260414: Tips untuk bawa anak kecil ke zoo

Alhamdulillah last last week pegi bercuti di Melaka. Sempatla melawat Zoo Melaka. Perghhh balek-balek terlentang jugak tido sampai terlambat pegi kenduri my ex housemate. So, I nak share few tips untuk those yang ada baby dan nak bawak baby belajar tentang nature ni. haha. 

1. Jangan lupa bawa spray nyamuk/serangga. Nak masuk tu terus spray kat baju baby. Jangan spray Ridsect sudah la. hehe. Spray nyamuk baby ni banyak jual kat farmasi. Watson and Guardian pun ada rasanya. Dalam zoo memang banyak nyamuk!

2. Pakaikan baby baju yang warnanya cerah-cerah. Nyamuk love darkness. So avoid black and dark color ya. One more, kat dalam zoo tak da air cond. Warna yang gelap-gelap ni menyerap haba tau. Kami pegi pagi pun rasa panas sangat.

3. Bring plenty of water. Kalau tak nak kita and baby dehydrate, bawak banyak-banyak air. Minta Encik Suami tolong pikul bag yang ada air tu. Kalau rasa berat, cepat-cepat la minum untuk kurangkan beban. hihi. Untuk mommy yang direct breastfeed, jangan lupa bawa nursing cover. Kalau teror, boleh nursing dalam carrier ja. =)

4. I prefer carrier than stroller. Jalan dalam zoo tu bukan macam dalam supermarket. Smooth ja nak tolak stroller. haha. Tapi berbukit bakau dengan tangga-tangga lagi. Stroller menambahkan beban lagi ada la. Masa pegi Zoo Melaka tempoh hari, Muhammad Tariq banyak didukung daripada duduk dalam stroller tu. Sebab lagi senang dia nak tengok haiwan-haiwan tu bila didukung. I yang kena tolak stroller kosong berisi 2 botol mineral water 1.5L dengan jalan berlekuk-lekuk. 0.0.

5. Kalau nak bawak stroller jugak, belilah yang tahan lasak ala-ala kenderaan 4 wheels yang orang bawak masuk hutan tu. Pastu jangan lupa beli kipas yang pakai bateri tu banyak-banyak dan susun depan stroller tu. hahaha. 

Itu ja kot tips masuk zoo. Selamat mendidik anak-anak tentang nature! =)
Byep!

Assalamua'laikum

301213: Tips untuk bagi baby makan ubat

Ni tips from my hubby's friend. His son, named Muhammad Luth born on the same day with my little caliph. Kiranya Muhammad Luth dan Muhammad Tariq ni share birthday. =) Muhammad Luth ni menjalani operation on his knee masa ummi dia tengah dalam pantang lagi. I forgot the reason. huhu. So, dia ada kena ambik medicines and has appointment dengan doctor until now. My hubby's friend share cara untuk bagi baby medicine (fluids). Simple ja cara dia. 

Suapkan ubat dalam mulut baby and then tiup muka baby. Baby akan tersentak sikit dan telan ubat automatically. However, Alhamdulillah I haven't try it yet. =) 

Ok la. Moga bermanfaat untuk sesiapa yang face problem bagi baby makan ubat. =) 

Assalamua'laikum

171113: Idea blackboard as wedding deco (Part 2)

 pinterest

 weddingbee

etsy

weddingbee

 style me pretty

pinterest

They are some of the blackboard ideas. If you want to DIY it by yourself, you can buy blackboard sticker at Triple S (click here). Happy preparing bride to be! :)

161113: Idea blackboard as wedding deco (Part 1)

Ashley Photographer

abeautifulmess

stylemepretty

yoursroxanne

The Wedding Creative

nadine studio

They are some of the blackboard ideas. If you want to DIY it by yourself, you can buy blackboard sticker at Triple S (click here). Happy preparing bride to be! :)

