Joseph Flower

KAMA SUTRA
SEX POSITIONS

AND

SEXY GAMES
FOR COUPLES

AN ILLUSTRATED GUIDE WITH OVER 100 HOT SEX

POSITIONS AND SEXY GAMES, ROLE PLAYING AND SEX
TOYS FOR COUPLES TO TRY ON THE NEXT NIGHT IN
YOUR BEDROOM

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Table of Contents
Introduction

Chapter 1. Introduction to Sex Positions

Chapter 2. Different type of sex and best position

Chapter 3. Kama Sutra

Chapter 4. Tantric Sex

Chapter 5. Sex Toys

Chapter 6. Sex Positions to Overcome Anxiety and Insecurity

Chapter 7. Oral Sex

Chapter 8. Intimacy

Chapter 9. Kama Sutra sex Positions

Chapter 10. The Orgasm

Chapter 11. Kama Sutra Erotic Massage

Chapter 12. The Menstrual Cycle and Sex

Chapter 13. Positions for The Beginner

Conclusion

Introduction

Sex Games

Quick and Easy Foreplay Games for Couples

Role-Playing Sex Games

Classic Sex Games

Oral Sex Games

Hottest Sex Games

Fantastic Erotic Games

Kissing Games

Sex Toys

Sex Games with Drinks

Challenge Sex Games

Questions and Quizzes

Conclusion

Joseph Flower

KAMA SUTRA
SEX POSITIONS
 AN ILLUSTRATED GUIDE WITH OVER 100 HOT SEX
POSITIONS FOR COUPLES TO TRY ON THE NEXT NIGHT
IN YOUR BEDROOM
Introduction
Love gives birth to compassion, the universal birthplace of all peace. When
you love, you release an energy into the universe, which multiples the love
that is its nature. You feed the cosmic truth with your own and you
participate in its health by becoming part of it. When this love is realized
physically, the vibrational power of couples who love one another with an
intentional and mindful sexuality becomes a powerful agent of goodness,
illuminating the universe with an even brighter light than can possibly be
imagined. That’s why your sexuality exists and why it’s so
important. Sexuality is a spiritual commission to human beings. It’s what
we’re born for – love not only felt but physically incarnated.

While the Kama Sutra is a creature of its time and the people who wrote it
and it’s every bit as culturally-circumscribed as any modern book, its
message to us is a graceful reminder that living a human life is an art
form. Living well and fully isn’t something that just “happens”. We can
choose to let life rolls over us and bob about in its currents like an errant
cork, or we can choose to surf over its swells, governing ourselves as
participants and not just bystanders. Being a bystander is easy. It’s
passive. But it’s much less fun than actually being in the game. Those
things that demand nothing of us have little reward save disappointment,
and disappointment has no place in a life well lived.

Kama Sutra serves to remind us that sex, while a natural human activity, is
as much an art form as life itself, also demanding active participation and
understanding and the engagement of the whole person. That engagement
is not only physical, or visceral. That engagement is intellectual and
spiritual. The whole human being, when engaged, becomes a being of
light, dancing in a limitless cosmos that not only needs but demands
participation on a holistic level. It’s not enough just to be. Being
consciously, intentionally and mindfully engaged with our sexuality serves
to hold together the universe by reinforcing the great love at its core. As
once Shiva and Parvati’s union saved the universe from the evil work of a
demon, your union can be equally divine and equally salvific. This is a
great and holy human commission that you can now begin to live out,
joining with your partner as twin agents of the divine.
As a sexual being seeking a deeper and more fulfilling connection with
your partner, you’re also seeking a deeper and more fulfilling connection
with the cosmos itself. Your part in the divine plan and in your divinely-
gifted sexuality is part of what makes the universe an integrated whole. By
learning to give sexuality the exalted and holy position in your life it
deserves, you are becoming more attuned to what it means to be
human. Approaching your sexuality as a reverent act of worship will not
only bring you closer to the truth about yourself and your partner, it will
bring you closer to the truth about the vast universe you live in and which
your love helps to support the health of.
 Chapter 1.
Introduction to Sex Positions
It's enticing to take off your clothing and go on when you have strong
sexual interaction with someone. But it is a great pleasure to take time to
sample the encounter. You can feel more relaxed, linked, and stimulated if
you involve your body and mind in your interaction, resulting in better sex.
By taking your time and being imaginative, you can also avoid the risk of
having repetitive sex with the same steps, in the same place, having the
same result. Nonetheless, new places alone won't mean great sex. To make
everything perfect, use those tips and make your love more alive.

Before Sex

Sexual arousal can begin many hours before the encounter.

And indeed, it is good to make this happen. Wondering how?

There is no standard procedure, but the secret lies in generating a desire, in
teasing the mind of your partner.
It can be something said in the morning before you part, a phone call or a
text sent during the day, or even sending sensual photos.
What can be said has a wide range of choices; for example, it can be a
simple "what would you like to do to me," or "what would I do to you," a
sensual memory, a dirty proposal, etc.
In this way, you will create a fixed thought in your partner's mind, which
will increase the desired moment by moment until you are finally together.
The next step can be a romantic dinner, whether in a restaurant or at home,
where you could continue to tease your partner's mind with allusions or
caresses hidden under the table.
The icing on the cake could be having your bedroom set up romantically or
making sure it is at least clean, tidy, and smelling good!
And finally, even sexy lingerie makes a good impression.
You are now ready to begin your foreplay.

During Sex

For the experience to make as pleasant and unforgettable as possible, it is

necessary to proceed slowly and let there be a constant crescendo of
emotions and sensations before orgasm.
First, you have to create a healthy intimacy, a connection, an emotional
involvement for both of you.
Go ahead for intense looks, kisses, and simple caresses, even before
undressing.
Even exchanging some exciting little words could be beneficial. You could
say, for example, how much you have desired each other.
At this point, use all the notions you have learned about foreplay,
remembering that the genitals must be the last area to be included in the
game.
Once you get to the height of desire, you are finally ready to try some new
position.
The advice is to try more than one in single sexual intercourse to prolong
the session even more, and consequently, prolong the pleasure.
Before reaching orgasm, stop and change your position. And so on, until the
moment arrives when you can no longer wait, the desire is sky high, the
enjoyment is pure, and you have to welcome the great O.
Positions that give you a complete picture of each other's naked bodies may
produce arousals so soon, while those that make eye contact improve
intimacy and tend to make the enjoyment more slowly.
Make sure not to insist on a position that creates discomfort for one of you;
you would risk ruining the moment; instead, go straight to the next choice.

Change Your Habits and Teach Yourself New Skills

Once you have gained a deep intimacy with yourself, have explored all your
fantasies, and the sensations they bring to you, you are ready to
revolutionize your sex life.
Your amateur skills will only get better and better.
The first important thing to make a change in your relationship, as we have
said and reiterated, is communication.
Now you know who you are, what you love, what you want, and what you
can do. You can reveal to your partner all your wishes and fantasies.
And you can urge your half to share even their most intimate desires with
you. But remember, your partner may need some alone time to discover
oneself, too. At that point you can suggest that they try the same
experiences as you, you can explain everything you have done to find the
real you, and come back to you at the right time.
Once you know everything about each other, what is left to do is to find
compromises on what can be integrated into your bed.
It is understandable that not everything is allowed, but it is important to
make every effort to meet the needs of your partner.
In fact, sometimes romantic partners may disagree on when to have sex,
how often to have it, where to have it, and what those sexual activities
involve. However, changing sexual habits (or making sexual
transformations) for a partner can benefit the relationship.
You can start with the simplest things, and as your bond and understanding
increase and your skills improve, you can move on to the next level.

Learning to Make Love

As a couple, you may have similar desires and wants, but the sequence
required may differ. In most cases, men are known to take less time to
achieve sexual stimulation as compared to women. If you are inexperienced
in making love or seem to be unskilled, you need to understand what
making love entails. How you approach your partner as well as the way you
handle the situation plays a significant role in achieving orgasm. It would
be advisable to research what you could be doing wrong if your partner
complains of sexual dissatisfaction. Similarly, you could explore additional
information on ways to make your lovemaking livelier and more enjoyable.
The following detailed steps to step guide will help you on how you could
be a pro in making love:

Nurture your Self-Esteem:

Appreciating your personality and character is the initial point where you
develop an excellent reflection about yourself. You should explore your
thoughts honestly and openly to identify the aspect that could be hindering
you from attaining your full potential. Similarly, you realize your strengths
and weaknesses are making it easier to gauge your potential and select
tasks. This way, you will be able to relieve yourself of the things that cannot
be changed as well as those that are from the past.
Improve Your Lifestyle:

After developing high self-esteem and making the right moves to

understand yourself, you remain qualified to build a healthy love life. As
you explore those various aspects that will offer guidance on your dating
life, you need to keep on developing your confidence and selecting a
reasonable target. You will realize that making love involves flirting,
teasing, and providing compliments as you aim to take your partner to the
bed. Developing your intimacy skills will play a vital role in arousing your
mind, which then makes you anticipate a gentle touch and intimacy.
Besides, you should note that how you present yourself is an excellent
determinant of the partner you win and their perception about you.
Therefore, you must get a life and begin to make natural moves of
seduction and arousal.

Understand What It Is to Make Love

This is an essential part of making love, for you might mistake making love
for sex. If you do not see any difference, then you might not have
experienced it. Lovemaking is meant to create a connection between
partners. The motivation for lovemaking differs from that of sex.
Lovemaking is a complex act of expressing love and satisfying your
partner. It is an activity where your body, soul, and mind are equally
involved in getting to each other's heart. The openness associated with
lovemaking allows all forms of communication, leaving no room for
wandering.

Pick Perfect Location

Lovemaking should happen in a place where you feel comfortable and

undistracted. Therefore, you should ensure that the site you choose for
lovemaking is romantic. If you would like to make it more personal, you
could select a comfortable room in your house where you are aware of the
environment. Be creative while choosing your location and consider aspects
such as weather and your partner's preference. Also, the temperature of your
preferred location should be in line with the activity ahead as too warm or
cold could make it a mess. Remember to put away all forms of distractions
to avoid losing the true meaning of making love.

Set the Mood

If it is your first time to make love, you need to be sure and comfortable
about what you are about to do. When you are in for it, avoid being silly or
making tasteless jokes thinking that your partner likes it. Instead, settle on a
romantic atmosphere where everything you do aims at soothing them and
causing sexual stimulation. With this course, your partner will feel
appreciated, safe, and cherished through cuddling and gentle touches.
Setting the mood may also involve sexy details such as dirty words, music,
movies, dim light, and lingerie. When the attitude is right, you will tell from
the responses you get from your partner as well as your body reaction.

Focus on Foreplay

It is worth noting that lovemaking starts way before sex hence the
importance of engaging in stimulating foreplay. It is the best moment to put
off the fears and doubts about yourself or your partner. Besides, foreplay
prepares your bodies for sex, especially when done accordingly. Notably,
men may experience different feelings during foreplay, and it is essential to
ensure that you please your partner by customizing various forms of
foreplay. Most women like it when their partners take time during foreplay
and incorporate stimulating touches.

Pick Positions to Achieve Intimacy

Making love involves openness and finding ways to connect with your
partner. The connection can be achieved physically, spiritually, and
emotionally. Notably, intimacy is performed depending on the level of
contact your body is having with that of your partner. There are various sex
positions that you could apply to please your partner and have the best of
experiences in intimacy. Sex positions make it easier to communicate while
exploring each other's bodies. There are benefits associated with each sex
position, and it would be advisable to find a collection that best works for
you.

Feedback

Most couples find it hard to share their experiences after sex. It proves
challenging for men to provide feedback to women on their performance.
However, you should understand that telling each other how you feel could
make a significant difference in your intimate life. Besides, this form of
communication helps you establish a deep connection. When partners
provide positive feedback, they nurture their confidence towards each other,
thus promoting perfection and further exploration. Similarly, correcting
each other makes you skillful and well cognitive of your partner's hidden
treasures. Lovemaking does not end immediately after sex, and that is why
you should continue cuddling after sex to extend intimacy and show
appreciation.
 Chapter 2.
Different type of sex and best position
The Top 12 Woman Dominates Positions

The Viking Ride

• It is an easy position to perform, especially for the partner, who is

pleasantly seated.
The Spanish

• The man rests one hand on the ground and sits with his legs
stretched out.

The Amazon
 • Women like this position so much because it promotes vaginal
orgasm .

The Tarantula
 • The woman is astride him and rests her hands next to his legs.

The English Mount

 • She leans on him sideways, with the legs on one side and the rest
of the body on the other.

Sitting Face to Tits

 • The woman reclines on him astride, rising and sitting
rhythmically.

Riding Backwards
 • The woman can caress the partner or the clitoris by moistening
her fingers with saliva or vaginal secretions.

The Sofa
• She moves the upper body downwards, backward, resting it on his
thighs, and placing her hands backward on the floor to keep
herself .
Back View

• The woman must creep under her legs in a rear position and help
penetration.

Hot Rubbing
 • The man is seated on his side, leaning on one arm, and holds one
knee on the ground.

Bite her Hairs

 • The man is lying on his back. She is lying on him, resting on her
elbows, with semi-flexed legs.

The Steamer
 • He is lying on his back. She sits on her sex with her legs on her
side, and her thighs spread apart and move rhythmically .

The Top 22 Man Dominates Positions

Doggy Style
 • The man kneels behind the woman, holding her
hips.

Nirvana
• She keeps all the muscles in tension, tightens her legs, and pushes
her arms against the bed.
 The Candle

• Allows you to have sex by stimulating new muscles and new

parts of the body.

The Let's Go Home

 • Lying on her stomach, even better if with a pillow under the
buttocks to slightly raise the pelvis.

The Eight
 • The man is lying on the woman and has his hands on one side and
the other of her head.

Flexuosity
 • The woman has her knees bent on her belly while the man is
kneeling.

The Star
She caresses her own body and that of her partner throughout the duration
of the intercourse.

Legs on Shoulder
 • The man kneels in front of her, taking her legs and resting them
on one shoulder.

Bandoleer
 • Lying on the woman's back with her legs raised and her knees
joined against her chest.

The Sphinx
 • The woman leans on her arms with a bent
leg.

Look me in the Eye

 • Allows the couple to look at each other, kiss, and embrace each
other despite limits the freedom of movement of the woman.

Dirty Dance
 • He stands over her with his legs straight and outstretched, and his
arms stretched over his partner's shoulders.

Lotus
 • The man can alternate the support of his weight between her legs
and his wrists.

Samba
 • He is lying behind her penetrating her as he raises his torso with
his arms.

Slipping
• The man sits behind her and arches his body to facilitate
penetration, holding onto his arms and resting his hands on the
sides of her legs.
Adoration

• He keeps with his knees bent, embraces her, and penetrates her
from behind.

Indrani
 • The woman can place her hands on his buttocks and pull him
towards her, keeping her feet resting on his chest.

The Lateral Join

 • The man takes the woman's lower leg and moves it while
penetrating her.

The Gold Triangle

 • The man has to crawl, and the woman lifts her pelvis towards the
penis to get penetrated.

The Magical Mountain

 • He lies down with his torso on her and penetrates from behind.

Odalisque
 • He remains motionless while the man, seated between her thighs,
gently lifts her pelvis to penetrate her and kiss her belly .

Utphallaka
• The woman lies down on her back, raises her buttocks, and wraps
her legs around him.

The Top 8 Sitting Positions

The Naughty

• The man is seated on the edge of the bed with his feet on the
ground and his back straight.
Rocking Horse

• The man sits cross-legged, holding his hands on the back.

The Love Chair

 • He is sitting on a chair. The partner, resting on her legs, moves
rhythmically, rising and sitting down.

The Limbo
 • He sits in a rather comfortable chair with a cushion resting under
his knees to keep them slightly raised.

Unforgettable Positions

The Rocking Chair

• Stand astride your man so that you are face to face.
The Magical Ride

• The man is sitting comfortably in a chair, and the woman is

leaning against him. As she moves, he nibbles on her breast.

The Lotus
 • The man is seated with his legs crossed; the woman is above him.

The Lazy Mermaid

• The man is seated. She sits astride him, throws herself back, and
rests her head on a pillow.

The Top 18 Standing Positions

The Butterfly

• Two bodies tend to support each other as long as the right angle is
found.
Scissors

• If you like having sex on your feet, this is the position for you!

The Padlock
 • The position of the padlock is versatile and guarantees magnetic
contact between the two bodies.

SEXY 5
 • The woman must sit on a piece of furniture or a table, and the
man must stand in front of her.

The Apple
 • Suitable only for a muscular man and of not being able to be
maintained for a long time.

The Visit
 • This position has the flavor of a surprise encounter .

The Fan
 • Suitable for both anal and vaginal coitus

The Bracket
• The woman feels the pulsations of the penis and the man those of
the vagina.
Special Chair

• He penetrates her from behind and helps her move until the
pleasure is achieved .

The Royal Stairs

 • The man takes her by the hips and penetrates her from behind.

The Mermaid
• She has to lie down on a table, a bed, or a desk, placing a pillow
under her buttocks, which must be slightly raised.
The Climb

• The man makes the woman go up and down, trying to produce a

movement from top to bottom while maintaining the same speed
and depth.

The Hanging Woman

 • The woman wraps her legs around his hips to hold on and rests
her feet against the wall to which the man has to lean.

Standing on a Wall
 • The man has his back against the wall and penetrates the partner
holding her by the thighs and moving the pelvis back and forth.

Right in Target
 • What you need is a chair, a lot of agility and good physical shape.

Luxurious Climb
 • The couple stands face to face next to the bed.

Let it Go
 • The woman is lying on her back on a pillow with her knees bent.

Standing Up
 • She turns her back on him while he, embracing her with passion,
brings her to him and penetrates her from behind.

The Top 17 Acrobatic Positions

Basic Positions
The Wheelbarrow

• To make the position more comfortable, you can put a pillow

under your forehead, which will serve as a support.
The Drawbridge

• This position can only be performed if your partner is strong and

trained and has no back problems.

The Wheelbarrow 1
 • The man is on his knees, holding his partner by the pelvis and her
unbent leg leans on his side.

The Monkey
 • This position is ideal for those who love deep penetration.

The Boat
 • The penetration is very deep, relaxing for her, and particularly
exciting for him.

The Indian Headstand

 • Requires great agility, a little strength, and that cannot last more
than a few minutes.

Intermediate positions

The Triumph Arc

 • Get on your knees above him, lowering yourself on his erect penis
.

Propeller
 • Like the propeller over a helicopter, they are making sure to lift
his legs when they swing overhead.

The X
 • This position is all about control: your man is lying on his back
on the bed.

The Head Game

 • At this point, your man kneels in front of you, grabs your ankles,
and puts his knees at the height of your shoulders.

Gravity
 • He is kneeling in front of the woman, holding his feet.

Pinball
 • The man is kneeling in front of her, grabs her pelvis, and keeps
him at the height of the penis.

Advanced Positions

The Clamp
 • Despite being very difficult to perform, it is a position that
promises deep penetration and explosive orgasm.

Alternating Legs
 • He is on his knees and penetrates her holding the ankle of her
straight leg with one hand and the knee with the other.

The Acrobats
 • The man is lying on his back with his legs raised, and his knees
bent and held the partner resting on his sex by the hips.

Supernova
 • The man must have his head on the side of the bottom of the bed.

The Y
 • The man can take the woman by the hips and lift her back instead
of lying on top of her.

The Top 19 Relaxing and Cuddling Positions

Classics

The French
 • Recalls the position of the newborn baby in the womb.

Orient Secrets
 • He is straight on his knees while the woman, in a supine position
and with her legs bent, rests her feet against his chest.

The Sandwich
 • Maximum physical contact and satisfies women who usually
prefer to be on top.

Siesta in Couple
 • Even your body will benefit from the drop in pressure,
recommended before resuming more demanding erotic games.

The Bell
 • It is a position that requires agility, but that allows you to
rediscover often forgotten corners of your partner's body.

Simplicity
 • She is lying on her back with her legs spread as he penetrates her.

Special

Front and Back

 • Provide enormous pleasure to the woman, especially during
ejaculation.

The Pinwheel
 • He surrounds the woman's waist with his legs and holds her
thighs, gently pushing.

The Laying Char

 • It allows deep penetration and causes very intense pleasure
.

Crisscross
 • The man has to stand perpendicular on the woman's side, and
slowly the woman has to lift her left leg and make the man put his
lower body between his legs.

The Lazy 2
 • It offers deep penetration and offers partners the opportunity to
observe each other.

Passionate Proposal
 • The penetration can be done by leaning forward towards the
planted feet, making lunges as if you were dancing slow .

The Vertical Hug

 • Constant contact between partners and for shallow penetration.

Bonding

Zen
 • The movements must be practically in unison and can be
alternated between slow and faster until orgasm is reached.

The Ascendant
 • Allows the two lovers to embrace, kiss, caress in a swirling
interweaving of passion and desire.

Don’t Go
 • Particularly excited from the point of view, during penetration, he
can caress her buttocks and gently insert his fingers into the anus.

The Lazy Man

 • This position offers the man a particularly exciting view of his
partner's penetration, buttocks, and sex.

The Confession
 • Made of intimacy and sweetness, the two lovers can share
pleasures and desires to be discovered together.

The Joint
• The man and the woman are lying side by side in a fetal position.
 Chapter 3. Kama Sutra
A lot of people have heard the term. (Often mispronounced as Karma Sutra)
However, not a lot of people really can define the term as a whole. They
know that it relates to sex, but they are not sure exactly what it is that the
term implies.

Well, you are right that it relates to sex, but that is not the entire truth.
Kamasutra is romancing and getting intimate with your partner that reaches
a realm entirely outside of sex to make sex more exciting and more intense.
While the term relies heavily on sexual positions in today’s age, it still
revolves around the idea that humans are inherently sexual creatures and to
staunch that sexuality is inhumane and cruel to our bodies. It brings sex out
of the bedroom and into the rest of the world in a way that makes it feel
discreet and yet oh so naughty at the same time.

