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Parents are important in guiding and teaching their children because a child
needs support from loved ones as well as discipline to be motivated. However, due to
better employment opportunities and higher overseas salary, many parents have
decided to work abroad and left their families for years (Parents Working Abroad and
They Effects on Their Children, 2011). This research aims to identify the experiences,
the coping mechanism and insights of the students having parents working abroad.
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INTRODUCTION
of a father, mother and children. Parents working abroad altered the definition in some
ways. Working abroad is working away from your homeland. Nowadays it has become a
fashion to move abroad and work in order to earn money. People move from one
country to another in search of the job (Reddy, n.d.). Although in form the family is still
intact but, in substance the physical presence of the parents can affect the growth of a
child.
According to the Eurostat (2015), the European Union enlargements from 2004
proportion of these families come from Poland; it is estimated that in 2009 Poles were
the fourth largest national group residing in other EU countries, accounting for 4.6% of
all foreign born (Eurostat, 2015). In 2011 almost 10% of all Polish households had a
temporary emigrant abroad (The Central Statistical Office of Poland, 2012). Large scale
parental emigration raises questions about the impact it may have on children. There
are concerns that family separation negatively affects the welfare and long-term socio-
economic outcomes of children (Connolly, 2015). The public focuses on the fact of
family separation and is typically of an opinion that parental migration is detrimental for
children. These views are reinforced by reports that children whose parents work
abroad feel lonely and struggle with identity, definition of priorities, and educational
2019).
Based on the results of the 2019 Survey on Overseas Filipinos by the Philippine
Statistic Authority (PSA), the number of Overseas Filipino Workers (OFWs) who worked
abroad at any time during the period April to September 2019 was estimated at 2.2
million. With this immense number of Filipino overseas workers also comes with cost of
leaving behind many children in the country. Some common negative effects of holding
OFW parents are dropping out of school, taking for a forbidden medical specialty, and
acquiring into early gestation. These negative effects sometimes occur when kids don’t
acquire excessively much attending from their parent or either guardian who is left
behind. Besides holding negative effects; their OFW parents serve as their inspiration to
make better in their enterprise (OFW Effects to Their Children Essay Sample, 2017).
of the students who were greatly affected by having parents working abroad . The issue
is widespread, yet, the researchers have not encountered any study that is the same or
related to the experiences of the students with parents working abroad, particularly in
this institution.
Rationale
Theoretical Background
This study was anchored on the theory of Abraham Maslow (1943); Maslow's
human needs. Maslow stated that the physiological needs of a person should be met
first before one can proceed to satisfying his/her psychological needs and finally reach
self-actualization. Physiological needs include: air, food, drink, shelter, clothing, warmth,
sex, sleep. Safety needs - once an individual’s physiological needs are satisfied, the
needs for security and safety become salient. For example, emotional security, financial
security (e.g. employment, social welfare), etc. The third level of human needs is social
motivates behavior. Next is the esteem needs which Maslow classified into two
categories: esteem for oneself and the desire for reputation or respect from others. Last
fulfillment, seeking personal growth and peak experiences. Regarding the structure of
his hierarchy, Maslow (1987) proposed that the order in the hierarchy “is not nearly as
rigid” as he may have implied in his earlier description. Maslow noted that the order of
(Mcleod, 2020).
the hierarchy into his ERG theory (Existence, Relatedness and Growth). The existence
category is concerned with the need for providing the basic material existence
requirements of humans. The relatedness category is concerned about the desire for
maintaining important interpersonal relationships. The growth category is concerned
into the existence category, Maslow's social needs and Maslow's extrinsic component of
self-esteem needs into the relatedness category, and Maslow's intrinsic component of
self-esteem needs and self-actualization needs into the growth category. Alderfer also
proposed a progression and regression theory to go along with the ERG theory: he said
that when needs in a lower category are satisfied, an individual will invest more effort in
the higher category, and when needs in a higher category are frustrated, an individual
will invest more effort in the lower category. For example, if self-esteem or self-
actualization is not met then an individual will invest more effort in the relatedness
category in the hopes of achieving the higher need (ERG Theory, 1969).
