In Re K.M.H
In Re K.M.H
                                                    In re K.M.H
                                           285 Kan. 53 (Kan. 2007) • 169 P.3d 1025
                                                     Decided Oct 26, 2007
     The opinion of the court was delivered by                    Kansas residents, and their oral arrangements
                                                                  for the donation occurred in Kansas, but S.H.
     BEIER, J.:                                                   underwent two inseminations with D.H.'s
                                                                  sperm in Missouri.
     This appeal from a consolidated child in need of
     care (CINC) case and a paternity action arises               D.H. accompanied S.H. to a Missouri clinic for
     out of an artificial insemination leading to the             the first procedure and provided the necessary
     birth of twins K.M.H. and K.C.H. We are called               sperm to medical personnel. The first procedure
     upon to decide the existence and extent of the               did not result in a pregnancy. D.H. did not
     parental rights of the known sperm donor, who                accompany S.H. to Missouri for the second
     alleges he had an agreement with the children's              procedure. Instead, he provided the sperm to
     mother to act as the twins' father.                          S.H., and she delivered it to the Missouri
                                                                  physician responsible for the insemination. The
     The twins' mother filed a CINC petition to
                                                                  second procedure resulted in S.H.'s pregnancy
     establish that the donor had no parental rights
                                                                  and the birth of the twins.
     under Kansas law. The donor sued for
     determination of his paternity. The district                 There was no formal written contract between
     court sustained the mother's motion to dismiss,              S.H. and D.H. concerning the donation of
     ruling that K.S.A. 38-1114(f ) was controlling and           sperm, the artificial insemination, or the
     constitutional. That statute provides:                       expectations of the parties with regard to D.H.'s
                                                                  parental rights or lack thereof.
        "The donor of semen provided to a
        licensed physician for use in artificial                  The twins were born on May 18, 2005. The day
        insemination of a woman other than the                    after their birth, S.H. filed a CINC petition
        donor's wife is treated in law as if he                   concerning the twins, seeking a determination
        were not the birth father of a child                      that D.H. would have no parental rights. The
        thereby conceived, unless agreed to in                    petition identified D.H. as "[t]he minor
        writing by the donor and the woman.''                     children's father" and alleged that the twins
        K.S.A. 38-1114(0.                                         were in need of care "as it relates to the father"
                                                                  and that "the [f ]ather should be found unfit and
     Factual and Procedural Background                            his rights terminated." The petition continued
     Many of the underlying facts are undisputed.                 to refer to D.H. throughout as the twins' father.
     The mother, S.H., is an unmarried female lawyer
                                                                  On May 31, 2005, D.H. filed an answer to the
56   who wanted to become a parent *56 through
                                                                  CINC petition and filed a separate paternity
     artificial insemination from a known donor. She
                                                                  action       acknowledging    his      financial
     was a friend of the donor, D.H., an unmarried
                                                                  responsibility for the children and claiming
     male nonlawyer, who agreed to provide sperm
                                                                  parental rights, including joint custody and
     for the insemination. Both S.H. and D.H. are
                                                                  visitation. The CINC and paternity actions were
     consolidated. S.H. filed a motion to dismiss the          him, where the artificial insemination was
     paternity action, invoking K.S.A. 38-1114(0. After        performed. D.H. said Missouri has no statute
     the motion was filed, the district judge raised           barring a presumption of paternity for a known
     questions concerning choice of law and the                sperm donor for an unmarried woman; paternity
     constitutionality of the statute and ordered the          is proved by "consanguinity or genetic test."
     parties to brief these issues along with the other        D.H. also asserted that no doctor would perform
     issues arising out of the motion to dismiss.              an insemination on an unmarried woman in
                                                               Topeka, Lawrence, or Kansas City, Kansas, and
     In her brief, S.H. argued Kansas law should apply
                                                               suggested a Kansas doctor could have had a duty
     because her original oral agreement with D.H.
                                                               to discuss the legal implications of the
     took place in Kansas; the parties reside in
                                                               procedure under Kansas law while a Missouri
     Kansas; the sperm resulting in the pregnancy
                                                               doctor would not.
57   was given *57 to her by D.H. in Kansas; and the
     children reside in Kansas. In her view, the single        In the event the court held that Kansas law
     fact that the procedure was performed by a                governed, D.H. argued that K.S.A. 38-1114(f )
     doctor in Missouri did not constitute a                   unconstitutionally deprived him of his right to
     significant contact with that state, and Missouri         care, custody, and control of his children and
     did not have a sufficient ongoing interest in the         violated public policy "support[ing] the concept
     parties or in the subject matter of their dispute.   58   of legitimacy and the concomitant *58 rights of a
                                                               child to support and inheritance." If the statute
     On the merits, S.H. principally relied upon
                                                               is constitutional, he asserted, its dictate of
     K.S.A. 38-1114(f ). S.H. argued that her CINC
                                                               nonpaternity of a sperm donor should not apply
     petition did not constitute her written assent to
                                                               to him because he had provided his sperm to
     D.H.'s parental rights under K.S.A. 38-1114(f ).
                                                               S.H. rather than to a licensed physician. He also
     She    also    asserted     that    the   mutual
                                                               cited the CINC petition's identification of him
     preinsemination intent of the parties — as a
                                                               as the twins`"father" and its faulting of him for
     single mother-to-be and a sperm donor only, not
                                                               failing to do things consistent with parenthood.
     as coparents — was clear from their actions
                                                               D.H. asserted the wording of the CINC petition
     during the pregnancy. According to S.H., she
                                                               was evidence of the parties' mutual intent to
     sought out fertility tests and treatments on her
                                                               take themselves out from under the statutory
     own; D.H. did not attend the second procedure
                                                               provision for nonpaternity. He also contended
     or sonograms or other prenatal medical
                                                               that he had offered financial assistance and
     appointments; and he did not provide emotional
                                                               attempted to visit the children in the hospital
     support or financial assistance during the
                                                               after their birth and on subsequent occasions,
     pregnancy or after the twins' birth. She also
                                                               but that he was prevented from doing so by S.H.
     argued that D.H. was morally, financially, and
     emotionally unfit to be a father.                         The district judge ruled that Kansas law
                                                               governed,     that    K.S.A.    38-1114(f )   was
     In his arguments in the district court, D.H.
                                                               constitutional and applicable, and that the CINC
     maintained that he had standing to file his
                                                               petition did not constitute a written agreement
     paternity action as the biological father of
                                                               departing from the provision for nonpaternity
     K.M.H. and K.C.H. On choice of law, D.H. argued
                                                               set forth in the statute. The judge therefore
     that Kansas conflict principles required the
                                                               granted S.H.'s motion, concluding as a matter of
     court to look to the place of either contract
                                                               law that D.H. had no legal rights or
     formation or contract performance. He asserted
                                                               responsibilities regarding K.M.H. and K.C.H.
     that the "more sensible" approach in this case
     would be to apply the law of the state where              Issues on Appeal
     performance occurred, which was, according to
     On appeal, both parties reiterate the arguments            56 P.3d 829 (2002). Although S.H.'s motion was
     they made to the district court, and D.H. alleges          titled "Motion to Dismiss," the district judge
     for the first time that another statutory                  considered materials beyond the pleadings,
     provision and equity favor his side of the case.           essentially treating the motion as one for
     We therefore address six issues: (1) Did the               summary judgment. We are therefore mindful of
     district judge err in ruling that Kansas law would         our often stated standard of review following
     govern? (2) Did the district judge err in holding          summary judgment in the district court: We
     K.S.A. 38-1114(f ) constitutional under the Equal          must view the evidence in the light most
     Protection and Due Process Clauses of the                  favorable to the nonmoving party, D.H. See
     Kansas and the federal Constitutions? (3) Did              Wachter Management C.O. v. Dexter Chaney, Inc.,
     the district judge err in interpreting and                 282 Kan. 365, 368, 144 P.3d 747 (2006). The
     applying the "provided to a licensed physician"            district court's judgment for the moving party,
     language of K.S.A. 38-1114(0? (4) Did the district         S.H., should be affirmed on appeal if there
     judge err in determining that the CINC petition            remains no genuine issue of material fact for
     did not satisfy the requirement of a writing in            trial and the case is appropriate for disposition
     K.S.A. 38-1114(0? (5) Did K.S.A. 38-1114(a)(4)             in her favor as a matter of law. See K.S.A. 60-
     grant D.H. parental rights? and (6) Does equity            256; Scott v. Hughes, 281 Kan. 642, 644, 132 P.3d
     demand reversal of the district court?                     889 (2006); Kluin, 274 Kan. at 893.
     Under these circumstances, we hold that Kansas       63   *63As mentioned in summary above, our review
     law applies and that significant contacts and a           of whether a statute is constitutional raises a
     significant aggregation of contacts with Kansas           question of law reviewable de novo. In re Tax
     make application of our law to the parties'               Appeal of CIG Field Services C.O., 279 Kan. 857,
     claims not only appropriate but also                      866-67, 112 P.3d 138 (2005). In addition,
     constitutional. This choice is neither arbitrary
                                                                     "`[t]he constitutionality of a statute is
     nor unfair; neither party would have been
                                                                     presumed. All doubts must be resolved
     justified in expecting Missouri to have a
                                                                     in favor of its validity, and before the act
     controlling interest as to any dispute between
                                                                     may be stricken down it must clearly
     them.
                                                                     appear that the statute violates the
     Constitutionality of KS.A. 38-1114(f)                           constitution.         In       determining
                                                                     constitutionality, it is the court's duty to
     In his brief, D.H. makes a general allegation that
                                                                     uphold a statute under attack rather than
     K.S.A. 38-1114(f ) offends the Constitution. The
                                                                     defeat it. If there is any reasonable way
     cases he cites in support discuss both the Equal
                                                                     to     construe       the     statute     as
     Protection Clause and the Due Process Clause;
                                                                     constitutionally valid, that should be
     we thus presume his challenge relies upon each
                                                                     done. A statute should not be stricken
     of these provisions. See U.S. Const. amend. XIV;
                                                                     down unless the infringement of the
     Kan. Const. Bill of Rights, §§ 2, 18. At oral
                                                                     superior law is clear beyond substantial
     argument before this court, D.H. conceded that
                                                                     doubt.' [Citations omitted]." State v.
     his rights under these provisions do not differ
                                                                     Rupnick, 280 Kan. 720, 736, 125 P.3d 541
     as between the federal and state Constitutions.
                                                                     (2005).