If you are a shy person and feel that you would not be able to do anything
sexual in public, do not worry. You are most likely not going to go for a
quick shag in the park. (Unless that is something you are into, though you
could run into some serious legal issues if you are caught) Most of the
sexuality out in your public life relies on gestures and body language,
minute and subtle touches, and communication to drive the mind wild. You
could be preparing your partner for the bedroom, and the people around you
could have no idea what you are doing or that you are even doing anything.
That is the beautiful thing about Kamasutra. You can do all the dirty things
you could imagine, and no one else than your partner would be the wiser.

Origin of the Term

This is an ancient Hindu term. Interesting fact. A lot of people see the Hindi
people like Muslims; chaste, modest human beings who deny their sexual
desires. It is quite the opposite. Hindi people are very sexual people. They
embrace human nature, thinking it is a crime to do otherwise.

Take a look at the traditional clothing that women from India wear. They
often keep their midriffs exposed and wear skirts that are at an angle to
show more of one leg than the other. Their tops are often just high enough
to keep from exposing their breasts while still allowing a little room for the
imagination. They wear veils that accentuate their long hair rather than hide
it. They are often adorned with jewels and other shiny objects. This is to
show the natural beauty of a woman, rather than cover it up, while still
keeping enough hidden to give the air of mystery and excitement. That is
what Kamasutra is about. Being open with your sexual nature, but not too
much so that you feel excited about the options the night can hold.

Even the men in Hindi culture dress somewhat provocatively. They often
wear silk shirts that are unbuttoned at the top few buttons and loose,
flowing pants that give the allusion of broadness. Their clothes are designed
to allure women of their culture. Everything about the Hindi culture is
beautiful, open, and gives the air of sexuality.

So it only makes sense that the term originated from one of the first cultures
to embrace sexuality. It comes from the Hindi terms Kama and Sutra. Sutra
is translated to mean a line or a connection holding things together. The
Kama is more in-depth than that, as it is one of the four goals in Hindi’s
life. It is the third goal, the goal of sexual desire and pleasure.

Outside the Sex

The original Kama Sutra was written sometime in the second century CE. It
has since been adapted far beyond the origins, to nearly become a sex
manual for people who want to go the distance but are not quite sure how.
However, what the newer texts fail to realize is that it goes further than sex.
You need more than a manual of positions to spice up your love life because
eventually, you are going to have tried all of the positions, and then you will
end up back to square one.
Once you learn that it is not just about the body but also about the mind,
you will find that it is a lot easier to get things going. You will see that not
only has your sex life increased, and your libido will rise as well. You will
want to come home to your partner and ravage their bodies, and the mental
connection that you will begin to feel with them will make it even better.

So there you have it. A quick run-down of what Kamasutra is. The more
you understand it, the easier it will be to master it.
 Chapter 4. Tantric Sex
When you begin to follow the path of tantric sex, you begin to find a
change in yourself. You find yourself changing how you view yourself and
how you view the world. You find yourself looking at relationships that will
last a lifetime. Through your journey, you will learn that every man and
woman have a certain level of divinity in them. You will start to view sex as
a sacred act instead of just a physical act. You will also learn to love deeper
and find that you are soaring to different levels of bliss.

You will only have a successful journey when you relieve yourself from any
preconceived notions. You should not think of what you need to do and
what your lover must do to please you. When you read this, you will be able
to identify new ideas about yourself and also embrace new ideas about
yourself. You will also learn how to have great sex!

You will learn the basic concepts of tantric sex and identify new exciting
ways to life and love.

The Yin and the Yang: Which is male, and which is female?

You must be familiar with the stereotypes that men are from Mars, and
women are from Venus. This implies that men are assertive and extremely
powerful, while women are soft and fragile, who are only fit for nurturing.
There are other stereotypes that men do not show any feelings whatsoever,
while women have a plethora of emotion that is ready to unleash itself in a
second. It has also been said that women do not take credit for the work that
they do since being outgoing is something only men are familiar with. Over
the last few years, there has been a drastic change in the way men and
women think.

Tantric sex is a firm follower of the fact that men and women do have
opposite characteristics. This is the elementary principle of the Tantra. The
eastern theories claim that Yin represents feminism, while Yang represents
masculinity. But there is no concrete proof that a woman cannot have Yang
characteristics or that a man cannot have Yin characteristics. Rather than
viewing men and woman as two entities, you should begin to focus on the
energies. The Tantra believes in the amalgamation of these two energies.

Shiva and Shakti

The most common image of the Yin and the Yang is the Hindu divine
couple Lord Shiva and Goddess Shakti. Lord Shiva represents the entire
universe since he is considered the creator, and Goddess Shakti represents
the root of all energy. The union of the two deities creates a longing in you
and every other human being to be treated like a god or a goddess. You will
learn to worship your partner as a god or a goddess.

The male energy that is found in Lord Shiva represents ecstasy, while the
energy in Goddess Shakti represents wisdom. This magical combination is
what helps a person attain enlightenment. This perfect couple is always
represented in numerous entwined positions – either dancing or embracing
or standing together. There are other positions where Goddess Shakti is
wrapped around Lord Shiva, with her legs propped around his hips. The
dancing position by far is the most sacred since they are able to free their
spirit, giving them a chance to attain enlightenment.

Understanding the opposites

You may have made divisions amongst you and your partner. You have to
first identify and understand these divisions to strike a balance between the
opposite energies. There are quite a few stereotypical characteristics that
you may relate to. You will have to identify those characteristics and make
a note of them. You have to go from one extreme. You should ask your
partner to do this too. You will then have to see how you can embrace the
extreme characteristics that you and your partner have. You have to
identify how you can strike a balance between the polarities that exist
between you and your partner. You will have to identify the Yin to your
partner’s Yang and vice versa.
You might now wonder if it is true that opposites attract. Sit back and think
for yourself. You will be able to answer this question on your own. Try
analyzing your past relationships. See how you and your partner were
different from each other. Identify whether the differences were
complemented by each other. This will help you analyze your future
relationships as well.

My partner is my beloved

Tantra is not mad love but sacred love. You are honoring your partner and
cherishing your partner while making love. You will shower unconditional
love with your partner. When you are talking to your partner, use loving
words like ‘darling’ or ‘beloved.’ You will find that those little words have
aroused feelings of love within your partner. Call your partner with the
aforementioned loving words when talking about him or her in public. You
might find it terribly strange to do so, but you will be sending out a message
of love to the person you are speaking to.

The Desire Spectrum

You will find yourself with new views of desire. You may feel a desire
every time you think of someone. You may comment on how you want a
guy or how hot a girl is when you see them passing. You only feel these
desires when you feel incomplete. Since you feel incomplete, you always
want another person. You find yourself feeling needy and feeling wanted.
But when you do get the person you want; you begin to want something
more. You want someone prettier, more interesting, and sometimes
someone richer. Through tantric sex, you will be able to detach yourself
from superficial needs. This will help you create a healthier relationship
with your partner.
You feel empowered to say what you want!

When you find yourself empowered, you are able to set boundaries both
during sex and in life in general. You find yourself with a new level of self
– esteem. In tantric sex, you OWN your body and your soul. When your
partner wants you to enter you, he must ask for your permission. You
should not be afraid and have to say yes or no as the situation demands. You
have to stop and say that you do not want to be touched in a way that is not
comfortable. You empower your partner when you speak the truth this way.
You will be giving your partner the methods to use to please you. You have
to be okay with how you are touched and how you feel.
 Chapter 5. Sex Toys
Sex toys are devices or object a person may use to cause sexual stimulation.
The tools are made to replace the pleasure that human genitalia would
provide. Although there are vibrating toys, other forms of toys may provide
pleasure without having to vibrate. These toys are readily available in sex
shops and are available in a variety of types and purposes. It would be
advisable for you to incorporate sex toys if only your partner advocates for
it. You could use them before, during, and after sexual intercourse to
initiate, maintain, and prolong sexual stimulation.

Aside from a penis, a tongue, or fingers, a vibrator can be a woman’s best

friend. If you’re a woman that doesn’t have a vibrator (you poor, deprived
thing!), you might want to consider getting one. Not only is it a great
masturbation tool and a fine stress reliever, but it’s also a wonderful way to
share a sexual experience with your partner. Vibrators come in a variety of
different shapes, sizes, styles, etc. You can get the old school, white plastic
model, or you can go for the ultra-realistic looking dildo in the shape and
size of your favorite male porn star.

How Sex Toys Can Improve Your Sex Life?

Some people view sex toys as something that is for those who have wild
kinks or those who cannot perform without assistance of some sort. In
reality, though, sex toys are designed to increase and enhance pleasure for
anyone. By using sex toys, you do not have to engage in anything wild or
anything that you are uncomfortable with. You are also not admitting that
you have a sexual problem by using a sex toy.

One of the ways in which sex toys can improve your sex life is that they
allow you to focus on one area of the body while the sex toy takes care of
pleasure in another. For example, a sex toy that is designed to pleasure a
woman’s clitoris will do so while you can focus on her nipples or her
vagina.
 1. Enhances Body Knowledge- The use of sex toys during sex
helps partners explore each other bodies and understand the
part with more sensory stimulation.

2. Enhances Sexual Pleasure- The combination of these toys

with sex provides additional pleasure.

3. Self Confidence- While using sex toys, you are sure that
sexual stimulation is guaranteed making you aim at
attaining satisfaction.

5. Control Sexual Needs- Sex toys could be used by either

partner for sexual stimulation.

6. Fosters Love- The exploration of your partner's genitals as

well as communication as you try out sex toys removes
barriers and enhances mutual connections.

7. Prevents STIs- The use of sex toys means that genitals may
not need to make contact thus preventing the spread of
sexually transmitted Infections.

8. Improves Performance- The sensitivity associated with sex

toys boosts the partner's morale, making them perform
above par.

9. Prevents Unwanted Pregnancy- The fact that sex toys do not

ejaculate makes it safe for the woman from impregnation.

Best Sex Toys for Beginners

The Vibrator

A vibrator is probably the most common sex toy available for

female pleasure. Vibrators are the best choice for women who are
new to sex toys and are unsure of what they may be looking for. A
vibrator is a nice and easy place to start, and it can be used in a
variety of ways. They can be used by a woman alone during
masturbation, by a woman with a partner. They can be used during
penetration and during foreplay. Vibrators are such a versatile sex
toy as they come in so many different shapes, sizes and materials.

The Dildo

A dildo is a penis-like object that provides pleasure by being inserted into

the vagina or the anus, and that works in much the same way as a penis
does. Dildos can be made of a variety of different materials such as glass,
stainless steel, or silicone, and they come in a wide variety of colors and
shapes from realistic-looking penises to pink and purple banana-shaped
ones. The world of dildos is vast and encompasses any kind of penetrative
device you could possibly dream of.

Dildos can be used by a woman or a man on their own while masturbating

or with a partner. A woman can use a dildo by inserting it into her vagina to
stimulate her G-Spot and a man can use it to stimulate his prostate during
masturbation. Dildos can be used with a partner, as well. Your partner can
use a dildo on you by inserting it into the vagina or the anus in order to
please you. Most dildos can be taken into the bathtub or shower as well, so
you can have shower sex with it if you wish. A dildo can be used in the
vagina or the anus, whichever you prefer, and you can use the same dildo
for both of these places, so you don’t need to buy two.

Things to Know About Using Sex Toys

Sex toys are becoming popular, especially among the youth and couples.
While there are different types of sex toys, some could be exciting and
others intimidating. It would be very tricky trying out a toy that you have
never used before. For that reason, you should make the following
considerations to get the best toy for you and maximize enjoyment and
pleasure.

1. Start easy- When selecting your first sex toy, you should
start with the simplest toys there is. This way, you can work
up to more advanced toys in the future. Start steadily to
avoid disappointments and intimidations.

2. Cleanliness- It is essential to keep your body clean and

hygienic, especially your genitals. Therefore, ensure you
select sex toys that are cleaned easily and less likely to
attract bacteria while in storage.

3. Preference- It is common to find that what works for the

service provider is not what will work for you. For that
reason, you should ensure you acquire a sex toy depending
on your likes and preference.

5. Storage- Extra care is needed when storing sex toys. They

could react to materials placed near them. It is common to
find silicone or latex toys looking melted.

6. Consult with your partner- It is for your good to be upfront,

open, and honest to your partner about the desires you have
with sex toys. Similarly, let them know your preference and
use their reaction to judge whether they are okay with it.

7. Maintain Communication- It is the most crucial part of sex,

especially when using sex toys. This way, your partner lets
you know the part that is stimulated by the toy making it
possible to discover additional erogenous zones.
 8. Maintain Safety- It is advisable to use these toys for the sole
purpose for which they are meant. You should be cautious
when using these toys for good sex. Notably, problems
occur whenever users fail to follow instructions.

Lubricants

Using lube alone is not enough. You need to consider the type of lube if you
want to create some magic between the sheets. Some lubes can cause
allergic reactions or irritations if you’re not careful, and there is nothing
worse than feeling like that burning sensation on your penis or vagina.

Water-Based

These are the most versatile out of all the lubes and safe for all sexual
activities. They are even safe to use on sex toys, making water-based lubes
are the most popular choice. They’re inexpensive, easily available, doesn’t
stain and is safe to ingest in small amounts during sex (read the list of
ingredients first though). Don’t worry if you’re using diaphragms or latex
condoms. They’re safe to be used on these products too. Water-based lubes
are the popular choice among women because it feels like natural vaginal
lubrication. Plus, they are incredibly easy to wash off once you’re done,
leaving your skin clean and residue-free.

Oil-Based

For a long-lasting, smooth, and silky experience, oil-based lubricants are a

good choice to consider. Since they are thicker and creamier, they last
longer during sex too. If you’re masturbating, oil-based lubricants can be a
great choice, but be cautious with these since not all oil-based lubes are safe
to use when there are latex contraceptives involved. Oil-based lubes can be
combined with water-based lubes during sex.

Silicone-Based

These last a very long time and a great if you’re planning to get frisky in the
water. They are also safe to use on latex condoms, but the downside is that
it’s not the best idea to use them on silicone sex toys since they will damage
the surface area of the toys.

Petroleum-Based

These you want to stay well away from if you can since they are difficult to
wash off and could cause some irritation by altering the vagina’s pH levels.
This could potentially lead to yeast infection, and plus, they destroy any
latex-based products that you might be thinking about using them on. Not a
great idea.
 Chapter 6.
Sex Positions to Overcome Anxiety and
Insecurity
Best Positions to Try if you are Insecure

Having sex in a chair is a great position when you are feeling a bit insecure.
The man will sit in the chair, and the female will simply straddle their legs
while facing them. It will allow the person on top to move up and down,
and grinding will also be possible. This is a very close and intimate
position. It will make you feel secure because you'll be facing the person
you trust, and your bodies will be tightly wrapped together. It is quite
reassuring and will also allow you guys to communicate through the session
when you need too.

One other great position is going to happen when both parties are laying on
their sides and facing each other. To do this is very simple. The female will
need to be slightly higher than the male counterpart. She will have one leg
outstretched, and one leg draped over his hips. He will then be able to move
him closely for insertion. Both parties will be able to move their hips and
get a nice rocking motion happening. It allows people to feel extremely
secure because you are close enough to talk, kiss, caress each other, and
make eye contact. Your bodies will be touching each other completely. It
helps both parties feel comfortable and secure.

Any sex position that allows you to face your partner and puts the majority
of your body into contact with yours is going to help you feel less insecure.
Eye contact is extremely important. Besides, the ability to kiss and caress
your partner is also important. So, when you are looking for positions that
will reduce your insecurity, it is best to choose ones where you are facing
one another.

Best Sex Positions for Anxious Lovers

Having anxiety about sex is not uncommon. Unfortunately, many people

feel this way from time to time. There are a variety of different sex
positions that you can enter into that will help reduce the level of anxiety
that you are experiencing. Being open and communicating with your
partner about the fact that you're feeling anxious is a key element in helping
you release this negative feeling.

The first position that you should try is commonly referred to as the
connected hearts. This is very similar to the cowgirl style. The difference is
instead of the man lying flat on his back, he will prop himself up with his
arms. This will allow you guys to come into contact with one another as the
woman rides the man. Your eyes will be able to lock, and you will easily be
able to cross each other’s bodies. It also will provide you with a good
amount of eye contact. This can be pretty intense. If you find that this
position increases your anxiety turn the female around so that her back is
facing her partner.

Doggie style is another great position when you're feeling anxiety. It allows
for a good amount of contact, but you won't have to look each other in the
face. Sometimes, staring at your partner in the eyes can be too intense an
increase in the level of anxiety that you are experiencing. The doggie style
puts both people in control but allows for a higher level of comfort. The
view for the man is very nice, and the woman can concentrate on the
sensations at hand rather than the intimacy that can come when facing your
partner.

How to Overcome Insecurities in the Bedroom?

Sexual insecurity can not only have negative repercussions on sex but also
on your partner and also on your family.

It is very difficult to overcome this type of insecurity, but in Mujer, we will

tell you 9 ways to make you feel more secure, and you can have a SUPER
bed development.

Be your priority
We all love that our partner has a good time during sex, however, if we do
not enjoy them, they will not either. Become your PRIORITY, try to enjoy
and achieve incredible orgasms. Once you can enjoy 100% of your
sexuality, you can satisfy the other person. If you constantly think about
how to do it to satisfy it and you can not satisfy yourself, it will be in vain.
Start with you, and keep going!

Practice, practice ... and practice

If you want to overcome your sexual insecurity and become a true expert,
the solution can be in practice. Nobody is a sex guru, you learn with
practice, and maybe sometimes it's not perfect, and sometimes it's very,
very bad. But only practice will make you overcome your insecurity.

Talk to your partner

Talking about sex with your partner is super important. It will unite them
more, and they will be able to discover with words what each one wants.
Talking about your insecurities will also be important, and you will see that
it will have a positive impact on the relationship.

Accept your body and yourself

Nobody is perfect! There is nothing to worry about. Everybody is beautiful

with its imperfections. Love your body and love yourself.

Feel at ease and express what you want

Do you like to say hot phrases, and do not you dare? Would you like to try
new positions? Express it! Do not feel afraid or ashamed of what you want
to do. Tell your partner what you want in the bed, and together they will be
able to satisfy each other.

Undress more

Get undressed! Sexual insecurity can be because you do not feel

comfortable with your body, or you do not want your partner to see you
naked for fear you do not like them. To overcome this insecurity, undress
more ... Try the light off at the beginning, walk through your bare home,
dance and sing, do what you always do but naked.

Look in the mirror, appreciate and let your partner appreciate you. In the
beginning, it may cost, but then you will see that it will be very positive for
you and will help you to overcome Sexual Insecurity.

Relax

Trust yourself and your partner and just RELAX. In this way, you can get to
enjoy sex and overcome insecurity. Do not press yourself to do things that
you do not know if you can do them, or press yourself to satisfy them or
satisfy yourself. Let it flow and let everything emerge ... you will see that
sex will be perfect.

Diversity

A love, a relationship, a couple should be fun, and if there is no fun, it is

because something is wrong. Try every way to find something that will
have fun in bed and in your life to have a perfect performance in sex.

Talk to your psychologist

However, it can be more than fear or shame. Maybe something earlier in

your past can generate insecurity in you. Your therapist can help you find
the source of the problem and together solve it.

How to Overcome Anxiety in the Bedroom?

Communication

During sex is an important time to check in with your partner to see how
they are feeling, what they are liking, and what they want more of. While
you are having sex, it is easiest to communicate using dirty talk so that you
don’t ruin the mood by coming off too serious or too concerned. To
properly communicate while also playing into the mood of the moment, you
can do so in a sexy way, using sexy language. You should tell each other
what you like by saying, “oh yes, I like that” or “I like when you touch me
like that” This lets the person know to do more of the same because this is
what will get you to orgasm. By being aware of these things and being able
to talk about them at the moment, it will help with your confidence in the
bedroom and reduce your insecurities.

Environment

Your choice of environment can make a big difference when it comes to

whether or not you can reach orgasm. If you tend to be someone who has
trouble reaching orgasm for whatever reason, these details of the
environment, the location, and the time will be important for your
experience. They will determine whether or not you will be able to get
concentrated enough to orgasm. We will discuss several factors that
contribute to whether or not your environment is conducive to your pleasure
and your orgasm. The reason why the environment, time, and location are
of such importance is that being comfortable with all of these factors will
allow you to focus on yourself, your pleasure, and your orgasm without
distraction.

Exercise

If your insecurity stems from an inability to reach orgasm, as orgasms are

not easily achieved in times of stress and anxiety, this technique can help
you to improve your likelihood of anxiety.

Cardiovascular exercise has been shown to increase blood flow, which in

turn increases your positive feelings during sex as well as the sensations
your partner will feel on his penis when he slides it into your engorged
vagina. Improving your aerobic capacity makes it so that blood will have an
easier time flowing to the genitals, as your body becomes more efficient at
dispersing it. This means positive things for your orgasm as well as your
partner’s! In terms of sex drive, doing weight training has been shown to
increase your sex drive, which is another factor that will positively affect
your ability to orgasm. Another one of the countless benefits of exercise on
your sex life is that it will make you feel more confident and positive about
your body. This, in turn, will make you feel more confident in the bedroom,
which will improve your mood, reduce your stress and anxiety, and make it
so that you are more likely to reach orgasm.
 Chapter 7. Oral Sex
Oral sex can be a great way to get things ready for penetration, or it can be
the main event of the night. If you are a woman who is not able to reach an
orgasm through penetration alone, oral sex is what you are going to need to
get things going. The following positions can give you new ways to
perform oral sex so that it doesn’t seem like the same old boring oral sex.
Spiderman

Most blow jobs won’t allow you to have a good view, but this position will
provide your partner with a full picture of your body. You lay down on your
back on a bed or table. Your head should dangle over the edge. They will
come up behind you and lean over so that you can swallow their penis. You
will be able to use your hands and mouth. They also can pinch and rub your
nipples or clitoris while you are working on their penis.
Sidecar

Both of you will lay down your sides facing one another. Then you slide
down until his penis is in your face. This could be called a lazy blow job if
you want. Blow jobs don’t have to kill your knees.

Leg Up

There are some women who have one side of their vulva that is more
sensitive than the other. You will lift up that leg on the side that is more
sensitive so that it is exposed. Then you will lick figure eights up and down
the vulva to please them.

