- Helen Malloy: Somewhere along the line marriage has lost its charm. That specialty of such a lifelong commitment has been deluded over the years. Its not taken seriously anymore. Why? I honestly couldn't tell you that... kids rebel and elope, some people wed before they're ready, some women try to find themselves a husband just becasue they're afraid of turning 30 alone, & others do it over & over again because its fun. There's a lot of carelessness out there. The word marriage doesn't have that wholesome, blissful ring to it anymore... to marry someone, to walk down that aisle, to recite those vows to one another, it sure as hell better be the most UNCONDITIONAL, EXTRAORDINARY, PASSIONATE love you've EVER felt. You have to Truly believe that it can Never get any better than what you have. Now, look me in the eye & answer my question 1 more time- Are you In Love with my daughter?