Personal Development: Knowing Oneself
Personal Development: Knowing Oneself
Personal Development
                                Module 1:
                              Knowing Oneself
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    PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT 11/12
    Module 1: Knowing Oneself
    Second Edition, 2021
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    La Union Schools Division
    Region I
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                                               SHS
                    Personal Development
                                     Module 1:
                                  Knowing Oneself
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    Introductory Message
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                    Target
        Adolescence is the time when young people start to ask questions about
themselves, about their future, and even about their religious and political beliefs.
During the adolescent stage of development, the young person grapples with his or
her identity. This may seem very philosophical to some, but to know oneself is the
first step in personal development. One philosopher stated “Knowing others is
intelligence; knowing yourself is true wisdom. Mastering others is strength,
mastering yourself is true power.
       In the previous lesson, you have learned the different aspects of human
development, three factors affecting or influencing human development, personal
development by which psychology serves as a foundation, school of thoughts or
theories that were developed, transition period of adolescence and other influence of
personal development which is spiritual and religious.
       This module will help you realize that in knowing thy self will continually lead
you more to develop yourself better as you learn to accept your strengths and
weaknesses as a person. Personal development modules’ ultimate aim is greater self-
knowledge that will lead to higher alignment between these two personality domains:
the actual self and the ideal self.
        At the end of your learning journey in this module, you are expected to:
1.   explain that knowing yourself can make you accept your own self-concept,
     personal effectiveness, strengths, and limitations, and in dealing with others
     better, and your uniqueness. (EsP-PD11/12KO-Ia-1.1)
2. determine how characteristics, habits, and experiences becomes unique to every
   person (EsP-PD11/12KO-Ia-1.2); and
3. share your own unique characteristics, habits, and experiences.
     (EsP-PD11/12/KO-Ia1.2)
Subtasks:
     1. define the categories of self-concept;
     2. compare some skills that will greatly increase the efficiency of a person and
        what makes a person unique;
     3. choose always what is best for you to become unique and a better person;
     4. distinguish one’s strengths and weaknesses and use their talents for the good
        of the community; and
     5. value oneself as a unique person
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   Lesson
                                      Self-Concept
         1
Jumpstart
Directions: Take a look at your own self-concept and answer the following self-
            concept inventory in a separate sheet of paper. Give yourself a rating
            using the scale: O = Very Weak; 1 = Weak; 2 = somewhat weak or
              somewhat strong; 3 = Strong; 4 = Very Strong
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Scoring: Copy this table in a separate sheet of paper. Write your score opposite each
number and get the subtotal.
Guide Questions:
   1.   How did you find the activity?
   2.   Did you rate yourself correctly and promptly?
   3.   What did you discover about yourself after doing the activity?
   4.   You notice that there are gradual changes about yourself, do you accept and
        agree what you are now as a person?
Rubrics:
                               4                3           2             1
    Development of     Ideas were        Ideas may be   Ideas        Ideas were
         Ideas         clearly           evident, but   were         poorly
                       organized, on     the            present      developed
                       point and         organization   but vague
                       supported         of thoughts
                       with valid        need to be
                       reasons           strengthened
   Elaboration         Well written      Well written   Awkward      Poor
                       and fully         and most       writing      writing
                       elaborated        points         style and    with little
                       points with       elaborated     points are   to no
                       clear and         with clear     general.     specific
                       accurate          details        Errors are   details
                       information                      also
                                                        present.
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                 Discover
        Imagine yourself looking into a mirror. What do you see? Do you see your ideal
self or your actual self? Your ideal self is the self that you aspire to be. It is the one
that you hope will possess characteristics like that of a mentor or some other worldly
figure. Your actual self, however, is the one that you see. It is the self that has
characteristics that you were nurtured or in some cases, born to have.
       The actual self and the ideal self are two broad categories of self-concept. Self-
concept refers to your awareness of yourself. It is the construct that negotiates these
two selves. In other words, it connotes first the identification of the ideal self as
separate from others and second is that it encompasses all the behaviors evaluated
in the actual self that you engage in to reach the ideal self.
        It is believed that the words “Know Thyself” which were written at the entry of
the oracle at Delphi by seven Greek philosophers, statesmen and lawgivers became
the cornerstone of Western philosophy.
