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The Hairstons: An American Family in Black and White
Winner of the National Book Critics Circle Award
The Hairstons is the extraordinary story of the largest family in America, the Hairston clan. With several thousand black and white members, the Hairstons share a complex and compelling history: divided in the time of slavery, they have come to embrace their past as one family.
The black family's story is most exceptional. It is the account of the rise of a remarkable people—the children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren of slaves—who took their rightful place in mainstream America.
In contrast, it has been the fate of the white family—once one of the wealthiest in America—to endure the decline and fall of the Old South, and to become an apparent metaphor for that demise. But the family's fall from grace is only part of the tale. Beneath the surface lay a hidden history—the history of slavery's curse and how that curse plagued slaveholders for generations.
For the past seven years, journalist Wiencek has listened raptly to the tales of hundreds of Hairston relatives, including the aging scions of both the white and black clans. He has crisscrossed the old plantation country in Virginia, North Carolina, and Mississippi to seek out the descendants of slaves. Visiting family reunions, interviewing family members, and exploring old plantations, Wiencek combs the far-reaching branches of the Hairston family tree to gather anecdotes from members about their ancestors and piece together a family history that involves the experiences of both plantation owners and their slaves. He expertly weaves the Hairstons' stories from all sides of historical events like slave emancipation, Reconstruction, school segregation, and lynching.
Paradoxically, Wiencek demonstrates that these families found that the way to come to terms with the past was to embrace it, and this lyrical work, a parable of redemption, may in the end serve as a vital contribution to our nation's attempt to undo the twisted historical legacy of the past.
The Hairstons is the extraordinary story of the largest family in America, the Hairston clan. With several thousand black and white members, the Hairstons share a complex and compelling history: divided in the time of slavery, they have come to embrace their past as one family.
The black family's story is most exceptional. It is the account of the rise of a remarkable people—the children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren of slaves—who took their rightful place in mainstream America.
In contrast, it has been the fate of the white family—once one of the wealthiest in America—to endure the decline and fall of the Old South, and to become an apparent metaphor for that demise. But the family's fall from grace is only part of the tale. Beneath the surface lay a hidden history—the history of slavery's curse and how that curse plagued slaveholders for generations.
For the past seven years, journalist Wiencek has listened raptly to the tales of hundreds of Hairston relatives, including the aging scions of both the white and black clans. He has crisscrossed the old plantation country in Virginia, North Carolina, and Mississippi to seek out the descendants of slaves. Visiting family reunions, interviewing family members, and exploring old plantations, Wiencek combs the far-reaching branches of the Hairston family tree to gather anecdotes from members about their ancestors and piece together a family history that involves the experiences of both plantation owners and their slaves. He expertly weaves the Hairstons' stories from all sides of historical events like slave emancipation, Reconstruction, school segregation, and lynching.
Paradoxically, Wiencek demonstrates that these families found that the way to come to terms with the past was to embrace it, and this lyrical work, a parable of redemption, may in the end serve as a vital contribution to our nation's attempt to undo the twisted historical legacy of the past.
361 pages, Paperback
First published January 1, 1999
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About the author
Henry Wiencek
28 books27 followersHenry Wiencek is a prominent American historian and editor whose work has encompassed historically significant architecture, the Founding Fathers, various topics relating to slavery, and the Lego company. In 1999, The Hairstons: An American Family in Black and White, a biographical history which chronicles the racially intertwined Hairston clan of the noted Cooleemee Plantation House, won the National Book Critics Circle Award for biography.
Wiencek has come to be particularly associated with his work on Washington and slavery as a result of his most recent book, An Imperfect God: George Washington, His Slaves, and the Creation of America, which earned him the Los Angeles Times Book Award for history. Partly as a result of this book, Wiencek was named the first-ever Washington College Patrick Henry Fellow, inaugurating a program designed to provide writing fellowships for nationally prominent historians.
In 2003 Wiencek was appointed to the board of trustees for the Library of Virginia.
He attended Boston College High School, where he was valedictorian. He earned an undergraduate degree from Yale University in 1974 with a double major in Russian Literature and Literary Theory. Soon after graduating, Wiencek moved to New York City, where he worked for Time-Life, editing and writing for its publications.
Wiencek is married to Donna M. Lucey, who is also an American historian. Wiencek has resided in Charlottesville, Virginia since 1992, where he works in his home. He and his wife will be spending the 2008-2009 academic year in residence in a restored colonial house at Chestertown, Maryland in fulfillment of his Patrick Henry Fellowship duties.
Wiencek has come to be particularly associated with his work on Washington and slavery as a result of his most recent book, An Imperfect God: George Washington, His Slaves, and the Creation of America, which earned him the Los Angeles Times Book Award for history. Partly as a result of this book, Wiencek was named the first-ever Washington College Patrick Henry Fellow, inaugurating a program designed to provide writing fellowships for nationally prominent historians.
In 2003 Wiencek was appointed to the board of trustees for the Library of Virginia.
He attended Boston College High School, where he was valedictorian. He earned an undergraduate degree from Yale University in 1974 with a double major in Russian Literature and Literary Theory. Soon after graduating, Wiencek moved to New York City, where he worked for Time-Life, editing and writing for its publications.
Wiencek is married to Donna M. Lucey, who is also an American historian. Wiencek has resided in Charlottesville, Virginia since 1992, where he works in his home. He and his wife will be spending the 2008-2009 academic year in residence in a restored colonial house at Chestertown, Maryland in fulfillment of his Patrick Henry Fellowship duties.
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August 9, 2014
This is a really wonderful book and a truly important story. I was a bit nervous when I picked it up from the library--I knew the author's main area of research was old Southern mansions and plantation architecture, which had me a little apprehensive that he might be one of those Northerners who just love the "romance" of the antebellum South. And then I was also worried, based on the subject matter, that this might be one of those annoying, naive, peace-and-reconciliation, racism-was-bad-but-gee-what-an-American-tale-of-uplifting-social-change sorts of stories. But I was so incredibly and pleasantly surprised by this book. It is well-written, impeccably researched, and respectful of both the black and white sides of the family. Wiencek doesn't romanticize or demonize but instead approaches every story with nuance and honesty. He treats his subjects with such humanity and acknowledges how deeply personal this history is. And on top of all that, he is a lovely writer and this book is well-organized and very readable.
