Saturday, February 28, 2009

Holiday, Apostle, Camels, and More

So much to blog about… so here we go. Monday, February 16th was a Presidents Day, which meant that I actually had a day off that wasn’t a Sunday! I cherish those days! It was a great day… I got to sleep in until 7am and then I met up with some co-workers to see the sites. We first went to the Kuwait National Museum, the Planetarium, and another museum that I cannot remember the name of. They were all free and took about 20 minutes each to walk through. I couldn’t help but think as I was walking through the Kuwait National Museum, that all the stuff (hoe, needles, pots, art, etc) was probably old enough to have been on the earth when Christ walked this area (okay, not Kuwait, but the Middle East). I got a picture of the bone dice before I was told there are no pictures in that room- who knew? This sign cracked me up that they have "Winter Hours". It was a nice reminder that we really are in the Winter season- easy to forget when it is 70 degrees out! Anyway, we ventured across the compound and went into a 15 minute show in the Planetarium – yeah, I’m sure it would have been much more exciting if I was able to understand it! We learned our lesson to ask when the English version is showing!
This picture is of the co-workers I was with and it is of the whole Museum compound area.
A big, cool looking door at the Museum
Noah's Ark? Also at the Museum

This is the day we went to the Museum. The yellow & black curb means no parking, but if that wasn't enough there is also a no parking sign. So, where are the cars parked? People park wherever they want!

I laughed when I saw this... you can't park any closer then that!

After the Museums we headed to the Kuwait Towers. Notice the balls which represent the Pearl Industry which is how Kuwait first made their money.

