
    • Color
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