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The document describes a Russian wedding tradition that the author witnessed while visiting a park in Moscow. A newly married couple visited the nearby war memorial in the rain shortly after their wedding. The author learned from an elderly man that in Russia, it is a custom for married couples to visit important national monuments after their wedding to remember the sacrifices of their ancestors who fought for their country's independence and freedom. Visiting the memorial on their wedding day is seen as a way to show gratitude and ask for blessings, prioritizing love of country over wedding celebrations.

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The document describes a Russian wedding tradition that the author witnessed while visiting a park in Moscow. A newly married couple visited the nearby war memorial in the rain shortly after their wedding. The author learned from an elderly man that in Russia, it is a custom for married couples to visit important national monuments after their wedding to remember the sacrifices of their ancestors who fought for their country's independence and freedom. Visiting the memorial on their wedding day is seen as a way to show gratitude and ask for blessings, prioritizing love of country over wedding celebrations.

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Sudha Murthy writes

*Good Morning*. * *WEDDING IN RUSSIA by Sudha


Murthy, wife of Mr Narayan Murthy of Infosys*

Recently I was in Moscow, Russia.

The day I went to the park was Sunday. It was drizzling and cold, though it was
summer. I was standing under an umbrella and enjoying the beauty. Suddenly, my eyes
fell on a young couple. It was apparent that they had just got married. The girl
was in her mid-twenties, slim and blond hair and blue eyes. She was very beautiful.
The boy was almost the same age and very handsome. He was in a military uniform.
The bride was wearing a white satin dress, decorated with pearls and pretty laces.
Two young bridesmaids were standing behind her holding up the hem of the gown, not
to get dirtied. One young boy was holding an umbrella over their heads so that they
should not get drenched.
The girl was holding a bouquet and the two were standing with their arms linked. It
was a beautiful sight. I wondered why they had come to the park in this rain soon
after getting married. They could have surely gone to a merrier place.
I watched as they walked together to the dias near the memorial, placed the
bouquet, bowed their heads in silence, and slowly walked back.
By now I was curious to know what was going on. There was an old man standing with
them. He looked at me, my sari, and asked, ‘Are you Indian?’
I replied, ‘Yes, I am an Indian.’
We began chatting amicably. I decided to use the opportunity to ask some
questions.
- ‘ How do you come to know English?’
- ‘ Oh, I worked abroad.'
- ‘ Please tell me why that young couple visited the war memorial on their wedding
day?’
- ‘ Oh, that is the custom in Russia. The wedding takes place normally on a
Saturday or a Sunday.
'Irrespective of the season, after signing the register at the marriage office,
married couples must visit the important national monuments nearby.
'Every boy in this country has to serve in the military for a couple of years at
least. Regardless of his position, he must wear his service uniform for the
wedding.’
- ‘Why is that?’
- 'This is a mark of gratitude. Our forefathers have given their lives in various
wars Russia has fought. Some of them we won, and some we lost, but their sacrifice
was always for the country. The newly married couple needs to remember they are
living in a peaceful, independent Russia because of their ancestors’ sacrifices.
They must ask for their blessings.
'Love for the country is more important than wedding celebrations. We elders insist
on continuing with this tradition whether it be in Moscow, St.Petersburg or any
other part of Russia. On the wedding day they have to visit the nearest war
memorial.’
This set me wondering about what we teach our children.
Do we Indians have the courtesy to remember our martyrs on the most important day
of our lives?
We are busy shopping for saris, buying jewellery and preparing elaborate menus and
partying in discos.
My eyes filled with tears at the thought and I wished we could learn a lesson from
the Russians. please do share

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