It wasn't perfect--Wiencek focuses almost exclusively on the black Hairstons in the second half of the book (which covers the twentieth century)...this is understandable as the black Hairstons' stories of segregation, white terrorism, service in the segregated WWII army, and civil rights activism are likely more interesting than the usual old Southern gentry lives lived by the white Hairstons. But I still would have liked to have gotten a better understanding of what the white Hairstons were up to from the 1930s to the 1980s. Wiencek could also occasionally be a little bit overly sentimental in his writing--having dreams about the "lost" Chryllis Hairston, and so on. But honestly, this book was good enough that I easily overlooked those minor complaints.
Read this book. It's good. It's important. It's honest.
It wasn't perfect--Wiencek focuses almost exclusively on the black Hairstons in the second half of the book (which covers the twentieth century)...this is understandable as the black Hairstons' stories of segregation, white terrorism, service in the segregated WWII army, and civil rights activism are likely more interesting than the usual old Southern gentry lives lived by the white Hairstons. But I still would have liked to have gotten a better understanding of what the white Hairstons were up to from the 1930s to the 1980s. Wiencek could also occasionally be a little bit overly sentimental in his writing--having dreams about the "lost" Chryllis Hairston, and so on. But honestly, this book was good enough that I easily overlooked those minor complaints.
Read this book. It's good. It's important. It's honest.
February 21, 2013
4.5 Stars
This book is about the history of a white slaveholding family in the American South, and their slaves. The white family, pronounced (Harston), share their history and their name with many of the descendents of their black slaves, who pronounce the name as written. The Hairstons owned plantations from Virginia to South Carolina and held as many as ten thousand slaves. Samuel Hairston of Oak Hill plantation, was probably the richest man in Virginia and possibly the United States in his lifetime, and possessed land and slaves worth $5 million. He was also reputedly the largest slaveholder in the South.
Yet despite this expansive and wealthy history, the white family has faded away. Few of the plantation homes still exist and even fewer are still owned and operated by Hairstons. Just like the American South that they symbolize, their wealth and possessions withered and disappeared.
Despite my general interest in history of the American South, my interest in this book was largely personal. I was raised and now still live and work in Martinsville, Virginia, which is surrounded by Henry County. Henry County and Martinsville were once almost exclusively Hairston land; indeed the historic Martinsville Court House was built on land donated by the Hairstons. Each day on my way to work, I drive past the imposing Berry Hill Plantation home. I run almost daily on Sam Lion's Trail, named for Sam Lion, a runaway slave belonging to the Hairston family. As a child, I swam in Chatmoss Country Club's pool, named for the remains of Chatmoss plantation, upon which it stands. On my way out of town, I pass over Marrowbone creek and I know many who graduated from Magna Vista High School, both Hairston plantation names. And I know many Hairstons locally - the phone book is crowded with the name - descendants of Hairston slaves who adopted the name when they gained their freedom. It amazes me that, while some of this history is still known at a minimum level locally, the main thing that survives the white Hairstons are names.
I loved the first half of this book, which details the Hairstons in their hey day before the Civil War. Wiencek details the family history much in the order in which he researched it, moving geographically from plantation to plantation. I was somewhat relieved that there isn't a lot of pressure on the reader to remember the tangled web of the family tree, which is complicated by cousins marrying cousins, not unlike that of European royal families, as the white Hairstons fought to keep land and riches within the family name. While Wiencek's organization is not chronological or clearly defined by anything other than his physical journey, I don't think any better way could be devised to organize the complicated story he tells.
My favorite aspects of this tale, aside from my avid interest in learning more about my community's history, were on the stories of individual Hairstons - from that of the Hairston who left his fortune and land to his half-black daughter who then disappeared, smuggled away by the white Hairston clan, to the descendent of a Hairston slave who became an actor and was on film with John Wayne and others. It seems that almost all of the Hairstons Wiencek interviewed were candid about their history, including that of black and white relationships and any remaining resentment over past grievances.
My interest waned somewhat in the second half of the book. There is a lengthy chapter following the exploits and hardships of a black Hairston during the Civil War, the details of which dragged for me. Also, as the family became scattered, and the fortune disappeared, the story is less grounded and less about the "Hairstons" and more about disparate individuals who are scattered across the country. I think this more modern account is necessary to see where the intertwined families are now, but it held my interest less.
Overall, a great work of non-fiction about the complicated race relations in the American South, the rise and fall of a virtual empire built on the labor of slaves, and the aftermath of slavery and the transition into a new relationships between two branches of a very intertwined family.
This book is about the history of a white slaveholding family in the American South, and their slaves. The white family, pronounced (Harston), share their history and their name with many of the descendents of their black slaves, who pronounce the name as written. The Hairstons owned plantations from Virginia to South Carolina and held as many as ten thousand slaves. Samuel Hairston of Oak Hill plantation, was probably the richest man in Virginia and possibly the United States in his lifetime, and possessed land and slaves worth $5 million. He was also reputedly the largest slaveholder in the South.
Yet despite this expansive and wealthy history, the white family has faded away. Few of the plantation homes still exist and even fewer are still owned and operated by Hairstons. Just like the American South that they symbolize, their wealth and possessions withered and disappeared.
Despite my general interest in history of the American South, my interest in this book was largely personal. I was raised and now still live and work in Martinsville, Virginia, which is surrounded by Henry County. Henry County and Martinsville were once almost exclusively Hairston land; indeed the historic Martinsville Court House was built on land donated by the Hairstons. Each day on my way to work, I drive past the imposing Berry Hill Plantation home. I run almost daily on Sam Lion's Trail, named for Sam Lion, a runaway slave belonging to the Hairston family. As a child, I swam in Chatmoss Country Club's pool, named for the remains of Chatmoss plantation, upon which it stands. On my way out of town, I pass over Marrowbone creek and I know many who graduated from Magna Vista High School, both Hairston plantation names. And I know many Hairstons locally - the phone book is crowded with the name - descendants of Hairston slaves who adopted the name when they gained their freedom. It amazes me that, while some of this history is still known at a minimum level locally, the main thing that survives the white Hairstons are names.
I loved the first half of this book, which details the Hairstons in their hey day before the Civil War. Wiencek details the family history much in the order in which he researched it, moving geographically from plantation to plantation. I was somewhat relieved that there isn't a lot of pressure on the reader to remember the tangled web of the family tree, which is complicated by cousins marrying cousins, not unlike that of European royal families, as the white Hairstons fought to keep land and riches within the family name. While Wiencek's organization is not chronological or clearly defined by anything other than his physical journey, I don't think any better way could be devised to organize the complicated story he tells.
My favorite aspects of this tale, aside from my avid interest in learning more about my community's history, were on the stories of individual Hairstons - from that of the Hairston who left his fortune and land to his half-black daughter who then disappeared, smuggled away by the white Hairston clan, to the descendent of a Hairston slave who became an actor and was on film with John Wayne and others. It seems that almost all of the Hairstons Wiencek interviewed were candid about their history, including that of black and white relationships and any remaining resentment over past grievances.