     He also acknowledged that he no longer
     challenges the statute as unconstitutional on its         Given the relative newness of the medical
     face; rather, he argues it cannot be                      procedure of artificial insemination, and thus
     constitutionally applied to him, as a known               the newness of K.S.A. 38-1114(f )'s attempt to
     sperm donor who alleges he had an oral                    regulate the relationships arising from it, it is
     agreement with the twins' mother that granted             not surprising that the issue raised by D.H. is
     him parental rights. The amicus brief filed by the        one of first impression, not only in Kansas but
     Center further clarifies that the constitutional          nationally. We therefore begin our discussion of
     challenge before us is only to the statute as             the constitutionality of the statute by surveying
     applied to D.H.                                           the landscape of various states' laws governing
                                                               the rights of sperm donors for artificial
     The Center insists the statute deprives D.H. of
                                                               insemination. This landscape and its ongoing
     parental rights without due process of law and
                                                               evolution provide helpful context for our
     without a required finding of unfitness. It urges
                                                               analysis of K.S.A. 38-1114(f )
     us to dispense with a literal reading of the
     statute's language, invoking the purported                The majority of states that have enacted
     purpose of the Kansas Parentage Act, K.S.A. 38-           statutes concerning artificial insemination state
     1110 et seq., to encourage fathers to acknowledge         that the husband of a married woman bears all
     paternity and child support obligations                   rights and obligations of paternity as to any
     voluntarily. It also emphasizes that courts               child conceived by artificial insemination,
     whether the sperm used was his own or a                      "(a) If, under the supervision of a
     donor's. See, e.g., Ala. Code § 26-17-21(a) (1992)           licensed physician and with the consent
     ("If, under the supervision of a licensed                    of her husband, a wife is inseminated
     physician and with the consent of her husband, a             artificially with semen donated by a man
     wife is inseminated artificially with semen                  not her husband, the husband is treated
     donated by a man not her husband, the husband                in law as if he were the natural father of a
     is treated in law as if he were the natural father           child thereby conceived. The husband's
     of a child thereby conceived."); see also Cal.               consent must be in writing and signed by
     Fam. Code § 7613(a) (West 2004) (same); Colo.                him and his wife. The physician shall
     Rev. Stat. § 19-4-106(1) (West 2005) (same); 111.            certify their signatures and the date of
     Comp. Stat. ch. 750 40/3(a) (West 1999) (same);              the insemination, and file the husband's
     Minn. State § 257.56 Subd. 1 (2007); Mo. Rev.                consent with the [State Department of
     Stat. 210.824(1) (2000) (same); Mont. Code                   Health], where it shall be kept
     Ann. § 40-6-106(1) (2005); Nev. Rev. Stat. §                 confidential and in a sealed file.
     126.061(1) (2005) (same); N.J. Stat. Ann. § 9:17-            However, the physician's failure to do so
     44(a) (2002) (same); N.M. Stat. Ann. § 40-11-                does not affect the father and child
     6(A) (Michie 2006) (same); Ohio Rev. Code                    relationship. All papers and records
64   Ann. § 3111.95(A) (Anderson 2003) (similar); *64             pertaining to the insemination, whether
     Wis. Stat. § 891.40(1) (2005-06) (same). Further,            part of the permanent record of a court
     several of these states' statutes provide that a             or of a file held by the supervising
     donor of semen used to inseminate a married                  physician or elsewhere, are subject to
     woman will not be treated in law as the father of            inspection only upon an order of the
     any child conceived, if he is not the woman's                court for good cause shown.
     husband. See, e.g., Ala. Code § 26-17-21(b) (1992)
                                                                  "(b) The donor of semen provided to a
     ("The donor of semen provided to a licensed
                                                                  licensed physician for use in artificial
     physician for use in artificial insemination of a
                                                                  insemination of a married woman other
     married woman other than the donor's wife is
                                                                  than the donor's wife is treated in law as
     treated in law as if he were not the natural
                                                                  if he were not the natural father of a
     father of a child thereby conceived."); Minn.
                                                                  child thereby conceived." (Emphasis
     Stat. § 257.56 Subd. 2 (2007) (same); Mo. Rev.
                                                                  added) Uniform Parentage Act (1973) § 5;
     Stat. § 210.824(2) (2000) (same); Mont. Code
                                                                  9B U.L.A. at 407-08.
     Ann. § 40-6-106(2) (2005) (same); Nev. Rev.
     Stat. § 126.061 (2) (2005) (same). One court has          The wording of this original Act and statutes
     observed that these two rules protect the                 that imitated it did not address the
     expectations of the married couple, the best              determination of a sperm donor's paternity
     interests of the child, and the expectations of      65   when *65 an unmarried woman conceived a child
     the donor. See People v. Sorensen, 68 Cal. 2d 280,        through artificial insemination. The earliest case
     284-88, 66 Cal. Rptr. 7, 437 P.2d 495 (1968).             to address this particular question arose in a
                                                               state that had not yet adopted any statute
     The 1973 Uniform Parentage Act, promulgated
                                                               regarding the effects of the procedure.
     by the National Conference of Commissioners
     on Uniform State Laws, 9B U.L.A. 377 (2001),              In that case, C.M. v. C.C., 152 N.J. Super. 160, 377
     provided the model for many of the state                  A.2d 821 (1977), a sperm donor filed a paternity
     artificial insemination statutes that incorporate         suit, seeking parental rights to a child born
     these two rules. See, e.g., Cal. Fam. Code § 7613;        when the child's unmarried mother artificially
     N.M. Stat. Ann. § 40-11-6. Section 5 of the               inseminated herself with the donor's sperm. In
     original uniform Act provided:                            that case, the mother and the donor had been in
     a long-standing romantic relationship; the           3111.95(B) (Anderson 2003) (same); Va. Code
     donor testified they were contemplating              Ann. § 20-158(A)(3) (2004) (substantially
     marriage; the mother wanted a child but did not      similar).
     want to have sexual intercourse before marriage;
                                                          Four cases interpreting one of these types of
     and the insemination procedure was performed
                                                          statutes covering both married and unmarried
     at the mother's home. Three months into the
                                                          recipients and establishing an absolute bar to
     pregnancy, the mother ended her relationship
                                                          donor paternity were decided before a 2000
     with the donor, and she refused him access to
                                                          amendment to the uniform Act made it
     the child after its birth.
                                                          applicable to unmarried as well as married
     The New Jersey court relied upon a common-           recipients of donor sperm. See Uniform
     law presumption of paternity to award visitation     Parentage Act (2000); 9B U.L.A. 295 (West
     rights to the donor as the "natural father" of the   2001).
     "illegitimate child." Had the mother and the
                                                          The first of the four arose in California in 1986.
     donor been married and conceived the child
                                                          In that case, Jhordan C. v. Mary K, 179 Cal. App.
     through artificial insemination, the court said,
                                                          3d 386, 224 Cal. Rptr. 530 (1986), a donor
     the donor would have been considered the
                                                          provided sperm to one of two unmarried women
     child's father. Given the evidence that the
                                                          who had decided to raise a child together.
     parties had intended to parent the child
                                                          California had adopted the language of the 1973
     together, the court believed the same result
                                                          Uniform Act with the exception that it had
     should follow, despite the absence of wedding
                                                          omitted the word "married" in the second
     vows. 152 N.J. Super, at 165-68.
                                                          subsection. Jhordan C, 179 Cal. App. 3d at 392
     Certain states other than New Jersey either          (citing then-existing Cal. Civ. Code § 7005
     anticipated the need for their original statutes     [West 1979], which now appears, substantially
     to govern the relationship of a sperm donor to       unchanged, in Cal. Fam. Code § 7613 [West
     the child of an unmarried recipient as well as a     2004]). As the court put it:
     married recipient or modified their original
                                                             "[T]he California Legislature has
     uniform Act-patterned statutes to remove the
                                                             afforded unmarried as well as married
     word "married" from the § 5 (b) language. This
                                                             women a statutory vehicle for obtaining
     meant these states' statutes contained complete
                                                             semen for artificial insemination without
     bars to paternity for any sperm donor not
                                                             fear that the donor may claim paternity,
     married to the recipient, regardless of whether
                                                             and has likewise provided men with a
     the recipient was married to someone else and
                                                             statutory vehicle for donating semen to
     regardless of whether the donor was known or
                                                             married and unmarried women alike
     anonymous. An example of such a provision
                                                             without fear of liability for child support.
     reads: "The donor of semen provided to a
                                                             Subdivision (b) states only one
     licensed physician for use in artificial
                                                             limitation on its application: the semen
     insemination of a woman other than the donor's
                                                             must be `provided to a licensed
     wife is treated in law as if he were not the
                                                             physician.'      Otherwise,         whether
     natural father of a child thereby conceived." See,
                                                             impregnation occurs through artificial
66   e.g., Cal. Fam. Code § 7613(b) *66 (West 2004);
                                                             insemination or sexual intercourse, there
     Ill. Comp. Stat. ch. 750 40/3(b) (West 1999);
                                                             can be a determination of paternity with
     Wis. Stat. § 891.40(2) (2005-06) (same); see also
                                                             the rights, duties and obligations such a
     Colo. Rev. Stat. § 19-4-106(2) (West 2005)
                                                             determination entails." Jhordan C, 179
     (substantially similar); Conn. Gen. Stat. § 45a-
                                                             Cal. App. 3d at 392.
     775 (2007) (similar); Idaho Code § 39-5405
     (2002) (similar); Ohio Rev. Code Ann. §
     Because the parties had no doctor involved in                 "If the donor of semen used in artificial
     the donation or insemination and thus the                     insemination is not the mother's
     sperm was never "provided to a licensed                       husband: (1) Such donor shall have no
     physician," the court ruled that the case before              right, obligation or interest with respect
     it fell outside the statute. It therefore affirmed            to a child born as a result of the artificial
     the lower court's recognition of the donor's                  insemination; and (2) A child born as a
     paternity. Jhordan C, 179 Cal. App. 3d at 398.                result of the artificial insemination shall
     Although the court addressed its ruling's impact              have no right, obligation or interest with
67   on the constitutional rights *67 of the two                   respect to the donor." Ore. Rev. Stat. §
     women, it did not address any constitutional                  109.239 (1977).
     implications for the donor. Jhordan C, 179 Cal.
                                                                The donor challenged this statute under equal
     App. 3d at 395-96.
                                                                protection and due process principles. He swore
     The second case, In Interest of R.C., 775 P.2d 27          out an affidavit in support of summary judgment
     (Colo. 1989), arose in Colorado in 1989. In that           and argued he had relied on an agreement with
     case, the district court had refused to admit              the mother that he "would remain active" in the
     proffered evidence of an agreement that the                child's life and "participate in all important
     donor would act as a father based on relevance;            decisions concerning the child." 98 Or. App. at
     it granted the unmarried mother's motion to                464. He sought visitation and said that he was
     dismiss the donor's paternity suit based on           68   willing *68 and able to accept the same level of
     Colorado's statute. The Colorado provision, like           responsibility for the support, education,
     that in California, applied to both married and            maintenance, and care of the child and for
     unmarried recipients and contained a blanket               pregnancy-related expenses that he would have
     bar to donor parental rights. See Colo. Rev. Stat.         had if the child had been born from his marriage
     § 19-4-106.                                                to its mother. The district court ruled that the
                                                                donor's paternity claim was barred by the
     The Colorado Supreme Court reversed the
                                                                Oregon statute.
     district court and remanded for findings of fact.
