My name is Jolinda I am Hispanic mixed with Black.I'm 38 years old..

Currently
living in Ocala Florida I work for myself as a private supplier from home.I work
for a Local company they are into supplying of hospital tools but right now am
currently in India based on a private contract to supply some hospital in India
necessary tools needed.I will be spending not more than 2 or 3weeks here before I
return home.I hope you can bare with that?
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Alright Hun..have you ever dated or talked to any lady off the site?

Alright Hun..
have you ever been to Nigeria or talk to any LADY online before that is in Nigeria
before?

Okay so will you tell me more about yourself and your family background so as to do
the same hun?

I was raised from a comfortable family but very discipline as well,my parents were
blessed with a daughter that's me and also early last 4 years i lost my Parents
to stroke , now I am down with only myself and my cat and grannie .. I live alone
with grandma along side my 1year old cat which i named after after my favorite
wine called Oregon Pinot Gris so some will say i am crazy about wine don't get this
wrong though,I'm not a drunkard i only drink yum huh huh huh socially All i want
from you is to Just be patient with me as we are still little far from each other
for now..Because you are the Only man i am talking to and i hope its the same there
too.. so if you are interested in me, then we can start up a serious friendship
that may lead to a Serious relationship if you're really ready for something
serious in the Future!!! We have the same-thing in common as i think.You're one
handsome man and i'm sure that there are lots of women out there that wants you.I
just hope i turn out to be that lucky Woman(smile).
Kill

I will be glad if we can both delete each others profile on that dating site when
the time comes or now if you want in other to gain more trust and believe in each
other My Dearest ..I will go on there now to delete mine if you can delete yours
now too..

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What do you seek for in a relationship?......

I seek trust,honesty,sharing,sharing the good times and bad times together with no
fear of what the world might put upon us and What sort of relationship you seek
for?

Well,well, the relationship I want is one to be build on the solid foundation which
is love and trust,I do believe with this 2 ingredients of relationship,so many
relationships has come to success unlike ones built on false and pretenses, i would
also like to know if you have ever had an online relationship?

I've never tried online relationship but given it a trial with would make a good
future so tell me what are the basic qualities you seek for in a woman?

The basic qualities are Honesty,Love,Trust.b/cos all this Key leads to Success in
Relationship and thats what makes up a good woman and What interests you to me?
I'm interested in you because for what you tell me, you have the personality, and
values that I'm looking for in a man, and very important to me, you are interested
in me, so I believe there is good chemistry between you and me, can you tell me you
ever been married?

I like playing basketball,playing

billiards,swimming,dancing,writing,reading,watching movies or TV but most it i
enjoy fun with my husband and kids so you being single what your experince about
it?

To me being single it's both, a sense of accomplishment , independence, and

free.Sometimes easier to make decisions, which may be good, I think; yet it is also
hard because of the lack of emotional support, very lonely all the time. It okay's
because I can concentrate my energy toward my career and life goals.However, I
always want someone with whom I can share my dream and thoughtfulness and he also
wants to share his with me.It is very important to have a balance in life so tell
me how do you treat your Woman??

What is love to you?

To me, love is a feeling of selflessness, of no more me and me, but you and
me.Which implies thinking of the other person and yourself too of course, but many
times willingness to sacrifice oneself for the one that you love. For me this
applies not only to couples but also family, relatives, friends and even other
people.Love is giving and forgiving. Give without requiring a return. Forgive no
matter how painful it is or how stupid the mistake is.When one is sick, the other
is always at bed side.Always think and do whatever to make the other happy...Would
you hit your Woman for any reasons?

NO, that's a big NO to me.. I rather walk out or leave if it is the only way out
from hitting a man.. So when talking, discussing, explaining, requesting,demanding
and everything else fails to communicate an idea, need or desire,people need a
space and time out to cool down, and look for a possible different solution to the
problem when anger is under control.Do you like public intimacy?

For me I like public intimacy I Like to kiss Mine Mr Right in the Public or Private
to show him how much i love him..What is your opinion of committed long distance
relationships?

I think they would work for awhile, but I think eventually two people have to get
together...How important is chemistry to you?

I am a hard worker at my job and I try to volunteer to do things that I know need
to be done without being asked to do it. I also help my co-workers out as much as
possible. When I get home though, I have a hard time doing things around my house
because I wouldnt have time cos am tired. What do you think of Soul Mates?

I believe in Soul Mates, but I believe that most people do not find them. So rather
than find their Soul Mate people settle for someone they can live with rather than
finding that someone they can't live without...How important is it to you that your
partner be accepted by your family and friends?

