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 How to be the dominant,
dirty talking, sexually creative
lover your woman desires you
to be...

Bedroom
Boss
69 Ways To F*%K Your Woman Like A Boss!

By Adam Armstrong
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Disclaimer:

Some of the content in Bedroom Boss is hard-core and explicit. This

book is intended for persons over 18 years of age only. The book is
also intended for personal entertainment purposes only and is not
intended as professional advice. You remain 100% responsible for your
actions at all times. The information in Bedroom Boss is to be used
with total respect for women at all times.

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 T A B L E O F C O N T E N T S

About The Author .......................................................................... 7

Introduction ................................................................................. 8

Chapter 1: How To use This Book .................................................. 18

Chapter 2: The "YES" Ladder ........................................................ 21

Chapter 3: My Top Secret Maca Loading Protocol ........................... 25

Chapter 4: Sexual Visualization ..................................................... 28

Chapter 5: What To Do Immediately After Sex ................................ 33

Chapter 6: The Bedroom Boss 'Nights'............................................ 37

Chapter 7: What's Next? ............................................................... 236

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 About the Author

Adam Armstrong is a sex coach.

He specialises in teaching men how to become better lovers. The reason why he is
able to do this so effectively is because he spent years figuring out why most men
are clueless when it comes to women and why so many women are dissatisfied in
bed with their men.

It wasn’t easy for him to work all of this stuff out, largely because most of the
mainstream sex advice to be found in magazines, on television and on the internet
proved to be inadequate. And the stuff in so-called “scientific literature” was often no
better.

It seemed that most so-called “sex experts” skirted around the real issues for fear of
offending people, or simply because they did not really know what women wanted,
needed and craved in the bedroom and much less how to teach men the skills
required to become dynamite with women.

Luckily for you, Adam has this stuff figured out.

He is not afraid to speak his mind and at times uses some, how shall we say; colourful
language! He might challenge your beliefs and seriously make you question what
you previously thought was true about female sexuality.

But if you go with it and read, listen and watch Adam’s programs with an open mind,
you will become a better lover and enjoy a superior sex-life than you ever previously
imagined you could.

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69 Ways To F*%K Your Woman Like A Boss!

Introduction.
Hey it’s Adam Armstrong here,

And welcome to Bedroom Boss.

This program is a step-by-step guide to taking the sex you have with your woman
to the highest level possible in the shortest amount of time.

So what do I mean when I say: “The highest level possible?”

Well, if you follow the steps I lay out in Bedroom Boss, in the order I present them to
you, you’ll have the following types of ORGASM working for your woman by the
end of the program:

• Clitoral

• Vaginal

• Squirting

• Anal

• Nipple

• Lip

• ‘Mindgasm’

Needless to say – once you have all those types of orgasm working for your woman,
she’ll be ADDICTED to you in the bedroom and you’ll feel like a total STUD.

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 In fact – you’ll be a total stud ;)

After all, being a stud isn’t about having a massive schlong, the abs of a bodybuilder
or the face of Brad Pitt. No, as far as I’m concerned, being a stud is all about being
able to give your woman MASSIVE amounts of sexual pleasure.

So that’s one of the major benefits of Bedroom Boss…

It’s going to help you unleash your woman’s true ORGASM POTENTIAL in the
shortest amount of time possible.

The second major benefit – and this one is closely tied to the fact that your woman’s

“
going to be literally addicted to you because of the amount and diversity of pleasure
you’re giving her – is what she’s going to do for you…

Believe me when I tell you that she’s going to do virtually ANYTHING you
Believe me when I want in the bedroom once you start giving her the list of orgasms I shared
tell you that she’s above.
going to do virtually
The reason why she’ll become so keen, eager and willing to please you is
ANYTHING you want because women are creatures of sexual reciprocation.
in the bedroom once
When I say that women are creatures of sexual reciprocation I mean that
you start giving her they are emotionally wired to give incredible pleasure to the person who
the list of orgasms I gives them incredible pleasure. This happens EVERY time.
shared above.
I remember dating this one girl who never showed any interest whatsoever
in giving me head. Absolutely none. However, I can remember to this day
what happened immediately after I gave her that first vaginal orgasm… she
greedily dropped to her knees and ‘sucked me off’ like she’d been doing it for years.

Like a total ‘pro.’

The change was freaky because it happened so quickly and was so huge. From no
oral sex; to totally LOVING IT. Such is the power of giving a woman truly incredible
sexual pleasure… they become overwhelmed with desire to PLEASE YOU.

The old saying “Good things come to those who wait” is certainly true in this case.
The great news is…

You don’t have to wait very long. What you’ll find is that with each new experience
you give your woman in the bedroom she’ll give you back a little more and she’ll do
it very quickly.

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So that’s the second huge benefit you’re going to get from Bedroom Boss – a
massive increase in your woman’s desire to give YOU pleasure.

The third benefit Bedroom Boss is going to give you is that it’s going to make you a
lot more SEXUALLY CREATIVE.

Let’s not mess around here…

Most men are HOPELESS in the bedroom. They suck. They have no idea about how
to give a woman great sex.

And one of the major reasons why they suck in bed is because they aren’t sexually
creative. They lack imagination in the bedroom.

This lack of creativity and imagination

leads to them seeing sex in a very
narrow way…

They always use the same positions,

the same room in the house, the same
time of day, the same dirty talk lines
and so on. And what ends up
happening is that their women know
what’s going to happen BEFORE it
actually happens.

Said differently – the sex becomes

boring and predictable for her.

This leads to her wanting less sex

(because it’s not fulfilling for her).

Then she’ll often resort to

masturbation and sex toys.

But after a while – the lure of

masturbation and sex toys wears off
and she wants the REAL thing. So she
CHEATS and possibly even leaves her
man for a better lover.

This happens.

And it isn’t pretty…

In the worst possible case scenario the cost of the emotional heartache, the damage
to the guy’s EGO, the impact on the kids and the financial cost of the divorce can be

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too much to take. Guys who end up in this position can find themselves in a
depression afterwards that is tough to break out of – that they may NEVER recover
from.

And all because they refused to fulfill their women’s sexual needs.

Bedroom Boss will protect you from such a fate and make your woman 100%
LOYAL to you not only because you’ll be able to give her a full and wide spectrum of
ORGASMS – but also because you’ll be so damn sexually creative that she’ll never
know what you’re going to do next.

And when she never knows what you’re going to do next – and the only thing she
knows for certain is that it’s going to be bloody GOOD – she’ll always be extremely
excited to ‘get it on’ with you.

By the time you’ve finished reading Bedroom Boss I’m willing to bet that you’ll feel
so sexually creative the idea of doing the same exact things twice in the bedroom
will seem stupid.

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 So now you know the benefits…
• Teaching your woman to have a wide range of ORGASMS in the shortest amount
of time possible

• A massive increase in her desire to PLEASE YOU in the bedroom

• Development of your sexual creativity

• ‘Cheat-proofing’ of your intimate relationship

…Let me end this introduction by saying this…

You’ve paid me handsomely for this book and I thank you for it. Once you become a
customer of mine – you become a friend for life. And I’ll do all that I can to help you
become a better lover and enjoy a better relationship with your woman.

That said, the following things are true:

1. If you read the book and FAIL to TAKE ACTION, nothing will change. You
have to TAKE ACTION. Taking action (putting what’s in Bedroom Boss into
practice) is what separates winners from losers… dreamers from believers.

2. If you keep your part of the bargain and do number ‘1’ (Taking Action) I’m
willing to bet that you’ll value this book at 10X and possibly even a 100X,
or 1000X what you paid for it. After all, who can really put a price on
knowing how to give and receive incredible sexual PLEASURE?

3. Once you’ve taken action, reaped the rewards and come to the realization
that Bedroom Boss is probably the best money you’ve ever spent – I’d love
to hear from you. To get in touch and let me know what you think and to tell
me about your success stories, simply drop me an email. You can reach me
at adam@betterinbed.tv

Now, before you rush off to Chapter 1, let me give you a friendly warning and tell you
that some of the ideas in Bedroom Boss may seem EXTREME…

They may seem a little over-the-top…

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 You may read some of the ‘nights’ and think “There is no way my woman wants that”
Instead of me trying to convince you otherwise, let me show you an email I received
from one of my FEMALE readers. She captures what women REALLY want in bed
better than anything I’ve ever seen written by women on the subject of sex.

What Jane does amazingly well is put into words what most women cannot. In the
short piece that follows, she manages to tell you exactly what women (usually
secretly) want, need and crave in the bedroom.

And you know what?

You’ll see many of Jane’s wants, needs and desires echoed in the 69 nights of the
Bedroom Boss program.

Here’s what she had to say:

Women Crave To Be Dominated!

From my experience, most men really don't have a clue how badly women CRAVE to be
dominated in the bedroom. I suspect that we women are often too embarrassed to
communicate this or admit to it to our men, and sometimes even to our closest female
friends.

For example, I am 34 years old and have had this desire – to be sexually dominated
virtually all of my life. Yet it was only once I spent an evening in the summer of 2010 with a
trusted play-mate friend of mine that I slowly began to embrace this aspect of myself and
this never would have happened, had HE not initiated dominant "sexual-play."

He began our evening of "play" by bending me over his knee and spanking me....THAT was
such a turn on...and it went on from there.

That aside for a moment I believe Feminist ideas of men and women's roles being
interchangeable through many or most aspects of life has seeped into almost everyone's
minds to various degrees and has many men and women believing that "dominating" sex is
unhealthy, disrespectful, and "twisted," or at the very least has people feeling guilty or
uncomfortable about their real sexual desires (as was my case a few years ago).

(continued)

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I say, as long as such sexual play is mutually consensual its natural and normal for men to
dominate women sexually, and that we women actually get off on it and LOVE it, if we
allow ourselves to do so, AND if it’s done in the right Spirit (with mutual pleasure in mind).

I personally have carried a fair amount of guilt and self-ridicule around because of my own
negative judgement about my strong desires to be sexually dominated and "used" as I like
to say. I don't just WANT this type of sex very badly I NEED it to get off... and, the more I
get, the more I want. ;-).

Also, just to clarify I don't seek to be sexually used by men and then discarded. NOT what
I'm looking for. I want to be "used" by a man who LOVES me, whom I therefore can trust
and feel safe enough with to surrender myself to him.

If you think about it, evolutionarily, it makes sense (in so many ways) that males sexually
dominate females in order to pass on their genes and that nature would evolve the
female species in such a way that we find enjoyment and immense pleasure in being
sexually dominated.

It is also worth noting that my closest girlfriends enjoy being 'dominated in bed' it turns
them ON. However, none of my closest girlfriends ever shared this with me until after I
disclosed my own secret sexual desires to be dominated sexually. My sister says all her
girlfriends like to be dominated in bed to various degrees as well. Coincidence? I don't
think so.

I should mention that this does not mean there isn't a time for tender affection and gentle
love-making there absolutely IS however when it comes to turning me on, and getting me
off I need a trusted partner who leads & dominates me sexually and who in the process
gets me to submit and release my mind and body to him.

In other words he gets me to let go - and surrender myself to him. I don't often do so
easily and actually I need a very confident, persistent, intuitive and DOMINANT man to
help me bring down my walls & relax so that I CAN experience the sexual pleasure I so
desire. This is why I like it when a man "takes" me. It is a HUGE turn on to feel like a man is
stronger than me mentally and physically and that I am at his mercy and he is NOT afraid
or shy in the least, to do with me as he pleases. It is SO EXCITING!

Let me explain what sexual domination actually IS, in my opinion. Well, as with anything in
life, there are variances from person to person. That said…

(continued)

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Here are a few examples of domination I have
experienced, which I enjoy IN the bedroom:

• His commanding presence / body language

• His confidence

• Unwavering low-tone of voice

• Intense unrelenting eye contact from him (at times)

• Being restrained

• Holding my arms behind my back

• Tipping my chin back & hold my head in place

• Being held down

• Sexual teasing

• VERY VERY dirty talk (which would sound degrading to some people.) e.g. being called his
"bitch" or "my little slut" or "I'm going to fuck your little cunt hard, till you are so sore you can't
walk."

• Pulling my hair

• Pushing me down to my knees (not shoving me down)

• Spanking

• Slapping my face (NOT hard)

• Being tied up / handcuffed

• Being blind-folded

• Choking (safely!)

• Hard/deep fucking

• Hard face-fucking / deep throating

• Treating me like he owns me

• Using me strictly for HIS pleasure at times (this is a turn on by itself)

• Covering my mouth

• Leading me by my hair

• Giving me orders (e.g. such as telling me what and how to do something. For instance, how to
suck his cock)

• Moving me in and out of sexual positions

• Being told not to talk or what I can say, such as "Yes Sir." "No Sir" and a chosen "safe word" for
when something is beyond my comfort zone.

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Obviously, as a woman, my first thought before engaging in this sexual behavior with a
man is how do I find a man who I can trust to be this vulnerable and submissive with, and
who won't think I'm tweaked in the head, and who won't take advantage of me? :)

Personally, TRUST is first and foremost before I ever consider exploring this kind of sexual
play with a man.

Conversely, outside the bedroom I want my man to treat me chivalrously and with real
honor and respect opening doors for me, discussing things with me showing me that he
really does respect and value my thoughts and feelings.

My most recent experience:

I unexpectedly fell madly, deeply in love, with a married man, who now appears to
(possibly) be a classic Narcissist. (Married, I know NOT good!).

While with him, I experienced the most gratifying sexual experiences I've ever had in my
life on all levels actuallysexually, mentally and emotionally. I was naturally very sexually
submissive with him and loved every second of it. We explored (a little) of the dom/sub
type relationship. I was nearly ALWAYS turned on around him.

Immediately, I became totally hooked on him and it wasn't long before I did not want ANY
other man. Quite literally, I was willing and wanting to do virtually anything he wanted, in
order to please him. I truly ENJOYED pleasing him. His pleasure really WAS my pleasure.

Since I knew my pleasure was very important to him, I never worried about "getting mine"
he was always a gentleman and would take care of me whenever possible. His dominance
and high intelligence (among other things) were what initially attracted me and I knew he
would be VERY HOT to be with which he was. He was very calm and smooth (fly under the
radar) type, but at the same time was a highly dominant leader, and a very sexually
confident man qualities that I'd CRAVED for SO long.

What I didn't know, was that it seems now he may have partially "faked" the emotional part
of our relationship or giving him the benefit of the doubt he kept "it" going as long as he
could before his wife found out, and then cut me off completely when she found out about
us. He has since faded away and I have not received a response to my last email.

Ultimately, my feelings and emotions seem to not matter at all to him at all which is terribly
hurtful as I've never loved or wanted any man this intensely. I am a highly sensitive and
emotional woman in the truest sense of the words. Needless to say, I was truly truly
DEVASTATED.

(continued)

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Men like this man are so RARE, and this was partly why I was willing to be "the other
woman", aside from the fact I've explored alternate lifestyles and am open to "sharing" my
partner. The bottom-line here is I want to be with an available, dominant man who is a
complete package and who won't exert too much control over me (outside of the
bedroom), and who has emotional depth and strength yet is VERY dominant sexually, and
who also is the benevolent leader in the relationship, but who on occasion, is willing and
secure with allowing me to occasionally take the lead (outside the bedroom) at times as
well, and be autonomous when I need to.

In summary, I believe there is a massive shortage of attractive, gentlemanly, sexually

dominant, highly intelligent, alpha-male types. How's that for a list of adjectives? :-)

I was even willing to share this man with his wife just so I could be with him. If this type of
man were abundant, I probably would not have been as compelled as I was to continue
seeing him, except for the fact that I was deeply in love with him.

Jane

Ready to get started?

Good.

Let’s get into it…

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 *** IMPORTANT: Do Not Skip This Section ***

Chapter 1:
How To Use
This Book
In  this  chapter,  I'm  going  to  talk  to  you  about
exactly  how  to  use  the  Bedroom  Boss  program  
so  that  you  get  maximum  results...

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Chapter 1:
How to Use this Book

I realize that this chapter doesn’t hold the emotional appeal, excitement and interest
of the chapters that follow – but I want you to take the time to read it anyway
because it’s going to help you to maximize the results you get from the Bedroom
Boss program.

First off, understand that Bedroom Boss

contains 69 different ‘nights.’
On each of these nights I
basically tell you EXACTLY
what to do to give your woman
mind-blowing sex.

Here are a few

things you should
be aware
regarding the ’69
nights’:
1.They do not have to be
consecutive nights. You and
your woman may have sex, on
average, 3 times a week. And
that’s fine. In that case, let’s
assume you ‘do it’ on
Wednesday, Friday and Sunday
in week 1. In that case,
Wednesday is ‘night 1’ in
Bedroom Boss, Friday is ‘night
2’, Sunday is ‘night 3’ and so on

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 2. If one of the ‘nights’ I’ve laid out for you doesn’t appeal to you –
LEAVE IT OUT..Don’t ever do something if you don’t feel comfortable with
it. You must remain true to yourself at all times

3. If the goal of a particular ‘night’ is to get a certain type of orgasm working

for your woman and you fail to get it working – try again on the next night.
If you do this, try to avoid repeating the night EXACTLY as you did it before
(remember: doing the same things over and over again eventually leads to
boring, predictable sex)

4. When I say ‘night’ – it can be ANYTIME of the day.

5. I do not lay each ‘night’ out by the minute. If I did this – it would make you a
mechanical and robotic kind of lover and your woman would HATE it.
Instead, I tell you the theme of the ‘night’, some of the techniques to use and
I give you tips to make the night run as smoothly as possible. Avoid at all
costs trying to plan the night out to the exact second – it must maintain the
appearance that ‘it’s just happening.’ If your woman feels like it’s too
PLANNED – she won’t enjoy it as much.

6. If you already have a particular type of orgasm working for your woman
and getting that orgasm working is the goal of the night, you can still
follow the plan for that ‘night.’ Feel free to add your own twist to the night
AND give her more pleasure (more orgasms) than I suggest, if you can

7. Don’t tell your woman about this book. You want her to lust after YOU, not
me! I’m being very serious when I say this – DO NOT TELL HER ABOUT THIS
BOOK

This might sound like a lot to take in, but once you get started – you’ll see
that it’s pretty damn simple and you’re going to have A LOT of fun putting this
into practice…

Nearly as much fun as your woman ;)

Let the games (or should I say ‘nights?!’) begin…

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 Chapter 2:
The “YES” Ladder
Here's  a  technique  that  is  used  on  many  occasions  throughout  the
Bedroom  Boss  program  because  it's  extremely  powerful.  A  short  
explana@on  is  in  order...

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 Chapter 2:
The “YES” Ladder

Throughout the Bedroom Boss program you’ll find many dirty talk example scripts.
These aren’t to be used word for word, but rather for INSPIRATION.

If you try to use them word for word – you’ll likely end up in big trouble because
your dirty talk needs to come from the heart… it needs to be based on what your
woman is doing and how she’s reacting to your physical actions and your words.

If you try to memorize my dirty talk scripts and use them word for word – she won’t
enjoy it.

Warning over –
let me tell you about
The “YES” Ladder…
In many of the dirty talk example scripts in Bedroom Boss you’ll notice something
called The “YES” Ladder.