Deep V

You will start by laying down on your back at the edge of the bed. Grab
your thighs and lift your legs up into a V shape. If you aren’t this flexible,
then you keep your knees bent and let your legs rest on your chest. He will
kneel in front of you and start working on you. They can massage your
thighs to help bring more blood into your vulva. This can help you to have
an amazing orgasm.
Cliff Hanger

You sit on the edge of the bed and keep your legs dangling off the edge. He
will kneel between your legs and go to work. They will use their hands to
play with whatever they want to help heighten your pleasure.

Sofa So Good

You will start by lying upside down on your couch. Your head and back will
be flat on the seat while your legs go over the back. Your partner is going to
kneel over your face and facing the back of the couch. You can suck his
penis while he licks you.
Doggy Does Oral

This is a very hot position that you will get to control the pressure and angle
of. She will be on her hands and knees, just like in doggy, but he will kneel
behind you and perform for her. This is also great for a rim job if you want.
Hail the Queen

The point of sitting on a person’s face is not to actually sit on their face.
You simply straddle their head and work your thighs. You hold yourself a
few inches over their face while they work on you. They can still reach up
and play with breasts, or anything else that they want to.
Corkscrew

The man will stand for this one as you kneel in front of him. Hold the base
of his penis in both hands. Place the penis in your mouth and then tilt your
head from side to side as your work up and down.
Fake Deep Throat

You can get the feel of a deep throat without having to gag by putting some
lube on your hand and using it on the part of him that won’t fit in your
mouth. Move your hand as you would move your mouth. To make this
more intense, look deep into their eyes.
Peace Out

You are going to be sitting in a chair while your partner kneels between
your legs. They will place two fingers on each side of the clitoris and make
the same motions you would if you were using scissors as they suck and
lick the tip of the click. This will isolate the clit from the rest of the genitals
and pinpoints the pleasure.
Swiper

Ask your partner to form some suction on the clit by placing their mouth
over the labia and clitoris. Now have them shake their head in circles, side
to side, and change the pace up. This is going to mimic how many of us
masturbate. You can place some pillows under you to give them better
access.

Supersize Me

Once you have your man right at the brink of an orgasm, stop and gently
pull a bit on their testicles to stop them from having an orgasm. Give them a
bit to recuperate and then go back to it. Once you have them begging, push
a finger or vibrator against their penis and watch what happens.
Constellation

If oral sex is uncomfortable for you, you can try it on your side. This is
great for people who have spasticity in their hips that makes it harder for
them to spread the legs during oral sex. This will provide your partner with
access to your genitals without having to be in a position that causes pain.
Saddle Straddle

If your partner is more dominant, they will love straddling you as you suck
and stroke their penis. You can use your hands and twist up and down their
penis, and you lick the tip.

Live Show

If the two of you are into bondage, you can take charge by sitting them
down in a chair and then blindfolding them. You can also take a bit further
by tying their arms behind the chair. A safe word should be used. Then you
will perform oral sex on them and take them to the edge by not allowing
them to have an orgasm until you want them to.
Deep-Sea Diver

This is a great position for a rim job. This can be introduced in the shower.
The receiver stays standing as the giver squats behind them and performing
oral sex.

Butterball

This is another great position for rim jobs. The person receiving needs to be
showered and fresh. They will lay down and pull their knees into their
chest. This will give the doer the chance to reach the clitoris and breasts of
the receive. If the man is the receiver, the woman can play with whatever
she wants.
Shark Fin

Since oral sex doesn’t work well underwater, the woman will lay down with
her hips at the edge of the tub. She will open up her legs but keep her feet in
the water and enjoy everything her partner does to her.
Double Oral Sex Technique: The Roll

This position is a wonderful oral sex position. Remember, as I mentioned

that the book of Kama Sutra includes a variety of oral sex positions, not
only positions in which to have intercourse. This is one of those positions.
In this position, the man will be stimulating the woman’s anus and/or
vagina orally while she gives him oral sex at the same time. To get into this
position, the woman will lie on the bed on her back, and she will hold onto
her ankles, spreading her legs out to the side as much as possible. The man
will come over the woman, facing her feet, and he will place one of his
knees on either side of her head, and one of his hands on either side of her
hips. He will then lower himself down so that he can stimulate her orally.
The woman will pull her ankles toward her head so that her body rolls up
into a ball, giving the man more ease of access. She will then take his penis
in her mouth and stimulate him orally. This position allows both people to
benefit from oral sex at the same time. The man can also use one of his
hands to stimulate the woman anally, vaginally, or clitorally while he gives
her oral.

Oral Sex for Men

This position is done when the man is standing up, and the woman is on her
knees in front of him, giving him oral sex. You may be thinking that this is
not an advanced sex position because you have done it many times, and it is
quite common. Here, however, we are going to make it an advanced
position.
To make this into an advanced sex position, while the woman is kneeling in
front of the man and giving him oral sex, she can use one of her hands to
hold onto his testicles and gently massage them. This will add to his
pleasure quite a bit. She can also (or instead) use her other hand to reach
around behind him and stimulate his anus with her finger. She can move her
finger around the outside of his anus, stimulating the sensitive skin there,
and this will make him feel immense amounts of pleasure.
Oral Sex for Women

Similar to the previous position, this one may seem as if it is common and
has been done a million times, however, with this position as well, we will
be adding some elements that take it from an easier position to an advanced
one.
To get into this position, the woman lies down on her back, and the man
will lie down as well, but instead of lying down parallel to her with his
mouth at her clitoris, he will lie down with his mouth at her clitoris but his
body perpendicular to her. This way, their bodies form the letter ‘T.’ Lying
as this makes it so that the woman can have the most pleasure possible from
oral sex because it makes it easier for the man to stimulate her clitoris for a
longer period without becoming fatigued. It is easier to move your tongue
in an up and down motion than in a side to side motion, and when forming a
T with their bodies, his tongue can move up and down (side to side on the
clitoris) and give her the most pleasure possible. This is because stimulating
the clitoris in this way is the most likely to lead to orgasm, whereas moving
over it in a top to bottom motion will not lead to as much pleasure or as
much chance of orgasm. When lying in a classic oral sex position of the
man between the woman’s legs, it would be hard for him to move his
tongue in a side to side motion for a long time as it would become very
fatigued, but if he moves his tongue up and down, it will not be as
pleasurable for her. For these reasons, this T position is the best choice for
oral sex for a woman.
 Chapter 8. Intimacy
Physical intimacy is the type that most people think of when they hear the
term "intimacy," and it is the kind that we will be most concerned about
within this book. It is the type of intimacy that includes sex and all activities
related to sex. It also involves other non-sexual types of physical contact,
such as hugging and kissing. Found in close friendships or familial
relationships where hugging and kisses on the cheek are common, but it is
typically found in romantic relationships.

Physical intimacy is the type of intimacy involved when people are trying
to make each other orgasm. Physical intimacy can get required for orgasm.
Physical intimacy doesn't necessarily mean that you are in love with the
person you are having sex with; it just means that you are doing something
intimate with another person physically.

It is also possible to be intimate with yourself. While this begins with the
emotional intimacy of self-awareness, it also involves the physical
closeness of masturbation and physical self-exploration. I define sexual, the
physical intimacy of the self as being in touch with the parts of yourself
physically. These parts include your breasts, clitoris, vagina, and your anus.
If you are a man, these parts include your testicles, your penis, and your
anus. Being physically intimate with yourself allows you to have more
fulfilling sex, more fulfilling orgasms, and a more fulfilling overall
relationship with your body. Allowing someone to be physically intimate
with you in a sexual way is also an emotionally personal experience,
regardless of your relationship with the person. Being in charge of your
own body while it is in another person's hands is very important. That is
why masturbation is such a pivotal element to physical intimacy.

You can think of physical intimacy as something that breaks the barrier of
personal space. This definition includes touching any sort, but especially
sexual intercourse, kissing, handling, and anything else of a sexual nature.
When you are having sex with anyone, regardless of whether you have
romantic feelings for them or not, you are having a physically intimate
relationship with them. The difference between a relationship that involves
physical intimacy alone and no other forms of intimacy and a romantic
relationship is that a romantic relationship will also include emotional
intimacy. Shared activities and intellectual intimacy are that a deep and
lasting romantic relationship will need to have all of these forms of
intimacy at once.

For a romantic relationship to be successful, partners shared several forms

of intimacy. Without a combination of all forms of intimacy, there is
nothing that sets a romantic relationship apart from an everyday friendship.

It is essential to communicate about your needs for intimacy with your

partner to know what is important to you and what you need from them for
the relationship to be successful. Further, regularly since people will grow
and change throughout their relationship, both partners must be aware of
the changes in their romantic partner's needs. That is especially important in
a long-term relationship. When a person's intimacy needs change, it is vital
to maintain an adequate level of intimacy and a deep connection. That leads
us to the next topic related to intimacy, which is communication.

Communication is the key in a relationship of any sort, but especially in a

romantic relationship. Communicating is the only sure way to know where
the other person stands regarding their thoughts, feelings, and needs.
Opening with your emotions, and being vulnerable is a requirement for any
intimacy, and this involves being vulnerable and honest about your needs
for intimacy itself. It is necessary to share oneself with the other person in a
relationship. This mutual sharing of yourselves will lead to intimacy in the
first place and an increase in your level of intimacy.

Sometimes in a long-term relationship, you become so comfortable with

each other that you begin to feel like you don't have to communicate with
your partner as much as you once did. You may start to feel like they can
read your thoughts and feelings since you know each other so well. While
this is a great point to reach in a relationship, this can sometimes lead to a
communication breakdown. It is crucial to maintain communication to
avoid miscommunications or misunderstandings when both parties think
that the other person can read their mind. By doing this, you keep the lines
of communication open in your relationship at all times. That avoids any
chance of miscommunication or misunderstanding that would be
perpetuated by a lack of communication. Having misunderstandings go
unresolved, which could lead to resentment and an overall breakdown in
communication, which can reduce intimacy levels in the relationship.

So, what is tantric sex at its core? It's pretty in-depth, and here, we'll talk all
about what tantric sex is, the concepts behind it, and why it matters.

The concept behind it is that it's the waving and expansion of different
energies, bringing them together in a deep, intimate connection with another
being.

It can get done by just about anyone who is physically able to do it. If you
want to reboot your sex life or even find a deeper meaning in the act of
making love, this is how you do it.

We all focus on just the action itself, getting it done so we can go about our
business. But, does that build a connection? Are you focused on your
partner? That is what you have to realize happens with tantric sex.

If you are looking for an excellent way to compare this, a quickie is literally
like a takeout food, whereas tantric sex is a five-star meal that you eat in the
restraint. With this type of sex, you're not spending as much time just
getting it done just to get it done, but it's slow, savoring, and wonderful to
experience, and in turn, is a delicious and mesmerizing experience.

That can also bring some space back into your love life. Do you sometimes
think you're just having sex just to have sex? Do you sometimes feel like
you're not engaged in the act of sex? Well, that's the problem. For most
people, sex is just a quick and dirty thing, rather than an intimate,
wholesome action between two parties. That, in turn, will cause your
relationship to feel hollow, boring, and not worth it.

But, with tantric sex, you can change the way it all feels. Instead of just
taking things like activity and not emphasizing it than that, tantric sex
involves the action of sex, and the connection shared between the
partner.
Chapter 9.
Kama Sutra sex Positions
For Anal Sex

The following positions are great for people who are new to anal sex and
would like to try some of the simpler positions in order to get used to the
feeling of anal sex, these positions are straight from the Kama Sutra, or
slight variations of Kama Sutra positions in order to make the optimized for
anal sex.

Oral with Anal Stimulation

This first position is not involving anal penetration with a penis but is a
great introduction to anal play. This position is done when a woman is
giving a man oral sex. The man stands up and the woman is on her knees in
front of him, giving him oral sex. She will then reach around behind the
man’s buttocks and stimulate his anus with her finger. She can move her
finger around the outside of his anus, stimulating the sensitive skin there
which will make him feel immense amounts of pleasure. Giving oral sex
and stimulating his anus at the same time will make it virtually impossible
for him not to orgasm very quickly.

The Curled Angel

This is a Kama Sutra position that is written as a position to be performed

with vaginal sex, but it can also be done as an anal sex position. This
position involves the man and woman lying down on their sides, the man
behind the woman. Both of them are facing the same direction, so the curve
of their hips places the man’s penis at the perfect point for anal penetration.
In this position, the man and woman can grind their hips into each other,
and it is a team effort in terms of control.

The Clip
In this position, the man lies back on the bed with his knees bent and his
feet planted on the bed. The woman straddles the man and inserts his penis
into her anus. In this position, she can lean forward onto the man’s bent
knees for support, and she is able to control the depth and speed of
penetration. The man can hold onto the woman’s buttocks and guide her
movements as well.

The Snake

This position is a good one to try when you have a little bit of experience
with anal sex but are not ready to try anything too extreme just yet, the
person receiving anal penetration in this position takes a passive role and
can just focus on relaxing and enjoying the pleasure rather than having to
contort into some type of acrobatic formation.

To begin, the woman will lie face down on the bed, and her partner will lie
on top of her, supporting himself with his arms. From here, the woman will
arch her back a bit to make her pleasure zones as accessible as possible for
penetration. Now, the man will slowly slide his penis into her anus. Here,
the woman can enjoy the pleasure ride her partner takes her on, without
having to do anything herself. She is able to enjoy these moments where the
focus is all on her!

Pegging

There is another type of anal sex that can be had, which involves sex toys. It
is quite common that a woman will penetrate her male partner anally while
wearing a strap-on. This practice is called Pegging. Now that you know a
little more about sex toys and anal sex, and how to ensure you are
combining these two in a safe and sanitary way, you are ready to try
Pegging. This can be done either by using a dildo placed in a strap-on that a
woman is wearing or by using a double-ended dildo. Using a double-ended
dildo will allow the woman to be pleasured at the same time as she is
penetrating the man, as she will also be penetrated either vaginally or anally
with the other end of the dildo. This type of dildo looks like any other,
except that it has two identical ends.
Now that you are aware of the possibility of this type of practice, you can
understand how any of these anal sex positions can be performed by either
the man penetrating the woman anally with his penis or by the woman
penetrating her partner anally using a dildo.

For men, anal sex is extremely pleasurable since their prostate is stimulated
through anal penetration. The prostate is what has been referred to as the
“male G-Spot.”

The Closed Door

This position is similar to the missionary in that both people are lying down
face-to-face, and the man is on top. The difference, however and what
makes this an advanced position is that the woman will keep her legs shut
tightly the entire time. The man’s penis can be inserted while her legs are
open and then once it is in, she will close her legs. What this does is
constrict her vagina and make the canal tighter for the man’s penis. In
addition to this, if she is aroused her vagina will be engorged and the canal
will be tighter already. Because of this, the man’s penis will be hugged
closely as it slides in and out of her and this will make for extra pleasure for
him.

The Lap Dance

This next position is another that is best for male pleasure and the male
orgasm. This position requires strength on the part of the man and the
woman and is quite an athletic position, but this is why it is called an
advanced sex position. Be careful when trying this one.

To get into position, the man will sit upright in a comfortable chair or on the
edge of a bed with his feet planted on the floor. The woman will climb onto
his lap and wrap her legs around behind the man or stick them straight out
past him. Then, the man can insert his penis into the woman’s vagina. From
here, the woman will lean back until she is lying straight back, and her body
is flat. While she does this, the man will have to hold onto her at her hips or
her lower back, depending on your height variations. The man in this
position will perform a combination of thrusting his hips into the woman
from a seated position and pulling her onto his penis repeatedly. A high
amount of upper body strength is required on the part of the man in this
position. Place some pillows on the floor underneath the woman when
trying this position, just in case. The woman can hold onto the man’s arms
for support as well here.

This position is great for the male’s pleasure because it allows him to
control the speed and depth of thrusting, and it allows for deep penetration,
which will feel amazing on his penis.

Splitting the Bamboo

This position is quintessentially Kama Sutra, and it is a great position for

the male orgasm. To get into this position, the woman will lie on her back
on the bed and stretch one of her legs straight out below her, lifting the
other leg up and resting it on the man’s shoulder. The man will be on top of
the woman, his hips between her legs.

In this position, the man is able to achieve deep penetration because of the
positioning of the woman’s legs, which will feel great for him. The deeper
he can penetrate, the more pleasured he will be. If the woman is not flexible
enough to do this position in this way, making it uncomfortable, the man
can kneel instead of laying on top of her. This way, the position will still be
accomplished but it does not give the woman’s leg as much of a stretch.
This position is also great for the woman since the chances of G-Spot
stimulation are very high.

The Waterfall

The waterfall is a position in which the man has complete control. The man
will begin by sitting in a chair with his feet on the floor. The woman will
climb onto his lap and insert his penis into her. She can wrap her legs
around his waist. Then, slowly, she will lean all the way back until her head
and arms are touching the floor (with pillows underneath). From here, the
man will hold onto her hips and can move her body onto his penis at
whatever speed and depth he wishes. He can also grab onto her breasts and
massage her clitoris in this position if he wishes. This position can be quite
challenging for the woman, but the blood flow to her head will make it
pleasurable for her. This position is great for the man since he is in control,
and the tightness of the woman’s vagina around his penis in this position
will be greatly pleasurable for him.

Standing Suspended from Behind-Anal

This position is great for those who are experienced with anal sex as it
allows for deep penetration and also requires strength from both partners.
This one is a bit trickier to get into, so to begin, the man will be sitting
down on the edge of the bed or in a chair and the woman will sit on his lap,
facing away from him. Then, the man will insert his penis into her anus. He
will hold onto her under her knees or under her buttocks, and once secure,
he will stand up, still inside of her. Then, leaning his back against a wall for
support, he will thrust into and out of her while holding her up. This
position can be very pleasurable for both people if fitness and strength are
there, which is why this is such an advanced position. This position is great
for the male orgasm because this position and the fact that it involves anal
sex will make it feel great for him. The only thing is that it requires a lot of
work from the woman as well.
 Chapter 10. The Orgasm
Orgasm is the pinnacle of sexual intercourse. It produces a pleasant
sensation of a sudden release of the accumulated tension. The moment the
emotion phase begins. At that moment, a very pleasant set of severe muscle
spasms occur.

It helps release endorphins that occur at the same time. Women experience
orgasm in different ways, but generally, this causes an acceleration of heart
rate, respiration and blood pressure reaches the highest level. Vagina,
uterus, anus, the pelvic muscle-bone contracts at 5-10 times intervals per 1
second or more. Some women may even have multiple orgasms. For men,
you should be aware that ejaculation and orgasm are not the same things. A
man can ejaculate without experiencing orgasm. For men, muscle
contraction not only occurs in the pelvic area. Orgasm for men lasts only a
few seconds, after which the cooling phase start, where there is a general
relaxation of the whole body, normalization of blood circulation and
respiration, and the resulting sensations. Great sedation, fatigue and even
drowsiness. Men can be prevented from reaching orgasm. Women may or
may not reach an orgasm regularly (anorgasmia). Couples must talk about
it, as experiments and information could improve the control of sexual
activity and ejaculation in males.

Female vs. Male Orgasm

The female orgasm is not only achieved by penetration. It is recommended

to explore the female body and discover the different erogenous zone.
Foreplay, oral sex, and other habits can be the perfect means to achieve an
unforgettable orgasm.

Is an orgasm needed during sex?

This is a difficult question, but the short answer is "no, not needed." From a
strict reproduction view, vaginal orgasm is not mandatory when trying to
have a baby (Obviously, the penis must be drained because the sperm is
expected to be fertilizing the egg). That said, there may be a natural
motivation for that. Getting better sex will motive you to do it more often.

What are the Types of Orgasms?

Here is a list of the most popular types of orgasms and what it is commonly
felt, and this varies from one individual to another.

Clitoris: these orgasms are regularly felt outside the body, similar to a
tingling sensation along the skin and in the brain.

Anal: Before the big orgasm, you may feel a strong urge to urinate

Combo: when the vagina, especially the G-spot, and the clitoris are
simultaneously stimulated, the overall result will be a progressively
sensitive style orgasm that may need to be convulsed or unloaded

Exotic areas: lesser-known parts of the body, e.g., ears, areolas, neck,
elbows and knees, can, in some cases, cause a pleasant response when they
are kissed and caressed each. For some individuals, continuous play can
cause an orgasm.

Now, let’s see how these orgasms happen?

Clitoral orgasm

Let's start with the clitoris. The clitoris is a small organ with a ton of nerve
endings found above the vulva, generally fixed by a hood and extending
downwards inside the lips. The ideal approach to stimulate the clitoris is
gently rubbing it with your fingers, palm or tongue from side to side or
circular the movement.

Once the clitoris starts to get wet, or after lubrication as not all vaginas can
get wet without help, apply faster and stronger pressure in a rhythmic
movement, complete this movement with substantial pressure. When the
orgasm starts, the sensation begins to intensify. If that's enough to get you
out, it's amazing!

Vaginal orgasm

Aim to use fingers or a toy for penetration instead of the penis, mimic the
"come here" or circular movement rather than an in and out motion. Repeat
movements that work well, and the feelings will develop.

Anal orgasm

Due to the prostate, anal orgasms are more common in men. For anal sex is
ideal to use lubrication and assure perfect hygiene as typically an area with
a lot of bacteria.

Combo orgasm

Combo orgasm combines clitoral and vaginal stimulation simultaneously,

either in parallel or in inverse rhythms (whatever feels best for you or your
partner). This is the most well-known approach to accomplish female
discharge involving the clitoris and the G-spot. Other erogenous zone
orgasms are accomplished only through strong experimentation. You might
even reach an orgasm from kisses on your neck, nibbles and sucking on
your areolas, or fingers on the inside of your elbows. A good approach to
find erogenous zones is to use a delicate external item and observe where
you have the most feelings.

Orgasms will come even better with communication. In any sexual set-up,
openness is vital. Sharing with your partner what you need, how, and where
is the ideal approach to guarantee the greatest enjoyment. It's very
important to have these types of discussions before or during the sexual act.
This implies sharing what are your wishes, either with words or with your
body language.