Building the cognitive structure of the student is crucial, for every student needs
love, care, support, and guidance from the parents. However, it has been a big issue for
those students who do not get much attention from their parents who are away from
them in order to provide the basic needs of the family. In Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs
and Alderfer’s ERG Theory, they stated that an individual should first meet the
psychological needs and personal development. The parents who work abroad sacrifice
his or her emotional relationship towards their family to provide the financial needs and
security of the family. Thus, parents must balance their time especially in attending to
the emotional needs of the children and they must spend time with them in their
vacation days.
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activities that enable the child to master key developmental tasks (Child Development,
n.d.). Parents are important in guiding, teaching, and leading their children because a
parents have decided to work abroad and left their families for years (Parents Working
Pascual (2012) stated that for migrant parents: the decision is the first hard thing
to do. Leaving the family means missing important events and giving up being in the
actual growing up of his or her children. It requires absence to meet the daily emotional
needs of the family. Furthermore, the hardest thing is when this parent encounters
Also, a study was conducted on 2011 by Graham and Jordan about migrant
parents and the psychological well-being of the children left behind. The research
results indicated that children who are left behind suffer from psychological distress
because of separation of parents from them. It also shows that children who are
separated from his or her mother are prone to negative impacts that include physical
nurturance lead to a higher likelihood of children being bullied, and suffering from
abuse. The study has examined the associations between parental migration and
the risks of psychological problems, school bullying and child abuse (Yan et al., 2019).
Moreover, migration involves challenges for families and children such as having
difficulty in communicating due to the parents’ being busy with work and the child with
his/her academics and also due to the time gap. Due to them being away from each
other it left an emotional impact having a varying influence on both according to the
conditions under which migration occurs, they suffer from the effects of longingness to
routine or even weekly separations associated with parental work or other factors. The
emotional development, well-being, and mental health. They are more severe when the
separation is prolonged.
Furthermore, the child tends to be angrier, confused, pathetic and more afraid
than other children when it is the mother who has to work abroad in order to provide for
the family and said that the absence of the mother could be the most disruptive in the
life of the children. This is especially felt by the eldest daughter of the family because
she will now be the one who will assume the mother’s role in the family (Rufo, 2012).
The absence of a mother figure can have a significant impact on the
development of the child. However, the extent of the harm will depend on their
environment and how the situation is managed. An absent mother, therefore, can lead
to deep insecurity in children. This is especially true when other adults in the child’s life
do not take action to address the situation (How an Absent Mother Affects the Children,
2018).
Additionally, Felisilda and Torreon (2020) pointed out that the home influences
the child at the earliest possible time of his life, at a time when his mind is most
receptive. It provides the first impression which may last through the whole life of the
child. The family, being a powerful influence on the child and its importance as a
Zarra-Nezhad et al. (2015) explained that the effect of mothers’ high affection is
having fewer negative impacts on children. A supportive mother and father shows more
affection will make their children have a good psychological functioning (Stafford et al.,
2016).
Moreover, other aspects of parent thinking include the ability to take the
perspective of the child. Mothers who recognize what is distressing for their children
have children who are better able to cope with their own distress and parents who can
accurately identify their children’s thoughts and feelings during conflicts are better able
to achieve satisfactory outcomes for those conflicts. The ability of parents to think of
children as having mental states as well as being accurate in their assessment of these
In accord with the realization that children’s behavior affects that of their parents,
researchers have found that, whereas parent attitudes affect child behavior, this relation
shifts as the child grows, with adolescent behavior having an impact on parenting style
Asis and Marave (2013) stated that in encouraging their children to do well in
school, it is customary for parents to say that education is the best legacy they can
bequeath to the young ones. With respect to children’s education, it is common to hear
opinions that parents went abroad to further their children’s education, but their efforts
were for naught because their children either stopped schooling or encountered
problems in school. The culprit: parental absence (especially the absence of mothers)
and the presumption that because parents are not around, the children are lacking in
guidance. Mainly, the negative consequence about the presumed ill effects of migration
Furthermore, the major reason for working abroad among OFWs is to send their
children to good, preferably exclusive schools from primary up to college because they
acknowledge that the best thing they can give their children is the right for education.