I first came across the idea of The “YES” Ladder in the original book on Neuro-
Linguistic Programming (NLP) called Frogs Into Princes (well worth a read, by the
way). Click here to get a copy on Amazon

The idea behind The “YES” Ladder is very simple – the effects are VERY powerful.
The idea is that the more often you can get someone to say YES to you – in
response to questions you ask them – the more RAPPORT you’ll build with them and
the more willing they will be to do as you ask them (or tell them) to do in the future.

Needless to say – The “YES” Ladder must be used with INTEGRITY at all times and
with total respect for your woman.

When used in conjunction with dirty talk – The “YES” Ladder produces magical
effects and can be used to help you very easily ‘get your woman off.’

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The keys to making The “YES” Ladder work in
conjunction with dirty talk are as follows:
1.Keep your questions extremely simple. If she has to pause to figure out
exactly what you’re asking her – you’re questions are too complex

2.Only ask questions that you know for certain her response is going
to be “YES” to

3.Only ask questions in such a way that she can answer with a one
word answer. The answer being “YES”

To show you how this works – here’s an example script. Remember

to use it only for inspiration. Don’t try to copy it word for word…

Let’s imagine that you’re lying side by side with your woman
and you’re using your finger to stimulate her clitoris
during foreplay.

Here’s how you could

use a “YES” Ladder
to ‘get her off’…
YOU: “You love it when I touch you
like this, don’t you baby?”
HER: “Yes”

YOU: “You love it when I make you really wet, don’t you?”
HER: “YES”

YOU: “You feel so good right now, don’t you?”

HER: “Oh yes”

YOU: “You love it when I make you feel

good, don’t you?”
HER: “Yes I do”

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When you notice she’s pretty close to orgasm, say:

YOU: “You want to cum for me, don’t you baby?”

HER: “Oh God yes”

YOU: “You want to cum very hard for me, don’t you?”
HER: “Fucking hell yes”

YOU: “Come right now for me baby. Come nice and hard”

And so long as you timed The “YES” Ladder correctly and your woman takes you
seriously – she’ll come for you exactly when you tell her to do so.

That’s power.

That’s what a true Bedroom Boss can make his woman do.

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Chapter 3:
My Top Secret
Maca Loading
Protocol
Use  it  for  bigger,  harder,  stronger  and  longer-­‐las@ng  erec@ons...

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 Chapter 3:
My Top Secret Maca
Loading Protocol

If you’ve read my emails, blog posts and some of my other programs, you’re
probably aware that I regularly say that incredible STAYING POWER is not required
to give a woman incredible pleasure.

And that’s true.

In fact, there are many guys out there who last a long time – but bore their women
to tears in the bedroom. Seriously, whilst they’re thrusting in and out, she’s rolling her
eyes and thinking about going to sleep.

That said – having good staying power is better than struggling in this department
because it gives you options…

If you want a ‘long session’ with your woman, you can have one. If you don’t last
very long – you can’t. Simple as that.

So how about Maca?

Maca is a Peruvian root vegetable that
you can buy in powdered form
and it has been scientifically
proven to:
•Increase Testosterone levels

•Improve energy levels (inside and outside of

the bedroom)

•Give you a harder, longer lasting erection

•Blow a bigger load

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That’s a pretty nice list of benefits from a totally NATURAL, 100% healthy food, right?

Now, here’s the thing…

I’ve spoken and written about Maca in the past and recommended that guys take it
EVERY day.

However, I recently found some new research by David Wolfe* – one of the World’s
leading experts in raw food – and he was basically explaining how taking Maca daily
can dilute its power.

*If you’re serious about building HEALTH and living a long, happy, disease-free life –
I highly recommend you check out David Wolfe’s videos. You’ll find them on this website: http://
www.longevitywarehouse.com

So his recommendation was to take it on 3 or 4 days a week.

I tried this myself for several weeks and noticed even more benefit
than usual ;)

So, if you’re looking for a quick boost in your staying power and your ability
to blow the kind of massive load that women love – try taking Maca 3 to 4
days a week.

Shoot for 2 to 3 teaspoons, 2 to 3 times a day.

The simplest way to take it would be to stir it into a glass of juice. Coconut
water would be my preference and might enhance the effects, given that
it’s a powerful aphrodisiac.

Alternatively, mix your Maca into a smoothie and take it that way.

Whatever you do – just buy a high quality Maca powder (avoid the capsules
because they are crazy expensive) and get it down you 3 to 4 days a week.
A high quality Maca powder would be one that is both ORGANIC and
RAW. Click here to see one of my favorites...

You’ll enjoy the results!

Of course, for MAXIMUM sexual health and performance, a much greater battle plan
is required, including the right nutrition and plenty of exercise. For more info, check
out my program How To Last Longer In Bed.

The bottom line is that STAYING POWER is no measure of your ability to satisfy a
woman in the bedroom – but staying power does give you confidence and options.
And a true Bedroom Boss has to exude confidence.

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Chapter 4:
Sexual
Visualization
Here's  a  technique  that  separates  elite  performers  
from  'average  Joes'  in  virtually  every  field  -­‐  and  
how  to  use  it  to  become  a  much  beFer  lover...

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 Chapter 4:
Sexual Visualization

Throughout my life I’ve gone out of my way to surround myself with people who are
at the top – or very high up – in their chosen fields.

For instance - one of my best friends is one of the strongest men who have ever
lived – handy when I was competing in Powerlifting and wanted the very best advice
on how to get STRONG in the weight room.

My golf coach isn’t your ‘local club pro’ – he works with several of the top 100 players
in the world.

I have friends who became self-made millionaires before their thirtieth birthdays.
Perfect when I need business advice.

You get the idea.

When you want success –

it pays to learn from the best.
Think about it…

You probably bought this Bedroom Boss program because you think I’m one of the
best people around to teach you how to have a better sex life, right? ;)

Now, one thing that pretty much EVERY successful person I know uses on a regular
basis is some kind of VISUALIZATION technique.

They basically visualize themselves having MASSIVE SUCCESS before that massive
success actually happens for real.

You see, science has proven that your brain can’t really tell the difference between
something you VISUALIZE very strongly and something that happens for real. So
the more you visualize it – the more it’s likely to happen ‘in real life.’

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A great example of this phenomenon is that of my friend Andy Bolton – who is one
of the strongest men to ever live. He told me that before his last world record lift; he
visualized himself succeeding over 1000 times (!), before he actually made the lift
happen for real in competition.

He said that by the time the competition came around – he felt so confident that it
was inevitable that he’d succeed.

This CONFIDENCE was the direct result of VISUALIZATION (and a ton of hard work
in the gym).

He told me that he’d go to sleep visualizing the lift he wanted to achieve… he’d also
visualize it when he was driving his car and relaxing at home.

You get the idea.

But you might also be

thinking:

“Adam, what the hell does this

have to do with me having
great sex with my woman?”

And that’s a great question.

Allow me to explain…

Hand on heart I can say that

before almost every great
sexual adventure I’ve shared
with a woman – there has
been some VISUALIZATION
of how the event would
successfully unfold.

For instance, before giving any

of my girlfriends VAGINAL
orgasms – I have spent some
time pleasantly and vividly
visualizing how it would feel to
do so… how she’d scream
during the orgasm… how WET
she’d be… how hard she’d dig
her finger nails in my back as
she came and so on…

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The visualizations are very clear and very powerful in my mind.

And I never, ever, visualize FAILURE.

Visualizing failure is setting yourself up for near certain failure in ‘real life.’ In fact – it
virtually guarantees it.

Only ever visualize SUCCESS.

As you read the Bedroom Boss program there may be things that I suggest that
make you nervous… that make you think “there is no way I can do that.”

Giving your woman an ANAL orgasm could be one example.

You may read my instructions and initially think “that’s not possible.”

Let me tell you…

If you think it’s IMPOSSIBLE – it will be…

If you think you can do it – you will…

And if you vividly imagine yourself successfully doing it – it’s inevitable that you’ll
succeed sometime in the future.

I recommend indulging in sexual visualization on a regular basis…

Preferably multiple times a day…

You can do it when you’re driving your car, when you’re relaxing at home, when
you’re going to sleep. Heck, you can do it when you’re jacking off for all I care! And
truthfully – that last option is a pretty good one.

How’s that for a friendly piece of advice from another guy! LOL

Whatever you do…

Just do it.

Sexual visualization will make you a MUCH better lover.

After all - how can you make something great happen if you don’t know how it
should look, feel, sound, taste and smell?

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 The answer is usually that you can’t.

That’s why house builders employ architects to draw up plans (to visualize) how a
house should look before they try to build it. Imagine if a builder had no plans and
tried to build a house without – he’d almost certainly make a mess of it.

Sex is no different – once you’ve seen, in your mind, your woman behaving exactly
how you want her to behave during sex, it makes it EASY to make her behave that
way ‘in real life.’

Without these preliminary visualizations it’s much more difficult.

Here are 3 tips for successful – and the most

powerful possible – sexual visualization:
1. Engage in sexual visualization multiple times a day. It might be for 60
seconds or 15 minutes. It doesn’t matter… just make sure you do it regularly.
Remember – the more often you do something, the better you get at it

2. Let your mind run wild. When you are visualizing, avoid putting boundaries
on what you choose to let happen in your mind. If you would like to give
your woman multiple orgasms during intercourse – but a part of you
believes it’s not possible – get rid of that negative, self-doubting part of
yourself and allow yourself to visualize exactly what you would like to
happen, no matter how OUTRAGEOUS it might be

3. Make your visualizations very real and include all 5 of your senses. What
will you SEE? What will you HEAR? What will you FEEL? And don’t forget to
include what you’ll TASTE and what you’ll SMELL (those last two are very
important when it comes to sex)

Finally…

Don’t feel self-conscious when engaging in sexual visualization – after all… no one
can get inside your mind and see what you are visualizing.

Believe me – there are things I’ve visualized that are for me and my woman only and
I’m perfectly cool with that ;)

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Chapter 5:
What To Do
Immediately
After Sex
The  secret  art  of  Post  Orgasm  Bonding...
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 Chapter 5:
What To Do Immediately
After Sex

Before we get to the Bedroom Boss ‘nights’ –

there is one more very important technique I need to tell you about that you need to
use immediately after you have sex with your woman.

I don’t mention this technique at the end of all 69 of the Bedroom Boss ‘nights’
because you’d find it repetitive and you’d get BORED of reading it.

So I’m making you aware of it now – up front – just before you start reading about
the Bedroom Boss ‘nights’ in the next chapter.

The technique I’m talking about – that you should use immediately after you have
finished having sex with your woman – is called Post Orgasm Bonding.

Allow me to explain…

After most guys have had sex with their women – having usually FAILED to give her
an orgasm – they then almost always do one of the following things:

• Turn on the television

• Go get something to eat or drink

• Go to the bathroom

• Roll over and go to sleep

For just a second put yourself in the shoes of a woman and imagine how she feels!
Her man has basically used her body to ‘get off’ – and then afterwards he’s
immediately lost interest in her and gone off to ‘do his own thing’ OR simply rolled
over and snored himself into dreamland.

Hardly the stuff of DREAMS for her, right?

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Instead of doing that, I suggest you engage your woman with 5-10 minutes or Post
Orgasm Bonding immediately after you’ve had sex with her.

I call it POST ORGASM Bonding because it highlights the fact that you haven’t just
‘had sex’ with her like most average guys do – you’ve made her ORGASM ;)

Anyway, here’s what you need to do…

• Cuddle up with her and hold her in your arms

• Kiss her sweetly (on her cheek, forehead, back of the shoulder etc)

• Tell her how much you love having her in your life and being with her

• Tell her you love her (only say this if you do! Don’t say things you don’t mean
otherwise you won’t be a man of your word. It’s very important to be a man of
your word)

• Engage her in very light-hearted conversation

Post Orgasm Bonding is simple to do and, at first, may seem like ‘no big deal.’

But to your woman – it’s a very big deal.

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You see, Post Orgasm Bonding shows her that you see her as more than a great
pair of tits and a tight ass. It shows that you’re not just interested in her pussy. It
shows her that your relationship isn’t just about the sex.

Believe me…

Even when the sex is RED-HOT and mind-blowingly orgasmic; she still doesn’t want
to feel like it’s ‘just about the sex.’ This is especially true in the long-run; in a long-term
relationship.

Sure - when a woman has a fling with a Bad Boy she may be cool with 2 or 3
months where it really is just about the sex. But no woman wants to feel that way
with a man she sees a future with and with whom she’s essentially ‘sharing her life.’

Right now, you may be thinking that after sex – after you’ve ‘blown you load’ – you
feel DRAINED and a little tired and that sometimes you really do just want to roll
over and go to sleep immediately afterwards.

And I get that.

I’ve felt it myself.

If you want to learn why ‘blowing you load’ is so draining and how to make
it less draining and more fulfilling – I recommend you go on Amazon and
grab a copy of the book The Multi-Orgasmic Man by Mantak Chia. You’ll
thank me when you’ve read it! Just trust me on that one.

Regardless of whether or not you get a copy of The Multi-Orgasmic Man –

my point still stands…

“YES,” blowing your load is draining and can make you feel tired, but “NO”
– that doesn’t make it OK to ignore your woman immediately after sex.

If you do – she might love the ORGASMS you give her, but she’ll crave
intimacy and connection. And she may go looking for that elsewhere.

Seriously – I know women who have GREAT SEX with their men, but still
cheat because he’s emotionally unavailable.

So take my advice and engage her in 5-10 minutes of Post Orgasm

Bonding immediately after sex. You won’t regret it if you do and you might
seriously regret it if you don’t.

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 Chapter 6:
The Bedroom
Boss ‘Nights’
Here  are  69  ways  to  f*%k  your  woman  like  a  Boss!

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 Chapter 6:
The Bedroom Boss ‘Nights’

So you’ve made it to chapter 6 – The Bedroom

Boss ‘nights’… the main part of this book.
If you’ve skipped chapters 1, 2, 3, 4 and 5 I recommend you go back and read them
before you read chapter 6 because those first few chapters of Bedroom Boss will
help you get the most out of what you’re about to find in this chapter.
In chapter 6 I have 69 ‘nights’ waiting for you.

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These ‘nights’ don’t have to actually take place at NIGHT. They could happen in the
morning, or afternoon for all I care. The time of day isn’t important. What is
important is to use the ‘nights’ in order and use them as a blueprint that’s going to
help you give your woman the most amount of pleasure in the shortest amount of
time possible.

Some of the ‘nights’ are romantic…

On some ‘nights’ you’ll totally dominate her…

Some ‘nights’ take place in the bedroom…

Others take place a long way from the bedroom!

These ‘nights’ are going to serve 2 primary

purposes:
1. They’re going to help you to share AMAZING sex with your woman

2. They’re going to make you so sexually creative that once you’ve done all 69
‘nights’ – you’ll be able to have interesting, exciting sex for the rest of your
life. You’ll always be able to think if new ways to blow your woman’s mind.
You’ll never let the sex become boring and predictable.

Ready to get started?

Good.

Bedroom Boss is the most extreme, hard-core sex advice program I’ve ever
produced, and also the most powerful.

So take a deep breath, roll up your shirt sleeves and get stuck in… this is gonna be a
wild ride!...

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Night
1
The Main Goal Of The Night:
To give your woman a clitoral orgasm
using ORAL sex.

What To Do:
Prepare your bedroom in advance like this:

• Make sure the bed clothes are on the bed and neatly presented

• Put a large towel or two down to cover the bed

• Light some candles and turn off any electric lights in the room (have enough
candles so you can see each other)

• Put on some quiet, relaxing, ‘background’ music (make sure it’s something you
know your woman likes)

• Put some massage oil next to the side of the bed (if you want, you can use
Olive Oil or Coconut Oil instead of massage oil. Coconut oil is my preference
because it also makes great LUBE. Click here to see the Coconut Oil I
recommend

When your bedroom is ready, take your woman by the hand and tell her you have a
surprise for her. Then lead her upstairs, tell her to get undressed and to lay face
down on the towel(s) on the bed because you’re going to give her a massage.
By the way – I’ve never met a woman who refused a massage.

Once she’s lying face down on the bed, proceed to give her a massage.
Professional masseuses will tell you that it’s impossible to give anyone a decent
massage unless you’ve been trained. But this isn’t entirely true.

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To give a good sports massage (a deep tissue massage), I agree – you need training.
However, the purpose of the massage you’re about to give your woman is simply to
relax her, turn her on and get her HOT, WET and HORNY! And believe me when I tell
you – that’s VERY EASY to do.

A Step-by-Step Guide To
Giving Her
Great Massage:
•Warm some oil in your hands. Be generous with it…
totally cover your palms and fingers

•Straddle her or sit to one side of her (straddling is

best if she can take your weight) and put your hands
on her lower back. Slowly glide your hands up her
back, until you get to the base of her neck, and then
slowly come back down. Sometimes have your
hands touching and working the MIDDLE of her back.
Other times separate your hands and work more the
outside of her back (when you do this you’ll touch
her shoulders when you get to the top, as opposed to
her neck). The pressure should be fairly light at this
point because you’re simply warming her up and
introducing her to the massage. Do this for a few
minutes (but DON’T time yourself because that just
wouldn’t be cool)

•Next, put your thumbs either side of her spine and

glide all the way up her spine, then back down. Use
a bit more pressure than you did in the previous
stage. Do this 8-10 times.

•Next, use your thumbs and the palms of your

hands (the fleshy part under your thumb works
particularly well) to massage her lower back. Aim for
symmetry – whatever you do with your left hand
should be mirrored with your right. Slowly work your
way up her back, spending a minute or two on her
lower back, middle back and upper back

• When you reach the top of her back, spend some time massaging her
shoulders and neck. Remember that, generally speaking, the more flesh you can
move in a given movement – the better it will feel. Don’t rush, take your time, and
tune in to how much pressure she likes. Her moans and groans will tell you when
you’re doing good

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 • After massaging her neck and shoulders, slowly trace your hands down the
sides of her torso – being sure to ‘accidentally’ brush her breasts as you do so!
She will notice, but you should act oblivious. This just gives her a little taste of
what’s to come

• Trace your hands over her ass (don’t spend time there yet) and work her legs

• Start with her calves (lower legs). Use firm pressure and work one leg at a time.
Use both hands to move from her ankles up to the backs of her knees.

• Then progress to the backs of her upper legs (hamstrings). Do similar to what
you did for her calves – one leg at a time, both hands together. Work from the
backs of her knees to the bottom of her ass cheeks. Deliberately include just the
bottom of her ass cheeks in your strokes because this will TURN HER ON

• After a while, progress to massaging her ass cheeks. Do this right and she’ll
ABSOLUTELY love it and so will you. Put your left hand at the bottom of her left
ass cheek and your right hand at the bottom of her right ass cheek. Then FIRMLY
and fairly slowly move both hands up and outwards. As you move up and
outwards you will turn her on – it feels GREAT for her and she knows you’re
looking at her ass and pussy! Sometimes allows your hands to get very close to
her ass and pussy – but resist the temptation to touch her holes. The longer you
make her wait – the more she’ll love it in the end

• After massaging her ass for a couple minutes, she may already be asking you
for more. If she’s not, have her roll over and lay on her back.

• Then proceed to massage her UPPER legs (quadriceps). Use one hand on each
leg and make firm movements from just above her knees to VERY CLOSE to her
pussy. The closer you get to her pussy – the more turned on she will feel. Keep
doing this for as long as you like (that might be longer than she can stand!) and
then do this…

• Slowly open her legs and get ready to give her ORAL sex.

