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Mandatory work and low wages after the end of AFDC may propel changes in
the caregiving of children and dependent elders in single-mother families. This
article suggests some challenges facing researchers who will examine care in
single-mother families. Drawing on a qualitative study of care in the last years
of welfare, and on social network analysis, it suggests how changes in resources,
networks, and norms may affect practices of care and also make it difficult to
discover the changes.
KEY WORDS: welfare; single mother; care; family.
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AFDC affect parenting, nurture, supervision, tutelage, and care in the families of
single mothers who are mandated to become self-sufficient breadwinners? How
do poor single mothers balance work and family after AFDC?
This article suggests some challenges facing researchers who will examine
care after AFDC. The challenges come from several different sources. One is
the diversity in post-AFDC policy among the states. Welfare has not ended in
most states yet, and everywhere, it is ending differently. Second, sociology is just
beginning to offer frameworks for studying caregiving (Finch and Groves 1983;
Abel and Nelson 1990; Cancian and Oliker 2000). We need more inspiring ideas
about the dynamics of change in patterns of care. And third, some of our usual
methods of registering change in caregiving, whether qualitative or quantitative,
may be less reliable in a period of change.
Although my aim is to suggest how we can meet these challenges, I will do
this by imagining harsh changes in care at welfare’s end. The vision I create coun-
terbalances the optimism that prompted the move to end welfare and responded
to the phenomenal drop in welfare rolls and the increases in employment that fol-
lowed. An example of this optimism was the prediction that single mothers could
handle the transition to mandatory work because they had rich networks of support
to rely on (Kaus 1992; Mead 1992). After AFDC was abolished in 1996, this ar-
gument found a defensive echo among those who insisted that poor communities
would “pull together” in adversity, as they’ve always done.
My pessimistic predictions counter these optimistic ones by emphasizing the
weakness of networks of support among the poor and the ways that mandatory
work could constrict them. Against the optimism that has greeted plummeting
welfare rolls and growing employment rates, I will show how a mandatory shift
of priorities from care to work can hurt families, even if we have the improbable
experience of an endless economic boom, like the one undergirding current welfare
rolls and employment rates.
Both the challenges I identify and the dynamics I envision derive from a qual-
itative study of work and family patterns in the last years of AFDC (Oliker 1995a,
1995b). During the late 1980s and early 1990s, I studied work-welfare programs
in two states’ largest cities, where I observed welfare programs and interviewed
program workers and participants. At that time, work-welfare reforms were un-
derway, creating various kinds of pressures on single mothers to find employment.
However, even programs that sanctioned mothers for insufficient work effort pre-
served a safety net under children’s benefits. Now, no safety net is required. I draw
the ideas about change that could follow AFDC from my findings on how single
mothers on AFDC balanced obligations to work and family, as well as from others’
studies of families in poverty, work-family relations, and social networks.
The conceptual framework of social network analysis is especially fruitful
for exploring caregiving in the context of family resources and supports. I will use
my qualitative study, network analysis, and studies of poverty and of work-family
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I pay minimal attention here to paid work and concentrate on family, mainly
because we have research formations in place to learn about what happens to poor
single mothers in the marketplace, but fewer strategies of studying care. We’re
already learning what is happening to low-income single mothers in the market,
and I can summarize it succinctly: more are employed than before (at least, in on-
the-books jobs—as opposed to the ubiquitous informal paid work that was common
under welfare). While official employment rates are higher, jobs are unsteady, and,
steady or not, wages remain low for most. Many paid workers are poorer than they
were on welfare (Cancian et al. 2000; Pawasarat 1997; Primus et al. 1999). Wage
rates start low and remain low over time, especially for AFDC leavers who enter the
lowest-wage jobs (Burtless 1998). And these are the results for the single mothers
who left AFDC the fastest—who are better educated, have more job experience,
and have smaller families to support (Cancian et al. 2000). When the time caps set
by Congress go into effect, those with the least human capital and the rest problems
with health, substance abuse, and dependent care will be unsupported and in the
job market.
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keep an eye on the children or her place. “I don’t have anybody who can watch
[my kindergartner] get off the bus and stay on [to baby-sit].” The recent accident
and fire and new vulnerabilities had her worried and often panicked when she was
at work.
Finally, Carol pared down employment to one part-time job, remained eligible
for AFDC, and adopted a commonplace inner-city strategy of care: she kept her
children inside, and when they were not, “I’m watching every two, three minutes
making sure they in front.” She kept to herself: “I don’t socialize with too many
people. The less company you keep, the better off you will have stuff in your home.”
