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#Rule 1: Be High Status..............................................1

#Rule 2: Act Like a Man ............................................ 1
#Rule 3: Have Confidence ......................................... 2
#Rule 4: Challenge Women ....................................... 3
#Rule 5: Never Be Average ....................................... 3
#Rule 6: Have a Busy Life ......................................... 5
#Rule 7: Be Proactive and Persistent........................... 6
#Rule 8: Be a Fun Guy.............................................. 7
#Rule 9: Have an 'I Don't Care' Attitude ...................... 8
#Rule 10: YOU Are in Control..................................... 9
#Rule 11: Fix What's Holding You Back ....................... 10
#Rule 12: Eliminate Your 'Sticking Points'.................... 10
#Rule 13: Embrace Failure ........................................ 11
#Rule 14: Look the Part ............................................ 13
#Rule 15: More on Hygiene ....................................... 14
#Rule 16: Demonstrate Strong Body Language ............ 15
#Rule 17: Show a Confident Smile.............................. 17
#Rule 18: Have High-Status Speech ........................... 18
#Rule 19: Establish Strong Eye Contact....................... 21
#Rule 20: Develop the "Rock Star" Attitude ................. 21
#Rule 21: Life Weights.............................................. 23
#Rule 22: Get More Cardiovascular Exercise ................ 23
#Rule 23: Increase Your Social Circle.......................... 24
#Rule 24: Know Where to Meet Women....................... 25
#Rule 25: Find a Good Wingman................................ 26
#Rule 26: Use Anchoring to Create Memories............... 28
#Rule 27: Always Tease ............................................ 28
#Rule 28: Tell Great Stories....................................... 29
#Rule 29: Assume Familiarity .................................... 30
#Rule 30: Be Sexual................................................. 31
#Rule 31: Create Great Sexual Chemistry.................... 32
#Rule 32: Initiate Physical Contact ............................. 33
#Rule 33: Build Rapport............................................ 35
Conclusion............................................................... 35
 # Rule 1: Be High Status
Being attractive to women is NOT about saying a few lines and hoping for the best.
Instead, it involves demonstrating the core personality traits which attract all
women. One of the most important characteristics you need to display is the
principle of "higher status."

So how do you establish higher status?

The truth is that higher status is a hard thing for many guys to acquire. It's often a
matter of being able to walk into a room full of strangers and find a way to instantly
become "top dog.” To increase your chances of demonstrating higher status, you
need to incorporate a variety of personality traits.

Here are some of the actions you can take to show higher status:

Have a lot of friends (especially women) around you who say complementary
things about you.
Be the leader of your group.
Use teasing, flirting, and funny stories to create an interesting personality.
Show alpha-male traits like confidence, integrity, strength-of-character, and
respect.
Demonstrate confident body language.

By demonstrating this higher status around women, you'll instantly become more
attractive.

#Rule 2: Act like a Man

Learn how to become a MAN!

It takes more than a chest full of hair to qualify as a grown up, and unfortunately,
most guys learn this the hard way. The truth is that A LOT of women are fed up with
dating guys who act like little boys. If you can learn what is attractive to women,
then you’ll stand out from these low-status men.

So why is it important to become a man?

It's simple. By being a real man, you'll exude a variety of positive characteristics.
These core traits can help you become more naturally attractive to women.

What traits should you develop?

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In my opinion, there are a number of strong characteristics which display
manliness. Here are just a few of them:

Honour
Integrity
Passion for life
Goal orientation
Confidence
Humility
Calmness under pressure
Generosity to friends, family, and even strangers
Leadership
Courage and conviction
Decisiveness
Humour.

I guarantee the more you work on yourself, the more you’ll naturally attract
women.

#Rule 3: Have Confidence

When it comes to dating and attracting women, much of your success depends on
your self confidence. The more confidence you have, the better off you'll be!

So what should you do if you lack self-confidence around women? The good news
is that a confident front can be faked in the short term, and honed for long-term
success. Here are a few tips you can use to raise your self-esteem:

Learn to relax: Before approaching women, put yourself in a relaxed state by

paying attention to your posture and body, and concentrate on a positive
outcome from the conversation you're about to have. If you can remove all
expectations, you'll become more relaxed around women. So remind yourself
that any negative outcome won't affect your life.

Try meditation and exercising: There are certain activities (i.e. meditation,
yoga, and taichi) which will make you more relaxed. By practicing these
exercises, you'll be able to put yourself in a positive stateof-mind whenever
you choose, including the times when you're trying to pick up women. So if
you're serious about building self confidence, try one of these activities.

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 Use your strengths: One quick way to build self-confidence is to write down all
of the qualities that make you a great person. Then, whenever you're faced
with a situation where you're not feeling confident, just recite the affirmations
about your personal strengths. By mentally reviewing your assets, you'll be
able to quickly ramp up your levels of confidence.

Be positive at all times: It's widely known that guys who smile and have a
positive outlook tend to attract more women. So no matter what you're feeling
inside, ALWAYS have an upbeat attitude, and do your best to be a guy who
women enjoy being around. Emotions are contagious, so even when you “fake”
confidence, you'll eventually begin to feel as though you’re on top of the
world!

#Rule 4: Challenge Women

Let’s talk about the “nice guy”. He is the man who tries too hard with women. He’s
always ready to buy gifts and do favors for girls he likes, but because of this
supplicating behavior, he ends up repelling instead of attracting them.

Without going into too much female psychology, the nice guy presents no
challenge to women. A big secret about women is that they want a man who
makes them work for his attention. Nice guys are too readily available.

You HAVE to demonstrate that you're a challenge to any woman you're trying to
attract. This means you should create a strict set of standards, and ONLY do
things if they comply with your personal code. Furthermore, you should challenge
women if they're disrespecting you or not matching up to your expectations.

While you might feel weird or think you're being rude by treating women this way,
these are strict rules for attracting them. By not kissing a girl's ass and doing
everything she asks, you're getting rid of the “nice guy” persona. This will help you
transform yourself into the kind of man who all women desire.

#Rule 5: Never Be Average

When it comes to dating women, you'll face a lot of obstacles and problems, but
one of these should never be your personality.

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 Persona is something which can make or break your ability to attract women. For
instance, if you're too nice, then women will walk all over you. On the other hand,
if you act too much like a jerk, then women will be turned off by your arrogant
behaviour.

There are a lot of personality traits which can hurt your overall success with
women. Perhaps the biggest mistake you could make is…

Being AVERAGE!

A lot of guys tend to treat women with gentle care. They're polite, agree with
everything they say, and make sure to ONLY talk about safe topics. If this sounds
like you, then allow me to say one thing…

If you act like an average guy, you're going to get average results!

On the other hand, if you want to attract a woman, you have to find a way to stand
out from the crowd. This means becoming someone who is exciting and
interesting. When you talk to a woman, don't be afraid to take some risks. Ask
interesting questions, make sexual innuendos, or playfully tease her.