150313 : 50 ways to make your husband happy

I found this article just now and I think it is a great and must-share article especially to wife, newly-wed and bride to be out there. So check it out.
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1. Start with a love letter. Remember how eagerly you waited in the early days of your courtship to receive a letter or just a note from each other? Do it again, but this time count all the reasons, which you think make him the best husband. Your man will not only be happy to be reminded of your love but glad to know that he makes you happy as well.
2. Listen actively. When your husband expresses an opinion or a thought, pay attention. This shows you respect him and his views and nothing pleases a man more.
3. Say thank you with a smile. When your husband does an odd job around the house, thank him like you really mean it. He will know that his help is not taken for granted and he will be happy to do more.
4. Prepare his favorite meal. After he returns home from work on an ordinary day, surprise your husband with his favorite dinner.  He will not only be glad to have the food he likes best, but will appreciate the time and effort you put in preparing it.
5. Let him have the TV remote. Granted, that you wish your husband spent more time with you, than watching the sports channel, but if there is an important game that you know your husband would love to watch, hand over the TV remote graciously.
6. Hold his gaze. When you are speaking to your husband or listening to him, make sure that you keep eye contact. This will assure him of your attention and your respect, which is empowering to any man.
7. Plan a vacation. Make arrangements for a romantic vacation, to a destination you know your husband would love to visit.
8. Ask his family over. Your husband’s parents mean a lot to him. So ask them over for a Sunday lunch he will be touched by your loving gesture.
9. Gift your husband a subscription to his favorite magazine. 
10. On the way from work, visit the bakery and pick up a dessert your husband digs.
11. Do something he hates. Choose a chore, like buying grocery or taking out the laundry, your husband really dislikes doing and then go on to do it cheerfully.
12. Have his pals over. If a Super Bowl game or something equally popular is coming up, let your husband know he can watch it at home with his mates. Admittedly there will be beer cans and hot dog wrappers to clean up the next day, but your hubby will love your generosity.
13. Appreciate his interests. If your husband is into carpentry, praise the bookstand he has made, even if it wobbles just a wee bit. Or if he loves collecting coins, buy him a book on numismatics. Your interest in his hobbies will give your husband a feeling of pride and make him happy.
14. Book your husband on a golf vacation and do it happily.
15. Give your husband a nice massage, after a particularly exhausting day at work.
16. Make your husband a bowl, of popcorn, as he settles down to watch his favorite DVD.
17. Get him tickets to his favorite ballgame and then surprise him by lustily cheering for his favorite team.
18. Buy a really expensive gift for your husband, like a watch from Cartier or a Bvlgari perfume.
19. Don’t nag, if he gets lost while taking out the family on a road trip.
20. Send the kids to their grandparents’ or to a family member’s for a sleepover. Then snuggle up to your husband and ask what he would like to do, for the rest of the evening.
21. Find out your husband’s favorite after-shave and buy it for him.
22. Recreate your first date and your husband is sure to be happy falling in love with you all over again.
23. Tell your husband to take a night out with his pals. Not only will he have a good time, but he will also be grateful for your thoughtfulness.
24. Put on your sexiest lingerie and get ready for an intimate evening with your husband. He will be happy to know you still desire him as a lover.
25. Book yourselves on a luxury cruise. Your husband will not only enjoy the sun and the sights, but will be happiest doing nothing the whole day.
26. Gift him a customized CD by compiling around ten of your husband’s favorite songs.
27. Take care of your appearance. Don’t let yourself go, just because you’ve been married for quite a while. Your husband will be glad to know you still find him worth the effort and time it takes to appear well-groomed.
28. Greet your husband at the door dressed in your best gown and with two glasses of champagne. After he recovers from the initial shock, he will be glad that you came up with such a great idea to welcome him.
29. Tell your husband he smells nice.
30. Flirt with your husband in front of his friends. Hold his gaze, touch his legs under the table and steal quick kisses. Your hubby will love to relive the days of romance.
31. When you are sitting together, quietly slip your hand into his. Your husband will love the easy expression of intimacy between you two.
32. Buy him a set of golf clubs or whatever sport equipment he is interested in.
33. Stop trying to change your husband into someone else, after all you married him for who he is.
34. Meet him for lunch at his office and suggest a quick bite. He will love your spontaneity and the fact that you took out time from your own schedule.
35. The next time you decide to eat out, let your husband choose the restaurant and the menu.
36. Ask him to share his fantasy with you and see if you can try it out – or at least a part of it. Even if you both end up laughing, your husband will be pleased to know you care about what he wants.
37. Do something fun together like a trip to an amusement park or going for a circus show.
38. Pick up the kids from their soccer or music practice, when it is actually your husband’s turn to do so.
39. Go out after dinner. Put the kids in bed and steal away with your husband for an ice-cream for a stroll in the park. Your husband will be pleased at spending some quiet time with you.
40. Find one thing to compliment about your husband and do it sincerely.
41. Let your husband be at home the next time you want to go Christmas shopping. He will be glad to have escaped the chore and you might have more fun doing it with someone, who enjoys shopping, like your mom or a friend.
42. Remind your husband that he is the sexiest man you ever set eyes on.
43. Leave a love note in your husband’s briefcase or in the car. Just a sentence telling him that he means so much to you.
44. Pursue an interest together – like a dance class or a photography club. He will be happy to feel connected to you.
45. Go for a hike in the mountains. You both will love the fresh air and the casual intimacy.
46. Be the perfect hostess, if your husband invites his boss over for dinner.
47. Learn a skill or a new language. Your husband will be happy and proud of your achievements.
48. Get your husband something he always wanted, but never got around buying it.
49. Go over his high school photos together and remark how handsome he was even all those years back.
50. Find a quiet moment with your husband to whisper “ I love you” in his ears. If you have already said it, say it again. You can never say these three words too often and you can be sure, that every time it will make your husband glad, he married you.

