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Texting Frequency..................................................................................... 4
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Joking Disqualifiers ................................................................................. 5

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Holiday Text.............................................................................................. 6

Answering the “Who is this?” Text........................................................... 6

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Role Playing Ideas................................................................................... 7

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Playfully Teasing Texts............................................................................. 8

Showing your Dorky Side......................................................................... 9

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Rhyming Your Goodbyes with Animals.................................................... 9

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Nicknames................................................................................................ 9

The “Let Me Guess” Technique............................................................ 10

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Planting The Seed For Meeting Up ...................................................... 11

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Showing Reservations About Her Coming

to Make Her Feel Comfortable................................................................ 12
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The Check Yes or No Technique............................................................ 12

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The Odd Time Technique....................................................................... 13

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Get Excited For Tonight – The Reminder Text........................................ 15

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The Day After Text.................................................................................. 15

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If She Flakes.......................................................................................... 16
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If She Flakes Several Times in a Row.................................................... 17

The Ego Stroker..................................................................................... 18

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The “It’s Not Your Fault” Technique........................................................ 19

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About the author..................................................................................... 20

Terms and Conditions of Use.................................................................. 23

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:(You haven’t built enough attraction :)You’re texting/calling her the right
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and are texting/calling her too much if: amount if:

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her response time is consistently slow she initiates text/phone call interactions
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she doesn’t engage you in conversation she responds to text/phone calls quickly
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she readily engages you in conversation,

your conversational hooks she consis- latches onto
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tently gives you

your hooks she answers your questions
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yep, etc.)
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interactions

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Joking
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Disqualifiers
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Woah woah! You like {__thing she likes___}? I didn’t know you were
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that “type” of girl! I might have to get my moms permission just to

hang out with you... lol :)
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Wait, you were born in {any month}, right? So you’re a {associated

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birth sign}. Damn it! I knew it. Oh well, I guess i’m just gonna have
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Happy (whatever holiday)! did you have a good
holiday!? Or did you just cause a ruckus!?? lol :)
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mass text just respond by saying:
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You caught me! I sent it to 2,436 people lol :)

How many annoying mass texts did you get so

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Oh my dear {nickname}...I thought my # was

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inscribed upon your heart??? Your Prince

Charming...duh!
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You didn’t save my #?!!! I’m so hurt...sniff sniff..lol

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{your name}. the ridiculously unattractive guy

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Answering the
who was boring...haha :)
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“Who is this?” Text

Your future ex husband of course :-)
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Role Playing Ideas
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Husband and Travel Buddies Stalker and Teacher and Rock star and
Wife (or exes) (talk about all Victim (she is Student Groupie
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the adventures the one stalking

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Playfully Teasing
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You’re a closet dork aren’t you?..except without If she ever suggests a time to meet up (e.g.
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Hahah :) Awww you’re kinda cute...for a girl :) no that’s too early... dont wanna be stuck with
ya that long! Let’s do 6:03 haha :-)
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If she ever has problems with her car, phone,

or anything she pays monthly for you can say: If she ever gives you a compliment:
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Its cool if you couldn’t afford to pay your bill – That is the nicest thing anyone has ever told
I’m not judging you... that much... hahaha j/k :) me... Since I woke up today:-)
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Rhyming Your Good- Showing your

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byes with Animals Dorky Side

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Until then baby hen Okey dokey little pokey

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Peace out little trout (yah I’m a dork like that)

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Peace out girl scout

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See ya soon baby raccoon

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Fun: Otter pop, Rubber Ducky, Strawberry Shortcake, Girl Scout, Rainbow Trout, Rainbow Brite,
Baby toe, Smurfette, Strawberry poptart, Cookie Monster
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Cute: Princess Sparkles, Snugglers Mcgee, Butterfly, Luv Muffin, Lady Bug, Jelly bean, Hunny
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Bunny, Sugar buns, Bumble Bee, Honey biscuit, Little miss pretty face

Teasing: Nerdball, Dork Fish, Sassy Pants, Pecker wood, Butterbean, Firecracker, Crazy
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face, Cracker pants, Midget ninja, Woman Face