     It explicitly rejected the idea that an unmarried          The McIntyre court began its analysis by reciting
     recipient lost the protection of the statute               its equal protection standard of review, which
     "merely because she knows the donor." R.C., 775            was strict scrutiny, a standard more searching
     P.2d at 35. And it did not reach the equal                 than that applied to such claims in Kansas. See
     protection and due process challenges raised by            generally State v. Limon, 280 Kan. 275, 283-87, 122
     the donor. However, it concluded the statute               P.3d 22 (2005) (equal protection challenge based
     was ambiguous and refused to apply its absolute            on gender discrimination does not require strict
     bar to paternity because the known donor had               scrutiny, i.e., showing classification necessary to
     produced evidence of an oral agreement that he             serve compelling state interest; rather, court
     would be treated as father of the child. R.C., 775         applies intermediate scrutiny, i.e., classification
     P.2d at 35.                                                must substantially further legitimate legislative
                                                                purpose); see Chiles v. State, 254 Kan. 888, 891-93,
     The next case, McIntyre v. Crouch, 98 Or. App.
                                                                869 P.2d 707, cert. denied 513 U.S. 850 (1994);
     462, 780 P.2d 239 (1989), cert. denied 495 U.S. 905
                                                                Farley v. Engelken, 241 Kan. 663, 669, 740 P.2d
     (1990), involved an unmarried woman who
                                                                1058 (1987). The Oregon court stated: "A statute
     artificially inseminated herself with a known
                                                                that gives a privilege to women while denying it
     donor's semen. The donor sought recognition of
                                                                to men is inherently suspect and subject to
     his paternity, and both he and the woman
                                                                strict scrutiny, unless the classification (1) is
     sought summary judgment. The Oregon artificial
                                                                based on specific biological differences between
     insemination statute read:
     men and women and (2) is rationally related to            proceedings to an unwed father who had not
     the purposes of the statute." McIntyre, 98 Or.            filed with New York's putative father registry
     App. at 469.                                              and had never established a substantial
                                                               relationship with the child. The Court stated:
     Under this standard, the Oregon court ruled
     that the statute before it drew an acceptable                "When an unwed father demonstrates a
     "classification of unmarried males and                       full commitment to the responsibilities
     unmarried females . . . based on biological                  of parenthood by `com[ing] forward to
     differences . . . . Only a male could contribute             participate in the rearing of his child,'
     the sperm to accomplish conception; only a                   [citation omitted,], his interest in
     female could conceive and bear the child." 98 Or.            personal contact with his child acquires
     App. at 469-470. Further, the classification was             substantial protection under the Due
     rationally related to the purposes of the statute,           Process Clause. . . . But the mere
     which were: (1) to allow married couples to have             existence of a biological link does not
     children, even though the husband was infertile,             merit      equivalent       constitutional
     impotent, or ill; (2) to allow an unmarried                  protection." Lehr, 463 U.S. at 261 (quoted
     woman to conceive and bear a child without                   in McIntyre, 98 Or. App. at 470).
     sexual intercourse; (3) to resolve potential
                                                               The Lehr Court ultimately held that the State's
     disputes      about     parental    rights     and
                                                               failure to notify the father of adoption
     responsibilities: that is, (a) the mother's
                                                               proceedings did not deny him due process of
     husband, if he consents, is father of the child,
                                                               law. 463 U.S. at 264-65. No substantive due
     and (b) an unmarried mother is free from any
                                                               process right to care, custody, and control of the
     claims by the donor of parental rights; (4) to
                                                               child had vested in a man who could
     encourage men to donate semen by protecting
                                                               demonstrate nothing more than a biological link
     them against any claims by the mother or the
                                                               to his off-spring. 463 U.S. at 258-62. The Lehr
     child; and (5) to legitimate the child and give it
                                                               Court noted, however, that an unwed father who
     rights against the mother's husband, if he
                                                               demonstrated "a full commitment to the
69   consented to *69 the insemination. 98 Or. App.
                                                               responsibilities of parenthood" could not be
     at 467-68, 470. Thus the statute did not offend
                                                               absolutely barred from asserting his parental
     equal protection either on its face or as applied.
                                                               rights without a violation of due process. 463
     The court also rebuffed the donor's due process           U.S. at 261.
     challenge to the statute on its face. 98 Or. App.
                                                               The McIntyre court reasoned that the Due
     at 470. However, the donor also argued that the
                                                               Process Clause should afford no less protection
     statute violated due process under the federal
                                                               to a sperm donor who had facilitated artificial
     and state Constitutions as applied to him, a
                                                               insemination than an unwed father, "provided
     known donor who had an agreement with the
                                                               that [the sperm donor] could prove the facts" in
     mother to share the rights and responsibilities
                                                               his summary judgment affidavit that tended to
     of parenthood. The court agreed the statute
                                                          70   support the existence of an agreement with *70
     would violate the Due Process Clause of the
                                                               the mother and his reliance upon it. Because the
     Fourteenth Amendment as applied to the donor
                                                               court concluded the constitutionality of the
     if such an agreement was proved. 98 Or. App. at
                                                               Oregon statute as applied to this donor would
     470-72.
                                                               turn on whether he was given an opportunity to
     On this point, the court looked to Lehr v.                establish those facts, summary judgment in
     Robertson, 463 U.S. 248, 261, 77 L.Ed. 2d 614, 103        favor of the mother was reversed. 98 Or. App. at
     S.Ct. 2985 (1983), an adoption case. Lehr dealt           472.
     with the necessity of notice of pending adoption
The last of the four cases, C.O. v. W.S., 64 Ohio    71   *71Two of these cases come from Texas. They do
Misc. 2d 9, 639 N.E.2d 523 (1994), also                   not add much to the legal landscape with which
concluded, as the McIntyre court did, that a              we are concerned in this appeal because their
statute purporting to be an absolute bar to               outcomes were driven by standing, not an issue
paternity of sperm donors, while constitutional           before us. See H.C.S., 219 S.W.3d 33 (known
in the absence of an agreement to the contrary,           donor lacked standing to pursue parentage
could be unconstitutional as applied when the             adjudication; child conceived through assisted
donor can establish that an agreement to share            reproduction by unmarried donor's sister's
parenting existed between him and the                     same-sex partner using donor's sperm); Sullivan,
unmarried woman who was the recipient of the              157 S.W.3d 911 (known donor had standing to
sperm. 64 Ohio Misc. 2d at 12.                            maintain paternity action; parties had signed
                                                          preinsemination agreement stating donor would
In C.O., the Ohio statute at issue stated: "If a
                                                          be treated as if he, mother were married).
woman is the subject of a non-spousal artificial
insemination, a donor shall not be treated in law         The third case, Steven S., 127 Cal. App. 4th 319,
or regarded as the natural father of a child              from California, involved an unmarried woman
conceived as a result of the artificial                   and a known sperm donor who tried artificial
insemination, and a child so conceived shall not          insemination; when that resulted in a
be treated in law or regarded as the natural child        miscarriage, they attempted to conceive through
of the donor." See Ohio Rev. Code Ann. § 3111.95          sexual intercourse, also without success. Finally,
(Anderson 2003). The statute also required                a second artificial insemination attempt
artificial insemination to be conducted under             resulted in conception. The donor initially was
the supervision of a physician. As in Jhordan C,          very involved with the pregnancy and the child,
an unmarried woman had inseminated herself                and he filed a paternity action when the child
with a known donor's sperm. Although the court            was 3 years old.
ultimately determined the statute was
                                                          The district court noted that California's statute
inapplicable because the mother had failed to
                                                          presented a bar to paternity for unmarried
comply with the physician involvement
                                                          sperm donors, but ruled in favor of the donor
requirement, it further opined that the statute
                                                          based on equitable estoppel. The donor was
would violate due process if applied to the
                                                          known; he had engaged in sexual intercourse
donor, because he and the mother, at the time of
                                                          with the unwed mother; and she had
the procedure, had agreed there would be a
                                                          acknowledged him as the child's father and had
relationship between the donor and the child. 64
                                                          allowed him to participate in the pregnancy and
Ohio Misc. 2d at 12.
                                                          celebrate the birth of the child. The California
Since the Uniform Act was amended in 2000 to              Court of Appeals reversed, holding that the
state simply, "A donor is not a parent of a child         "words of [Cal. Fam. Code] section 7613,
conceived by means of assisted reproduction,"             subdivision (b) are clear" and that, under such
two of our sister states have decided three               facts, "[t]here can be no paternity claim"
additional cases addressing statutes with                 because of the statute's absolute bar. Steven S.,
identical or substantively in-distinguishable             127 Cal. App. 4th at 326.
provisions governing sperm donors and
                                                          None of these three decisions raised or reached
unmarried recipients. Steven S. v. Deborah D., 127
                                                          the equal protection or due process challenges
Cal. App. 4th 319, 25 Cal. Rptr. 3d 482 (2005); In
                                                          raised by the donor here.
re H.C.S., 219 S.W.3d 33 (Tex. App. 2006); In re
Sullivan, 157 S.W.3d 911 (Tex. App. 2005).                Where does our Kansas statute fit into this
                                                          landscape and its ongoing evolution?
     In 1985, Kansas became one of the states that                Ultimately, in view of the requirement that we
     adopted portions of the Uniform Parentage Act                accept as true D.H.'s evidence supporting
     of 1973 regarding presumptions of paternity, but             existence of an oral agreement, we are faced
     it did not adopt any provision relating to                   with a very precise question: Does our statute's
     artificial insemination. See L. 1985, ch. 114, sec. 5        requirement that any opt-out agreement
     (H.B. 2012).                                                 between an unmarried mother and a known
                                                                  sperm donor be "in writing" result in an equal
72   *72 In 1994, Kansas amended its statute to
                                                                  protection or due process violation? Although
     incorporate the 1973 Uniform Act's § 5(b) as
                                                                  several other states have adopted statutes like
     K.S.A. 38-1114(f ). See L. 1994, ch. 292, sec. 5
                                                                  K.S.A. 38-1114(f ), including language permitting
     (Subst. H.B. 2583). It did not differentiate
                                                                  an unmarried woman and a sperm donor to
     between known and unknown or anonymous
                                                                  avoid the statutory bar and provide for the
     donors, but it did make two notable changes in
                                                                  paternity of the donor through an "agreement in
     the uniform language.
                                                                  writing" — see Ark. Code Ann. § 9-10-201
     As discussed above, although the 1973 Uniform           73   (2002); *73 Fla. Stat. § 742.14 (2005); N.H. Rev.