And she avoided taking jobs that interfered with her new level of supervision,
postponing full-time work until her children were both in school all day. “I want
something better, but I’m at a standstill now because of the kids.” Her “standstill”
did not involve standing still, but it did mean less income and optimism; she traded
them deliberately in her children’s interest.
I interviewed Carol before welfare ended. If she were in the same circum-
stances now, when everyone in her state must find work, her job history and drive
would probably place her among the former AFDC recipients who find work. But
whatever the level of crime in her neighborhood, however her children are handling
the crises in their family, and however panicked and worried Carol feels at work,
the choice she must make would be clear. She must keep working. The balance
between work and family commitments would be set for her.
The balance would be set, too, for Sandy, who had held a job throughout her
toddler’s first two years, but finally left it and drew AFDC when her employer
moved her to the late shift and she fell asleep when she was bathing her toddler.
Others who risked getting fired, and sometimes were, when they went to work late
because the babysitter was late, or when they left early to shadow a teenager who
was falling into dangerous habits, would also have the balance reset to make work
the inevitable priority.
Welfare allowed the very poor to adopt an ethos of attentive caregiving that
more affluent women pioneered a century before. I clearly heard the ethos in
accounts of single mothers in my AFDC study, for example, when they defended
putting off daycare and taking a job “until she can talk,” in order to be able to
monitor care by asking the child questions. I heard it in the accounts of those who
added hours to their work day by taking multiple buses to daycare and work, rather
than depend on unreliable relatives. And I heard it in the bitterness expressed by
mothers who had denied children’s needs for their time and attention in order to
support them, but who still remained poor.
Gwen, for example, was the mother of a thirteen-year-old who had started get-
ting into trouble at school. After years of working irregular shifts as a nurse’s aide,
“thinking, you know, it’ll get better, I just have to make another paycheck,” she be-
gan to rethink her commitment: “Where have I gotten with all that experience? . . .
Not a damn place . . . I mean I would have been better off if I would have spent my
time every day being at home with her.” “Who—who am I benefiting? I mean, I
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child care and other material and emotional supports for care, and enforcing norms
of good care as well (Martin and Martin 1978; McAdoo 1986; Stack 1974). Ethno-
graphies in recent decades, however, question the extensiveness of kin supports for
poor families. Ethnographic studies of teenage mothers, new immigrant families,
and urban single mothers suggest that regardless of ideals of “familism” in poor
communities, many families lack the support of kin or close friends (Kaplan 1997;
Mahler 1995; Roschelle 1997).
Quantitative studies of large, national, representative sample surveys con-
ducted over two decades uniformly suggest that the poor are not richer than others
in supports from kin. To the contrary, they find that families in poverty, and minor-
ity families in particular, have smaller networks of extended kin. Affluence, not
poverty, increases the size of networks of support, the frequency of contact with
kin, and the amount of help and economic and emotional support that families re-
ceive from others (Hofferth 1984; Hogan, Eggebeen and Clogg 1993; Hogan, Hao
and Parish 1990; Kaplan 1997; Mahler 1995; Roschelle 1997). Just as important
for my argument, the large-scale studies show that the poor who receive support
are more likely also to give support to others than the nonpoor who get support,
and this too may affect care (Hogan et al. 1993; Roschelle 1997).
The quantitative studies do confirm that single mothers (especially minority
single mothers) are more likely to live with kin than are wives. Yet, while many
single mothers receive some kind of support from parents, a third of them receive
none (Hogan et al. 1993; Roschelle 1997). The poor are repeatedly found among
those who had no one who exchanges either advice, child care, or household help.
And it is mothers of very young children who receive help from kin. Single mothers
with older children are far less likely to be aided by kin. Taken all together, studies
of family and kin in poverty suggest we need to look closely at the ways poverty
both elicits and limits reliance on kin supports.
My qualitative study in welfare’s last days, along with others in this pe-
riod, found mostly small personal networks of exchange among single mothers,
anchored by and largely centered on the relationships of single mothers and their
mothers (Edin and Lein 1997; Kaplan 1997; Minkler and Roe 1993). Still, many of
the mothers I interviewed received rich supports for caregiving from the members
of their small networks, especially from their mothers. Above all, their mothers
provided child care. Some mothers of single mothers were primary child care-
givers; others provided part-time or back-up care. They prepared for holidays and
did other tasks of homemaking and kin-keeping for which employed mothers could
not spare the time. And they supported maternal care by being primary confidantes
and consolers for their daughters. Whether their mothers lived with them or not,
single mothers were likely to include only their mothers, along with their children,
among those they listed as “most a part of my life.” After mothers, grown daugh-
ters, aunts, fathers, and brothers (in that order) were the kin network members who
provided resources in support of caregiving.