 (source:futurescopes)

I want to add some more for Muslim couple

51. Perform solah 5 times per day together. Respect him as an Imam/leader in your house.

52. Keep reciting doa for your family happiness in the world and hereafter. 

53. Kissing his hand and ask forgiveness every time after solat

54.  Recite al-Quran and tafseer together because al-Quran is a guideline to make sure both of you stay happy together in Jannah insyaALLAH.  

55. Hold your husband hand when hangout with him. 

56. Keep smiling when your husband being with you and tell him you are very happy spend time with him. 

57. Welcome your husband when he coming back from work and prepare a glass of water for him.

58. Share both your happiness and sadness with him. Have a great two ways communication. Discuss any problem and find the solution together.

59. Cut his finger and toe nails. Take care of his appearance.Sometimes, pamper him by offering free spa at home. 

60. Seek knowledge non stoppable. Joining any religions class or talk together. 

Hope it can help you and me to be better and solehah wife insyaALLAH. Sayang dan cinta kerana ALLAH. Assalamua'alaikum.

080313: Antara cinta dan Air Mata

Syurga adalah tempat yang tiada air mata dan disitu lah tempat lahirnya cinta.

Tujuan ALLAH ciptakan cinta berkait rapat dengan tujuan ALLAH menciptakan manusia.

Apa tujuan ALLAH ciptakan manusia?

1. sebagai hamba ALLAH

2. menjadi khalifah di muka bumi (memakmurkan bumi ALLAH)

Apa tujuan ALLAH ciptakan cinta?

Sebagai 'alat' untuk melaksanakan kedua-dua tujuan hidup di atas.

Utamakan cinta ALLAH melebihi cinta suami isteri.

Jika kayu dan kayu disatukan dengan paku

bata dan bata disatukan dengan simen

Maka, hati dan hati disatukan dengan IMAN

Iman berkadar terus dengan cinta sesama manusia

Kerana ada hadis Nabi SAW yang berbunyi tak kan sempurna iman seandainya kita tidak mencintai saudara kita seperti kita mencintai diri kita sendiri

Law of attraction:

Nak cari sahabat/ pasangan yang baik, kita dahulu mesti menjadi baik.