     Act governed the paternity of children born only             Stat. Ann. § 168-B:3(I)(e) (2002); N.J. Stat. Ann.
     to married women as a result of artificial                   § 9:17-44(b) (2002); N.M. Stat Ann. § 40-11-6(B)
     insemination with donor sperm, the version                   (2006) — none of the courts of these states has
     adopted by Kansas omitted the word "married."                yet subjected such a statute to a constitutional
     See K.S.A. 38-1114(f ). This drafting decision               crucible. We do so now, as K.S.A. 38-1114(f ) is
     demonstrates the legislature's intent that the               applied to D.H.
     bar to donor paternity apply regardless of
                                                                  Equal Protection
     whether the recipient was married or unmarried.
                                                                  K.S.A. 38-1114(f ) draws a gender-based line
     The other alteration in the 1973 Uniform Act's
                                                                  between a necessarily female sperm recipient
     language is directly at issue here. The Kansas
                                                                  and a necessarily male sperm donor for an
     Legislature provided that a sperm donor and
                                                                  artificial insemination. By operation of the
     recipient could choose to opt out of the donor
                                                                  statute, the female is a potential parent or actual
     paternity bar by written agreement. See K.S.A.
                                                                  parent under all circumstances; by operation of
     38-1114(f ). The legislative record contains no
                                                                  the same statute, the male will never be a
     explanation for this deviation from the 1973
                                                                  potential parent or actual parent unless there is
     Uniform Act's language. See Minutes of the
                                                                  a written agreement to that effect with the
     House Judiciary Committee, January 19, 1994,
                                                                  female. As discussed with counsel for the parties
     and February 25, 1994.
                                                                  at oral argument before this court, the male's
     This second drafting decision is critical and sets           ability to insist on father status effectively
     this case apart from all precedent. Our statute's            disappears once he donates sperm. Until that
     allowance for a written agreement to grant a                 point, he can unilaterally refuse to participate
     sperm donor parental rights and responsibilities             unless a written agreement on his terms exists.
     means that, although we may concur with the                  After donation, the male cannot force the
     McIntyre and C.O. courts in their constitutional             fatherhood issue. The female can unilaterally
     analyses of absolute-bar statutes, we need not               decide if and when to use the donation for
     arrive at the same result. K.S.A. 38-1114(f )                artificial insemination and can unilaterally deny
     includes exactly the sort of escape clause the               any wish of the male for parental rights by
     Oregon and Ohio courts found lacking — and                   refusing to enter into a written agreement.
     unconstitutional — in their statutes.
     The guiding principle of equal protection                    for support from the mothers or the children. It
     analysis is that similarly situated individuals              protects women recipients as well, preventing
     should be treated alike. Cleburne v. Cleburne                potential claims of donors to parental rights and
     Living Center, Inc., 473 U.S. 432, 439, 87 L.Ed. 2d          responsibilities, in the absence of an agreement.
     313, 105 S.Ct. 3249 (1985); State v. Limon, 280              Its requirement that any such agreement be in
     Kan. 275, 283, 122 P.3d 22 (2005). In Kansas, as             writing enhances predictability, clarity, and
     before the United States Supreme Court,                      enforceability. Although the timing of entry into
     statutory gender classifications such as this                a written agreement is not set out explicitly, the
     classification in K.S.A. 38-1114(f ) are subject to          design of the statute implicitly encourages early
     intermediate, or heightened, scrutiny. Limon,                resolution of the elemental question of whether
     280 Kan. at 283-87; Chiles, 254 Kan. at 891-93;              a donor will have parental rights. Effectively, the
     Farley, 241 Kan. at 669; see Reed v. Reed, 404 U.S.          parties must decide whether they will enter into
     71, 76-77, 30 L.Ed. 2d 225, 92 S.Ct. 251 (1971). In          a written agreement before any donation is
     order to pass muster under the federal and state             made, while there is still balanced bargaining
     equal protection provisions, a classification that           power on both sides of the parenting equation.
     treats otherwise similarly situated individuals
                                                                  In our view, the statute's gender classification
     differently based solely on the individuals'
                                                                  substantially furthers and is thus substantially
     genders must substantially further a legitimate
                                                                  related to these legitimate legislative purposes
     legislative purpose; the government's objective
                                                                  and important governmental objectives. K.S.A.
     must be important, and the classification
                                                                  38-1114(0 establishes the clear default positions
     substantially related to achievement of it.
                                                                  of parties to artificial insemination. If these
74   Nevada *74 Dept. of Human Resources v. Hibbs, 538
                                                                  parties desire an arrangement different from the
     U.S. 721, 729, 155 L.Ed. 2d 953, 123 S.Ct. 1972
                                                                  statutory norm, they are free to provide for it, as
     (2003); United States v. Virginia, 518 U.S. 515, 533,
                                                                  long as they do so in writing. Encouraging
     135 L.Ed. 2d 735, 116 S.Ct. 2264 (1996); Farley, 241
                                                             75   careful consideration of entry into *75
     Kan. at 669.
                                                                  parenthood is admirable. Avoidance of the limbo
     Given the biological differences between                     in which D.H. finds himself is a worthy
     females and males and the immutable role those               legislative goal. We therefore hold that the
     differences play in conceiving and bearing a                 application of K.S.A. 38-1114(f ) to D.H. does not
     child, regardless of whether conception is                   violate equal protection.
     achieved through sexual intercourse or artificial
                                                                  Due Process
     insemination, we are skeptical that S.H. and
     D.H. are truly similarly situated. However,                  Neither D.H. nor the Center explicitly addresses
     assuming for purposes of argument that they                  whether the due process challenge to K.S.A. 38-
     are, we perceive several legitimate legislative              1114(f ) in this case is based on procedural due
     purposes or important governmental objectives                process principles or substantive due process
     underlying K.S.A. 38-1114(f ).                               doctrine. Nor did the Oregon or Ohio courts
                                                                  that decided McIntyre and C.O. draw this
     As the McIntyre court observed about the
                                                                  distinction or comment upon it. See 98 Or. App.
     Oregon statute, K.S.A. 38-1114(f ) envisions that
                                                                  at 471-72; 64 Ohio Misc. 2d at 12. To the extent
     both married and unmarried women may
                                                                  D.H.'s due process argument is couched in
     become parents without engaging in sexual
                                                                  procedural language, i.e., that K.S.A. 38-1114(f )'s
     intercourse, either because of personal choice or
                                                                  requirement of a writing, strictly interpreted,
     because a husband or partner is infertile,
                                                                  denies him "a meaningful opportunity to be
     impotent, or ill. It encourages men who are able
                                                                  heard" on the claim that there was, in fact, an
     and willing to donate sperm to such women by
                                                                  oral agreement, we simply disagree. Indeed, for
     protecting the men from later unwanted claims
     purposes of ruling on the propriety of the                    notified of the adoption proceedings. A New
     district judge's summary disposition in favor of              York statute guaranteed protection of any
     S.H., we accept D.H.'s evidence that there was                interest such a putative father could have in
     an oral agreement. Still, he has been denied no               assuming a responsible role in the future of his
     procedural right to which he was entitled; the                child: The father in Lehr had failed to avail
     statute merely sets up a burden of proof that his             himself of this protection and had taken no
     own inaction before donating his sperm left him               other action that would have established a
     unable to meet.                                               protectable interest in the child. While a state
                                                                   may not absolutely bar a biological parent from
     D.H.'s ignorance of the statute's requirement of
                                                                   asserting parental rights — the proposition for
     a writing to record any agreement between him
                                                                   which D.H. and the Center cite Lehr — Kansas
     and S.H. as to his parental rights does not
                                                                   has not done so. Even a sperm donor with no
     necessitate a ruling that the statute cannot be
                                                                   relationship to a child's mother can forge and
     constitutionally applied to him. See Jhordan C. v.
                                                                   protect his parental rights by insisting on a
     Mary K, 179 Cal. App. 3d 386, 389, 224 Cal. Rptr.
                                                                   written agreement.
     530 (1986) (court analyzes applicability of
     artificial insemination statute despite parties'              D.H. and the Center argue that D.H.'s other
     ignorance of it); see also Lehr v. Robertson, 463             efforts to assert his entitlement to and
     U.S. 248, 264, 77 L.Ed. 2d 614, 103 S. Ct. 2985               intention to exercise parental rights — stymied,
     (1983) (failure to file with putative father                  they say, by S.H. — should be enough. S.H., of
     registry out of ignorance of law insufficient                 course, casts D.H.'s behavior in a considerably
     reason to criticize law itself ); State ex rel. Murray        less favorable light. Again, however, for
     v. Palmgren, 231 Kan. 524, 536, 646 P.2d 1091                 purposes of review of the district judge's
     (1982) (ignorance of the law is no excuse). It is             summary deposition in S.H.'s favor, we accept
     apparent to us that the only potentially                      D.H.'s version of events. The infirmity in his
     meritorious due process argument before us                    substantive due process argument does not lie
     focuses on the assertion of D.H.'s fundamental                in those factual allegations for which he has
     right to care, custody, and control of his                    provided evidence in the record, including his
     children. This raises a substantive due process               allegation of an oral agreement; the infirmity
     concern, rather than a problem over the absence               lies in the absence of any proof of an agreement
76   of a *76 specific procedural protection. Indeed, if           with S.H. in writing.
     anything, D.H. and the Center advocate for less
                                                                   We simply are not persuaded that the
     rather than more formality in process; they
                                                                   requirement of a writing transforms what is an
     regard the requirement of a writing to
                                                                   otherwise constitutional statute into one that
     memorialize any agreement between a sperm
                                                                   violates D.H.'s substantive due process rights.
     donor and a recipient as so heavy a procedural
                                                                   Although we agree with the Center that one goal
     burden that it tips the constitutional scales in
                                                              77   of the Kansas Parentage Act as a *77 whole is to
     favor of D.H. here.
                                                                   encourage fathers to voluntarily acknowledge
     In addition to relying on McIntyre and C.O.,                  paternity and child support obligations, the
     which, as previously discussed, addressed                     obvious impact of the plain language of this
     complete-bar statutes unlike our own, D.H. and                particular provision in the Act is to prevent the
     the Center emphasize the United States                        creation of parental status where it is not
     Supreme Court's decision in Lehr. See 463 U.S.                desired or expected. To a certain extent, D.H.
     at 261. Lehr's facts limit its utility here. As               and the Center evidently misunderstand the
     mentioned above, that case involved an unwed                  statute's mechanism. It ensures no attachment of
     biological father petitioning to set aside an                 parental rights to sperm donors in the absence
     order of adoption based on his failure to be
     of a written agreement to the contrary; it does      Insemination And A Model for Legislative Reform, 19
     not cut off rights that have already arisen and      Am. J. L. Med. 285, 304 (1993) (absence of
     attached.                                            executed writing evidence donor failed to, in
                                                          words of Lehr, "grasp opportunity" to parent;
     We are confident this legislative design realizes
                                                          chance to condition donation upon execution of
     the expectation of unknown or anonymous
                                                          agreement puts donor in control). The
     sperm donors, whether their motive for
                                                          requirement that a sperm donor's and
     participation in artificial insemination is
                                                          recipient's agreement be in writing does not
     altruistic or financial. To the extent it does not
                                                          violate D.H.'s due process rights.
     realize the expectation of a known sperm donor,
     the statute tells him exactly how to opt out, how    All of this being said, we cannot close our
     to become and remain a father. If, as the Center     discussion of the constitutionality of K.S.A. 38-
     argues, genetic relationship must be destiny,        1114(f ) without observing that all that is
     then an anonymous donor with no intention to         constitutional is not necessarily wise. We are
     be a father would nevertheless automatically         mindful of, and moved by, the Center's advocacy
     become one. It is evident to us the legislature      for public policy to maximize the chance of the
     chose an alternate arrangement. Neither D.H.         availability of two parents — and two parents'
     nor the Center has convinced us there is a           resources — to Kansas children. We are also
     constitutional mandate for this court to make an     aware of continued evolution in regulation of
     independent policy choice.                           artificial insemination in this and other
                                                          countries. In particular, Britain and The
     We also reject the argument from D.H. and the
                                                          Netherlands now ban anonymous sperm
     Center that the statute inevitably makes the
                                                          donations, near-perfect analogs to donations
     female the sole arbiter of whether a male can be
                                                          from known donors who will have no role
     a father to a child his sperm helps to conceive.