Keep in mind that sexual partners are not capable of reading minds and
physical reaction, even though we would love them to be able to do that. If
your sex habits are not getting you off, then trying with touching new
regions on various occasions with different body parts (private parts,
fingers, and mouths) is the following best action to solving your orgasm
quest.

Experimentation and achieving orgasm don't necessarily require a partner.

The better you know your body with fingers and toys, the better you can
share with your partner what you want.

What Occurs During an Orgasm?

Not everybody experiences sex and orgasm in the same way. Therefore the
above list is a good starting point but not comprehensive. Sex doesn't have a
manual. That is the motivation of why exploring at the moment, and finding
what your body likes is paramount.

The process that leads to orgasm can be simplified into four phases:

Excitement - Initial warm-up

Slow progression - Specific movement that feels pleasurable

Orgasm Explosion of joy and discharge

Resolution - The refractory time frame.

However, this is a simplification as it is inaccurate to say that that sex ends

in orgasm since this prevents many ladies from demanding their orgasms by
trusting that sex is over when their male partners finish. But also, not all sex
requires an orgasm, and orgasms don't necessarily mean that sex is
excellent.
Orgasms can be short. They can come on several occasions in succession or
just once, or don't come at all. Try not to set the standard for your orgasms
by another person's experience. Orgasms are unique, discover your orgasm
with experimenting, communicating, and trying new things. Allow yourself
to discover all the processes to get to the orgasm.
 Chapter 11.
Kama Sutra Erotic Massage
The Kama Sutra talks about massages and the best places to give massages.
Some massages will lead to sex and some will not. A massage can also be a
relaxing gesture of love for your partner, who is spending time with you at
the end of the day. If you have massage oil, this will be a great addition, but
if not, that’s okay too. Use something like lotion to lubricate your hands and
avoid skin to skin friction. Warm your hands before you start so that it
makes them feel nice and doesn’t send a chill down their spine when you
first make contact.

When they are lying in a comfortable position, and you have lubricated
your hands, begin to massage them gently. The touch of a massage gives a
person a sense of being cared for, and it is even better from the person they
love. A massage is a great way to show your partner that you care about
making them feel good. After you have massaged their upper body or their
feet, begin kissing their body where you just massaged it and then progress
to kissing them on the lips. You can gradually move into touching each
other’s genitals or massaging them there. This is when it becomes an erotic
massage. you can give a woman or a man to lead them to immense pleasure
and enjoy a very sensual experience with them. An erotic massage is a way
to show love to a partner, a way to be sexually intimate together and a way
to make a person feel great without having a penis and vagina meet.
Knowing these techniques is great for anyone who is looking to try new
ways of pleasuring your partner in the bedroom.

Tips to Give an Erotic Massage to Him

A sort of erotic massage that you can try giving to a male partner is the
prostate massage. As you know now, the prostate is a small gland located
inside a man’s body between the base of his penis and his anus. It is
accessed through the anus. This type of massage is similar to anal play, but
it is not the same, as the goals are different and so is the technique. The
reason why it is better to give a man an erotic message here instead of on
his penis is that he will be able to last much longer without reaching
orgasm.

Performing this type of massage requires lots of lube for maximum

comfortability. Once your fingers are well-lubricated, you can slide a finger
or two inside of the man’s anus very slowly. You will have to go slow so as
not to shock the anus into closing tightly. You will need to work your way
in gradually. Once in, you will be able to find the prostate by feeling around
on the upper (front) wall of the rectum for a small lump that is rough in
texture a few inches deep. Once you have found it, you can begin to gently
massage it. You can move your fingers in circles and apply light pressure to
it. This massage has the potential to feel quite pleasurable for the man.
Communicate while the massage is occurring in order to give him the most
pleasure possible.

You can perform this type of massage in a number of different positions.

The man could by lying down while you straddle his legs, he could be on
his hands and knees while you sit or kneel behind him, he could lie across
your lap while you sit on a bed, or you could do any position that is
comfortable for you.

This massage does not need to lead to orgasm; at least that is not the goal. If
it happens, that is fine; however, the aim of this massage is just to provide a
relaxing and pleasurable experience for him.

Tips to Give an Erotic Massage to Her

This massage involves the entire vaginal area, which is called the vulva. A
Yoni Massage is a vaginal massage that is intended to open up the woman
to her sexuality, her pleasure, and her sexual desires. As a partner, you can
perform this type of massage for your woman to unlock her repressed
sexual energy and help her to get in touch with it.
This can be done in a variety of ways, but the position we are going to
debate is a hot water Yoni Massage. Begin by setting the ambiance, either in
the bathroom with a bathtub, or around your jacuzzi. Set up some candles,
some flowers, or anything that will make the surroundings relaxing and
calm. Begin by having her breathe deeply and focus on her body and its
sensations. You can get into the water with her for added intimacy. Begin by
slowly and gently massaging around her entire vulva and her clitoral area.
The key to this type of massage is to do everything very slowly. Begin to
massage her clitoris slowly and not with the intention of making her come.
When ready, and with lots of waterproof lube, slide one finger inside of her
vagina and gently begin massaging the upper wall. Here is where her G-
spot is located. Encourage her to express and release any sounds she
naturally makes. Move your finger in a circular motion slowly and with
your other hand, massage her pelvic area and clitoris. This connects the
inner with the outer. Continue to do this and let the experience unfold with
no end goal in mind. If she reaches orgasm, she can do so, but if she
doesn’t, she can just enjoy the pleasures that she is getting from your
massage. This massage is intended to reconnect a woman with her pleasure
and allow her to focus on herself and her body.

After this massage, she will feel more in touch with her body, and if
penetrative sex ensues, both of you will feel even more pleasure and
intensity of orgasms because of how engorged and activated her vagina and
clitoris will be.
 Chapter 12.
The Menstrual Cycle and Sex
For some there is nothing strange in having sex during the menstrual cycle,
others prefer to avoid ... in the middle, many "undecided" or doubtful
couples, between die-hard false myths, fears and sensibilities to understand
and respect. When it comes to sexuality, there are many topics still taboo,
but is the cycle really an invincible enemy of intimacy? Let's try to look at
the issue from different points of view, to clarify and give you the tools you
need to consciously decide what to do about sex and menstruation.

Let's start from the false beliefs still in circulation, first of all the
(dangerous) one by which having sex with the cycle you cannot get
pregnant. It is false, because on no day of the month can female fertility be
considered zero: ovulation can occur earlier or advanced than the central
days of the cycle, and in some months, there may even be a double
ovulation so fertile day are also more. And then, it must be considered that
the spermatozoa emitted by the man during sexual intercourse can live in
the woman's body for a time that varies from 3 to 5 days, during which
ovulation could occur and therefore the meeting between sperm and egg
mature that gives rise to conception.

Another misconception is that the woman who has sex during the cycle
cannot enjoy it: just as there are no physical impediments to the relationship
itself, there are none even to reaching orgasm. On the contrary, hormonal
"upheavals" (which for some women increase desire) and the lubricating
effect of the flow could also facilitate it.

From a purely physiological point of view, you can safely have sex with the
cycle: it does not hurt and does not affect the rhythm of the menstrual cycle
in any way nor the internal balance of the female body. At the most it could
accelerate its end, simply because the contractions caused by the
relationship cause the body to push the blood out faster, and therefore the
flow could end earlier than expected.

Sex with The Cycle for Her

Why, for some women, are those days of the cycle considered "off limits"
for intimacy? Sometimes it simply depends on the physiological malaise
that menstruation brings, while in other cases the resistances are more
rooted in the emotional or psychological sphere. These may be related to
the fact that while we are used to protecting ourselves using sanitary
napkins, having sex with the cycle instead means letting the menstrual
blood flow freely, which could be a problem especially for women who
claim to feel "dirty" when they have menstruation.

If you feel "unpleasant" because you are afraid of giving off a different
smell than usual, you feel swollen, your face is filled with pimples and the
hair is unmanageable, not to mention irritability, it is right to respect the
messages of the body and avoid forcing. But it is also worth asking if it is
not the partner, perhaps a little too critical on certain aspects, to amplify
these feelings of inadequacy, and find the right times and ways to talk about
it together. Making love (also) with the cycle, in fact, can represent an
important element in building the intimacy of a couple.

When instead you stop menstrual pain, consider that the uterine
contractions that occur during orgasm cause the release of endorphins,
neurotransmitters with high analgesic power. In short, having sex during the
cycle could also be a pleasant natural pain reliever.

Sex with The Cycle for Him

It does not always depend on women, sometimes it is men who avoid

intimacy when she is in those days of the cycle. Most often it depends on
the repulsion for menstrual blood, with which they prefer not to come into
contact. In their imagery, then, blood and sperm evoke totally different
situations that should not be mixed with each other. They are absolutely
normal sensations, which should not be experienced as a rejection of the
partner but only of the specific situation. You can still try to overcome by
reflecting on the fact that these are natural secretions that are part of the
female body, not too dissimilar from the blood flowing in the veins, and that
immediately afterwards it is sufficient to wash with water and soap to return
clean as before.

Practical Tips for Sex During the Cycle

If both partners are likely to experience sex with the cycle, there are a few
small tricks to keep in mind to make the situation even easier and more
comfortable.

First, choose the place where you feel most comfortable and spread towels
or towels, preferably dark and above all thick enough not to allow stains to
pass on sheets etc. If that is not enough, do not panic: as long as the blood
stains are fresh, they are eliminated simply by soaking the fabric in cold
water; if you notice it after a few hours, instead, use hydrogen peroxide and
then a little soap. Keep a good supply of paper tissues on hand, with which
you can dab yourself immediately (but also if you feel the need): they will
avoid stains and embarrassments.

To feel more comfortable, pay particular attention to intimate hygiene. You

can avoid or limit the problem of bad smell, which is due to the oxidation of
menstrual blood in contact with the air, often changing the absorbent and
washing yourself every time you do it. But be careful not to overdo it with
too aggressive detergents or with products that contain fragrances that may
not be very respectful of the intimate environment: use only specific
detergents, with neutral or slightly acidic pH (therefore between 3.5 and
5.5). If, on the other hand, you are using an internal absorbent, remember to
remove it before starting the relationship so as not to risk it being pushed
too far (and maybe then forgotten ...).

With regards to sexually transmitted diseases: we have already clarified that

menstruation does not act as a contraceptive and you can get pregnant even
during the cycle, but we add that you must not let your guard down on this
front either. On the contrary, menstrual blood is a vehicle of bacteria as
much as other vaginal secretions, so the possibility of contracting any
venereal diseases remains high and you must always protect yourself, so the
use of condoms is highly recommended.

At this point, it is appropriate to say that in love there are no rules!

Although there are no physical impediments to sex with the cycle, feelings
and inclinations remain that are completely intimate and personal. Dialogue
within the couple is also fundamental in this area, to avoid the creation of
misunderstandings and negative feelings that can ruin the understanding. If
on the one hand there is the woman who could feel rejected, or in any case
not fully accepted by the partner, on the other there is the man who risks
feeling "excluded" and not able to make her feel at ease. it’s her. Making
love in the days of the cycle does not necessarily have to become a habit or
the rule of all the months, but breaking these taboos together, or at least
trying, could lead the couple to reach a new and more intense degree of
intimacy.
 Chapter 13.
Positions for The Beginner
Sex can at first seem intimidating. Most people are familiar with missionary
position but what should be the next step.

It is essential to understand that while some positions may be ideal for you,
your partner may not like them.

Knowing a big set of sex positions is the base for having an excellent sexual
sessions.

Face to face

In this position both parties will be laying on their sides. You'll be facing
each other. The female will be slightly higher on the bed than her male
counterpart. This is so that her hips are above his.

One of her legs will wrap around the top of him and the other one should be
laid down straight. Sometimes this can feel a bit awkward but with practice,
it feels truly great. This is a fantastic position for beginners because it helps
you to gain comfort with your partner. It is a very intimate position that will
allow deeper levels of penetration. The closeness of this position also helps
both to relax and enjoy the experience.

Missionary style
In this position the female will be lying flat on her back and the male on top
of her. The female's legs can be in a variety of different positions.
Sometimes, she will lay them down flat on the bed while other times she
may wrap them around her partner's waist.

This simply comes down to what is most comfortable. Other people prefer
to have their knees bent so that their feet are flat on the bed and their knees
are facing the ceiling. Missionary position is basic but essential for
beginners. It is one of our go-to moves. It allows for different positioning
which can help both parties achieve orgasm more easily. It tends to be very
comfortable for both the man and the woman. You will be facing each
other, and this will allow you to focus on the level of intimacy that you are
exuding. Additionally, it will make it easy to communicate what your needs
are if the position needs to change slightly.
Spooning
You will lay in the spoon position. The female's hips should be above her
partners. The Top leg will need to be lifted slightly so that penetration can
occur. Sometimes this feels a bit awkward and you may need to adjust your
positioning to find a good level of comfort.

This position is fantastic for beginners because it allows for stimulation to

the females G-spot quite easily. It can be very comfortable once you find
the right fit. You won't have to worry about doing a whole lot of work but
both parties will be able to move fairly easily. The involvement of both
people is appreciated on both sides and it is likely that you will fall in love
with this basic position.

Cowgirl

Combination of a lying down and sitting position. This position is most

commonly referred to as the cowgirl style. To accomplish it, the male will
lay flat on his back with his legs stretched out in front of him. The woman
will climb on Top and straddle him. How she chooses to position her legs
should be in whatever position is the most comfortable. From here she will
have the ability to take control and ride her male counterpart. Beginners
love this position because it is easy to accomplish. It is important to note
that if the female puts her feet flat on the bed with her knees facing the
ceiling or the wall it will be a bit difficult to do this for very long. The
motion will be difficult on her thigh muscles. However, this can be
combated by putting one shin down on the bed and leaving the other in the
upward position. It provides great leverage and an excellent level of
penetration. Additionally, it will allow the woman to ride the man's penis in
a way that stimulates her G-spot.

Sitting Cowgirl
You can modify the Cowgirl this position in a variety of different ways. To
make it a true sitting position you simply need to change the position of the
man. Rather than him lying on his back have him sit with his back leaning
against a solid surface. He can bend his knees or leave them straight just
depending on what feels best for both parties. From there the female is
going to do the exact same thing as stated above.
It is important to note that some women will find this position to be
intimidating if they're lacking in, experience. This is due to the fact that
they are extremely exposed. However, as long as you have an intimate and
trusting connection with your partner it is definitely worth giving this
position a try. It can lead to excellent levels of stimulation and ecstasy.
Reversed Cowgirl

You can alter the cowgirl into another position by simply turning the female
around. This is referred to as a reversed cowgirl.
It provides a different stimulation to both the man and the woman. This is
due to the fact that the underside of the man's penis will now be rubbing the
front wall of the woman’s vagina. This type of stimulation can be fantastic
for reaching climax and providing mind-blowing orgasms.
Doggie style position

This is one of the most popular positions for inexperienced, as well as,
experienced people. Many find that this is one of their favorite positions
because of the level of penetration and movement that can be experienced.
In addition, men tend to like the view of their ladies from behind. To
accomplish the doggie style position is fairly simple. The woman will need
to be on her hands and knees or on her forearms and knees. The man will
approach her from behind. Her knees should be about shoulder-width apart
so that her man can kneel between them. He will then enter her from
behind.
More often than not the man will hold on to the woman's hips which will
give him some control over the speed and power of his thrust. However,
this position is also good if the woman wants to take control. There are
different variations of the doggie style position. Sometimes, the woman will
lay flat on her stomach and the man will kneel over top of her. This can be a
bit more challenging than a basic doggie style position, but it is also very
exciting. It will make the female feel tighter around her man's member and
heighten the level of pleasure that both parties experience.

Basic standing

In this position the man approaches the woman from behind and places his
legs between hers. This will give him excellent leverage. He will also be
able to grab her by the hips and control the speed and thrust at which
intercourse is performed. This position is extremely easy to accomplish and
exceptionally pleasurable for both parties. He will be able to play with
depth to tease her and truly provide her with a variety of sensations.
More than likely both parties will be able to participate in this position for a
decent amount of time as it is not physically demanding.
Sum up

Once you have experimented with these sex positions, you'll be able to
move into other ones. Understand that there are hundreds of different
positions that you can try out. We have only given you the tip of the
iceberg. There are many other basic positions that are easy to accomplish.
In addition, there are more advanced ones that will take some practice.
When you're comfortable with your sexual partner experimenting with sex
positions becomes extremely easy.
Conclusion
The Kama Sutra is the epitome of an intimate sexual relationship. This book
has covered all of the basics, especially about how the Kama Sutra is about
more than just sex. It is about the connection with your partner on an
emotional and spiritual level. This book is written to teach a novice about
how to set the mood, and how to hold your partner, with a few positions to
try out. The Kama Sutra is about loving your partner and showing them by
exploring every inch of their body. It is not about being considered a "sex
god," but about being an attentive lover. Remember, sex is an incredibly
important part of romantic relationships. There are a ton of health benefits
related to having sex regularly, including improved immunity, increased
heart health, lower blood pressure, pain relief, decreased stress and
improved sleep, better libido, and so much more. After reading this book, I
hope you were able to gain a fantastic understanding of past and current
sexual activities along with a variety of different ways to spice up your own
sex life and enjoy yourself and your lover on a more intimate and sensual
level. Sex can be as intimate or as shallow as you make it; however,
meaningful and passionate sex is almost always preferred. With this book,
you should be able to understand the initial purpose of the Kama Sutra and
the principles that surrounded it. One of the most significant issues in
today’s relationships is that people aren’t exploring each other’s bodies the
way they used to. With this book, I hope you can enter the bedroom with
confidence to please your loved one and the willingness to do whatever it
takes; and I hope they feel the same way. The Kama Sutra was right when it
spoke of finding someone compatible with you anatomically and attitude-
wise. Someone who has a high sex drive isn’t going to mesh well with
someone who has a low sex drive. You may be able to make it work on an
emotional level, but on a physical and sexual level, your relationship may
fall short. Granted, sex isn’t everything in a relationship, but it means more
to some people in a relationship than it does to others, so choose your lover
wisely. This book should have also shown you different ways in which
women may have seen you in the past and the future; the same goes for
women and how men view them. In modern times, we don’t care much
about the way people see us, but in ancient times, your reputation was
everything. This book can be an eye-opener to how some of your current
behaviors may have been seen in ancient times – whether that affects you or
not is your own accord. Aside from many asinine doings involved in
recipes, spells, and charms, there was also a lot of educational and exciting
information on aphrodisiac foods and which ones work the best. Some
people might not even realize the large number of foods that can be
arousing to specific individuals. We all have the things that arouse us –
scribble that in on the aphrodisiac p. It is very easy to slip into a life of
routine, which isn’t necessarily a bad thing unless it has to do with your sex
life and learning. Two things you should never stop doing: learning and
experimenting in the bedroom. Take the knowledge you have received from
this book as either a grain of salt or as your new sexual bible. I hope you
enjoyed it! So, to keep on reading this passage if you have some importance
of your partner and want to cope with a problem like premature ejaculation
and not satisfying your partner in bed. The connection of the bodies should
not end with orgasm but should continue long after both are replete. A man
and woman should come together in mind, body, and spirit. Such is the
essence of the Kama Sutra; such is the Art of Love.
 Joseph Flower

SEXY GAMES
FOR COUPLES

HOT AND SEXY GAMES FOR COUPLES.

ROLE PLAYING, NAUGHTY
CONVERSATIONS, QUIZ AND SEX TOYS
TO WARM UP YOUR NIGHTS
Introduction
Having intercourse is a sexual action that communicates the affection,
enthusiasm, care and other solid sentiments you have for someone else. It is
a delightful and passionate experience that can bring two individuals ever
nearer together. Lovemaking ought to be the point at which you and your
partner both feel loose, secure and upbeat. In spite of the fact that this might
be valid, numerous individuals worry when the idea of having intercourse
rings a bell since they are making a decent attempt to make sense of what
the correct method to have intercourse is.

Such a significant number of ladies can't accomplish their pleasure-potential

on the grounds that their man has a constrained perspective on what
lovemaking is. (On the off chance that you are straight, gay, single, wedded,
strange, poly, trans… it's all great… this lovemaking strategy can be altered
by you to your sexual fulfillment.)

Sex goes past the snapshot of infiltration. All that you're doing isn't paving
the way to intercourse. The entire lovemaking background can be orgasmic
when you realize how to bring a lady into her sexual personality state and
afterward give her stacking, growing orgasmic joy. Prior to making that
move to have intercourse, it is significant that you connect with yourself
first. What is simply the status of your regard? Having high and sound
confidence has a major effect on your lovemaking exhibitions. On the off
chance that there is something in particular about yourself that makes you
shaky, set an objective on overcoming that uncertainty. Continue chipping
away at it until you feel the security you feel great and content with.

Great and extraordinary lovemaking doesn't mysteriously occur

independently from anyone else. It requires exertion and investigation. On
the off chance that you and your partner consented to be cozy and are
encountering sexual movement together, at that point there is no compelling
reason to fear from investigating each other's bodies. Take as much time as
necessary to respect and contact the subtleties of your partner's body.
Genital contact has a greater effect than the vast majority think. Watching
your partner's body will develop your thankfulness for that person, just as
stimulate you more. The person will likewise feel joy and uncommon,
which is in every case great!

Discussing your intimacy with your partner may make you feel humiliated
or senseless, yet it is something to genuinely consider on the off chance that
you are not getting what you need and need behind those room entryways.
In the event that you don't discuss, your dissatisfaction will just increment
until you longer feel any craving to have intercourse with your partner. You
two have a sense of safety enough to see each other bare, so having a
discussion about it ought not to need to be an issue. Regardless of whether
you are in general happy with your lovemaking schedules, discussing
despite everything, it does great to your relationship since you will
recognize each other's extraordinary lovemaking aptitudes, value one
another, and move you nearer together.

