One exciting event in my life right now is the discovery of the book "The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up" by Marie Kondo. I always thought of myself as a pretty good organizer. And still do! I'm like a Tetris master when it comes to getting things to fit on shelves, in drawers and in closets. (As long as no one actually wants to use anything and thereby upset the perfection of stuffed crammed in.) So it frustrated me that my house was ALWAYS a mess. I love my house. Love the layout, love the land around it...but I hated my house. Hated the mess. Hated the nicotine-stained walls. Hated the cluttered closets and not being able to tell my kids where to put things to help clean up because, well, even I didn't know where it went! Very few things had a permanent home!
I had tried FlyLady. Great ideas; however, my house was not getting better. When I read Ms. Kondo's book, I discovered why. I have too much stuff! Bless this wonderful country that I am lucky enough to live in for all the abundance I have to enjoy, but I was (and still am a bit) drowning in stuff!
I loved that Ms. Kondo had tried a number of the same things that I had tried. And they failed for her too. The reason - too much stuff!
So, in February, I started on her suggestion of purging by category and went through every article of clothing, blankets and towels we own. (With the exception of my husband's clothes. I figure he's a grown man and can do that himself. Though I may just offer one of these days because he has a "healthy collection" and may not mind if someone else pares it down.) I literally rehomed BAGS of clothes! Lots of baby clothes to relatives having babies, donations to thrift stores and some just straight to the trash. (This isn't to say we are no longer having babies. I just had enough blankets I could have a set of quads and be set! Not to mention the onesies that had been through 2 or 3 of each gender of my kids and still not worn. And the little kid socks that drove me nuts because I didn't know what size they were! Gone! It was obvious there are certain types of clothing that I prefer, so why was I holding onto all the rest?! Who knows, but it felt SO GOOD to have all the clothes fitting in the drawers or bins assigned them.)
While I was in my room purging clothes, I took a good look around and noted how much I really didn't like my room. The walls were stained nicotine yellow. The "curtains" were a hodge-podge of blackouts that fell off the broken rods that came with the house any time I tried to open them. And I really wasn't a fan of our comforter, even though it was a hand-me-down from a very fashion-forward sister-in-law. While I LOVE her home, it is not my style. She can pull off the formal look. She can keep beige carpets immaculate. Even with kids! Not going to happen around here. So out the comforter went. Along with all it's decorative pillows and the matching curtains and ascots I was storing. (There were only three panels, so it never made sense to hang them on my two windows.) It was a huge relief on my part. One giant black bag of stuff - gone in one fell swoop! (My husband was a bit concerned, as it was February and still pretty chilly at night, but I assured him we had plenty of blankets and layered them on and got busy searching online for comforters. Within a couple of days, I had it narrowed down to five, pulled them up on the screen, he picked his favorite and we were done!) Happy to report that that lead to coordinating curtains with new drapery hardware - hooray for being able to open the curtains and not having them fall down! - painted walls, replaced worn-out outlet covers and receptacles and even crown moulding! And now I'm LOVING my room!
A couple of things that really helped were 1) having a place to drop off bags as soon as they were full so they didn't sit around with any possibility of unpacking, 2) extremely supportive cheerleaders - a huge thank you to my sister, Amy, and friend, Lieschen for all your encouragement, support and suggestions! (Not to mention motivational pictures of your completed projects!)
But I know what most people are waiting for is the before and after, so let's get to the fun stuff. (I have since purged toys and games and painted and reorganized the game closet when I painted my bedroom. LOVE that closet now too!) It's so exciting to FINALLY see progress! Yes, there is usually a mess while I work on the latest organizing project, but it's a lot smaller than it used to be because there is less stuff to make a mess with. So, once a project is finished, I take a quick break to do a final clean up of whatever area was destroyed in the purging/organizing process and then move on to the next one.
After purging toys was craft supplies. This closet has long been a dark abyss. When anyone would ask if I knew where something was or if we had something and the answer was "somewhere in the craft closet," the project was instantly abandoned. Even I avoided going opening that door unless I absolutely HAD to! And when the AC repairman or the electrician would mention they might need to access the crawl space, I started praying they wouldn't and, once I opened the door and they saw inside, I'm pretty sure they determined right then it was NOT going to be necessary, no matter WHAT they had to do from the outside!