Naturally, the goal of giving her oral sex is to give her a CLITORAL orgasm. Here’s
how it’s done…

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A Step-by-Step Guide
To Giving Her Great Oral Sex…
As tempting as it may be to go straight for her clitoris, I want you to avoid this
temptation and make her WAIT.

TEASE her.

Then tease her some more.

Try to get her to the point where she literally BEGS YOU to give her more. Then
tease her a bit more.

Seriously. The more you make her wait –

the better it’ll feel when you give in and let
her feel your tongue on her clit.

By the way – when I say “make her wait” –

be reasonable. I’m talking a few minutes…
not hours!

Anyway, here’s exactly

how to give her
outstanding oral sex…
•Start off by breathing on her. Breathe all
over her pussy. Just let her feel your warm
breathe on her wetness. Her moans will tell
you she’s enjoying it

•Then slowly lick her OUTER labia (pussy

lips). Lick slowly up and down her left side,
and then do the same on the right side.
Repeat a few times.

•Next, give her a good tongue-fucking.

Seriously – take your tongue and shove it
right inside her. She’ll love this. I know many
guys don’t like the TASTE of women – but
those guys are LOSERS. Stick your tongue
right inside her… you’ll love her reaction

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 Bonus Tip:
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 Night
2
The Main Goal Of The Night:
Make her vaginally orgasmic using your fingers

What To Do:
Get her hot, wet and horny and give her a clitoral orgasm. It doesn’t
matter how you achieve the clitoral orgasm – fingers or face-fuck – it’s
your call.

Then use The A-Spot Method to give her a VAGINAL orgasm.

*I explain all about why vaginal orgasms are super important and give a master
class on The A-Spot Method in my program Ultimate Orgasm Techniques

In a nutshell, here’s how to

use the A-Spot Method to
give your woman a vaginal
orgasm:
A-Spot •Have her lay flat on her back with her
legs open

•Insert your well lubricated middle finger inside

her vagina as DEEPLY as you can, with your palm
facing upwards

•Then use a ‘come hither’ motion to stimulate the front

wall of her vagina. Start with moderate pressure and speed
and increase the pressure SLOWLY

•When you get to a point where she’s LOVING it, keep

going and talk her through the orgasm

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To talk her through the orgasm,
say things like this:
YOU: “You love having my big fat fingers inside you don’t you baby?”
HER: “Yes”

YOU: “It feels so good when I finger you like this”

HER: “Oh God yes”

YOU: “You’re going to cum so hard for me baby”

HER: “Yes I am”

Then, when she’s right on the verge – keep doing exactly as you are doing with your
fingers OR increase the pressure slightly – and say:

YOU: “Come for me baby. Come hard. Come right now”

And that’s precisely what she’ll do.

After she’s caught her breath, bend her over and do her ‘doggy style.’ When you’re
ready to ‘blow your load’ – pull out and spray it all over her ass. She’ll love every
second of it…

• The vaginal orgasm

• Being taken from behind

• Your load all over her ass

• It’ll make her feel ALIVE.

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Squirting Orgasms
The subject of squirting orgasms confuses many men. In this section I want to take a
minute or two to tell you what you need to know about squirting orgasms.

First of all, let me confirm that “YES” – women can have squirting orgasms. They are not a
myth.

Secondly, let me re-assure you that “NO” – her ejaculate is not pee.

Now, let’s talk about the realities of squirting orgasms…

I’ve had the most success using The A-Spot technique - combined with a lot of
dominance and a good dose of DIRTY TALK – to give women their first squirting orgasm.

Essentially, this makes it a squirting VAGINAL orgasm because you are stimulating her A-
Spot to make it happen.

Once you teach your woman to squirt, you’ll find that it becomes easier and easier to
make her have ejaculatory orgasms. Indeed, it often becomes possible to rub her G-Spot
and have her squirt, to rub her clitoris and have her squirt and even, to give her a
SQUIRTNG ‘Mindgasm’ (an orgasm that happens without any physical stimulation, simply
as a result of dirty talk).

That last type of orgasm – the squirting ‘mindgasm’ – proves once again that female
orgasm is mostly, and can be ENTIRELY, mental. To literally TALK the ejaculate out of her is
a powerful thing.

A very powerful thing.

But let’s not ‘jump the gun.’

The first thing I want you to understand is that it is possible to stimulate your woman’s A-
Spot (or G-Spot) and give her very powerful VAGINAL ORGASMS and still not make her
squirt.

And there is nothing wrong with this – after all, she’ll still have a powerful orgasm.
A problematic situation can arise where you stimulate your woman’s A-Spot and she loves
it, but then she stops you before you’ve made her orgasm.

Why does she stop you?

The answer is almost always because she feels like she’s going to PEE (although she won’t
necessarily tell you this is the case). What she doesn’t realize is that she is actually seriously
close to squirting and that that feeling is the need to ejaculate, not the urge to pee.

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You have to get her through this, not via logical conversation, but through extremely
DOMINANT dirty talk.

Keep your finger inside her, keep stimulating her and DO NOT let her remove it. At the
same time say:

“Baby, I’m going to make you squirt so fucking hard”

“You’re going to do as you’re told. You’re going to push that feeling out”

“Release for me baby. Let it go. Push that cum out of your pussy”

This is how you HAVE TO talk to her to get her past that feeling of needing to pee. You
have to go ultra-dominant and you have to keep telling her that she’s going to squirt very
hard for you.

Constantly talk about her ‘pushing the feeling out’ and releasing. These words will tell her
what she needs to do.

Also tell her how much it’ll turn you on when she soaks the bed. This will give her
confidence to ‘push it out’ and let it go.

Other stuff you should know about squirting:

• Once you’ve taught her to squirt, you can help her to have more powerful squirting
orgasms by getting her to do daily Kegel Exercises. I go though Kegel Exercises in
great detail in my Ultimate Orgasm Techniques program

• I’ve found that strong, athletic women who exercise on a regular basis are usually the
ones who squirt the easiest and project the most liquid

• Some women will squirt so hard that they literally soak the bed and could fill a bucket.
Some women will squirt the length of the bed or further (I personally find this freakin’
amazing to watch). Some women will squirt much less fluid and it won’t project very far
– but they’ll still love the experience

• Occasionally you’ll meet a natural ‘squirter.’ Such women probably never associated
‘that feeling’ with PEEING and embraced it very quickly and learned to push it out. If
you meet a woman like this – it just makes your life a little easier.

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 • I’ve met a few women who I couldn’t make squirt! For the record – I
was able to give these women vaginal orgasms, anal orgasms and
‘Mindgasms’ – so they were highly orgasmic nonetheless. This leads
into an important point – the point being that squirting orgasms are
not essential for great sex. If you never make your woman squirt, but
you give her vaginal and anal orgasms during intercourse and
‘Mindgasms’ – trust me when I tell you… she’ll still be ADDICTED to you.
And to be honest, I think anal orgasms and ‘Mindgasms’ are more
powerful for women than squirting orgasms.

If you’d like to see VIDEO of men giving women squirting orgasms, I

recommend you check out a program called Female Liquid Orgasm. Click
here to learn more.

Ultimately, you need to remember the following points regarding

squirting orgasms:

The A-Spot technique is the best way to give a woman her first squirting
orgasm.

You must combine it with dominance and dirty talk

A squirting orgasm is all about ‘pushing the feeling out’ and releasing. Use
these words in your dirty talk when you’re trying to make her squirt

Once you make her squirt once, it becomes easier and easier for her to do
so. In the end, Squirting ‘Mindgasms’ are a possibility

To make her squirt harder and further, encourage her to do daily Kegel
Exercises. I detail these in my Ultimate Orgasm Techniques program

You might not get her to squirt the first time you try – but that’s OK so
long as you’re giving her vaginal orgasms.

However, if she keeps stopping you before she has the orgasm – because
she feels like she is going to PEE – you must do all that you can to get her
to ‘give in’… ‘surrender’… ‘do as she’s told’… and ‘release’… because it is
imperative that you get those VAGINAL orgasms working…

If you don’t – you’re just like all the other guys who could only ‘get her off’
via clitoral stimulation. And you don’t want her to put you in that bracket.

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Night
3
The Main Goal Of The Night:
Give her multiple vaginal orgasms
using your fingers

What To Do:
Follow the same plan as on night 2…

• Warm her up with a clitoral orgasm

• Then give her a vaginal orgasm using The A-Spot Method (see night 2 for
details for the technique)

Once you’ve given her the vaginal orgasm using The A-Spot Method – carry on.
Aim to give her at least 3 vaginal orgasms using the same technique and you may
want to progress to many more than 3. The goal isn’t to hit an exact ‘number of
orgasms’ (remember: counting is for losers) – but rather to teach her to be MULTI-
ORGASMIC.

Once you have achieved that goal – giving her multiple vaginal orgasms… proceed
to intercourse.

Make it different to the previous night and ‘blow your load’ all over a different part of
her body…

Her tits for instance.

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Night
4
The Main Goal Of The Night:
Give her a Combination Orgasm

What To Do:
The combination orgasm involves stimulating her vagina and her clitoris at the same
time.

Many guys make the mistake of doing this BEFORE they have the vaginal orgasms
working on their own. If you make this mistake all you will end up doing is giving her
a clitoral orgasm with your fingers inside her.

The true combination orgasm arises as a result of BOTH clitoral and vaginal
stimulation.

Get both orgasm types (clitoral and vaginal) working separately and then you’ll be
ready for this ‘night.’

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 Here’s What You Need To Do To Make The
Combination Orgasm Happen For Her:
• When she’s lying on her back with her legs open, begin licking her clitoris in
the way you know she like best (up and down, side-to-side, circular etc)

• Then, after a minute or two – when she’s really into it – insert your middle finger
inside her and begin stimulating her G-Spot or A-Spot using the ‘come hither’
motion

• Keep going until she has the orgasm

NOTE: the G-Spot is located 1-2 inches inside her vagina,

along the front wall. It’s usually central, but can be slightly off
to one side. The G-Spot feels spongy, ridged and slightly
raised. This is in contrast to the rest of her vagina which feels
very smooth… So it’s easy to find. Some women find G-Spot
stimulation incredible. For others it does nothing. If it does
nothing for your woman, try the A-Spot instead.

Once you’ve given her the Combination

Orgasm (and yet another new sexual
experience!) have intercourse. Use at
least 3 different positions –
missionary, her-on-top and
‘doggy-style’ would be a good
place to start – and screw her
dominantly until you’re ready
to ‘blow your load.’ Then ‘let it
go’ and engage in light-
hearted Post Orgasm Bonding
afterwards.

G-Spot
Always do the Post Orgasm
Bonding after sex. Don’t ever turn
the television on or just roll over
and go to sleep. That would be a
huge mistake.

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Night
5
The Main Goal Of The Night:
Get the vaginal orgasms
working during intercourse

What To Do:
On this night you separate yourself from all the other guys by doing something for
your woman that very few women will ever experience. Not because women can’t
experience it, but rather because most men are so bad in bed.

The ‘thing’ I’m referring to is, of course – vaginal orgasms during intercourse.
The orgasms you’ve given her so far – as a result of oral sex and fingering techniques
will have been mighty powerful for her… but they pale in significance compared to
what you’re going to do for her on this night.

You see, once you get the vaginal orgasms during intercourse working – the sex
becomes truly fulfilling for both you and her and she becomes TOTALLY HOOKED
on the sex she has with you. This is when she becomes ADDICTED to you and can’t
get enough of you.

So if she’s ‘not really the one for you’ – think carefully before you use what I’m about
to share with you because she’s going to get A LOT more serious about you after
this ‘night.’

Proceed with caution…

First off, realize that you absolutely cannot let her touch her CLITORIS during sex.
Many women do this because it’s the only way they can ‘get off’ during intercourse.
But if you want her to become vaginally orgasmic during intercourse – you must
stop her from touching her clitoris.

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If you catch her doing it, pull her hand away.

You have already done the first part of making her vaginally orgasmic during
intercourse…That is to make her vaginally orgasmic using your fingers. You may find
that this simple act has made her vaginally orgasmic during intercourse. If you have –
that’s great.

However, that’s not always the case and jumping from making those vaginal
orgasms happen with your fingers, to making them happen during intercourse can
(and often does) require 2 more things:

• A ton of dirty talk

• A ton of dominance

Welcome to the ‘dark side’ my friend.

Welcome to the dark side.

This is when you have to STEP-UP and acknowledge the fact that sex isn’t a 50/50
thing and that women are submissive and therefore, men need to be dominant.

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 Furthermore, the more dominant you become, the more submissive she can
become. The more she can SURRENDER to you.

The more she surrenders to you – the more PLEASURE you’ll be able to give her.
It’s as simple as that.

It’s nature.

You can’t fight it. Well, you can try – but you’ll have very weak sex if you do.
You get her to surrender by TALKING DIRTY and being very DOMINANT.
If you don’t feel comfortable talking dirty and being dominant – you need to work
on your sexual beliefs. The exercise on Sexual Beliefs in my eBook Better In Bed will
help you to do this.

Before we proceed, I want you to know that:

• Talking dirty and being dominant are things women love. They aren’t degrading
and it doesn’t mean you’re treating her badly if you do those things. On the
contrary, tepidly ‘making love’ to her and failing to make her cum (like most guys
do) is treating her badly in my opinion

Intro over, let’s get into the meat of ‘night 5…’

• Start off by warming her up with a clitoral orgasm and 2 or 3 vaginal orgasms
using your fingers

• Then put a thin pillow under her lower back and enter her in the missionary
position (the pillow changes the angle of her pelvis slightly and makes it easier for
your penis to hit her G-Spot and A-Spot)

• As you’re ‘doing it’ in the missionary style, let your DOMINANT side come out
to play…

Tell Your Friends

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3 suggestions:
1. Pin her arms down above her head. This simple act shows her that YOU are
IN CHARGE and will excite her greatly

2. Make your thrusts HARD and DEEP and at a moderate pace.

3. Use a lot of dirty talk

Point 3 is not a suggestion. It’s a MUST. It’s essential.

Say things like this:

“You love it when I’m inside you”

“You love it when I stretch you open with my big, fat cock”

“You love having my hardness inside you”

Dirty talk phrases like this will make your woman VERY excited and will help to push
her towards ORGASM.

As her excitement level builds, gradually ramp up your dirty talk. Make it
progressively DIRTIER and more adventurous. But always keep it simple. And if you
ask questions – make sure you know the answer is “YES” before you ask it.

Here’s a script for you to use as inspiration.

Be aware that you absolutely cannot and positively must not try to use this script
exactly as it’s laid out. If you do – she’ll know you’ve memorized something and
she’ll HATE it. Your dirty talk has to appear natural. Over time – as you improve – it
will become natural.

Dirty Talk Script

(Use for inspiration only. Do not copy word for word)

YOU: “You love having me inside you”

HER: “Yes I do”

YOU: “I love fucking you”

HER: “I love it”

YOU: “I love fucking your tight, wet pussy”

HER: “Oh God”

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 YOU: “I love stretching open your tight, wet pussy with my big, fat cock”
HER: “It feels so good”

At this point, you notice she is VERY close to orgasm, so you talk her through it. Be
relentless with your dirty talk at this point. The combination of your words and your
thrusts will send her ‘over the edge’:

YOU: “I’m going to fuck you until you cum all over my cock”
HER: “Oh God Yes”

YOU: “You want to cum so hard”

HER: “Oh my God Yes”

YOU: “You’re going to cum so hard whilst I fuck your little pussy”
HER: “Yes I am”

As she begins to orgasm (or the split second before), say:

YOU: “Come for me baby. Come now. Come hard. Come like a good girl”

And watch as she climaxes in time with your words.

After you’ve given her the gift of a vaginal orgasm during intercourse, do whatever
you want… Try putting her legs over your shoulders and pounding her until you
ejaculate inside her.

Once you’ve given her that vaginal orgasm during intercourse – she’ll love it if you
pound her hard and deep and ‘blow your load’ inside her.

After this night your relationship will never be the same again because you’ve given
her that all-important vaginal orgasm during intercourse. Something she’ll never
forget and will crave for the rest of her life.

Take a second to meditate on that last point – it’s pretty powerful…

Something she’ll never forget and will crave for the rest of her life.

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Night
6
The Main Goal Of The Night:
Give her multiple vaginal orgasms
during intercourse

What To Do:
Pick up from where you left off yesterday and show your woman that not only is it
possible to experience VAGINAL orgasms during intercourse (without any clitoral
stimulation!) but that it’s also possible for you to give her MULTIPLE vaginal
orgasms during intercourse.

When you get the multiple vaginal orgasms during intercourse working – the
intercourse can become so pleasurable for your woman that it becomes
overwhelming. She may end up teary eyed and emotional afterwards.

But fear not because those tears and strong emotions are due to pure PLEASURE.
They are not bad in any way. Just hold her close and let her express whatever
emotions she needs to express.

Once you get the multiple vaginal orgasms working, you will start to realize and
appreciate the true and virtually LIMITLESS potential that women have for sexual
pleasure.

Sometimes you may reach a point where you literally cannot tell where one orgasm
finishes and the next one ends…

It’s just like one giant vaginal orgasm, where you don’t really have to TRY and your
every movement, word and action simply serves to keeping your woman coming. If
you embrace dirty talk and become truly dominant (and you’ve picked the right
woman) – this will happen at some point in time.

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Before you get there, you may simply give her a few distinct and separate vaginal
orgasms during intercourse (and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that). Do
this on top of a ‘warm up’ clitoral orgasm and a few fingering orgasms before
intercourse and you can begin to see how EASY it is to give your woman
COUNTLESS orgasms.

Remember though – women can only have 1 orgasm per sexual session and it must
come as a result of clitoral stimulation. Only joking! (Just my way of having a sly dig
at most ‘mainstream sex advice’).

The question you probably have on your mind right now is:

“How do I give my woman multiple vaginal orgasms during intercourse?”

And that’s a great question.

The answer is simple…

By doing the EXACT SAME things you did to give her her first vaginal orgasm during
intercourse on the previous ‘night.’

Simply act in a
DOMINANT way,
use plenty of
dirty talk and it’ll
happen.
To put it very crudely…

Think in terms of ‘fucking

and talking the orgasm out
of her.’ As crude as that may
sound – that is pretty much
what you are doing. And if
you do it confidently and
with conviction – she’ll love
EVERY second of it. Period.

The truth is that at this point

– the point where you can
give her multiple vaginal
orgasms during intercourse
every time – you are a
MASTER.

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You know how to please your woman in a way most men and women don’t even
know is possible.

And in all likelihood – if you stopped at this point, and just carried on giving your
woman multiple vaginal orgasms during intercourse every time the pair of you ‘got it
on’… she’d be ADDICTED to you and would never want for more.

However, what I’m here to tell you is that it’s possible to take things to an EVEN
HIGHER LEVEL…

A level where you give her EVEN MORE PLEASURE and she’s willing to give you
even more back in return.