I think it is important that family and friends accept the partner you have chosen.
I believe that if your family and friends do not accept your partner they may be
seeing something in your partner that you are not seeing. If my family and friends
did not accept my partner, I would ask them why to see if there might be something
I am not seeing. Then I would discuss it with them, because family and friends are
forever and they only want what is best for you but your thinking about your future
with your partner with your hands and the help of your family would be at good
one..How romantic are you?

I pay all my bills on time every month and I usually have money left over to buy
some of the extra nice things in life. I am not always financially stable. I do
not have any big savings account, but I get by with the money I make...Do you
consider yourself physically affectionate when involved in a relationship?

I have not always been physically affectionate in my past relationships because I

was verbally abused in my first Relationship and was told on a daily basis that I
was not good enough, pretty enough, or thin enough. I was told that I was lazy and
no good, I was a slob and I was made to feel that whatever I did would never be
enough to make him happy. So in my last relationship, I had a hard time being
physically affectionate towards my boyfriend because that was another thing he
would put me down for. After I got separate, those feelings of being inadequate
stayed with me for a long time. I am pretty shy when it comes to being sexually
aggressive in bed, but I think it has been long enough that I would love the chance
to be physical affectionate with someone I care about, and it is something I want
in my life. (OK now this question has made me cry)..If I had a bad day, what is the
first thing you would do for me?

I would hug you and kiss you and tell you that I loved you, and then I would ask
you to talk to me about it so you could try and unburden yourself of whatever was
troubling you...What is your opinion on your mate having opposite sex friendships?

I would not mind it at all as long as a friendship is all that it was.What your
Favorite color?

My Favorite Color is Pink and Blue cos Pink is the color of universal love. Pink
is a quiet color so What your Favorite Dish?

My Favorite Dish is Seafood{Spicy Prawns with Coconut,Baked Salmon with a Creamy

Avocado Sauce} and What your Favorite Sport?

My Favorite Sport is Basketball...What your Favorite Team?

My Favorite Team is Dallas Mavericks,,What your Favorite Restaurant?

My Favorite Restaurant is Fishmongers Restaurant in 1901 N Central Expy Plano,

TX..Where is the First Place you spend your Vacation?

My First place i spent Mine Vacation is Mexico the Caribbean Sea,i like a more
relaxing environment and close to nature ad i went to Tulum, Cozumel and Isla
Mujeres in Mexico...Have you been to the Museum before?

Yes I have Visit Heritage Farmstead Museum,Artcentre of plano and the Plano
African American Museum...Do you Love to go to the Park?

Yes I Love to Go to the park with my Friends ..and i have Franklin Park at Canyon
Creek in Plano, X..Do you Love to go to the Cinema?

Yes I Love to Go to the park but going to park with my future husband and kids
would be more better..and i have Franklin Park at Canyon Creek in Plano, TX..Do you
Love to go to the Cinema?
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What are you really looking for in a woman?........I'm looking for a man who is
understanding, caring, loving, and a man who will be there for me. Someone who is
willing to give. In some relationships only one person gives, but this is not what
I want. A relationship must take both people working together, and loving one
another, doing what ever it takes to make things work. communication is very
important to me. And I want someone who like to do the simple things, such as a
walk in the park, hand in hand, spending alot of time together, getting to know
about one another.Honesty is very important and sincerity....

I 'm a pretty easy going lady. It take alot to get me angry. I want that in a man
as well. It is all about communication and communication is not just talking but
also being able to listen. Not just hear the person but listen and absorb and
understand what the person is conveying to you..I love individualism. Don't become
what you think I will like, be yourself and let me like you!!! With this as a
foundation all the trust and honesty falls into place. It becomes a given and not
something you have to look for or ask for.. So now i really have to ask... Are u
that special man for me?????

I consider myself to be very simple. I believe that women needs to be treated with
respect and as a equal partner in a relationship, but all I seem to find is the
ones that does not know how to respond to that or is entrusting to it.

I feel like u should treat somebody with respect and like they are a person not a
piece of meat or whatever. I am the type of person who wants somebody to feel
wanted not just as a trophy. I am a very affectionate person and I love to cuddle,
I like to show somebody how I feel not just telling them. I love to be close to
somebody whether it is in the bed on the couch or wherever..

