There is a girl I know who is super cute, and she has resting smiley face. Her demeanor always struck me as odd, until I learned she’s a kindergarten teacher, and then it made sense. She talks to people in the same way she talks to kindergartners.

The council says exports to Canada fell 63 per cent last year.

Imagine if your income fell by 63%. It’d probably get your attention.

That’s quite the headline.

Lol. Stupid typo.

You’re right, and I’ll add that my current banking app was recently updated, and now no longer works, giving me nonsecure OS warning, which is comically ironic.

With respect to companies requiring apps to do things like pay rent, that is a double-edged sword. They can demand, but their goods and services generally have alternatives, and companies that take a hard line risk alienating their customers, pushing them to look elsewhere.

Well, did they accept the kidnapping of their president? Unfortunately, I don’t think this fascist administration gives a shit about how they feel about it, and will do whatever it wants.

I’ll add that while your analogy clearly makes the point, as a practical matter there are plenty of women out there that happily fulfill the mistress role that do not aspire to wifehood.

I’m so stealing this word. I recently got into swing dancing, and am trying to improve by doing a lot of social dancing. Follows (usually women) tend to outnumber leads (usually men), so as lead I’m usually in high demand, and often can’t even get off the dance floor without being grabbed for the next dance. So I love it when the men outnumber the women, because I can sit back and watch others, which helps me improve and gives me ideas about things like how to string different moves together in new ways. So when the dance floor has enough leads, I can sit back, eat a carne asad burrito, and observemax.

My google android device runs GrapheneOS, with which you can use sandboxed google play services. Yes, the google play services API will likely block nonconforming apps from functioning if they use play services, but apps don’t have to use play services, and you’ll still be able to install anything you want. As far as I’m concerned, any app that stops working when google pulls the plug in September will be replaced with a FOSS alternative.

“Snubbed”. Lol. Why would any country want to use spyware from a hostile country’s oligarch? It seems like a massive security breach to hand your intelligence information to hostile foreigners. Smart move if you ask me.

Yes, and Trump is always straightforward and honest.

Puerto Rico’s representatives are non-voting and have very limited impact on legislation. They could have 100 Congressmen and still have zero votes.

THey’d get the same representation as Puerto Rico.

God, I’m so sick of AI that I feel like a luddite. I used to be a tech nerd, and enjoy the cutting edge of developing technologies. Now I just wish we could go back in time. I think the problem isn’t so much the developing technology, but rather the way it is being crammed down our throats whether we want it or not. Everywhere I look I’m inundated with AI slop. Youtube has gotten ridiculous. I used to be able to find interesting content fairly easily. Now, every search is full of an endless array of AI slop from brand new accounts with only a few hundred followers. Anything good has been buried by 10,000 AI-generated ripoffs. Maybe someday AI will come into it’s own, but it is nowhere near there now, and I am so, so tired of having to deal with it. It’s like the entire world is being turned into one of those automated customer service telephone lines that are completely useless; that you’re stuck navigating until you’re put on hold for 30 minutes when you ask to speak to a human.

I just want to say 10 out of 10 title, OP. It took me a minute, but I finally got it!

It’s your mom’s vibrator case.

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Same. I was morbidly obese and on several blood pressure meds to lower my blood pressure. As shed the weight and got fit, my blood pressure meds were too much, and I would get that blurred feeling, especially if stood up quickly.

Sounds like he was serving up a narcissist word salad. How accurately does this describe Trump’s response?

1. Complete lack of logic

The first most overt sign of ‘narc speak’ in action, is unsurprisingly the nonsense that issues forth. It is the very epitome of verbal chaos.

You’ll find a bunch of unrelated words and concepts all smooshed together, including contradictions and disjointed phrases, or random irrelevant and impromptu comments thrown at you.

The effect and very deliberate purpose of this is to leave you entirely unable to follow the narcissist to throw you off your game in following YOUR logic and holding them to account for their behaviour.

2. Circular conversations & repetition

It’s not just about absurd semantics as it relates to words, it’s also about being caught in structural hell completely reflective of their disordered mind.