Therefore, more OFW children are enrolled in private schools and are more likely to
participate in extracurricular activities and gain exposure. These do not only broaden
their learning, but also make them gain overall skills compared to students with strict
with positive outcomes, or with outcomes which show that children in transnational
households are not doing worse than children living with both parents. Positive school
work abroad and mothers stay home as caregivers – children in these households’ fare
very well when it comes to school pacing and school achievement. The study concludes
that families and households need to provide both economic and psychological support
to enhance the chances that children are at pace with their schooling and are doing well
at school.
for a child to have no one to guide them especially in their studies because as a child
you still need someone to teach you and it is best to learn from your parents. Some of
the reasons why parents had to leave their children are financial issues, such as
parents needing to travel abroad or leave to find work to support their families’ basic
and educational needs, like Overseas Filipino Workers (OFW) (Effects of Parents
the country. Much has been said about the economic contributions of OFWs, but it is
also equally important to look into the effects of OFWs' long absence from home on
their children. It is true that children of OFWs are afforded with good living conditions,
but it is also true that some of their children are not satisfied with what they have. The
fact is that their children require socio-psychological care. Therefore, OFWs should be
deprive children of important support which can result in poor school outcomes.
Although it is not focused on the families of migrants, a study in the UK looking into
parental engagement and student learning identified social and economic factors that
prevent many parents from fully engaging with their children’s schooling. The study
to the learning outcomes of young students (Harris and Goodall, n.d.). Studies such as
this imply that when parents are absent, there is a void in the care and guidance
Also, separation anxiety may be much more apparent in cases where one of the
parents has to leave home for long periods of time to work abroad, “emotional hardship”
and “difficulties in social adjustment” are some of the effects on children left behind by
migrant families (Parents Working Abroad and They Effects on Their Children, n.d.).
These children are a special group, as they have a higher risk of psychological
and educational problems, and their growth and development have been of general
concern to society. A lack of parental care and nurturance lead to a higher likelihood of
left-behind children being bullied, and suffering from abuse. The study has examined
the associations between parental migration and children's psychological health and
Additionally, OFWs face family-related issues. The most concerned ones are
Overseas Filipino Workers tend to overcompensate their children for their absence by
indulging materially, namely, giving the children money more than that to be
appropriate.
On the part of the children, studies have noted how some children of OFWs tend
to focus on the “money equivalent” of their parents’ migration and associate their
parents with monetary benefits to compensate for their absence. Other researchers
have suggested that these children develop a strong consumerist and materialistic
orientation, where the children are satisfied as long as the money from overseas
Regardless of whether it was the father, mother or both parents abroad, for most
children their remaining parent or other relatives served as the caregivers to make up
for parental absence. Fathers and mothers abroad were able to continue parenting roles
Moreover, most migrant parents like to believe that the intimacy of relationships
On the brighter side, children of OFWs believe their parents are working abroad
to supply their needs and wants, give them better food, better education and a better
home. The eldest child then assumes the role of the parent (Susan, 2013).
These teens accepted the fact that they have to be away from their parents to
support and provide them a better life. They desire to have a complete family just like
the other children. Also, they planned to finish their studies and have a better job to give
back what their parents have done for them. However, children left at home felt the
loneliness and sadness in significant events of their lives (Lobaton and Calantas, 2018).
Furthermore, it is always said that migration is the solution to the rising financial
instability of the families but the persistent concerns are on the issues of students being
left behind by such migration that have attracted growing attention and grow into a
global concern. Despite the fact that many children have experienced a decline in
classroom performance while parents are away, many were also found to have
computers have become the default substitute for personal parenting especially in the
motivation of parents in the academic performance of their children. These children also
aim for high grades because they want their parents to be happy and it is the only
reward they can give to their parents who sacrifice a lot. The need for caregivers to look
into the general satisfaction of children under their care can make them feel better and
make life manageable even in their current situations and conditions (Navarez and Diaz,
2017).