Let's be honest: Good-looking women are ALWAYS getting hit on by other guys, so
in order to stand out from the crowd, you have to go beyond the norm and
become somebody who is unique.

Finally, you might be afraid that some women will be offended by your behaviour.
Personally, I think it's a good idea to run the risk of offending people, and here's
why…

If you're with a woman who has NO sense of humour, then your behaviour was
able to quickly eliminate her as a prospect. Ultimately, you have saved yourself a
lot of time and effort.

EXTRAORDINARY results with women means you have to rise above the average
men of the world!

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 #Rule 6: Have a Busy Life
There are many characteristics that women find attractive in a man. As we’ve
discussed, "alpha-male traits” show women that you're a high-status guy who is
worth knowing. This makes you seem fun and interesting, so it's important to
demonstrate specific qualities which women want from men.

Now the truth is that MANY guys are terrible at following up with women after
getting a phone number or email address. Generally what happens is the
attraction they built during the initial meeting falls flat, and they can't set up a
date.

Between meeting a woman and contacting her, a lot of things can draw her
attention away from you, so it's important to reestablish that connection and
make her interested in you. Since she probably has a lot of things happening in her
life, you have to find a way to stand out in her mind.

The best way to do this is to act like a busy guy.

As I mentioned before, women are extremely attracted to men who have exciting
and interesting lives, so she'll be more attracted to you if she thinks you have a lot
going on in your life. In a way, you're displaying higher value by letting her know
that you're not a guy who sits around the house nervously waiting for her call.

Also, by acting like a busy guy, she'll subconsciously think you might be dating
other women. If this woman thinks she has a bit of competition, she'll work hard to
make an impression the next time you meet.

What should you do to act like a busy guy?

When you initially call her, let her know that you have a lot happening during the
week. Then you tell her that you want to make definite plans on a specific day.
Emphasise that you want to see her again, but "things have been crazy" in your
life.

After you make plans (i.e. set up a date), cut the conversation short, and tell her
you have a lot of things to get done. Be vague about what you're doing, but make it
sound interesting.

Finally, once you go on the date, mention all the activities that you do. In other
words, let her know that you have a busy life, but you're willing to let her be part
of it.
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 #Rule 7: Be Proactive AND Persistent
When meeting (and dating) women, you have to be PERSISTENT.

Now before you go out and start stalking every woman you meet, let me explain
what I mean about persistence. In a nutshell, being persistent means that you
shouldn't be afraid to follow up with a woman whom you have chemistry with. I
DON'T mean you should stalk every girl you "really like.”

So when I tell you to be persistent, I mean you should make an effort when it
comes to pursuing women. In other words, don't listen to your buddies and wait
seven days to call her, and don’t blow her off every time she wants to hang out
because you want to "seem cool.”

Instead, actively call her and set up dates. Remember that most women let guys
make the first move. If you're waiting around for her to call, then you might miss
out on an opportunity with a great girl.

Also, it's important to remember that women have busy lives just like you, so while
she might be interested in you, there could be outside factors which require her
attention. A woman might still have interest even if she's not making the first
move. What this means is it's up to YOU to follow up and set up a date.

Now there's the reverse side to being persistent…

Eventually, you'll encounter a girl who won't return your calls. This is the point
where your persistence must STOP. If she doesn't return a number of your calls,
then she doesn't want to talk to you.

I know this sounds harsh, but you should NEVER stalk a woman who has no
interest in you. So remember that persistence is a great attitude. Don't be afraid
to follow up with women and set up dates, but always remember that there are
certain times when it's important to stop pursuing a woman and move on!

In addition to persistence, it’s equally important that you be PROACTIVE when

pursuing the opposite sex.

Like persistence, being proactive will increase your success with women. The
funny thing is that many guys think playing games is the best way to increase
attraction. In other words, they follow the advice of waiting two or three days
before calling a girl. The logic is that women will be attracted because they're
forced to do the pursuing.
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Believe it or not, this technique RARELY works!

Think of it this way: Women (like men) get busy with their lives. After grabbing a
woman’s number, you’re in direct competition for her time against her job, family,
and other guys. When she gets busy, she’ll probably have to ditch something in
her life, and since you've just met her, it’ll probably be YOU.

Now once she decides that you’re expendable, all of your efforts will have been
wasted. When this happens, you only have yourself to blame. By not calling her,
you've killed your chances of making a connection to that girl.

As you can see, being proactive is an incredibly important trait to develop. When
you pursue women and immediately make the first call (within two days), you
stand out in her mind. As a result, your chances of success will dramatically
increase.

When you develop a proactive personality, you'll become the guy who has more
women in his life. You’ll date more and will have more opportunities for finding
someone special.

Just remember that getting a phone number is the FIRST step in the dating
process. If you become a proactive guy, you’ll have the skills for turning those
digits into dates and fun times!

#Rule 8: Be a Fun Guy

It’s happened to ALL of us…There are times when the process of meeting women
can become tedious. Since the art of attracting women requires a TON of effort, it
can be both stressful and tiresome. Sometimes, it just doesn’t seem worth your
time.

Often a night out can include:

Having to project a confident and energetic persona at ALL times

Approaching dozens of “sets” or groups of women
Going out night after night
Being rejected by women when you’re approach techniques aren’t working

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As you can see, there is A LOT involved with trying to learn the subtle art of the
pick-up artist, so it’s only human if you sometimes forget the MAIN reason that
you’re on this path. Whatever the case, there is something you must always keep
in mind…

If you’re not having FUN during this whole process, then you’ll have little chance
of success.

The truth is that how we feel inside is always shown on the outside. If you're not
having fun when meeting women, then you'll project a bored-looking demeanour.
When this happens, you’ll kill your chances of success.

#Rule 9: Have an “I Don’t Care” Attitude

Your attitude has a direct affect on your success with women. The difference
between going home alone or with a beautiful woman depends on how you
present yourself.

The problem is that many guys have major problems with women because they're
projecting the wrong kind of attitude. In essence, they're allowing their neediness
to be obvious.

If you know anything about the laws of attraction, then you understand what
women REALLY want from men. The majority of them are interested in guys who
can establish a high level of status and act in a confident manner. When you act in
a needy manner, you're basically giving off a desperate appearance, which leads
up to the point of this tip…

In order to attract women, you have to learn how to project an "I don't care"
personality.

Although this seems to go against common sense, women are wildly attracted to
guys who don't seem to care about “scoring” or succeeding with them. If you can
project an aloof attitude around women, you'll stand out from other guys for one
simple reason…

You’re not hitting on them.

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It’s just human nature to want what one can’t have, and this is certainly true when
it comes to dating and relationships. With that being said, if a woman sees that
you’re not wrapped around her finger, she’s going to want you all the more. By
carrying yourself with an "I don't care what happens" attitude, you'll seem like a
man who isn't concerned about the outcomes of interacting with women…

And you’ll reap all the benefits of doing so.

