A Quilty Family Reunion

  

Every quilt tells a story, but there is nothing like a quilt that tells a story of family, and the caring that is stitched into a quilt by your loved ones. If you have followed our blog for a few years, you may remember my (Teri's) posts about our reunion quilts, made by a group of my extended family each year to be given to a reunion attendee. There is always one bed-sized quilt, several smaller quilts for the children in various age groups, and a traveling quilt with blocks made by each family unit. It is wonderful to sit and visit with family, but it is equally enjoyable to see who wins the quilt each year.

A cousin had put together a photo album of the reunion quilts over the years, and it was fun to look through it and see the great times the quilting group has had preparing these quilts. If I just lived closer, I would so love to be able to join in the fun! I enjoyed looking through it with my two great-aunts and hearing some of their tales and memories.

Here are a few of the pages:

The first page included a photo of my grandmother, not long before she died, and her sister, who just died last summer at about 97 years of age. They were helping their sister,  Leona—who spearheaded this project over the years—to tie a Christmas quilt she'd made for her family. Never having seen my grandma quilt, it was a thrill to see this photo. The photo on the right shows two of the very first quilts made: the wall-hanging on the left was won by my parents and now hangs in my bedroom, and the original traveling family quilt on the right, with photo transfers of old family photos.

The first bed-sized quilt to be given away at the reunion

This Postage Stamp quilt, from 2003, was one of my favorites. Such an enormous amount of work went into this quilt! The heart quilt, above right, was one of the first quilts to be made to raise a donation for the American Heart Association: a small donation gets your name in the drawing for this quilt. 

This was the only quilt I ever helped to work on, and I only made it for the first session to help cut out the fabric. This one was made from men's shirts from family members. I was thrilled to have been a tiny part of the venture. Even the men contribute (not counting their shirts!)—you can see the "expert needle-threaders" on the bottom right. 

I loved that the close-up of that quilt included scraps from two of my husband's shirts and one of my dad's. Here it is basted and ready to be hand-quilted.

My Great-Aunt Leona, the youngest of my grandmother's siblings, shared that these blocks were based on photos from their family farm. She says she still has the bells from the sleigh pictured above. I think I must have missed that year; sadly, I don't remember seeing these beautiful appliqué blocks to study closely. What a great way to preserve family history!!

After lunch, the fun begins, and names are pulled for the lucky winners. I love how the entire group gathers to see who is going to win these cherished mementos of our family reunions. The children's age groups all received "quillows" this year—quilts that can fold into pillows. My own son won one of these one year, and I still have it for my grandchildren to use.

  

 

The Traveling Quilt lives with a different family each year and is returned to the reunion for the drawing the following year. It comes complete with the quilt stand!

The big reveal: opening up the big quilt for all to see. Aunt Leona is telling the story of this quilt, while the other quilters are holding it up for all to see. (A couple of the quilters were unable to attend.)

One of my favorite parts of each quilt is the 

heart-shaped label, documenting the story of the quilt. 

Don't they look proud of their work? This is truly a labor of love!!

This year's winner was my Great-Uncle Clark; here, he is studying his prize...

...and here, he's surrounded by his wife, Bonnie, on the left; his daughter, Nancy, behind him; and his sister, Leona, on the right. Aunt Bonnie told me that they always thought it was interesting that none of the quilters had ever won a quilt. Happily, this one will go home with her; it was won by one of the master needle-threaders!

I am still waiting to take one of these gems home with me, but I have many memories of past reunions in the treasures that I have acquired. To realize that this cake stand wall-hanging was one of the first gives me cause to cherish it all the more. (Thanks, Mom and Dad for passing it on to me!) 

Each year, I am inspired by the love that these women put into their stitching, and I know that we all hold dear the fruits of their labors. They share their passion for quilts by planning time to stitch together, but with the selfless motivation to give their work to others. What better treasure than to wrap up in a quilt stitched with love by your family?

If you are interested in reading more about this tradition and seeing other quilts from past reunions, check out the following posts:

Reunion Quilts

Reunion Quilts, Revisited 

Give Thanks

In my family (Kara), the Thanksgiving meal has a lot of must-haves. Stuffing is probably the most critical element, but you can't have stuffing without good turkey.

With all of that, you have to have gravy, which is my personal favorite. Our must-haves are so important that we once stopped a Thanksgiving meal just as we were sitting down, because I forgot to make the green bean casserole, which is my son's favorite.

Over here in Germany, today is just like any other day for obvious reasons, but living where we do, there are a lot of Americans who are celebrating this day. While the commissary is well stocked with turkeys and all the fixings for the traditional meal, Thanksgiving is not just about the meal.

Now that we live in a military community, I am far more aware of the service our men and women in uniform give to us on a daily basis. Many are here with their families, but many are without, and many are stationed in more remote areas where even communication with family is challenging. This Thanksgiving, I am especially grateful for the men and women who serve our country. 

This post has nothing to do with quilting or stitching, but just some thoughts as we sit down this year to our meal, or maybe spend time with family. As we remember the things we are thankful for, I hope that the men and women who serve our country come to mind.

May you and yours have a blessed Thanksgiving. We are so grateful to all of you who read our blog and support our work.

Happy Thanksgiving!

Take Me Out to the Ball Game

Some people are so organized that they save all the T-shirts their children have worn over the years on the various sports teams or activities in which they engage. I (Teri) have a friend, Amy, who called me a couple of years ago and asked me if I could make a quilt with her son's collection of baseball shirts. I had made one T-shirt quilt, left, years ago for another teacher friend for her daughter, who was a gymnast. What I remembered the most about the experience was the MATH. Finding colors to match was relatively easy on that one, as most of the shirts had some similar colors, and even worked with the gymnastics border I had found. I understand that this quilt went to college with the recipient, and was used for years, even after college. (It always makes a quilter happy to hear that!)