Furthermore, parents and caregivers ensure that children are healthy and safe,
that they are given the skills and tools they need to succeed as adults, and taught basic
motivation, and guidance to their children. They provide the most intimate setting for
children's nurturing and security as they establish their personalities and identities, as
the importance of a social safety net. This may entail: friends, extended kin, left-behind
parents, and/or others such as counselors. Children appeal to these people when
needed, which makes them feel included, loved and cared for – indicating children’s
coping behavior during their parents’ absence. It thus seems that not just closeness
between children and their migrant parents’ matters. When children feel closeness to a
group of people surrounding them (either physically or virtually), they may be better able
to deal with potential hardships that their parents’ migration may yield (Schram, 2015).
Other related articles researched by the group:
Studies have found that Filipino children who are left behind experience
psychological and emotional stress (Cruz, 1987; Parrenas, 2001),while others have
indicated that specific emotions, such as feelings of loneliness, anger, fear, being
unloved, or being different from others were most striking among children of migrant
mothers (Episcopal Commission for the Pastoral Care of Migrants and Itinerant People-
CBCP ⁄ Apostle ship of the Sea-Manila, et al., 2004). Also, while one study found that
children with absent parents are often less socially adjusted than others (Conaco,
1998), earlier research (Cruz, 1987) reported results to the304 International Migration
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as evidence on this topic is meager and has also been mixed (Cruz, 1987; Battistella
and Conaco, 1998; Episcopal Commission for thePastoral Care of Migrants and
translates into a lack of emotional support for their children that would eventually
Although it has brought opportunities for a better and financially stable life,
it has resulted in inevitable consequences that could affect children who are left behind.
There are such consequences of being geographically separated from their parents on
their well-being. Having indebtedness toward parents, longing for parental love and
care, and facing the negative consequences of parental absence. These themes
brought about by migration and parental absence, could have negative consequences,
particularly on their emotional well-being. This study has shown that the interviewees
experienced varied negative emotions arising from the acknowledgment of the sad
reality that they were left behind, having to endure an increasing relationship gap with
their parents. The themes, however, indicated positive perceptions as regards how the
interviewees valued the sacrifices of their parents. The results were used to develop a
framework for a social work-based program for enrichment and enhancement of the
and educational outcomes (Mazzucato & Schans, 2011). In particular, emotional well-
being is considered a determinant of how children would decide, behave, and cope
when confronted with complex situations brought about by parental migration and
absence.
being drew insights from children and teenagers whose perspectives provide a more in-
parents, noting how it could lead to a feeling of being abandoned and how reunion after
several years of separation could result in conflict. Graham and Yeoh (2013) highlighted
total years of schooling for the combined sample; i.e., compared with intact families with
both biological parents at home in the Philippines, children whose mothers were
overseas migrants at the time of the survey had completed more total years of
parents on the total years of schooling completed by sons in this sample. While none of
the variables is statistically significant in the equation modeling daughters’ total years of
schooling, we do find in the combined sample that, consistent with national data, girls
are apt to attain higher levels of education than are their brothers, net of other factors. In
addition, having more siblings neither increases nor decreases years of formal
education, net of other factors. Thus, the resource dilution hypothesis isnot supported in
this analysis.
behind children. Left-behind children have a lower cognitive test score and academic
test score, and they are also less likely to attend a college. In particular, a mother’s
absence seems to have persistent negative effects on children’s development.
Mechanism analyses show that parental absence may result in a less healthy mental
status of children and reduce children’s efforts in class. However, we do not find
significant evidence that the exposure to left-behind children in class lowers the in-
longitudinal study in Thailand finds negative impacts of parental absence on the school
enrollment of left-behind children (LBCs), and shows the long-term absence of the
mother appears to reduce the educational chances of LBCs. A study examines the data
from the Mexican household survey, and find higher emotional and behavioral problems
among LBCs than non-LBCs. concurrently, a study in the Philippines shows the
opposite results, and that is, LBCs have better well-being outcomes than non-LBCs. A
systematic literature reviews the effects of international labor migration on mental health
and well-being, and shows that the effects are not always negative but depend on the
migration, a study uses a nationally representative panel dataset in China and shows
that internal parental migration significantly increases the depression scores of children
aged 10–11.
the absence of one versus both parents. Their findings show significant adverse effects
of being left behind by both parents on children’s cognitive development, but much
smaller insignificant impacts of being left behind by one parent. A study estimates the
effect of parental migration on students’ school behavior, and finds that parental
migration negatively affects school behavior of left behind older students significantly,
especially the class integration and personal behavior control. One exception found no
significant impact of parental migration on the math achievement of left behind children.