I am very relationship oriented and I believe life is to short to waste. When I am

in a relationship I am committed, honest, and loyal. I think that falling in love
is always a good thing, even if it doesn't work out. There is always something to
learn from being with someone, and happy times and memories should be cherished.
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What Your Romantic Ideas?....My romantic date is when we can chill @ my house and i
will have to cook ur favorite meal for u and when i lead u to the diner it would be
surrounded with a white sheet and also with red roses and also with white candles
to really show u how much u mean to me ..and then there would also be a bottle of
champagne and when we are done with that we can watch a movie and also listen to
slow music and then when we are watching a movie i would just kiss u on ur head to
tell u how grateful i am to have u in my presence and then we can both have a
bubble bath together and then we can do some naughty things to each other lol....

My idea of a perfect evening out would start with a picnic on a very secluded bluff
overlooking the ocean. Dinner would consist of a variety of finger foods that we
could feed to each other as sit closely together and watch the waves roll in. After
we would eat, we would watch the sun set, wrapped in each others arms. Snuggling,
we would then talk about whatever we felt like talking about or just enjoy the
warmth of each other's arms as the stars one by one would fill the night sky.

The radio would be playing softly, of course tuned into a love songs only station.
When our favorite song would start to play on the radio, we would dance slowly
under the stars, holding each other tightly. Letting the words of the song speak to
each other's heart, we would begin to give into our passion. And then under the
stars, with the sound of the gentle waves caressing the shore, we would ... well,
being a romantic yourself, I'm sure that you can figure out what would happen next
all on your own...lol......If you had an extra hour in your day, what would you do
with it?......
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I had to rush down there to make sure get better cos i am the only child and she is
the only one left for me at this time,i lost my dad when i was 10

I want someone to love me for me and me alone and not love me for what i do for
them cos i give it all when it comes to a relationship and always there for my
man,if he does this,i will treat him like no woman as ever treated him and make
him my one and only Love.mostly importantly i want to get married to a caring, down
to earth, romantic,God fearing hubby soonest. the main thing is life that will make
me happy is to have a loving, passionately hubby and a happy family as well. am
religiously indined, God fearing , and believe jesus die for me on the cross of
calvary. But trust and massive care is mandatory in every relationship and i really
want that.

Men with great achievements are respected not for the things they realy do but for
the choices they make .i have decide to be a simple ,loving and impacting person
who apart from the achievements of great feet i have planned to have also plan to
have a very loving husband and family ..for this is the secret to happiness in life
if love were music as it is said pls play on and let it serenade my soul as nothing
in the world compares to love...this is the way i want my soulmate to think of me
and to think when it comes to love... He should be simple in thoughts,resolute and
principled in doings,smooth in talks and loving to others....to me she must be
caring and get to know me as only those who love me can know me.Love is not about
finding the right person, but creating a right relationship. It's not about how
much love you have in the beginning but how much love you build till the end

The bad things in life open your eyes to the good things you weren't paying
attention to before If it is meant to be, our hearts will find each other when we
meet. And if our hearts melt together so will our bodies and souls. Then every word
and every touch will fuel our passion flame. I will be yours, you will be mine, and
we will be one. What is more important to you the love you share, the memories you
have or the lover? Give love a chance to swallow you up. Don't just think it will
happen in a instant, it will suprise you before you know it, but it will be the
most rewarding experience you will ever have

The beating of my heart is a drum, and it's lost, and it's looking for a rhythm
like you I don't need anyone to take advantage of my weaknesses or my strengths, I
need someone who will appreciate me for everything that I am
My past relationship was bad ever since then i have been single and scared to
fall inlove but now i am willing and ready for a second chance.
I am easygoing,open mined and i know how to treat my woman and make her feel
good,i gives to her every love she wants and always there for her when she needs a
shoulder to lean on A relationship is like a train. If one passes, then the next
one will come. I'm sure and if you get off the train, you'll realize that
everything is the same I may not be your first, but to be your last would be
perfect cos when I found your profile, I felt as if my heart found its destination.
Baby Don't let false love fool you, but don't let real love pass you by.i feel like
i am your true love Don't use your eyes to look for love for it's your heart that
knows it. Let yourself make mistakes and do learn from this. It is from this that
you will accumulate your knowledge as to whether the person met is the one or not
The easy part of life is finding someone to love. The hard part is finding someone
to love you back I don't believe in love at first sight anymore, I cried too much
over it to believe in it, I think I need glasses to see accurately 'cause I can
never really see the right one for me,but your is Different i feel like you are the
one for me cos the way you sound to me makes me feel so special i have never felt
the way i am feeling now before

I would give up anything just to be with you.i may not be the most attractive, i
may not say all the right words, but when you see me, you know i'm the one that can
make you smile, laugh, and cry all at the same time:) The best thing about loving
and being hurt is that you get to know what true love really is. For as gold is
tested in fire, and so will love be perfected in pain To love someone is to
understand each other, to laugh together, to smile with your heart and to trust one
another. One important thing is to let each other go if you can't do this
I do, cherish you, from the depths of my soul, it's beyond my control, I've waited
so long, to say this to you, if you're asking do I love you this much, I do

