Advanced BDSM Contract

Write any thing (Dominant’s Name) and ABCD (submissive’s Name) agree to
the following, effective from _______________ (Date) to _______________ (Date),
at which time this contract will end or be renegotiated. Any participant may
also choose to end this contract before that time, for any reason.

Medical considerations. List any medical conditions, disabilities, or medications that might be relevant during
play.

Dominant: _____________________________________________________________________________________

submissive:_____________________________________________________________________________________

Additional Participants:__________________________________________________________________________

Other safety considerations. List emotional safety considerations and needs, including potential triggers.

Dominant: _____________________________________________________________________________________

submissive:_____________________________________________________________________________________

Additional Participants:__________________________________________________________________________

Terms of address. The following names or titles will be used by participants to refer to each other during play:

Dominant: _____________________________________________________________________________________

submissive:____________________________________________________________________________________

Additional Participants:__________________________________________________________________________

Safe words and signals. The following words or signals will be used to stop play immediately:

________________________________________________________________________________________________

The following words or signals will be used to mean “slow down” or “I’m approaching my limit” (optional):

________________________________________________________________________________________________

Playing with others. Indicate whether, and under what circumstances, participants may play with others.

________________________________________________________________________________________________

Soft limits. List any acts, scenarios, language, or locations that may cause discomfort and require additional
conversation/frequent check-ins:

________________________________________________________________________________________________

Hard limits. List any acts, scenarios, language, or locations that are off-limits and should be avoided during
play:

________________________________________________________________________________________________

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Devices and equipment. List devices, toys, equipment, or accessories that may be used during play.

_______________________________________________________________________________________________

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submissive’s behavior and responsibilities. The submissive agrees to respect and serve the Dominant, and to
abide by the following rules of conduct:

Mealtimes: __________________________________________________________________________________

Dress: _______________________________________________________________________________________

Appearance and grooming: ___________________________________________________________________

Serving the Dominant: _______________________________________________________________________

Self-pleasure and masturbation: _______________________________________________________________

Public conduct: ______________________________________________________________________________

Other: ______________________________________________________________________________________

Dominant’s responsibilities. The Dominant agrees to respect the submissive and act in a way that promotes
their health, safety, and wellbeing. The Dominant will be responsible for guiding and training the submissive in
the following areas:

Serving the Dominant: _______________________________________________________________________

Pleasing the Dominant sexually: ______________________________________________________________

Proper behavior in private and public: _________________________________________________________

Other: ______________________________________________________________________________________

Aftercare. List any activities needed or desired after play has concluded to help participants transition back to
everyday life.

________________________________________________________________________________________________

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Rituals and routines. List any special activities that you’ll engage in together to:

Initiate a scene: _________________________________________________________________________________

End a scene: ____________________________________________________________________________________

Reconnect after time apart: ______________________________________________________________________

Remind each other of your commitment: _________________________________________________________

Other rituals:

________________________________________________________________________________________________

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3. Punishments and discipline. The submissive will be punished for the following:

Failing to use proper terms of address for Dominant

Punishment(s): ____________________________________________________________________________

________________________________________________________________________________________________

Showing disrespect to Dominant

Punishment(s): ____________________________________________________________________________

________________________________________________________________________________________________

Violating rules of conduct

Punishment(s): ____________________________________________________________________________

________________________________________________________________________________________________

Other
Punishment(s): ____________________________________________________________________________

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14. Breach of contract. This contract will be considered null and void if:
Any party ignores or disregards safe words or hard limits.
Any party fails to discuss/check in before proceeding with an act listed under “soft limits.”
Any party causes lasting harm (physical, psychological, or emotional).

Confidentiality. All parties agree to hold in confidence the terms of this contract unless discussed and agreed
upon in advance:

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Additional considerations/rules/requests:

________________________________________________________________________________________________

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Signed

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Participant 1 Date
(Dominant)

__________________________________ __________________________________
Participant 2 Date
(submissive)

__________________________________ __________________________________
Additional Participants Date