Can I just tell you how amazing it is to be in love? I have found someone in the last couple months that has absolutely redefined all of my ideas about myself and the world. I am learning, finally, after years of pent up energy guarding myself -- how incredible it is to let someone in. And I am realizing in the process that there is a whole wonderful world out there for young men to explore. There is a healthy, integrated, exciting, sexy, beautiful world of love that men can have. I think my own life experience has shown me that being gay can be more than just being honest. It can be a celebration of life.