If you meant your soul mate early but put off the big ring event, and then spent a long time chasing your dreams, while still staying in touch with your soul mate, you will really like this movie.
If you spent a long time waiting for the right person to come along, refusing the advances of numerous decent mate selections in hopes of finding the 'right' person, and eventually did, you will like this movie
If you have made secret and very long sacrifices for some one you love, with them being oblivious to the fact, and finally was acknowledged for your silent sacrifice, you will like this movie.
If you jumped quickly into a marriage, and either gutted it out or eventually moved on to another and so on, you will not understand this movie
If you have had the fortune of having quick success and things pretty much fell your way in the relationship/ work world, you will not really relate to this movie
If you have not spent a lot of time trying to accomplish something, while putting off relationships, this movie will not be for you
If you have never waited a long time for a relationship to come to fruition, one of the messages in this movie will be lost on you
In summary, this is one of the most unique romance movies I've seen, and thats coming from one of those guys that groans through most chick flicks
I tossed it a ten for the uniqueness of the script, some people watching it just didn't get parts of the movie. My wife and I understood everything in it, and the undercurrent messages. From a lot of comments I have read on the movie, many of the subtle nuances of the movie go over the head of some viewers.