Jadi seperti lilin yang menyala, yang akan menyalakan lilin lain.

Jangan mencari kebahagiaan dalam rumah tangga tetapi bawa kebahagiaan ke dalam rumah tangga.

ALLAH telah tetapkan jodoh seperti ALLAH tetapkan rezeki tetapi manusia kena mencari/berusaha.

Cara/usaha untuk mendapat pasangan yang baik

1. Jadi baik : Kita buat baik bukan kerana kita baik tetapi usaha kita untuk jadi baik.

2. Ikut pilihan atau cadangan orang yang baik

3. Ikut cara yang baik : Lelaki dan perempuan boleh mulakan dahulu tetapi dengan adab-adab Islamiah. 

Persediaan sebelum berkahwin (3A)

1. Akui : mengakui kelemahan diri sebagai seorang hamba (senantiasa beristighfar dan cari cinta ALLAH terlebih dahulu)

2. Afham (saya faham) : Faham bahawa tanggungjawab akan berpindah daripada ibu bapa kepada suami

3. Aplikasi : Mesti ada skill, teori-teori perkahwinan sebelum melangkah ke gerbang perkahwinan.

Ilmu terbahagi kepada 2 : fardhu ain (untuk menjadi hamba) dan ilmu akademik (untuk memakmurkan alam)

Ilmu itu adalah cahaya manakala cinta itu buta

Maka, ilmu lah yang akan membimbing cinta.

Rumah tangga terbahagi kepada 2 - hak dan tanggungjawab

Utamakan menjalankan tanggungjawab terhadap pasangan bagi memenuhi hak pasangan kerana what you give you will get back. 

Hukum kasih sayang: kena memberi kasih sayang dahulu, baru boleh menerima kasih sayang.

Seandainya suami yang jahat sekalipun memberi arahan yang baik, kita perlu turuti kerana tanggungjawab mendahului hak. 

Cara mengekalkan rumah tangga (SMART)

1. Setia, sayang

2. Manja

3. Adil - jangan letakkan kesangsian melebihi kepercayaan. Dalam mencari pasangan, rasa boleh dipercayai tu adalah syarat yang lebih utama berbanding  rasa cinta.

4. Renew - terima kelemahan pasangan dan upgrade kelebihan/kekuatan pasangan. Ulang buat perkara yang telah dilakukan semasa awal perkahwinan atau create aktiviti yang baru untuk dilakukan bersama-sama.

5. true colors - Pasangan akan rasa lebih dihargai seandainya psangannya berterus terang dan berbincang secara telus.

Semoga perkongsian ini bermanfaat. =) 

190712: Checklist kenduri kahwin

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070612: Floor plan solemnization

As I mentioned before, there will be no pelamin on my wedding. However, after calculating my period here, I discussed about it with mak. As we do not want to take any risk, then we decided to change the solemnization venue from masjid to our home sweet home. So, we will have a minimalist and simplest pelamin insyaALLAH. I have already studied and googled the floor plan for this event. I wanna share some of the floor plans here. I hope it can be a reference to bride to be who will have the solemnization event at their house as well. =D 

 Floor plan 1

Floor plan 2

Floor plan 3

I love all three floor plans because the photographer capable to capture the bride and bridegroom in a single shot. Oh ya! I have linked all photos here to the owners' website. Actually the floor maps above are only can be used as a guidance. We need to modify it according to our home spacious, interior design and so on. Emmm...Floor plan for my solemnization will be revealed insyaALLAH after the noble ceremony on 23rd August ya =D Assalamua'alaikum

120512: Tutorial to get GPS coordinate

Assalamua'alaikum.