                                                          beyond facilitating artificial insemination.
     This may be true, as we discussed above, once a
                                                          These      shifts    formally   recognize     the
     donation is made, a recipient who becomes
                                                          understandable desires of at least some children
     pregnant through artificial insemination using
                                                          conceived through artificial insemination to
     that donation can refuse to enter into an
                                                          know the males from whom they have received
     agreement to provide for donor paternity. This
                                                          half of their genes. The Human Fertilisation and
     does not make the requirement of written
                                                          Embryology Authority Act of 1990, as amended
     agreement unconstitutional. Indeed, it is
                                                          by     Disclosure     of   Donor Information,
     consistent with United States Supreme Court
                                                          Regulations 2004 No. 1511 (requiring, effective
     precedent making even a married pregnant
                                                          April 2005, British donors' identities to be made
     woman the sole arbiter, regardless of her
                                                          available to donor-conceived children when
     husband's wishes, of whether she continues a
                                                          children become 18); Netherlands Embryos Bill,
     pregnancy to term. See Planned Parenthood of
                                                          Article 3 Dutch Ministry of Health, Welfare, and
     Missouri v. Danforth, 428 U.S. 52, 69-71, 49 L.Ed.
                                                          Sport (2004) www.minvws.nl/en (effective June
     2d 788, 96 S. Ct. 2831 (1976). As discussed above,
                                                          2004, child born using donated sperm has right
     before a donation is made, a prospective donor
                                                          to obtain information about biological father at
     has complete autonomy to refuse to facilitate an
                                                          age 16). As one such child recently wrote,
     artificial insemination unless he gets an
     agreement in writing to his paternity terms.
     This is more than most fathers, wed or unwed to
     their children's mothers, can ever hope for. See
     Note and Comment, A Tale of Three Women: A
78   Survey of the Rights *78 and Responsibilities of
     Unmarried Women Who Conceive by Alternative
        "[t]hose of us created with donated                     purely, and solely, biological. It does not give
        sperm won't stay bubbly babies forever.                 rise to a constitutionally protected right. See
        We're all going to grow into adults, and                Lehr, 463 U.S. at 261.
        form opinions about the decision to
                                                                When we are called upon to interpret a statute,
        bring us into the world in a way that
                                                                we first attempt to give effect to the intent of
        deprives us of the basic right to know
                                                                the legislature as expressed through the
        where we came from, what our history is
                                                                language enacted. When a statute is plain and
        and who both our parents are."
                                                                unambiguous, we do not speculate as to the
     Clark, My Father was an Anonymous Sperm Donor,             legislative intent behind it and will not read the
     The Washington Post, December 17, 2006, at                 statute to add something not readily found in it.
79   B01 (also currently available *79            at            We need not resort to statutory construction. It
     http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-                          is only if the statute's language or text is unclear
     dyn/eontent/article/2006/12/15/                            or ambiguous that we move to the next
     AR2006121501820.html).       We    sympathize.             analytical step, applying canons of construction
     However, weighing of the interests of all                  or relying on legislative history construing the
     involved in these procedures as well as the                statute to effect the legislature's intent. See CPI
     public policies that are furthered by favoring             Qualified Plan Consultants, Inc. v. Kansas Dept. of
     one or another in certain circumstances, is the       80   *80 Human Resources, 272 Kan. 1288, 1296, 38 P.3d
     charge of the Kansas Legislature, not of this              666 (2002); State v. Robinson, 281 Kan. 538, 539-
     court.                                                     40, 132 P.3d 934 (2006).
     " Provided to a Licensed Physician"                        Again, K.S.A. 38-1114(0 states in pertinent part:
                                                                "The donor of semen provided to a licensed
     D.H.'s next argument on appeal is that the
                                                                physician for use in artificial insemination of a
     district judge erred in applying K.S.A. 38-1114(f )
                                                                woman other than the donor's wife is treated in
     to him because his sperm was not "provided to a
                                                                law as if he were not the birth father of a child. .
     licensed physician," as required by the statute.
                                                                . ." D.H.'s argument focuses on the phrase
     Instead, it was provided to S.H., who, in turn,
                                                                "provided to licensed physician," essentially
     provided it to the medical personnel who
                                                                reading it to say " directly and personally provided
     performed the insemination.
                                                                to a licensed physician" or "provided to a
     D.H. opens this argument by citing a Kansas                licensed physician by the donor." This argument
     Court of Appeals case involving a petition to              lacks merit.
     terminate the rights of a putative father for the
                                                                The language of the statute is clear and
     proposition that "[statutes pertaining to
                                                                unambiguous, and we will not add to it, as D.H.
     adoption, relinquishment, or termination of
                                                                suggests. The words "the donor" form the
     parental rights are strictly construed as they
                                                                subject of the predicate "is treated as if he were
     affect a parent's liberty interest in the custody
                                                                not the birth father." The lengthy dependent
     and control of his or her children." In re J.A.C.,
                                                                clause "provided to a licensed physician for use
     22 Kan. App. 2d 96, Syl. ¶ 3, 911 P.2d 825 (1996).
                                                                in artificial insemination of a woman other than
     This case has no influence on our de novo
                                                                the donor's wife" modifies "semen." K.S.A. 38-
     standard of review here. As discussed at length
                                                                1114(f ) does not require the donor himself to
     with regard to the constitutionality of K.S.A. 38-
                                                                provide his sperm to the physician performing
     1114(f ), absent a written agreement to the
                                                                the insemination. It requires only that the
     contrary, D.H. is not a putative father. He is a
                                                                donor's sperm be provided to the physician by
     sperm donor only. His link to the twins is
     an unspecified someone or something. The fact that         been an odd procedural vehicle for effecting
     S.H. was that someone here did not prevent                 S.H.'s desire — a court order stating that D.H.
     application of the statute to this situation.              never acquired any parental rights under K.S.A.
                                                                38-1] 14(f ). A declaratory judgment action might
     " Unless Agreed to in Writing"                             have been better suited to her legal position.
     Assuming arguendo the constitutionality and                But she and her counsel were in uncharted
     applicability of K.S.A. 38-1114(f ), D.H. next             waters. We will not hold that the pleadings
     argues that the statute's requirement of a                 constitute a written agreement by operation of
     written agreement should be deemed satisfied               law.
     by the CINC petition filed by S.H. or by the
     CINC petition and his paternity petition, read             Parental Rights Under K.S.A. 38-
     together. He asserts that the statute sets forth           1114(a)(4)
     no requirement that a written agreement be                 In the final paragraphs of his brief on appeal,
     entered into at or before the time of the                  D.H. argues that this case should be controlled
     insemination and points out that the CINC                  by K.S.A. 38-1114(a)(4) rather than K.S.A. 38-
     petition referred to him "56 times" as the                 1114(0. K.S.A. 38-1.114(a)(4) provides:
     twins`"father." S.H. argues that there was no
                                                                   "(a) A man is presumed to be the father
     "meeting of the minds" between her and D.H.
                                                                   of a child if:
     regarding coparenting and that the pleadings
     evidence none.                                                ....
     There is no technical definition of "agreed to" or            "(4) The man notoriously or in writing
     "writing" in the Kansas Parentage Act of which                recognizes paternity of the child,
     K.S.A. 38-1114(f ) is a part. Although these words            including but not limited to a voluntary
     or forms of them are defined elsewhere in                     acknowledgment made [by amendment
     Kansas statutes, see, e.g., K.S.A. 2006 Supp. 84-1-           of birth certificate] in accordance with
81   201(3) (defining *81 "agreement" as used in                   K.S.A. 38-1130 or [filing of birth
     Kansas version of Uniform Commercial Code);                   certificate under K.S.A.] 65-2409a, and
     K.S.A. 2006 Supp. 84-1-201(46) (defining                      amendments thereto."
     "written," "writing" as used in same), these
     definitions, by their terms, are inapplicable. We          In his brief before the district court, D.II.
     therefore give these words as used in K.S.A. 38-           attempted to reserve "the right to make claims
     1114(f ) the meaning accorded them in everyday             based on ratification, estoppel, and common
     English. Sec GT, Kansas, L.L.C. v. Riley County            law," but this specific contention under K.S.A.
     Register of Deeds, 271 Kan. 311, 316, 22 P.3d 600          38-1114(a)(4) was       never raised below.
     (2001).                                                    Nevertheless, given the status of this case as
                                                                one of first impression and the potential for
     When we do so, there can be no doubt that the         82   denial of fundamental *82 rights, see In re
     pleadings filed by the parties are "in writing."           M.M.L., 258 Kan. 254, 261, 900 P.2d 813 (1995),
     However, interpreting them separately or                   we address its merit.
     together to prove the parties "agreed to" D.H.'s
     status as a father would require Lewis Carroll's           A specific statute controls over a general
     looking glass. The absence of such an agreement            statute. See State ex rel. Tomasic v. Unified Gov. of
     necessitated the drafting and filing of the                Wyandotte C.O./Kansas City, 264 Kan. 293, 311, 955
     pleadings in the first place. Their existence and          P.2d 1136 (1998). Likewise, a specific provision
     substance do not memorialize accord, rather, its           within a statute controls over a more general
     opposite. A CINC petition to terminate D.H.'s              provision within the statute. K.S.A. 38-1114(f ) is
     parental rights under K.S.A. 38-1531 may have              far more specific to cases involving artificial
     insemination by a sperm donor such as D.H.            conduct by S.H. The evidence he presented to
     than the general presumption of paternity set         the district court focused only on the existence
     out in K.S.A. 38-1114(a)(4). D.H.'s claim under       of an oral agreement and his efforts at support;
     K.S.A. 38-1114(a)(4) is without merit.                even assuming all of this evidence to be true, it
                                                           is insufficient under what we have held is a
     Equity                                                constitutional statute.
