When I first met my wife and we were dating she would do some modeling. She did nude modeling not necessarily porn, but nude sexy modeling. She works with a photographer for a few times who would do bondage. He would tie her up naked in a bunch of different positions using those Japanese ropes. She's always had a great body and made really good money when we were first starting out dating. I went to a lot of these shoots.
The second time she worked with this one particular photographer once they got started, she'd be bound up tied into positions and he'd take photos. Then untie and move to another position and different ropes. Nothing super restrictive just more sexy than anything else. After a few weeks or months with these photographers they'd send a copy of the photos digitally. I just found out 10 years later, looking through a DVD of some old photos, that I never went through, that I could see her pussy getting super wet in one of the series. I have a photo of him zooming in on it, as it dripped to her thigh. Then he obviously said something because the next few pics, she's laughing. Then kneeling, then he's resting his cock, pulled from is jeans on her face. The next photo is her bent over the bed, soaked, he's close, hard AF, and the final pic she's reaching back between her legs aiming him in. Time stamps show 11 minutes later and she's tied up on the bed posing again, but her pussy is a wreck. She's obviously been fucked. Apparently right after sucking him.
I was literally in the next room. She never told me and we have a great marriage. No cheating or any real issues at all. Until I discovered this. Do I tell her? Do I leave her? She sucked a dick and got fucked, with me 50 feet away, but we were only dating not married yet.
What do I do? I've attached a photo but removed her face.
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don't leave her.
and it been 10 years or whatever so don't get upset about it. unless you think it still happening.
anyway i bring up the event from the dvd in a humorous way.
Why in the world would you leave her it's hot as fuck and changes nothing
Post her fucked pussy
I get that, and not being married does actually make it less of a big deal for me. The part that bothers me, more than her doing it and not saying anything, is that I was oblivious in the next room. She is supposedly not even doing open leg photos, yet she's sucking and fucking a guy who's 30 years older, while I'm her "safe" escort chilling on a couch. Then comes out, kisses me, tells me she's ready to go. I'm praising her for being a professional, while some old guys cum is soaking her thong and a few minutes ago, his dick was across her face when she sucked his balls. .
Definitely makes me feel weird. I wonder things like .. did he cum in her? Did he fuck her Ass? Did she get a facial or swallow, she cums pretty easy, so did she have an orgasm or 2?
You definately need to post those photos.
So we can... make an informed decision... Yes.. that's it, to give good advice.
Before we can properly debrief, we must first be properly briefed..
I will post a few soon, but just because people are calling BS
Didn't login to post this, but I am not a total rando on here, not that it matters I guess, but just that this is not the first time I have read and responded to something like this.
This is eating you up, if you don't bring it up it will tear you up, and ruin your marriage because you know about it. You weren't married, true, but obviously you were on your way to being married. Either way, if you don't bring it up you will never move past it. If you bring it up you may be able to talk it through, may be able to then give it the right level of importance.
Did she keep using this photographer after that session? if they are all date stamped, you can figure that out. If she stopped using that guy or if she kept using that photographer, that to me would be interesting, for me, if I were you, to know. The two of you had ground rules it sounds like, she didn't follow them obviously. If it were my wife, she would be gone, but everyone's situation is different.
Have the talk, show her the images. She knows you were part of the process so you seeing/looking at the images is not you prying, you were there, were part of it, etc. It may have been a moment of weakness but if she saw that guy a number of times more, betting that it was a lot more moments of weakness. Did she get paid extra when she worked for that guy? Lots of questions come to mind and I am not trying to break you up, but for me, you cheat you are gone. For me that applies to dating and marriage. Best of luck when you have the chat, you can't bury this, it will tear you up and she will think it is you, when it is her. You both may be fine after the conversation, but if you don't have it you will never be fine.