My interest waned somewhat in the second half of the book. There is a lengthy chapter following the exploits and hardships of a black Hairston during the Civil War, the details of which dragged for me. Also, as the family became scattered, and the fortune disappeared, the story is less grounded and less about the "Hairstons" and more about disparate individuals who are scattered across the country. I think this more modern account is necessary to see where the intertwined families are now, but it held my interest less.
Overall, a great work of non-fiction about the complicated race relations in the American South, the rise and fall of a virtual empire built on the labor of slaves, and the aftermath of slavery and the transition into a new relationships between two branches of a very intertwined family.
August 29, 2014
My grandma had given me this book and asked me to read it because she wanted to know about our family. I was so busy that I never had time to read it. I just found the book in my grandma's things (she passed away 4 years ago) and decided I should read it. The book was so good. It delve deep into a family that practically built the south. Before I read this book I would always think that I was the black sheep of my family. No one thought like me or had the drive I do. But after reading this book I have learned that I come from a strong line of great people white and black. This book has sparked my interest into how I am connected to these people. I will pursue my family tree.
July 10, 2008
I saw this book on display at the library during Black History month and just had to check it out as my husband's uncle is a HAIRSTON and I'm a genealogist. It was fascinating. Only then did I learn from his uncle that they had heard stories all their lives about this! At one point in history, the daughter of one of the slave holders and the forbidden love between his mistress at the height of the Civil War threatens to leave her the heiress to the wealthiest family in America! It's a fascinating read - a historian's hunt that reads like a fast-paced novel.
March 20, 2025
"It’s amazing to me why we keep loving this country, and this country does not love us back. It’s really so sad."
-NBA Los Angeles Clippers coach Doc Rivers on the shooting of Jacob Blake, the Republican National convention, police brutality, and being black in America
"...it was the destiny of the black Hairstons to enact the exodus embedded in our national story--the...rise of the African-Americans from the dust of slavery...What kind of people could endure such evil and still cling to the country that dispensed it?"
-Henry Wiencek in The Hairstons: An American Family in Black and White. (1999)
* * *
I could not help but reflect on these words from Doc Rivers' recent (August, 2020) heart-wrenching speech as I read Wiencek's fascinating, engrossing, heart-breaking yet ultimately uplifting story of the Hairston family, a family, white and black, whose origins emanate from a rebellious Scotsman, Peter "The Immigrant" Hairston. Peter brought his family to America in 1729, landing in Pennsylvania but eventually settling in Virginia, where the family became tobacco planters and acquired slaves.
The Hairstons is an impeccably researched historical tale that reads like a spell-binding novel. Peter's descendants became one of the richest families in American, establishing more than a dozen plantations throughout Virginia and North Carolina, it's various Hairston owners the masters of more slaves than almost any other family in the South.
In his Introduction, Wiencek explains, "Beneath the layers of lies and myth existed a story the slaveholders and their descendants had kept hidden for almost a century and a half. It was not a story of horror, but of love and heroism powerful enough to shake the myth of the South. In the end, the story of these [black and white Hariston] families is a parable of redemption. It is about the universal human struggle to come to terms with the past. Paradoxically, these families found that one way to transcend the past is to embrace it."
Wiencek, and the late twentieth century Hairston descendants, probe profoundly important questions, some of which can never be fully answered, about their ancestors' relationships and how it affects those who followed, about slavery itself and its legacy, about segregation and inequality.
In writing a book such as this, it can be tricky for the author to insert himself into the story. Objectivity can be lost, interpretations skewed. Yet as in Ron Suskind's A Hope in the Unseen, Wiencek is successful. An critical piece of this puzzle is the author's indefatigable research, both in unearthing documents and letters, photos and artifacts, and well as his several years of interviews with family members, the white Hairstons (who pronounce their name the Scottish way, "Harston," and black Hairstons, who pronounce it as written). Willing cooperation from all segments of the Hairston family filled in countless gaps, as did some serendipitous discoveries.
A complex family tree, generations long, crossing the racial divide, the same names used many times over, nearly royalty-like intermarriages to keep the property within the family (At one point, a widowed mother who married her son-in-law's brother, became her own daughter's sister-in-law, one brother becoming then, father-in-law to his own brother), can be confusing, but Wiencek is successful in keeping the careful reader apprised.
Wiencek also succeeds in bringing to life countless Hairstons, many about whom a full book could be written on them alone. Among them are:
-Ruth Stovall Hairston, a tough businesswoman who keep the plantation thriving even after her husband's death in 1813.
-"Plain" Robert Hairston, the slave owner who could not abide the "peculiar institution," and who left his family in North Carolina to live with blacks in Mississippi. He holds the key to a long buried mystery.
-Jester Hairston, who found work as an extra in Hollywood movies, as a film composer, as a choir director. He was a college graduate who returned to his roots, keeping alive the music of his heritage.
-Joseph Henry Hairston, raised in the North, who after joining the Army during WWII faced a deeper level of racial discrimination during basic training in the South and serving under a racist commander.
-John L. Hairston, a high school teacher and principal, who made a difficult personal choice that had a profound effect on his home town.
-Ever Lee Hairston, who knew in her soul that there was a better way of life than picking cotton as a sharecropper. She embarks on her own through a journey to that betterment, and she fearlessly confronts a white relative.
-Peter Wilson Hairston, late twentieth century owner of the largest plantation, Cooleemee. Wanting to get to the truth, he unfailingly answered Wiencek's probing questions. He restored his family home and also wrote his family history.
The family's stories are boundless and they are endlessly fascinating.
No matter how many books are written about the Civil War, the South, and slavery, there are always new perspectives, compelling, captivating stories that help us to understand the past. The Hairstons in one of them.
Highly recommended
-NBA Los Angeles Clippers coach Doc Rivers on the shooting of Jacob Blake, the Republican National convention, police brutality, and being black in America
"...it was the destiny of the black Hairstons to enact the exodus embedded in our national story--the...rise of the African-Americans from the dust of slavery...What kind of people could endure such evil and still cling to the country that dispensed it?"
-Henry Wiencek in The Hairstons: An American Family in Black and White. (1999)
* * *
I could not help but reflect on these words from Doc Rivers' recent (August, 2020) heart-wrenching speech as I read Wiencek's fascinating, engrossing, heart-breaking yet ultimately uplifting story of the Hairston family, a family, white and black, whose origins emanate from a rebellious Scotsman, Peter "The Immigrant" Hairston. Peter brought his family to America in 1729, landing in Pennsylvania but eventually settling in Virginia, where the family became tobacco planters and acquired slaves.