Exercise consistently requires a decent warm so as to show signs of

improvement results. The equivalent goes for having intercourse. You
should never simply hop into it since it demonstrates the lower esteem you
put on the close time you share with your partner. Of course, there are times
you will need to be unconstrained and simply put it all on the line, however,
and still, at the end of the day, you can't simply request it and take it. Add
some sentimental fixings to your lovemaking course. Models would be,
going out to your preferred sentimental café, viewing nightfall on the
seashore, viewing a motion picture you both appreciate, giving each other
an erotic massage, scrubbing down together, etc. Discover what works best
for you!

Couples who have been as one for some time never again want to play with
each other. They feel it is something individuals do when they are single
and attempting to score with somebody. Being a tease is shockingly better
when you are seeing someone. You both know one another and have a sense
of safety; making you progressively agreeable to state whatever is at the
forefront of your thoughts. So, feel free to play with your partner and bother
that person into the room!
Sex Games

Why They Are Important for Your Sexual Life?

There are many benefits you can get when you introduce sex games to you
and your partner, which are the following:

Rediscovery

This is the first reason sex games are so beneficial for your sex life. Often
when we drift from our partners sexually or have decreased interest in them
sexually, it’s because we feel a distance from them in general. In other
words, it’s not necessarily a sex problem; it’s a relationship problem.

You may be well aware that sex is just one of the symptoms of an
underlying cause. Regardless, sex games will help you tackle both the
symptom and the underlying cause.

Sex games force you to laugh, work, and think together towards a common
goal. It’s this simple act of spending time engaging with someone in this
way, and having fun that many people have forgotten. Imagine you are
reading about one of the sex games from later in this book, and you are
gasping from laughter while trying to figure out how to best adapt it to your
situation. When’s the last time you did that with your partner? That’s the
rediscovery of them as the fun-loving person you fell in love with, not the
person who works too much and sometimes makes a mess in the bathroom
sink. Having fun together leads to rediscovery, and sex games are nothing if
not fun.

Novelty

Of course, the novelty and allure of something new is also a major part of
sex games. This is the feeling of first-time discovery rather than
rediscovery.
Your sex life might be boring simply because it’s boring. It might be too
routine. You might want to try out kinks and fetishes that you saw in
pornography. You might not even know what you like, so you want to try
out as much as possible.

The pleasure of novelty in sex is well-documented both scientifically and

anecdotally. For example, are you more likely to be turned on when your
partner has new sexy underwear, or when they whip out sexy underwear
that you’ve seen dozens of times? That same lust for novelty is transferred
over to the sex itself.

Sex games allow and push you to experience things you would never have
thought of. If imagination isn’t your strong suit, just leave that to me. I’ll
take care of that part and give you more than you can handle! You never
know when you might see something that catches your eye and uncovers a
trigger for your best orgasms. If you have the same type of sex with the
same routines and the same lack of creativity over and over, it’s easy to
understand why your sex life is suffering. Try out some games and make it
spicy and exciting again.

Tension

What is tension in this context? Tension is the feeling of anticipation for

something that motivates you toward it. Sexual tension is created when you
have the desire, but can’t necessarily take care of it at that moment.

Sexual tension is an important part of fulfilling sex life. Without it, you
likely have no desire.

Sex games create sexual tension because that’s how I’ve designed them!
They are designed to open your mind and do something where sex might
not even be the end goal. But, without your realization, you are more turned
on and aroused by the game, until the sexual tension boils over and you just
want to rip your partner’s clothes off. Take the most obvious example of a
sensual massage. Your partner orders you to strip naked for a full body
massage and soaks your body in oil. They also strip naked. The point here
isn’t necessarily to have sex, but once the hands start gliding everywhere,
it’s probably where it will lead.

Effort

Perhaps above all else, sex games represent intentional time and effort spent
in the pursuit of better sex life. This is the most important part of fulfilling
sex life – the notion that you must work at it, and it’s not a given for
compatible people. Many people assume that if their sex life with their
partner is not naturally orgasmic, then it’s a sign of the wrong partner.

How to Introduce Sex Games in Your Bedroom

You desire to venture the feeling of being excited about playing sexual
games to flavor up your relationship. But there is only one problem. How
do you convince your partner to participate in the idea of playing a couple
of games with your partner? Will they agree to play this kind of game or be
offended by the fact that you think your sex life is inadequate and boring?
This is mostly true in long-term relationships; the idea of talking or
modifying your sexual routine can also be inconvenient. But engaging in
adult games can be a great way to bring new activities into your love life
without feeling embarrassed.

Everyone wants fun and great sex life full of romantic intimacy, erotic
adventures, new emotions and creative foreplay, and that makes them
stronger. But most couples are not comfortable about telling the real deal of
their sexual wants and needs. Most of the time, we just need a signal that
it’s okay to be alive, playful, and bad, to give us the approval to release
controls over our sexual desire. The key is to start neutral by playing
regular games first to build trust and confidence. Then increasingly switch
to other levels of play, including more intimate desires.

This is a list of different varieties of adult-themed games with different

levels of intensity. Try some games for each level or category before trying
the next level. Adjust the speed you are going and be ready to level up if
any of you stray too far from your comfort zone, sexually. Common games
like cards, checkers, pool, and bowling let you play and have some good
times together innocently. Try to make your partner comfortable with
playing, and then crave the bet with a nice reward for the one who wins.
Come up with a simple striptease if you seed that the mood is on and right.

Sexy games are made your emotional bond stronger by slowing it down and
experiencing a connection with each other that is intimate. This can be real
books or board games with questions and romantic activities. Also, a
sensual massage or a shower gel for two can make feelings that are intense
and erotic between you. These loving exercises will increase your
confidence level so that you both feel secure with each other. Adult-themed
erotic sex games can be fun, based on curiosity, or to wake up your mind.
Obtaining more knowledge about sex and observing how your loved one
deal with certain erotic issues can make you a more sensitive, sensible
partner.

Camera games offer methods to blend different types of sensual pleasure.

These playful foreplay acts let you playfully hold and postpone sex while
you induce arousal and excite yourself in different ways. This will make
one motivated to try with new sexual techniques and positions which you
may not be able to do if you are not part of the instructions of the game. Be
more watchful of what you like and build your confidence in creative
lovemaking expertise.

Role playing games are intermediate sexual games in which you explore
secret desire and fantasies. You can unleash your inhibitions and let go of
shyness by pretending and getting into different characters doing acts of
erotic and sensual scenes. Maybe you can start by mimicking scenes from
books and movies. Try them out using only your imagination before buying
accessories and costumes.

Playing and having fun with each other is great for your relationship all the
time. When sex games and having fun bring you great feeling pleasure and
extraordinary sex, both of you are on the correct path. Building and gaining
confidence can be started slowly, and you will see that your partner will
greedily explore games and fantasies with you.
 Quick and Easy Foreplay Games for
Couples
A few ladies who accept that the way of men's souls through the stomach
lose a couple of inches. In all honesty, this is a reality. Ladies who can't
recognize food and sex are bad at cooking or in bed. I am not here to hurt
anybody's sense of self; however, I will likely share and educate all couples
who would prefer not to appreciate the fruitful specialty of adoration.
What's more, perhaps on the grounds that the kid or young lady couldn't
bear the smell that radiated from our reproductive organs or they thought it
was only an obscene thought. To wrap things up; they may imagine that it
isn't important at all or that it is an exercise in futility. These three reasons
apply to various individuals and couples. In any case, it's not as
troublesome as it sounds, yet foreplay is viewed as perhaps the best piece of
sex at any point designed by man before at long last having intercourse.

You should initially comprehend that foreplay or oral sex isn't untouchable,
as I would like to think I think it is only the start of the state of mind
upgrading act to increment sexual excitement before it enters. Let the
possibility of sex be the keep going thing at the forefront of your thoughts
when having intercourse. Indeed, the delight that originates from foreplay
and oral sex is more celestial and more honed than the real demonstration of
entrance. Before I get into the nitty gritty conversation about foreplay, I'd
like you to open your mind and dissipate all legends about it and attempt to
acknowledge it as something great. Coming up next are games that you can
play with your accomplice before sex

Drive

There is nothing better than accomplishing something somewhat bizarre out

in the open or abroad! On the off chance that you need to have a fabulous
time outside, Driven Dare is perhaps the best game you can attempt! To
play, simply wear some garments, similar to a dark dress for her and a shirt
and some delicate shorts for her, and take a walk some place. Go to elective
spots to stop and afterward have the other individual escape the vehicle and
accomplish something incorrectly!
Attempt carefully challenging to go to a supermarket to purchase something
or cross a timberland region, in the event that you live in the nation. In
transit back, put your hand on your accomplice's pony to give him a thought
of what they need to do together later.

Inquiries Regarding the Path

Have you at any point considered what amount your accomplice thinks
explicitly about you? Provided that this is true, this provocative toy makes
certain to respond to that consuming inquiry!

To play Strip questions, simply solicit your accomplice an arrangement

from provocative inquiries. For each off-base inquiry, you need to remove
an outfit!

The harder you pose inquiries, the quicker they will be stripped and
afterward you will think about some troublesome ones like "Where was the
hottest spot where we had intercourse?", "What is my preferred mouth
position?" and "When was the last time you gave me a climax?" To cause
the game considerably more stunning, to request that your accomplice shoot
and evacuate a piece of clothing for each off-base inquiry!

Commitment or Truth for Grown-Ups

This turn on the great Truth or Dare game is ideal for getting ready for
foreplay! Simply alternate inquiring as to whether they need to respond to
an inquiry genuinely or dare. This is an extraordinary game to attempt to
more readily comprehend your sexual accomplice.

Some great inquiries include: "What is the hottest scene you've at any point
found in a film?" Ή "Inform me regarding your most stunning sexual
dream." If you decide to set out, make it simple, similar to "I challenge you
to give me your hottest striptease now."
Foul Play

Do you think cell phones and sex don't blend? Indeed, it relies upon what
you do with them! Filthy Game is a free grown-up just Truth or Dare
application that can be altered to suit all degrees of want. Accepting you are
on a first date and need to choose "Icebreaker" or relationship mode and
need to go straightforwardly to "Foreplay" or "Sex", this application won't
baffle you! Simply pick your level and begin having some good times!

Unfairness is ideal for posing inquiries and brave with truth or fearlessness
and can assist you with feeling progressively good speaking profanely with
your accomplice. At the point when you're all set further, the application
additionally covers everything from contacting to infiltrating sex, making it
perfect for foreplay, sex, and that's just the beginning!

Drink or Dare

In the event that Truth or Dare is excessively agreeable for your preferring,
take a stab at playing this variant with too little truth!

Thusly, challenge each other to accomplish something and cause them to

decide to set out or have a beverage! You can make the difficulties as
provocative or wild as you need, however attempt to keep them short.

Instances of manageable difficulties include: "Speak profanely to me for

three minutes" or "Reveal to me your preferred sexual position," while all
the more wild difficulties would resemble "Give me how you like to have a
ton of fun." This game is extraordinary for gaining more from one another
and investigating your cutoff points, so don't hesitate to utilize the Dirty
Game application for all the more brave tips!

Monkey See, Monkey Do

On the off chance that you are your accomplice and you feel great watching
pornography together, why not play a game with it? To play this game,
request that your accomplice pick pornography that truly turns them on.
Begin watching it together and request that they pick the best, most
sizzling, and most sultry scenes they can discover. The standard is basic;
you should attempt to speak to what you see!

In the event that you've at any point watched pornography and needed to
attempt it, all things considered, this great sex game could be your
opportunity! Now and then places that look great don't interpret well in the
room, while different occasions, attempting what you see can change the
manner in which you have intercourse until the end of time! You will can't
be sure whether you don't attempt!

I Put It in My Mouth

To genuinely build your longing levels, nothing beats the good old blend of
sex and food!

To play this game, get stripped, blindfold your accomplice, and have a
delectable dinner arranged with a spoon. You needn't bother with a wrap,
any tie or scarf will do, and the food can be anything you desire, similar to
frozen yogurt, yogurt, or even a lavish pastry!

Since your accomplice is blindfolded, the spoon will wind up in a wide

range of spots and there is a straightforward principle: everything that is
spilled out to you should lick! Try not to stress; you can control your
language in the correct spots!

This is a round of extraordinary certainty and you will adore the vibes that
the other half licks your body! Where things go from that point, I leave
you...
Extravagant Bowl

To play this hot game, just compose your initial five plans on independent
bits of paper, overlay them, and supplement them in a bowl. Cause your
accomplice to do likewise. Blend the bits of paper, at that point alternate
picking one. Recite the dream so anyone can hear and afterward talk about
it.

The Fantasy Bowl game is a non-undermining approach to release dreams

that you would some way or another vibe too bashful to even think about
exploring. In the event that you need the discourse to make a move, the
dreams you offer can generally rouse you!

Profane Pretending Game

Pretending is an incredible method to depict your dreams as you infuse a

component of curiosity and energy into your relationship. An incredible
method to begin pretending is to watch your preferred show together and
calmly ask yourself resoundingly, "Consider the possibility that those two
characters are associated?" This can prompt some carefree where you and
your accomplice claim to be the characters and speak to the sexual moment
they might want to have.

One Moment

This pleasant sex game is ideal for overcoming any issues between getting
exposed and beginning foreplay.

Untruth stripped in bed, carry your accomplice to the entryway and pose
inquiries about yourself. They can progress for each right answer and
should step back for each erroneous answer.

On the off chance that you can hardly wait to have your accomplice above
you, pose basic inquiries, for example, "What is my preferred position?" do
I lean toward the tongue or fingers? This game is extraordinary for building
closeness and expanding enthusiasm levels; when your accomplice reaches
you, you will be not able to take your distant!

Bare: Meet You

This game is ideal for making strain before starting foreplay. Rests on the
bed and, thusly, run your hands over your accomplice's body, making an
effort not to contact them! On the off chance that you get excessively close,
your accomplice ought to have the option to feel the glow of your skin. The
standard is basic; the individuals who incidentally reach should kiss their
accomplice. Keep your score: one point for each kiss!

XXX Denotes the Spot

The standard of this basic foreplay is straightforward: remember a specific

point on your body and request that your accomplice kiss each piece of their
body until they discover it! This game is stunning for investigating mostly
secret erogenous zones like the neck and internal thighs. These joy habitats
are regularly forgotten about during foreplay and sex, so this game will
assist you with finding your accomplice and EXACTLY know which zones
you need them to contact!
 Role-Playing Sex Games
Sometimes, in order to communicate with your partner, it is easier to be
someone else. In these cases, it is nice to escape reality and plunge
yourselves into fantasy. Here are some tips on how to make role playing
more enjoyable for all parties involved.

Plan Ahead . Role playing may be fun but except in a few cases, it
requires forethought. If you don’t express the scene to your partner, it will
be one sided and fall flat. Discuss with your partner what you want the
roles to be and how to achieve the ultimate goal – satisfaction for you
both.

Talk the talk . If you want role playing to be successful, you must know
what you are talking about. If you want to play dirty doctor and naughty
nurse, you may want to know a few medical terms. You don’t have to have
a PhD, but a few perfectly timed words now and then make the scene seem
more authentic.

Pick a role that feels right. While it is nice to pick a role that is totally
opposite of yourself, such as a tomboy playing the role of a model, it may
just feel wrong. Pick roles that will empower you and your partner.

Set the scene. Imagine you are a baker and all you want to do is smear
frosting all over your lovely assistant, then you want to have the frosting
and such available. Have props set up for your use and use the proper
rooms if available. Such as, this would be the perfect role play scene for
the kitchen with whisks and bowls being plentiful.

Dress the part you want. Does the French Maid and hands-on Master
appeal to you? Then you should dress the part. While this is not absolutely
necessary, it will add to the scene and heighten the appeal of the situation.
The more authentic a scene appears, the easier it is to fall into the roles.

Who are you? Analyze your character. What would your character be
feeling like at this point? How would they respond? All of this will
enhance the scene and make things progress more naturally.
Set ground rules. Just in case you are afraid things may get out of hand,
such as they can do in some scenes, you may want to have safe words. In
addition, you always want to have a judgment free experience. These
things should be discussed in advance.

Practice makes perfect . If your first scene comes out a little awkward or
things progress too fast or too slow, don’t worry. You can always do this
again.

Inspiration

Do you need help in how to talk dirty or on how to role play? There are
many places to go for inspiration.

It is a tried and true method – pornographic videos. While they can

sometimes be over the top, they do have a couple of scenes and ideas that
you can take from them to spice up your life.

Pornographic magazines – These magazines will offer lots of inspiration

on dress up ideas as well as locations. They are also a nice format for
innocent fantasizing.

The internet has lots of sites that offer articles to inspire you as well as
pictures. Just remember that whatever you look up on the internet is
viewable by others. This being said, the possibility of inspiration is
limitless. There are plenty of sites for love advice, the ins and outs of role
play and step by step instructions on how to talk dirty.

Books are an underused resource for inspiration. Even if you read a simple
romance novel, you will get limitless ideas that you can bring forth into
your bedroom – or any other room for that matter. On top of romance, the
genre of erotica books has expanded in the last few years and there are
plenty of them out there. You can even download the books in the privacy
of your own home.

The best source of inspiration comes from experimenting. Just have fun
and do what comes naturally.
It's one thing to have a thought as of now in your mind, yet now and again
it's pleasant to gather new plans to mix the pot. When you settle on an
engaging job or situation, where do you go from that point? You can tissue
out your characters with the depictions of exemplary situations beneath—let
the characters' inspirations rouse you to activity.

Chief

Corporate position figures dress faultlessly and have enormous work areas,
scratch pads, and attachés, telephones that need replying, correspondence
that requirements taking, and they frequently need to work late hours. The
weight is monstrous, and they require solid help. While meeting
forthcoming staff they generally need to discover what the candidate is able
to do, and the guarantee of sexual favors in return for getting the activity is
a solid impetus. Supervisors like to offer transcription to their secretaries
while allowing their hands to hands, rebuff terrible receptionists for ill-
advised dress or mentality with customers, coercion laborers for sex, scan
workers for taken Post-It’s and pens, and check for proper underpants.

Feline Burglar, Criminal, Biker

Outfits incorporate tight, perfectly sized, all-dark feline suits with veils,
gloves, and boots, "hooligan" clothing, biker calfskins (vests, chaps, shades,
handkerchiefs, counterfeit tattoos), and leggings over the face. Robbers,
lawbreakers, and criminals have sacks of plunder and rope (for climbing or
authoritative), can have battling capacities, may sneak up from behind or
cover up in the room, ride into town on noisy bicycles and "take" what they
need, or can be trapped in the demonstration of taking or being terrible.
They may exchange sex for opportunity, may accept sexual favors as
effectively as a valuable gem, put you over their bicycle and have their way
with you, or simply make extraordinary unknown lovers in obscured rooms,
rear entryways, or housetops. Cops like to get lawbreakers, know what I
mean?
Team promoter, Football Captain

The uniform may come out of retirement, from a true online asset, second
hand shop, Halloween store, or stripper outlet, yet they continue as
before:

Team promoters can be sexually unpracticed or experienced, searching for a

ride home, dressing in the storage space, showering with different team
promoters, under the grandstands, in the rearward sitting arrangement of a
vehicle after the major event. Football players can be young men perceiving
how far they can get, anxious virgins, spirited in the storage space,
discovered stroking off under the grandstands, or assaulted by a horrible
gathering of team promoters.

Specialist, Nurse

Great specialists and medical attendants wear white garbs, except if they're
in specialist's cleans. They may have stethoscopes, gloves, tongue
depressors, glasses, a clipboard, or different sexual assessment devices
including speculum and oil. A butt attachment can without much of a
stretch go as your rectal thermometer. Specialists and medical caretakers
analyze patients, take notes, pose inquiries both appropriate and unseemly,
test sexual reaction, give wipe showers, and take tests of tissue and body
liquids.

Legend, Heroine, Firefighter

Proficient legends, for example, firemen wear regalia, while others might be
standard residents who impractically spare you when you're in harm's way.
They are brave and solid, and in these scenes, enormous articles can be
lifted and unfortunate casualties conveyed to security, where they are
affectionately thought about with knead, clinical treatment, washing, and
exotic sex. On the other hand, legends may locate the sexual fascination so
extreme that before you are even protected you tear each other's garments
off, threat be doomed.
Human Dog, Pony, Pet

On the off chance that your dream is being a decent kitty, terrible doggie,
horse needing preparing, or any other kind of creature, you can dress in
your ordinary attire, an ensemble, or nothing by any means. Numerous
creatures require collars and some require chains, while others like horses
may require harnesses, saddles (or essentially covers, as horse gear is
costly), horsehair butt plugs, and a riding crop. Creatures can be prepared,
condemned, rebuffed for not going on the paper, made to drink from bowls
on the floor, petted and played with, prepared and washed and took care of
treats. They can carry on well or be insidious, scratching and gnawing,
being loving and licking, moving around, bumping furniture and legs—or
individuals!

Military Uniforms

These order regard—and they look amazingly sexy. Commanders, majors,

sergeants, and privates, Army, Navy, Air Force, Special Forces, and
Marines—bring in the soldiers and let the great occasions roll. Outfits for
military dreams are anything but difficult to set up, and an excursion to a
military surplus store can have you set for turning your room into training
camp by sunset. With military situations you train new enrolls, plus or
minus requests, defy the norms after "lights out," go on hazardous missions,
spare each other from peril, allure regular people, take detainees, or any
different lustful dream that genuine servicepersons would get in a tough
situation for.

Various Partners

At the point when you need to mess with the chance of trios, foursomes, or
bashes, you and your partner can pretend as though others are in the room
by running pornography out of sight, fusing sex toys as additional penises
and vaginas, and in any event, exchanging jobs totally. An "imagine" group
blast is improved when the open gathering is blindfolded; blindfolds make a
viable spread for a partner as pushing dildos into their mouth as they
infiltrate them all the while somewhere else. This strategy likewise
functions admirably in "sexual subjection" situations—for model, where
one gathering "makes" the other offer fellatio to fanciful members.

Where to Shop?

Exactly where do you get your apparatus? The Resources part is sorted out
by point, making points of interest simple to discover. For uncommon
outfits, numerous individuals scope out their nearby ensemble shops or
spare up cash and trust that Halloween will move around, loading up on
outfits and accomplices to last them year-round. Uniform, clinical, and
armed force supply stores will offer to people in general on the off chance
that you need authenticity, and stores considering strippers and drag
sovereigns can be found in most significant urban areas. Get inventive—
make outfits and frill, get thoughts for putting things in place from films
and books, and don't be hesitant to go to the texture store to buy counterfeit
hide to wrap on your bed for your Clan of the Cave Bear scene!