Today saya nak kongsi cara untuk dapatkan kod GPS. Okay I learnt this from one of the B2B 2012 group's member. Ini lah pentingnya join group. Boleh gain knowledge, share idea dan bla bla bla. Kena buat satu entry khas la kalau nak cerita pasal kebaikan ada group ni. haha. By the way thanks to Dhiera and Mieza. If Im not mistaken, they are the pioneers of this group. [clap, clap, clap] Tolong jangan saman saya yah kalau tersalah fakta pasal group B2B 2012 ni. Do correct me if Im wrong okay. =P Back to the topic [selalu melalut], tutorial untuk mendapatkan kod GPS adalah seperti berikut. Hehe.

1. Buka Google map [klik ja. Saya sudah buat pautan ke google map]

2. Bahagian search tu, taip tempat yang anda mahukan.Then, click search [yang ada tanda kanta tu].

3. Dekat map tu cari kawasan yang kita nak dan right click kat situ. Pastu pilih "What's here?". Then, You will get the coordinate yang akan memunculkan dirinya pada bahagian search tadi..

4. Kalau nak convert ke degree minute and seconds, boleh guna website ni http://transition.fcc.gov/mb/audio/bickel/DDDMMSS-decimal.html

Selamat maju jaya
[lama tak jumpa word ni. =)]

01052012 : Tutorial to install new font in Window

Assalamua'alaikum

Dah lama tak update. Sangat busy. Walaupun hari ni hari pekerja, namun kaki ni perlu digagahkan untuk drive ke tempat kerja. Busy tak saya? =P Eh back to original aim, I just want to share a simple tutorial to install new font into your windows. Kalau yang dah tahu boleh terus tekan item yang menyerupai huruf 'X' dekat hujung belah kanan tu okay. hehe. Actually, sekarang saya dalam proses design wedding card. So, I need a calligraphy font yang originally tak da dalam microsoft. So, here are the tutorial to those who want to put new, stylish, fresh font into your window! 

To install

1. Click button START kat bawah sekali hujung sebelah kiri tu.

2. Then pilih RUN

3. Then copy paste ini [%windir%\fonts] (without [] okay) pada bahagian Open: and click OK

4. After that akan keluar folder FONT. Pilih FILE dan clik INSTALL NEW FONT.

5. Pada kotak DRIVES, pilih la drive yang ada font yang kamu dah download dari internet/software tu. Kalau simpan dalam folder, U must click the folder 1st. Nanti akan keluar list of font yang ada dalam drive tu. Select yang mana nak install dan clik OK.

6. Siap! Anda boleh menggunakan tulisan baru tu untuk DIY card, tag or apa-apa aja la. Yeay!!

To remove

Step 1-3 sama ja macam install.

4. Select semua fonts yang anda mahu buang 

5. Then, right click and choose DELETE

6. Bila ditanya gini "Are you sure you want to delete this font?" Maka, buatlah pilihan yang tepat okay. haha. Kalau confirm nak delete click la YES dengan penuh rasa bangga.

Selamat berDIY dengan FONT baru! =D

090212: Aku Terima Nikahnya by Ustaz Hasrizal

On the way balek dari Kelantan (fieldwork) tempoh hari (03022012), saya berjaya mengkhatam buku Aku Terima Nikahnya. Not a compilation version yang 3 in 1 tu tau. Ni 1 of the 3 books yang di compile itu. hehe. Tanpa jemu saya membaca pengalaman Ustaz Hasrizal sepanjang sebelum bergelar suami sehinggalah mempunyai 3 orang anak. Sangat menarik kerana terselit unsur lucu, pilu, kagum dan dalam masa yang sama memberi input menarik kepada yang single tak pun yang plural. Membuka mata yang sedia besar ini tentang tanggungjawab yang akan dipikul apabila masjid terbina. Persediaan mental, fizikal dan emosi sangat perlu sebelum menjejak kaki dalam pembinaan baiti jannati. Pengalaman dia dan kita tak mungkin sama. Tapi pengalaman itu menjadi inspirasi dan contoh dalam mempertahan dan memperkukuh sebuah mahligai yang fragile. Perkahwinan bukan hanya suka-suka. Akad nikah adalah permulaan kepada tanggungjawab besar yang akan terbeban di bahu. Mood preparation majlis perkahwinan yang memang malap kini kian gelap. Tunggu bulan 6 kot baru nak datang balek mood berkenduri hujung tahun ni. hehe. Sekarang mood usha-usha jak.=)

psssssstttt jom timba ilmu sebanyak mungkin sebelum menukar status cik kepada puan. =)