Sexual: Cock Weasel, Cum Smuggler, Sex Kitten, Sex puppet, Wiener warmer, Penis pocket,
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Penis puppet, Sultry temptress

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The “Let Me Guess” Technique

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What r u up to this weekend/tonight/today? Let me guess…

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taking a speed knitting class so you can make me a scarf! You are sooo sweet :)
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building us a pillow fort so we can watch movies in it tonight :)

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drawing me a picture…don’t forget I like dinosaurs :)

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writing me a love letter…your not going to spray it with your perfume are you? lol
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Planting The Seed For Meeting Up

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Example 1: Taco Tuesday Example 2: Comedy Club

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Hey little lady, do you like tacos, So Princess Sparkles do you have a good
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margaritas, good music and great sense of humor and like laughing so hard
company? you pee your pants? (ok don’t actually
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pee your pants... that’s gross... lol)

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Implying the Invite

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I was gonna invite you to...

I was considering inviting you...
There is a possibility I might invite you…
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Showing Reservations About
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So now that we r txt buddies u might be safe enough

to invite to one of our next get togethers:-)
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A group of us r going to {event/place} 2night and I con-

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sidered inviting u if u promise not to embarrass me :)~

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Would you like to come over tomorrow & watch movies

with me? Check [ ]yes or [ ]no
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only options are to hang out with you.

Would you like to come over tomorrow & watch movies

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with me? Check [ ]yes or [ ]check yes!

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The Odd Time Technique

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Race Monday, Dec 22 at 10:37:48 AM

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Lola Monday, Dec 22 at 10:39:02 AM

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Lola Monday, Dec 22 at 10:45:52 AM

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To think one min earlier what was i thinking. So whos going?

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Example #2
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Lisa 8/14 9:57 PM

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Lisa 8/14 11:49 PM

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Wow…the elusive 3 min. party. Fine….I can meet u @ 9:08 & 22 sec. but not a moment
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Get Excited For Tonight –

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The Reminder Text

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Get excited for 2night {nickname}

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we are gonna have a blast :)

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The Day After Text

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I had a great time with you (tonight/last night/

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yesterday). I am looking forward to (whatever

event/ date you two already planned)
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E.G - I had a great time being silly with you

last night. I am looking forward to our cheese,
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cracker and wine date :)

Hey I had a wonderful time with you last night.

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I am looking forward to kicking your cute little

booty when we go bowling on Wed.
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last hang out session?...yep it’s you :)

I would say tuesday is looking pretty
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If She Flakes
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Ok flaky mcflakerson what’s the deal? (3)x’s in a

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row is a bit much. You know they have support

groups for this kind of thing right? lol...seriously
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though just let me know if you’re not going to be

able to make it because I would hate to have to
divorce you so soon.
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or more direct
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I was under the impression you wanted to hang out

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and have fun together. If that is no longer the case,

just let me know and I will stop texting you.
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The Ego
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I totally just walked by girl who reminded me of you! Except she was
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I just saw the cutest little squirrel in the park gathering nuts and it
made me think of you :)
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The “It’s Not Your

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Fault” Technique
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well it is obvious you were abducted by

aliens...i hope they were the hot brad
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pitt looking kind and not the ugly green

ones...when they return you give me a
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text i have a question for ya

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well it is obvious you ran off to join the

circus so when you finish braiding the
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bearded lady’s face shoot me a text I

have a quick question for you
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your dream of becoming a mermaid...
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About the Author

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Who is Race de Priest? Well for starters I am a world traveler, a
dolphin rider, a bridge-jumper-offer, a true blue friend, an award
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winning bartender, a class clown, a cheese fiend, an adventure
junkie, a HUGE dork and all around funstigator. But I bet the part
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of me that you are most interested in is how I became a profes-

sional dating and relationship consultant who has written several
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books, been on quite a few radio shows including Maxim Radio

and Covino and Rich, filmed a TV pilot about meeting women
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in NYC, worked with the Prime Minister of the Bahamas, been

made fun of on Saturday Night Live, been the topic of countless
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articles and worked with thousand of clients all around the world.
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Well truth is it started back in High School. At the age of 15 my parents moved the whole family
2,300 miles (3,701 k) across the country. I went from having a well established social circle of tight
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knit friends to a small private school where I was the outsider. I mean, these kids had grown up
together since grade school. My way of dealing with it was to withdraw into myself and become
stand-offish. Hey, that way I couldn’t get rejected or hurt right? The only problem was, this was
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NOT getting me friends and definitely was NOT getting me dates.

