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Metascore
16 reviews · Provided by Metacritic.com
- 90The New York TimesJeannette CatsoulisThe New York TimesJeannette CatsoulisImaginative and spooky, You Are Not My Mother shows just how frightening — and stigmatizing — a parent’s mental illness can be to a child.
- 80The Irish TimesTara BradyThe Irish TimesTara BradyFor much of its impressive duration, Dolan’s film blurs the line between family friction, bipolar disorder and the supernatural.
- 80VarietyGuy LodgeVarietyGuy LodgeSteeped in local folklore, it lets mythic and mind-based terrors exist side by side, allowing the viewer to interpret and believe what they will. This leeway comes at no cost, however, to its effective atmospherics, which sink into the bones like an unexpected twilight chill.
- 79TheWrapWilliam BibbianiTheWrapWilliam BibbianiWith striking scares, moody atmosphere, and impressive performances, You Are Not My Mother gradually reveals itself to be a wicked, wicked work of horror, with perhaps only a few unanswered questions holding it back from true greatness.
- 75RogerEbert.comSheila O'MalleyRogerEbert.comSheila O'MalleyThe final sequences are the only "stock" moments in this very specific family drama, and something about the last scene left me cold. But the rest is so effective and emotional, a dedicated portrait of trauma passed down through generations, it doesn't matter.
- 68Paste MagazineNatalia KeoganPaste MagazineNatalia KeoganBrimming with potential that it doesn’t exactly follow through on, You Are Not My Mother is nonetheless another aesthetically rich horror film that clearly mines an individual’s personal history.
- 67The Film StageJared MobarakThe Film StageJared MobarakWhile Bracken helps create the nightmarish mood, Doupe is left to suffer its wrath and humanize the ordeal by struggling to readily believe the unfathomable.
- 63Movie NationRoger MooreMovie NationRoger MooreThe frights are muted, but the air of dread that hangs over Irish writer-director Kate Dolan’s debut feature makes it an immersive experience, one anybody with “mother issues” will quickly identify with.
- 60The GuardianCath ClarkeThe GuardianCath ClarkeIntense performances by Doupe and Bracken give it a real emotional pulse.
- 38Slant MagazineMark HansonSlant MagazineMark HansonThe primacy that it places on its dopamine drip of dread undercuts whatever genuine commitment it might have toward mental illness and trauma.