Today, Michael Koenig, our host and founder of Between Two COO's, shared something deeply personal about what it means to “arrive.” One year ago, he stepped away from his role as COO of a public company and took a true pause. Four months offline. Fifteen projects turned down. Twelve family trips. What started as rest became a reset. “I realized resilience isn’t endurance. It’s design - a life that doesn’t break you first.” Last week, he spoke about this on stage at Operations Nation in London - to a room full of operators and COOs - exploring how titles can become identities and calendars can become cages. The message resonated with many of us who’ve lived the same cycle of achievement and exhaustion. As operators, we design systems for others every day. But how often do we design our own lives with the same intention? We’d love to hear from the community: What have you learned to set down so you can show up fully - at work and in life?
Replacing my role as COO with AI | Ex-COO Tucows (NASDAQ: TCX) | B2B SaaS Operator & Podcast Host, Between Two COOs
One year ago today was my last day at Tucows. I thought “making it” would feel like arrival. It didn’t. It felt like absence. So I did something I’d never done before - I stopped. I went offline from November through March. Said no to 15 projects. Took 12 family climbing trips. For the first time in 20 years, I wasn’t optimizing for achievement. I was optimizing for joy. The truth is, I didn’t like who I’d become. I wasn’t the partner my wife deserved. And I wasn’t the father my kids deserved. That pause changed everything. I realized resilience isn’t endurance. It’s design - a life that doesn’t break you first. Last week in London, I presented this to a room full of operators and COOs at the Operations Nation conference - thanks to Charlene Peters Chen, Bre McQuade, and Aušrinė Keršanskaitė and the incredible team for creating the space for this conversation. Operators will know this cycle: Title as identity, calendar as cage, growth as default. If that’s you, read this twice. Three lessons I’m keeping: 1. Protect your energy before burnout forces your hand. 2. Detach your worth from your title. 3. Schedule joy like it’s a board meeting. As for what’s next - I’m working to replace myself as COO with AI. Not to do less, but to make room for what matters. Question for the operators and future COOs: What do you need to set down to feel present again?