Linearity is something the narcissist assiduously avoids in discussion, particularly so when a topic is raised that is in some way challenging them or seeking to hold them to account for their behaviour.

By frustrating the logical progression of a point of view from A to B to Z, the point is never made and accountability a non-event. The key tactics used are repetition and circular conversations that lead NOWHERE.

This strategy is also used not only to frustrate your argument, but to frustrate you into submission, relinquishing further attempts to resolve the matter at hand.

As well as communicating to you that YOU are the problem, otherwise the poor exasperated narc would not need to keep stating the same things they have already told you!

3. Overgeneralisations

Narcissistic Personality Disorder is marked by a set of pervasive behaviours which are underpinned by certain cognitive errors. One of these is the tendency to overgeneralise which is due to their black and white thinking resulting from something called ‘splitting’.

Splitting is the inability to comprehend that people (and things, events etc.) are usually made up of strengths and weaknesses, positive and negatives. The pathological narcissist cannot intellectually integrate these two concepts into the one whole.

This means that their world view is one of extremes. You will be familiar with this with the stark contrasts of idealisation vs. devaluation and discard, for example.

Within the context of the word salad, you’ll cop a bunch of ‘you always…’ statements, because for the narc, if you do something once, they draw the conclusion that you always do so and assign you a label. You know the ones: ‘you always take things too seriously’, ‘you’re always so sensitive’ etc.

4. Projection & blaming

Projection is evident when the narcissist handballs their flaws onto you. Whatever is unacceptable within them is attributed to you. You know it’s happening when their very own traits are being flung at you. ‘You’re so selfish’, ‘all you do is lie and deny’, ‘there’s something wrong with you, you are mentally unstable’ etc.

Similarly, any relationship difficulties must be the fault of others. Specifically, yours.

They go to any extent to construct a reason, or excuse as to why ‘the thing’ is your fault. No matter how completely bonkers their finger pointing may sound, you are blamed for everything.

‘It’s your fault I’m yelling at you, you’re making me do it’, ‘of course I’m sleeping around you are not attractive enough for me’ blah, blah, blah… 5. Denial & gaslighting

There is no concrete evidence solid and indisputable enough that the narcissist in their hubris will not deny its existence.

They make bold statements one second, and in the very next sentence proclaim, ‘I never said that’.

Before your very eyes they undertake an act only to hold your gaze steadily and pronounce ‘that never happened’.

You may look at irrefutable proof like a written document in their own hand, or even footage of them busy at something, and they assert ‘it wasn’t me’.

Denial is all about protecting themselves from reality due their inability to cope with who and what they really are.

It’s also gaslighting in action. Repeatedly denying fact has the pleasing effect of having you question your take on reality, and whether you are indeed the problem.

6. It’s all about winning & losing

Listen to the language used by the narc with as much detachment as you can.

There is NOTHING that will issue forth from their mouth that is about finding solutions and relationship building.

Their verbiage will centre on establishing they are right, and you are wrong. Wrong, wrong, wrong.

Every interaction for the pathological narcissist is a matter of competition.

No matter what you say, they will engage in a duel of words to establish you are wrong.

They’ll do this on EVERY utterance you make, even about completely inconsequential things, because to their minds if you they make you wrong about everything, you must also surely be wrong about any concerns you have about their behaviour.

Not only this, but clearly this is also classic supply. By making you always wrong, they believe this authenticates that they are always right.

7. Narc rage

This bad baby is horrifying.

In the true sense of narcissistic rage, it is the fury that is sparked by being unmasked. Being found out. Of realising that another sees them for what they really are…and more than this, it is their own flash of insight that underneath their denial, they are the very opposite of superior, always right, omnipotent and always in control.

And this moment of comprehension is the narcissistic injury that flips the switch on white hot fury expressed from verbal through to physical aggression.

I wonder if GrapheneOS’s sandboxed google play services will work?

When they’re attracted enough, all the rules go out the window.