Empathy is the ability to put yourself in someone else's shoes, but completely.
In other
words, it is being able to understand the feelings a person has about a situation. But not
from our point of view, but from theirs. It is being able to understand their feelings, from
their circumstances; from their way of thinking, their values and their beliefs.
To have empathy, it is not necessary to agree with the way that person has interpreted a
situation, which has led him to have that feeling. It may be that you would have done it
differently; but it is necessary to understand the interpretation that person has made and
why. You also don't have to approve of their behavior, or agree with their ideas or values.
Benefits.
Being empathetic, that is, understanding others and their emotions, is one of the most
important parts of social relationships. If you feel understood by someone, you will want to
keep in touch and deal with that person. In the same way, if you feel that a particular
person does not understand you, you will tend to move away from them.
Therefore, people who are empathetic, have a wider social circle, have healthier and more
satisfactory social relationships, tend to like many more people, are people who are more
respectful of others. They have a greater capacity for persuasion, as well as a greater
capacity for leadership; and furthermore, they are able to understand what happens to
other people just by paying attention to their body language.
Disadvantage.
It is also true that people with greater empathy have some disadvantage and that is that
they are more vulnerable to things that happen in their immediate environment. They are
usually very sensitive people, and this can sometimes make them suffer.