#Rule 10: YOU are in Control

In addition to being confident and unconcerned with outcomes, it’s also important
that you maintain control of every situation you encounter.

The attitude you display around women is one of the most important ways to
determine your overall success. When you show women the proper kind of
attitude, you'll discover that it's quite easy to attract them. So the more dominant
and in control you act, the more you'll find that women will comply with your
requests.

Here's what I mean…

In the dating scene, women always encounter weak guys who act needy and are
constantly looking to them for approval. By acting in a position of dominance and
competence, you're demonstrating that you have confidence in yourself, and
you're not afraid to show it. You can display this personality trait by paying
attention to a woman's body language during your interaction. Then use this
information to establish control of the situation.

What I mean is that there will be several occasions when a woman will tell you one
thing verbally, but her body language says something completely different. So
when you're talking to a woman, use what she's saying with her BODY LANGUAGE
to control her.

Here are several examples of how to be in control:

Disagree with her viewpoints, and alter her opinions to match yours.
Do nice things for a woman because YOU want to, not because she asks you to.
If she's laughing during your conversation and saying "Stop that," you know
she's enjoying your interaction.

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 #Rule 11: Fix What’s Holding You Back
For instance, many guys feel they're too bald or overweight to attract a woman. In
fact, these men OBSESS over these “flaws” so much that they become paralyzed
with fear when talking to a woman. So let me set the record straight on this...

You CAN attract women no matter what you look like.

I've seen some of the UGLIEST and FATTEST guys attract women just by having an
interesting personality.

And you can do the same!

There are times when you feel like a physical characteristic is holding you back. My
advice is to fix what you can, and ACCEPT the things you can't control.

For instance, let’s say you're a short person. Because your height is something you
can’t fix, you know there is nothing you can do to become taller. So instead of
worrying about being short, learn to develop your flirting skills to the point where
your height won’t matter.

On the other hand, if you have a physical defect which you can control, make
every attempt to change it. For instance, if you're overweight, try losing a few
pounds. If you're going bald, try to shave your head and cultivate a unique look.
Ask some trusted girl friends what they think would work best for you, and branch
out with a new look.

Just remember that no matter how you appear physically, your success with
women is not dictated by your looks or defects. If you can learn to attract women
through your personality, then you'll get past the physical flaws that you think are
holding you back.

#Rule 12: Eliminate Your “Sticking Points”

All guys have strengths and weaknesses when it comes to dating women. While
you might be really good at one thing, you're probably being held back by one of
your weaknesses.

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For instance, you could be great at approaching a woman, but have trouble with
"closing the deal" and grabbing her number. So no matter what you're good at,
there are specific problem areas which have a negative impact on your life.

Bottom line…

Your weaknesses are the sticking points which keep you from mastering your
success with women. In order to improve, you must identify the sticking points
which hold you back. As soon as you do, work hard at improving them.

Break down your dating life into individual steps, then figure which ones are
holding back your success. This can include the following:

Making eye contact

The approach
Initiating conversation and openers
Projecting positive body language and picking up on her subtle cues
Being confident and giving off a positive aura
Knowing how to tease and flirt
Creating great conversations and having stuff to say
Getting her number and setting up a date
Progressing from the date to the bedroom

As you can see, there are a lot of potential sticking points which could be holding
you back. When you're trying to attract women, it's important to self analyze and
figure out which parts of your game are holding you back. Then work on them until
they are no more.

Sticking points are part of every guy's game. If you know how to handle them,
you'll dramatically increase your success with women.

#Rule 13: Embrace Failure

The way you view an event determines how much you can learn from each
experience!

What do I mean? It’s simple: How you view the world has a direct impact on your
success with women. If you beat yourself up every time a woman rejects you, then
you won’t make any progress with your dating life.

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On the other hand, if you develop a positive attitude about life, you’ll discover
how to learn from each experience and grow as a man!

A while back, I discovered an interesting thing about men and how they view
rejection. Whenever a guy is turned down by a woman, he uses “self-talk” to beat
himself up. If a guy is rejected by a girl, he thinks there must be something wrong
with him!

In order to experience DRAMATIC growth in your dating life, you must learn to
develop a positive outlook on EACH interaction with a woman regardless of the
outcome! To do this, you can try a simple, cognitive-psychology technique called
“Reframing.”

The Reframing Technique is easy to learn, and it follows a simple pattern:

Whenever you’re faced with a potentially-negative outcome, learn to discover the
positive results from the situation. This means asking yourself what benefit you
just received from the negative situation.

While you may think it sounds like a lot of “psychobabble,” I’ve discovered that
reframing is an excellent way to learn from each experience. And by doing this
regularly, you’ll experience dramatic success with women.

Here’s an example of how reframing would work:

Let’s say you learned a brand new conversation starter that you want to test out.
You head over to your local bar and approach ten groups of women. The problem
is that all ten groups reject you!

Most guys would view this as a negative experience and feel that they’re not
“good-looking enough” to attract a woman. However, YOU understand the
importance of reframing. You look at this situation and examine what benefit
you’ve just received. By being rejected by ten women, you have concrete proof
that the opener does NOT work for you. This means that you have to go back and
find a new way to approach women.

Plus, by approaching ten groups of women, you’ve just acquired ten new
experiences you can use to overcome your approach anxiety. Simply by initiating
conversations with this many groups, you’ve learned that approaching isn’t as
hard as you once thought.

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In order to master your success with women, you should adopt a positive outlook
at everything you experience. By implementing the Reframing Technique, you’ll
discover that every negative outcome will help you grow as a person!

#Rule 14: Look the Part

Perhaps the question I get asked the most is if a guy needs looks or money to
attract women. My response to this question is always a resounding NO! But there
is one MAJOR catch to this statement: While I think you have the ability to attract
women, you still need to have a top-notch personal appearance.

Confused by this statement? If so, let me explain…

While you don't have to be good looking to be desired by women, you still need to
present an appearance which is attractive. When I talk about appearance, I mean
you should do everything to look your BEST. In other words, the clothes you wear
and how you display your body language will have a direct impact on your success
rate.

Here are a few ways to dramatically improve your personal appearance:

Smile every time you meet a woman:

If done properly, your smile can be your “secret weapon” for attracting women.
The trick is to learn how to smile as a reflex every time you approach a woman. If
you don't have a natural smile, take the time to practice it.

In addition to smiling, it's equally important to display a mouth which is free from
stains or bad breath. So remember to brush and floss twice a day. Furthermore
liberally use breath mints and gum.