Boyfriends rarely provided regular care for children and neither did children’s
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fathers. Boyfriends were sometimes good sources of emergency care, though, more
often than fathers were. Close friends who helped with care were also not very
common. The mothers I interviewed were often reluctant to ask friends for child
care because it usually meant a trade of child care they could not easily manage.
In my study, like the larger surveys, a large minority of families lacked net-
works of support. No one provided them with resources that supported their care-
giving. Yet, having a network of close kin and friends was not necessarily an
advantage. Some women gave so much help and money to people in their network
that they were deprived of time and resources for care as often as they were en-
riched. And some networks only extracted time and resources from single mothers,
rarely ever supplying them. The single mothers whose extended families were rife
with substance abuse, homelessness, and mental illness gave care, help, and money
continually; they and their children bore the costs. Gwen, who earlier described
her paid work as abusive to her child, had not been able to depend on her hard-
living family for help. One reason she had delayed leaving her job to care for her
daughter was her hope of saving enough money to move out of state, away from
predatory siblings.
Although much of this article will concentrate on how the end of welfare
threatens the stability of networks and thus their support of care, the end of wel-
fare can also constrain women’s exit from networks and personal ties that inflict
harm or extract too many costs. Before welfare ended, single mothers moved out of
the homes of mothers whom they believed hurt their children with excessive disci-
pline. They broke ties with siblings who lured them back into drug use, boyfriends
who demanded money or beat them and their children, and children’s fathers who
wanted to renew abusive relationships. After welfare, when unemployment and
eviction are greater threats, the meager resources of money or help that these ties
offer may sustain them. The end of welfare could encourage damaging dependen-
cies, as single mothers struggle to keep their families afloat.
Before welfare ended, neighbors sometimes served as nonintimate, but none-
theless useful, ties for purposes of caregiving. Since AFDC enabled some single
mothers to be at home with their children, there were often neighbors around who
could informally “keep an eye” on children as they walked home from school,
waited at home for an employed mother’s return, or played outside. Worldly moth-
ers knew what an independent child’s “messing” looked, smelled, or sounded like,
and would report to a child’s or teenager’s mother before police or landlord figured
it out or before a child was deeply committed to trouble.
Work mandates should clear most adults out of neighborhoods during the
day, and so informal urban mechanisms of safety and surveillance may not persist.
These informal networks are also more threatened if unstable jobs, without the
meager stability of the welfare grant, cause more evictions, as appears to be the
case in Milwaukee (Derus 1988). Without the AFDC safety net, few mothers will
risk losing jobs to stay home to resolve problems, as did some women I interviewed,
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support intact.
At welfare’s end, single mothers who are compelled to find work or face
losing their children will be less able to find the time to reciprocate the help others
give them. The low-wage job market they enter will leave most of them no more
able financially to replace the care they once provided by purchasing services, like
home health aides or taxi fares. Will increasingly asymmetric exchanges in close
kin networks damage close relationships and constrict networks? In networks of
generalized exchange, which is the form of exchange in many, but by no means
all kin networks, the answer may be no, at least in the short run. The failure to
reciprocate is more likely to damage looser-knit networks, like friendship networks,
in which direct and immediate exchange predominates (“You take my kids this
weekend, I’ll take yours next”) (Uehara 1990).
The tighter weave of kinship networks allows its members to view reciproca-
tion in the much longer run. In the long run, however, studies of social networks
suggest that stark asymmetries undermine even the more trusting and committed
ties of generalized exchange. Those who give a lot but do not receive begin to feel
exploited or just “burn out” (Minkler and Roe 1993; Stack and Burton 1994; Stack
1974).
This long-run dynamic may explain anecdotal evidence in Milwaukee that
publicly registered homelessness among whole families has increased in the after-
math of welfare, but not enormously. There have been much greater increases in
the numbers of single mothers entering shelters as single women (whose children
have been placed in others’ care) and in the numbers of homeless teenagers (the
children most likely to be first “liberated” from care) (Huston 1998). These may
be first, but not ultimate, patterns of adaptation to welfare’s end. Doubling up in
housing has long been a first, unstable step toward homelessness (Gerstel et al.
1996; Rochefort 1998; Torrey 1997).
Social network scholarship suggests that mandatory work in low-paying jobs
may limit mothers’ capacity to reciprocate without enabling them to substitute
money for time—purchasing services in place of giving of themselves. The ab-
sence of discretion to limit work in favor of family obligations thus may diminish
caregiving by diminishing capacities of reciprocity.