Baby you know True love doesn't just fill heart, it overflows into your whole body
and soul True love is what I feel for you, for you have my soul, heart and passion,
those can only be felt again when I desire you I promised myself I'd never forget
you or feel for any girl the way i am feeling for you right now If there were no
words, no way to speak, I would still hear you. If there were no tears, no way to
feel inside, I'd still feel for you. And even if the sun refused to shine, even if
romance ran out of rhyme, you would still have my heart until the end of time.
You're all I need . It's difficult to find someone like you; it's like opening a
hundred shells under the sea to find one pearl. But finding you makes the dive
worth it .if it is meant for us to be it will be and nothing will ever tears us
apart but if it is not meant to be maybe it's a blessing in disguise My heart has
already found it's way you. I want you and no one else. You mean everything to me.
I think we should try and make this work. You have to know you're the one, and only
one I want. Not only are you perfect for me, you're the perfect friend and I hope
we can and will be more. I could never ask for better then what we have had. I am
hoping you're feeling the same way because my heart is set on you, and only you

I know that you are not perfect and nor can I claim to be either, but please
believe me, when I say that I want to be by your side, to hold your hand, to
treasure you in the morning and in the noon-tide, to be next to you, to be held
close to your heart now and for the rest of my living years, to comfort you, dry
your tears and calm your most frightening fears, to fight your battles and show no
shame to scream my love for you out loud all over the land

I guarantee that we'll have tough times and I guarantee that at some point one or
both of us will want to get out. But I also guarantee that if I don't ask you to be
mine, I'll regret it for the rest of my life cause I know in my heart you're the
only one for me

I prayed for a person to love me. I must've prayed very hard, because God didn't
give me a person - He has given me an angel,and Guess who the angel is,U

Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before finding the right one, so that
when we finally find the right one, we will know how to be grateful

If you open up my heart, you'll find a cupboard so full of love that you would
never have to starve

I don't regret anything from my past, no matter how bad it seems in hindsight,
because every little step I took was leading me right to you

Always I'll hold you dear to my heart, and promise you never shall we part. You
will always be the other half of me, as I continue to love you endlessly

I sought for love, but love ran away from me.. I sought my soul, but my soul I
couldn't see. Then I sought you, and I found all three
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CHATTING FORMAT

So, let's turn the table. What do you want to know about me?

Are you genuine interested?

I am genuine and sincere, and I expect you to be as well.I am who I am. Nothing
more, nothing less. What you see is what you get. I’m a very down to earth person
who likes to be treated the way I treat others. In a respectful, open, honest
way.....

what else would you like to know mmmm I love to kiss and cuddle and touch. I give
outstanding massages I love to cook and spoil my man.I like a man who is honest,
sincere, and who pays a real interest in his conversation partner. I HATE
insincerity and most of all I HATE a partner who’s only interest is in himelf. You
have to give some attention to get some attention....I would love to meet and want
the man that i'm with to not be ashamed of me pawing over him and kissing him in
public, holding her hand, hugging him..I am a caring person and would expect my man
to be the same.

I don't enjoy dating around which makes this arena of meeting people difficult.
When I find someone special, I am extremely passionate, open and honest. I'm a very
touchy

I want a trusting loving relationship where I can express my affection openly and
very freely...I want the woman I'm with to feel how special she is to me every
day..

I'm looking for a relationship based on interest, respect, complicity and love of
course,want a caring relationship, loving, understanding and surprising

I want to be cherished, adored, doted on and want to give the same. I'm like a kid
at heart. I'm spontaneous, laugh always, smile a lot mostly...

Mostly. I want someone who can't keep their mind off of me when they are away, and
can't keep their hands off of me when they are near

Loving, peaceful, sharing, gentle, passionate, romantic, companionship, talking,

discussing ideas, travelling together, allowing each other space if we need or want
it to pursue interests we dont share in common, respect, committment, honesty,
trust, laughter, humour, open mind,kind,caring, straightforward and of course if
that all comes with intense passion then it would have to be the closest thing to a
perfect relationship that any couple could have, but as we are humans, we are not
perfect, but to aim for that would have to be my goal, and you what are you looking
for?

You astonish me and you brighten every aspect of my life. Like you said, it’s
amazing that we’ve grown so close in such a short amount of time.

The feelings blossomed rapidly and I don't want to lose that. I have fallen madly
in love with you.
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