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  • On the assumption you’re not trolling: you lack understanding of a core idea, that it isn’t how people behave or what emotions they show that matter but what motivates them to act or feel in a certain context. For example many people have abnormal eye contact, maybe they feel vulnerable or distracted or threatened or maybe they can’t cope with the level of intimacy. Someone with a strict adherence to routine might be goal driven or maybe it is an attempt to regain control or it might be to cope with anxiety that arises from unpredictability. My point is you show clear simplistic view of human psychology which leaves you myopic to grasp true underlying understanding.