Pimp

Pimps and tricksters can be of either sex, and their sexual asset can be
ladies, men, Tran’s individuals—anybody the pimp likes. Pimps have cash
and style, however it's a misrepresented style that frequently becomes a
silly costuming experience—large caps, gold chains, huge rings,
ostentatious suits: Use your creative mind.

Pimps convince their moneymaking staff with sex, intimidation, and,

obviously, by "breaking them in." They can be unpleasant or delicate,
smooth or streetwise.
 Classic Sex Games
If the idea of role-playing games does not inspire you, you can resort to
simple erotic games for two. Playing in bed with a partner is a great way to
spend time and release accumulated stress.

Naked blind

Do not worry, this is just a game using improvised things, the name of
which the partner may not even guess. You won’t believe how many simple
household items can be adapted for erotic games - from a dust brush (clean,
of course) to a kitchen spatula! Make sure yourself. Sit down or put your
beloved on the bed with your back on top, and take such a position so that
he does not see either you or what is in your hands. It is better to blindfold
him to create a hotter and more interesting atmosphere (so the guy will be
able to express his wishes more frankly to you).

Take anything that catches your eye (lipstick, a cool tube of cream, a comb,
ice cubes from the refrigerator), and begin to caress your man, asking "yes
or no?” If the partner likes it, continue in the same vein, if not - time to
change the means at hand. Do it slowly, gently, slightly tease both him and
yourself.

You yourself will be surprised how many ways can be invented to give
pleasure to a partner using the pieces that we use in everyday life. A banal
massage comb or a silicone kitchen spatula is ideal for light flip flops on the
buttocks, and ice cubes can be completely crazy if you touch the nipples.
Unleash your imagination, and then swap places. Are we for fair play?

Sex-timer

It's time to remember what foreplay is! If you and your partner usually do
not focus on the foreplay and prefer to go directly to the main part, then
both of you will be pleasantly surprised by the effect if you change
priorities. This will help the game with a timer. You can set the time on the
phone or buy a special timer in a sex shop, which can later be used for
various speed love games.
The task of that particular game is that you both have to caress each other,
without going beyond the "below the belt". You should enjoy every touch,
every kiss, every stroking and whispering in your ear, keeping your hands
on the most interesting places and not moving on to penetration until the
alarm rings. This game will evoke memories of how great it is to just kiss,
teasing and maximally inflame each other's desire.

Erotic forfeits

A game following the example of classic forfeits for completing tasks, but
in our case, it will be erotic desires. It is better to buy a ready-made set of
forfeits, where everything is thought out for you, but you can try to make
them yourself, agreed with a partner, what tasks to add. To be fair, the
number of cards should be equal, and it is advisable to take the paper of
different colors (the classic version is pink and blue) so that during the
game you understand where women's desires and where are men's desires.

Formulate your erotic “want” together. For example, you write “do me a
buttock massage” or “I am your captive” (this means that he will be able to
do whatever he wants with you). And he writes “I want you to be a bad
girl” (here the role of “do whatever you want” goes to you) or briefly “69”
(where everything is clear without clarification). It is important not to peek
so that all desires come out unexpectedly for you and him.

Put forfeits into some basket and mix them. Then pull out one piece of
paper and take turns doing everything that is written there. This game is
cool in that you and your partner can share your innermost fantasies without
saying a word.

Card Game

You will need a deck of cards and a stopwatch

Give each one a few cards. Each suit means a kind of caress: Hearts -
kisses, diamonds - massage, clubs - penetration, and spades - oral caress.
Card value means duration in seconds; jacks, queens and kings - in minutes.
Depending on the set that you got, you will have an individual and
unpredictable caress program.

Tickling for strip

Tickle each other in turn. Everyone who started laughing or started to dodge
takes off one thing until someone stays completely naked. However, you are
likely to switch to sex before the end of the game.

How it works: paradoxically, but tickling causes strong arousal, similar to

sexual. And your undressing in the process of sexual games for couples
makes your arousal quite clearly bright.

Mirror

One partner repeats the actions of the other with maximum similarity. The
game is simple but incredibly exciting

Mind Reading

How to play: undress and sit opposite to each other, look into each other's
eyes, trying to read thoughts and guess what your partner would like you to
do with him. After a few minutes, share your observations with your
partner, and let him say whether you guessed right or not.

Maybe you will be pleasantly surprised by the wishes of your partner and
look at him from a new side. In any case, such a sexual conversation is
exclusively erotic and exciting. After it, you can make each other's wishes
the reality.
Fantastic Erotic Games

Strip Poker

The most fantastic of the erotic games that can be played in the bedroom is
strip poker. Often, in fact, one goes in search of very complicated
entertainment to stimulate desire, when perhaps the most effective one has
been known for decades and can be practiced at any time, without staying
to buy anything.

For those few who did not know it, strip poker is a very simple variation of
poker in which garments are used instead of chips. So, when you "open"
your hand or relaunch your bets, you will have to say you are willing to put
your shirt, your bra or your underwear on the plate. And to give them, in
case you get lost.

Therefore, a few materials are enough to play with it. Obviously, you need
poker cards and knowledge of the rules of the game1, but above all an
identical number of clothes. If the woman of the couple wears more clothes
than the man, it is probable, he must put on something else to balance the
bill.

In addition, the game is especially fun if you manage to create the right
atmosphere. We suggest a suitable and intimate environment, such as that of
the bedroom. The lights must be soft enough, so that you can see the fruit of
your winnings but without making everything too loud.

Finally, when you lose a hand and are forced to take something off you, it
would be good to improvise a small strip tease. Of course, it will be tastier
to see the strip of her socks than his socks, but taking it with a certain irony,
even the latter eventuality can be fun.

Erotic dice

If you don't like card games, you can get rid of the playful aspect and go
directly to penances. In specialized and online stores, you will find, for
example, dice that have been specially made to give you some interesting
ideas. There are various types and they cost a few euros, but if you want
you can also create them yourself. Just use, for example, traditional dice
and a conversion table (1 corresponds to a penance, 2 to another and so
on).

What can be found, however, in the various faces of these dice? For
example, in one there can be actions and in the other the parts of the body.
To be more concrete, in the first verbs such as "kiss", "suck", "pinch",
"touch", "blow" or "lick" and in the second areas such as "chest", "lips",
"ears", " neck "," sit "," navel "(or even worse, if you want).

Other dice, however, provide suggestions on sexual positions, like

Kamasutra. They are often dice with 8, 10 or 12 faces with real explanatory
drawings on the various sides. Rolling the dice, therefore, can force you to
try things that have never been experienced before.

Monogamy

This is the first real erotic box game ever made. It is called Monogamy; it is
produced by the British Creative Conceptions and is easily found in online
stores. The game offers a game board with a circular path to be used by
your pawn, and as you end up on the various squares you run into different
cards. These cards - 100 for him and 100 for her - each present 3 questions,
with 3 different game levels. In addition, there are also 50 fantasy cards.

The questions in particular allow us to investigate the couple's alchemy, and

prove to be spot on both for the partners who have been together for a long
time, and for the novices. In part, these are questions that investigate the
other's mind, in part they suggest moving to action instead.

Erotic twister

Monogamy is a game that must be purchased, and that must somehow wait
for you to get home. If, however, it comes to your mind at the last moment,
when it is already evening, to try an erotic game, you can orient yourself on
a different solution. Or use a classic box game, changing the rules.
This can be done with all games, perhaps with specific penances. Let's say
that in Monopoly you don't have the money to pay when you pass over
Victory Park: maybe your partner can give you a discount in exchange for
some caresses.

However, there is also a game that already in its basic version is very
suitable for an erotic evening: Twister. Remember it? It is that game in
which a carpet with colored circles is placed on the ground, and then, by
turning a small arrow on a dial, you understand where you need to put your
hand or foot.

Obviously, when we play in many we end up meeting in improbable and

improper poses. But in two poses they can also become subtly erotic. If the
normal Twister is not enough for you, you can change the rules. Maybe
placing a colored circle also on some sensitive areas of the body ("right
hand on green buttock").

Tickling

In some areas of the world, in fact, this ancient practice has come back into
fashion with the aim of preparing the couple for sexual intercourse.
Tickling, in fact, allows you to create the right intimacy between partners
and to touch in parts of the body that are not immediately sexual, but
nonetheless erogenous.

You don't even have to use your fingers, but you can use other tools. For
example, a feather passed on the neck (maybe behind) or on the back can
have a particularly exciting effect. Some films then taught us the usefulness
of using ice cubes, silk ribbons or even hair to caress our partner.

In this case, the important thing is to explore the other's body and find out
which are the most receptive and sensitive points, in order to stimulate them
adequately. Furthermore, the ideal would be to postpone the passage "to the
facts" as much as possible, in order to enjoy this long but vibrant wait.
 Oral Sex Games
While some might think of oral sex as a form of foreplay, I’ve decided to
cover it in a different part for a number of reasons.

For starters, there are several misconceptions about it. The very first thing
to consider about oral sex is that you should feel comfortable with it,
regardless if you are giving or receiving it. Make sure that you are doing it
because you want to.

Secondly, oral sex is something that can go wrong very easily. There are
good reasons why some people abstain from it. If you have thought of oral
sex as something unpleasant, though, it is probably time to change your
mindset or how you and your partner have been thinking about it.

We will focus on how to make of oral sex a more gratifying and pleasant
experience for couples.

Basic Game Rules for Oral Sex

Before going deeper into this matter, let’s talk about some ground rules.
Frequently, when oral sex is practiced, we mainly concentrate on the person
whose genitals are starring in the action. However, the one who gives oral
does not have to be there only to please the other person. The giver
shouldn’t just lick and sip unscrupulously. In fact, couples tend to forget
that if both parties are enjoying themselves, the quality of sex increases
respectively.

What is more, many women often complain that they feel arches, hurt their
neck, or stay with their jaws dislocated after performing oral sex. I am not
saying that a lot of men seem to be drilling into the vagina with their fingers
rather than properly stimulating their partner’s erogenous zones. What
seems to be prevalent among both females and males is that they often
forget that they can use their lips. Quite habitually, oral sex is performed
only using tongues.

What you need to keep in mind is that oral sex is not just about “giving”.
Once you change that perspective, you will notice that it is not tiring and
uncomfortable. When you start considering oral sex as a way to satisfy
yourself and your partner, oral sex will be something that both of you are
going to look forward to. In this sense, it is important to kick out some
myths about fellatio.

First and foremost, a blowjob does not have to be a job for women to do.
Men should also be willing to perform oral sex to their partners and do so
with enthusiasm and on a regular basis. The more comfortable both parties
are with this idea, the more enjoyable it will be with time. It is evident that
we all enjoy having a blowjob here and there. So, a first step forward is to
be open to give without expecting to receive in return. Do not wait for your
partner to ask you for oral sex. If you are up to the idea, be the one offering
it to them and see how your partner reacts. If you like to be the one
receiving, be honest with your significant other. While you might be shy
about it, being sincere will help you to improve your relationship in a
sexual and emotional sense.

With all of this mind, think about the following when having oral sex with
your partner.

When you are doing a blowjob, express yourself clearly. We all

like to know that we are doing a good job. This can increase our
desire to continue; it excites us and makes us feel sexy. We are
behind the wheel and we want to know that we are going in the
right direction. If you are receiving oral, do not be silent and
congratulate your partner on the good work that they are doing.
Let your partner know how much you are enjoying every single
moment of it. On the contrary, if you are the giver, the
possibilities of communicating might seem much more
complicated.
However, be creative and let your partner know that you are also
enjoying the moment. You can moan and produce noises with your
saliva, tongue, or hands. Do not assume that your partner is having a
good time just because they are the receiver. Read their gestures and
moves instead. Tell your partner to guide you if needed as well. It is
better to have such guidance instead of staying in the same spot
without your partner feeling anything.

Likewise, do not forget that comfort comes first. If the receiver

is not in a comfortable position, it will take longer to reach the
climax or even enjoy themselves. On the other hand, an
uncomfortable posture will result in a much worse oral
experience. The receiver or the giver may just want to finish as
soon as possible.

If you are going to kneel down, use a good cushion so that your legs
do not hurt at the end. If you choose to lie on the other person, try to
find a posture in which the knees are not anchored or your neck is
not unnecessarily contracted. Keep your hair pulled back so that it
does not get into your mouth and change position whenever you
need to take a break.

Take care of your personal hygiene. Nothing is more disgusting

than unkempt genitals when it comes to oral sex. Moreover, this
is even a matter of health precaution. Although you may have
never thought about it, approaching your partner's genitals right
after eating some pork ribs is neither clean nor pleasant. A
simple shower and toothbrush before having oral sex is
everything you need. Why not even start having fun in the
shower?
Do not forget that you can use your mouth to further enhance
oral sex. When practicing oral sex, you must remember that
your fingers can help to give even more pleasure beyond the
mouth. Use your hands to caress your partner’s breasts, thighs,
buttocks, or testicles. Women can use their fingers to stimulate
their partner’s prostate. Men, likewise, can address part of the
vagina at the same time by using their fingers.
 A full oral sex experience can’t be complete if you do not use
your hands to stimulate the erogenous zones as we have talked
about before. Think of this as a dual game in which you are
doubling the pleasure of your partner.
Do not dismiss stimulating yourself at the same time. As I
mentioned earlier, the fact that you are on the giving end does
not mean that you shouldn’t enjoy the occasion. While
performing oral sex to your partner, masturbate yourself or use
your other hand to rub your own erogenous zones.

Remember that self-excitement (when we are giving oral sex) is one

of the most important aspects to fully enjoy the experience. In
addition to simply thinking about it, let your partner know that you
are also having a great time. There are so many non-verbal ways to
do so, including looks, gestures, caresses, smiles, moans, etc. If you
can do that, the experience will be much more enjoyable.

If it makes things easier for both of you, depilate yourself. That

also goes for men! Beyond the shame of getting a pubic hair out
of your teeth hours after giving a blowjob or cunnilingus, it can
be a little uncomfortable to the giver. You can drown yourself in
so much pubic hair! You do not need to get rid of all the hair at
once; a little trimming can make oral sex much easier for the
giver.

Let your partner know if you are just about to ejaculate. Despite
what we see in porn, many women do not like to swallow the
semen or pour it on their face. To make sure that the grand
finale is as fun for her as the rest of the experience, it is
recommended to bring a hand towards the penis before
ejaculating and let her know that you are about to finish.

Although female ejaculation is not so common, a lot of men do not

seem to know when their partners have reached an orgasm and would
continue performing oral sex afterward. It is either because they cannot
feel the contractions with the amount of saliva or they expect something
quite spectacular to happen. Due to this reason, it is better to notify your
partner when you are having an orgasm. It is not only for the sake of
knowing that you have reached the climax but so that your partner can
improvise to make the end even better.

Be sure that your partner is also having a good time. Do not

simply walk away after the orgasm. If you reached an orgasm
first, make sure that your partner has their turn, too. Remember
that a well-rounded oral sex experience should have both parties
enjoying the moment.
 Hottest Sex Games
The Bondage Game

What you need :

Get a set of handcuffs or rope, a blindfold, and leg restraints, if desired.

Line up your favorite lubrication, sex toys, feathers, and other good devices
for teasing. Set a sexy scene by building a fire in the fireplace and creating
a luxurious and sensual spot for her to lie. Ask her to wear a sexy outfit of
her choosing, or buy her a new outfit—every woman loves presents!

How to Play :

When she comes into the room, greet her with a deep, passionate kiss, and
tell her how sexy she is. Serve her a drink, and then lead her over to the
pleasure zone. Gently restrain her hands and tell her that her job is to lie
back and enjoy the ride.

Once she’s restrained, it’s your turn to tease her as long as you like. Focus
on her breasts and work slowly: Fondle and caress her breasts, squeeze and
suck on her nipples. Next, move to her buttocks, then her thighs, and
finally, her genitals. If you draw out the teasing sufficiently, she may climax
as soon as you touch her clitoris!

To make it more erotic, restrain her legs, and add a blindfold. Use your
favorite toys as you tease her mercilessly: Use nipple clamps. At the same
time, you kiss her inner thighs, insert a vibrating butt plug as you explore
her labia with your fingers, or use your tongue around and around her
clitoris while you insert a dildo in her vagina. Stimulate each area, but then
move away before she even comes close to climaxing.

Why is it Fun?
Send your lover a note or leave a sexy voice mail and tell her you to know
she’s been working hard and feeling underappreciated. You have a night of
pleasure designed to help her unwind—and you’ll do all the work! This is
something that can bring a new sensation to each other and a way for you to
show how good you are in making her reach orgasm!

Dominant or Submissive

What you need:

A pair of handcuffs, a spanking item, and sex toys if you like to include it

How to Play:

Let your partner know that you want to play robbers and cops together as a
form of doing dominance and submission. One of you will play the one got
caught shoplifting, and one will play the cop representing the law, as a cop
or the dominant must be in control of the game. You caught here
shoplifting, and now you need to arrest your partner. Have them stand in a
corner, facing the wall with their arms and hands surrendering. Pat and frisk
down their body, taking more time on their waist, bottom, genitals and
breasts. After, handcuff your partner and let them turn around and command
him/her to perform oral sex on you or else.

To make it hotter, you can begin with a little game of chasing your partner
around the house and catch her then afterward tell them as a cop. You need
to do a strip search and slowly remove their clothing while breathing
heavily on their neck. Once you are done with your strip search and
frisking, command your partner to get down on the ground, legs and arms
on squats, face down. Search your partner on this position and fondle their
vagina or penis until they are aroused, either they are wet or hard. Now’s
the perfect time to perform anal sex with a toy (if consent has been given)
Why is it Fun?

This sexy game of dominance and submission is a fun way to introduce you
to this type of kink.

Drop the Dice

What you need:

At least 15 minutes of your time, sex toys and dice

How to Play:

Make two types of list and number them from 1 to 6. For the first list,
distinguish six foreplay or sexual moves like kissing, rubbing massaging,
biting, sucking and nibbling, and so much more. For the second
list, distinguish six erogenous body parts or “areas like ear, navel, lips,
areas below and above the waist, etc. Once ready,one of you will roll the
first die and the other one to know the corresponding body part from the
first list and what sexual action must be performed. Your loved one “wins”
that sexual act or foreplay from you. Once they did what was asked, switch
roles. It’s your choice of how many rounds you want to perform.

Why is it Fun?

This is one hot way to do foreplay before the main event, and you can get
creative as much as you like in making a list with your partner.

Classic Strip Poker

What you need:

Set up a sexy area in your house and a complete deck of playing cards. Try
to understand ahead of time the mechanics of the game with your partner.
For a classic poker game, every time you fail to win a hand, you have to
strip off a piece of the clothes you are wearing. Set up a stash of coins and
divide it equally for the two of you.
How to Play:

Start by Dealing out two cards that are facing down and one card facing up.
Agree upon a bet (a dollar or fifty cents), then continue by dealing out 3
pieces cards facing up and the last card facing down.

Highest to lowers Winning hands are the following

The royal flush

The straight flush
The flush
The full house
three of a kind
two pairs
One pair.

The one who is victorious of each hand will tell the partner which piece of
clothing he needs to remove. Look whether you can go and proceed to do
this drawn-out fore playing until one is fully naked, then let the winner
make a final decision on what sexual fantasy or act he wants the partner to
do. Maybe you can also add erotic elements like using sex toys, or using
only hand or lips and tongue to pleasure you.

Another version you can do to make things hotter is by letting the loser
perform a type of service like massaging a part of their partner’s body,
sucking the head of the penis, fingering the pussy or licking the breast of
the winner. Once someone is fully naked, proceed to a sexual fantasy game
related to gambling like a gambler having huge amounts of debt to a loan
shark and to repay, he or she must perform a sexual act.

Why is it Fun?

This is a great way to do foreplay and can have lots of variety on what type
of punishment and rewards you can give to you and your partner. If you are
the type who does not get jealous of seeing your lover do some intimate
activities with other people, this can also be a fun and sexy game to play
with your friends.

Timed Encounters

What you need:

A phone with a timer or a kitchen timer

How to Play:

Set the timer for a minimum of three minutes or even five minutes. Agree to
use those minutes to perform any foreplay you want to do and stop the
moment the alarm goes off.

Why is it Fun?

This creates instant arousal for the both of you that can finish off to great
sex. Not only it excites both of you, but the feeling of being desired within
those minutes will also make your libido higher.

Come and Follow the Leader

What you need:

None, just the two of you

How to Play:

Figure out who is the Follower and who’s the Leader. The Leader follows
their fingers and tongue everywhere throughout the Follower in the specific
way that they desire to be touched or aroused. The Follower at that point
needs to make similar moves and recreate them on the Leader. Switch roles
the same number of times as you’d like.
Why is it Fun?

This is great in building up sexual tension and anticipation and is a great

memory game that can be both fun and erotic for you. To make it hotter, use
food like Choco sauce or whipped cream put on your body in patterns he
must remember

Rip It Off

What you need:

Lightweight or old tank top, shirt, or underwear you don’t mind parting
with after the game.

How to Play:

Wear any of the items of clothing given above, and while on the verge of
taking off clothes, tell your partner to start ripping off any of the pieces of
clothing with either their teeth or hands.

Why is it Fun?

This a great prelude to rough sex, which is a hot way of making love. It
fulfills your desire to be wild and barbaric.

Mirroring

What you need:

Props you like, maybe some sex toys

How to Play:

One partner repeats the actions of the other with maximum similarity. The
game is simple but incredibly exciting. How to play: undress and sit
opposite to each other, look into each other’s eyes, trying to read thoughts
and guess what your partner would like you to do with him. After a few
minutes, share your observations with your partner, and let him say whether
you guessed right or not. Maybe you will be pleasantly surprised by the
wishes of your partner and look at him from a new side. In any case, such a
sexual conversation is exclusively erotic and exciting. After it, you can
make each other’s wishes the reality.

Why is it Fun?