Furthermore, a study shows that parental absence has a significant negative impact on
educational outcomes. We find that left behind children have a lower cognitive test
score and academic test score, and they are also less likely to attend a college. Our
results are robust to a series of sensitivity tests. The effects of parental absence vary
across gender, parents’ education level, and Hukou type, with more significant effects
for girls, students with low-educated parents, and urban students. Further mechanism
analyses suggest that parental absence reduces students’ mental health by increasing
the likelihood of being depressed or unhappy. Students with parental absence tend to
have a lower self-assessment on their behavior and campus life, such as more likely to
be late for school, less likely to receive praise from the head teacher, and problems with
class integration and social interaction with others. Our estimations also find no
significant evidence in which the exposure to left behind children in class lowers the in-
using alternative data from the China Family Panel Studies. The results show that a
absence reduces the probability of graduating from senior high school and entering
The most salient negative impact of the students with parents working abroad are the
feeling of left-behind and can feel helplessness, loneliness, deprivation and isolation
Grusec (2006) believed that there is always a question on what happens with the
children being left by their parents who work abroad. There are lots of possibilities that
can happen. There are children who can finish college and find a job, other children
don’t. Some children grow independently and have different beliefs from their parents.
Possible cases of mental disorder were identified using the 25-item SDQ, a screening
tool developed by Robert Goodman in the United Kingdom (R. Goodman, 1997).
According to Cleofe (2016) “In our academic years, at some point of our life, we
all have experience pressure from our environment or *peers. We are forced to follow a
certain group just to be accepted. Furthermore, if you are not aware that negative *peer-
pressure (two types of peer-pressure: the negative and positive) is already changing
your values and behaviors of alcoholism, drug addiction, teenage pregnancy for girls,
bullying and school failures.” In this case, even if the children tend to perform well
there’s a possibility at a process of trying times, children could not be able to manage
the sense of “abandonment” that may lead to the “easily-influenced” of peers resulting in
Extant research findings, particularly studies that provide a comparison with non-
migrant families, tend to be less pessimistic about the impact of parental migration on
children’s education. Several studies in the Philippines have shown that supporting the
Furthermore, similar to an earlier study (Battistella and Conaco, 1998), the 2003
study indicated that the children of OFWs performed just as well, if not better, than the
According to Ntitika J.L. (2014) in his study, “The economic status of parents can
because some of the students who come from families, which are not economically
stable, tend to be chased out of school for fees whereas others are not able to purchase
some of the reading materials. This affects their performance largely. Moreover, poor
economic backgrounds limit the parents from sending their children to schools that have
adequate facilities or of high standards simply because they are not able to meet the
*notions, children of migrants performed well especially during grade school compared
to non migrant children (based on the study of Scalabrini). This finding also came out in
the 1996 study (Battistella and Conaco) and seems to suggest the importance of
The data from the POEA (2012) indicate that most of the migrant workers
working in over 190 countries around the world are Filipinos and as a consequence, a
more pressing concern focuses on children being left-behind. In fact, Tan (2008)
discovered that around nine million Filipino children under the age of 18 were left behind
by one or both parents due to employment abroad. According To Philippine Institute for
Development Studies (2008), one of the main reasons why many decided to work
abroad is the children’s need for better education. In fact, education is among the top 3
relationship. This Condition of children left behind can become a source of stress in
their daily life. However, people see stressful events as either challenging or threatening
(Lazarus, 2000). To deal with these stressful events, there are many coping skills that
people can use, and some may prove more effective than others. Therefore, how an
individual deals with stress and his/her ways of responding to a situation that he/she
Despite the difficulty children face in the absence of their parents, there are some
findings of researches done in the Philippines, Brazil, Mexico, and other countries show
that when parents are away housework burdens of children decreases while learning
time at school increases resulting to better academic performance (Acosta, 2006;
Hanson & Woodruff, 2003; Kandel & Kao, 2001; Asis, 2006).