This is on the Tower Grounds. This picture is for you Ashley- they do have pretty flowers here, but they are far and few between!
There are restaurants in the Towers, so we eat at the café. Kind of different how you just sit in this lobby area and they come and serve you. They had good pizza, too! I was so excited to finally have good pizza. Seriously, their cheese here is kind of nasty and good pizza is hard to come by!
The day was rather overcast and foggy, so the view from the Tower wasn’t as good as I was hoping for, but it was still cool to be there.
I think every holiday I have a picture of me with the ocean in the background! Got to love it!
From there, we went to a mall- one I had not been to before. It was fun to go shopping… I bought a new pair of black dress shoes and a jacket- what more could a girl want? I was surprised to find anything I would actually buy to be honest with you. After all, things here are quite expensive and their style is a little different. After walking the mall we went to a little café and ordered drinks and just enjoyed the afternoon visiting. I got the mintonade. It had an interesting flavor, one that I probably will never get again, and it looked absolutely disgusting! I’ve probably mentioned this before, but I love ordering drinks here. There is no alcohol allowed in Kuwait, so I don’t have to worry when ordering drinks… it is fabulous!
Nasty looking drink, huh?
We spent a good 3 hours in the mall enjoying a very leisurely afternoon. We then went our separate ways for a short time before meeting up again to do dinner at a Lebanese Restaurant. Seriously, I was home for all of 30 minutes before heading out the door again. You eat Lebanese food by getting a piece of pita bread, putting a little humus inside, placing a piece of chicken on the humus, adding a French fry, and then dipping it in a garlic sauce. I did exactly what the waiter told me to do, so know I can officially say I have tried Lebanese food. Let’s just say I probably won’t be trying that again! Overall it was a really fun day. I was out pretty much from 8am-10pm and it reminded me of all the fun days back in Denver just hanging with friends all day! I miss that! I have to tell you about my 20 minute drive home on President’s Day. In that 20 minutes I got cut off, I saw someone without their lights on (it was pitch black, but the freeway is well lit), I saw a Super Duper Sweeper (the car turned from the far right lane when there is a turn lane and 3 lanes of traffic- granted they had a protected turn arrow, but still- are you serious?), oh, and I saw a car exit from the far left lane and cut across 3 lanes of traffic to barely make the exit in time. Nice! All in 20 minutes! I don’t think you would see that many crazy things in 10 hours if you were driving in the states. On Thursday, 19 February, I rode home with my co-worker (who also happens to be my neighbor). We passed two accidents that night. The 3 lane freeway became a 5 lane freeway as everyone cruises down the shoulder lanes. To the credit of the drivers here, when there is an accident it doesn’t shut down the freeway for hours. People just push right on past it, it is pretty much chaos, but at least traffic is still moving! Also, accidents happen so frequently that they are pretty fast about moving them to the side of the road. Did you know that USAA, who insures worldwide, will not provide car insurance in Kuwait? I wonder why?
The same night as the accidents I also got video of the street that we drive down once we exit the freeway. You’ll notice that there are no lanes on the street and that we drift from one side of the street to the other side of the street to accommodate the incoming merging lanes. It really feels like a video game every time I drive home. Traffic wasn't too bad this night I, but hopefully you get the idea.
Sunday, the 22nd of February was an amazing day. Not very often does one have the opportunity to eat lunch with, visit with, and listen to an Apostle! I had the privilege of meeting Elder Holland and Elder Caussé that day and it seriously was an awesome experience.
We met up at the Dining Facility to have lunch. Elder Holland came up to me and shook my hand and asked where I was from. I told him I had been in Denver for the past 4-1/2 years, but I grew up in Utah. He asked what part of Utah and when I said, “Tooele” he replied, “So, you are a buff?” Yes I am! He then went on to talk to others. After lunch we walked to the building where the meeting was going to be held. We thought we would have a chance to visit with and take pictures prior to the meeting, but no, we had to wait until after the meeting. During the 30 minutes prior to the start of the meeting we just listened to prelude music and Elder Holland pulled out his scriptures. I wonder if he was preparing for his talk! Our Stake President spoke first and he gave a good talk about the growth of the church in that area. Our stake covers all of Kuwait, Iraq, Saudi Arabia, Bahrain, etc. His other main point was to stay close to the Lord and you will have joy in your life.
Elder Caussé spoke next. He is the only member of the 70 who is from France. He told a story of when he did his year of military service he was a chauffeur for an American General. Well, one particular Sunday the General needed him to drive him to the airport. This also happened to be the Sunday where Elder Maxwell was to be presiding at a stake conference. He was pretty bummed that he probably would miss the meeting, but he decided to try and make it and catch the last 5 minutes of the meeting. He drove extremely fast, parked, and ran into the meeting. When he walked in the first words he heard was, “Now, I will leave my apostolic blessing upon you.” He said we gain a testimony from very small things. That was one of those small things that he will always remember and that helped his testimony grow. He also talked about being good and “we should not fear to do good!” He also touched on being missionaries, “The day we enter the waters of baptism we are missionaries and our mission is never over!”
Before Elder Holland spoke a couple people were invited to bear their testimonies. One guy’s Mom and Dad were here as a part of the official party who came with Elder Holland. He was called up and he said that lately he had been struggling and had asked his Dad for a blessing. His Dad asked if he wanted Elder Holland to be a part of the blessing and he said, no. It was funny because as he was saying this he turned and said, “No offense to Elder Holland, but the priesthood is the same and I just wanted a blessing.” Well, later when Elder Holland got up one of the first things he said was, “Thank you bother, there is no greater tribute then that which you could pay me or your father (by allowing him alone to offer that blessing)- thank you!” It was touching and it made me realize just how important and powerful the priesthood is. How blessed I am to have grown up with a Dad who was a worthy priesthood holder!
Elder Holland was funny, he called on another individual to come share his testimony. As he sat down waiting for this brethren to come up he said, “Officers need to be taught a thing or two sometimes!” We all laughed.
Elder Holland talked about how the church is in Iraq and Saudi Arabia. He mentioned that the saints there have to come at staggered times and leave at staggered times so it doesn’t appear there is a group of people plotting something. He also told a story of a guy who didn’t know where or how to find the church in that area, so for 17 years he went to the mall and hummed “Come, Come Ye Saints” hoping someone would overhear him who would recognize that hymn. Someone did and he was able to find the church.
