This film tells the story of a man who has taken refuge in his own life, navigating love and identity while keeping a part of himself hidden. Set in the backdrop of New York City, each encounter with the men who cross his path quietly shifts the course of his existence.
It's refreshing to see a film about self-discovery and relationships that isn't overly dramatic or sensationalized. In All the Men I Met but Never Dated, the characters are in their mid-30s, yet when they fall in love, it feels as fresh and consuming as teenage love. That's the magic of love-no matter how old you are, it stirs those same youthful emotions, and that's what makes this story so relatable.
The characters feel incredibly real. Their interactions are honest, understated, and they connect not only with each other but with the audience in a very natural way. The subtle delivery of the story is what makes it so powerful-it doesn't try too hard to be emotional, yet it sinks deeply into your heart.
The slow pacing allows the feelings to evolve naturally, giving viewers time to sit with the quiet moments and reflect. The final scene is especially moving, as it makes you hold your breath, waiting for every word to land. The message spoken is not just for the characters but for anyone who has ever struggled with love, family, and identity. It's a profound reflection on the heart, the body, and the choices we make in life.
As a closeted white bi man, I found this film deeply resonant, and I wholeheartedly approve of its subtle, beautiful message. This film is a quiet beauty.