If networks of flexible, generalized exchange do constrict, and single mothers
desperately try to rebuild networks of survival among kin and nonkin, immediate
obligations to reciprocate are likely to intensify, and these will be harder to meet
under a regime of mandatory work. Desperate network builders will inevitably
draw in others desperate enough to depend on mere velocity of exchange.
As Carol’s strategy, earlier, suggests, before AFDC ended, single mothers’
moral economies were often suffused with a wariness of those who are not proven
friends. Some avoided getting involved with men as boyfriends, some avoided
neighbors or associates. Census sample data that show increases in coresidence
with nonrelatives, especially boyfriends, may suggest that need is already eclipsing
older cautious strategies (Jencks and Swingle 2000).
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The networks that are rebuilt amid pressing need after the constriction of
older networks are likely to be more heavily composed of people who are not
bound by the moral obligations of close kinship and who consistently have few
resources to share. However, voluntary networks are harder to build and to sustain
among people who have desperate instrumental needs of each other. Such networks
are likely to be looser-knit than kinship networks are, and thus, they break down
easier (for example, because there is no one in the role of the aunt who sits feuding
siblings together at a holiday meal). In the looser connections of such networks,
network capacities of communal reinforcement are weaker, and this may weaken
a communal ethos of caregiving. In this dynamic, both the structural and the
communal supports for caregiving erode—reducing the supply of care and also its
centrality.
The reinforcement of a communal ethos of care can thus erode as tight-knit
networks constrict and looser or smaller ones replace them. But a communal ethos
can also weaken in tight-knit and solidary networks: If the ability of families to
give care declines because work must take first priority and family crises threaten
the possibility of government intervention to protect children by removing them,
network members who are intent on keeping families together share the mother’s
incentive to redefine adequate care. That is, if children cannot be nurtured, su-
pervised, taught, and protected, communities and individuals who want to keep
families from breaking up can help to do so by revising norms of care and perceiv-
ing that children can do alright without these privileges.
If communal networks cannot generate resources to prevent a decline in care
in poor families, their interests in keeping families whole may favor silences about
poor care or even revised norms of care. We could see fewer reports of child neglect
and abuse even as rates increase, and we could hear fewer accounts of poor care in
qualitative field work, even if we listen carefully. For researchers, the usual ways of
registering change—whether by official data or respondent accounts—may fail us.
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paramount. And reliable strategies of care in poor urban neighborhoods may be-
come less accessible. Through such dynamics, caregiving declines and the social
ethos of care does also.
This grim portrayal of the prospect of deteriorating care after AFDC presents
a number of challenges for researchers who will examine life after AFDC. For
those who have been waiting to begin research until the remnants of AFDC in
their states have finally disappeared, this article suggests that we should begin
now. Long-term study of moral economies and network patterns before and during
the end of AFDC may be crucial for capturing what happens afterward, for changes
in care may quickly be normalized. If respondent accounts become less reliable,
long-term study will address that problem, and the ways accounts of care change
becomes a worthwhile subject in itself.
If this turns out to be a period of change in family arrangements, personal
communities, and strategies and ideas about caregiving, qualitative researchers are
well positioned to contribute to the sociology of caregiving and of work-family
decisions in poverty. We are able explore emergent meanings, adaptations that
become norms, and the unexplored nuances of exchange in networks. Quantitative
studies of caregiving will depend on us to refine concepts and questions about
families and care that they incorporate into large impact studies.
Large-sample studies, on the other hand, may be the first to register changes in
household and network forms and patterns of exchange that qualitative researchers
will want to explore. For example, the abovementioned census sample finding that
single mothers live more often with nonrelatives now than in 1996 invites the
qualitative researcher to find out how live-in boyfriends or doubled-up households
affect child care coverage, child abuse, children’s contact with fathers, and elder
care. This early finding on life after welfare inspires us to use qualitative methods to
explore why the first changes preceded or substituted for increases in moves to live
with relatives. (I would guess that these patterns reflect the slow movement of most
states to end grants: the prospect of insecurity may encourage coresidence with
boyfriends; the final cutoffs of aid—still not widespread—may radically escalate
coresidence with kin. Single mothers who can live peaceably with kin may already
do so.)
We will need a range of strategies to study caregiving at welfare’s end. Soci-
ologists are well able to meet the challenges the issue presents to researchers. The
most daunting challenge will be drawing public attention away from the bottom
line of jobs and incomes to the other resources from which people make families.
Persuasive qualitative research may be just what it takes to revive a concern in
poverty policy for families as sites of care and to make work and family policy a
cross-class policy domain.
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