Wear fashionable clothes:

If you want to meet attractive women, you have to be willing to wear fashionable
clothes. With that being said, you might have to make a few financial sacrifices if
you want a wardrobe that will impress girls. The key to improving your attire is to
purchase some clothes which match today's latest fashions. While you don't have
to go out and buy a whole new closet, you should spend a little extra money on a
few items which look REALLY good on you. Simply take the time to find which
items flatter YOU, and you'll make a dramatic improvement.
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 Have great hygiene:

Like your smile, it's extremely critical to have proper hygiene. This means shaving,
putting on deodorant, getting a haircut, and showering regularly. If you look like a
slob, you'll end up attracting slob-like women.

The guys who are really successful know that attractive women go for confident
and sharp-looking men. In order to be like them, you must look your best. Just
remember that your personal appearance is the first thing a woman will see, so
make sure you present yourself in the best possible light.

#Rule 15: More on Hygiene

Do you like when women scream and run away from you?

I didn’t think so. Hygiene is so important, that I’ve dedicated an entire tip solely to
the subject. If you’re having difficulty sealing the deal when it comes to women,
there a real possibility that you're not taking care of your grooming habits.

Here's what I mean…

In almost every social situation, I've noticed there is that ONE guy who tries hard
to attract women, but doesn't take the time to work on his appearance. What he
doesn't realise is that poor hygiene turns off women instead of attracting them. By
NOT taking a half hour each day for cleaning up, he's eliminating (not minimising)
his chances for success.

If you want to ensure a top-notch appearance, you should do the following EACH
time before you go out to meet women:

Shower (using an ample amount of soap, shampoo, and conditioner).

Clean your ears out with Q-Tips.
Shave or trim your facial hair.
Apply deodorant.
Brush your teeth, and use dental floss.
Apply cologne.
Trim any nose, eyebrow, or ear hair you have.
Dress in a neat manner.

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While these grooming tips may seem like common sense, a lot of guys seem to
forget the importance of taking care of their appearance. Just remember that NO
tip or technique will work if you have a lousy appearance or poor hygiene.
Ultimately, if you want to maximise your ability to attract women, simply spend a
little time each day grooming yourself.

#Rule 16: Demonstrate Strong Body Language

Being attractive to women sometimes doesn’t depend upon your words. Instead,
it can depend on the tone of your body language. I

t’s been said that almost 90 percent of your communication is done through non-
verbal cues. If you’re not displaying the right kind of body language, then the best
openers and routines won’t be able to help you!

The solution to this is simple: If you want to demonstrate high status, then you
must know the secrets of giving off positive body language. When you do this,
you’ll be perceived as a confident and dominant guy!

Here are six ways you can show incredible body language around women…

#1- Eradicate weak body language. The first step to fixing your body language is to
eliminate all body-language traits that are considered weak. Women can instantly
detect a man who isn’t confident, so in order to make INSTANT improvement, you
MUST become sensitive to the body-language traits you’re displaying.

For instance, some weak traits can include:

Having your hands in your pockets

Fidgeting or showing nervous energy
Talking to people with your arms folded
Slumping your head or shoulder down
Looking uncomfortable in social situations
Not taking up space
Walking fast everywhere you go
Leaning towards women during an initial conversation

What’s interesting is that you can make dramatic changes to your body language
simply by eliminating these behaviours.

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#2- Work on your stance: The way you stand can have a huge impact on how
people will think of you. Here are a few rules for how you should stand:

Keep your chin and head up.

Position your feet and legs at shoulder-length apart.
Have your hands at your sides, or have only ONE hand holding a drink in front
of you (i.e. in bar environments).
Keep your back straight.

#3- Take up space: The confident guys of the world are NOT afraid of others. This
is especially true in social situations.

An easy way to eliminate your fear is to subtly show your dominance and
leadership by taking up space wherever you go. The good news is that this can be
easily done.

Whenever you’re in a public environment, try to spread out a little. Instead of

folding inwards when you’re surrounded by other people, position your body so
you’re taking up the most amount of space.

#4- Be relaxed: A confident guy is somebody who can ALWAYS show a relaxed
pose in any situation, so if you want to demonstrate high status, you must display
a casual aura around women.

By displaying a relaxed (yet confident) attitude, you’re demonstrating that the

little things in life don’t faze you.

Here are a few ways to do this:

Concentrate your eyes on the person in the conversation.

When talking to women at a bar, lean back and show that you’re comfortable.
Never let your eyes dart around a room.
Spread out and look comfortable when sitting down.
Breathe through your stomach instead of your chest.

By showing a relaxed pose, you demonstrate a LACK of nervous and inferior body-
language traits

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#5- Move deliberately: Low-status guys are jumpy and ready to please women. As
a result, they end up displaying “needy” body language. Instead of showing that
you’re “ready to please,” you want to demonstrate that you move on YOUR terms.

One of the core traits of a beta male is being a guy who is ALWAYS ready to do
favors for women. If somebody needs help, the beta male will instantly come
running.

Instead of showing this inferior personality trait, you should move slowly and with
a measured attitude. By taking deliberate actions with every step, you'll force
people to pay attention to your schedule, not theirs.

#6- Face away: You can say a LOT to women without even opening your mouth. If
you’re like most guys, you walk up to a woman, invade her personal space, and
make your intentions obvious. In short, you’re demonstrating the fact that you’re
trying to “pick her up.”

When you’re first talking to women, you DON’T want to make your intentions
obvious. Instead of invading her space on the initial approach, you want to put her
at ease. The best way to do this is to avoid directly facing a woman.

One of the principles of body language is we tend to be uncomfortable by people

who face us directly. So instead of positioning yourself right in front of her (or a
group), you should approach her to the side. If you can end up side-by-side or at
an angle, you'll reduce her nervousness and tension. This will help show that
you’re not investing too much emotionally in the outcome of the conversation.

#Rule 17: Show a Confident Smile

As I already emphasised in this report, your personal appearance is a MAJOR
factor in attracting women. While good looks aren’t mandatory, you must ensure
that you’re doing your best to display an interesting AND unique look. And a huge
part of your appearance is displaying a confident smile when you’re talking to a
woman.

The truth is that the first thing a woman will notice about you is your smile. If you
smile (and have a positive demeanour) around a woman, you’ll increase your
chances of attracting her. So from the FIRST moment you make eye contact with a
female, you MUST give your best possible smile.

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The only question is…why is smiling so effective? Well smiling is effective for many
reasons. When you’re smiling, you're telling a woman these things:

You enjoy her company.

You like what she is saying to you.
You are an upbeat person with a positive outlook on life.
You’re a fun guy.

So if you want to increase your success with women, make sure you’re smiling
when talking to them!

#Rule 18: Have High-Status Speech

A lot of times, it’s not the words you say that’s attractive to women…it’s how you
say them.

A man with a confident and powerful voice can be very seductive to a woman.
Someone like this doesn’t even really need to say that much. With just that sound
of his voice, he can easily attract women.