And I don’t know about you…

But when there’s a higher level to achieve – I want to aim for it… I want to find it… I
want to make it my reality…

If you’re nodding your head and saying “YES” in agreement – read on and I’ll show
you how to take things to that ‘higher level…’

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Night
7
The Main Goal Of The Night:
Introduce variety into your sex life

What To Do:
So far, I haven’t told you WHERE to have sex with your woman. I will assume that
the first 6 ‘nights’ have all taken place in the bedroom.

If they haven’t – and you’ve already mixed things up by ‘getting it on’ in a place
other than the bedroom, that’s great.

Either way – on this, ‘night 7’ – you’re gonna get OUT of the bedroom.

I actually don’t care where you have sex.

Just pick another room in the house…

The kitchen… the bathroom… your living room…

Wherever.

The exact room doesn’t concern me.

Just get out of the bedroom for variety’s sake – so she doesn’t ever sit back and
think to herself:

“Gee, the sex has become a little boring. We always do it in the same place”

On this particular night, don’t worry about trying to show her any new types of
orgasm. Instead, embrace and use what you already have working…

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You can get her off via clitoral stimulation…

You can get her off by stimulating her G-Spot or A-Spot with your fingers…

You can get her off during intercourse simply by being dominant and using plenty
of dirty talk…

You have achieved A LOT and she’ll be super-happy in the bedroom at this point in
time. But now it’s time to get her out of the bedroom…

I have 3 simple rules for this ‘night’ that I want

you to follow:
1. Do not have sex in the bedroom!

2. Give her at least one orgasm during FOREPLAY – before you have
intercourse

3. Give her multiple (that means AT LEAST 2) vaginal orgasms during

intercourse.

Can you do all that?

Course you can ;)

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Night
8
The Main Goal Of The Night:
To make it romantic

What To Do:
For the past 2 nights you’ve used really dirty talk and pure dominance to give your
woman multiple vaginal orgasms during intercourse.

What you’ll find is that the more vaginal orgasms during intercourse you give her –
the EASIER and easier it becomes to ‘get her off.’

You stop panicking about helping her to climax and you start RELAXING and
learning to really enjoy the coming together of two bodies and minds – which is
what sex is really all about.

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I know for a fact that many men are so worried about their ‘equipment working
properly’ and ‘getting their women off’ once – that it becomes IMPOSSIBLE for them
to enjoy the sex. Needless to say – this defeats the purpose entirely and makes the
sex worse, not better.

Once you get her to orgasm during intercourse, without touching her clitoris – those
worries just melt away and you start to get lost in the experience.

So on this – ‘night 8’ – I want you to go back to the bedroom and make it romantic…

Kinda like you did for the massage on ‘night 1…’

• Light some candles

• Put some soft background music on

Then make-love to her.

Now hear me out…

When I say ‘make-love’ – it shouldn’t be tepid and pathetic.

It just has a different feeling to a hard-core ‘fucking session.’

It requires you to remain dominant, but in a more subtle way.

Dirty talk is still on the menu, but it’s not quite so vulgar and ‘in your face.’

When you’re having intercourse on this night, you can still go hard and deep, but
slow it down – don’t pound her like a Porn star.

Engage her with a lot of kissing.

If you pin her arms down above her head – do it gently, not aggressively.

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 When you talk dirty, say things like:
“I love being inside you”

“You make me feel so good”

And…

“You’re so wet for me”

Avoid saying things like:

“I’m going to fuck you like I’ve paid for you”

“You’re my naughty little cum whore”

And…

“Bend over so I can fuck your ass”

There’ll be a time and place (and a ‘night’) for that kind of dirty talk – but tonight,
on ‘night 8’, be a little more romantic.

She’ll enjoy the change of pace.

It’s also a good one for showing her that you care about her on an emotional level
and that she’s not just your ‘naughty little girl.’ This may seem trivial, but to a woman
– it’s VERY important.

Finally, let me be clear…

Make sure you give her vaginal orgasms during intercourse. Do that and she’ll love it.

And that’s a FACT.

Tell Your Friends

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 Night
9
The Main Goal Of The Night:
To take your thrusting prowess to the ‘next
level’ using the ancient art of Taoist Thrusting

What To Do:
On ‘night 9’ you’re going to use the ancient art of Taoist (pronounced ‘Daoist’)
Thrusting to give your woman incredible sexual pleasure.

The basic idea of Taoist thrusting is very simple – the results are very powerful…
All you do is this…

Once you’ve gotten her hot, wet and horny and have given her a few ‘warm up’
orgasms – proceed to enter her in the missionary position.

Then thrust in and out of her like this:

• 9 short strokes, followed by 1 deep

• 8 short strokes, followed by 2 deep

• 7 short strokes, followed by 3 deep

• 6 short strokes, followed by 4 deep

• 5 short strokes, followed by 5 deep

• 4 short strokes, followed by 6 deep

• 3 short strokes, followed by 7 deep

• 2 short strokes, followed by 8 deep

No, not this kind of
Taoist thrusting... • 1 short strokes, followed by 9 deep

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 Bonus Tips:
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Night
10
The Main Goal Of The Night:
To give your woman a ‘quickie’

What To Do:
The ‘quickie’ is exciting for women for several reasons:

• It’s unplanned (at least as far as she’s concerned. You may very well have
secretly planned it)

• It’s spontaneous

• It can often seem a little ‘wrong’ – like you shouldn’t be doing it

• It can feel like she’s been TAKEN – like the man is using her for his own pleasure

The UNPLANNED and SPONTANEOUS aspects of the ‘quickie’ are important to

understand.

You see, many women in the modern, ‘civilized’ western world lead very regimented
lifestyles…

They work a job that requires the same hours every day (or at least Mon-Fri)…

They take the kids to school at the same time every day…

They cook and clean every day…

And women can feel like all the FUN has disappeared from their lives and been
replaced by order, routine and BOREDOM.

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The ‘quickie’ is the EXACT OPPOSITE of this routine and order – and that is a major
part of its appeal.

One of the other reasons why a ‘quickie’ is so exciting for a woman is because she
often feels like she’s being TAKEN by the man. Let’s face it – if you’re a fit and
healthy guy who can last a decent length of time in bed… chances are that you’re
gonna really have to POUND HER and be DOMINANT if you’re gonna ‘get off’ and
‘blow your load’ in the limited timeframe that a ‘quickie’ allows.

And she’ll love that.

She’ll also love the fact that as you roughly TAKE HER – you’ll be able to give her
some ORGASMS too.

That’s why I’ve waited this long to introduce the ‘quickie’ – because I wanted you to
be at the point where you’re EASILY giving her multiple vaginal orgasms during
intercourse before you gave her a ‘quickie.’

When most guys give their women a

‘quickie’ they don’t make them cum
and that’s just lame.

OK. So now you know WHY the

‘quickie’ is exciting for your woman –
here’s what to do…

Find a time of day and a suitable

location where you just about have
enough time for sex, but not really!
I’m talking like 5 or 10 minutes max.

Once you’re in the location with your

woman, waste no time and do not go
SLOWLY.

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Here are some rules and guidelines
for the quickie:
• Start off by kissing her very passionately. This will get her juices flowing. As
you’re kissing her, already be undressing her

• Only remove items of clothing necessary to get to her PUSSY. This adds to the
‘naughty’ factor of the ‘quickie.’ Leave her panties on (assuming she’s wearing
some) and pull them to one side

• Spit on your hand and use that to add to her own personal lubrication. Then
bend her over and fuck her like you OWN her. In fact, say this to her if you have
the balls: “I own your pussy and I’m going to use it to make myself feel good”

• Slap her ass, grab her hair and generally be THE BOSS

• ‘Get her off’ as quickly as possible (which should be easy to do if you got those
multiple vaginal orgasms during intercourse working) and then bust your load
inside her

That’s it.

That’s one way to do the ‘quickie.’

Give her one final kiss and a mischievous grin and go get on with the rest of the day.

Oh, and slap her ass as you’re leaving.

Job done. Done like a Boss!

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Night
11

The Main Goal Of The Night:

To start getting your woman
to associate ANAL stimulation
with PLEASURE

What To Do:
Most guys would like to have anal sex with their women.

But most women say “NO” because they are scared it’s gonna
hurt. A perfectly reasonable fear.

That said – the reality is that it’s possible to get your

woman to absolutely LOVE anal play and even have
her BEGGING you to fuck her in the ass.

I’ll teach you how to get there over the next few
‘nights.’

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Here’s what you need to do:
• Give your woman ORAL SEX

• When she’s on the verge of orgasm, start to very gently rub her anus with the
tip of your finger. Don’t enter her – just rub it gently

When you touch her anus when she on the verge of climax and you keep on doing it
during her climax – she’ll start to sub-consciously associate anal stimulation with
PLEASURE. In fact, she’ll start to associate anal stimulation with ORGASM.

After you’ve gotten her off with your tongue, enter her in the missionary position
and repeat the technique…

When she’s right on the verge of orgasm, reach around her leg and use the tip of
one of your fingers to stimulate her ass very gently. Keep stimulating it as she
climaxes.

Repeat in the ‘doggy-style’ position – touching her anus very gently with the tip of
your thumb.

That’s enough for the first night.

She’ll have really enjoyed it – consciously unaware of what you were doing.
Sub-consciously she’ll have started to associate you touching her ass with
experiencing incredible pleasure because you only touched her ass during
orgasm.

After the oral with anal stimulation, missionary with anal stimulation and doggy-
style with anal stimulation, finish the session off in any way you like. Make her
orgasm a few more times for good measure and ‘blow your load’ wherever you
want.

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 Night
12
The Main Goal Of The Night:
To further stimulate your woman’s ass and
strengthen the association she has between
you touching her anus and her experiencing
serious sexual pleasure

What To Do:

Bonus Tip: This ‘night’ is basically a repeat of the previous

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Night
13
The Main Goal Of The Night:
Get a little risky with your woman in public

What To Do:
Women love NAUGHTY sex. That’s a fact.

That’s why women love being spanked…

Love having their hair grabbed during

sex…

And love dirty talk…

Because all those things make the sex

‘naughty.’

On this ‘night’ I only have one

suggestion…

The suggestion being that you have sex

(or foreplay) with your woman
somewhere RISKY.

You might choose to fuck her in the car.

You might choose to screw her in a
restaurant toilet. You might choose to go
for a walk in the woods and then fuck her
up against a tree.

Whatever. I really don’t care.

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The only thing you HAVE TO do is ‘do it’ somewhere a little risky… somewhere you
feel you might get caught.

Of course – you remain 100% responsible for your actions and must choose your
location wisely!

To give you an example of what I’m talking about, here’s a quick story from my own
personal life:

Several years back I was dating this wild Latino stripper. She was from Portugal and
she was VERY sexually adventurous.

Early on in our relationship we went on a shopping trip to a nearby city, but when
we got there it was absolutely chucking it down with rain. It looked like we’d need
Noah’s Ark to get round the freakin’ city.

So we ended up in a multi-story car park, starring out of the windscreen, not

wanting to get out of the car – neither of us ready to face the weather.
Anyhow, I went into caveman mode and pulled her over to me and we started
making out. I could tell that making out in this busy car park in broad daylight was
really turning her on.

When she reached into my pants and pulled out my cock – she confirmed what I
was thinking. She was really turned on!

Anyway, she proceeds to wrap those Latino lips around my shaft whilst sticking her
ass in the air.

I then reach into her panties and start fingering her ass.

Long story short…

• I talk VERY dirty to her

• I tell her when people are walking past and that “She can’t come up right
now” (this really got her going)

• She had 3 orgasms whilst I fingered her ass

• I eventually ‘blew my load’ in her mouth

We then drove home without having ever left the car.

Beats shopping any day of the week!

Now go have some sex with your woman somewhere a little ‘risky’ ;)

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Night
14
The Main Goal Of The Night:
Introduce a little bondage and spanking
into your relationship and enjoy some
more anal play

What To Do:
To successfully pull off what I have planned for you on this ‘night’ you’ll first need to
go to an adult toy store and buy a pair of handcuffs.

Once you have your handcuffs, proceed like this…

Take your woman to the bedroom and get her really turned on. I don’t really care
how you do this – it’s just important that you do.

Undress your woman, leaving just her panties on and then have her get on her knees
on the bed with her ass in the air.

Get her to rest on her FOREARMS (not her hands) and then say:

“I’m going to handcuff you and punish for you being my naughty little girl”

Give her a little wink as you say this and then ‘cuff her.’

Proceed to get behind her and kiss and caress her ass whilst leaving her panties on.

When you can tell she’s getting properly excited, spank her a little.

With each spank tell her that:

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 “Naughty girls have to be punished”

She’ll love it.

After a few spanks, slowly peel her panties down until you can see both her holes.

Next, lubricate your middle finger and perform the A-Spot technique on her. To do
this you’ll need your palm facing DOWN, so you can stimulate the front wall of her
vagina as deeply as you can. (For a refresher on The A-Spot Technique, review ‘Night
2’ of Bedroom Boss)

You may very well find she finds that the orgasm that results from the A-Spot
method in this position is EVEN MORE POWERFUL than when she’s lying on her
back.

Here’s the important point…

When she’s very close to orgasm and during the orgasm – insert the tip of one of the
fingers of your other hand into her anus.

Essentially – this will give her a VERY powerful vaginal orgasm with additional anal
stimulation. This will further strengthen the pleasure association she is starting to
sub-consciously make between you touching her ass and her experiencing pleasure.
Repeat two or three times if you wish.

Then remove your pants and give her the hard fucking from behind (with plenty of
dirty talk) that she’ll now be craving.

As she orgasms – again stimulate her anus by gently inserting the tip of your thumb
into her ass.

When you’re ready to ‘blow’ – pull out and spray it all over her ass. Then undo the
‘cuffs’ and spend a little quality time with her.

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Night
15
The Main Goal Of The Night:
Give her an orgasm while she gives you head

What To Do:
On this night you’ll give her an orgasm that will probably blow YOUR mind just as
much as it does hers.

I consider this type of orgasm to be a way of ‘bridging the gap’ between orgasms
that happen with genital stimulation and orgasms that happen without any touching
whatsoever (the ‘mindgasm’).

You see, on this ‘night’ – the goal is to give your woman an orgasm as she gives
you head. The catch is that you aren’t going to touch her pussy as she’s giving
you head.

In fact, the only parts of her you may touch are her HEAD and SHOULDERS as she
pleasures you with her mouth.

This is pretty damn cool.

Allow me to explain what you need to do:

• Start off by warming her up with a clitoral orgasm and two or three fingering
vaginal orgasms

• Then enter her in any position you like and give her a couple of vaginal
orgasms during intercourse.

• Next, pull out of her and say: “Suck my cock baby”

• Then get into your preferred position to have her give you head (lying, standing
or sitting – it doesn’t really matter) and let her ‘get to work’

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Now you are in a position to make that ORGASM happen for her without any genital
stimulation whatsoever. To do this, you are going to use A LOT of dirty talk.

And you are going to make the dirty talk all about HER – not you.

For instance, you’re going to say things like:

“It turns you on so much when you suck my cock”

You are not going to say things like:

“I love it when you suck my cock”

To be clear: MAKE THE DIRTY TALK ALL ABOUT HER

The goal is to make her feel super-excited about giving you head. So excited in fact,
that ultimately – she has an orgasm.

Here’s a sample script

(Use it for inspiration only. Do not copy word for word because that will not work)…

What to say as she’s giving you head

(Don’t expect her to say very much in return because she’ll have her mouth full!)…

“You love sucking my cock don’t you baby”

“Your mouth feels so good when it’s wrapped around my cock doesn’t it”

“It makes you feel so naughty when you suck that fat cock”

“Keep sucking that hard cock with your naughty little mouth”

“You make that cock so hard and the harder it gets the hornier you become”

“The more you suck it, the wetter you become”

*Notice how I’m deliberately ramping up her sexual excitement with my dirty talk. I’m literally saying
things that reiterate the fact that the more she sucks my cock – the hornier she becomes.

At some point in time you will notice that she becomes really REALLY horny.
And it’s your words that have gotten her there. At this point, ramp up the dirty talk
like this:

“You’re so fucking horny right now baby”

“Sucking my cock makes you so wet”

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 “Keep sucking that cock like a good girl”

“You’re so wet right now you want to cum for me”

“The better you suck that cock the more you want to cum”

“The better you suck that cock the harder you want to cum”

“You love to do as you’re told” (this line is very important because you’re going
to tell her to cum very soon!)

“Your pussy is so wet right now as you suck that cock”

*Now, when you can tell she’s getting very close, say:

“You’re going to cum for me as you suck my big, fat cock”

“The better you suck it, the harder you’ll cum”

*When she’s right on the verge, simply say:

“Cum for me baby. Come hard. Come now”

And that’s exactly what she’ll do.

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Night
16
The Main Goal Of The Night:
Tease her until she BEGS you for more

What To Do:
On this ‘night’ you’re going to use the art of SEXUAL TEASING to build your
woman’s sexual anticipation.

In fact, you’re going to tease her until you push her to ‘breaking point’ – breaking
point being the point where she’s so HORNY and desperate to feel more that she
literally BEGS YOU to give her what she wants.

This scenario gives you a ton of POWER and puts you in a very DOMINANT position.
It simultaneously makes her vulnerable to you and puts her in a very SUBMISSIVE
position.

Needless to say – that’s exactly what she wants.

Before you embark on this sexual adventure, go to a hardware store and buy some
cable ties.

Let’s be honest…

Most handcuffs available at adult toy stores are a bit of a joke because (for
safety reasons) they usually have a catch that opens them, meaning the key
isn’t really necessary.

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My girlfriend pointed this out to me one time when I was using them. She said:

“Look Adam. I can just get out. This isn’t cool. Tie me up properly”

At that point I lovingly thought to myself:

“You cheeky bitch. I’ll show you”

And that’s when I thought of using CABLE TIES! Needless to say – she bloody loved
it because they are the real deal. The only way out is to cut them off.

IMPORTANT WARNING: do not put them on her wrists too tightly because if you do, there will be no
room to get the scissors in to cut them off when you’ve done. Be careful! Having to call the Fire Brigade
to help cut them off could be embarrassing!

Now, there are several ways to restrain her with the cable ties and how you do it will
depend on what furniture you have in your bedroom.

You see, if you have a bed that has a headboard with poles on it, you can put a cable
tie round each of her wrists, two around the poles on the headboard and then use
two more cable ties to attach the cable ties on her wrists to the ones on the
headboard.

Alternatively, you could simply use 3 cable ties to make a pair of handcuffs and then
lay her on the bed, or have her get on her knees and stick her ass in the air and wait
for you.

To get her into position, lead her to the bedroom and tell her to get undressed.

Then pull out the cable ties and say:

“I’m going to tie you up baby”

Then tie her up in the position you want her in.

Now you’re ready to TEASE HER.

For the next 5 and preferably 10 or even 15 minutes (20 if you’re a real sadist) tease
her by telling her to stay EXACTLY where she is and wait for you.

If you say that DOMINANTLY and she respects and trusts you – she will do as you
tell her to do.

Then sit down somewhere else in the room and play with your phone. Or answer
your emails. Or read a book.

Whatever!

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 Just do anything other than paying her the attention she is craving.

Here’s the really good bit…

Every 2 or 3 minutes (don’t time yourself, just ‘guestimate’) go over to her and
breathe on her, gently stroke her for a second or two, slap her ass or kiss her. The
point is to give her little tastes of what is to come… to get her REALLY excited.

