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Staying Together

  • 1989
  • R
  • 1h 31m
IMDb RATING
6.1/10
975
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Sean Astin, Dermot Mulroney, and Tim Quill in Staying Together (1989)
ComedyDrama

The complacent life of three small town brothers is shattered when their father sells the family business from under them.The complacent life of three small town brothers is shattered when their father sells the family business from under them.The complacent life of three small town brothers is shattered when their father sells the family business from under them.

  • Director
    • Lee Grant
  • Writer
    • Monte Merrick
  • Stars
    • Sean Astin
    • Stockard Channing
    • Melinda Dillon
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  • IMDb RATING
    6.1/10
    975
    YOUR RATING
    • Director
      • Lee Grant
    • Writer
      • Monte Merrick
    • Stars
      • Sean Astin
      • Stockard Channing
      • Melinda Dillon
    • 17User reviews
    • 12Critic reviews
  • See production info at IMDbPro
  • See production info at IMDbPro
    • Awards
      • 1 win & 1 nomination total

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    Sean Astin
    Sean Astin
    • Duncan McDermott
    Stockard Channing
    Stockard Channing
    • Nancy Trainer
    Melinda Dillon
    Melinda Dillon
    • Eileen McDermott
    Jim Haynie
    • Jake McDermott
    Levon Helm
    Levon Helm
    • Denny Stockton
    Dinah Manoff
    Dinah Manoff
    • Lois Cook
    Dermot Mulroney
    Dermot Mulroney
    • Kit McDermott
    Tim Quill
    Tim Quill
    • Brian McDermott
    Keith Szarabajka
    Keith Szarabajka
    • Kevin Burley
    Daphne Zuniga
    Daphne Zuniga
    • Beverly Young
    Sheila Kelley
    Sheila Kelley
    • Beth Harper
    Ryan Hill
    • Demetri Harper
    Rick Marshall
    • Charlie
    Michael Burgess
    Michael Burgess
    • Workman
    Leon Joseph Pinner
    • Newsman
    Ed Carter
    • Announcer
    Susan Aude Fisher
    • Announcer
    Jim Gandy
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    • Director
      • Lee Grant
    • Writer
      • Monte Merrick
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    6jharadie

    Good premise that needed more development

    The security that three brothers had with their family and their father's business is shattered without warning when the business is sold. Each brother deals in his own way: one growing up quickly, one capping his anger until he explodes, and the youngest, who is seemingly unaffected, actually being the glue that holds everything together. It's a great idea that with another 30 minutes could have been developed into a wonderful film; unfortunately, in about 90 minutes all that was done was done shallowly. Except for the acting: all the actors, particularly those playing the brothers, were great, and tried very hard to make the film three-dimensional. An OK "feel-good" movie, worth seeing.
    6caspian1978

    A Coming of Age Film

    I had the unknown honor of talking with Troma's Llyod Kaufman a few years back when he visited Providence for their film festival. Talking about movies, Llyod made the comment that "a girl always gets naked in a Coming of Age film." In this case, Llyod was correct. Along with the story lines of redemption, meaning, and brotherhood, Daphne Zuniga appears naked as well. A wonder look into the lives of three brothers and their transformation into adulthood in the center of small town, USA. Great character development and a wonderful story. All in all, a good movie
    harry-76

    Small Town Family Drama

    This slightly below average film explores a typical small town South Carolina family through some trials and tribulations.

    While it breaks no new dramatic ground, "Staying Together" takes a look at the coming of age of late teen brothers in an average American semi-rural setting.

    The talented Stockard Channing heads a handsome cast, all hard working to make the most of an earnest if uneven script.

    While the film isn't for everyone, those who can appreciate a story of an average smalltown American family may find these characters and situations of interest. Lee Grant is the director.
    8StevePulaski

    Stuck together, ripped apart

    Staying Together is a heartwarming and earnest dramedy, sometimes packing clichés, and other times, resembling Stand By Me, focusing on three teenage boys who are left without a plan for their future when their father decides that he is going to sell his restaurant since he "doesn't want to die selling chickens." When his boys find out, they are outraged that they were left out of the decision-making process, and feel they were betrayed by their own provider. One of them even walks out to live by his own rules.