The Hairstons is an impeccably researched historical tale that reads like a spell-binding novel. Peter's descendants became one of the richest families in American, establishing more than a dozen plantations throughout Virginia and North Carolina, it's various Hairston owners the masters of more slaves than almost any other family in the South.
In his Introduction, Wiencek explains, "Beneath the layers of lies and myth existed a story the slaveholders and their descendants had kept hidden for almost a century and a half. It was not a story of horror, but of love and heroism powerful enough to shake the myth of the South. In the end, the story of these [black and white Hariston] families is a parable of redemption. It is about the universal human struggle to come to terms with the past. Paradoxically, these families found that one way to transcend the past is to embrace it."
Wiencek, and the late twentieth century Hairston descendants, probe profoundly important questions, some of which can never be fully answered, about their ancestors' relationships and how it affects those who followed, about slavery itself and its legacy, about segregation and inequality.
In writing a book such as this, it can be tricky for the author to insert himself into the story. Objectivity can be lost, interpretations skewed. Yet as in Ron Suskind's A Hope in the Unseen, Wiencek is successful. An critical piece of this puzzle is the author's indefatigable research, both in unearthing documents and letters, photos and artifacts, and well as his several years of interviews with family members, the white Hairstons (who pronounce their name the Scottish way, "Harston," and black Hairstons, who pronounce it as written). Willing cooperation from all segments of the Hairston family filled in countless gaps, as did some serendipitous discoveries.
A complex family tree, generations long, crossing the racial divide, the same names used many times over, nearly royalty-like intermarriages to keep the property within the family (At one point, a widowed mother who married her son-in-law's brother, became her own daughter's sister-in-law, one brother becoming then, father-in-law to his own brother), can be confusing, but Wiencek is successful in keeping the careful reader apprised.
Wiencek also succeeds in bringing to life countless Hairstons, many about whom a full book could be written on them alone. Among them are:
-Ruth Stovall Hairston, a tough businesswoman who keep the plantation thriving even after her husband's death in 1813.
-"Plain" Robert Hairston, the slave owner who could not abide the "peculiar institution," and who left his family in North Carolina to live with blacks in Mississippi. He holds the key to a long buried mystery.
-Jester Hairston, who found work as an extra in Hollywood movies, as a film composer, as a choir director. He was a college graduate who returned to his roots, keeping alive the music of his heritage.
-Joseph Henry Hairston, raised in the North, who after joining the Army during WWII faced a deeper level of racial discrimination during basic training in the South and serving under a racist commander.
-John L. Hairston, a high school teacher and principal, who made a difficult personal choice that had a profound effect on his home town.
-Ever Lee Hairston, who knew in her soul that there was a better way of life than picking cotton as a sharecropper. She embarks on her own through a journey to that betterment, and she fearlessly confronts a white relative.
-Peter Wilson Hairston, late twentieth century owner of the largest plantation, Cooleemee. Wanting to get to the truth, he unfailingly answered Wiencek's probing questions. He restored his family home and also wrote his family history.
The family's stories are boundless and they are endlessly fascinating.
No matter how many books are written about the Civil War, the South, and slavery, there are always new perspectives, compelling, captivating stories that help us to understand the past. The Hairstons in one of them.
Highly recommended
November 20, 2011
Henry Wiencek was perhaps the perfect person to take on the frankly daunting task of telling this family's story, and telling it well. He has written on the American South numerous times and came to the project with the appropriate credentials. However, I suspect that even he was surprised by the amount of work involved in getting to the heart of the Hairstons. He was presented with family trees and stacks of documents that would give the most intrepid of genealogists migraines, conflicting family memories and, in some cases, silence on subjects that were still too painful for discussion.
Peter "The Immigrant" Hairston arrived in America in 1729 and very shortly began to amass land and slaves. By the time of the Civil War, the Hairstons had grown to such a dynasty by dint of their inter-marriage, business savvy and human property that they were, it is said, the largest landowners in the South.
What Wiencek determined when digging into the family history was that you could not tell the white and black stories separately, because they were intermingled in numerous ways not only through shared experiences, but shared bloodlines. We have the usual, deplorable practice of masters violating the black women on their plantations, but we also discover that there was at least one instance, and perhaps more, where a white Hairston lived in as close as was legal to a marriage with a black Hairston. That story is fascinating and frustrating, for both Wiencek and the reader.
This is an amazing family. The descendants of the Hairston slaves have gone on to do things as diverse as work on the team that put Neil Armstrong on the moon, and act in films and compose music in Hollywood (remember the beautiful song Amen from Lilies in the Field? That was composed by a Hairston). The white Hairstons, meanwhile, have largely clung to the antebellum myth of moonlight and magnolias. I was particularly amused by one plantation owner's surprise and annoyance that former slaves chose to leave her when they were Emancipated. She honestly believed they would just continue to serve her. You'd need a shovel to get through that amount of denial and delusion.
Peter "The Immigrant" Hairston arrived in America in 1729 and very shortly began to amass land and slaves. By the time of the Civil War, the Hairstons had grown to such a dynasty by dint of their inter-marriage, business savvy and human property that they were, it is said, the largest landowners in the South.
What Wiencek determined when digging into the family history was that you could not tell the white and black stories separately, because they were intermingled in numerous ways not only through shared experiences, but shared bloodlines. We have the usual, deplorable practice of masters violating the black women on their plantations, but we also discover that there was at least one instance, and perhaps more, where a white Hairston lived in as close as was legal to a marriage with a black Hairston. That story is fascinating and frustrating, for both Wiencek and the reader.
This is an amazing family. The descendants of the Hairston slaves have gone on to do things as diverse as work on the team that put Neil Armstrong on the moon, and act in films and compose music in Hollywood (remember the beautiful song Amen from Lilies in the Field? That was composed by a Hairston). The white Hairstons, meanwhile, have largely clung to the antebellum myth of moonlight and magnolias. I was particularly amused by one plantation owner's surprise and annoyance that former slaves chose to leave her when they were Emancipated. She honestly believed they would just continue to serve her. You'd need a shovel to get through that amount of denial and delusion.
March 26, 2009
This is a book I revisit frequently, as I continue on my meandering, sidetracked route to understanding human motivation. Where better to try to understand the history of your country then in the history of a dynasty that tried to hide and/or profit from half of its family members?
Wiencek does a hell of a job in getting people to talk to him--his persistence pays off in filling out the family history of the entire Hairston family.