I did this with a girlfriend in a London hotel several years back and after about 20
minutes she screamed:

“Adam. Just fuck me already!”

What immediately followed was some of the best sex we’d ever had.

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Night
17
The Main Goal Of The Night:
Give her more anal stimulation

What To Do:
On previous nights you have gotten your woman used to taking the tip of your
finger inside her ass when she is very close to climaxing and during the orgasm itself.
On this night, you will insert MORE of your finger into her ass.

Proceed slowly and gently and get her used to having a little more of your finger in
her ass.

The more often you do this and the more pleasure she is experiencing when you do
it – the stronger the associations she will sub-consciously make between you
stimulating her anus and her experiencing massive pleasure.

It doesn’t matter how you do this on this ‘night.’

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 You could do it in any of these ways:
• While giving her oral sex

• In the missionary position

• In the ‘doggy-style’ position

• While you’re fingering her vagina from behind (use a finger of your other hand
to stimulate her ass)

Whatever you do, remember these two things:

• The goal of this ‘night’ is to get her used to taking about half of your finger in
her ass

• Only put your finger up her ass when she is VERY CLOSE to climaxing and
during the orgasm itself

Tell Your Friends

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Night
18
The Main Goal Of The Night:
Give her more anal stimulation

What To Do:
Repeat of ‘night 17’ but use different positions. So don’t repeat the night EXACTLY –
just repeat the goal of the ‘night:’

• To insert your finger in her ass when she is close to climaxing and during her
orgasm(s)

• On ‘night 17’ you inserted about half your finger in her ass.

IF you feel she is ready – on this, ‘night 18’ – insert your ENTIRE finger in her ass.
This is a very important step – for reasons that will become clear tomorrow ‘night…’

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Night
19
The Main Goal Of The Night:
Give her an anal orgasm

What To Do:
Last ‘night’ you got your woman used to taking your ENTIRE finger in her ass when
she was close to ORGASM and during the orgasm itself.

You are now ready to give her an ANAL orgasm.

This is powerful medicine.

Read on carefully…

Start off by ‘warming her up’ with a clitoral orgasm. Give her oral sex or stroke that
baby with your fingers. I don’t really care. Just ‘get her off.’

Then have her lay flat on her back with her legs open and give her at least two
vaginal orgasms using your middle finger. Use The A-Spot Method or G-Spot
stimulation to do this.

At this point she’ll be really horny.

Making sure that your finger is REALLY well lubricated, take it out of her pussy and
slowly insert it up her ass with your palm facing upwards.

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You now have two choices:
• Stimulate her G-Spot until she orgasms

Or…

• Stimulate her A-Spot until she orgasms

What you’ll find is that the thin wall that separates her pussy and her ass is very thin.
This means that when your finger is in her ass – you can still stimulate her G-Spot or
A-Spot using the ‘come hither’ motion or firm rubbing.

If you normally find it easier to ‘get your woman off’ by stimulating her G-Spot – go
with that.

If it’s the A-Spot – roll with that.

The point is to stimulate one of those two areas until she has the orgasm – but with
your finger in her ass, not her pussy. “YES” – this makes it an ANAL orgasm not a
VAGINAL one.

If you’ve followed all the other steps to this point – it’ll be VERY easy to do, so long
as you use plenty of dirty talk.

Say things like:

“You love it when I finger your ass”

“You’re feeling so much pleasure in your ass right now”

Basically – say things to reinforce the fact that she is ENJOYING having your finger in
her ass.

When she has the ANAL ORGASM, be prepared… she is likely to SCREAM louder
than you’ve ever heard her (or any other woman) scream before. Seriously – it can
get crazy!

Once she’s had the anal orgasm, remove your finger from her ass and be sure NOT
to put it back in her pussy. Never put anything that’s been in her ass in her pussy
(until you’ve washed it).

Once you have removed your finger from her ass, proceed in any way you like. Just
be sure to give her at least one more orgasm, whatever you do.

Mission accomplished – your woman is now ANALLY ORGASMIC!

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Night
20
The Main Goal Of The Night:
Treat her like a princess

What To Do:
The truth is that woman love to be DOMINATED…

They love to be fucked hard and deep…

They want to surrender to their men in the bedroom…

They sometimes (when extremely horny) want to feel ‘used and abused.’

But…

Every woman also wants her man to treat her like a princess. She wants him to show
her that he cares about her. And when you do this – it builds an emotional
connection with your woman and more trust and respect.

And the great news is…

When she feels that real emotional connection with you and she knows you trust
and respect her (and she does the same for you in return)… she will surrender EVEN
MORE to you in the bedroom and become even more submissive.

All you then have to do is ‘step-up’ and become more DOMINANT.

The goal of this night is to treat her like a princess and then dominantly lead her
through a blissfully orgasmic night.

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Here’s what you need to do…
• Start off by cooking dinner for her:

• Be sure to cook something you know she likes

• Lay the table properly

• Light candles (make it romantic)

• Engage her with good conversation over dinner and plenty of humor

• Avoid talking about potentially volatile issues like religion and politics

After dinner, prepare

the bathroom:
•Put her favorite towel on a warm
radiator

•Light candles (enough so that you

don’t need any ‘electrical light’ in the
room)

•Run the bath (at the temperature she

likes)

•Throw some bubble bath in there

•Let her get in (join her if the bath tub

is big enough)

•When she gets out of the bath, help

her into her towel (that’s been pre-
warmed!)

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Next, prepare the bedroom for her massage.
For massage tips, see ‘night 1’ of Bedroom Boss.

After giving her a massage, make love to her like a BOSS.

Remain dominant, whilst being loving and romantic. Here are some tips on how to
achieve this balance:

Use positions like the missionary position, spooning and her-on-top (these positions
are more romantic that ‘doing her from behind’)

Use dirty talk, but tone it down.

Say things like:

“It feels so good to be inside you”…

“I love being inside you”…

“I’m so hard for you”…

“Come for me”

Avoid dirty talk like this:

“You’re my naughty little cum whore”…

“I’m going to bend you over and fuck you like I own your ass”

Your woman will appreciate being treated like a princess and the more loving,
romantic – yet still ORGASMIC! – sex that follows.

Be aware that tonight is not an excuse to act like a WIMP in the bedroom. On the
contrary, you must still be dominant and you must talk dirty. You just won’t be tying
her up and using extreme dirty talk on this night.

There’ll be plenty of occasions to do those things on other ‘nights’ ;)

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Night
21
The Main Goal Of The Night:
Go to a hotel

What To Do:
This night requires a little planning in advance – but it’ll be well worth it.

We talked earlier in Bedroom Boss about not always having sex in the BEDROOM
because it eventually ends up feeling boring and predictable for your woman. Sex
that ALWAYS takes place in the bedroom will lose its excitement and therefore its
appeal, sooner or later.

Don’t succumb to this fate.

One way to ‘spice things up,’ keep your woman guessing and add a new and
elevated level of excitement to your sexual adventures is to spend the night in a
HOTEL.

There’s just something about being in a hotel that raises the libido and almost always
leads to a night (and following morning) or red-hot, passionate sex.

Here are some tips for planning your night

in a hotel:
• Try to give your woman as little information as possible, whilst making sure she
knows she needs to keep a certain night and following morning free

• A simple way to do this is to say:

“Hey honey, keep Friday night and Saturday morning free this week. I have a
surprise planned”

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 • Do this on Monday or Tuesday, so she has plenty of time to keep those days free.
If she is busy, no big deal… just re-arrange for next week.

• She’ll probably try to get you to tell her what the surprise is (because women
love to know) but do not give in… just say “Be patient like a good girl”

• Trust me… she’ll love the SURPRISE when she gets to the hotel, more than she’ll
love knowing up front exactly what’s going to happen.

• On the day – tell your woman precisely what to pack. Women HATE not knowing
what to bring. If you’re going out for dinner – tell her what kind of outfit to bring. If
you’re not sure what she should wear, ask one of your female friends for advice!

• Book the best hotel you can. That’s all I really have to say on that note

Once you’ve done the planning, all that’s left to do is to execute the night and have fun.

Needless to say…

Fuck her well the night you get to the hotel and fuck her again in the morning. If you
‘do her’ 3 times or more – you’re just showing off…

But if you’re up to it – go for it!

And of course – however you choose to ‘get it on…’ just make sure you give her
MULTIPLE ORGASMS every time and she’ll be a very happy girl.

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 Night
22
The Main Goal Of The Night:
Introduce a butt plug into your
sexual adventures

What To Do:
For this ‘night’ you’ll need to go to an adult toy store
beforehand and buy a butt plug. Shoot for one that is a bit
longer and wider than the finger you used to give your
woman the anal orgasm.

A butt plug is shaped so that it’s very narrow at the tip

and gets progressively wider toward the base. This makes
it perfect for anal penetration.

The anus has different chambers and these chambers

open SLOWLY. So when you use the butt plug on your
woman – insert is slowly into her ass. Remember – if you
cause her any pain or discomfort, you will KILL the appeal
of anal play faster than Usain Bolt runs the 100 meters.

On this ‘night’ – warm her up with a clitoral orgasm and a

couple of vaginal orgasms using your fingers.

Then give her an anal orgasm using your finger (see ‘night
19’ if you need reminding of how to do that).

Then get her on all fours (in the ‘doggy-style’ position),

lubricate the butt plug and ease it slowly into her ass.

Click here to see a butt plug

that I recommend you use
on your woman
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 Once it’s in there – gently enter her from behind and ride her to several vaginal
orgasms during intercourse.

Feel free to change positions at any time, leaving the butt plug in her ass.

Your woman will love this ‘double penetration!’

Having the butt plug in her ass whilst you’re in her pussy – and you’re giving her
orgasms – is training her to sub-consciously associate ANAL INTERCOURSE with
incredible pleasure. And you know what that is eventually going to lead to ;)

When you’ve finished, slowly remove the butt plug from her ass and make sure it
gets washed with an appropriate soap/adult toy cleaning solution, in warm water.

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Night
23
The Main Goal Of The Night:
Take her on a ‘dinner date’ and have her wear
a Remote Control Egg

What To Do:
This ‘night’ requires another trip to your favorite ‘adult toy store.’

What you need to get this time is a sex toy called The Remote Control Egg.

The only advice I have regarding which Egg to buy is to buy the best quality egg you
can afford. Price usually reflects this, but if you go to a real shop (as opposed to
buying online) – be sure to ask someone who works in the shop for their opinion.
You could also check out some reviews online, prior to purchase.

My experience is that, unfortunately, the cheaper Eggs are poorly made and usually
break, meaning that you are essentially throwing your money down the toilet. Don’t
know about you – but that’s not something I enjoy to do!

The good news is…

Even the most expensive Eggs aren’t usually that expensive.

Once you have your Egg, arrange a dinner date with your woman. Try to book a
table at a restaurant that is somewhat romantic and where you can request a table
either in the corner of the room or along the edge.

You probably don’t want to be sat right in the middle for reasons that will
become obvious.

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 Just before you are about to leave your house, tell your woman that tonight is going
to be a little bit different to your usual ‘dinner dates’ and give her a cheeky smile.
Then give her the Egg and tell her to go put it inside her.

Make sure you put the REMOTE CONTROL in your pocket.

Now let the fun and games commence!

You basically have total control (via the remote control in your pocket) of a mini
vibrator that is inside your woman’s pussy.

How and when you activate the vibrator will depend on how adventurous and brave
you are feeling.

Turning it on when the waiter comes over to take your order is always a good one.
Your woman will have to compose herself whilst you place the order with the totally
unsuspecting waiter; whilst she secretly gets very VERY wet as the vibrator gets to
work inside her.

Ultimately, it’s your call – you can be more discreet. But you know me – I like to push
the boundaries ;)

Whenever you choose to activate the Egg of your ‘dinner date’ – try to ‘get her off’
at some point. If you sit NEXT TO HER in the restaurant – so
that you can whisper a few naughty things in

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The Main Goal Of The Night:
Give her a clitoral orgasm using
The Welcomed Method

What To Do:
On this, ‘night 23’ – the aim is to give your woman a clitoral orgasm using The
Welcomed Method.

The Welcomed Method is an amazing technique that allows you

to VERY QUICKLY get your woman very close to orgasm and
then hold her there for several minutes. When she finally gives in
and has the orgasm – it will be a very powerful one.

I explain everything you need to know about The Welcomed

Method in my program Ultimate Orgasm Techniques

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 Here’s a quick re-cap:
• Leave your pants on and make this ALL ABOUT HER (until you have given her
the orgasm using The Welcomed Method. At that point – take you pants off and
proceed as you wish)

• Have her lay on her back with her legs open

• Lubricate your hands

• Lay on her LEFT side, perpendicular to her body, with your face near her
stomach, looking down towards her pussy

• Reach under her left leg with your left hand and push gently on her perineum
with your thumb or index finger

• Use the index finger (or middle finger) of your right hand to stroke her clitoris
at the 1 o’clock position*. Use light pressure and a moderate speed

*To find the 1 o’clock position, imagine you were stood between her legs. The top of her clitoris would
be 12 o’clock. 1 o’clock is just round to the right

Once you have set everything up in the way I just described you will find that she
very quickly enters a very blissful state. At this point – keep doing exactly as you are
doing (don’t change anything) and talk to her.

Avoid really dirty talk.

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Instead, say things like:

“Relax baby and enjoy the pleasure I’m giving you”

“This feels so good, doesn’t it baby?”

“The more you relax, the more pleasure you feel”

Then, when she’s very close, talk her through the

orgasm something like this:
YOU: “You’d like to cum for me wouldn’t you baby?”
HER: “Yes”

YOU: “You’re very close aren’t you baby?”

HER: “I am”

YOU: “You’re going to cum really hard for me baby”

HER: “Oh God Yes”

YOU: “Come for me baby. Come hard. Come right now”

And she will.

Simple as that.

Another day – another type of orgasm. She’ll be very happy.

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Night
25
The Main Goal Of The Night:
To have Bathroom Sex

What To Do:
Here’s another chance to get out of the BEDROOM and mix things up.

I can’t tell you exactly how to have sex with your woman in the bathroom because
I don’t know exactly what you have in your bathroom!

But I can sure as hell give you some good ideas ;)

Here goes:
• Bend her over the sink and fuck her ‘from behind’

• Bend her over the toilet and fuck her ‘from behind’

• Lift her up and sit her on the sink, pull her panties to one side and take her
whilst you’re stood up

• Have sex with her in the bath (if you have a BIG bath)

• Have sex with her in the shower

As you can see…

You have lots of options in the bathroom.

Take your pick.

Whatever you do – just make sure you give her multiple orgasms and she’ll be one
very happy girl.

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Night
26
The Main Goal Of The Night:
To be very very dominant
and punish her for being a
‘bad girl’

What To Do:
On this ‘night’ you are going to be VERY
dominant… probably more sexually dominant
than you’ve ever been in your entire life.

At the same time, that means you’re going to be

MANLIER than you’ve ever been in the bedroom
in your entire life and this will give your woman
permission to fully surrender to you and be more
WOMANLY than she’s ever been in her entire life.

The result?

You’re going to make her cum many times and

VERY HARD.

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If the average guy could peer through your window on this ‘night’ and spy on you as
you interact with your woman – he’d probably get scared and think you were freaks!
Little does he know – you’re simply giving your woman what she (and every other
woman) secretly wants…

To be TOTALLY dominated.

Let the games commence:

Before you begin anything, you’ll need to get a

few items ready…

• A blindfold

• Some cable ties (or handcuffs)

• A butt plug

• Lubrication (coconut oil is my personal preference and recommendation)

• A chair that you can tie her to (ideally it will have thin arms, so that cable ties/
handcuffs can be secured to them)

Begin the fun by telling your woman that “She’s been a very naughty girl” and that
you must “punish her.”

Do not smile as you say this – be firm and quite serious. This will help to set the tone
for the ‘night’ – the tone being that she is going to get the punishment and fucking
of her life.

Lead her into the room where you have

‘the chair’ ready and waiting.
Say to her:

“Baby, you know you’ve been a very naughty girl and that I have to punish you.
Therefore, until I say otherwise – you will do exactly as I say. Do you understand?”

She will say “YES”.

After she says “YES,” proceed to blindfold her and sit her on the chair.

Once she’s sat down, tell her to keep her legs open. Tell her that under no
circumstances must she close her legs unless you give her permission to do so.
(This will feel VERY naughty for her and will turn her on tremendously).

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Then tie her to the chair.
Here’s my preferred and suggested way of doing it…

• Secure a cable tie (not too tightly) around each of her wrists

• Secure a cable tie around each arm of the chair

• Use two more cable ties to join together the cable ties that are around her
wrists and around the chair arms

This is very quick to do, very simple and VERY secure. She literally cannot go
anywhere. It’s very ‘real’ and she’ll know it.

She is now in a position to totally surrender to you…

She cannot see what is going on…

She cannot get away…

You should know that at this point she will be feeling a mixture of excitement and
fear. “YES”, really – FEAR! The fear is normal (even though she trusts you). It’s a
natural human response when you can’t see or move!

Your task is now to make her feel AMAZING (and ‘get her off’ many times). To do
this you will remain 100% dominant.

Begin by going behind her and gently stroking her neck and shoulders.
Then lean down and kiss her neck and shoulders.

As you are doing this, reach around and begin to stroke her breasts. You are going to
give her a NIPPLE ORGASM.

To do so, keep kissing her neck and shoulders whilst you massage her breasts. Get
her nipples real hard, and then begin talking to her in-between kissing her neck and
shoulders.

Talk about how good what you are doing to her feels for her.

Say things like:

“It feels so good when I stroke your breasts, doesn’t it?”

“You love it when I make your nipples hard, don’t you?”

When she’s REALLY getting into it…

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Start saying things like:

“It makes you so wet when I stroke your breasts like this doesn’t it?”

“You feel so much pleasure in your pussy when I touch your nipples like this,
don’t you?”

You get the idea…

Keep talking like this and reinforcing the fact that what you are doing to her
BREASTS and NIPPLES feels amazing and makes her very wet and horny.
When you can tell she’s close – talk her through the orgasm.

Here’s a sample script (use for inspiration):

YOU: “You want to cum don’t you baby?”
HER: “Yes”

YOU: “The more I touch your nipples like this, the more you want to cum”
HER: she nods her head while biting her lip

YOU: “When I make your nipples this hard your pussy feels so good. Your pussy
wants to cum for me”
HER: “Fuck yes”

YOU: “You’re going to cum when I tell you to. Do you understand?”
HER: “Yes. Please let me cum”

YOU: “The more I rub your nipples, the harder you want to cum”
HER: “Oh God Yes. Please let me cum”

YOU: “You’ll cum when I tell you to” (notice the TEASING here)
HER: “Please. I need to cum”

YOU: “When I rub your nipples like this you feel so much pleasure in your pussy
and ass”
HER: “I do”

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When she’s really really close (and you’ve teased
her to the point where it’s borderline unfair), say:
YOU: “The next time I pull your nipples, you’re going to cum so hard you wet
yourself”

HER: “Ok. Please let me cum”

Tease her a little more, then pull her nipples and say the following in a very
dominant way:

YOU: “Come right now baby. Come hard for me. Come really hard. Come right
now”

And she will.