 > For Socrates, the most important thing to pursue was self -knowledge and
   admitting one’s ignorance is the beginning of true knowledge.
> For Plato, one of Socrates’ students, the beginning of knowledge is self- knowledge.
> Other ancient philosophers from other culture saw the wisdom in knowing oneself.
> The ancient Hindu writings Upanishads confirmed “Enquiry into the truth of the
   “Self” is knowledge”.
> The Persian poet Rumi ruminated “Who am I in the midst of all this thought
   traffic?” and
> The American poet Walt Whitman celebrated his “Self” as a “simple and separate
   person.”
        The ideal self, on the other hand, is how we want to be. It is an idealized
image that we have developed over time based on what we have learned and
experienced. The ideal self could include components of what our parents have
taught us, what we admire in others, what our society promotes, and what we think
best interests us.
        How to know oneself? We must define first the concept of the “Self”. In
philosophical terms, it is the being which is the source of a person’s consciousness.
It is the agent responsible for an individual’s thoughts and actions. Based on this
definition, the “Self” is an intangible entity that directs a person’s thoughts and
actions. It is outside the physical realm of the person.
       The “Self” is the essence of a person: his thoughts, feelings and actions,
experiences, beliefs, values, principles, and relationships. The “Self’ includes a
person’s life purpose, meaning and aspirations.
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       If the “Self” is defined as the cognitive and affective representation of one’s
identity, it is then defined in terms of human characteristics such as behavior and
thought.
Personal Effectiveness
      Knowledge is required for setting goals and defining an action plan to achieve
them and risk assessment.
        Skills also determine whether real actions are performed in accordance with
the plan. If the same ability is used many times in the same situation, then it
becomes a habit that runs automatically, subconsciously. Here are some skills that
will greatly increases the efficiency of any person who owns them:
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   Build on Your Strengths and Work on Your Weaknesses
           Instead of giving up or indulging in self-pity, take action. Go for speech
   lessons, get skills upgrading, attend personality development sessions or
   whatever appropriate remedies to your perceived weakness.
                                       Build on your
                                  strengths and work on
                                     your weaknesses.
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                    Explore
Directions: In a separate sheet of paper, replicate the diagram and write down the
            following:
                                                                                          9 three blessing
           11-   difficulties,
                                                                                           for which I am
           challenges, and                                                                most thankful to
           problems that I                             10- three of
                                                                                                God
           was able to solve                           my positive
           and overcome                                 qualities
                                   1                                      3   My two greatest
                                                        5-What in        achievements in life.
                                                       Myself am I
                                                       proudest of
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Reflection
Rubrics
                                4              3           2             1
        Development      Ideas were     Ideas may be   Ideas        Ideas were
          of Ideas       clearly        evident, but   were         poorly
                         organized,     the            present      developed
                         on point and   organization   but vague
                         supported      of thoughts
                         with valid     need to be
                         reasons        strengthened
       Elaboration       Well written   Well written   Awkward      Poor
                         and fully      and most       writing      writing
                         elaborated     points         style and    with little
                         points with    elaborated     points are   to no
                         clear and      with clear     general.     specific
                         accurate       details        Errors are   details
                         information                   also
                                                       present.
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              Deepen
Rubrics
                                        4              3            2           1
       Development                Ideas were     Ideas may be   Ideas       Ideas
         of Ideas                 clearly        evident, but   were        were
                                  organized,     the            present     poorly
                                  on point       organization   but         developed
                                  and            of thoughts    vague
                                  supported      need to be
                                  with valid     strengthened
                                  reasons
       Elaboration                Well written   Well written   Awkward     Poor
                                  and fully      and most       writing     writing
                                  elaborated     points         style and   with little
                                  points with    elaborated     points      to no
                                  clear and      with clear     are         specific
                                  accurate       details        general.    details
                                  information                   Errors
                                                                are also
                                                                present.
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   Lesson
                                        “I am Unique”
         2
                 Jumpstart
Activity 1: Expand your Horizon!