    The boys are hot-headed Brian (Quill), simple and love-struck Kit (Mulroney), and prankster Duncan (Astin), and their father is Jake (Haynie). After the decision to sell the restaurant is final, the boys struggle to find a specific path to take. They planned to work at the restaurant for years to come, and possibly, forever. Now, with those plans shattered, they must go their separate ways, making life decisions for themselves that were previously made by mom and dad.

    I'm aware at how cliché this story sounds, but I mentioned in my review of Nicolas Cage's It Could Happen to You, I don't always immediately ride on a film for being cliché. If a film has a cliché premise, but it also occupies good intentions, sophisticated pacing, likable characters, and a charming attitude and direction than it will most likely merit a positive score. There is nothing wrong with predictability, as long as the film is passable in other areas. Staying Together is, and it is motivated by worthy, capable performances by actors who are very underrated.

    Sean Astin's start was in goofy comedies and adventure flicks such as Encino Man and The Goonies before eventually playing Samwise in The Lord of the Rings trilogy, while Dermont Mulroney has acted in over seventy films, yet is still patiently waiting for his breakout role. These are all great actors and they finally have their time to shine.

    Lee Grant's film is a likable one, but for the sake of randomness and the fact that I have ran out of things to say about the film since there is no need for hardcore, deep analysis, I noticed one glaring continuity error. Quite possibly the biggest I've seen in a while. During the scene where the parents come home to find their kitchen in smithereens, there is a shot of the parents in the doorway of the kitchen which is interrupted by a shot of two boys in the kitchen. When it cuts back to the parents, the dad is now missing and the lighting has drastically become darker. When it cuts back to the kids it is bright and vibrant outside, showing grand effect on the lighting in the room itself. What happened? Did they forget to film something and had to come back later? It doesn't bog down the film one bit, but sometimes when a film gives you something unexpected, and when you just don't have much else to say, it comes in handy. Staying Together is a healthy exercise in the coming of age formula, and a worthy mention for forgotten eighties dramas that are sadly never spoken about in present day.

    Starring: Tim Quill, Dermont Mulroney, Sean Astin, Stockard Channing, Jim Haynie, and Melinda Dillon. Directed by: Lee Grant.
    jprice-4

    The way a family-owned business changed

    Three brothers from a small town somewhere in South Carolina learn that their father sold the chicken business, because he hated eggs. Then their older brother moves out and he needed the job. Their middle brother got a job at a clothing store.

    The McDermott family spilts apart after their father sold the businness, and then reunite together after their father's death.

    A little bit good, and A little bit poor.

    ***1/2.

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    • Trivia
      Stockard Channing and Dinah Manoff previously appeared in Grease (1978).
    • Quotes

      Lois Cook: You know, I've been thinkin' about that erection of yours. Are you, um, doing anything with it, say around eleven o'clock tonight? You know where I live? Bring it by.

    • Connections
      Features Jeopardy! (1984)
    • Soundtracks
      The More Things Change
      Performed by Paul Cotton

      Courtesy of Existia, Inc.

      Written by Richard Feldman and Peter Beckett

      Published by Irving Music, Inc. on behalf of itself and Long Range Music (BMI), ORCA Songs (ASCAP), Pennystamp Music (BMI)

      Produced by Richard Feldman

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    • Release date
      • November 10, 1989 (United States)
    • Country of origin
      • United States
    • Language
      • English
    • Also known as
      • Boy's Life
    • Filming locations
      • Columbia, South Carolina, USA
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    Box office

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    • Budget
      • $7,000,000 (estimated)
    • Gross US & Canada
      • $4,348,025
    • Opening weekend US & Canada
      • $2,020,777
      • Nov 12, 1989
    • Gross worldwide
      • $4,348,025
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    • Runtime
      1 hour 31 minutes
    • Color
      • Color
    • Aspect ratio
      • 1.78 : 1

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