After she’s had the nipple orgasm, let her catch her breath and then say:

“Baby, you’ve been a very bad girl, so I’m going to bend you over and spank you
very hard”

Then cut the cable ties off her (you only need to cut the ones that connect her hands
to the chair) and then bend her over the chair and use a fresh pair of cable ties to re-
attach her.

Once she’s in position, say:

“Baby, you’re going to stick that ass right out in the air for me so I can see both
your holes”

This kind of dirty talk will make her feel incredibly naughty and will make her very
wet.

Then say:

“Naughty girls like you have to be punished”

And then give her a good spanking. Make the spanks loud enough to hear, but not
so hard that they hurt her. Aim for the lower area of her ass cheeks, where they start
to blend into her upper thighs.

Once you’ve given her a few slaps, eat her out from behind and make her cum.

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 Then stick your fingers in her pussy and give her a vaginal orgasm or two. Be sure to
talk VERY dirty as you do this, constantly telling her she’s a bad girl and that she
must be punished.

Next, pull out the butt plug, lubricate it and insert it slowly into her ass.

Then say:

“Baby, the final part of your punishment is a good fucking from behind”

With the butt plug still in her ass, enter her vagina and fuck her hard and deep…

Use lots of dirty talk…

Grab her hair…

Reach round and play with her breasts…

Spank her ass…

Make it very dirty. Make it very naughty. Make it somewhat overwhelming for her.
Remember – she’s still tied up and blindfolded.

Once you’ve given her at least one orgasm from behind, tell her there’s one more
part of her punishment.

At this point, pull out, go round to her face, and remove her blindfold. Then say:

“Baby, I’m going to use your pretty little mouth to make myself feel good”

Then give her a good face-fucking.

If you want – you can talk her into an orgasm as she gives you head (see ‘night 15’
for details of how to do this), and THEN blow your load in her mouth.

Finally, untie her and bring her ‘back to reality.’ It’s important that you do this
because you’ve just taken her on a fairly extreme sexual adventure. Simply taking her
to the bedroom, lying down with her and engaging in light-hearted conversation
with her for 5 or 10 minutes will get the job done. And truthfully – as you do this –
she’ll still be basking in her post-orgasmic glow, unable to believe quite how GOOD
you are IN BED.

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Night
27
The Main Goal Of The Night:
Give her a different type of vaginal orgasm

What To Do:
On this ‘night’ you will give your woman a different kind of VAGINAL orgasm.
You remember the regular A-Spot technique… where you stimulate the FRONT wall
of her vagina as deeply as you can, using a ‘come hither’ motion and firm pressure?
Well, for this type of orgasm you will stimulate the BACK wall of her vagina.

Some women absolutely love this technique and others don’t. It’s a bit like Marmite.

But the only way to find out if your woman likes it is to try it. If you find she doesn’t
like it – no big deal… just switch to the regular A-Spot technique where you stimulate
the front wall of her vagina.

Anyway, here’s how you should do this…

Warm her up with a clitoral orgasm using any technique you like (fingering, oral, The
Welcomed Method).

Then get her on all fours (‘doggy-style’) and give her a vaginal orgasm in the usual
way – by stimulating her FRONT wall. To do this you need your palm facing
downwards because she is on all fours.

Once she’s caught her breath after that orgasm, turn your hand so that it faces
upwards. You are now in a position to stimulate her BACK wall…

With your middle finger inside her as DEEPLY as it’ll go – use the ‘come hither’
motion to bring her to orgasm.

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You can also try this same technique with a thin, curved dildo and use the curved tip
to stimulate the back wall of her vagina. The benefit the dildo has over your finger is
that it’s a little longer and many women enjoy somewhat DEEPER stimulation of the
back wall.

So, here’s what to do…

• Try it with your finger first

Then…

• Try it with the dildo

When using the dildo, start off a little deeper inside her than your finger goes and
see what happens. Then go a little deeper and get progressively further inside her
until you find a spot that REALLY gets her off.

This technique – when you stimulate the BACK wall of her vagina, will feel to her a lot
like having anal sex.

Assuming she enjoys this type of stimulation – give her at least one orgasm by
stimulating the back wall of her vagina and then carry on the sexual session in any
way you like.

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Night
28
The Main Goal Of The Night:
Have anal intercourse with your woman

What To Do:
Most guys would like to have anal sex with their women. But most NEVER will do or
they’ll do it once, make a hash of it and she’ll never ‘go there’ again.

You have to understand that the idea of anal sex brings both EXCITEMENT and
FEAR to the minds of most women…

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The excitement arises because anal sex is considered ‘wrong’ and taboo. And
anything ‘wrong’ and taboo is usually exciting for women in the bedroom.

The fear arises for very obvious reasons - because women think it’s going to HURT
and secondarily because they think it could get MESSY.

And the fear almost always outweighs the excitement factor and therefore – most
women won’t try it OR they try it because their men begged for so long they just
thought:

“What the heck, let’s do it. It could be fun and it’ll get him off my case”

But this approach almost always backfires because she ends up finding it
uncomfortable (or even painful) and she then becomes, very understandably,
reluctant to ever try it again.

My plan for getting your woman to BEG you for anal sex is much more sophisticated
than the average man’s ‘wear her down with constant nagging’ approach.
In truth, you’ve already executed most of the plan…

• You started off gently rubbing her ass when she was close to orgasm and
during the orgasm itself

• You progressed to slowly inserting more and more of your finger inside her
when she was close to orgasm and during the orgasm

• You then got her used to experiencing things BIGGER than your finger in her
ass – the butt plug

And…

• You gave her an anal orgasm

What you’ve essentially done is totally smash her FEAR of anal sex and you’ve
replaced it with thoughts of TOTAL PLEASURE.

Make no mistake – if you’ve done everything I’ve said up until this point (including
giving her the anal orgasm) she will be delighted every time you touch her ass
because she knows it’s going to FEEL GOOD.

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On this night, you’ll take her ‘all the way’
and have anal intercourse.
Here’s how to do it…
• ‘Warm her up’ with a clitoral orgasm and a series of vaginal orgasms

• Give her an anal orgasm using your middle finger (see ‘night 18’ for a reminder
of how to do this’)

• Put her in the ‘doggy style’ position and insert the butt plug into her ass.

• Give her a couple of vaginal orgasms whilst the butt plug is in her ass

Next, remove the butt plug from her ass and say:

“Baby, you’ve been a very naughty girl so I’m going to have to fuck your ass”

If you’ve followed ALL the previous steps and you’ve used plenty of dirty talk and
remained totally dominant throughout – she will welcome this step.

Proceed with caution…

Do not just try to ram yourself straight up her ass. This will almost certainly cause her
PAIN and ruin all the hard work you’ve done to get her to this point – the point
where she welcomes everything you do to her ass because it feels PLEASURABLE.
Understand that the anus has several chambers and these chambers only ‘open up
and relax’ when the previous one has opened up and relaxed.

What does this mean?

It means that as you insert your erection into her ass, you need to do so VERY slowly
and very patiently. (And if she objects at any point, pull out and try again on another
night).

Here are some tips for making anal intercourse as amazing as possible:

• Use a lot of lubrication

• Enter her very slowly and patiently

• Use the ‘doggy style’ position OR have her lay flat on her front with a pillow
under her stomach to slightly raise her ass in the air

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 • Once you are inside her ass and she’s relaxed, start thrusting in and out of her
much more gently than you would if it was her VAGINA. Let her get used to the
feeling and kinda go ‘at her pace’

• Use dirty talk and ‘get her off’…

Ah, yes – the anal orgasm during intercourse… quite possibly the most powerful of
them all.

Here’s how to make it happen…

Once you’re moving in and out of her and she’s enjoying it, start talking dirty to her
something like this:

YOU: “You love it when I’m in your ass, don’t you baby?”
HER: “Yes”

YOU: “My big, fat, hard cock makes your ass feel so good, doesn’t it?”
HER: “YES”

YOU: “It makes you feel so good when I fuck your ass, doesn’t it?
HER: “Oh God Yes”

YOU: “When I fuck your tight little ass it makes you want to cum, doesn’t it?
HER: “Fuck yes”

YOU: “Your naughty little ass wants to cum all over my big cock, doesn’t it?
HER: “Oh God yes it does”

When she’s right on the edge, say:

YOU: “You want to cum on my cock, don’t you baby?”

HER: “Oh My God!”

YOU: “You want to cum so fucking hard for me baby, don’t you?”
HER: “Fucking hell yes!”

YOU: “Cum hard for me. Cum hard like a good girl. Cum all over my cock”

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When she has the anal orgasm, there is a very real possibility that she will start
pushing back on you VERY hard as the pleasure takes her body over.

Believe me when I tell you – this is one of the sexiest things you will ever see…

Your woman going crazy as you give her an anal orgasm whilst she pushes back on
you with as much enthusiasm as if you were inside her vagina.

Priceless.

And that’s how you give your woman an anal orgasm during intercourse.

From this day forwards, expect your woman to welcome ANAL SEX whenever you
want it. After all – why wouldn’t she want it? You’ve made it feel amazing for her.
That said – you can have too much of a good thing and I wouldn’t do too much anal
sex with your woman. For reasons why, all I’ll say is: Porn stars and diapers. I’ll leave
the rest to your imagination. Suffice to say – it isn’t pretty!

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Night
29
The Main Goal Of The Night:
Have sex in a different room in the house

What To Do:
I have only one suggestion on this, ‘night 28’ of the Bedroom Boss program…
And that suggestion is to mix things up by having sex in a different room in the
house. It might be a room you’ve NEVER had sex in, or it could be a room you
haven’t had sex in for a long time.

Either option will work.

Once you’ve chosen your room, you know what to do…

Make her feel very very good.

You can do that, right?

Course you can. Now go enjoy yourself ;)

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Night
30
The Main Goal Of The Night:
Mirror her breathing

What To Do:
I’m sure the technique I want you to try out on this night probably comes from
Tantric sex, but I figured it out myself – several years back.

Here’s what I did…

I was on holiday with my then girlfriend and we were in the hotel room, lying on the
bed. I told her I wanted to try something different with her. Naturally, she obliged.
I proceeded to sit face to face on the bed with her, both cross legged.

I then told her to close her eyes and just breathe with me.

She did as she was told.

Our mouths were a few inches apart at the most and aside from our legs touching,
there was no other touching of any kind going on. Certainly nothing sexual in nature.
What happened in the next few minutes was amazing…

Our breathing synchronized so we were both breathing in at the same time and both
breathing out at the same time.

This went on for a while until she eventually JUMPED on me and some very
passionate, very intense sex followed.

I put that little technique – that I’d essentially made up ‘on the fly’ – into my mental
bank of awesome sexual techniques and have used it many times over the years.

It’s very powerful.

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To re-cap, here’s what you do:
• Sit down with your woman on the bed, crossed legged, facing each other,
mouths only a few inches apart

• Do not touch each other in a sexual way

• Close your eyes and just breathe

• Concentrate on ‘mirroring’ your woman’s breathing… breathing in at the same

time as her and out at the same time as her

• Sooner or later – she will want MORE. At that point – you know what to do!

Mirroring is a powerful technique that builds RAPPORT very quickly.

And this ‘breath mirroring’ is really really powerful. Give it a go in the way I just
described and you’ll see for yourself.

I guess this is also a very mild form of teasing and building your woman’s sexual
anticipation. And this no doubt explains why she’ll WANT YOU very badly after a
few minutes of ‘mirroring her breathing.’

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Night
31
The Main Goal Of The Night:
69

What To Do:
I have mixed feelings about the 69 sex position.

Ultimately, I think it’s a bit distracting and doesn’t lead to the easiest or best orgasms
possible for your woman.

But…

It is very naughty and very dirty – and therefore, it’s worth using on occasion for
variety and excitement.

The position is pretty straight forward…

You lie on your back.

Your woman then straddles your face.

You then eat her out and pleasure her with your fingers, whilst she ‘sucks you off.’
Try to give her at least one orgasm in the 69 position before switching things up and
having intercourse.

To make the 69 position epic for her, try this:

• Talk her into an orgasm while she ‘sucks you off’ and gently rub her anus at the
same time

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 Do that and she’ll absolutely love it.

Of course, this means you won’t really be giving her oral sex – you’ll be using DIRTY
TALK to ‘get her off’ and anal stimulation. Believe me when I tell you… the dirty talk
and anal stimulation will give her a more POWERFUL orgasm than you licking her
clitoris ever could.

Tell Your Friends

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Night
32
The Main Goal Of The Night:
Dominate her whilst she rides you ‘on-top’

What To Do:
People often view any sex position where the woman is ‘on top’ as being a DOMINANT
position for the woman.

But the truth is that it is possible to totally dominate your woman, even when she’s ‘on
top.’ And that’s exactly what you are going to do no this night…

Put her ‘on top’ and totally dominate her.

On many occasions, I’ll tell you to give your woman a few ORGASMS during FOREPLAY,
before you have intercourse.

However, on this night, I don’t want you to do that.

Instead, I want you to get her really turned on, hot, wet and horny during foreplay, but
don’t give her an orgasm. This serves to make the ‘night’ different. And different is
always a good thing.

Once she is REALLY excited, tell her to peel off her panties and sit on your cock.
Lay on your back and she’ll get the idea.

Once she’s ‘in position’ – grab hold of her ass cheeks and start to move her up and
down at your own pace.

Most guys lie there in silence whilst their women are ‘on top’ and this leads to lame sex.

Instead, grab her ass cheeks like I just told you to and help her get into a rhythm where
she’s moving up and down on you at the pace you want her too.

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Combine this dominant physical behavior with
equally dominant dirty talk.
Say things like:

“You love it when my cock’s inside you, don’t you baby?”

“You love it when I fuck you like this, don’t you?” (Notice the dominant way this is
phrased!)

“You love having my big, fat cock inside you, don’t you baby?”

As you keep talking dirty to her and holding onto her ass cheeks, occasionally slap her
ass. Then, when she’s getting close, talk her through the orgasm:

YOU: “It makes you so wet when I fuck you like this, doesn’t it?”
HER: “Yes”

YOU: “You love it when I fuck you with my big cock, don’t you baby?”
HER: “God Yes”

YOU: “You’re so wet and horny for me, aren’t you baby?”
HER: “Oh God Yes”

YOU: “You want to cum on my cock don’t you?”

HER: “Fuck yes”

YOU: “Come on me baby. Come hard for me. Let it go and cum very hard”

After she has the orgasm, give her a second or two to catch her breath and then subtly
change the position by pulling her head down and putting it very close, and to one side,
of yours.

This is another way of showing her that YOU ARE IN CHARGE of the sex.

Once her head is near yours and to one side of it, put your arms on her body to hold her
in position.

Now keep her pretty still and THURST in and out of her from underneath!

I personally love this position because even though she is ON TOP – I am totally in
charge.

Try it with your woman and you’ll see what I mean.

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Ride her to another orgasm and then tell her to turn around and go into the ‘reverse
cowgirl’ position.

To be clear - the reverse cowgirl position is ‘her on top’ but facing away from you.

Once she’s in the reverse cowgirl girl position, put your hands on her ass cheeks and
encourage her to move up and down at YOUR pace. Again, this shows her that you are
in charge – something she’ll greatly enjoy.

As you move her up and down, say things like:

“Your asshole looks so fucking good baby”

“I love fucking you like this”

“Your pussy is so wet for me right now”

Also be sure to spank her as she rides you. For added pleasure, tell her that:

“You’ve been a naughty little girl and I’m going to have to punish you”

…Then spank her.

And of course, when she’s getting close…

Talk her through the orgasm.

Finish the sexual session in any way you like.

You might like to:
• Carry on in the reverse cowgirl position and ‘blow your load’ inside of her

• Switch to a different position

• Get her to give you head

Whatever. It’s your call.

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The Main Goal Of The Night:
“Do as you’re told”

What To Do:
On this ‘night’ you’ll play on the idea that women find it very naughty and exciting
when their men TELL THEM WHAT TO DO in the bedroom.

When a woman is with a man she respects and trusts and is willing to surrender to
him IN THE BEDROOM – she enjoys nothing more than being told what to do
during sex.

After all – this is what being sexually submissive is all about…

Submitting to your sexual partner…

Doing as your lover tells you to do.

Telling your woman what to do is really nothing new… you’ve been doing it from the
start of the Bedroom Boss program, particularly when you tell her to ORGASM.

The difference on this ‘night’ is that you will make her fully aware that you are
GIVING THE ORDERS and that she loves ‘doing as she’s told.’

Keep reading and it’ll all make sense…

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You need to begin by getting her very turned on. Don’t touch her pussy in any way
(other than briefly rubbing it through her panties), but do:

• Get her hot and bothered

• Make her hot, wet and horny

• Kiss and caress her body

• Strip her naked down to her panties

Once you have her at this point – almost naked and desperate to feel more, say
this to her:

“Get on the bed baby and stick your ass in the air”

She will do as she’s told.

Once she’s in position, go up to her and kiss her body, gently slap her ass, briefly
rub her pussy and ass through her panties. Basically – TEASE her for a little while.
Then say:

“You’re my naughty little girl and you love it when I make you feel good,
don’t you?”

Then say:

“You’re my naughty little girl and you love it when I tell you what to do”

She’ll be horny as hell when you’re saying this to her!

Follow those two statements up with:

“You’re going to be a good girl and slowly peel your panties off for me”

Then go behind her and watch her do it.

As she’s peeling them off for you, remind her that she loves doing as you tell her to
do. Also be sure to tell her how sexy her ass looks and how much seeing her naked
turns you on.

She’ll be DRIPPING WET at this point.

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Next, start to slowly rub the OUTSIDE of her pussy. When she’s really into it and
pushing back against your fingers, slowly insert your middle finger inside her.

Proceed to stimulate either her FRONT WALL (G-Spot or A-Spot) or her BACK
WALL using the ‘come hither’ motion. Stimulate whichever spot you know she likes
best (if you’ve followed the Bedroom Boss program to this point you should know
by now).

As you stimulate her vagina,

talk dirty to her like this:
YOU: “You love it when I tell you what to do, don’t you baby?”
HER: “Yes”

YOU: “You love it when I touch you inappropriately, don’t you?”

HER: “I do”

YOU: “You love it when I make your pussy all excited and wet, don’t you?”
HER: “Yes I do”

YOU: “You love it when I tell you to cum for me, don’t you?”
HER: “Oh God yes”

YOU: “You’d like me to give you permission to cum right now, wouldn’t you?”
HER: “YES”

YOU: “You’d like me to allow you to cum so hard right now, wouldn’t you?”
HER: “Yes. Please.”

YOU: “You want to cum so hard for me don’t you?”

HER: “Please. Please give me permission”

YOU: “Be patient and do as you’re told”

HER: “I need to cum!”

YOU: “When and only when I tell you to cum, you may cum”
HER: “Please tell me. Tell me”

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Pause for a couple of seconds and then say:

YOU: “Do as you’re told and cum hard for me baby. Come hard.
Come right now”

And she’ll do exactly that.

After you’ve given her an orgasm in this way, you can give her another, or you can
have intercourse or get her to ‘give you head.’

Whatever you do – keep going with the idea that SHE LOVES IT WHEN YOU TELL
HER WHAT TO DO.

For instance, after giving her the vaginal orgasm in the way I just described, you may
then say to her…

“Lay on your back so I can fuck you”

“Be a good girl and open your legs”

Then enter her and give her what she wants.