Yes, it was really that bad. Brace yourself. I give you THE BEFORE:
Entirely unstaged. Who would make this kind of mess up?! Please note the thin, bowing shelves and bright pink walls.
Yep, closing in on the ceiling. (And, yes, someone painted the ceiling that same bright pink. I couldn't get in any closer, due to a certain pile in the way...)
This is honestly mortifying to look back on. How did we live with it this way for so long?! Believe me, I wouldn't be sharing this if there wasn't a happy ever after.
I sorted as I pulled things out - things either went into a specific pile or directly into the donation box. Some also found its way into the trash or recycling, and some didn't belong in the craft section in the first place.
My sweet husband will tell you that the next phase took entirely WAY too long. (He's right, but I was moving as fast as I could given...well, that's another post. ;) )
As I plan on this being the house we retire and grow old in, I want everything to be the way I want it to be. So I textured the walls, primed and painted them. (I textured, primed and painted the girls' room at the same time, since I was using the same color and it's nice to be able to knock out more walls of our house during one donning of painting apparel.) James was kind enough to stop by Ace Hardware one day and bring me home new 3/4-inch plywood shelves. Prior to painting, he also helped me install new 1x2 shelf supports on three walls. (Note: this may seem a smidgeon overkill, but not only did I need to strengthen the shelves, the organizers I purchased for the middle shelf needed at least 2 more inches of space to fit.)
Oh, yeah. I also ordered some over-the-door shoe organizers because I had more piles than drawers! It was AWESOME to clear some of the piles off my floor even before I started painting! You can see in the picture on the left the white texture on the walls and the new shelf supports. It was starting to get very exciting about then!
I had ordered more of my favorite brown granite vinyl and had it already on the shelves ready to go so the day the walls were painted, the shelves were reloaded. (Couldn't even wait a day for paint to REALLY dry, but I was careful to make sure nothing leaned against the walls.)
After that, things slowed a bit again, as the pegboards took a bit of planning. They ended up not working as I had originally envisioned. I installed my paper organizer and then measured around it for my pegboards.
I seriously love our local Ace Hardware. I gave the man my measurements, he gave me the raised eyebrow, but cut my boards anyway and I came home happy as a clam.
I would say it has taken at least two weeks to get the pegboards installed. I was hoping I could just lay my items on top and configure the layout that way, but I ended up needing to actually hang everything to see how it all would fit best and then cut my dowels to fit.
Believe me, that was a lot of little dowels to cut and glue in place. Some aren't quite straight, but the kids enjoyed helping and the dowels will still work, so....
Anyone else have one of those twirly things that holds your craft scissors? The one they've had at Costco for a while? While I like the scissors, I hate having to pull them out to see what kind of edge they are going to cut and I really don't enjoy trying to find a way to store round things. The minute I knew these would work on my pegboard, I donated the wooden part. Maybe someone else will love it for their kitchen (or their fireplace... ;) )
One of my favorite things about my husband is his willingness to help me. Once I had everything laid out, I took my pictures to know how everything best fit, took it all off, measured and mitered my frames and he spray painted everything for me. This was probably not the best week to spray paint with the heavy monsoons we've had every evening, but we were careful to keep it all covered and were able to install it all last night. Even though it was bedtime, I just couldn't wait to get everything put back in the closet once and for all!
Below the craft scissors, I used four Ikea Variera bag organizers to house wrapping paper and the extra dowels. (I way overestimated!) And the dark blue box holds all my gift bags. Yes, they are neatly sorted by size and occasion so I can find what I am looking for. The two clear plastic bins on top of that hold my crepe and tissue paper collections.
Two quick tips I have for anyone looking to frame pegboard and paint dowels: Large binder clips work right well in place of clamps to hold the frame to the pegboard while wood glue dries and notching a box to hold your dowels in place will keep them from rolling on you or getting that weird line where they lay on whatever you might be painting them on. (Yes, you could also paint them vertically, but it seemed like I would have to flip them over and double the time it took to paint them in the first place.)
My next category to purge and organize is paper. Super excited to find the cardstock I know I have somewhere and get it all put away in my awesome paper organizer!
And there you have it!
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| AFTER (Awe....) |
Since I'm in love with my game closet, here's an after of that one too, just for fun. I added the upper and lower shelves and hooks and ball claws to hang sporting equipment. The vacuums don't really "go" with the game theme, but it's the most logical spot for them, so they get to stay. :)
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