Don't just take my recommendation--this book got high praise from J. Yardley of the Washington Post Book World, and JY tightfisted with compliments and only hands them out when they are truly deserved.
This book brought forth to me a well of information as well as a good demonstration of the researcher's process, how and where Wiencek went about gathering his source material.
Wiencek does a hell of a job in getting people to talk to him--his persistence pays off in filling out the family history of the entire Hairston family.
Don't just take my recommendation--this book got high praise from J. Yardley of the Washington Post Book World, and JY tightfisted with compliments and only hands them out when they are truly deserved.
This book brought forth to me a well of information as well as a good demonstration of the researcher's process, how and where Wiencek went about gathering his source material.
January 3, 2018
It took me awhile to warm to this book, but it became more interesting when the author established the biological link between at least some of the white and black Hairstons. The stories from the years of the Civil War and Reconstruction, as well as World War II, were intriguing. Although Reconstruction failed on most fronts, it was rewarding to read about how many well-meaning individuals sought to lift the lot of the recently freed African-Americans. After serving so bravely and effectively in the Civil War and World War I, it was a travesty to once again hear how poorly our nation treated black soldiers during World War II. I will never regard George Marshall and certain other World War II era leaders in exactly the same way.
October 7, 2014
The Hairston family is one of the largest clans in America. The family was once one of the wealthiest in the States, with numerous plantations covering huge swaths of the South up until the end of the Civil War. Needless to say, this wealth was built on the backs of the thousands of slaves that the family owned.
Part of what makes this family history so interesting is that that Hairston clan consists of both black and white families, many of whom live close to each other. Ironically, while the white family members lost most of their land and fortunes after the Civil War, the black members found the strength to try to overcome the rampant racism of the South and even managed to buy parcels of land that had been part of the same plantations where their ancestors had been slaves. The author explores how the present day family members from both sides have come to terms with the family's bitter history of slavery, and how they feel towards one another.
It was a little challenging at times following who was who (this is a HUGE family tree to follow!), but it was definitely worth the effort. This is not just the story of the Hairstons, but the story of all Americans as Wiencek gives both black and white perspectives on racism in the South and in America in general from the early 1800's to the present day. An excellent book!
Part of what makes this family history so interesting is that that Hairston clan consists of both black and white families, many of whom live close to each other. Ironically, while the white family members lost most of their land and fortunes after the Civil War, the black members found the strength to try to overcome the rampant racism of the South and even managed to buy parcels of land that had been part of the same plantations where their ancestors had been slaves. The author explores how the present day family members from both sides have come to terms with the family's bitter history of slavery, and how they feel towards one another.
It was a little challenging at times following who was who (this is a HUGE family tree to follow!), but it was definitely worth the effort. This is not just the story of the Hairstons, but the story of all Americans as Wiencek gives both black and white perspectives on racism in the South and in America in general from the early 1800's to the present day. An excellent book!
February 23, 2014
"I did not want to like this book." Each of us in my book group said this. Each of us loved it. For various reasons, we all loved it. I loved the genealogical aspect and stories that came up about these families. I loved the exquisite sense of history the author gave in analyzing the data he found through exhaustive search of records and interviews.
Growing upin California in the 60s, I was caught up in the civil rights movement, if only vicariously. But I never understood it. I never really "got" what racism was, and how pervasive it is, even today. I was aware of stereotypes. But I did not live within the Jim Crow drama. The hate and violence was only something on the news and when integration of schools was accomplished through law enforcement, I guess, I thought it was over.
Wiencek describes the era through black and white experience in the South, and now, 50 years later, I think I begin to "get it".
I'm glad I read this. I think it is an important work. Highly recommend is you are interested in genealogical research, telling family stories, the civil rights movement, or Black history in AMerica.
Growing upin California in the 60s, I was caught up in the civil rights movement, if only vicariously. But I never understood it. I never really "got" what racism was, and how pervasive it is, even today. I was aware of stereotypes. But I did not live within the Jim Crow drama. The hate and violence was only something on the news and when integration of schools was accomplished through law enforcement, I guess, I thought it was over.
Wiencek describes the era through black and white experience in the South, and now, 50 years later, I think I begin to "get it".
I'm glad I read this. I think it is an important work. Highly recommend is you are interested in genealogical research, telling family stories, the civil rights movement, or Black history in AMerica.
June 22, 2009
A family descended from slave owners in the south side of Virginia and the piedmont of North Carolina both whites and blacks, It was a common name in
Danville Virginia where I handled a death penalty case and one of the jurors on the case, a black man, was a Hairston. The black Hairstons appear to be on the ascendancy now but then again it is likely that there were many more of them than the slave masters in their half dozen plantations.
Danville Virginia where I handled a death penalty case and one of the jurors on the case, a black man, was a Hairston. The black Hairstons appear to be on the ascendancy now but then again it is likely that there were many more of them than the slave masters in their half dozen plantations.
August 16, 2008
One American family, as they have accepted each other, the blacks and the whites, through slavery, emancipation, segregation, discrimination, lynchings, reconciliation.
A book to reread this year, when a Black man is running for President of the United States.
Respectful, painful and joyful, and beautifully written.
A book to reread this year, when a Black man is running for President of the United States.
Respectful, painful and joyful, and beautifully written.
January 2, 2020
Thanks to a family weekend, I met Henry Wiencek and spent time talking to him. Otherwise, I don't think I would ever have read this book.
The Hairstons revealed many things to me about the extreme wealth of this family; the 'ethical' nature of white families who did not sell their slaves; the plantations that were the result of both black and white labor, knowledge and experience; and the author's own understanding of the effects of slavery on black and white families.
Wiencek uses his own path of research and discovery as the backbone of this book. He stumbled upon the Hairstons while working on an assignment about old family homes in America and became increasingly interested in the family. It took him seven years to pour through countless papers in order to understand the genealogy of a family that intermarried in order to preserve its wealth, and that fathered, but did not acknowledge, black descendants. It also took a long time and many visits to get black family members to open up and reveal stories about their ancestors. He created a genealogical chart, although even the chart can be challenging due to repetitive first names.
This book is so rich in information that it is hard to choose what I liked best. New details about slavery and Southern culture were important, but understanding the strengths and weaknesses of slaves was even more important. I've seen instances of exceptional forgiveness among black Christians and thought their faith was what guided them, but this book reveals a deeper truth - the Hairstons suffered for centuries, faced hard facts, and chose to address hatred with love and forgiveness. This was not superficial forgiveness, it was forgiveness born of deep pain. This deeper truth permeates their relationships with their white Hairston family as well as with the world at large. They speak the truth with the belief that relationships will hold fast. They respect the actions of their ancestors as they learned to adopt the roles demanded by slavery. For example, one contemporary black Hairston came to understand his grandparents who continued to serve white Hairstons long after emancipation because they had been born and bred to believe that their survival depended on mutual loyalty.