As you penetrate her, keep going with the ultra-dominant dirty talk. And keep
making it all about her loving doing as she’s told and you giving her permission to
orgasm.

This is very very powerful.

A word of warning:
Think twice – and think about the consequences – of using this kind of dominance
and dirty talk on a woman you see no future with.

The reason why I say this is because this kind of behavior – where YOU constantly
make her feel amazing about doing as YOU tell her to do and YOU give her
permission to ORGASM – will make her addicted to you. And that’s a fact.

So if it’s your wife, long-term partner, fiancée etc. – then hell yeah, use it.

If it’s just some woman you’re having a fling with – maybe not.

Ultimately, it’s your call.

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The Main Goal Of The Night:
Intensify her orgasms

What To Do:
At this point in Bedroom Boss you and your woman are
flying high. You can now give her clitoral, vaginal, nipple
and anal orgasms and you may very well be thinking:

“This is it. I’m a sexual master. There’s nothing more to

learn”

And while you are now VERY good at sex and making
your woman feel amazing on a regular basis, there is still
more to learn!

The good news is that, unlike high school math – these

‘lessons’ I’m giving you are all exciting and fun. They sure
as hell aren’t boring.

This lesson – which you’ll put into practice on ‘night 34’,

is no different.

It’s exciting…

It’s fun…

And it’s going to give your woman EVEN MORE

pleasure.

She’s getting kinda greedy, isn’t she?! ;)

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 Here’s what you need to do…
When your woman STARTS to orgasm, say:

“Come even harder”

That’s it.

Those 3 little words are magic because when you say them, you’ll notice that that is
EXACTLY what she does…

She cums even harder for you – proving, once again, that sex is a very mental thing
for a woman.

By the way – it doesn’t matter what kind of orgasm you are giving her (clitoral,
vaginal, nipple, anal etc), this technique works…

She starts to orgasm and you say:

“Come even harder”

And she will.

It’s like magic.

Of course, you need to deliver that line with authority, confidence and total
dominance for it to work.

And you don’t have to stop at saying it once. In reality, you might do something like
this…

She starts to orgasm, and then you relentlessly say:

“Come even harder. Come harder. Come even harder baby. Come really hard”
And what you’ll find is that each time you mention ‘coming harder’ – that’s exactly
what she’ll do.

Once you see the power of this ORGASM INTENSIFIER – you’ll find yourself
naturally saying it when she orgasms.

After all – it’s simple and effective and it gives her more pleasure… so why wouldn’t
you say it?

Tell Your Friends

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The Main Goal Of The Night:
Extend her orgasms

What To Do:
Last ‘night’ you used the orgasm intensifier “Come even harder” to make your
woman’s orgasms more INTENSE.

Tonight you’ll use an equally powerful ORGASM EXTENDER to make your woman’s
orgasm last longer than usual.

The average woman’s orgasm last something like 20-30 seconds.

However, using the orgasm extender I’m about to share with you – you can easily
help your woman to orgasm for 60 seconds or more.

When her orgasm has been going for a few seconds, simply that:

“Keep coming for me”

And that’s exactly what she’ll do.

In reality, you might talk like this:

“Keep coming for me. Keep coming baby. Come hard for me. Come hard like a
good girl. Do as you’re told and keep coming hard for me”

Can you see what’s going on here?

We’re using orgasm intensifiers and extenders to INTENSIFY and EXTEND her
orgasms.

And the great thing is…

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It’s ‘fool-proof.’

So long as you talk dominantly and confidently and more or less relentlessly as she
begins to orgasm…

You will successfully extend and intensify or orgasms.

Remember…

“Keep coming” – keeps her coming!

And…

“Come even harder” – makes her come harder!

Combine the two and she’ll have the LONGEST, HARDEST orgasm of her life, which
will, of course – make her even crazier about you and even more willing to fulfill your
wishes in the bedroom.

Happy days.

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The Main Goal Of The Night:
Missionary with a twist

What To Do:
If you’ve been reading my stuff for a while, you’ll probably know that I don’t rate sex
positions that highly when it comes to the list of things a man needs to do to
become a GREAT LOVER.

“YES”, knowing different sex positions is good for varieties sake…

But…

“NO”, knowing different sex positions will not make you a Sex God, contrary to what
many guys think.

That said, sometimes I come across an unusual sex position that I feel the need to
share because it makes the sex better for both the guy and his ‘gal.’

What I dislike are sex positions that are ‘porno style’ – meaning that they force the
woman into uncomfortable poses, just for the guy’s pleasure. What is the point in
making your woman feel uncomfortable during sex? That is going to lead to LESS
pleasure for her. Not what you want.

What I like are positions that result in MORE PLEASURE for everyone.

The position I’m about to share with you meets that criteria and you will use it on
this, ‘night 36’…

All you do is start off in the missionary position and then carefully move your legs
OUTSIDE of hers…

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Do this one at a time. Trying to do both at once will lead to a huge mess!

Here’s how to do it the right way:

• Start in the regular missionary position… your woman on her back with her legs
open, you in-between her legs

• Then lift your right leg outside of her left leg

• Then lift your left leg outside of her right leg

• Then say: “Close your legs baby”

Then thrust in and out of her.

You will both notice a very different and very nice set of sensations that arise when
you use this position.

Give her an orgasm or two in this position, make a mental note of it for future
reference and then change positions and finish the sexual session any way you like.

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Night
37
The Main Goal Of The Night:
Use her mouth just to make yourself feel good

What To Do:
Feminists won’t find what I’m about to say acceptable, but I’m going to say it
nonetheless…

When your woman knows that you trust and respect her OUTSIDE of the bedroom –
and you give her really incredible pleasure INSIDE the bedroom…

She’ll sometimes want you to treat her like a SEX OBJECT when she is highly
aroused.

She might not say so, but

she wants you to do so
because it makes her feel
extremely naughty and
because she’s developed a
huge desire to please you (a
desire that has arisen
because you always give her
so much pleasure).

On this ‘night’ you are going

to take advantage of the fact
that your woman wants you
to sometimes use her like a
SEX OBJECT.

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Here’s what I recommend you do…
Find a way to get your woman REALLY turned on and horny before you actually see
her. One way to do this would be to send her naughty text messages while you are
at work.

This makes her think about you ALL DAY and get extremely turned on at the
thought of what you are going to do to her later.

Then, when you finally see her, push her up against the wall, kiss her very
passionately and grope her.

When I say ‘grope her’ I don’t mean ‘sweetly caress her.’

I mean GROPE her…

When she’s pushed up against the wall, grab her tits, squeeze her ass, rub her pussy
and asshole though her panties.

Then whisper this in her ear:

“I’m going to use your mouth just to make myself feel good”

(Gently) push her down to her knees, get your cock out and do as you told her you
were going to do.

Make no mistake…

This will REALLY turn her on.

For once, don’t concern yourself at all with her pleasure – just use her mouth to take
your own pleasure. This act in itself will make her very horny and excited.

As you proceed, think more in terms of ‘fucking her face’ – rather than her ‘giving
you a blow job.’

This will cause you to be a little more rough and aggressive than if you simply stand
there and let her ‘give you head.’

She will love this.

She will ‘get off’ on it.

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When you ‘blow your load’ – do so all over her face, or in her mouth. Then pull up
your pants and leave her.

Seriously.

Just leave her.

You have no idea how horny this will make her.

She’ll feel like you just ‘used her mouth to make yourself feel good’ – which is
EXACTLY what you told her you were going to do. This sub-consciously reminds her
that you are A MAN OF YOUR WORD and that you can be sexually ruthless;
something she’ll enjoy very much.

You may feel like this goes against everything I teach…about always giving your
woman pleasure.

But trust me – sometimes she wants to give you PLEASURE and sometimes she
wants you to take pleasure from her.

In this case, you’re taking it from her and she doesn’t have a say in the matter.

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Night
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The Main Goal Of The Night:
Make it all about her

What To Do:
After you ‘used your woman’s mouth just to make yourself feel good’ last ‘night’ –
it’s time to do something totally different.

This ‘night’ will be ALL ABOUT HER and you’ll give her endless sexual pleasure. Go
all out and do everything you can to make her feel as good as possible.

Here are the 3 steps I recommend

BEFORE you have sex:
• Cook dinner for her

• Run a hot bath for her

• Give her a massage

She’ll love those 3 things because they show her that you care about her and they
give you some time to bond with her emotionally.

HINT: conversation and humor are what you should be focused on during those 3
steps.

After you’re done with the massage, start off by giving her a clitoral orgasm using
The Welcomed Method (see ‘night 24’ for a reminder of how to perform this
technique).

As you use The Welcomed Method on her, use ‘soft’ dirty talk.

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 Say things like:

“Baby, all I want you to do is to relax and enjoy the pleasure I’m giving you”

“This feels so good doesn’t it?”

Avoid the hard-core, triple XXX rated dirty talk on this ‘night.’ Make it more loving,
sweet and romantic instead.

After you’ve giving her the clitoral orgasm using The Welcomed Method, remove
your pants and enter her. Go for the missionary position with a pillow under her
back. Use Taoist Thrusting if you like.

Go deep and hard, but fairly slow – so it keeps that loving, sweet, romantic vibe.
Use more ‘soft’ dirty talk.

And of course – be sure to give her vaginal orgasms during intercourse.

When it’s time to ‘blow your load’ – do so inside her.

Tell Your Friends

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Night
39
The Main Goal Of
The Night:

Use her pussy

just to make
yourself feel
good

What To Do:
On this ‘night’ you’ll give
your woman naughty, dirty
sex – the kind that makes
her cum the hardest. The
kind she (and every other
woman) secretly craves…

I don’t mind how you get

her IN THE MOOD, but get
her in the mood and take her
somewhere other than the
bedroom (remember, you
can have too much of a
good thing. So don’t overuse
the bedroom).

Once she’s really turned on,

bend her over and gain

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access to her pussy from behind. Only remove the necessary clothing to gain access
to her pussy.

Then lube her up, using some saliva if necessary, and enter her.

Then ride her hard.

Grab her hair.

Hold onto her shoulders and pull her back onto you.

Spank her ass.

Use a lot of dirty talk and make it very hard-core.

Say things like:

“You’re my naughty little girl and you love it when I fuck you from behind”

“You love it when I fuck your pussy deep and hard”

“It makes you so wet when I bend you over and fuck your tight little pussy”

Keep fucking her hard and talking to her like this until she has the first orgasm.
Then say this to her:

“I’m going to use your pussy just to make myself feel good”

She will go CRAZY (in a good way) when you say this.

Then ride her even harder, while using more dirty talk to back-up what you just said.

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Here’s a sample script:
YOU: “I love using your pussy just to make myself feel good”
HER: “Oh yeah”

YOU: “I love bending you over and fucking your little tight hole with my
big, fat cock”
HER: “Oh God yeah”

YOU: “I love taking it from you, stretching your tight little hole wide open”
HER: “Oh yeah, Fuck me harder”

YOU: “It makes you want to cum when I use you just to make myself feel good
doesn’t it?”
HER: “It does. Fuck me harder you bastard!”

YOU: “The harder I fuck your pussy the more you want to cum”
HER: “Oh God yes”

YOU: “The more I use your pussy the more you want to cum”
HER: “Oh God yeesssss”

Then, when she’s right on the verge of orgasm, say:

YOU: “Cum all over my cock. Cum hard for me. Cum whilst I use your pussy just
to make myself feel good”

And that’s exactly what she’ll do.

Then keep riding her until you ‘blow your load.’ Put it inside her, or pull out and
shower her with it. It doesn’t matter. She’ll know you’re the BOSS ;)

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40
The Main Goal Of The Night:
The Countdown Orgasm

What To Do:
On this night you’ll give your woman a very new and powerful kind of orgasm.
The orgasm is called ‘The Countdown Orgasm’ and the name very accurately
describes how it works…

You literally count her down to the point of ORGASM.

Allow me to explain…

I don’t mind how you do it, but you need to get her REALLY
turned on. Then give her a few ‘warm up’ orgasms. A clitoral
orgasm and a couple of vaginal orgasms will do nicely.

Now you have her in a state of high arousal and she is

extremely open to pleasure and you’re suggestions.

Here’s what you should do next:

Choose a fingering technique that you know gets her off
VERY easily. It could be the regular A-Spot ‘come hither’
motion. It could be stimulating the BACK WALL of her
vagina. It could be G-Spot stimulation, or even ANAL
stimulation.

Whatever.

You know your woman better than I do – so you choose!

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Once you have her in position, begin stimulating her and simultaneously use A LOT
OF DIRTY TALK.

When she is close – but not right

on the verge of orgasm! – say:
YOU: “Baby, you love doing as you’re told, don’t you?”
HER: “Yes”

YOU: “You love doing exactly as I say, don’t you?”

HER: “Yes I do”

YOU: “I’m going to countdown from 10 and when I reach 1 you’re going to
orgasm. Do you understand?”

HER: “Yes. Please” (she will get noticeably more turned on as a result of your
suggestion)
YOU: “10, 9, 8, 7, 6” (leave about a second between these numbers)

Then, if she’s really close, just carry on:

YOU: “5, 4, 3, 2, 1. Cum hard. Cum right now for me baby. Cum like a good girl”
It’s important that when you hit “1” you then say “cum hard, cum right now” and
so on.

You may find that as you begin counting, she needs a little more help to get there. If
this is the case it’s no big deal…

Just avoid the ‘rookie’ mistake of blindly counting down to 1 and not having her
orgasm! This is a disaster and she’ll silently lose respect for you if you do this.

The correct way to handle a situation where you’ve begun the countdown and you
don’t feel like she’s going to orgasm when you hit 1 is to do this…

Insert some dirty talk in-between each number.

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 Here’s how it might look:
“10. You’re feeling so good right now baby”

“9. You’re so fucking wet for me right now”

“8. You want to cum for me don’t you?”

And so on…

Get it?

Just keep going like this and time it so she has the orgasm when you hit “1”

The really cool thing about The Countdown Orgasm is that the more often you do it
– the more responsive your woman becomes to your voice/counting.

In other words – it becomes more and more effective and easier and easier to ‘get
her off’ the more you use The Countdown Orgasm technique.

And “YES” – it’ll totally blow her mind ;)

Tell Your Friends

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Night
41
The Main Goal Of The Night:
Give her really dirty oral sex

What To Do:
Oral sex is many women’s favorite sexual technique. This is because it provides the
clitoral stimulation they (think) they must have in order to climax.

If you’ve followed the Bedroom Boss program to this point – and executed all the
‘nights’ with your woman – I can GUARANTEE that oral sex isn’t your woman’s
favorite thing in bed.

You see, oral sex just doesn’t provide orgasms as powerful as

vaginal orgasms, vaginal orgasms during intercourse, anal
orgasms, countdown orgasms and so on.

However, that doesn’t mean that from time to

time your woman won’t still appreciate a
good face-fuck. She will!

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Here’s how to do it…
Before you even touch her pussy with your mouth, TEASE her like crazy and get her
to the point where she BEGS YOU to feel more. You could do this in many ways.

Here’s one suggestion:

• Start off by getting her naked and then securing her hands to the bed while
she’s lying on her back. If you can also secure her ankles – so she’s
SPREADEAGLED – that’s even better

• Now spend some time massaging her, kissing her body, caressing and stroking
her. Just basically making her feel REALLY good. But don’t touch her pussy. As
you are doing this – start telling her that you are going to lick her pussy! Get her
doubly turned on by combining your physical actions with some clever dirty talk

• After a while, start to ‘accidentally’ touch her pussy… just brush it with your
hands as you’re moving up and down her body. Keep talking dirty to her as you
do this

• Then, when she’s so horny that she looks like she’s ready to explode, get
between her legs and breathe on her pussy. She’ll try to push it towards your
face, but don’t give her what she wants just yet. TEASE her some more. Let her
feel your warm breathe for a minute or two. In between breathing on her, say
things like:

“Your pussy smells so good baby” – and “I can’t wait to taste your wetness”

• Next, begin to – ever so slowly and gently – lick her outer labia (her pussy lips).
Lick them up and down, slowly, preferably until she BEGS to feel more

• Then start to lick the outside of her vagina (that’s the hole itself).

• Then tongue-fuck her vagina – this will REALLY turn her on because most guys
don’t have the balls to do it. After ‘tongue-fucking’ her for a minute or two, pull
away and say: “You want to feel me on your clit, don’t you baby?” She’ll “YES”.
Tease her some more…

• And then, when she’s just about ready to CRY because you’ve given her so
much – but not what she really wants – give in and lick her clitoris in the way you
know she likes it best. Carry on until she has the ORGASM

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Once you’ve given her the orgasm, you could untie her and finish the sexual session
in any way you like.

However, you could carry on the ‘dirty oral sex’ theme of this night and get her to
‘suck you off’ whilst she’s still tied up.

This will really turn her on because it’ll feel like you’re just using her mouth to ‘get off.’
If you talk her through an orgasm as you do this – and then blow your load all over
her body… she’ll think she’s died and gone to heaven.

Another ‘night’ in paradise.

Another ‘night’ where you gave it to her like a BOSS!

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42
The Main Goal Of The Night:
Have sex in a public bathroom

What To Do:
This ‘night’ is most definitely optional and I have to give you the old “you remain
100% responsible for your actions” warning before we get into it. If you get caught
– you could end up in a lot of trouble. But truthfully – that’s half the fun.

Your call.

If you do execute this ‘night’ – I can guarantee that you’ll have one heck of a time,
assuming of course that you don’t end up in a jail cell at the end of the ‘night’ ;)
Before you have sex with your woman in a public bathroom, I have 2 very
important suggestions:

1.Do not tell her what you have planned because it’ll probably freak her out

2.Think carefully about which bathroom you are going to use

Point 2 is really important and requires further discussion…

The fact of the matter is that I wouldn’t let a dog take a piss in most public
bathrooms and I certainly wouldn’t fuck my woman in there. After all – most
stink of p*ss and sh*t and are just about the last place in the world where
you’d want to fuck your woman!

My point?

Choose wisely.

Choose your ‘bathroom’ VERY wisely.

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I’ve had sex with women in the bathrooms in good restaurants, hotels and high-end
health clubs/gyms. These options are usually a ‘safe bet’ because the bathrooms are
almost always spotless and clean.

You get my point.

I’ll say no more.

Now, just when you thought this ‘night’ couldn’t get any more WRONG – it does…
You see, my next piece of advice is to use the DISABLED toilet. I know that could
mean that a disabled person has to wait to go to the bathroom – and that’s not
good – but you’re gonna have a ‘quickie’ so you shouldn’t feel too bad about it.

The reason why my preference is for the disabled toilet is because it’s a room in its
own right. This means that your woman can be a little expressive (although you’ll
probably still need to cover her mouth when you make her cum).

The disabled toilet is also usually easy to just walk straight into.

If you start trying to go into the men’s bathroom or the women’s bathroom – that
usually is NOT the case and things can get tricky.

If you’re hell bent on using the men’s or the women’s bathroom – choose the MEN’s
every time. If a woman gets caught in the men’s – you can say she felt really sick and
you were helping her out.

If you get caught in the women’s – you’re getting labelled a PERVERT and it’s going
to be really difficult talking your way out of that one.

As you can see – unless you like to make things really difficult, the disabled toilet is
the ‘toilet of choice’ for this particular night.