“ It’s tough everywhere”, Elder Holland said, “ this is not the only combat zone in the world.” He shared some scriptures with us- and I’m sure you can imagine the scriptures he chose came with some pretty incredible insight- he is amazing! One scripture he read was Alma 53:19-20 and substituted the word "nephites” with "church”. He went on to say “how can we contribute in a strange land?” He specifically said don’t do anything to be a disadvantage and to not do anything to hurt the church.
Thought number 2 in Elder Holland’s talk was about “power”. If you read JSH 1:15-16 you find that word 4 times. He said, “We underestimate how much power we have. Joseph Smith did not yet have the priesthood at this time, but he had the power at 14 years old to withstand and triumph over the adversary. With Divine help we can have the power and triumph.”
His third thought was D&C 50: 13-14; 23-25; 34-35. In reference to verse 25 where it says, “you may chase darkness from among you” , Elder Holland said, “this is a proactive stance, an aggressive stance where we do not simply withstand darkness, but we chase it away!” Then in vs 35 he pointed out that “we have the power to overcome ALL things.”
His fourth thought was about the time when Christ visits the Nephites. He mentioned that it was probably the first time in the history of the church that Home Teaching and Visiting Teaching really worked, how they knocked on every door and recruited (3 Nephi 19:2-3). He went on to say that Christ did not appear , probably intentionally, the morning of the next day. So, what do newly ordained Apostles do, but kneel and pray. He said, “It is interesting to note that they pray for the Spirit, not for Christ to be there, even though they probably wanted that! We underestimate the Holy Ghost and it is a tragedy. The Holy Ghost is the GREATEST gift Jesus could give us!”
After the few scriptures and thoughts he shared with us he opened it up for a few questions. I asked a question, and it was funny when he called on me he said, “Yes, Sister Tooele”. It was pretty cool. Anyway, the question I asked was “Being here in Kuwait we do not have a temple close, what can we do to keep the spirit of the temple with us when we cannot attend?” He told a story of when his son went though the temple for the first time. He had always planned on being the escort for all his sons, but this particular time he was called away on an assignment and was out of the country and was unable to be the escort. He said he set his watch to the same time as his son would be going through the temple and in his mind was there with him every step of the way. He said he envisioned his son handing his temple recommend to the front desk and being welcomed there. He said he could see all the temple workers smiling and waiting there ready to help guide him through. Elder Holland reenacted the entire temple experience in his mind and read the doctrine found in the scriptures at the same time as his Son was experiencing it. He said this was one of the sweetest temple experiences he had ever had! Elder Holland went on and said to read the doctrine in the scriptures and study agency, love, purity and all the topics the temple teaches. He said to remember the marks in the garments and what they stand for. He said that “Remember was the underlying theme and it is even the theme found in the sacramental prayer.” He said it is one of the most painful things knowing that people don’t have the opportunity to attend the temple. He finished up by saying"bless you sister for your willingness and wanting to keep the spirit of the temple in your life."
Another question asked was “As military, what can we do to grow the church here?” Elder Holland answered, “be an example, bear testimony when you get a chance, read your scriptures. Never in a self-righteous way, but share the gospel!” He went on to say that the Church has gotten into places in the world because of war. “Don’t underestimate what you can do to build the Lord’s kingdom.”
The forth question (there were only 4 and I don’t really remember the answer to the first, so I didn’t share that one with you) was from an individual whose wife has been teaching him the gospel but is still not a member himself. He asked what inspiration he could give to become a member of the church. Elder Holland started by saying, “Bless your dear wife for being that example and teaching you.” He also said that his own experience was one where he was the most unlikely member of the church to amount to any stature in the church and to be in the position where he is. His Father was not active in the church, but his mother was. He then said, “I am now a witness.” That was said with such clarity and he even paused for a brief second to let that statement sink in. He went on to say that “Joseph Smith saw the Father, and the last words I utter will be that the truth is back on the earth.” He was pretty emotional when he said this. He continued, “This church is it! (the truth back on the earth) We say it with a sense of burden, a sense of inadequacy, not arrogance, but we say it. I am here to witness it! He continued to bear his testimony of the priesthood and the Book of Mormon. He said, “The Book of Mormon is its own Witness! Immerse yourself in reading that book.” He was funny, because he said he has spent his life with good books, he was even in charge of a pretty good university (BYU), “but there is no other book that has commanded my attention and awe as the Book of Mormon has." He talked about how we beg for help to find the author of this book, but of course no one can step forward because “it happened just as Joseph Smith said it happened.” He told a story of his Great, Great grandfather who said, “No wicked man could write this book, and a good man would not write this book unless directed to do so by Divine Inspiration.”
He concluded by leaving an apostolic blessing and said, “ I am authorized to speak in the name of the Lord. I speak as if I have laid my hands directly on each of your heads. This blessing extends to others at home.” After the beautiful blessing he again bore his witness that “this is the truth, not a cunningly devised fable.”
After the meeting ended he and Elder Caussé stood by the door to shake everyone’s hand and to take pictures. When I shook Elder Holland’s hand he said, “Sister Tooele, we sure love ya.” I said thank you for being here and I asked him if he knows the name Glen Behling. He said, “Why Yes!” I told him that was my Grandpa and Elder Holland replied by saying “Well, you come from good stock!” It was an incredible meeting and that event alone made it worth coming to Kuwait!
I went straight from Stake Conference and headed to my cousin’s (we are second cousins) place where I spent the evening with her and her two cute kids. Her husband is out of town, so it was just the four of us enjoying a nice evening. She made an excellent meal and mostly we just were entertained by the two year old! I felt pretty loved when I found out that normally the two year old doesn’t like strangers and is extremely shy, but she warmed up quick to me and came and sat next to me on the couch. Made me miss my cute nieces and nephews! Okay, this is an extremely long post, so the last thing I am going to share with you is my camel sighting! I was at work and a co-worker told me to meet him outside and it had something to do with camels. I was so excited! Come to find out there was this whole herd of camels walking by and they were only like 20 feet away from me! My stay here is complete- I saw my camels!