Materials Needed: Pencil or Ballpen and Sheet of Paper
Directions: On a separate sheet of paper, draw the illustration below and write
words or group of words that corresponds with the main theme or word in the center
of the mind mapping. Elaborate your answer why this word/s is/are related to the
main subject.
UNIQUENESS
Elaborate
                                  Figure 1.2 Mind Mapping
1. ______________________________________________________________________________
2. _______________________________________________________________________________
3. _______________________________________________________________________________
4. _______________________________________________________________________________
5. _______________________________________________________________________________
6. _______________________________________________________________________________
7. _______________________________________________________________________________
8. _______________________________________________________________________________
9. _______________________________________________________________________________
10.______________________________________________________________________________
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              Discover
         Uniqueness is defined in different ways and here are some of the collective
definitions:
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       Problem arises due to the limitation of widening each horizon in accepting and
facing people worldwide. In the United States of America, some people who
experienced discrimination were reported due to individual differences such as in
race, religion, color of the skin, hobbies, language, and personality. In the Philippine
setting, one of the primary social issues in terms of difference is the acceptance of
what we call as categorized in the LGBTQ community seeking for equality in work,
school, and facilities.
       Diversity is also one term that is parallel of being unique. It has been a major
advocacy of some in the world since we differ in culture, tradition, and belief
particularly on how we perceived ourselves individually based on who nurtured us
and the nature or location that we are in .
       In a specific sense of being a unique person, Big Five, and the Myers-Briggs
Type Indicator can guide you in determining your personality traits or characteristics
by Costa and McRae (1992).
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                                         IG FIVE
                                        Low Scores                 High Scores
    1. Extroversion – the                  Loner                      Joiner
       ability to socialize and            Quiet                    Talkative
       belongingness is his               Passive                     Active
       concern.                          Reserved                  Affectionate
    2.   Agreeableness        –         Suspicious                   Trusting
       possessing trust and               Critical                   Lenient
       openness to others.               Ruthless                  Soft-hearted
                                         Irritable                Good-natured
    3. Conscientiousness –               Negligent                Conscientious
       the possession of                   Lazy                   Hard-working
       mind setting and goal           Disorganized              Well Organized
       oriented.                            Late                    Punctual
    4. Neuroticism – a                     Calm                      Worried
       person           who           Even-tempered              Temperamental
       experiences anxiety,            Comfortable               Self-Conscious
       and emotionally and             Unemotional                  Emotional
       physical conscious.
    5. Openness            to         Down-to-Earth                Imaginative
       Experience     –     a           Uncreative                   Creative
       person who goes with            Conventional                  Original
       the flow, widening               Uncurious                    Curious
       horizons, and being
       resourceful.
       The summation of being a unique one has been advantageous not only to
oneself but with other people leading towards Understanding, Tolerance, and
Acceptance. These 3 things fused together to help each other perceive ourselves as
an individual with different characteristics, habits, and experiences.
       The basic concept of understanding is when we know ourselves and our ability
to understand the feelings of others, and vice versa, tolerance is associated with
willingness to accept behavior and beliefs that are different from your own with fair,
objective, and permissive attitude toward those whose opinions, practices, race,
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religion, nationality, etc. differ from one's own; freedom from bigotry, although you
might not agree with or approve of them such as in the example of religion where
scriptures are not alike with the religion that you have, and acceptance is simply the
process of assenting or recognizing a process or condition without attempting to
change, protest, or exit. (Fish, Jefferson M. 2014).
       With the existence of being a unique one, how could you possibly share your
own characteristics, habits, and experiences confidently? Now, you may stand in the
mirror and reflect after answering the question “Who am I?” from the previous lesson.
Now , you can tell to yourself, “I know that I am a sole being. I know what I am
capable of. I know the things that make me relaxed and comfortable. I know that I
am molded because of what I have experienced. And with these, I understand others.”
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                 Explore
Directions: Using the Venn diagram, identify the unique characteristics of you and
                your closest friend by writing in the larger portion of the circle and
                identify your similarities in the overlapping portion. Answer the follow-
                up questions below. (See Rubrics)
                                          What
                                          makes                       What makes
          What makes
                                          us the                       him/her
          me unique?
                                          same?                        unique?