This is not always an easy book to read, but I highly recommend it. If you feel like you are getting bogged down, please do not stop - you will be rewarded by reading it to the end.
The Hairstons revealed many things to me about the extreme wealth of this family; the 'ethical' nature of white families who did not sell their slaves; the plantations that were the result of both black and white labor, knowledge and experience; and the author's own understanding of the effects of slavery on black and white families.
Wiencek uses his own path of research and discovery as the backbone of this book. He stumbled upon the Hairstons while working on an assignment about old family homes in America and became increasingly interested in the family. It took him seven years to pour through countless papers in order to understand the genealogy of a family that intermarried in order to preserve its wealth, and that fathered, but did not acknowledge, black descendants. It also took a long time and many visits to get black family members to open up and reveal stories about their ancestors. He created a genealogical chart, although even the chart can be challenging due to repetitive first names.
This book is so rich in information that it is hard to choose what I liked best. New details about slavery and Southern culture were important, but understanding the strengths and weaknesses of slaves was even more important. I've seen instances of exceptional forgiveness among black Christians and thought their faith was what guided them, but this book reveals a deeper truth - the Hairstons suffered for centuries, faced hard facts, and chose to address hatred with love and forgiveness. This was not superficial forgiveness, it was forgiveness born of deep pain. This deeper truth permeates their relationships with their white Hairston family as well as with the world at large. They speak the truth with the belief that relationships will hold fast. They respect the actions of their ancestors as they learned to adopt the roles demanded by slavery. For example, one contemporary black Hairston came to understand his grandparents who continued to serve white Hairstons long after emancipation because they had been born and bred to believe that their survival depended on mutual loyalty.
This is not always an easy book to read, but I highly recommend it. If you feel like you are getting bogged down, please do not stop - you will be rewarded by reading it to the end.
July 29, 2020
My high school friend, reached out when he saw the books I was reading and my desire to learn more. This book is about HIS family’s history. But it’s indeed all of our our history. It’s complex, difficult, and makes me realize how brave are the ones who face their past head on, whether on the side of the oppressed, the oppressor, or BOTH.
I learned so much history, but I’m moved by the individual stories of many family members. Two stand out.
Joseph Hairston, a brave veteran of WW2 who endured rampant racism while fighting for his country “in an army that clung to its culture of segregation... despite President Harry Truman’s 1948 executive order officially forbidding discrimination in the military.” He bravely replaced what could have become embittered, deadly hatred with life-saving love.
And Ever Lee Hairston, born blind in 1944 on a plantation where she later worked as a sharecropper and a maid. It was where her ancestors once labored as slaves. She snuck away from the fields to receive an education, remained cordial with the white Hairstons (once slave owners), and had the opportunity to name and confront the past at a Hairston reunion.
“Ever Lee has thought a great deal about her family’s past, about the mentality of slavery and the ‘slavery-like’ time she grew up in. She had also pondered the bond between the white and black Hairstons of Cooleemee. She spoke of her past as an outpouring of nostalgia and pain, resentment and love- powerful strands of emotion that were contradictory but rose up together, so tightly woven that they could not be pulled apart. With her anguish over her history came a determination to embrace it.”
“I truly believe that you don’t know where you’re going unless you know where you’ve been.“ -Ever Lee Hairston
I think she speaks for all of us.
I learned so much history, but I’m moved by the individual stories of many family members. Two stand out.
Joseph Hairston, a brave veteran of WW2 who endured rampant racism while fighting for his country “in an army that clung to its culture of segregation... despite President Harry Truman’s 1948 executive order officially forbidding discrimination in the military.” He bravely replaced what could have become embittered, deadly hatred with life-saving love.
And Ever Lee Hairston, born blind in 1944 on a plantation where she later worked as a sharecropper and a maid. It was where her ancestors once labored as slaves. She snuck away from the fields to receive an education, remained cordial with the white Hairstons (once slave owners), and had the opportunity to name and confront the past at a Hairston reunion.
“Ever Lee has thought a great deal about her family’s past, about the mentality of slavery and the ‘slavery-like’ time she grew up in. She had also pondered the bond between the white and black Hairstons of Cooleemee. She spoke of her past as an outpouring of nostalgia and pain, resentment and love- powerful strands of emotion that were contradictory but rose up together, so tightly woven that they could not be pulled apart. With her anguish over her history came a determination to embrace it.”
“I truly believe that you don’t know where you’re going unless you know where you’ve been.“ -Ever Lee Hairston
I think she speaks for all of us.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
March 2, 2023
This book clearly offers a solid example of research into the complicated relationships between enslaving families and enslaved families and their descendants. I appreciated the descriptions of the work that went into tracking down stories, and the honesty in showing how many questions are left unanswered. There is a lot to digest from the 150+ years covered, and powerful examples of how different perspectives on race relations evolved from personal experience.
Yet I wanted more from my reading. I wanted to see some reflection on how deeply the wrongs to enslaved families continue to be seen and perpetuated. I think a white writer trying to tackle this topic is inevitably going to be at a disadvantage when it comes to disrupting white solidarity and white narratives around racist systems, and I was quite aware of that shortcoming as I read this book.
Perhaps this was more revelatory or groundbreaking when it was first published in 1999, but in 2023, the flaws are glaringly evident. It was certainly educational to read it, though, and continues to give food for thought about the legacies of our families and the country.
Yet I wanted more from my reading. I wanted to see some reflection on how deeply the wrongs to enslaved families continue to be seen and perpetuated. I think a white writer trying to tackle this topic is inevitably going to be at a disadvantage when it comes to disrupting white solidarity and white narratives around racist systems, and I was quite aware of that shortcoming as I read this book.
Perhaps this was more revelatory or groundbreaking when it was first published in 1999, but in 2023, the flaws are glaringly evident. It was certainly educational to read it, though, and continues to give food for thought about the legacies of our families and the country.
July 8, 2025
BOOK REVIEW - The Hairstons, An American Family in Black and White by Henry Wiencek (10.13.24)
My daughter-in-law comes from a family with deep roots in Virginia. When I met her parents we got into a discussion on our shared southern roots which led to the scar of slavery in our family tree. Her family, the Hairstons, were one of the largest salve owners in the South. That led to me finding this book.
