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I must admit that at first I watched this because of Jun Yeol. But damn this is too real, the plot is superb, each character's acting is top notch, the conversations are deep. This is a K-Drama for people who seek for real conversations between grown-ups who are matured enough to go through all the tough stuff and talk about it with a cool head.

The drama truly portrays how you can be with someone for a long time but they are the last person who really knows about you. They are together but they are growing apart, and apparently, what you need is not a person who just be there for you, but a person who understands you.

I felt sad and depressed watching this and need to detox myself by watching Running Man. Yes, their acting is that good. I was totally immersed in the story.

For me this drama really catch my feelings. I watch from the first episode till the last episode smoothly without skip. What I really love about this drama is the music overall and the story. I can relate with both main character. But many people will not like this drama. I even read some article that say this drama was place second for the worst k-drama this year. It says that the 17 people who vote this drama is from the insider which I don't know why. Maybe because they feel like there is no solid solution for the both main character till the end. For me, in this drama doesn't have a really bad people or a really good people. They are just being human. Also, I really like the ending. Even though we don't know if Bu Jeong was divorced with his husband or not, I really like where they confess to each other about their wrong feeling at that time.

In a nutshell, I definitely will remember this drama for a really long time. I really appreciate this drama and it really give me some inspirations about life.

A slow, quiet and delicate show.

The narration was on point, the vibe of the drama was consistent, the portrayal of the characters was calm and smooth and the storyline was well executed.

It looks more like an artistic movie than a drama.

A mature and heavy storyline focuses on dark themes, such as depression, suicide and abusive relationships. The loneliness of those who live alone, of those sharing a house with someone acquainted, with a lover, a husband, and yet still having this void and drift among them. The struggles of finding that your loved one is suffering in silence, or not finding at all until it's too late. The endless fear of becoming nothing. Of achieving nothing with life, not living but merely existing. The relationship between the female lead and her father has equal poignancy and dignity.

OST is wonderful. Background music and OST blends gracefully with the feelings and the messages the main characters often mention.

Realistic, full of emotions, deeply written with some class acting.

This drama was just perfect for me, story line, acting, music and direction everything was just so beautiful... Its one of those dramas that takes you in slowly and you become fully engrossed and immersed with the characters and it has depth and you can at times relate to them.

If you havent seen it yet go ahead its one of the best kdramas out there.

I started watching this drama just because i like Ryu jun yeol . But now i am lost of words. It happens rarely . Just when i love a drama so much i can't find any words to describe . There was a void inside me as i watched the drama. How they portrayed things we can't really express. Its just not not about a woman in her 40s . Its about people who feel empty . That's why this drama is not for everyone . Some will feel it slow ...some will find it boring. But I could feel every emotion .

I don't know if its normal for a 19 year old to feel things they wanted to portray but i did . And i don't think i can move on from this drama for a while. The writer said things that people usually don't tell anyone. We feel many things but not everyone have someone they can share those thoughts or feelings with. The way these drama showed Gang jae talking to his father made me realise doesn't we all talk to someone or ourselves in our mind like that!? It just keeps us sane.

Sometimes we just feel sad. For a small reason or without a reason at all. When gang jae said " i was at home still i wanted to go home " i knew the exact feeling he was talking about.

Maybe i loved this drama so much because i could relate to all the things the writer wanted to say. The emptiness, the frustration of not being able to be something, the fear of not being able to do things we wished for, not being able to live a normal life like other people. I want to say so many things but i don't know how to write those things . Thanks to the write and director. This drama will get its recognition one day. Maybe there are not so many people who feel the same way the characters felt. But one thing is sure, in real life we don't find people like Gang jae to make us feel a little less empty i guess . To just lie down quietly . Who is a stranger but can feel the sadness the other feel. Its just rare .People like us just keep on living with the emptiness...................... RYU JUN YEOL did a great job i must say. I don't know it was acting or not but his eyes looks sad . His eyes carried most of the emotion in the drama . I want to see him happy in atleast one drama. But i think he can portray sad characters really well. Everyone did a good job. I think acting sad is the hardest of all . Everyone portrayed the sadness well. I hope this drama will get what is deserve. And thanks for not including any kissing scene ( i am still in 12th epi though) . It will be awkward. ( Many people are talking about 45 year old woman having affair .I think its about how we see or want to see. She doesn't want to have a affair she just felt like he understands her . A total stranger saved her. Don't we all wish to have someone like that. Just there for each other nothing else. If they even felt anything they knew their boundaries . They tried their best to avoid . I don't know how it well end but for a 45 year old or 25 year old its just about looking at someone and feel that this persons eyes are sad too. Maybe he / she understands .)

I hope people will appreciate this drama more . Thanks for making a drama like this . Thank you.