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Being the bookworm that I am, I began to devour every book I could find on how to connect with
people, make friends and overall become popular. As I began to incorporate what I was learning, I
was amazed to see how people began to respond differently to me. It was scary and I was nervous
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as hell but it payed off. Within a few months I was dating the most popular girl in my class. Fast
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forward 8 months and a breakup later I was back at square one. Yet I learned a valuable lesson.
You don’t have to be born with it, this stuff can be learned!
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I was so intrigued, in fact, that I chose Psychology as one of my majors in College. But something
was wrong. No matter how much I learned I still didn’t seem to be getting the results I wanted. But
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I was relatively comfortable so I didn’t worry about it too much. Until another girl broke up with me.

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You see, I was the kind of guy that would find a girlfriend and then hold on to her however I
could (usually through manipulation and guilt – yeah I know, very unhealthy) because I was afraid
that if we broke up I wouldn’t be able to find another one. For me, being in a relationship was
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comfortable, it was safe and I yet deep down I knew I wasn’t completely happy. I relied on the
woman I was dating for my identity and my happiness. Now back to the story.
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So there I was working as a bartender in New Zealand after graduation when my girlfriend of 2
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years decided to come out and live with me. She quit her Flight Attendant job, flew out and after
two months living together she broke up with me. I was devastated. This is the most alone I had
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ever felt in my entire life. Heartbroken, alone and completely unhappy in a foreign country was the
last straw. I was going to master social skills if it killed me!
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And it did… I am actually a ghost. j/k I spent the next five years searching out guys who had
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charisma, who made friends easily and instantly, who girls fawned over, the kind of guy we all wish
we could be. It became my personal mission to learn every last thing I could from them. And you
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know what was odd? They all did different “things”, sometimes contradictory things. And yet it all
worked… for them. But a curious thing began to happen to me as I spent more and more time
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with them. I started to get the same results. It wasn’t until later that I realized what had happened.
Ready for the big secret? I began to subconsciously absorb their beliefs and values.
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Beliefs and values are the subconscious “commands” that direct our actions, filter the way we
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view the world and determine how we interpret events, including social interactions. All of the
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“techniques” that these guys were teaching me, even the ones that contradicted each other, worked
because they were in line with each particular guy’s beliefs and values. Now I finally understood
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why no matter how much I learned, I still wasn’t getting the results I wanted! My subconscious
beliefs and values were out of line and holding me back!
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I was so excited I spent the next couple years learning the absolute quickest and most
effective ways to uncover these sabotaging, subconscious beliefs and transform them into the
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self-empowering, solid identity building beliefs that these guys all had. I was FINALLY becoming
the persona I had always wanted to be. People began to notice. All of a sudden I was the one
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being complemented on my charisma, I was the one making friends everywhere I went, I was the

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one people were calling to see what was going on, I was even the one guys came to for advice on
meeting and dating beautiful women.
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Since then I have dedicated a large part of my life to working with men and women to help
them uncover and transform these subconscious beliefs and values that are literally making it
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impossible for them to achieve the life they desire. So now it’s your turn. IF you are a member of
the select few who are ready to move past the same old tips and techniques that have been get-
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ting you limited results and often leave you feeling unauthentic and weird then I invite you to a new
lifestyle. A lifestyle of adventure, unlimited fun, self-discovery, unshakable confidence, happy,
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healthy relationships, awesome and abundant friendships, and of course the most exciting and
beautiful women you have ever met. I invite you to share in my lifestyle
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btw: Absolutely feel free to contact me with any and all sincere questions. Yes that means YOU. I
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promise to get back to you asap. After all, we are in this together :)
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Cheers,
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