                                                          MY FRIEND
                         ME
Follow-Up Questions:
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Rubrics
                         5               4             3              2            1
 Development      Ideas were      Ideas may be     Ideas         Ideas were    No idea
   of Ideas       clearly         evident but      were          poorly        presented
                  organized,      the              present       developed
                  on point and    organization     but vague     and lack
                  supported       of thoughts                    details
                  with valid      need to be
                  reasons         strengthened
 Elaboration      Well written    Well written     Awkward       Poor          No
                  and fully       and most         writing       writing       specific
                  elaborated      points           style and     with little   details
                  points with     elaborated       points are    to no
                  clear and       with clear       general.      specific
                  accurate        details          Errors are    details
                  information                      also
                                                   present.
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                  Deepen
        The lessons that you engaged in will help you now in applying knowledge and
skills later in a real-life scenario.
Directions: Below are spiels that sometimes being uttered by different people
because it’s either due to their emotional contest and situation. As an individual who
is already aware why understanding, acceptance, and tolerance is a vital component
and summation of uniqueness, how can these scenarios be corrected in an
appropriate manner? Write your answer in a separate sheet of paper.
Rubrics:
                    Criteria                                      Score per item
 Exceptionally and accurately corrected                                   5
 Admirable and mostly accurate                                            3
 correction.
 Acceptable and fair correction.                                          2
 Attempted to answer but incomplete.                                      1
Reference: Garcia, Maricel. 2016. Personal Development Teacher’s Guide. Lipa City, Batangas,
Scolaire Publishing
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                  Gauge
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7. Which the following confirmed, “Enquiry into the truth of the “Self” is
  knowledge”?
   A. The ancient Hindu writings Upanishads
   B. The American poet Walt Whitman
   C. The Persian poet Rumi
   D. Plato, Socrates’ student
8. An awareness of yourself refers to your ____.
  A. Beauty           B. Emotion             C. Knowledge      D. Self-concept
9. This includes knowledge and skills that we acquire in the process of cognitive
   and practical activities.
   A. Ability                  B. Experience            C. Knowledge         D. Skills
10.The following statements are definition of Uniqueness Except:
  A. Lack of experience
  B. Being the only one or SOLE.
  C. A person who has distinct characteristics.
  D. The quality of being unique or unusual in some special way.
11. Possessing this may differ depending on how people treat you and with the
   situation you are in to.
   A. Personality              B. Attitude        C. Passion         D. Habits
12. It becomes our outlet and improves our mental state such as collecting
  memorabilia and art craft.
  A. Attitude                  B. Personality     C. Taste           D. Hobbies
13. How can goals become achievable?
   A. If there is vague steps and procedures.
   B. If there is clear systems that are being followed.
   C. If you already know yourself.
   D. If somebody understands you.
14. Which of the following is TRUE about being a neurotic?
   A. A person who is imaginative and creative.
   B. A person who always go with the flow.
   C. A person who always trust somebody else.
   D. A person who is emotional in every situation.
15. Which of the following is TRUE about being passionate?
    A. You look for materials that would fill the gap of contentment.
    B. You look for your correct perspective.
    C. You look for activities that make you satisfied when you did.
    D. You look for your own likes in wearing clothes and accessories
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Part 1. Multiple Choice
   1.   B
   2.   D
   3.   D
   4.   B
   5.   C
   6.   C
   7.   A
   8.   D
   9.   B
   10. A
   11. B
   12. D
   13. B
   14. D
   15. C
                               Answer Key
References
Book Materials:
   1. Personal Development (Rex Bookstore)
      By: Ricardo Rubio Santos
   2. Personal Development
      Department of Education
      Republic of the Philippines
Printed Materials:
Santos, Ricardo R. (2016). Personal Development First Edition (pp14-21). Rex Book
Store, Inc. Sampaloc, Manila, Philippines
Garcia, Maricel P. (2016). K to 12 Personal Development Teacher’ Guide. Scolaire
Publishing. Lipa City, Batangas, Philippines
Journal:
Tayob (2004) and Strack (2006). Maintaining Apartheid or Promoting Change
(p.85), Differentiating Normal & Abnormal Personality 2 nd Edition (p.66)
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mirror/2014002/tolerance-acceptance-understanding
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