This is one way for you to show your partner how exactly you like to be
treated in bed. It’s also a great way for you to show them several moves you
like to do to them.

The Full Course Meal

What you need:

Different Food and Drinks for each room in your house (you can also make
the feel of the room more romantic by using dim lights or candles)

How to Play:

Cook or buy a five-course meal (cocktail or wine, appetizer then a

vegetable dish or salad, a main dish and lastly a dessert) which must be
placed in every chosen room in your home. Go to each room and eat what
course is inside the room while doing an erotic move or foreplay move, and
as you progress to other rooms, you must also amp up your move to a
higher notch. Maybe start with kissing, to stripping each other’s clothes, to
sucking and some oral foreplay till you reach the main event.

Why is it Fun?

This is a fun activity that will not only make you enjoy food but a great way
to build sexual anticipation and tension.

Back to the Beginning

What you need: Just the two of you

How to Play

A pretty simple game of trying to bring back or reenact the first you made
love. Be detailed from where you had your date, to the place you had sex
and try to reminisce how you first felt.

Why is it Fun?

It’s always the honeymoon phase where libido is very high, and it’s always
good to remind both of you how it’s like to be so in love with each other.

The Hiding Spot

What you need

Cloth to be used as a blindfold, a necktie or something to tie the hands and

your choice of candies

How to Play

It’s a game of hiding and seeks but on each other’s body. Set who’s going to
be the Seeker and Hider. The Seeker will be blindfolded and his/her hands
will be tied and will kneel on the bed while the Hider will get naked and
will lay down, placing candies on several areas of their body. Once finished,
the Seeker must now search the candies using only his mouth or by kissing
 Fantastic Erotic Games
Strip Poker

The most fantastic of the erotic games that can be played in the bedroom is
strip poker. Often, in fact, one goes in search of very complicated
entertainment to stimulate desire, when perhaps the most effective one has
been known for decades and can be practiced at any time.

For those few who did not know it, strip poker is a very simple variation of
poker in which garments are used instead of chips. So, when you "open"
your hand or relaunch your bets, you will have to say you are willing to put
your shirt, your bra or your underwear on the plate. And to give them the
item in case you lose.

Therefore, a few materials are enough to play with it. Obviously, you need
poker cards and knowledge of the rules of the game, but above all an
identical number of clothes. If the woman of the couple wears more clothes
than the man, it is probable, he must put on something else to balance the
bill.

Moreover, this is especially fun if you manage to create the right

atmosphere. We suggest a suitable and intimate environment, such as that of
the bedroom. The lights must be soft enough, so that you can see the fruit of
your winnings but without making everything too loud.

Finally, when you lose a hand and are forced to take something off you, it
would be good to improvise a small strip tease. Of course, it will be tastier
to see the strip of her socks than his socks, but taking it with a certain irony,
even the latter eventuality can be fun.

Erotic Dice

If you don't like card games, you can get rid of the playful aspect and go
directly to penances. In specialized and online stores, you will find, for
example, dice that have been specially made to give you some interesting
ideas. There are various types and they cost a few euros, but if you want
you can also create them yourself. Just use, for example, traditional dice
and a conversion table (1 corresponds to a penance, 2 to another and so on).

What can be found, however, in the various faces of these dice? For
example, in one there can be actions and in the other the parts of the body.
To be more concrete, in the first verbs such as "kiss", "suck", "pinch",
"touch", "blow" or "lick" and in the second areas such as "chest", "lips",
"ears", " neck "," sit "," navel "(or even worse, if you want).

Other dice, however, provide suggestions on sexual positions, like

Kamasutra. They are often dice with 8, 10 or 12 faces with real explanatory
drawings on the various sides. Rolling the dice, therefore, can force you to
try things that have never been experienced before.

Monogamy

This is the first real erotic box game ever made. It is called Monogamy; it is
produced by the British Creative Conceptions and is easily found in online
stores. The game offers a game board with a circular path to be used by
your pawn, and as you end up on the various squares you run into different
cards. These cards - 100 for him and 100 for her - each present 3 questions,
with 3 different game levels. In addition, there are also 50 fantasy cards.

The questions in particular allow us to investigate the couple's alchemy, and

prove to be spot on both for the partners who have been together for a long
time, and for the novices. In part, these are questions that investigate the
other's mind, in part they suggest moving to action instead.

Erotic Twister

Monogamy is a game that must be purchased, and that must somehow wait
for you to get home. If, however, it comes to your mind at the last moment,
when it is already evening, to try an erotic game, you can orient yourself on
a different solution. Use a classic box game, changing the rules.
This can be done with all games, perhaps with specific penances. Let's say
that in Monopoly you don't have the money to pay when you pass over
Victory Park: maybe your partner can give you a discount in exchange for
some caresses.

However, there is also a game that already in its basic version is very
suitable for an erotic evening: Twister. Remember it? It is that game in
which a carpet with colored circles is placed on the ground, and then, by
turning a small arrow on a dial, you understand where you need to put your
hand or foot.

Obviously, when we play in many, we end up meeting in improbable and

improper poses. But in two poses they can also become subtly erotic. If the
normal Twister is not enough for you, you can change the rules. Maybe
placing a colored circle also on some sensitive areas of the body ("right
hand on green buttock").

Tickling

In some areas of the world, in fact, this ancient practice has come back into
fashion with the aim of preparing the couple for sexual intercourse.
Tickling, in fact, allows you to create the right intimacy between partners
and to touch in parts of the body that are not immediately sexual, but
nonetheless erogenous.

You need not to use your fingers, but you can use other tools. For example,
a feather passed on the neck (maybe behind) or on the back can have a
particularly exciting effect. Some films then taught us the usefulness of
using ice cubes, silk ribbons or even hair to caress our partner.

In this case, the important thing is to explore the other's body and find out
which are the most receptive and sensitive points, in order to stimulate them
adequately. Furthermore, the ideal would be to postpone the passage "to the
facts" as much as possible, in order to enjoy this long but vibrant wait.
Lust

We told you about Monogamy, the perfect box game for couples. Well,
that's not the only one you can use if you want to liven up an evening.
Another available on the market is called Lust, and it is no coincidence that
it is presented as a "Passion Play", a game of passion.

The game involves two players, who, through cards or specific moves,
arrive at the end of a game by getting the suggestion of some sexual
positions to explore. There are many combinations, more than 30,000, so
that every time you can venture into an ever-new experience.

Erotic Heart

Erotic Heart is also based on more or less the same principles, another game
for couples that is actually marketed under various different names
depending on the importer. However, its name is due to the fact that it is
presented, right from the box, in a heart-shaped container.

Inside there are several rolled up notes, which the partners can fish one at a
time. In each one is indicated a penance, but a very sweet penance, since it
has an erotic nature that will surely be appreciated by the companion or
companion.

Soft Bondage

There are also easier games to put into practice, for which there is no need
to spend money or go to some shop. For example, bondage, practiced for a
very long time even with very simple objects, such as ribbons or
handkerchiefs (or even handcuffs and ropes, when you want to do things
big).

Well, the game can be nice, especially if done in an undemanding way. In

fact, soft bondage does not involve dangerous bonds, but only a few small
games with laces and ribbons, preferably made of silk, in which to pretend
and simulate even a little.

Smeared Food

Have you seen 9 1/2 weeks? The scene in which Mickey Rourke passes an
ice cube over Kim Basinger's body is famous in that film. It is a very erotic
scene, which at the time many tried to replicate even in the closet of their
bedroom.

You don't have to use ice, actually. Indeed, with other elements - and in
particular with food - the experience can be even more intriguing. Think for
example of whipped cream, or strawberries, which are also aphrodisiac. In
short, even here the fantasy is the master.

Erotic Apps

If your imagination doesn't really help to invent new sex games, you can
resort to some erotic apps to install on your smartphone. For example, there
is Planet Pron, a wide selection of videos and free images to whet your
imagination, while for couple’s sex games you can choose between
Ultimate Sex Games for Couples for iPhone and The Foreplay Game for
Android. If you want to try tantric sex instead, there is a Tantric Sex Deck.
The important thing is that the apps are helpful for experimenting. The
phone must not become an annoying third party! Unless you decide to use it
for sexting: if a couple is forced to stay away, they can still carve out a
spicy moment. In fact, at a distance you can exchange sexy images, perhaps
through an app that does not leave a mark like Snapchat, and messages with
a high erotic content. The only precaution is to always be attentive to
privacy, and to do sexting only with a person you trust, in order to avoid
unpleasant inconveniences such as the diffusion of photos and screenshots
of the chats.
 Kissing Games
1. Sexy Mood Match Game

What You Need:

With your partner, come up and list different sets of foreplay acts for every
13 values of the card from King to ace of a standard deck of cards.

Next is to Shuffle and deal out all the cards facing down so that you and
your partner will have equal halves of the deck. Make sure no one peeks.

How to Play:

This game is a hot and sexy version of the Snap Card Game. This is a quick
sex game where sensual foreplay, hot make-out session, and stripping can
happen if you both have matching cards. Each type of card is representing
an erotic foreplay act that both of you desire. Take turns in giving foreplay
to each other to get both of you horny for the main event. Between the two
of you, the one who gets to win more cards will receive an extra sexual
reward or favor -which will depend on what you wish to experience.

Both players will turn over their first card from the stack at the same time
and put them facing up next to each other. Look if these two cards match. If
it does not match, continue to flip over cards until cards match. At this
point, both of you must shout the sexy mood is matching the cards. The on
one shout first will win that foreplay. Instead of snap, shout the following
words:

If two cards are both red, shout “Lick.”

If two cards are both black, shout “Suck.”
If two cards are both red & black, shout “Fuck.”

But in those instances where you shout the words at the same time, you
must both perform the act to each other.
If you call out the cards wrong, you must face a punishment, which is the
following.

You must strip off a piece of your clothes and surrender your cards to your
partner if you called out the wrong type of matching cards. But no one
among you will receive a sexual act or foreplay. If one of you is completely
naked, you need to surrender your deck of cards.

If you did shout a match, but it does not exist, you must do the
corresponding foreplay act as indicated by the top card of your partner. In
this instance, you can keep your cards.

Shuffle and turn over cards facing down when one of you run out of cards
then continue the game. You can play this on limited time of 10 to 20
minutes per set or per round or until will win most cards. The person with
the most collected cards at the end of the game will win and will receive
their special sexual favor or reward to be performed by the loser.

Q- Hug and passionately kiss each other.

P

P- Massage any part of your body.

Q
Q- Tenderly stroke, caress and kiss an exposed erogenous
N zone.

N- Kneeling, kiss and lick your belly, hips and thighs.

Q

Q- Enjoy as you caress and fondle your partner’s body.

B

B- Expose and allow you to lick and suck their nipples.

Q

Q- Sensual manual genital stimulation.

R

R- Stimulate you with a sex toy (visual stimulation counts)

Q

Q- Ladies' choice of any foreplay activity for both of you.

Q

Q- Orally pleasure you.

K

K- Ass play - sensual spanking, massage, butt plug, etc.

Q
You and your partner can play as many rounds as you can, and I suggest
you come up with a different set of foreplay acts per game.

Maybe you can also do another element of stripping clothes by making

Jokers part of the deck cards. If both of you get matching jokers, the word
to shout is “Strip.” The one who says it last will need to remove his clothing
using one hand.

2. Queens Gone Wild

What you need:

For a two-player game, prepare a regular chess board complete with its
pieces. With your partner, make a list of different activities involving
foreplay when a piece takes a queen or vice versa. Do write down erotic
rewards for each piece that has the chance to take the King to finish the
game

How to Play:

This erotic variation of chess is a foreplay game for your mind and body. In
this couple’s game, you’ll focus on your queen. Play your queen right and
your partner will do some stripping off clothes and pleasure you. Just like
most women, in this game, your queen gets to play more than once. She
won’t stop until you’re both have satisfaction

The main goal of the game is to let the King mate with the queen. You’ll
both have great rewards when you play with your queen a lot more because
this is where foreplay happens. Make sure to take the queen to have more
erotic activities.

Foreplay Activities Performed by Your Partner

Sex play Rewards

 P- Genital massage to orgasm using lube.
K

B- Intercourse missionary style.

K

N- Intercourse doggie style.

K

R- Oral sex to orgasm while using a

K vibrator.

Q- Intercourse in any woman on top

K position.

K- Anal intercourse (winner’s choice).

K

Make use of the classic rules of chess with a few modifications related to
how the King and queen are played with. When you take a piece with your
queen, your lover pleasures you according to the type of piece taken. And,
when you get the queen.
 Strip of any garment you have on
The queen will be placed anywhere on the half of your board by
your partner.
Your lover pleasures you depending on the way the queen was
taken.

Essentially any activity involving your queen means your lover pleasures
you in some way. The queen takes the queen's situation is special. In this
case, either choose one activity for both of you or take turns pleasuring each
other.

You must move out of check unless you’re in checkmate or stalemate, in

which case you must still make a move with the King before he’s taken.
Once the King has been taken, the one winner will be receiving a special
sexual reward based on the last piece of the game.

Play multiple games if you like to have foreplay of different intensities.

3.Bump and Grind

What you need:

For this game, you will need a Sorry! At the start, both of you must behave
complete clothes on, ideally five layers and articles on to make the game
longer and the sexual tension long. Afterward, sit together and make a list
of sexual acts or foreplay acts for each card value, in this case, 11, and then
mutually agree on the ultimate sexual reward of the victorious one.

How to Play:

This erotic and sexy version of the board game Sorry will have you, and
you're loved on strip off clothes and act out several foreplays that will make
your aroused and excited, to start the game, gather your pieces and put them
around the board and home in able to win this and great sex waiting. When
playing, every time you “bump “your partner, you bring them back to start,
and you must say Sorry, but in this version, a little playful fondling will do
the trick. Apart from that, you must let them take off a piece of their
clothing whenever you send it back to start.

In playing this version, we will just some variation on the standard rules of
the usual sorry game.

Do the corresponding act of foreplay for your partner when you

play a card, and you bumped your partner’s piece.
You must remove a piece of clothing to get ready for more fun
to come in the event that you get to bring a piece of their home.

4. Crisscross Applesauce
What you need:

All you need is a fingernail, feather, or other small, gentle scratching device
for creating the shivers. Set up a sensual spot for exploration and keep some
paper and a pen nearby for taking notes. Get naked together in whatever
way you desire or come to the game undressed.

How to Play:

Remember the children’s game Crisscross Applesauce? Then you know the
goal of this game: to bring out the shivers on your lover’s body. Have your
lover lay flat on his stomach. Straddle his bottom, sitting on his rear end or
lower back. Whisper this rhyme as you make the movements in
parentheses:

Crisscross (draw an X on his back)

Applesauce (rub his back lightly in a circular motion with several

fingernails)

Spiders crawling up your back (walk your fingernails up his back)

Spiders here (tickle gently under his left arm),

Spiders there (and under his right)

Spiders even in your hair (lightly tickle his neck, hairline, and head)

Cool breeze (blow softly at his neckline),

Tight squeeze (squeeze his neck or shoulders)

Now you’ve got the shivers! (Run your fingernails up and down his back or
anywhere close by) As you draw the X on his back, gently sweep your
clitoris and labia across his buttocks. Brush your breasts across his lower
back as you walk your fingers up his back. As you blow softly on his
neckline, run a finger down his spine, around his buttocks, and back up the
crevice; alternatively, whisper “hot air” on his neckline and press your
breasts into his back. For variation, use the Crisscross Applesauce game on
your lover as he lies on his back and alters the words and movements to
discover where he gets the most goose bumps sunny side up.

5. Guess the Flavor

What You Need: Candy with different Flavors like Jolly Ranchers or
Skittles, Water

How to Play: Eat a piece of candy without letting your partner see the color
or flavor of it. After eating it, let them kiss you and make them guess what
flavor it is. Take turns. Whoever loses will give oral sex to the winner.
 Sex Toys
Toys for adults and their history

First of all, it should be noted that intimate games are not a negative
consequence of the sexual revolution. If you delve into history, you can
trace that such intimate things were used in different eras. So, imitations of
the male penis alone were indescribable numbers.

In some countries of the ancient world, even religious attributes and folk-art
objects could be used for erotic games and pleasure. However, the presence
of such objects of an intimate nature often raises a number of questions.

Indeed, it is not in vain that nature created man and woman as diverse
creatures. A woman excites a man, and a man a woman. In bed, they can
perfectly satisfy each other. So, why are all these foreign objects needed,
what else is missing? It happens that a person does not have a partner for
some reason, but the need for intimacy doesn't disappear. A long absence of
sexual life and satisfaction does not lead a person to acquire harmony and
happiness in his personal space. In addition, the instincts laid down by
nature are extremely difficult to ignore.

For example, back in the last century, women were "treated" with their bad
mood with the help of various objects resembling the structure of a male
organ. It is worth noting that now many couples use various adult features,
and this is normal. After all, the body of each person is unique - someone
needs more time to get pleasure, but someone may have just a little and it
seems enough. Therefore, the use of objects of a sexual nature to achieve
orgasm is quite acceptable. Nevertheless, there is one more question that
scares many: what sex toys are suitable for use? This begs the question,
against the background of the diversity that can be found in sex shops. Now
for sex games you can find many items for every taste and budget.

Dildos
The penis, a highly functional male organ, is capable of exciting and
stimulating, as well as affecting some points of the vagina. That is why
dildos have the most anatomical similarity to the male genital organ in the
erection stage. Such items are made in various sizes, shapes and colors. It
should be noted that the male penis, on average 15-18 cm, when dildos, can
reach 35-40 cm in length. However, even here one should not abuse such
sex toys, in particular, of large sizes. According to experts, woman’s vagina
may be stretched by often usage of large dildos. As a result, a man has a
delay in ejaculation or its absence, and the woman ceases to feel her man.

Anal chains

A similar type of intimate object consists of balls that are interconnected by

units. They are made of plastic or silicone and designed to simulate the
penis during anal penetration. Sexologists are asking to pay attention to the
fact that this area is not entirely suitable for making love. This is due to the
high risk of anal injuries and the development of inflammation. Such items
for intimate games are not suitable for everyone, so before buying, you
should familiarize yourself with the recommendations for use and
description.

Vaginal balls

Now such balls are very successful. Kegel exercises using them are
especially popular. Such balls are not only created for pleasure, but also are
useful from a medical point of view. So, regular exercises keep the vagina
in good shape, thanks to which the woman gets an orgasm. Not
infrequently, doctors recommend connecting such physical activities before
planning a pregnancy. Also, many women claimed that having passed the
course of such exercises, childbirth was much easier, there were relatively
fewer ruptures and microcracks, and the vagina came into tone much faster.
Also, they can be used after childbirth. If you decide to start using vaginal
balls, it is best to consult a gynecologist who can recommend the optimal
size and tell you how to use them correctly. Often, you can find balls
decorated with rhinestones or stones, but these options are best not to use,
in order to avoid damage to the vaginal mucosa.
Erotic Swing

A very interesting product of a sexual nature, which can be useful to many

in trying to diversify an intimate life, in particular postures. It is not always
possible to apply various desired postures in bed, someone is not
comfortable, and someone cannot allow them because of physical
unpreparedness. Therefore, furniture for intimate games was created
specifically for such moments. It is worth noting that furniture of such a
plan exists in a variety of ways - it has a different design or is able to give
acceleration. What makes the closeness between partners more interesting
and memorable?

Erotic Lingerie

We can say with confidence that this is the safest way to diversify your sex
life. Especially, this applies to women's intimate lingerie. Indeed, today it is
so huge variety that you can please your loved one at least every day,
without repeating it. Erotic lingerie will always be considered the best
accessory in bed. Of course, you can’t directly say that this is a type of adult
toys, but it brings in its diversity and brightness into personal life. In
addition, for women, beautiful underwear is absolutely win-win option
during the seduction of a man. And according to psychologists, wearing
sexy underwear in everyday life allows a woman to feel desirable and
beautiful, playfulness appears. This allows not only to feel special but also
attracts men.

Sex positions and sex toys: how to correctly combine them

Sex toys can make familiar postures vivid and memorable. But what
intimate things to apply in certain positions? How to use them so that they
help, rather than interfere with the process? You can use sex toys in any
position, in different circumstances. But somewhere, a mini-vibrator that
works silently and does not attract attention will be more appropriate, but
somewhere a massager that connects to the network would be more useful.
When used, the sensations will be different, and it's interesting! With
intimate little things you will never get bored in bed, even after 10 years of
living together.

Missionary position with sex toys

The classic position for sex can be varied. A girl can widely spread her legs,
hug them partner or even throw them on his shoulders. At the same time, a
sex toy is able to additionally massage the erogenous zones of partners.
Choose a model to stimulate the clitoris, massage the genitals of both
partners, or use butt plugs for pleasant sensations in very tender places.

What sex toys to use in a missionary position?

Vibrator for the clitoris.

It is used to increase her arousal, to bring closer the onset of orgasm or to

help her experience several peaks of pleasure at once. The clitoral
stimulator is set to the desired point, it can hold it with your hands, and with
your fingers to regulate the impact. With a vibrating little thing, you can
draw some kind of drawing on the clitoris, but the vacuum model does not
move. It is the wave or vacuum stimulation that guarantees orgasm. With
vibration, the chance for her orgasm simply increases significantly.

Vibrator for a couple, which is a V-shaped device.

Used directly during sex. One part of the toy is placed in the woman's
vagina, the second touch her clitoris. In this case, the toy does not interfere
with the penetration of men. And wavering is felt by both partners. For her,
there is stimulation of the clitoris, entrance to the vagina and the G-spot; for
him there is a massage of the glans of the penis. The more modes the toy
has, the more sensations partners can experience. And ideally, if the device
is controlled from a remote control or from a smartphone, then you do not
need to reach for it.
 An erection ring with vibration.

An erection ring with vibration is put on the penis in an excited state and
prevents the outflow of blood, as a result, a man cannot quickly finish. It
does not cause discomfort, but it lengthens the intercourse by 20-30%. And
also a motor is built into it, which, in a missionary position, touches the
woman’s clitoris. Sensations of vibration enhance her experiences, increase
excitement and bring orgasm closer. This sex toy can help a couple
experience a simultaneous orgasm.