For many years, Amy and I taught together, on the same team. In fact, we had a fifth grade team reunion this week. Ever since her boys were just little guys, they have always been involved in sports, and Amy—being the great mom that she is—went to many, many (maybe all) of their practices and games. And she saved those shirts from all those uniforms.

Isn't it amazing how fast the time passes?! Our little boys become men . . .

Amy, being a planner—and knowing me all too well— gave me the shirts well in advance of her son's graduation, so I had no pressure. Well, I don't know about you, but in my mind, that equates to "not on my plate yet," which soon becomes "out of mind." I had looked through the bag of shirts as soon as I got them for some ideas, and I wasn't quite sure how to make red, royal, navy, brown, black, and orange go together. I knew that somehow I could, but it would be my challenge. I considered a baseball-themed fabric, but I wasn't sure if that would appeal to a young man entering college. It took me a year and a half to "think" about this and come up with a solution. Finally, and none too soon, I opted for black and white, with a reddish-orange for accent. I decided to make the high school uniforms—orange and black—the center of the quilt, surrounding that with the blues, reds, etc.

  

My first step was to cut out the parts of the shirts I'd use and back them with a light-weight Pellon interfacing. I tried to get all the numbers and colors he'd had over the years to include them in the quilt. I removed the patches from the sleeves from when he played in the Cal Ripken/Babe Ruth League, so that I could appliqué them onto the quilt. One of the shirts had a cool sleeve design, so I cut the sleeves to create an interesting block with them. It's a bit difficult to be creative with just numbers! The real question was how to arrange those sleeve pieces in the middle. I rejected the three above; I wanted them to create one block, the middle one looked like Batman, and the one on the right looked like a mustache. It would be one of the choices below.

   

At one point, as I played with layout designs, I sent one of the photos above to Amy to get a feel from her about the direction I was going. She didn't answer for the longest time, and I was beginning to get worried that she hated it. But no; she was at a game. When she answered, she said she must have liked it, since she started to cry when she saw all those uniforms together. All those memories!

Now, the MATH. I knew each row would be a different height, and each block would vary in width. I had to arrange the blocks so that I could cut the blocks in the same row all the same height, and then measure the widths to determine what size sashing I'd need between the blocks in each row to make all the rows the same length. I was thankful for all the years I taught fractions to fourth and fifth graders! I wouldn't suggest that you try to decipher my mess, below; but suffice it to say that my math worked, and with one exception where I had to trim an eighth of an inch from each side of a row, I had equal rows to stitch together. Phew!

I sent a photo of my math work to Amy, who showed it to her math class:
proof that when you're an adult, you still might use that math you learn in elementary school!

  

I trimmed all the blocks to the correct, PRECISE size and created the final layout. I took the picture, above, to refer to as I stitched to make sure I didn't mix them up. When I finished stitching the rows together, I thought that the big orange circle in the center of the quilt—created by those sleeves—needed something. I realized that his last name was all over the quilt, but not his first, so I thought perhaps I should embroider his name in the center. But then, wouldn't be even better to embroider it in his mom's handwriting? I called and asked her to write what she wanted me to stitch in the quilt center and text it to me. I enlarged it to the correct size, printed it, marked it on tear-away stabilizer, and embroidered it using a chain stitch. 

 

  

Now it is ready for borders.

I chose this black and white wavy design, because it reminded me of baseballs.
(I've been told that I have a vivid imagination.)
Here, I was auditioning binding colors: black or orange. 

I pieced the back, because I'm a little crazy and like to make my work harder.
But it looks cool.

I got ready to start quilting it, which is my LEAST favorite part of any project, and just stopped and allowed my common sense to prevail. I went to our local quilt shop, Patches Quilting and Sewing, and asked them to quilt it on their longarm machine. I told them that I was planning to just outline the blocks, but maybe some baseballs sprinkled here and there might be nice. I think they did an awesome job! He really loved the quilted designs.

Quilted by Jackie Bingham, at Patches Quilting and Sewing, in Mount Airy, MD

Binding finished; ready for a label

                       

I thought it would be fun to create a home plate for a label, with his name in a baseball, and his school motto included, which I obtained from the high school website. I first made the one on the left—can you tell I'm not much of a baseball fan? I knew it was a pentagon, but never thought any more about it, until my husband asked me if that was supposed to be home plate. I said of course, to which he replied that it was the wrong shape, and he drew it for me. I recognized my error as soon as I saw it, but I probably wouldn't have. Was I ever thankful he noticed that before I stitched it on the back of the quilt—using fly stitches in red, of course!

Label stitched with red fly stitches, ready for Amy to sign

Finally finished!

  

Amy comes to pick it up, with tissues in hand, in case the tears flow.

Signing the label:
"May these memories always keep you warm. Love, Mom and Dad"

Senior night

The best part is that his high school team won the state championships!!

So the baseball quilt has even more meaning and memories for him.

Here is the proud and happy family after the big game.

I got a text from Amy with this photo on his graduation day when they gave it to him:
He just kept saying, 'That's awesome,' over and over.

It took me about a year and a half to get excited about making this T-shirt quilt, but once I got started, I found myself picturing this cute little boy growing into manhood, playing baseball every year. I remembered the days each spring when his mom would come to school and talk of being at his games the night before. The stories of all his hard work, and his parents' support and encouragement for those many years, are stitched into this quilt, to remind him of all that he learned—about life and about himself—on the baseball field.

Congratulations, Jacob!