     For the first time in his appellate reply brief,
                                                           Generally speaking, mere ignorance of the law is
     D.H. asserts that the district court must be
                                                           no excuse for failing to abide by it. State ex rel.
     reversed because S.H. has "unclean hands." In
                                                           Murray v. Palmgren, 231 Kan. 524, 536, 646 P.2d
     essence, he argues that he, a nonlawyer, was
                                                           1091 (1982). There may be a case in the future in
     tricked by lawyer S.H., who failed to inform him
                                                           which a donor can prove that the existence of
     of the statute and failed to explain how the
                                                           K.S.A. 38-1114(f ) was concealed, or that he was
     absence of independent legal advice or a written
                                                           fraudulently induced not to obtain independent
     agreement could affect his legal rights. He
                                                           legal advice or not to enter into a written
     asserts that he asked S.H. about whether he
                                                           agreement to ensure creation and preservation
     needed a lawyer or whether they should put
                                                           of his parental rights to a child conceived
     their arrangement in writing and was told
                                                           through artificial insemination. This is not such
     neither was necessary. This behavior, he alleges,
                                                           a case.
     may have constituted a violation of S.H.'s ethical
     duties as a licensed lawyer.                          Affirmed.
     Despite D.H.'s attempt in his district court brief    ALLECRUCCI, NUSS, LUCKERT, and ROSEN,
     to reserve "the right to make claims based on         JJ, not participating.
     ratification, estoppel, and common law," this
     invocation of equity was never further                LOCKETT, J., Retired, CAPLINGER and HILL,
     preserved for review by pursuit in the district       JJ, assigned.
     court or by inclusion in his opening appellate              1 1REPORTER'S NOTE: Justice Tyler C.
     brief. See McGinley v. Bank of America, N.A., 279             Lockett, Retired, was appointed to hear
     Kan. 426, 444, 109 P.3d 1146 (2005) (issue not                case No. 96,102 vice Justice Allegrucci
     briefed     by     appellant     deemed     waived,           pursuant to the authority vested in the
     abandoned); Titterington v. Brooke Insurance, 277             Supreme Court by K.S.A. 20-2616. Judge
     Kan. 888, Syl. ¶ 3, 89 P.3d 643 (2004) ("[a] point            Nancy L. Caplinger and Judge Stephen D.
raised only incidentally in a party's brief but not Hill, of the Kansas Court of Appeals,
     argued in the brief is deemed abandoned");                    were appointed to hear case No. 96,102
                                                                   vice   Justices   Luckert   and   Rosen
     Board of Lincoln County Comm'rs v. Nielander, 275
                                                                   respectively pursuant to the authority
     Kan. 257, 268, 62 P.3d 247 (2003) (issue not
                                                                   vested in the Supreme Court by K.S.A.
     raised in district court not preserved for
                                                                   20-3002(c).
     appellate court). Even if we would nonetheless
     be inclined to reach its merit, given the posture
                                                           McFARLAND, C.J., concurring:
     of the case and the fundamental nature of the
     rights in play, we also are prevented from doing      I agree with the majority's conclusion that
     so by an inadequate appellate record of the           K.S.A. 38-1114(f ) is constitutionally permissible
83   underlying *83 facts. See State ex rel. Stovall v.    and operates to bar D.H. from asserting parental
     Alivio, 275 Kan. 169, 172, 61 P.3d 687 (2003) (duty   rights relative to the twins K.M.H. and K.C.H.
     of party to furnish appellate record sufficient to
     enable review of issue). D.H. never proffered         I think it is helpful to consider subsection (0 in
     evidence to support his assertions of nefarious       context with other provisions of K.S.A. 38-1114.
                                                           The statute is lengthy and states the
     presumptions of paternity in various factual                "(4) The man notoriously or in writing
     situations. Illustrative thereof is the following           recognizes paternity of the child,
     excerpt:                                                    including but not limited to a voluntary
                                                                 acknowledgment made in accordance
        "(a) A man is presumed to be the father
                                                                 with K.S.A. 38-1130 or 65-2409a, and
        of a child if:
                                                                 amendments thereto.
84      *84 "(1) The man and the child's mother
                                                                 "(5) Genetic test results indicate a
        are, or have been, married to each other
                                                                 probability of 97% or greater that the
        and the child is born during the marriage
                                                                 man is the father of the child." K.S.A. 38-
        or within 300 days after the marriage is
                                                                 1114(a).
        terminated by death or by the filing of a
        journal entry of a decree of annulment or             The statute further provides:
        divorce.
                                                                 "(b) A presumption under this section
        "(2) Before the child's birth, the man and               may be rebutted only by clear and
        the child's mother have attempted to                     convincing evidence, by a court decree
        marry each other by a marriage                           establishing paternity of the child by
        solemnized in apparent compliance with                   another man or as provided in subsection
        law, although the attempted marriage is                  (c). If a presumption is rebutted, the
        void or voidable and:                                    party alleging the existence of a father
                                                                 and child relationship shall have the
        (A) If the attempted marriage is voidable,
                                                                 burden of going forward with the
        the child is born during the attempted
                                                                 evidence.
        marriage or within 300 days after its
        termination by death or by the filing of a               ....
        journal entry of a decree of annulment or
                                                                 "(e) If a presumption arises under this
        divorce; or
                                                                 section, the presumption shall be
        (B) if the attempted marriage is void, the               sufficient basis for entry of an order
        child is born within 300 days after the                  requiring the man to support the child
        termination of cohabitation.                             without further paternity proceedings."
                                                                 K.S.A. 38-1114(b), (e).
        "(3) After the child's birth, the man and
        the child's mother have married, or                   The bulk of the statute is concerned with
        attempted to marry, each other by a                   establishing presumptions as to the paternity of
        marriage solemnized in apparent                       a child. These are presumptions that may be
        compliance with law, although the                     rebutted. Subsection (f ) is the final provision of
        attempted marriage is void or voidable                that statute and is in stark contrast to the rest
        and:                                                  of the statute. No presumption is involved
                                                              therein. Subsection (f ) states:
        (A) The man has acknowledged paternity
        of the child in writing;                         85      *85 "(f ) The donor of semen provided to a
                                                                 licensed physician for use in artificial
        (B) with the man's consent, the man is
                                                                 insemination of a woman other than the
        named as the child's father on the child's
                                                                 donor's wife is treated in law as if lie
        birth certificate; or
                                                                 were not the birth father of a child
        (C) the man is obligated to support the                  thereby conceived, unless agreed to in
        child under a written voluntary promise                  writing by the donor and the woman."
        or by a court order.                                     K.S.A. 38-1114(f )
The biological father of a child conceived under      86   *86  Further, as the majority notes, it is not
the circumstance described therein is to be                ruling out the possibility that some future
treated in law as not being the birth father,              factual situation might result in the statutory
absent an agreement in writing.                            bar being held inapplicable under those specific
                                                           facts.
To come under the statute, an unmarried
woman must desire to be impregnated by
                                                           CAPLINGER, J., dissenting:
artificial insemination in a procedure by a
licensed physician. She could elect to have an             I respectfully disagree with the majority's
anonymous donor from a sperm bank. The                     analysis of the constitutionality of K.S.A. 38-
statute would bar the donor from the rights of             1114(f ) as applied to D.H. I would hold the
parentage even if his identity were later                  statute unconstitutional as applied to D.H. for
determined. If the woman elects to ask an                  the reason that it violates his fundamental right
acquaintance to be the donor and he agrees, he             to parent his children without due process of
has no parentage rights unless the parties agree           law.
thereto in writing. If the parties agree in
                                                           In reaching its conclusion that K.S.A. 38-1114(f )
writing, the donor is assuming not: only the
                                                           comports with due process, the majority
privileges associated with parenthood but the
                                                           analyzes at least two extra-jurisdictional cases
possible financial burden of child support for 18
                                                           which hold that statutes creating an absolute bar
years or so. The man might feel flattered to be
                                                           to donor paternity violate due process rights as
asked to be the donor and even be assured no
                                                           applied to a known donor: McIntyre v. Crouch, 98
child support would ever be sought. Without the
                                                           Or. App. 462, 780 P.2d 239 (1989), cert denied 495
statute, the donor would likely have no defense
                                                           U.S. 905 (1990). (Oregon statute's absolute bar
to child support claims asserted by the mother
                                                           to paternity violated due process as applied to
or the child.
                                                           known sperm donor if donor could establish on
Under the statute, absent an agreement in                  remand that he and child's mother agreed that
writing, the prospective mother would truly                donor would be the natural father of the child);
become a single parent upon a successful                   and C.O. v. W.S., 64 Ohio Misc. 2d 9, 639 N.E.2d
pregnancy, having assumed all parental                     523 (1994) (Ohio statute's absolute bar to
privileges, duties, and obligations to any child           paternity of known donor violated due process
born as a result of the artificial insemination. If        as applied to donor where mother solicited
the donor she sought out wants to assume                   participation of donor and agreed that known
parental privileges and responsibilities, and the          donor would have relationship with child).
prospective mother does not want this and will
                                                           Significantly, the majority concurs with "the
not agree, the would-be donor can say no deal
                                                           McIntyre and C.O. courts in their constitutional
and walk away. There is no child and no issue as
                                                           analyses of absolute bar statutes." 285 Kan. at
to future rights and/or duties of the would-be
                                                           72. Nevertheless, the majority concludes it need
donor. The prospective mother can seek out a
                                                           not arrive at the same result because "K.S.A. 38-
sperm bank, another artificial insemination
                                                           1114(f ) provides exactly the sort of escape clause
donor, proceed in some other manner outside
                                                           the Oregon and Ohio courts found lacking —
the subsection, or abandon the idea of
                                                           and unconstitutional — in their statutes." 285
pregnancy. The subsection (f ) provision appears
                                                           Kan. at 72.
to be aimed at protecting both parties from
unwanted duties and/or obligations being                   I agree with the majority's conclusion that
imposed without their consent in the very                  "absolute bar" statutes like those at issue in
limited factual situation to which it applies.             McIntyre and C.O. violate due process. I do not
     agree, however, that the K.S.A. 38-1114(f )                  determine whether the addition of an opt-out
     provision permitting a donor to "opt out" of the             provision like that at issue here would have
     statute's paternity bar saved the statute's                  resolved its due process concerns.
     constitutionality under the facts of this case.
                                                                  Moreover, while the court in C.O. did point out
     The statutory provision at issue here bears                  that a statute that "absolutely extinguishes a
     repetition at this juncture. K.S.A. 38-1114(f )              father's efforts to assert the rights and
     provides:                                                    responsibilities of being a father . . . runs
                                                                  contrary to due process standards," it did not
        "The donor of semen provided to a
                                                                  compare any statutes containing a written opt-
        licenced physician for use in artificial
                                                                  out provision. Further, it found its own statute
        insemination of a woman other than the
                                                                  lacking because it did not take into account the
        donor's wife is treated in law as if he
                                                                  parties' oral agreement that the donor would
87      were *87 not the birth father of a child
                                                                  have a relationship with any child conceived of
        thereby conceived, unless agreed to in
                                                                  the insemination. 64 Ohio Misc. 2d at 12. The
        writing by the donor and the woman."