The way you speak to a woman can often determine your success. Developing a
powerful voice can be an incredible way to demonstrate a naturally-attractive
vibe. When a woman is turned on by how you speak, you won’t have to work as
hard at thinking of stuff to talk about. That’s why it’s important to work on your
speech and develop what I like to call “high-status speech.”

In order to develop this behaviour, there are four areas that you need to
concentrate on:

Your Speed:

Guys often show their anxiety and nervousness by talking too fast during a
conversation. The low-status males have a tendency to talk to women in a rapid-
fire manner. This is usually the result of a feeling that they have a limited amount
of time to impress a woman, so they feel the need to talk as fast as possible to
cover the “important” things.

Unfortunately, rapid speech doesn’t help demonstrate a confident personality. It

usually comes out as a garbled mess that women find hard to follow. When talking
to a guy like this, a woman is often left with her head spinning.

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A confident speech pattern is slow and clear. A guy who talks this way doesn’t fly
through his conversation. Instead, he knows the things he says are interesting, so
he isn’t too concerned with taking his time.

One of the best ways to develop this type of speech is to monitor your speed.
You’ll find that many times you talk too fast, especially in an uncomfortable social
environment. When this happens, make it a point to cut your speed down to about
half of what it normally would be.

Another great technique to try is the deliberate pause. This is a conversation

tactic where you purposefully stop the conversation right before you say
something interesting. It’s a powerful way to get a person to hang on to your every
word. Plus, a little suspense goes a long way. You want a woman to wonder what
you’re going to say next!

Your Volume

The volume of your speech is another way to demonstrate your level of

confidence. A superior alpha male speaks loudly because he knows people want to
hear what he has to say. Conversely, a weak guy tends to have a soft, low voice. In
order for you to build attraction through your conversation, you have to be heard.
If your voice isn’t loud enough, then you’ll quickly lose interest from women. This
is especially true when it comes to noisy venues like bars or clubs.

Since you generally have to talk over ambient and competing noise, it’s important
to become comfortable with speaking in a clear, commanding voice. You may feel
uncomfortable speaking this way, but trust me…you will be quickly ignored if you
try to engage a woman with a soft, meek voice.

Try practicing at home by reading from a book. Carefully read the words, and
speak in loud voice in a natural manner without shouting. A quick tip is to pull the
air from your diaphragm, not your chest.

Your Modulation

A monotone voice can quickly put a person to sleep.

Don’t talk to people like a robot!

Nobody wants to listen to a voice with no emotion or passion. An expressionless

voice does little to attract attention. It’s actually one of the quickest ways to
demonstrate that you probably live a boring existence.
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To develop a more interesting speech pattern, you have to learn how to modulate
your voice. To do this, practice using your voice to express different emotions.
This can include humor, anger, sadness, and happiness. Furthermore, try
fluctuating the volume and speech patterns whenever telling a story.

A great way to learn how to modulate is to listen to a famous comedian or radio

personality. You’ll hear how they can express a wide range of emotions through
the power of their voice. Record some of these guys, and practice talking like
them. After a while, you’ll learn how to develop a rich voice that’s full of
interesting nuances.

Your Pitch
Women go crazy over a deep voice. Now, most of us aren’t blessed with a powerful
voice, but it is something you can develop. Through a bit of practice, you can learn
how to lower the pitch of your voice whenever you’re in a social interaction.

The trick to deepening your voice is to speak directly from your diaphragm, not
your throat. You should pull all of your sound from your core. Take deep breaths,
and imagine the air being pushed out from your lower stomach. This is similar to
the training done in the military. You’re simply developing a commanding voice
without taking any sound from your throat.

To practise this technique, place the palm of your hand on your diaphragm and
speak. If you feel that the sound is coming from your throat, then you’re doing it
wrong. You want to feel a vibration emanate from your chest. Keep practising until
you can consistently pull sound from your diaphragm.

Some examples of men who are widely regarded as having attractive voices
include:

Winston Churchill
Barry White
Barack Obama
James Earl
Jones Sean
Connery Howard Stern (and many other radio personalities)

Each of these men has trained their voice to provide a soothing sound to the
listener. I recommend you listen to audio recordings of these guys and see how
they use all four elements that I discussed in this section. You’ll find each one of
them talks in a slow, deep manner that uses a wide range of emotion.

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 #Rule 19: Establish Strong Eye Contact
As I’ve said repeatedly, confidence is the key ingredient to demonstrating a high-
status personality. When you approach with confidence, you dramatically
increase your success with women.

You’ve already learned various means of displaying a confident aura, and you
know that 90 percent of communication is portrayed via body language. However,
if you only do one thing to display confidence, you must work on developing
strong eye contact.

Strong eye contact means a lot of things to women:

It shows that you’re used to being in control.

It demonstrates that you’re not afraid of women.
It provides the first example of high-status body language.

Whenever you’re out meeting women, allow your eye contact to hold SLIGHTLY
longer than what’s considered socially acceptable. In a way, you’re acting like
you’re trying to figure out if you’re looking at something you like.

What's interesting about this form of communication is that it sends a different

message to people, based on their gender. Men will find lengthy eye contact to be
a challenge or an aggressive action. On the other hand, women find these guys to
be confident and sexual.

You can also use eye contact to approach women. Whenever you lock eyes with a
woman, you can give her a simple smile. If she smiles back, you know she’s
probably willing to be approached. Contrary to using openers, this is a more
natural way to start talking to women.

Strong eye contact is a necessary ingredient to creating attraction. If you feel like
you lack this characteristic when talking to women, then I recommend you
practice. Simply follow the advice I gave, and you’ll find that it’s easier to display a
more self-assured presence around women.

#Rule 20: Develop the “Rock Star” Attitude

One thing I find interesting is how rock stars can easily score with women. From
what I’ve seen, all a guy needs is a guitar or microphone, and he’ll have the pick of
ANY woman around him. In fact, some rock guys literally have women beg them
for sex.
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 From Led Zeppelin all the way to a local cover band, musicians have it easy when
it comes to attracting women. All they have to do is get on stage, and women will
become hypnotically captured by their presence.

You probably think that rock guys attract women because of their fame or money,
but this isn’t the case. What rock stars have is the ability to stand out from the
crowd. Unlike the average guy, these dudes know how to dress AND act in a
unique manner. Furthermore, they’re good at projecting a mysterious image,
which women eat up!

What I find interesting is that there are LOTS of musicians who really suck at their
craft, but they still manage to attract HORDES of women! This theory holds true
for even the crappiest cover bands at your local bars. While these guys are only
playing the songs from other bands, they still know how to draw women to them
like magnets. This goes to show that even the worst musicians have something
which girls find incredibly seductive.

So what can you learn from this?

It’s simple: Almost all rock stars succeed with women because they know how to
stand out from the crowd. Unlike the average guy, they’re not afraid to dress
differently or demonstrate an outlandish personality.