"Dan kahwinlah orang bujang (lelaki/perempuan) dari kalangan kamu dan orang yang soleh dari hamba-hamba kamu, lelaki dan perempuan. Jika mereka miskin, ALLAH akan memeberikan kekayaan kepada mereka dari limpah kurniaNya, kerana ALLAH Maha Luas (rahmatNya dan limpah kurniaNya), lagi Maha Mengetahui." (24:32)  

150112: how to make a checklist?

simple tutorial for my dearest friend, Mashi and other BLOGGERs who having the same prob as her =)

Just follow steps below ya...

1. Choose Design --> page elements
2. Add gadget at any place U wish to put the checklist
3. Dekat pop up yang keluar tu, choose HTML/JavaScript
4. Then, copy paste code below in content column:

<div><input type="checkbox" name="mybox" value="BAJU TUNANG" checked />BAJU TUNANG</div>

Both parts stated BAJU TUNANG tu isi la dengan any item u want to put in the list
Bahagian 'checked' pula type checked if u want to check or disabled if u want to unchecked

5. U need to copy paste code kat atas tu for each item u want to put in the checklist.

eg: my E-day checklist

[mine suma checked sebab semua dah settle..!! =P]

6. Click save! Done!

Selamat mencuba.. kalau tak faham tanya ya... insyaALLAH I'll explain it for u..=)

040112: Planning mode

Walaupun persediaan untuk E-day belum fully settle. ok sebenarnya banyak sangat lagi yang belum settle. huhu. Semua preparation tu tak boleh nak settle selagi belom jejak kaki di baiti jannati. I nak buat kerja tapi lecturers belum respon. So, last night bermulalah ekspedisi menyiapkan Gantt Chart, Checklist and Budget untuk W-day. I buat dulu setakat yang I mampu. Semalam dah antar Gantt chart and checklist kat Fiance To Bee untuk check and edit yang mana perlu. Dia still tengah edit. [saja I send semalam sebab ari ni dia cuti..hehe]. Now, I proceed dengan budget la.. =) 

I ada juga ambil contoh-contoh checklist dan budget ex-B2B and B2B untuk rujukan. Boleh ambil buat rujukan ja la. Still kena buat sendiri sebab majlis dia dan majlis kita tak sama. I nak share cara I buat gantt chart, checklist and Budget la.

1st I sediakan checklist dulu. Refer juga checklist orang lain. Mana yang tak cukup kita tambah and mana yang tak da kaitan kita eliminate. I prefer buat se detail mungkin sebab kadang-kadang bila dah kelam kabut, I takut ada yang ter miss atau terlepas pandang. I buat pakai Microsoft word. If nanti ada yang terlupa, anytime ingat! Secepat kilat masukkan saja. Kalau yang buat manual (guna pen+kertas) boleh leave extra column.

Move on to Gantt Chart. I list down dulu semua kerja yang patut buat. Masa list down, I refer checklist yang dah buat tu. Contoh kalau dalam checklist ada OP(official Photographer). Then dalam task list I akan tulis Survey and booking OP, survey outdoor venue dan confirm OP. I make sure setiap checklist tu I find out kerja yang perlu I buat. After list out semua kerja, I find out waktu paling sesuai I mesti siapkan task tu and how long it take to finish the task. Then susun ja la dari yang kena buat awal-awal hingga lah yang kena buat saat-saat akhir. Contoh kerja saat akhir adalah hantaran. Tak kan 5 bulan before wedding dah nak siapkan.betol tak? hehe..