                                                                  court in C.O. did not, as the majority suggests,
        (Emphasis added.)
                                                                  indicate that a written opt-out agreement would
     Before discussing the specific basis for my                  have ameliorated the court's due process
     disagreement with the majority's conclusion                  concerns.
     that the italicized proviso renders the statute
                                                                  In fact, the expansive rationale in C.O. suggests
     constitutional as applied to D.H., I would first
                                                                  otherwise:
     note that neither the McIntyre court nor the
     C.O. court found, as the majority suggests, that        88      *88 "Public policy supports the concept of
     their   respective     state   statutes    were                 legitimacy, and the concomitant rights of
     unconstitutional because they lacked an "escape                 a child to support and inheritance.
     clause" providing for a written agreement                       [Citation omitted.] A father's voluntary
     between the parties.                                            assumption of fiscal responsibility for
                                                                     his child should be endorsed as a socially
     The court in McIntyre found the applicable
                                                                     responsible action." 64 Ohio Misc. 2d at
     statute problematic because it barred the
                                                                     12.
     petitioner from the rights and responsibilities
     of fatherhood "even if respondent had agreed                 Thus, while the courts in C.O. and McIntyre
     with [the donor that he would have parental                  suggested that it was their respective statute's
     rights] before he gave her his semen in reliance             "absolute bar" that ran afoul of due process
     on that agreement." 98 Or. App. at 468. The                  safeguards, neither court held that a
     court noted the statute contained no qualifying              requirement permitting the parties to opt out of
     language and, in a footnote, compared a                      the statute, so long as the agreement was
     Washington state statute which contained a                   memorialized in writing, would satisfy due
     written opt-out provision similar to that found              process safeguards. As the majority recognizes,
     in K.S.A. 38-1114(f ). 98 Or. App. at 468 n. 2; see          no court has considered the specific issue facing
     also In Interest of R.C., 775 P.2d 27, 33 n. 7 (Colo.        this court.
     1989) (recognizing in footnote that "[a] growing
                                                                  For the reasons discussed below, I would find
     number of legislatures have sought to clear up
                                                                  that K.S.A. 38-1114(f )'s inclusion of a written
     this confusion by enacting laws that extinguish
                                                                  "opt-out" provision does not save it from the
     parental rights of semen donors unless the
                                                                  same fate as the statutes considered by the
     donor acknowledges his paternity in writing").
     The court in McIntyre, however, did not
     courts in McIntyre and C.O. — i.e., it is                   States Constitution. See, e.g., Troxel, 530 U.S. at
     unconstitutional because it violates due process            65-66; Stanley v. Illinois, 405 U.S. 645, 651-52, 31
     as applied to the donor.                                    L.Ed. 2d 551, 92 S.Ct. 1208 (1972).
     Requirement that donor take affirmative                     The Supreme Court has further consistently
     action to protect his parental rights                       held that courts must "indulge every reasonable
                                                                 presumption against waiver of fundamental
     In concluding that the opt-out provision in
                                                                 constitutional rights." Johnson v. Zerbst, 304 U.S.
     K.S.A. 38-1114(f ) satisfies due process
                                                                 458, 464, 82 L.Ed. 1461, 58 S.Ct. 1019 (1938). "A
     requirements, the majority states that D.H.'s
                                                                 waiver      is   ordinarily    an      intentional
     "own inaction before donating his sperm" left
                                                                 relinquishment or abandonment of a known
     him unable to meet the statute's requirements
                                                                 right or privilege" and thus must result from a
     of a written agreement. 285 Kan. at 75.
                                                                 free and conscious choice. 304 U.S. at 464. And,
     (Emphasis      added.)     Therein     lies the
                                                                 when faced with a waiver of a fundamental right,
     constitutional problem with the statute.
                                                                 courts "do not presume acquiescence in the loss
     Fundamental rights must be actively waived,
                                                                 of fundamental rights." 304 U.S. at 464; see also
     rather than passively lost due to inaction.
                                                                 Hodges v. Easton, 106 U.S. (16 Otto) 408, 412, 27
     Initially, before analyzing this issue, I would             L.Ed. 169, 1 S.Ct. 307 (1882) (right to trial by
     note that the terminology employed by the                   jury in a civil case is a fundamental right and
     majority, i.e., that D.H. failed to "opt out" of the        every reasonable presumption must be indulged
     statute, is a misnomer. In effect, the statute              against its waiver).
     requires a known sperm donor, regardless of any
                                                                 The majority recognizes that K.S.A. 38-1114(f )
     agreement or understanding the donor may have
                                                                 permits a donor to waive his right to parent
     as to his role in parenting a child conceived from
                                                                 simply by his own inaction rather than through
     his sperm, to opt in to parenthood or forever
                                                                 an intentional act relinquishing that right. For
     waive his right to parent. As discussed below,
                                                                 this reason, I would find the statute's "escape
     under the circumstances of this case, the
                                                                 clause" does not satisfy due process
     statute's requirement that D.H. take affirmative
                                                                 requirements.
     action to preserve his fundamental right to
     parent, or to "opt in" to parenting, violates               Effect of "ignorance of the law" on an
     fundamental principles of due process.                      individual's fundamental right to parent
89   *89  Pursuant to the Fourteenth Amendment to                Nor can I agree with the majority's conclusion
     the United States Constitution, no State shall              that D.H.'s ignorance of the statute's writing
     "deprive any person of life, liberty, or property,          requirement has no effect on the statute's
     without the due process of law." The Supreme                application. 285 Kan. at 75. In support of this
     Court has held that the Fourteenth Amendment                determination,      the    majority     essentially
     "guarantees more than fair process" and                     reiterates the often-stated principle that
     "includes a substantive component that                      "ignorance of the law is no excuse," and cites
     `provides heightened protection against                90   three cases in *90 support of its application of
     government        interference      with    certain         this principle to the facts here: Lehr v. Robertson,
     fundamental rights and liberty interests.'                  463 U.S. 248, 264, 77 L.Ed. 2d 614, 103 S.Ct. 2985
     [Citation omitted.]" Troxel v. Granville, 530 U.S.          (1983); Jhordan C. v. Mary K, 179 Cal. App. 3d 386,
     57, 65, 147 L.Ed. 2d 49, 120 S. Ct. 2054 (2000). It         389, 224 Cal. Rptr. 530 (1986); and State ex rel.
     is well established that the right to parent is a           Murray v. Palmgren, 231 Kan. 524, 536, 646 P.2d
     fundamental right protected by the United                   1091 (1982). However, none of these cases hold
                                                                 that an individual can relinquish a fundamental
                                                                 right simply through ignorance of the law.
     As the majority notes, the Kansas Supreme             should receive notice of adoption when that
     Court held in Murray, 231 Kan. at 536, that "         father never established a relationship with his
     [i]gnorance of the law is no excuse." Further,        child and further failed to comply with a New
     the court referred to the "impressive body of         York law requiring him to file notice with a
     authority and the ancient maxim" supporting           putative father registry. The Court recognized
     this statement. 231 Kan. at 536. However, the         that familial relationships are "an interest in
     question before the court in Murray was not           liberty entitled to constitutional protection"
     whether an individual may waive a fundamental         and state statutes that take away this right must
     right by ignorance of a law requiring affirmative     comport with the Due Process Clause of the
     action to protect that right. Rather, the question    Fourteenth Amendment to the United States
     in Murray was whether the meetings conducted          Constitution. 463 U.S. at 258.
     by the board of trustees of a county hospital
                                                           As the majority points out, the Lehr Court held
     were covered by the Kansas Open Meetings Act,
                                                           that the putative father's ignorance of the
     in light of the board members' claim that any
                                                           requirement that he must mail a postcard to the
     violation of the Act was in "good faith" because
                                                           putative father registry to guarantee his right to
     they had been advised by the county attorney
                                                           receive notice of the adoption proceedings of
     that their meetings were not covered by the Act.
                                                           his daughter was not a "sufficient reason to
     I simply cannot equate such "ignorance," and
                                                           criticize the law itself." 463 U.S. at 264.
     the effect of such ignorance, with a father's
     preconception waiver of his right to parent a         However, the majority's focus on this aspect of
     child because of his ignorance of a statute           the Lehr decision is misplaced in light of Lehr's
     requiring him to "opt in" to parenting.               recognition and characterization of a father's
                                                           fundamental rights to parent.
     Jhordan C., 179 Cal. App. 3d 386, also cited by the
     majority, is unpersuasive for the obvious reason      The Lehr Court noted it was not concerned with
     that it is not precedential authority. More           whether the father had a significant relationship
     importantly, while the majority cites Jhordan C.      with his biological daughter but, instead, was
     in support of its statement that D.H.'s               focused on whether New York protected his
     ignorance of our Kansas statute does not              opportunity as a father to form that relationship. 463
     preclude its application here, the court in           U.S. at 262. The Court examined New York's
     Jhordan made no determination whatsoever as           putative father registry and found that because
     to whether a donor's ignorance of a California        the biological father retained the control to
     statute would suffice to waive his fundamental        receive notice of adoption proceedings, the Due
     right to parent. Instead, the Jhordan C. court        Process Clause was not violated. 463 U.S. at 264.
     merely noted in reciting the factual background
                                                           In so ruling, the Court noted that the impetus
     that the parties were "completely unaware of
                                                           for New York's putative father registry was the
     the existence" of the statute. 179 Cal. App. 3d at
                                                           holding in Stanley v. Illinois, 405 U.S. 645, where
     389. Moreover, the court in Jhordan C.
                                                           the Supreme Court struck down a statute that
     ultimately concluded California's statute could
                                                           automatically classified any man who fathered a
     not bar the donor's rights because the donor's
                                                           child out of wed-lock as an unfit parent. The
     sperm had not been provided to a licensed
                                                           Court in Lehr further noted that a special
     physician. 179 Cal. App. 3d at 397-98.
                                                           committee charged by the New York Legislature
91   *91 The third case cited by the majority in           with forming the law after Stanley was supposed
     support of its conclusion that the donor's            to "accommodate both the interests of the
     "ignorance of the law is no excuse," is Lehr, 463     biological fathers in their children and the
     U.S. at 264. There, the United States Supreme         children's interests in prompt and certain
     Court considered whether a biological father          adoption procedures." 463 U.S. at 263.
