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To Have and to Hold

  • TV Movie
  • 2019
  • TV-14
  • 1h 27m
IMDb RATING
6.0/10
359
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Erika Christensen and Antonio Cupo in To Have and to Hold (2019)
DramaRomance

Alice still can't believe that her high-school crush--dashing, wealthy, successful Joe--would choose to marry her, so she willingly allows him to mold her into his ideal socialite wife.Alice still can't believe that her high-school crush--dashing, wealthy, successful Joe--would choose to marry her, so she willingly allows him to mold her into his ideal socialite wife.Alice still can't believe that her high-school crush--dashing, wealthy, successful Joe--would choose to marry her, so she willingly allows him to mold her into his ideal socialite wife.

  • Director
    • Monika Mitchell
  • Writer
    • Jennifer Maisel
  • Stars
    • Erika Christensen
    • Rekha Sharma
    • Antonio Cupo
  • See production info at IMDbPro
  • IMDb RATING
    6.0/10
    359
    YOUR RATING
    • Director
      • Monika Mitchell
    • Writer
      • Jennifer Maisel
    • Stars
      • Erika Christensen
      • Rekha Sharma
      • Antonio Cupo
    • 14User reviews
    • 3Critic reviews
  • See production info at IMDbPro
  • See production info at IMDbPro
    • Awards
      • 1 win & 1 nomination total

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    Erika Christensen
    Erika Christensen
    • Alice
    Rekha Sharma
    Rekha Sharma
    • Gina
    Antonio Cupo
    Antonio Cupo
    • Joe
    Andy Favreau
    Andy Favreau
    • Harry
    Carmel Amit
    Carmel Amit
    • Emily
    Mark Brandon
    Mark Brandon
    • Joe Sr.
    Celeste Ziegler
    Celeste Ziegler
    • Michelle
    Jeanie Cloutier
    Jeanie Cloutier
    • Kay
    Sherilyn Allen
    Sherilyn Allen
    • Christina
    Jocelyn Panton
    Jocelyn Panton
    • Jillian
    Beverley Breuer
    Beverley Breuer
    • Evelyn Evans
    Brittany Mitchell
    Brittany Mitchell
    • Josie
    Hamza Fouad
    Hamza Fouad
    • Darren
    Jeb Beach
    Jeb Beach
    • George
    Mike Ennis
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    • Director
      • Monika Mitchell
    • Writer
      • Jennifer Maisel
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    7pumping_iron-1

    What! No psycho! Just shiny people

    No! No psycho. This was actually a romcom. I agree with another reviewer. I thought I had accidentally recorded a Hallmark movie. I hate Hallmark movies. But this was a pretty good movie. Normal, if you know what I mean. I kept waiting for someone to become all psycho but it never happened. It was about love, marriage, friendship and adultery, without a psycho.

    The cast is good. Everyone's character is believable. The acting is above average. The storyline is a little slow but it keeps you entertained.

    Why on earth did sweet, wholesome Alice (Erika Christensen) think she could become one of the shiny people. She couldn't see Joe (Antonio Cupo) for who he really is. It took her so long to figure it out. How could she not have known Harry's (Andy Favreau) feelings. It was obvious throughout the entire movie. The movie ended happily. It was a hallmark movie moment.
    1vmhc-75797

    So far from the book it's a different story

    This is barely even inspired by the actual book. How can Alice already be blonde?!?!? This movie doesn't even capture the messages or lessons of the book. What happened to Harry? So disappointed.
    6Carriexoc

    No way this was made for Lifetime...

    WAY above Lifetime's status. Just a good movie all around. Period.
    7rossmcfarlen

    Intriguing drama about adult relationships

    Initially, I thought this was from the thriller genre, but halfway through it dawned on me, finally, that I was watching a drama about relationships - romantic & otherwise.

    The dialogue is real and the four leads do a very good job playing the characters, as they attempt to pursue their individual dreams. The photography & interior decor for urban rural settings are superb, capturing the essence of both and very pleasant to drink in.

    You'll see many films in this genre but this is certainly above average (there's nothing to nitpick here - this is solid filmmaking) and worth another viewing or three.

    In 2020 - where quality screenwriting is to be found in TV series/TV movies and rarely in the clunky Hollywood releases, where the emphasis can be on star power and special effects - dramas like this one are rare to find indeed.
    keith-hewle

    Heartless propaganda

    Primarily. I think everybody who gave it a good review must have confused it with another film Secondarily.

    I watched it in a UK Channel Five crime series screened in the matinee slot. After fifty minutes of tedium. I was still waiting for the murder. It never happened.

    Instead I was bombarded by inane vacuous philosophical yawp. Spoken by wooden characters. Who firmly believed we live forever and can have everything.

    Oh dear. Are some people in for a rude awakening ? One hundred years ago. Only a short time relatively. Our forebears felt they were lucky to be alive, valued each day given to them and counted their blessings. No matter how terrible any of their lives might have appeared. They just thanked God for it and never complained this stupid film seems to perpetrate a myth which if believed will inevitably result in impressionable souls being seduced by a total fiction If you live in the real world as I do. Ignore this fairy tale.

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      Erika Christensen and Antonio Cupo were also romantically involved in the Hallmark movie "Anything for Love."

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    • Release date
      • June 22, 2019 (United States)
    • Country of origin
      • United States
    • Language
      • English
    • Also known as
      • Secrets, Lies & Shattered Dreams
    • Filming locations
      • Mission, British Columbia, Canada(on location)
    • Production companies
      • Lighthouse Pictures
      • Lifetime
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      • 1h 27m(87 min)
    • Color
      • Color
    • Sound mix
      • Stereo
    • Aspect ratio
      • 16:9 HD

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