Lastly I buat budget, yang ni I prefer buat dalam Microsoft Excel. This part pun kena refer checklist [sebab tu I buat checklist dulu. hehe]. I buat empat bahagian. Estimated, actual, paid to date and left to pay. List down suma yang kena bayar.Yang mana sponsor tu tulis nama orang yang sponsor. Yang tak da orang sponsor tu boleh survey-survey harga. Agak-agak ja nilainya and put in estimated column. Tak perlu nilai paling tinggi. I letak nilai yang I mampu bayar. So nanti kita tahu takat mana kita boleh spend untuk satu-satu barang tu. Kalau lebey sket tak pa. I takut kalau dah letak price yang paling tinggi, kalau still harga lebey daripada estimated, sakit juga nanti nak bayar. Bagusnya pakai excel ni, kita boleh buang kalkulator dalam tong sampah (over!) sebab excel boleh automatik kira (but u must set the formula la). 

Yes I orang yang sistematik.. hahaha. sebenarnya pelupa dan kelam kelibut. hehe..One more, bila ada semua ni I tau la target each month apa yang mesti I siapkan and berapa limit yang I boleh spend. I keep reminding myself "after kahwin banyak lagi duet nak pakai". [insaf lepas over budget for engagement attire + wedding attire] Ok la,nak siap, jap lagi nak gi beli barang-barang. ^.^

kat MPH ada jual buku untuk wedding planner if Im not mistaken. cantek pun cantek. Tapi kena keluar duet sket la..hehe.. I pilih cara murah [kedekut!] =P

psssssssttt kalau nak contoh-contoh planner ka budget ka boleh gi website ni http://exceltemplates.net/category/wedding/  =D

"Dan mereka merancang, ALLAH juga merancang dan ALLAH sebaik-baik perancang" (3:54)

231211 : why I choose him?

Actually, I antara yang terawal akan menukar status kepada tunang orang dalam geng bas sekolah I dan biomedics UKM batch 2007/2011. Setakat ini I dah menerima dua soalan yang boleh digolongkan dalam group yang sama. soalan tu lebih kurang macam ni la. kenapa I yakin untuk bertunang dengan Encik Fiance To Be? =) and my answer sangat la panjang lebar tapi I nak share kesimpulannya ja kat sini.

After 5 tahun lebih berkawan, I yakin dia boleh jadi Hamba ALLAH, anak, suami dan ayah yang baik.

How I know? 

Hamba ALLAH yang baik >> paling mudah sekali tengok dia ada ambil kesempatan kat u tak. lagi mudah ada tak dia sengaja pegang tangan u?dia keluar dengan u dia ada solat tak? ni sikit baru. banyak lagi kita boleh wat pemerhatian. buka mata luas-luas dan fikir fikir fikir.

Anak yang baik>> tengok layanan dia kepada keluarga dia (mak, ayah, nenek, adik-beradik). 

Suami yang baik>> cara layanan dia pada kita sesuai tak dengan apa yang kita nak. Sebab semua orang kehendaknya lain-lain.kalau I prefer lelaki yang betul-betul lelaki. Bukan yang asyik-asyik merajuk nak minta dipujuk saja =)

Ayah yang baik>> 1st cuba tengok dia suka budak-budak tak? then usha layanan dia kat budak-budak.=)

Setiap orang pendapat dia berbeda-beda. Bagi I ini yang penting. mungkin bagi anda lain pula. Yakin lah dengan ketentuanNya. Jodoh kita adalah yang terbaik untuk kita. Mungkin ada sifat dia yang u tak boleh terima tapi kena belajar la terima sebab nobody perfect including us. Once u dah bergelar isteri, setialah. tak perlu nak cari yang lebih baik. [Banyak sangat baca tragedi isteri orang curang dengan lelaki lain. Lepas dah kawin dengan lelaki lain baru realize suami yang dulu lebih baik]. Ok sebelum topik berlari lebih jauh. lebih baik sambung wat proposal yang tergendala. hehe.. Bye! =)

Put your trust in ALLAH. keep praying.

