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deep fried honey cheating‘ ‘deepfriedhoney husband cheat‘ ‘deepfriedhoney divorce‘ ‘deep fried honey kevin‘ …lord if I had a dollar for how many times I’ve seen these phrases in my Google Search Console… I’d have a few hundred dollars.

If you missed it on my socials, I’m getting divorced. And since our separation, I’ve been coming to terms with the fact that my soon-to-be-ex-husband was abusive. And a covert narcissist (I know my therapist is glad I’ve stopped arguing with him about it, because I just didn’t see it at first). And has done a f—ing number on me, to put it mildly.

Your loving response to this news, and the devastating fact that so many can relate to my current experience, is why you’re reading this. Welcome to my MTV diary!

Note: This project is members-only, and requires a valid payment method for identity verification purposes*. Membership is only available to those that identify as women or femmes.

What You Can Expect

  • My Journal. Transparency can be freeing, right? That’s what I’m going for. I hope it helps me, and I hope that it helps someone else, too. It’s been tough to write since all this happened, but it’s a talent of mine that I’ve left untapped for the last decade, and it’s time to reclaim it.
  • Podcasts. I can be super long winded so select journal entries will include audio versions. I’ll read it to you, instead of you reading it yourself! Or you can read along. Whatever you want.  
  • Resources. Any and everything that has helped me so far, I’m sharing. My reading list (and digital copies of the full books themselves, when available), the notes I’ve taken during my therapy sessions, online content that has spoken to me, etc.
  • Vlogs. I’ve kept a private video journal all year, and I’ll be posting those. I said that I’d be sharing my whole journey, raw and unfiltered, and that’s what I’m going to do. I’m still making them, and I’ll share them as I go.
  • Receipts. I’m not one for making baseless claims. Videos, photos, voice memos, screenshots, letters, phone records – I can back up every single thing I say or write. I’ve found this to be necessary when you’re dealing with a pathological liar, because damn can they paint a picture that hides their villainy!

This is nerve wracking, but I believe it will be cathartic, and I trust the community I’ve been lucky enough to build around my recipes. So here we go! Thanks for jumping on board this journey with me. Here’s to shining a light on our shared experiences and offering hope to anyone who needs it.

With gratitude and anticipation,

María

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