Just imagine this : One fine day, when you have gone thru the most difficult times in life and think nothing can go worse than this, you receive a call from your son's office and get the inevitable bad news : That he died in an accident at the middle of the night driving sloshed. Before one can cope up with the news, you are enlightened by yet another piece of information that he was Gay. The icing on the cake is when you are confronted with his gay lover
Tollywood's movie 'Memories in March' is an unusual story about two men in love and much more. The movie is directed by Sanjoy Nag. Rituparno Ghosh's story is simple and the screenplay is seamless. Some of the scenes are so well-written that they seem like a page out of everyday life. It is an emotional drama based on real life experiences. However, since the film deals with just a few days in the mother's life, there is nothing much to elaborate on. While Deepti Naval's character is beautifully etched, the audience never gets to see her son or know what he was like. The movie is in English with colorful splashes of Hindi and Bengali, are witty; the sarcasm used by Rituparno's character in the film is right on.
The story relates to the heart of every viewer and is made touchier by the outstanding acting by all the main artists. It shows a strong bonding which develops between a mother of a deceased man and his lover who also greatly feels the loss of his boyfriend.
Deepti Naval plays the role of Aarti Mishra who is a 50 year old divorcée and lives in Delhi. Her husband lives in the US with another woman, Claudia. Her twenty-eight years old only son works as an executive of an ad agency in Kolkata enjoying a lavish lifestyle. He dies in a car accident in Kolkata. For this reason Deepti goes to Kolkata to complete the last rituals and to get her deceased son's belongings. In her four-day stay on Kolkata, she is helped by her son's colleagues, Raima sen (as Shahana) and Rituparno Ghosh (as Arnab). There and through his friends she learns of her son's secret engagement in a gay relationship with Arnab. The information comes to her as a deadly blow as she always thought her son to be a normal man with the usual sexual attractions. She is devastated to know the naked truth and initially puts the blame of 'seducing' her son on Arnab. She finds it next to impossible to come to terms with the real story. It surprises her as to how her son could have overlooked the beauty of Shahana and be involved with bald Arnab. She laments that if only she knew of her son's such relationship earlier; she could have shown him to a psychiatrist and got him relief.
It is gradually that she learns and begins to accept that it was her son's preference to be with Arnab with no fault of his boyfriend. Along with carrying back the belongings of her son, she is overburdened to carry back with her the truth of her son's secret gay life. A bonding develops between Arnab and Deepti Naval over the common loss, she at the loss of her only son and he at the loss of his only personal partner. Deepti Naval and Rituparno Ghosh have together done a commendable acting throughout the movie, capturing the emotions of the viewers, and surely deserve applause.
GTM's have come a long way from showing just mere love stories between two men. This movie takes a different angle on the affects people go thru in coming to terms when they come to learn about their near and dear ones being gay. And finally I Quote " I will be going far away
can I leave a little bit of me with you"
.Memories In March
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