The book opens with a striking and symbolic encounter between an elderly white judge, Judge Peter Hairston, and his longtime Black friend, Robert Hairston, as they discuss the idea of a joint family reunion involving both Black and white branches of the Hairston family. This sets the tone for the book's deep exploration of the intertwined legacies of slavery, kinship, denial, and memory. The conversation between the judge and Robert captures the awkwardness, hope, and complexity of racial reconciliation in the American South.
Judge Hairston, a descendant of one of the largest slaveholding families in U.S. history, initially seems uncomfortable with the idea of a reunion of both branches of the family tree. The reunion would mean acknowledging not only a shared surname but also a shared bloodline, rooted in slavery and its generational consequences. Robert Hairston, on the other hand, pushes gently for recognition and unity, embodying the dignity and persistence of Black Americans who carry the name of the families that once enslaved them.
This exchange encapsulates the central tension of the book: the collision between a proud white Southern legacy and the moral reckoning with its roots in slavery. The judge’s discomfort is not just personal—it’s symbolic of an entire region’s reluctance to face historical truth. The author uses this moment to frame the broader narrative, which unfolds over generations, detailing how the Hairston dynasty—spanning Virginia, North Carolina, and Mississippi—built its wealth through slavery, and how both Black and white descendants have coped with that legacy.
The book is a gripping, at times unsettling, portrait of generational wealth, violence, denial, memory, and redemption. The book stands as a powerful testimony to both the enduring scars of slavery and the persistent efforts by descendants to reconcile that legacy. The positive legacy of the Hairstons, lies in their meticulous record-keeping and the sheer scale of documentation left behind. These documents, including plantation ledgers and legal archives, allow a rare view into the operations of slavery and the lives of those enslaved. However, the white Hairstons also stand as chilling examples of how normalized, even bureaucratic, slavery had become in Southern life. Their legacy includes the amassing of wealth and power through the exploitation and subjugation of thousands of human beings.
Among the most compelling narratives is that of Peter Hairston, a white lawyer in the family who defied the racial norms of his time by marrying a Black woman and fathering a son. Knowing that societal and legal barriers would likely block his son from inheriting, Peter orchestrated a quiet legal maneuver. By transferring property under different names and using legal intermediaries, he ensured his son would receive land and wealth, circumventing the racial codes of the time. His act—quiet but revolutionary—stands as a rare moment of justice in a story full of injustice.
Wiencek also deserves praise for refusing to romanticize or excuse the white Hairstons, even as he renders them with complexity. Many of them refused to acknowledge or reconcile with the Black side of the family well into the 20th century. At family reunions, invitations were segregated, relationships denied, and histories whitewashed. Yet there are moments of reckoning as well—conversations and meetings between descendants who seek to understand the truth and face it together.
The Black Hairstons, in contrast, are portrayed with quiet dignity and resilience. Their strength in maintaining family bonds, their pursuit of education, and their persistent demand for recognition challenge the narrative that history silences the oppressed. They are the moral heart of the story. In sum, The Hairstons is a searing and necessary book. It neither demonizes nor absolves, but it insists on telling the full truth. Wiencek gives voice to those enslaved and honors their descendants, while holding their oppressors to account without denying their humanity. It is a story of what it means to be American, told through bloodlines that refuse to be separated.
Quotes:
“Peter Hairston’s gamble was as subtle as it was radical. He never challenged the racial order publicly, never wrote an abolitionist tract, never marched or preached. But in the sanctum of legal arcana, he undermined the very structure of white supremacy for his son’s sake. He whispered rebellion in the language of the law, encoding love as a transfer of deeds and titles. And in doing so, he placed one stone of justice atop a mountain of injury.”
“They saw themselves as fathers of an extended family—white and Black—but refused to give that family equality, or even humanity. The paternalism they believed in was not love but control, a mechanism to maintain dominance with a genteel smile. The Black Hairstons, meanwhile, knew the truth of their bondage; they knew the weight of that ‘fatherhood.’ And still, many of them carried the name with complex pride, a symbol of survival rather than shame.”
“What do we do with a legacy so large, so painful, so tangled in our national identity? We do what the Hairstons—Black and white—have begun to do. We name it. We gather it in stories. We carry it not as guilt, but as responsibility. To understand, to teach, to remember. The past cannot be healed by forgetting. Only by acknowledgment does it lose its power to wound.”
“In that quiet conversation on a Southern porch, the centuries of slavery, blood, and silence sat between them like ghosts at a family table. The judge represented the past that refused to be buried. Robert represented the future that refused to be denied.”
My daughter-in-law comes from a family with deep roots in Virginia. When I met her parents we got into a discussion on our shared southern roots which led to the scar of slavery in our family tree. Her family, the Hairstons, were one of the largest salve owners in the South. That led to me finding this book.
The book opens with a striking and symbolic encounter between an elderly white judge, Judge Peter Hairston, and his longtime Black friend, Robert Hairston, as they discuss the idea of a joint family reunion involving both Black and white branches of the Hairston family. This sets the tone for the book's deep exploration of the intertwined legacies of slavery, kinship, denial, and memory. The conversation between the judge and Robert captures the awkwardness, hope, and complexity of racial reconciliation in the American South.
Judge Hairston, a descendant of one of the largest slaveholding families in U.S. history, initially seems uncomfortable with the idea of a reunion of both branches of the family tree. The reunion would mean acknowledging not only a shared surname but also a shared bloodline, rooted in slavery and its generational consequences. Robert Hairston, on the other hand, pushes gently for recognition and unity, embodying the dignity and persistence of Black Americans who carry the name of the families that once enslaved them.
This exchange encapsulates the central tension of the book: the collision between a proud white Southern legacy and the moral reckoning with its roots in slavery. The judge’s discomfort is not just personal—it’s symbolic of an entire region’s reluctance to face historical truth. The author uses this moment to frame the broader narrative, which unfolds over generations, detailing how the Hairston dynasty—spanning Virginia, North Carolina, and Mississippi—built its wealth through slavery, and how both Black and white descendants have coped with that legacy.
The book is a gripping, at times unsettling, portrait of generational wealth, violence, denial, memory, and redemption. The book stands as a powerful testimony to both the enduring scars of slavery and the persistent efforts by descendants to reconcile that legacy. The positive legacy of the Hairstons, lies in their meticulous record-keeping and the sheer scale of documentation left behind. These documents, including plantation ledgers and legal archives, allow a rare view into the operations of slavery and the lives of those enslaved. However, the white Hairstons also stand as chilling examples of how normalized, even bureaucratic, slavery had become in Southern life. Their legacy includes the amassing of wealth and power through the exploitation and subjugation of thousands of human beings.