Butt plug.

If the butt plug is inserted into the anus of a woman, her vagina becomes
narrower. This increases the pleasure for both partners. And if the butt plug
also vibrates, then its vibrations extend to the entire perineum, which also
gives bliss. A man can also use butt plug, because in his anus there are also
many sensitive areas, and fullness helps to experience something
amazing.

Doggy style with sex toys

Position "on your knees" is very convenient for using sex toys. A girl can
lean on one palm or elbow, while the second hand is free to keep an
intimate thing. And you can try the vibrators that are mounted on the body,
they are used without hands. Additional stimulation of the clitoris in this
position is recommended, it is she who will increase the number of her
orgasms several times. And a sex toy will be appropriate if you practice
both vaginal and anal sex.

What sex toys to use in a doggy style pose?

Vibrator for couples.

The universal thing for any poses. Vibrates and massages point G and the
clitoris of the girl. And there are models that also rotate. There is the
submersible piece that moves in a circle, massaging both partners. A unique
thing is a vibrator, which acts on the clitoris not with vibration, but with
airwaves. With such an object, her first orgasm will happen in 1-2 minutes.
You don’t have to hold vibrators for couples with your hands, they do not
fall out during the process.

Double penetration nozzle.

In doggy style, it is worthwhile to realize the dream of many - to plunge

into both of its holes at the same time. And for this, you do not need a third
partner, just buy a special nozzle. The removable phallus is fixed to the
penis and scrotum of the man, and it seems that he has two penises at once.
The movements in both holes are synchronized, which causes a very
pleasant experience. The nozzles are always small in diameter so that the
girl does not experience pain or discomfort.

Mini vibrator.

The small vibrator can simply be driven through the body. Additional breast
caresses will please her, but it will be most interesting when the toy touches
the clitoris. Of course, the lady will have to keep such a thing in her hands,
but then she can easily regulate the force, vibration intensity and range of
motion. The ideal solution is a vibrator with three shaking legs that can
“hug” her nipples, clitoris or even ears.

Butterfly vibrator.

Butterfly vibrator is ideal for caressing the clitoris. The delicate legs of the
butterfly or its antennae will pleasantly interact with the skin of the
perineum. At the same time, the butterfly is sold with straps; you can fix it
on the body, clasping the hips. The palms remain free, they only have to
adjust the speed on the remote control.

"Spoons" or side positions with sex toys

The laziest pose is lying on the side. It is convenient to have sex when both
partners are tired. Sometimes it’s nice to start the morning with her. But
even in this position, sex toys will be appropriate. As always, a vibrator is
suitable for couples, it is universal. But you can also try a massager, it can
caress different parts of the body. An anal vibrator or even strap on will
help to get aroused.
 Sex Games with Drinks
It Takes Two to Tango

When we come to the point of talking about alcoholic drinks and sex
games, one can't resist the opportunity to think about the different classic
hot sex games you can do. To start, one just needs to have an empty bottle;it
can be a bottle of your preferred booze. Simply turn the bottle around and
act out the one being asked for. When the bottle points to your partner,
different types of kiss must be given to you. Also, in the event that you need
to add somewhat more flavor to the game, you can utilize whipped cream or
chocolate spread which of course will depend on what flavor you preferred
and if the end of the bottle points to your partner, he must lick it from your
body and indulge in whatever food you chose to heighten up the sexual
anticipation.

Sexy Coin Toss or Heads or Butts

The classic game of coin toss is transformed into a hot, sexy and dirty
version that couples will love. At each flip of the coin, both of you must bet
opposite, guessing if it will heads or butts. The one fails to think it correctly
must drink one shot and take off one piece of clothing they have on. The
games end when one of you is already fully naked, which will then pave the
way to more hot and sexy foreplay.

Boozy Body Shots

One of the most simple and classic sexy booze games, all you need to have
would be two pieces of dice, pen and paper, shot glasses and your favorite
booze. Write on the part of the paper the different areas of the body and fold
them, and indicate a number for each piece of paper. The player will then
throw the dice and get the corresponding numbered paper. Whatever body
part is written is where the shot of booze must be taken from.
Straight Face Is the Game

Provide both of you and your partner a piece of paper, each where you will
list 6-12 naughty, dirty and erotic words you can think of without revealing
them to one another. Once done, fold each cut piece of paper and toss them
into a bowl.

With each turn, you and your partner will take one piece of paper and try to
recite it so anyone can hear without showing even a bit of emotion. In the
event that you and your partner can keep a straight face, no consequence
will be served. Among the two of you, the one who will show a pinch of
emotion, a grin, laugh or cringe must take one shot.

Hot Vodka Twister

Balance is the main concept of the game Twister, and adding the element of
getting drunk will make it more exciting and way more fun. Play the game
the usual way, but to make it different, put several vodka shots and some
glasses with water on the sheet’s number. After spinning, drink the shot on
the number before you put your leg or hand on it. Lucky for you, if you
drink a shot of water. All this drinking, touching and getting close to each
other’s body will surely end up in the bedroom afterward.

Steamy Eye Contact Game (Don’t Blink or Else)

Here’s your chance to look into each other’s eyes deeply without getting
awkward. While looking into each other’s eye, you must be still and prevent
your eyes from blinking. The one who blinks will need to take a shot and
strip off one piece of garment. This game will heighten the feeling of sexual
anticipation and tension between the two of you. Maybe you can wear
provocative clothes, so you’ll make it more difficult for them to concentrate
looking into your eyes.

Body Treasure Map (X Marks the Spot)

If you are looking for a chance and a reason to kiss your love, now is the
best timing for that. In this game, your main goals are to remember where
you want to be kissed and licked with their lips and tongue. Give your
partner 4 chances in guessing where your preferred X spot is. If they are
correct in guessing, then lucky for you because you’ll be receiving some
kissed and licking on that spot, but if they were not able to guess, they have
to take 3 shots of your chosen booze. Keep playing, guessing and kissing all
you want until the both of you are horny and drunk to finish it off in the
bedroom.

Striptease Q&A

The first step in this game is for you to think of one word, may it be a thing,
person, place, animal or emotion. Don’t reveal the word to your partner yet.
Give them 3 chances in guessing the word and let them ask you questions
that you can answer with a yes and no for them to have clues. For each
question they ask, they must give an answer, and if it wrong, your partner
must take a shot and kiss you somewhere you like. If, in the end, they were
not able to give the word, your partner must do lap dance and striptease for
you, and of course, you know what comes next.

Blinded Erotic Touch

Blindfolds are known as one of the most erotic things you can use in doing
foreplay and seduction. The reason behind this can be that when other
senses are blocked, the remaining senses will be more sensitive.All feelings
will be intensified, and a simple touch before will feel more intense when
blindfolded. Having said this, if you want to make your next drinking
session an erotic one, this game is something you must do. The first step is
to have one of you blindfolded, then one who isn't will act as the guide and
put the index finger on several areas of the body (better if its the erogenous
zones) The once who has blindfold must then guess which body part are
they touching. If your partner doesn't give the correct body part, he must
take a shot, but if he does, you are the one who needs to take a shot.
 Challenge Sex Games
What exactly is a challenge sex game?

It’s where you are trying to accomplish a task during sex. It’s usually going
to be a task that involves some effort and focus, so it’s challenging to
complete both the task and a satisfying sex session. However, that doesn’t
mean we can’t try and have fun in the process.

After all, it’s through challenges and pushing ourselves to our limits that we
find what we are capable of, and what we truly like. Above all else, it’s just
fun to try to turn sex into a game for you to conquer. As we all know, it’s
easy to get addicted to games that we haven’t conquered yet, so these sex
games may encourage you to have sex more frequently as well.

These aren’t necessarily during foreplay or intercourse, they can be done

and applied whenever you want to liven things up.

Lava Monster

Remember when you were a child and you played on the swings, there was
a game where you had to stay off the gravel or tanbark? It consisted of you
swinging from bar to bar, and making jumps from one area to the concrete
and back.

Now, imagine that combined with sex. The floor (carpet, rug, wood,
whatever you wish to define it as) has suddenly turned into steaming hot
lava, and you can’t touch it! You can have sex anywhere but the floor, but
your task is to move from one room to the next.

You can take a maximum of three steps on the floor at a time, at which
point you had better hop up on a table, counter, or chair and start having sex
again. You only get three steps in between sex as well.

The more creative you get, the more fun this is. Start in the kitchen and
work your way to your bed with only a couple of chairs and a rug to help
you. How about figuring out positions that can work while one of you is
standing, and the other is awkwardly twisted, trying to stay balanced? Or
even walking through the house and stripping your clothes off, then having
to follow that trail of clothing back to the bedroom without touching the
floor underneath?

Remember, you can use more than just furniture. You can even, in
desperation, grab a magazine or blanket from nearby and throw it on the
floor to use. Be resourceful and have fun. It’s best to start moving from just
one room to another, and with plenty of objects in between. When you’re
ready for a bigger challenge, you can move across the house and back,
taking different routes, using objects that only allow for one person to be
stable at a time.

One Finger

This might be a challenge for some, and it might be extremely easy for
others! The task here is to make your partner orgasm with just one finger.
You take turns, and the one who can accomplish this the fastest wins. You
can use other props, such as pornography, but your physical contact must be
limited to one finger.

Men can finger, rub, and penetrate. You might think that the man has a
distinct advantage in this because it’s easier to focus on a clitoris as opposed
to a penis with one finger.

That might be true, but there are plenty of ways women can stimulate a
penis with one finger. Just focus on the crown of the penis, or if your
fingers are long enough, wrap it around for a one-finger hand job. If it
continues to be too unbalanced, simply move the goalposts, where victory
for the man means two orgasms, and victory for a woman means only one
orgasm.

This will again force you to be creative and resourceful and truly think,
“How can I make an orgasm happen within these boundaries?” After all,
necessity is the mother of invention, and you just might be inventing some
unorthodox ways to create mutual pleasure.

Chase That Feeling

This sex game is a game of nostalgia and trying to recapture previous

emotional and physical highs.

Each partner is going to think about the best sex they’ve ever had as a
couple – with that specific partner. Then, you will think back to all of the
circumstances surrounding it – what, where, when, why, how. Try to recall
as much detail as possible about it, even if you fill in gaps with guesses.

You and your partner’s best sex moments may not match, but that’s okay.
That just means you will take turns.

After you have filled in all the details about that moment, you will try to
reproduce that sexual encounter as closely as possible with what you’ve
taken note of.

If it was on the beach and you’re far from the beach, use some sunscreen,
put on ocean sounds, and sit on a towel on the ground. It if was in your car,
drive your car to a dark alley (or maybe just your backyard) and do the deed
there, playing the same music and wearing the same clothes. If it was in
your bed after a long date, visit that same restaurant and order the same
dishes before going home to do the dirty.

Just try to get the setting as similar as possible. This turns this game into a
fun planning event for you two as well, because it will make you work
together to build the scene.

As for the actual sex itself, try to emulate that too! Who made the first
move, what happened, what positions you were in, and how penetration was
first made. You can try to emulate the positions you used, and how and
where you orgasmed as well, if you remember that. Did they do anything
special that turned you on or surprised you? Did you cuddle afterwards and
gear up for round two or did you have to hide from your partner’s parents?
You are chasing an old memory, but simultaneously creating a new one, and
perhaps even improving on it.

Name It

This sex game will test your sense of intuition.

Both of you will be naked. One partner will be blindfolded, and the other
will be in charge of the game. The partner in charge will pleasure the
blindfolded partner with an object for up to sixty seconds, and the receiver
has three attempts to guess what the object is.

If the receiver is correct within those three attempts, then they are rewarded
with whatever they want for sixty seconds. If they are wrong, however, they
must change roles and blindfold the other partner. It will be more fun if you
get creative and don’t use sex toys. Instead, you can use household objects,
food, clothing, unconventional parts of your body, or even sports
equipment. You are only limited by your creativity what you can use to
pleasure your partner!

Keep Rhythm

Music during sex is almost always a plus to set the mood and make it feel
like you are in a world of your own.

This game takes it to the next level by requiring you to have sex to the beat
of the song that is playing. To do this most effectively, look up a playlist on
YouTube that changes songs or beats every sixty seconds. You can also set
your normal music playlist to shuffle if that’s easier for you. Just make sure
that the songs played after one another are random and different in speed
and rhythm.

Start this playlist when you begin foreplay, but you should really start
paying attention when you start intercourse. Keep the beat of the music,
stay in rhythm, and adapt when the song changes every minute. This will
give you plenty of variety to play with, and make sure that the male and
female have equal time on top, because the partner on top is essentially who
controls the rhythm.

It would probably be worth your time to build a playlist of 60-second

snippets ahead of time, just to ensure that the songs are of very different
rhythms and speeds. For example, songs from salsa, techno, tango, and
country are all very different and will make you move in a very different
way. At the very least, you might discover new music that you like.

Staring Contest

This is a game you probably played as a child or with your cat, but it takes
on a whole new meaning here.

This is mostly for use during intercourse. In this game, you and your partner
will only have sex in positions where you can maintain eye contact.
Missionary, cowgirl, side, whatever variations you wish to swivel into. Do
your best to maintain eye contact the whole time, and don’t break it unless
you have to.

The first partner to look away or break eye contact loses a point. This game
operates on a points system where the partner who has the higher score
(whoever breaks eye contact the least) gets to choose a reward.

The staring contest sex game is great for a couple of reasons. First, it makes
you feel more connected as a couple. That’s what sustained eye contact can
do, and it can make you feel like you can feel their soul, as well as their
body. You may notice this session turns out to be more intense than normal
for this very reason. Second, this becomes more difficult the closer we get
to orgasm – we feel the need to look away or close our eyes. That adds a
fun wrinkle, and puts you both on an even playing field!

Public Groping

We all have a little bit of an exhibitionist in us.

This game works by trying to touch your partner sexually as many times as
possible in public.

The scoring system is as follows:

Grope penis/vagina over clothes: 1 point

Grope penis/vagina under clothes: 2 points

Grope penis/vagina over clothes for 5 seconds: 3 points

Grope penis/vagina under clothes for 5 seconds: 4 points

Oral under clothes (must be at least 3 seconds long): 6 points

You can see what you might want to prioritize if you want to maximize
points! If you are caught, meaning a member of the public sees what you
are doing, then you don’t get the points. You can feel free to add different
levels if the above is too daring or too tame for you.

Set the boundaries of this game to be an entire day, a trip to the mall, an
errand, or out to lunch. Just make sure to agree on it beforehand so you
don’t end up fondling your partner in front of their parents.

Here’s where it gets better: even though you are competing, you can both
wear clothing that makes this easier for both of you. Skirts without
underwear, elastic waistlines, short shorts, large baggy shirts, huge purses,
big hats, and so on. If that feels too risky still, you can even alter your
clothes to make it easier, such as cutting holes near the crotch or in pockets
or pants so your partner can grope you in secret.

It will also help to think about specific locations where you can do this,
such as photo booths, cars, dark corners, public restrooms, behind
buildings, dressing rooms, and so on.

Public Groping can start as innocent fun, but can turn super-hot and build
incredible sexual tension, forcing you to race home unexpectedly from the
gym because you are too aroused. Errands never looked so good!
 Questions and Quizzes
Being sexual doesn’t always have to be touching and getting down skin to
skin. Some prefer being turned on by questions and answers that seems to
be really naught and dirty. That’s why listed below are some questions for
different occasions in which you and your partner can answer and be turned
on. We never know, you might know a few things about your partner you
didn’t know before.

Starting Slowly…Building Up

How many dates with a new person do you require before you
are willing to have sex?
Are willing to perform or receive oral sex?
Are willing to sleep the entire night in your new lover’s bed?

Not a Matter of If...

For the ladies, on a scale of 1-10, how important is the size of a man’s
penis? (1 = not at all important, 10 = a potential deal-breaker)

For the guys, using the same scale, how important are a women’s looks in
terms of wanting to sleep with her?

More Questions

How many times per week do you need it?

And how many times per week do you want it?
Which of the following would you never do?
 One-night stand

Group sex

Swinging

Public sex (exhibitionism)

Three-way

Cuckolding (Google it)

In terms of duration, how long is too long?

And how long is just right?

Guessing Game

If you’re in a group of five or more people, each person must

call out the number of other people in the room they’d consider
sleeping with. (Don’t say their names…unless you want to.)
If the group is smaller, each person calls out the number of
people at their place of work they’d consider sleeping with.
(Again, don’t say names unless you want to.)

That Thing with Her Mouth

Name one thing that if your lover does during sex or foreplay
that you’re powerless to resist.
In other words, after they do it, you become theirs.

Tit for Tat

If you have sex with someone and they orgasm, but you don’t,
are you upset afterward?
 If so, do you keep subtly quiet about it?
Or do you let them know?

Toys

Of the following items, name which ones are fair game for you
or your partner to use during a sexual encounter:

A soft whip

Handcuffs

A dildo

A blindfold

Anal beads

Whipped cream

Get…Out

In terms of earning a second date with you, which of the

following are deal-breakers?

Bad kissing

Your date was too aggressive

Your date wasn’t assertive enough

You had a mild argument during the first date

You had an awful dinner at a place you didn’t like

You had awkward sex on the first date

Sex in the Shadows

Choose which level of lighting you prefer during sex:

Total darkness

Dim, romantic candlelight

A lamp in the background and a window open to let moonlight

in

Lights on, baby!

Hard to Compete with North and Grey

Estimate the total number of hours you’ve spent in your entire

life watching porn.
Estimate the number of orgasms you’ve had while watching it.
If you said zero to either of these, break out the polygraph
machine.

The Tease

Suppose that for the next week, for non-serious medical reasons,
you couldn’t have sex with your new partner.
The problem is; you’re dying to get it on with them. After all,
you’re newly together, and everything is exciting with them.
Since you want them to be ready for action the instant the
weekends, would you tease them? If so, how?
If not, would you stay away from them so as not to torment
them?
Rare or Medium-Well

Choose your favorite style:

Making Love

Quickies

Fucking Hard

Marathon Sex

Just Get it Over With

White Flags

Give a number for each of these:

Approximately how many times (consecutively) would your

partner have to turn down sex with you before you:

Started a conversation about it?

Stopped initiating sex with them?

Considered having an affair?

Sex Scholarship

Suppose you’ve been dating someone new. They’re attractive,

smart, and funny. But so inexperienced sexually they’re
borderline bad at it. Would you stay with them and use your
experience to teach them how to be a better lay? Or move on to
someone else?
All about That Unnnhhh…

What style or genre of music is best to have sex with?

Name two songs you wouldn’t mind getting down and dirty
with.

A Quick Drinking Game

Which of the following would you be willing to do?

For each one you say NO to, take a drink.

Play naked Twister

Watch a live sex show

Watch your partner get a strip dance

Attend a naked foam party (Google it if you need to )

Have sex while other people watched

Evaporation

It’s scientifically known that, by and large, human sexual

attraction is driven by biology. Meaning that even if you love
someone to death, it is possible (even probable) that at some
point during your lives, you’ll lose your sexual attraction to
them.
If this were to happen to you or your partner for an extended
time, how do you think you’d cope?
Cream of the Cream

Describe the best single night (or day) of sex you’ve ever had.
If your current partner is in the room, it’s strongly recommended
you limit yourself to encounters involving them.

Read the Rest Tomorrow

If, instead of reading this, you could be having sex right now…
…would you? With whom?

Two Ships in the Night

Which of the following would prevent you from dating someone

you’re otherwise attracted to?

Different religion

Different race

An age gap of 10 years

An annual income gap of more than $30,000

A 90-minute drive to reach their house

Explicitly Speaking

Imagine it’s an average day. You’re sitting in bed alone. A

sexual thought pops into your head. On a scale of 1-10, with 1
being not at all graphic or arousing, and 10 being extremely
graphic and realistic, how explicit is your typical sexual
fantasy?
It’s like Pizza

A somewhat popular view of sex (usually from the male

perspective) is that even when it’s bad, it’s good. With that in
mind, is having bad or below average sex better than having no
sex at all?

Eons

How much time do you require between sexual encounters with

different partners in order not to feel icky?

(Fun Fact: During research, the average answer was a much shorter amount
of time than expected.)
Conclusion
By introducing some elements of the game in love with our partner, we can
kill two birds with one stone. First, you will get rid of the sexual routine. In
fact, after several years of married life, it inevitably arises. And if you don't
add variety to your intimate life, the consequences may be the most
unpleasant. Secondly, even during many years of living together, some
spouses cannot define or recognize what they would like to try in bed.
During sex games, there is an opportunity to reveal your dreams to your
partner, because even in a difficult situation, you know: it was just a game.
A balance must be struck between humor and seriousness. This moment
will allow you to enjoy sexual games. You can try role-playing games if a
script or erotic fantasy has matured in your mind. However, there are many
other games in which rules are only a conditional concept. Another way are
sex toys that allow couples to reveal their sexuality and gain new
experiences. Whichever option you choose, you will definitely spend time
with benefit, because sex toys are a mutual pleasure, an opportunity to
differentiate your senses and learn your partner's secret desires. Don't be
afraid to experiment and you will have the opportunity to rediscover the
enormous world of sexual pleasures.

I hope this book has been able to help you get ideas on how to deepen your
relationships with your partner and friends through games and activities. He
was right in saying that you can do a lot, right? I have recorded many
things, so I hope you have been able to choose one or two things that are
beneficial to you.

Most of the stuff here is simple but includes (a lot) drink, so keep in mind
that you should drink responsibly! Although you can make the games
public, I think they are best enjoyed in private, so you can go crazy, make
noise and be as sexy as possible.

With all the games, tips, reminders, and more, the goal is that by now
everyone should be excited and eager to socialize. Get rid of the stress and
discomfort of being around people and being ready to get out of here. By
meeting people, I hope that you learn more about yourself and are courteous
in the process.
Remember that this book is only a guide for you. It is up to you to choose
how you will perform your games and your dates.

The subsequent step is to focus, gather this courage, and bring game A.
Most importantly, relax and have fun.

I think these tips are enough for both of you. If I keep telling you the rules,
we will sit here for seven days and seven nights. Now it's your turn to
follow these rules and act.