While you don’t have to play an instrument, you can learn a lesson from how rock
stars act. To be more like them, you should do the following:
Wear something unique.
Be energetic and excited around your friends.
Talk to everyone.
Have fun in any social situation.
Demonstrate higher value.

The reason a “rock star persona” is successful is that it helps you stand out from
other guys. In other words, when you display a positive, alpha-male personality,
women will know that you’re different.

The reason is simple: Deep down, ALL women want passion and excitement in
their lives. It’s for this very reason that romance novels are so successful. By
displaying an outlandish personality around a woman, you stand out and
represent the excitement she's probably missing in her life.

The more you stand out, the more women will notice you. So think of new ways to
dress, talk, and act. If you can make them DIFFERENT from other guys, then you’ll
be viewed as a unique and attractive guy.
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 #Rule 21: Lift Weights
As you probably know by now, when it comes to attracting women…looks aren't
important! Even if you're balding or have a few extra pounds, you can still succeed
with women.

But there is one important thing to remember...

While it's possible to attract women if you have physical flaws, you can increase
your chances if you fix them. This is especially true if you get into the habit of
lifting weights. By working out at least three times a week, you'll receive both
physical and mental benefits that'll help your overall "dating game."

Here are a few reasons why weight lifting helps your success with women:

Your confidence will improve as you realise that you're in better shape than
the other guys who make no effort to improve their appearance.

When you start to improve your body, you'll like yourself better. And once you
learn to love yourself, your overall demeanour and attitude will change.
Eventually your improved self-esteem will translate into a positive attitude
around women.

Your health will improve. While being a physically-fit person doesn't directly
correlate to your ability to attract women, there is something to be said about
knowing you're on a pathway towards being healthy. When you have a great
attitude about life, you'll become a fun guy to be around. In a way, your
outlook will be another reason why you're attractive to women.

#Rule 22: Get More Cardiovascular Exercise

In the last rule, I discussed the benefits of starting a weight-lifting regimen, and
why it's important for your success with women. Now I want to shift focus and
discuss the importance of cardiovascular exercise.

Personally, I think engaging in aerobic exercise is one of the BEST things you can
do for yourself. I've found that people who are in shape have a happier outlook on
life. But since this report is mostly concerned with improving your success with
women, allow me to explain why a pattern of cardiovascular exercise will help you
with dating and romance.
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First, you'll be a calmer person. When you're getting regular exercise, you're
constantly releasing endorphins into your body, which will help display a more
relaxed and calm demeanour. A byproduct is that you'll be able to reduce a lot of
the nervous energy that interferes with your ability to attract women.

Another benefit is that you'll be able to have more stamina in the bedroom. While
many guys think regular exercise tires you out, the opposite is actually true.

Regular exercise provides you with more energy…especially when it comes to

sex.

Unless you're training for a marathon, you can use your increased stamina to
provide women with an incredible sexual experience.

The final reason you should exercise is because it provides you with a social
outlet. Whether you're exercising in a gym or exercising outdoors, you'll have an
opportunity to meet more people. As a result, you'll widen your social circle by
talking to athletic and interesting women.

#Rule 23: Increase Your Social Circle

Many guys have the erroneous belief that meeting women ALWAYS involves going
to a specific location and approaching strangers. The truth is that there is another
way you can meet women without feeling the need to frequent crowded bars, and
the solution is simple…

Improve your social life.

By making new friends and contacts, you'll increase your opportunities for
meeting interesting women. When you try to make friends with more people
(especially females), your options for dating women will dramatically increase. In
addition, an increase in the quantity of friends will provide an excellent
opportunity to do new and exciting things.

The truth is that a lot of women are attracted to guys who have an active social
life. Furthermore, by having more female buddies, you could have an opportunity
to meet and date their friends.

If you're familiar with the psychology of women, then you know that they love to
play the role of matchmaker with their single friends. By having a better social life,
you'll develop platonic relationships with lots of women.
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 Since you have a "personal recommendation" from your female friends, it'll be a
lot easier to break the ice with their friends. Unlike approaching a woman at a bar,
these women won't be so wary about you talking to them.

But even if your female friends won't set you up with women they know, you can
still meet their friends at social activities like a party or happy hour. And by
creating a good social life, you'll see a dramatic increase in invitations to these
events.

So remember this…

In order to increase your chances of meeting more women, it's important to get a
healthy social life. Even if you know you're not attracted to a woman, make it a
point to befriend her. She probably has a few cute friends that you can meet later
on.

#Rule 24: Know Where to Meet Women

This is a common question I get from a lot of guys. Typically, these men think there
is some magical place they can go to meet the woman of their dreams. The truth is
that the best way to find the right kind of woman is to go where she hangs out.
Here's what I mean…

Let's just say you decided one day that you want to hunt for deer. Would you grab
a boat and go into the middle of a river? Probably not! If you were smart, you
would grab some camouflage and go into the woods.

If you're serious about trying to find a specific type of girl, you must be proactive
and go to the places where she goes. In other words, if you want a "spiritual
church girl," then you should put on your "Sunday Best" and head over to a
church.

Now I'm not saying you’ll never find a nice girl at a bar or club, but statistically
speaking, you'll probably encounter girls who like to party and have a good time.
Usually settling down is the farthest from their minds.

To get started, sit down and form an image of your PERFECT girl. Then decide on
the best places where she would hang out. For instance, here are a few types of
women:

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 Party girls
Bookish, intellectual women
Business and professional women
Athletic girls λ Spiritual women
Alternative and extreme lifestyle girls

If you're able to define your ideal woman, it becomes that much easier to envision
the places where she goes. Then all you have to do is start frequenting the same
spots where you'll
likely to encounter her.

#Rule 25: Find a Good Wingman

A lot of your success with women depends on your wingman. If you have a good
wingman, the process of meeting and attracting women becomes that much
easier.

What makes a good wingman? Well, I’ve boiled down the requirements to six
characteristics. If you're able to find the perfect partner in crime, your success
with women will dramatically increase. So when you're trying to find a wingman,
look for these six traits:

Shared Knowledge

The perfect wingman should share your attraction knowledge, as well as be able to
complement them. In addition, this guy should be able to work with you and help
out with specific routines which demonstrate higher value.

For instance, you can demonstrate a lot of value with a woman by cold reading
and doing mock psychic games. A good wing will understand this routine and be
able to help you out.

He’s your biggest fan.

In order to be a good wing man, you have to know each other's strengths. Then
whenever you're around women, you should brag about each other's strengths.
This is important because women are turned off when guys brag about
themselves, but they are attracted to men when their friends talk positively about
them.

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 He’s equal to or better than you.

In order to improve your skills, you need to select a wingman that is equal to your
ability. Perhaps he is even better than you.

By selecting a guy with a great ability to attract women, you can learn a lot by
watching his routines.

You complement one another.