Among the most compelling narratives is that of Peter Hairston, a white lawyer in the family who defied the racial norms of his time by marrying a Black woman and fathering a son. Knowing that societal and legal barriers would likely block his son from inheriting, Peter orchestrated a quiet legal maneuver. By transferring property under different names and using legal intermediaries, he ensured his son would receive land and wealth, circumventing the racial codes of the time. His act—quiet but revolutionary—stands as a rare moment of justice in a story full of injustice.
Wiencek also deserves praise for refusing to romanticize or excuse the white Hairstons, even as he renders them with complexity. Many of them refused to acknowledge or reconcile with the Black side of the family well into the 20th century. At family reunions, invitations were segregated, relationships denied, and histories whitewashed. Yet there are moments of reckoning as well—conversations and meetings between descendants who seek to understand the truth and face it together.
The Black Hairstons, in contrast, are portrayed with quiet dignity and resilience. Their strength in maintaining family bonds, their pursuit of education, and their persistent demand for recognition challenge the narrative that history silences the oppressed. They are the moral heart of the story. In sum, The Hairstons is a searing and necessary book. It neither demonizes nor absolves, but it insists on telling the full truth. Wiencek gives voice to those enslaved and honors their descendants, while holding their oppressors to account without denying their humanity. It is a story of what it means to be American, told through bloodlines that refuse to be separated.
Quotes:
“Peter Hairston’s gamble was as subtle as it was radical. He never challenged the racial order publicly, never wrote an abolitionist tract, never marched or preached. But in the sanctum of legal arcana, he undermined the very structure of white supremacy for his son’s sake. He whispered rebellion in the language of the law, encoding love as a transfer of deeds and titles. And in doing so, he placed one stone of justice atop a mountain of injury.”
“They saw themselves as fathers of an extended family—white and Black—but refused to give that family equality, or even humanity. The paternalism they believed in was not love but control, a mechanism to maintain dominance with a genteel smile. The Black Hairstons, meanwhile, knew the truth of their bondage; they knew the weight of that ‘fatherhood.’ And still, many of them carried the name with complex pride, a symbol of survival rather than shame.”
“What do we do with a legacy so large, so painful, so tangled in our national identity? We do what the Hairstons—Black and white—have begun to do. We name it. We gather it in stories. We carry it not as guilt, but as responsibility. To understand, to teach, to remember. The past cannot be healed by forgetting. Only by acknowledgment does it lose its power to wound.”
“In that quiet conversation on a Southern porch, the centuries of slavery, blood, and silence sat between them like ghosts at a family table. The judge represented the past that refused to be buried. Robert represented the future that refused to be denied.”
May 29, 2017
I found out about this book because another member of a Facebook genealogy group mentioned it. One of my favorite subjects is local and family history, so I grabbed a copy when I saw one for sale. I was not disappointed; I think this is the best book I've read so far this year. The author covers the story of the Hairston family, black and white, through the years from slavery to the 1990s. I found his viewpoint to be compassionate and sometimes sentimental, but he did a good job of laying out the facts of the complicated relationships between African Americans and whites in the South. I was pleased to learn much more about the Hairston family and the many places they lived and worked. This book is going on my "keep" shelf and I recommend it for anyone interested in genealogy and local history.
September 9, 2018
I am reading The Hairstons for the second time. The first time must pre-date Goodreads because it is not recorded. It is worth reading a second time.
A few personal observations. We moved to Raleigh, NC in 1976. Our children attended public schools just a short time after the city schools were combined with the county schools to promote integration. We sent our kids to inner city schools that were magnet schools and they were wonderful. They were definitely integrated. I don't think I realized completely how big a change that was. The Hairstons talks about a small NC town's schools being integrated in 1968.
I am also wishing I could ask my dad now about his time as a soldier during WWII and how much he experienced the segregation of races as recorded in The Hairstons.
A few personal observations. We moved to Raleigh, NC in 1976. Our children attended public schools just a short time after the city schools were combined with the county schools to promote integration. We sent our kids to inner city schools that were magnet schools and they were wonderful. They were definitely integrated. I don't think I realized completely how big a change that was. The Hairstons talks about a small NC town's schools being integrated in 1968.
I am also wishing I could ask my dad now about his time as a soldier during WWII and how much he experienced the segregation of races as recorded in The Hairstons.
August 20, 2019
The Hairston family. Interesting history of the black & white family with the same name joined together forever as descendants of the plantation owners and slaves. After the Civil War, it’s an interesting read to see why certain families failed and why they prospered. The two long chapters on The wars were my least favorite but they were important to telling the Hairston story.
February 8, 2023
I live in the county that borders Henry County, VA on the northern side, and all my life I have heard bits and pieces about the Hairston family and its diverse roots. This is a fascinating account of the family's history and its efforts to reach a place of forgiveness and reconciliation. It's poignant in some places and painful in others, but always interesting.
July 11, 2023
An Honest Attempt at National Truth and Reconciliation Buttressed by Family Ties
A hard look at American slavery in the context of the family of one of this country’s largest slave holding concerns. A complicated story of exploitive and uneven interdependence infused with the full spectrum of human sentiment.
A hard look at American slavery in the context of the family of one of this country’s largest slave holding concerns. A complicated story of exploitive and uneven interdependence infused with the full spectrum of human sentiment.
July 13, 2025
I picked this book to read actually due to the series, "The Gilded Age." It introduced characters who were both former slaves and those who had been Northern freeborn and who had created a society that was both within and outside the aristocracy of white New York.
This book introduced me to a part of our American history that still resonates in the 21st century.
This book introduced me to a part of our American history that still resonates in the 21st century.
October 10, 2020
The largest American family, the white Harstons and the black Hairstons, traced back through the tobacco plantations and across the United States. Lessons of love, tolerance, forgiveness and acceptance.
November 3, 2021
The history of a family that doubles as the history of racism in America. Mostly full of chapters/biographies that are very good, some great ones, and only a couple that I wished were cut in half.
December 15, 2017
Phenomenal and fascinating book.
June 19, 2018
You have to love history to get through this one! I really enjoyed it!
August 11, 2018
I could not put this book down! It reads like a novel but explores the history of slavery, Jim Crow, and the civil rights movements through a family that lived on a plantation.
May 8, 2020
An important book, especially for anyone from the American South.
December 19, 2020
More of that "hidden history" that we all need to know about--and most likely have in many of our own families, if anyone has the time and energy to uncover it!
November 14, 2022
This book really kept my mouth open a lot. Understanding the significance of this family and the lengths they went to keep slaves.
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