92   *92   Thus, when considering Lehr and its                   acquires substantial protection under the Due
     application here, it is vital to remember the               Process Clause." 463 U.S. at 261 (quoting Caban,
     Court upheld a statute that terminated the                  441 U.S. at 392).
     parental rights of a biological father, but it did
                                                                 That is the scenario with which this court is
     so in the context of a pending adoption
                                                                 faced. A putative father has come forward to
     proceeding. Because a nonbiological father
                                                                 participate in the rearing of his children,
     figure was ready, willing, and able to assume the
                                                                 emotionally and financially; consequently, his
     responsibilities of parenthood, the Lehr Court
                                                                 interest in doing so is entitled to full protection
     found no reason to delay the child's adoption
                                                                 under the Due Process Clause. Instead of being
     simply because the previously absentee
                                                                 given this protection and an opportunity to
     biological father suddenly asserted rights, yet
                                                            93   prove *93 that he intended to actively parent his
     failed to take the steps necessaryas provided by
                                                                 children, D.H. has been subjected to the
     a statuteto preserve those rights. 463 U.S. at
                                                                 workings of a statute of which he was unaware,
     264-65.
                                                                 that required him to "opt in" to fatherhood
     Placed in context, the Lehr Court's affirmance of           before ever donating his sperm, or be forever
     the termination of the biological father's                  barred from parenting his children.
     parental rights makes sense, and the Court's
                                                                 I strongly disagree with the majority's
     observation that "`[p]arental rights do not
                                                                 conclusion that D.H.'s own inaction, whether
     spring full-blown from the biological connection
                                                                 due to ignorance of the law or otherwise,
     between parent and child`" is merited. 463 U.S.
                                                                 constituted a waiver of his rights to parent.
     at 260 (quoting Caban v. Mohammed, 441 U.S.
                                                                 Because the rights to parent are fundamental,
     380, 397, 60 L.Ed. 2d 297, 99 S.Ct. 1760
                                                                 those rights may be waived only through an
     [Stewart, J., dissenting] [ruling that the
                                                                 intentional, free, and meaningful choice. Here,
     adoption of two children by their stepfather
                                                                 the record indicates D.H. was not even aware of
     would violate the Equal Protection rights of the
                                                                 K.S.A. 38-1114(f ), much less its requirement that
     biological father, who had constantly been
                                                                 he must enter into a written agreement
     involved with the lives of the children]).
                                                                 formalizing his intent to parent his child before
     Here, however, we are not faced with a situation            he provided his sperm to S.H. I would find the
     in which an additional party seeks to assert                statute's requirement that a known sperm donor
     parental rights; instead, only the biological               affirmatively take action to preserve his
     father seeks to assert his rights to parent his             fundamental rights to parent constituted a
     children. Thus, the need for a determination of             violation of due process as applied to D.H.
     parental rights does not exist in the same
     urgency that it exists in an adoption situation             The State's interest in furthering
     where all parries involved, particularly the child,         predictability, clarity, and enforceability
     are best served with clear laws and a certain               The majority declares that the K.S.A. 38-1114(f )
     ruling.                                                     requirement that any agreement regarding
                                                                 parenting be in writing "enhances predictability,
     I would urge the majority to consider the
                                                                 clarity, and enforceability." 285 Kan. at 74.
     complete rationale of Lehr: "When an unwed
                                                                 Further, it suggests that "avoidance of the limbo
     father demonstrates a full commitment to the
                                                                 in which D.H. finds himself in is a worthy
     responsibilities of parenthood by `com[ing]
                                                                 legislative goal." 285 Kan. at 75.
     forward to participate in the rearing of his child,'
     his interest in personal contact with his child             "Clarity," while an admirable goal, has little do
                                                                 with the constitutionality of this statute.
                                                                 Significantly, in Stanley, 405 U.S. 645, the United
     States Supreme Court addressed the allegations           Kansas law provides a presumption that sperm
     of clarity and administrative convenience as             donors are not the legal parents of any children
     justifications for a purported violation of the          conceived of the donated sperm, absent a
     Due Process Clause. There, an unwed father               written agreement. In the case of a known
     challenged an Illinois statute which resulted in         sperm donor and an unmarried woman,
     his classification as an unfit father and the            however, the donor should be allowed the
     removal of his children from their home after            opportunity for a hearing to establish his intent
     the death of the mother because he had not been          to be something other than a sperm "donor" —
     married to the children's mother. The State              i.e., to establish his paternity and rights as a
     argued it was unnecessary to hold individualized         parent. Simply stated, I would find the statute's
     hearings to determine the fitness of unwed               clarity does not justify its constitutional
     fathers before those fathers were separated              violation.
     from their children because unmarried fathers
                                                              The requirement of a "writing" under K.S.A. 38-
     were "per se" unfit.
                                                              1114(f)
     The Supreme Court disagreed and ruled in
                                                              It is interesting to note that in considering
     accordance with the Due Process Clause that
                                                              whether the K.S.A. 38-1114(f ) writing
94   Stanley was entitled to a fitness hearing *94
                                                              requirement may be met by considering S.H.'s
     before his children were taken from him. 405
                                                              averments in her pleadings, the majority
     U.S. at 649. The Court specifically addressed the
                                                              references Lewis Carroll's "looking glass." 285
     argument that individualized hearings for
                                                              Kan. at 81. ("[I]nterpreting [pleadings]
     unmarried      fathers   would       create    an
                                                              separately or together to prove the parties
     administrative inconvenience and noted that
                                                              `agreed' to D.H.'s status as a father would
     although the State has an interest in prompt
                                                              require Lewis Carroll's looking glass."). While I
     procedures, "the Constitution recognizes higher
                                                              agree with the majority that we cannot interpret
     values than speed and efficiency." 405 U.S. at
                                                              the pleadings filed by S.H. (in which she
     656.
                                                              referred to D.H. as the "father" of her children at
     Thus, even though K.S.A. 38-1114(f ) may provide         least 56 times) as the "writing" contemplated by
     a quick and clear method to dismiss paternity            K.S.A. 38-1114(f ), I would find that S.H.'s
     actions, it must comport with the values                 inconsistent pleadings and actions are evidence
     inherent in the Constitution, namely due                 to be considered by the district court in
     process of law.                                     95   determining *95 whether the parties agreed that
                                                              D.H. would play an active role in the twins'
     The Court in Stanley pointed out that prompt
                                                              lives.
     procedures are not the only consideration
     important to citizens:                                   S.H. filed a child in need of care (CINC) petition
                                                              the day following the twins' birth seeking to
        "Procedure by presumption is always
                                                              terminate D.H.'s parental rights. In the petition,
        cheaper and easier than individualized
                                                              she alleged several reasons for terminating
        determination. But when, as here, the
                                                              D.H.'s parental rights, including D.H.'s failure to
        procedure forecloses the determinative
                                                              provide prenatal emotional and financial
        issues of competence and care, when it
                                                              support, which implied she intended D.H. to
        explicitly disdains present realities in
                                                              play a role in the parenting process.
        deference to past formalities, it
                                                              Significantly, no mention was made in the CINC
        needlessly risks running roughshod over
                                                              petition of K.S.A. 38-1114(f ) or its potential
        the important interests of both parent
                                                              application here. In fact, it was not until
        and child. It therefore cannot stand." 405
                                                              petitioner filed an amended petition more than
        U.S. at 656-57.
     2 weeks after the initial petition that mention       HILL, J., dissenting:
     was made of K.S.A. 38-1114(f ) and its
                                                           I must respectfully join with Judge Caplinger in
     presumption of nonpaternity.
                                                           her dissent. I too agree that as applied in this
     Thus, I would remand for the district court to        case, K.S.A. 38-1114(f ) is unconstitutional when
     consider all evidence relevant to the existence       applied to a known donor.
     of an agreement between the parties, including
                                                           But I raise my hand and ask a different question.
     S.H.'s inconsistent allegations regarding D.H.'s
                                                           Who speaks for the children in these
     responsibilities, her consistent reference to
                                                           proceedings? As applied by the majority in this
     D.H. as the "father" of her children, and her
                                                           case, this generative statute of frauds slices
     failure to rely upon the statutory presumption
                                                           away half of their heritage. A man who was once
     in her initial petition.
                                                           considered a "putative father" in the initial child
     As a final note, I agree that this court should not   in need of care proceeding is now branded a
     place fathers in an "Alice and Wonderland"            mere "semen donor." The majority offers the
     scenario where the rules of the "chess game" are      children sympathy. But is this in their best
     constantly changing and Kansas children are           interests? The trial court never got to the point
     sometimes left without two supportive parents.        of deciding the best interests of the children
     And yet, it seems to me that rather than Lewis        because it was convinced that such a
     Carroll's looking glass, we are looking at this       consideration was barred by the operation of
     case through a "funny mirror" at the local            K.S.A. 38-1114(f ) to a known donor.
     carnival. It is apparent that D.H. seeks to be a
                                                           None of the elaborate and meticulous
     loving and supportive parent to the two children
                                                           safeguards our Kansas laws afford parents and
     he has biologically fathered — two children who
                                                           children in proceedings before our courts when
     have no other putative father. And yet, by
                                                           confronted with questions of parentage have
     operation of a statute of which D.H. was
                                                           been extended to these children. A quick glance
     unaware, his rights to parent these children
                                                           over our procedures dealing with the Kansas
     were cut off before the children were conceived
                                                           Parentage Act (K.S.A. 38-1110 et seq.) or our Code
     with the use of his sperm. This is a result we
                                                           for Care of Children (K.S.A. 38-1501 et seq.)
     should not abide for D.H. or for his children
                                                           reveals the great caution we take in this state
     absent the protections of due process.
                                                           when courts must consider such relationships.
     Conclusion                                            While it is true that an attorney was appointed
                                                           to represent the children in the original child in
     I would hold K.S.A. 38-1114(f ) unconstitutional
                                                           need of care case, the record from their point of
     as applied to D.H. as it takes away his
                                                           view remains silent. Instead only the voices of
     fundamental rights to parent his children
                                                           mother and "semen donor" are heard in district
     without due process of law. Further, I would
                                                           court and this court as well.
96   remand this case with *96 directions to the
     district court to resolve the factual dispute         I agree with the Ohio Court of Common Pleas
     recognized by the majority here — i.e., whether       when it said:
     D.H. and S.H. agreed that D.H. would be the
     natural father of K.C.H. and K.M.H. If the court
     concludes that such an agreement existed, then
     it must hold that K.S.A. 38-1114(f ) did not apply
     to extinguish D.H.'s rights and must proceed to
     determine paternity and the extent to which
     D.H. will be permitted to share the rights and
     responsibilities of parenting his two children.
     "A father's voluntary assumption of fiscal          (citing Lehr v. Robertson, 463 U.S. 248, 77
     responsibility for his child should be              L.Ed. 2d 614, 103 S.Ct. 2985 [1983]).
     endorsed as a socially responsible action.
                                                   I think the same can be said about our statute.
     A statute which absolutely extinguishes
97   *97 a father's efforts to assert the rights
98                                                 *98
     and responsibility of being a father, in a
     case with such facts as those subjudice,
     runs contrary to due process safeguards.
     [Citation omitted.]" C.O. v. W.S., 64 Ohio
     Misc. 2d 9, 12, 639 N.E.2d 523 (1994)