People like diversity. In order to attract beautiful women, you should hang out
with a guy who has a different look and style from your own. By having a unique
perspective from your own, you can build on each other's knowledge and work
together to meet different women.

You communicate.

At the risk of sounding like a "Dear Abby" column, I have to say that an important
trait of a good wingman is somebody who can communicate with you. Specifically,
you should let each other know which women you're going after.

When you do this, you'll be able to help one another with your goals. In addition,
you'll avoid the conflict which occurs when you both go for the same woman.

He handles obstacles.

You probably know that the best use of a wingman is to handle the obstacles
which arise when meeting a woman.

For instance, all women have friends who act as buffers. A good wingman will
occupy their time, which allows you to isolate and focus on attracting the object
of your interest.

The important thing to remember is that you should share the responsibility of
"taking one for the team." So don't think it's ALWAYS your buddy's job to occupy
the obstacles you encounter.

Since this guy can make or break your success with women, you need to choose
carefully. If you can find a guy who has ALL six of these traits, then you'll have the
perfect wingman for attracting women.

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 #Rule 26: Use Anchoring to Create Memories

One of the earliest techniques used with seduction was the implementation of
Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) to meet women. Many “seduction gurus”
have long understood the importance of using basic psychological principles to
make women more attracted.

The idea of anchoring is simple: You take a neutral item that has NO emotional
connection to a woman, and you use it to trigger a positive emotion within her.
Through a shared experience, she’ll always think of YOU when she looks at this
object.

With anchoring, you basically create a fun memory that floods her with positive
emotions. Ultimately, this will get her to think about you when you’re not around.

This concept may seem a little abstract, so let’s talk about an example of how
anchoring can be used in your dating life:

Whenever you meet a woman, it’s likely that some popular music will be playing in
the background. To anchor this memory, start singing along with the song…OFF
KEY! As long as you’ve already demonstrated high status, she’ll laugh and
probably join in.

While I’m normally against doing anything that projects a low-status attitude, this
technique can be a funny way for her to remember you. In fact, it’s so powerful,
she’ll think of you WEEKS later when she hears this song.

The point is simple: When you meet a woman, you want to stand out in a positive
and funny manner. And a great way to do this is to anchor some popular song that
she’ll often hear when you’re not around.

#Rule 27: Always Tease

As you’ve learned in this guide, being a nice guy gets you nowhere with women.
The reason is simple: Women are NOT attracted to guys who behave in a
submissive manner. In essence, being a nice guy will end up boring a woman to
tears! While it’s crucial to not be too nice, it’s equally important to not come
across as an arrogant jerk. Around women, you must find that sweet spot between
being a challenge while not acting like an ass.

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What’s surprising is that the solution is fairly simple. Whenever you talk to a
woman, you MUST display a humorous but slightly-teasing attitude. In other
words, you say funny things while generally treating a woman like your “bratty
little sister.”

Being funny is directly related to being perceived as a fun guy. As a result, if you
can project a humorous attitude, women will have fun around you.

This is true even if you’re teasing her. If you create nicknames for her and are not
afraid to make a few jokes at her expense, you’ll increase your chances of
attracting her. While making fun of a girl might seem counterproductive, there are
concrete reasons why it works:

You’re demonstrating a high-status personality by not acting like the “nice

guy” who is concerned with pleasing her.
You’re showing a sense of humour and a playful attitude.
You're reversing traditional gender roles by putting HER in the position of the
pursuer.

Teasing a woman can include a lot of things. For instance, you can give her a
nickname or use your body language in a humorous manner. The key is to use your
humour in a way which makes it seem like you don’t care TOO much about what
she thinks of you.

By teasing a woman, you're creating a situation where she’s unsure if you’re

attracted to her. As a result, she'll think of you as a challenge and will start to
subconsciously prove herself.

In the end, teasing a woman can be one of the best ways to build attraction and
take an ordinary conversation to the next level.

#Rule 28: Tell Great Stories

If you're like other guys, there will be moments in a conversation where you can't
think of anything to say.
What sucks is that you could be talking to a great woman, and your mind suddenly
goes blank. You literally have nothing to talk about. Once this happens, you can
say goodbye to any chance of attracting her.

The good news is that there is a way to completely captivate her attention during
a conversation. All you have to do is utilise the power of storytelling.
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It's human nature to LOVE STORIES.

Think about it…

There have been times when you've been completely enthralled by a person
because he or she was able to tell a really interesting story.

You can do the same!

By telling her entertaining stories with you as the central character, you'll
completely captivate her attention. In order to tell a good story, you have to first
think of different incidents and scenarios which a woman will find both interesting
and entertaining. Then practise telling these stories around people. The important
thing is to get to the point where you can tell this story as a reflex.

You might think you should use a different story every time you talk to a new
woman, but that's not necessary. If you have a good enough story, learn to tell it
to every new woman you meet. Although you might know the story by heart, it'll
be entertaining to any new woman you've just met. This is especially true when
you know the story cold.

#Rule 29: Assume Familiarity

To make a woman feel like there’s an intimate connection, you have to build
rapport. Now creating rapport is about making her feel like she’s known you for a
long time and has a special connection with you.

Just think about how you act with your buddies: You don’t ask standardised
questions about their lives…you just talk to them!
Of course, you should refrain from treating her like “one of the guys” (this goes
without saying), but do try to make her feel less like a stranger.

If she’s resisting your friendly presence, then it’s going to be hard to become
intimate. Odds are she suffers from a hardened trust system, and you should
tread lightly if you want this to work. Patience is the key to success with women
who hold strong barriers.

If she’s trying really hard to resist rapport, focus your questions more on your
immediate surroundings, and less on getting-to-know-you. Comment on the song
that’s playing, or how loud the venue is. You’ll know when she’s finally warming up
to you.
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The art of assuming familiarity with a girl is choosing the right words. This goes
beyond the topics you discuss to include what you actually say. Choosing words
such as “we” or “us” when speaking to her will subconsciously indicate a sense of
connection within her.

Physically speaking, you can do things that show how you’d like to get to know her.
For example, let’s say you’re in a bookstore. Ask to look at the book she’s holding,
and at the same time, tell her to hold something for you. This demonstrates that
you’re comfortable around her, and it builds rapport by physically giving and
taking.

#Rule 30: Be Sexual

When it comes to dating, women WANT some excitement. Unfortunately, this isn’t
what they usually get from guys.

A major mistake that men make when they first meet a woman is to discuss “safe
topics.” In an effort to not offend a girl, most guys will only discuss things like her
work, background, or what she does during her free time.

The problem is that these topics do NOTHING to build rapport or attraction.

Instead, they create a conversation that is similar to a boring job interview.

In essence, they’re terrified to talk about SEX!