061211: Forum Sampaikan Aku Pada Dia

Semalam tanpa dirancang kaki menongkah arus malas menuju bumi Kolej Tun Syed Nasir UKM Kampus Kuala Lumpur. Hayunan kaki dan tangan beriringan menuju Dewan Serbaguna bagi menghadiri Forum Sampaikan Aku Pada Dia. Panel-panel yang hebat yakni Ustazah Fatimah Syarha dan Ustaz Zaidi (Mantan BADAR UKM KKL) membulatkan niat meredah gelap malam menuntut ilmu. Ilmu yang diperoleh bersesuaian untuk dikongsi di blog ini berbanding satu lagi blog saya kerana isu CINTA tempatnya disini.=) Saya tak mahu menjadi panelis ketiga disini. Cukup berkongsi sedikit ilmu yang sempat ditangkap hati. 

Pelbagai faktor menggalakkan wujudnya blog B2B. Kebanyakan orang mesti setuju antara faktornya adalah untuk berkongsi persiapan dan idea sebelum bertukar status Cik kepada Puan. Tetapi saban kali fokus blog B2B hanya berkitar kepada persiapan luaran. Jarang sekali kita berkongsi tentang persiapan diri. Apa persiapan diri itu?

1. Fokus mencari ilmu. Ilmu itu luas. Pencarian ilmu mempersiap diri menjadi pemimpin dan PA (personal asisstant) pemimpin pada negara rumah tangga.
2. Memperbaiki akhlak.

3. Menjaga hubungan dengan ALLAH iaitu cuba mengatur masa untuk perkara bermanafaat pada kita. Berjaga-jaga lah supaya cinta kita pada seseorang atau sesuatu tidak menyamai/melebihi cinta kita pada Pencipta atau dengan kata lain CINTA MENSYIRIKKAN ALLAH. nauzubillahiminzalik semoga kita terhindar dari perbuatan itu. Letakkan cinta ALLAH diatas. Andai kita sanggup luangkan 3jam bersama bakal suami/suami. Gandakan masa kita untuk ALLAH. Kekalkan cinta agung itu yang utama. 

Ketiga-tiga aspek ini penting kerana janji ALLAH

"Perempuan yang baik adalah untuk laki-laki yang baik, Perempuan yang jahat untuk laki-laki yang jahat" (24:26)

Mari menjadi baik supaya jodoh kita menjadi lebih baik juga. Bukankah matlamat kita cinta hingga ke syurga.Ayuh persiapkan diri.=)

291111: mission implemented (survey)

every weekend I have a mission to accomplish

ya we just can spend time together on weekend only

and this weekend our mission is 

finding suitable color for my engagement and akad nikah attire

still pening-pening lalat which colours should i choose

the darker one or lighter one 

lastly i ask the sales girl to give me sample of both colours

do not hesitate ya to ask for the sample

you have authority to choose the best

dont let them push you until you make a wrong decision

to play safe

dont bring large amount of money 

if you just want to make a survey

haha..

i have make up my mind

i choose dark brown for my engagement attire

and creamy for my akad nikah

next week we will fly to Mars

to give the color sample to his uncle

he will buy us the textile

cause as a designer he will get a special price 

so for budget b2b and g2b like us

surely we have to take this opportunity to cut our cost

hehe

you must be wondering

why dont we go there with his uncle?

kan?? kan??

coz the price will not be the same if we are there

(-,-")

owh ya

i think i want to share the serpihan kain here

waaaiiitt.!!!

where is my camera.???

here it is

ok..lets have a look...

(^,^)

amacam?

ok dop?

=)

251111 : be aware!

my 'aunt to be' told me

"be careful

when u decide to book anything

in wedding fair

coz...

she has 2 customers

who have been cheated 

riban-riban juga"

so

be careful kay!

=)