This scenario manifests an affirmative influence for those students who are
academically high performing school even if their parents are away. The positive
influence is due to successful coping skills that create an idea as to how one can make
changes in his/her life to make stress more manageable (Jarrey,2002 as cited in Smith,
2004). Thus, the effectiveness of coping efforts depends on the type of stress,type of
individual, and the circumstances surrounding it (Lee et al., 2009). Moreover, the
person's ability to manage and face stressful events in his/her life and make that
Today’s children need tangible support as they face a range of challenges that
extend beyond the cognitive domain (Roberts and Crawford, 2008). Fassler (2005)
explains that children who are away from their parents have chances of experiencing
Students may have difficulty studying due to worry regarding their concerns, as
well as the status of parental health and well-being. However, these students have to
face the reality of their parents leaving them for a noble reason. Due to lesser chances
of getting employed in most developing countries coupled with higher demands for low-
support themselves and their families back home. As reported by the United
NationsHuman Rights (UNHR, 2013), there are currently more than 215 million migrants
around the world,many of which are Filipinos. With this number of migrants, one can
already assume the difficulties experienced by children left behind.While some studies
focused on the effects of parental migration to the life of young children at school age in
many countries, this present study specifically looked into the impact of parental
migration to the academic, emotional, social and spiritual life of the left-behind
adolescents in Filipino context. This study investigated the effects of having parents
who are Overseas Filipino Workers (OFW) from four to seventeen years to the life of
their left-behind children aging fifteen to eighteen years old. Adolescence is a very
crucial stage in one’s life because this is when the person is neither a child nor an adult.
The absence of parents or carers in this particular period of one’s development may be
very stressful which might result in the use of coping and defense mechanisms. (Scielo
Org Za.,2017). In the present article, the author presents the impact of parental
migration in the four aspects (academic, emotional, social and spiritual) of life of the
three different groups of left-behind adolescent children in the Filipino context. Using the
researcher's questionnaire, mental ability and personality tests, interview, and the
respondents’ scholastic records, the following findings are discussed based on the
experience of many of the families nowadays primarily due to material poverty. While
the Family Code of the Philippines in Executive Order No. 209 series of 1987
consciousness and efficiency and for their holistic development and well-being
conducted inDavao del Sur during the school year 2014–2015. The target respondents
the different schools to ask permission from the school heads. Selected respondents
were asked to fill out the authorization form stating that their grades and personal views
would be used for the study. A total of 142 high performing students from various
Catholic high schools in Davao del Sur were the subject of the study. They were sons
and daughters of OFW parents. The study used an adopted instrument“Cope Inventory''
designed by Carver, Scheier, and Weintraub (1989) which measures the coping
support. Thestudents’ final general average grade for the school year 2013–2014 and
their first grading GPAfor the school year 2014–2015 were used to determine their
academic performance. Likewise,ten students coming from different schools who got
the highest general average grade during the final grading period for the SY 2013–2014
were interviewed and findings were used to deepen the analysis of the quantitative
results of the study. In analyzing the data, DescriptiveStatistics using mean score was
used to establish the level of coping mechanisms and level of students' academic
performance. In addition, Multiple Linear Regression Analysis was applied to determine
The study was conducted to determine the level of academic performance and
coping mechanisms of students in the private Catholic schools in Davao del Sur school
year 2014–2015. It also identified which of the coping mechanisms could significantly
parents None of the coping mechanisms can predict academic performance of the
Using Multiple Regression Analysis, it was determined that out of the eight
coping mechanisms tested only three were found to be significant, namely: active
recommended that schools must define policies that would support the creation of a
separate program for students with OFW parents with an emphasis on the significant
predictors.
coping are also psychological. Students with parents working overseas does
relativizing, maintaining "shadow household," sharing their experiences with other OFW