Now I understand that you might be one of those guys who are worried about
offending a woman, but if you want to build sexual tension, then you MUST bring
up this topic early in a conversation. This means that when you first meet a
woman, you shouldn’t shy away from joking about sex or using a few sexual
innuendos. [But NOT about her…just in a general manner]

What I find interesting is that women think about sex as much as men, and
perhaps even more! However, most don’t want to be regarded as promiscuous or
“easy,” so they generally avoid the topic.

The good news is that you can easily tap into a woman’s inclination to discuss sex
if YOU have the courage to bring it up. By discussing the topic in a “non-creepy”
manner, you can joke about sex while NOT making her uncomfortable.
What I found to work best is to tell a story related to “one of your friends.” Simply
discuss a humorous incident, and get her feedback about similar occurrences in
her own life.
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The key here is to bring up the topic in a way that is not lewd. If you do this
correctly, you can steer a conversation towards the topic of sex, while maintaining
her levels of comfort.

Just remember that you WANT a woman to think of you as a potential dating
partner. By introducing the topic into a conversation early on, you’ll be perceived
as a sexually confident guy, and this will help increase your chances of “getting
physical” with the women you meet.

#Rule 31: Create Great Sexual Chemistry

At some point in your life, you’ve probably heard this term. For a lot of guys, this
phrase represents the holy grail of all interactions with a woman. If you’re able to
create sexual chemistry, then you have a virtual lock on getting her into the
bedroom.

But how do you create it? Well, there’s a simple truth about sexual chemistry: A
woman’s desire for you starts WAY before you’ve even met her.

During her formative years, a woman develops her tastes for what she specifically
likes in a guy. So if she is attracted to someone who is “tall, dark and handsome,”
then you won’t initially create sexual tension if you’re a short, ugly, albino dude.

Every girl has her own particular taste in a guy. You can’t control it, and you won’t
know what she likes until you approach her. As a result, it’s important to fix what
you can, and display a top-notch personal appearance. Then once you know
you’re “looking your best,” you can work on a REAL way to create sexual
chemistry.

While looks are initially important to a woman, you can still create a spark of
attraction if you understand the principle of SEXUAL TENSION.

Attractive women are used to men acting like nice guys and kissing their asses. In
order to trigger her “attraction switches,” you should understand that deep down
inside, a woman wants a guy who presents a challenge. That’s what you’re doing
when you create sexual tension.

A conversation should involve subtle techniques for pushing a woman away, THEN
pulling her in. One minute, you’re touching her and providing a pleasurable
experience. The next minute, you’re pushing her away and teasing the hell out of
her.
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The important thing to remember is that a conversation NEEDS tension. By giving
her mixed signals about YOUR attraction, you’re NOT providing a way to resolve
the tension that you’ve built.

There is an important reason for creating this tension. At some point, you want to
help a woman understand that the ONLY way to eliminate this tension is to take
things to a physical level.

In other words, with sexual tension, a woman feels excited and has conflicting
feelings. She thinks you might be attracted to her, but isn’t quite sure. Only by
taking things to a physical level will she resolve the tension that’s been built.

Remember that sexual chemistry is an important ingredient to a conversation.

Whenever you meet a woman, you should focus on creating enough tension that’ll
increase her levels of attraction. Then sit back and watch as she works hard for
your attention.

#Rule 32: Initiate Physical Contact

If you want an interaction with a woman to lead to sex, you MUST establish
physical contact!

The simple truth is that a girl won’t want to be intimate unless you first make her
comfortable with your touch. And once she’s grown used to your contact, it’ll
become easy to transition into kissing her and leading things towards sex.

What’s important about physical contact is that it should be established in the

first few minutes of a conversation. The problem is you have to do it without being
perceived as “the creepy guy.” An easy way to initiate contact is to do so in a
natural manner, and here are five ways to do it:

#1- Touch her to emphasise a point.

During the first few minutes of a conversation, the touch barrier can be broken by
emphasising a point. All you need to do is lightly touch her arm or shoulder in a
normal, non aggressive manner.
The important thing is to act casual about this action. Don’t call attention to it or
allow your touch to linger. Just make it seem like a normal extension of your
demeanour.

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#2- Do a personality test.

Personality tests are great for building attraction and demonstrating higher value.
However, they’re also incredibly useful for touching a woman.

For instance, a palm reading test requires hand-to-hand contact. You can touch
the sensitive parts of a woman’s hands while demonstrating a skill. Then, after
demonstrating this skill, you should give her hands back. This will show that you’re
not trying to grope her.

#3- Play games with her.

Playfulness is an important part of ALL conversations. One of things that women

want in a guy is a great sense of humour, so “playing games” with a woman can
help you demonstrate humour while breaking the touch barrier.

The technique is pretty simple. When you’re first talking to a woman, you want to
do specific things that'll require touching her. For instance, you could initiate
games like thumb or arm wrestling, the slap game, or drawing on her arm.

As long as you act playful while doing these games, it’ll be easy to touch her.

#4- Banter with her.

This is similar to the principles of teasing that I mentioned before. For instance,
you can give her a quick high five, shove her lightly on her shoulder when you're
joking around, or give her “bump-hip check” when you walk by her. Also, if you're
walking together, you can playfully walk her into objects.

By actively playing around, you’ll quickly create some serious sexual chemistry.

#5- Do chivalrous things.

If you're walking together somewhere, you can easily establish physical contact
while showing a chivalrous side of you. For instance, you could do these things:

Open a door, and lead her in with your hand on her lower back.
Offer your arm as you're walking into a place.
When you're walking through a crowd of people, be the first to go through it,
and offer your hand to guide her through.

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 #Rule 33: Build Rapport

When it comes to women, rapport is being “in sync” with her and sharing
heightened levels of attraction. When it occurs, you can quickly build her levels of
trust, and this can often lead to an intimate experience.

When you establish rapport with a woman, it becomes easy to get her number, set
up a date, or even go home with her. So obviously rapport is something that MUST
be built during the comfort stage of a conversation. If she trusts you and feels a
CONNECTION, then you’ll increase her levels of attraction.

Rapport can be created by doing a few different things. For instance, here are
some ways YOU can build rapport with women:

Discuss common interests and hobbies

Establish physical contact.
Tease her in a playful manner.
Discuss interesting stories which demonstrate higher value.
Talk about the fun things you COULD do together.
Look for her “Indicators of Interest,” and escalate the conversation from this
information.

After you’ve been talking to a woman for awhile, you must move into the rapport-
building stage. Then, once she becomes comfortable, you’ll discover it’s easier to
escalate her levels of physical attraction.

Conclusion
Forget what your mom told you about women, and definitely don’t listen to what
your buddies think. Attracting the female sex truly is an art form, and these 33
rules to attraction lay the foundation for your success

Throw out your self doubt, and know your worth. Fix your sticking points, and
don’t let the fear of rejection hold you back. Everything in life is a learning
experience, but you can’t expect to perform better without any practice. As long
as you have the confidence to succeed, nothing can stop you.

Good Luck!

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