Thursday, February 26, 2009

Liberation Day

Yesterday and today has been a big celebration here in Kuwait (pictures and video are hopefully forthcoming). Yesterday, 25 February was Kuwait's Independence Day and today, the 26th of February, is Liberation Day. In other words, today is the day that the U.S. pushed the Iraq Army out of Kuwait. I think Liberation Day is a very fitting title for today... at least for Dad anyway. He is released from any pains of this world and freed from any worry, sorrow, or cares. Hard to believe it has already been 6 years. Oh how I wish I could talk to him and ask him all my questions... what you do think of my big move? What was your experience like in the Air Force? What kind of contracts did you work on? What negotiations did you do? Etc, etc, etc. I look forward to the day when I will get to talk with him again. I requested a flag be flown today- it is not much, but I didn't know of a better way to honor him on his liberation day! Love you Dad!

Sunday, February 22, 2009

Awesome Day

So, I just have to share with you all how incredibly awesome it was to meet Elder Holland today!!! It was a fabulous Stake Conference. Then I got to go hang with my cousin (okay, 2nd cousin, but still family). It has been a pretty awesome day! Stay tuned for the President's Day Adventures, the Conference recap with Elder Holland, hanging with Karina, crazy traffic stories, and other random happenings.... complete with pictures and video! For now I am really tired and tomorrow is going to be a really busy day and 3:30am is going to come incredibly too fast. Good night!

