Years ago, an older woman I knew used to say, “It’s so easy to be a Catholic.”
I have to disagree.
Perhaps it is easy to call yourself a Catholic. It may even be easy to practice a kind of “Catholic lite”—going through the motions, keeping the parts of the Faith that are comfortable, and quietly setting aside the things that demand too much of us.
But to be a good and faithful Catholic? To strive seriously for holiness?
That isn’t easy at all.
The Honeymoon Doesn’t Last
Anyone who has experienced a conversion knows what I mean.
Perhaps you came to the Catholic Faith for the first time. Perhaps you returned after years away. Or perhaps you were Catholic all your life but experienced a reversion—a moment when the Faith suddenly became real and you decided that you wanted to follow Jesus Christ seriously.
There can be a kind of honeymoon period.
Prayer is exciting. You want to learn everything you can about the Faith. You begin changing things in your life. You discover the saints, the Sacraments, Eucharistic Adoration, spiritual reading, perhaps devotions you never knew before.
Everything seems new.
Then, sooner or later, the honeymoon ends.
Prayer becomes difficult. Temptations return. Enthusiasm fades. Old habits begin tugging at us again. The demands of the Faith don’t always fit comfortably with what we want.
And that is when the real work begins.
Our Lord never promised us an easy road. In fact, He told us precisely the opposite:
“Make your way in by the narrow gate. It is a broad gate and a wide road that leads on to perdition, and those who go in that way are many indeed; but how small is the gate, how narrow the road that leads on to life, and how few there are that find it!”
— Matthew 7:13–14
The road to heaven is narrow because following Christ requires conversion—and conversion is not something that happens only once.
It is the work of a lifetime.
We Are in a Battle
There is another reality that we sometimes don’t like to talk about.
The moment we begin taking our relationship with Christ seriously, we discover that we are in a battle.
The devil does not simply stand aside while someone begins moving toward God.
Temptation comes. Discouragement comes. Distraction comes. Sometimes it is something obviously sinful. More often, perhaps, it is something much more subtle: comfort, laziness, pleasure, compromise, or the quiet suggestion that we don’t need to take all of this quite so seriously.
If we fail to recognize that we are in a spiritual battle, we become an easy target.
St. Augustine knew this battle extraordinarily well.
Before his conversion, he desperately wanted God, but another part of him remained attached to his former way of life. In his Confessions, he describes the struggle:
“Thus did my two wills, one old and the other new, one carnal, the other spiritual, contend within me.”
— Confessions, VIII, 5
Augustine did not literally possess two wills. He was describing the conflict taking place within himself.
And I think every serious Catholic recognizes it.
I want God—but I also want comfort.
I want to pray—but sometimes I would rather do something else.
I want to become holy—but I don’t necessarily want the sacrifices holiness requires.
I know what I should do—but sometimes I simply don’t feel like doing it.
That is the battle.
And none of us is exempt from it.
God Has Given Us Weapons
Thankfully, Our Lord has not sent us into battle defenseless.
He has given us the weapons we need.
Prayer. Penance. Sacrifice. Study. The Sacraments.
These are not merely pious extras for particularly devout Catholics. They are essential elements of the spiritual life.
We need to form our minds so that we know what is true.
We need to form our hearts so that we learn to love what God loves.
And we need to strengthen our wills so that we can choose what is good even when we don’t feel like choosing it.
Jesus tells us:
“You shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free.”
The modern world has a strange understanding of freedom. It often tells us that freedom means doing whatever we want whenever we want to do it.
Christian freedom is something very different.
Real freedom is having the ability to choose what is good.
A person enslaved by his passions is not free simply because he is allowed to satisfy them.
The saint is free.
The saint has become so conformed to Christ that he can choose the good even when doing so requires sacrifice.
And that kind of freedom takes formation, discipline and grace.
We Cannot Win This Battle Alone
This brings us back to St. Augustine.
After his conversion, Augustine understood something that is absolutely essential to the Catholic spiritual life: we cannot make ourselves holy.
He writes:
“The determination of the human will is insufficient, unless the Lord grant it victory.”
— On Grace and Free Will, 9
We need grace.
We cannot save ourselves by determination. We cannot overcome sin merely by gritting our teeth and trying harder. We cannot conquer the world, the flesh and the devil through sheer willpower.
We need God.
But grace does not eliminate our freedom. Grace strengthens and perfects it. God acts, and we cooperate with His action.
That is why we pray.
That is why we do penance.
That is why we make sacrifices.
That is why we study our Faith.
That is why we receive the Sacraments.
That is why we go to Confession when we fall and begin again.
And that is why a serious Catholic never gives up.
So, is it easy to be a Catholic?
No.
The gate is small. The road is narrow. There is a battle to be fought.
But we do not fight alone.
Christ gives us the weapons. Christ gives us the Sacraments. Christ gives us His Church.
And, above all, Christ gives us the grace to win the battle.
The road may be narrow, but we know where it leads.
To eternal life.