Sunday, February 15, 2009

Back Up and Running

The Kuwait Towers
I felt so lost that week I was without the internet. The internet is my lifeline to the world and it was hard not to be able to skype, blog, e-mail, or facebook. I love the internet! Now that I am back up and running I am still trying to play catch-up! Most of the pictures should belong on my post from a couple weeks ago, but blogger wasn't cooperating. So, the pictures are from the night I went to Hard Rock Cafe, my last night of my class, and the water drinking contest we had. Anyway, I’ll try to spin you up on the happenings the past two weeks. Last Saturday night, 7 Feb, I ventured past my exit and drove more into “downtown”. I was told that it was a pretty easy drive that day. I would hate to see a normal or crazy drive, because on the “easy” day I still almost got hit 4 times- no big deal! Anyway, we enjoyed a wonderful meal at Jonny Corinos and then I made my way home. I discovered that if you exit the freeway and need to turn left, don’t get in the far left lane, oh no, because that will force you to go right back on the freeway heading the other way! Nice! I also discovered that there are many bus stops along the way on the freeway. So, every time I thought it was the next exit where I could turn around and get heading the right way again… it was only a pull out for a bus stop! I’m sure the car that was behind me thought I was crazy as I kept “exiting” and getting right back on in front of them. Too funny! On Wednesday, 11 Feb, I experienced my first sand storm. It was pretty cool looking actually. It was not super windy, but extremely dusty. It was like it was super foggy, yet with a bright orange glow because of all the sand in the air. At any rate they sent us home early so we could drive home while it was still light out. There is low visibility anyway, so after dark it can be very dangerous. I didn’t mind getting home early :^). From what I hear this was a baby storm compared to what they can be. If they get really bad they will shut the place down and if you don’t leave in time… well, let’s just hope you have a blanket, because you will be sleeping in the office!
I attended another brief overview class on the culture here. The instructor brought up a good point… he said why is it that in order to promote peace you need a bigger gun? He said, look at a bouncer at a club… he is there to keep the peace, right? He is the biggest, toughest guy there! Kind of ironic! The class again just taught me how everyone is the same with a few different traditions and ways of doing things. It is sad how media almost forces you to believe that a culture is a certain way because they never show you the good people who are the majority- that would be boring and doesn’t make exiting news. So, instead we base an entire culture off what the news is showing us about a few extremists. You don’t hear the stories that if someone is lost in the desert and knocks on the door and asks for help that they will take that individual in and will clothe him and feed him- not just give him any food, but will kill a new calf and present only the finest, best food for their guest. Oh, and not to mention that person must stay for 3 days with them. No, you don’t hear about that… that would be too boring I guess. You don’t hear about the families that go camping in the desert and take their four wheelers and have a great time socializing, singing, and making ‘smores. Again, that is way too boring! No, the news would never tell you about the guy who gave his wife a hug in public (and got in trouble for it since there is no PDA with the opposite sex allowed in public) because they just learned that they got the house they wanted. That is way too much like everyday life and way too boring I suppose. It is kind of scary to me how powerful the media is in influencing how everyone perceives the world. It is hard to separate which story is a rare, extreme case or to know if that is that is the norm.
This is my instructor from the two week class I took- I passed! :^)
Last Sunday I had to speak in church. I always enjoy preparing talks, but I really hate giving them. I am not very good at the delivery and even though people always say they really enjoyed my talk, I often wonder if that is because they are simply being nice. I spoke on the Precious Fruits of the First Vision- good stuff! I am looking forward to next week when Elder Holland is here!
A few weeks ago I learned that I have a second cousin who also lives here. Small world! I was able to meet up with her and her family yesterday and enjoyed some Baskin Robins Ice-cream while we visited. Cute kids and great people- I am going to dinner at their house next Sunday, so I’ll share more then (and hopefully have pictures).
Here are a few funny things I’ve seen over the past couple weeks (I seriously don’t make this stuff up, I’m not that creative!)… First, I can now say I have seen a bus go off-roading! So random! Here we were just cruising down a street and all of sudden the bus signals to make a right hand turn. Well there was no road right there, but nevertheless, the bus jumps the curb and starts heading across the dirt field. Where it was going? I have no idea, but it made me laugh!
Second story is one of patience. Some of the traffic signals here last forever, or so it seems. Each direction lasts a minute to two minutes… so even waiting 4 minutes seems like an eternity! Well, Mr. SUV decided he was not about to wait the looonnnggg time so he jumps the curb and cruises down the sidewalk and makes a right hand turn. Seriously?
Third story is also one of patience that got the guy nowhere. As I was cruising down the 3 lane freeway in the far left lane in a good amount of traffic, there came a very impatient car behind me who wanted me to get over. There was nowhere to go and besides I was following someone and didn’t want to lose them, so I didn’t move. Anyway, the car was very impatient and decides to get into the middle lane to see if that would be faster. Well, in the middle lane there was a car that wasn’t moving as fast as he wanted, so he decides to pass that car on the right. The car got back into the middle lane after overtaking the car, but at this point there was a truck hanging out in the middle lane that was moving pretty slow. So, what does this impatient car do? The only thing it could do which was to get right behind me – right where it started! I laughed at the fact that the reckless driving got him really far!
That is a lot of water to drink between 7:00am-5:30pm in one day!
A new game we play is counting sweepers and super sweepers… in other words, how many vehicles turn left from a non-left turn lane. If there is a left turn lane, and if a car in the lane just to the right of the real left turn lane turns left they get the title of “sweeper”. If a car in the lane just to the right of the sweeper lane turns left they are deemed “super sweepers”. It’s a fun game!
My Rose Plant
Well, that pretty much covers my fun stories. I was very happy to hear from Annie and Steve and to learn that my rose plant bloomed for Valentine’s Day- Perfect Timing! Thanks Annie for sharing and taking good care of my plants! Love you all.

Sunday, February 1, 2009

Tennis Time

What to write about this week? Well, not a whole lot to tell you, but only a few funny things. First, as I was heading to work the other morning on the freeway was a tractor just cruisin’ down the road. Seriously? Nice! I think it reached a top speed of 25 MPH. Another funny story is that I got saluted accidently. I’m sure the person who saluted me felt pretty stupid after he realized I was a civilian. Too funny! So, I’ve been here for over two months and this week was the first time I actually saw it rain. The funny part is we are currently in the rainy season! I typically love the small of rain, but not so much here, for some reason it just stinks here! Well, it is time to watch the grand slam action between Federer and Nadal! Good stuff! I keep trying to load pictures, but blogger is not letting me. I don’t know what is wrong. I’ll keep trying, but for now I wish you all a fabulous week!