Here’s how it’s done...

• Take her by the hand, give her a cheeky smile that tells her ‘you’re up to no good’
and lead her straight into the disabled toilet. As soon as you’re in there, lock the
door

• Then proceed to fuck her. Make it passionate and QUICK. Just bend her over the
sink, pull down her panties (or pull them to one side) and fuck her hard and fast.
Cover her mouth if she’s making too much noise. ‘Get her off’ at least once
(which should be VERY EASY for you to do by this stage of the Bedroom Boss
program), ‘blow your load’ inside her, get dressed and leave as if nothing
happened. You’ll feel ALIVE

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43
The Main Goal Of The Night:
The spanking orgasm

What To Do:
Another ‘night’ – another type of orgasm. I’m spoiling you, aren’t I? ;)

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This is another of my favorite types of orgasm…

The SPANKING orgasm.

It’s no secret that most women love a good spanking. A few hard slaps on the ass
gets any woman going when she’s being ‘taken from behind.’

However, I also know that many men feel uncomfortable with the idea of spanking.
After all, society has taught us never to ‘hit’ women.

And whilst that’s solid advice OUTSIDE of the bedroom, believe me when I tell you…
Women love to get SPANKED inside the bedroom.

Before I tell you how to ‘get her off’ as you spank her... let me give you a short
master class on the art of spanking…

What I’m about to say is true for MOST women. Some like it harder – but they’re in
the minority. Unless your woman really enjoys PAIN – use the recommendation I’m
about to share with you.

How to spank your woman the right way:

It should be obvious, but I’ll say it anyway… when you spank your woman, you are
going to use an open palm. And it’s the palm that should strike her, not your fingers.

Aim for her ass. Duh! More specifically – aim for the lower part of her butt cheeks…
where they meet her upper thighs.

Spank her hard enough for it to make a crisp and fairly loud noise. If there’s no noise
and she doesn’t make a little noise as you do it – you’re not doing it hard enough.
SERIOUSLY – she has to hear that noise. If she doesn’t – - it'll come across as weak
and pathetic and she won't enjoy it.

If you’re in doubt about how hard to spank her – begin gently and take a couple of
slaps to dial in your technique.

OK. Spanking master class over – let’s talk about how to give her the spanking
orgasm…

Warm her up with a couple of orgasms during FOREPLAY and then enter her ‘from
behind.’ She could be kneeling or standing – it doesn’t matter. The important thing is
that you do her ‘from behind.’

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 Once you’re inside her, its business as usual…
• Grab her hair

• Talk dirty

• Hold onto her shoulders

You know the score.

Now, when she’s pretty close to orgasm, talk her through it like this and spank her at
the appropriate times:

YOU: “It makes you so wet when I spank you doesn’t it?”
HER: “Yes it does”

YOU: “You’re my naughty little girl and I have to punish you by spanking her ass”
HER: “Oh God”

YOU: “It makes you so horny when you feel me spank you ass, doesn’t it?”
HER: “God yes”

YOU: “It makes you want to cum when I spank you, doesn’t it?
HER: “Fuck yes”

Then keep going like this until she’s right on the

edge of orgasm and then say:
YOU: “Baby, the next time I spank your naughty little ass you’re going to cum
very hard for me. Understand?”
HER: “Yes. Please spank me”

Then spank her and tell her to cum and that’s exactly what she’ll do.

That’s STAGE 1. That wasn’t a pure spanking orgasm – it was a combination of things
that ‘got her off’…

The penetration and the spanking.

Finish this ‘night’ off in any way you like and tomorrow ‘night’ you’ll give her a pure
SPANKING ORGASM…

Tell Your Friends

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Night
44
The Main Goal Of The Night:
The pure spanking orgasm

What To Do:
On this ‘night’ you’ll capitalize and build upon the foundations you laid on ‘night 43.’
If you didn’t do ‘night 43’ with your woman – do that first, before trying this ‘night.’

What you need to do tonight requires a big pair of balls.

Begin by getting her really hot, wet and horny…

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Then give her several orgasms using your mouth and fingers...

Then say something like this to her:

“Baby, you’re such a naughty little girl. I’m going to have to punish you”

Then move her into a position where she is BENT OVER. She could be on her hands
and knees on the bed, or she could be stood on the floor, resting her hands on the
bed. It really doesn’t matter.

Once she’s in position, give her another orgasm using your fingers…

Some kind of A-Spot or G-Spot stimulation will be fine.

Then say:

“Now it’s time for your punishment baby”

Be VERY DOMINANT, very confident and very serious as you say this next line…

“I’m going to spank you 10 times and on the 10th spank you’re going to cum
very hard for me. Do you understand?”

Providing you deliver the line in the way I suggested and so long as she is REALLY
TURNED ON and takes you seriously in the bedroom, she will respond by getting
even more excited and saying:

“Yes. I understand”

Then proceed to spank her ass while counting each slap out loud.

If you feel like the spanks and your numeric counting are NOT going to ‘get her off’
by the time you get to 10 – insert additional dirty talk between each slap.

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Here’s an example of what I’m talking about:

Spank her the first time and immediately say:

“1. You love it when I spank you”

Spank her the second time and immediately say:

“2. It turns you on so much”

Spank her for a third time and immediately say:

“3. This makes you so fucking wet”

Spank her for a fourth time and immediately say:

“4. You’re my naughty little girl and you love it when I spank your ass”

Spank her for a fifth time and immediately say:

“5. You’re my naughty little girl and you love it when I punish you”

Spank her for the sixth time and immediately say:

“6. It makes you want to cum so hard when I spank you”

Spank her for the seventh time and immediately say:

“7. You want to cum so hard right now”

Spank her for the eighth time and immediately say:

“8. You’re going to cum so fucking hard for me baby”

Spank her for the ninth time and immediately say:

“9. You want to cum right now, don’t you?”

Spank her for the tenth time and immediately say:

“10. Cum hard for baby. Cum right now”

And that’s exactly what she’ll do. Priceless.

After you’ve given her the PURE SPANKING ORGASM, take a second to silently pat
yourself on the back and remind yourself what a stud you are – then enter her from
behind and ride her the way she loves to be ridden…

Hard and deep with plenty of dirty talk thrown in for good measure.
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Night
45
The Main Goal Of The Night:
Withhold her orgasm to show her
who’s in charge

What To Do:
‘Night 45’ is a classic example of being cruel to be kind.

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Much like saying “NO” when your kid asks for a candy bar and making him (or her)
eat their GREENS instead… your woman may not understand the value of what you
are doing at the time – but she’ll get it in the end ;)

This ‘night’ will also show you just how POWERFUL your voice is from your woman’s
point of view and just how mental her orgasms really are.

Ready?

Good.

Let’s get into it…

You can execute this technique in many ways:

• You can do it when you’re digitally stimulating her clitoris

• You can do it when you’re fingering her

• You can do it during vaginal intercourse

• You can do it during anal intercourse

Pretty much the only time you can’t do it is when you’re giving her oral sex –
because you need to be able to speak.

The idea is simply to get her VERY CLOSE to orgasm and then hold her there.

Holding her there has several benefits:

• It reminds her that YOU are the BOSS in the bedroom

• It’s a great way of TEASING her and building her anticipation

• It will feel AMAZING for her when you finally give her permission to cum

That last point is especially important. This is all about you giving her permission to
cum… her surrendering to you… and you showing her that you have near TOTAL
control over her pleasure and her ability to orgasm.

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To the uninitiated I understand that this could sound like a mindless, borderline evil
and most definitely controlling ‘power trip.’

But let the haters ‘hate.’

And let them have boring, average, ‘normal’, pathetic sex.

Listen.

What I’m sharing with you here is what WOMEN REALLY WANT…

They want to be submissive. They want to surrender to their men in the bedroom.

And at the same time… they want their men to be dominant. They want their men
to tell them what to do. They want their men to give them permission to do things
that they cannot do on their own.

What I’m sharing with you here will get me hate mail from feminists – but it is what
the really good women want.

Seriously – the more intelligent and confident your woman is, the more she will ‘get
off’ on this technique. Period.

Here’s what you do:

You get her close to orgasm, using a combination of whatever physical technique
you have chosen and plenty of dirty talk.

Then you start talking to her like this:

YOU: “You feel so good right now, don’t you?”

HER: “Yes”

YOU: “You love it when I give you pleasure, don’t you?”

HER: “Yes I do”

YOU: “You love it when I tell you what to do, don’t you?”
HER: “Oh God yes”

YOU: “You love it when I give you permission to cum, don’t you?” (You’re luring
her into a ‘trap’)
HER: “Yes. Please give me permission to cum” (now the teasing starts)

YOU: “You can cum when I tell you to and not a second before. Do you
understand?”

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 HER: “Yes. Please tell me to cum” (you’re just holding her now, right on the edge)

YOU: “You really want to cum, don’t you? Your little pussy wants to cum so hard
for me”
HER: “Fucking hell YES. Tell me to cum”

YOU: “Ask me nicely”

HER: “Please let me cum”

YOU: “Call me sir and ask me nicely”

HER: “Please sir, can I cum”

Then, either tease her some more, or – if you’re feeling a bit mean and like you’ve
pushed her far enough – say:

YOU: “Cum hard for me baby. Come right now. Come hard for me”

And she will.

To get your head around how this works, let me use a ‘sort of funny’ example…

Imagine the unfortunate life of a crack addict.

Every day the crack addict gets his ‘fix’ and he feels OK. Well, as ‘OK’ as a crack
addict can feel.

But then one day he runs out of money and has to wait 3 days for his crack. It drives
him crazy… he thinks he’s gonna kill himself… he can’t take it. But then he gets his fix
and it feels so good. Even better than usual.

That’s exactly how withholding your woman’ orgasm works…

It temporarily drives her crazy…

She thinks she can’t take it…

But then you give her permission to cum and it feels even better than usual.

And it reminds her who the BOSS is ;)

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Night
46
The Main Goal Of The Night:
Take her out for dinner and then
give her what she wants afterwards

What To Do:
The idea of this ‘night’ is simple…

Take your woman out for dinner.

Give her the fucking she wants afterwards.

Here are a few ‘dinner date tips’:

1. Give her a few days’ notice. For instance, on Monday, say: “Honey, we’re
going on a date on Friday night. I’m not telling you where we’re going – just
come hungry and wear a hot dress and some killer heels”

Be sure to call it a ‘date’ because women like that word a lot!

Also be sure to tell her to ‘come hungry’ because then she knows the
‘date’ involves dinner.

And definitely be sure to tell her what to WEAR because women hate not
knowing what to wear.

2. Book at table at your woman’s favorite restaurant or somewhere she has

expressed an interest in going. AVOID choosing a restaurant that serves
your favorite food but isn’t really to her taste – now is not the time to be
selfish.

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 Avoid using an online booking system to secure your table at your
restaurant of choice. Instead – do it the old-fashioned way and PICK UP THE
PHONE. Why?

Because this way you can request the kind of table you want… preferably in
a quiet part of the restaurant

When it actually comes to the date itself,

do the following:
• Hold all doors open for your woman and let her walk through them before you

• Hold the car door open for her, let her get in, and then close the door for her

• Walk on the part of the sidewalk nearest the traffic. Sub-consciously she’ll
realize that you are shielding and protecting her from the cars

• In the restaurant, sit next to her, not opposite her (if possible). Seriously –
sitting opposite is just so LAME! It makes it feel like a business meeting. Sit next
to her instead.

• Over dinner – simply enjoy her company, stimulate her mind with interesting
conversation and make her laugh. Avoid talking about religion, politics and
other controversial topics

• After dinner – take her home and give her a good ‘seeing-too’ in any way you
like. I’m not going to give you any pointers when it comes to the sex on this
‘night’ because by this stage of the Bedroom Boss program – because by this
stage of the Bedroom Boss program - I know you have some pretty good ideas
of your own.

If you’re stuck for ideas…

Re-read a few of the previous ‘nights’ in Bedroom Boss – you’ll soon be mentally
swimming in different ways to give her AMAZING S.E.X.

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Night
47
The Main Goal Of The Night:
Have sex outdoors

What To Do:
I apologize in advance if you live in a climate that is too cold to make this ‘night’ a
reality. If that is the case – be sure to give this a try when you go on holiday to
somewhere a bit WARMER.

Anyhow, assuming you have the weather for it, here’s what to do…

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We’ve talked about how always ‘doing it’ in the bedroom is ultimately a recipe for
BORING, PREDICTABLE sex – something you definitely don’t want to give your
woman.

We’ve also talked about having sex in different rooms in the house, hotels rooms,
public bathrooms and so on… as ways to ‘mix things up’ and add variety and an
element of surprise and randomness to your love-making.

And that’s all good.

What we haven’t talked about is ‘getting it on’ OUTDOORS.

There is no doubt about it…

There is something really liberating about having sex outdoors. As ‘whoo-whoo’ as it

sounds – it can make you feel a little closer to nature and that’s a good thing,
particularly if you live most of your life in the city and suburbs.

Not too long ago I took my girlfriend for a walk in the woods.

I deliberately chose a track that I knew was NOT busy.

Once we’d walked for quite a while without seeing anyone else, we ventured off the
path (be careful if you do this!) and found a secluded spot. I then bent her over –
letting her hold onto a TREE for support – and gave it to her ‘from behind.’

It was exciting.

It was different.

It was out of the ordinary.

I remember another time, years ago – with an ex-girlfriend – when we had parked
the car in this open-air car park next to a river.

At the other end of the car park – probably 200 to 300 meters away – there were a
few cars and a few people talking.

Apart from them and us – the car park was dead. Really empty.

So I got my girlfriend out of the car – bent her over the boot and took her right
there. We had the river on one side of us and a few people a few hundred meters
away.

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 It was good to be outside…

It felt ‘naughty’ and a little wrong to have people close by who could potentially see
us.

Needless to say – she loved it.

On another occasion I took this woman I was dating to a forest not too far from my
house. As is the usual protocol – we ventured off the track and a little deeper into the
forest.

After a little kissing to ‘warm her up’ – she greedily dropped to her knees and gave
me head. Of course – I effortlessly talked her into orgasm as she pleasured me.

The change of scenery…

Being outdoors…

Feeling that you might be seen…

Those things all turn women on and make OUTDOOR sex very fulfilling.
Use my stories as inspiration and fuck your woman outdoors on this ‘night.’

Tell Your Friends

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Night
48
The Main Goal Of The Night:
Use only your hands to ‘get each other off’

What To Do:
On this ‘night’ you’ll use only your hands to ‘get your woman off’ and you’ll
encourage her to do the same for you.

Consider it an extended, mutual wanking session!

This might at first sound like I’m trying to make you re-live your teenage years when
your first sexual experience was probably a hand-job behind the bike shed at
school…

But, seriously – it’s just about having FUN and giving each other PLEASURE.
Many guys see any kind of FOREPLAY as a chore that needs to be gotten out of the
way as quickly as possible so that they can ‘get inside’ their woman and have
intercourse.

But the truth is that it can be incredibly pleasurable to just ‘get each other off’ using
your hands.

I recommend you start things off by giving your woman a CLITORAL orgasm using
The Welcomed Method (see ‘night 24’ for details).

Then simply lay side-by-side and let her pleasure you with her hands, whilst you
finger her to several powerful VAGINAL orgasms. Remember – you can stimulate her
G-Spot or A-Spot to make those vaginal orgasms happen.

When you’re ready to ‘blow your load’ – do so all over her breasts.

Another ‘night’ – another way to share a ton of sexual pleasure with your woman.

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Night
49
The Main Goal Of The Night:
To give her the deep,
hard fucking she’s craving

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What To Do:
When women are growing up and are still sexually inexperienced, they very often
dream and fantasize about meeting their ‘knight in shining armor’ and then having
him slowly, gently, sweetly and tenderly make-love to them.

And that kind of sex has its place.

However, what I realized fairly early on in my journey to figure out EXACTLY what
women really want, need and crave in the bedroom is that women actually
experience the most pleasure from the opposite kind of sex…

Not gentle – but somewhat rough…

Not sweet – but ‘naughty’, dirty and sometimes downright NASTY…

Women don’t want to ‘make-love’ most of the time – they want to get FUCKED!
They want to get fucked HARD and DEEP because this is what turns them on the
most and helps to make them orgasm over and over again.

This can be difficult for many men to accept. After all – it goes against much of what
we’ve been told about how to treat women, especially regarding sex…

We’ve been told that…

• You have to ask permission before you do anything in the bedroom (some
people are even suggesting that guys get women to sign a note of consent
before having sex with them for the first time… talk about a mood-killer!)

• You have to buy women gifts, take them on endless dates and spend a ton of
money before they’ll sleep with you (yeah, right – meanwhile she’s BANGING
some other dude who treats her like crap and never spent a penny on her… but
he knows what she wants in the bedroom and she's therefore more than willing
to open her legs for him)

• You can’t be rough with women and that you must be gentle and treat women
like fragile objects (when you spank your woman to orgasm it makes a mockery
of this type of thinking!)

All of the above is total nonsense that society has conditioned us to believe is the
way things are. And all this has done is lead to generations of men who act like
WIMPS with women (both inside and outside of the bedroom) and a ton of sexually
frustrated women.

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In fact, most women will go through their entire lives thinking that ONE measly
clitoral orgasm is what good sex is all about.

How sad is that?

In Bedroom Boss you’ve learnt how to give your woman over a DOZEN different
types of orgasm – many of which are way way more powerful than clitoral orgasms.

Things are very clear to me and hopefully

they are becoming clear to you as well…
Women want to be DOMINATED in the bedroom because they are naturally
sexually submissive.

Women like hard, deep, somewhat rough sex, at least most of the time.

Women love dirty talk, having their hair grabbed, being spanked, getting restrained
and ‘doing it’ in places where they’re not supposed to ‘do it.’

This is so far away from the typical mainstream sex advice that it makes you wonder
who pays these morons to write what they write because they sure as hell aren’t
helping anyone to have better sex.

I’ll be the first to admit that it takes BIG BALLS to do a lot of what I’m telling you to
do in Bedroom Boss… but I’ll let you in on a little secret…

Even I still sometimes get nervous before I try something new with my woman in the
bedroom!

“YES”, really – you read that CORRECTLY – I still get nervous.

You see, feeling nervous when you try something NEW – something that could go
wrong – is part of being HUMAN. You cannot escape it.

I feel it when I try something new in the bedroom.

Tiger Woods feels it every time he tees it up at another Major Golf Championship.
Basketball legend Michael Jordan used to feel it when he had to make important free
throws.

Warren Buffet and Bill Gates feel it when they have to make business decisions with
millions (or billions) of dollars on the line.

The difference between WINNERS and LOSERS is that winners feel that
nervousness – that FEAR – and push forwards and act in spite of it.

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Losers, on the other hand, feel a little nervous… feel a little bit of fear… feel a bit
uncomfortable and they give up… they use it as an excuse to keep doing the same
boring, lame ass things they’ve been doing for 10, 20, 30 years or more that have led
them to the mediocre existence they now endure.

That might sound harsh…

But it’s the truth.

Most people lead boring, uneventful lives because they don’t have the courage to
proceed and push forwards even when they feel nervous, uncomfortable and
fearful.

This is definitely true in the bedroom.

In Bedroom Boss I’m getting you to do a lot of NEW things – things that you’re
taking my word for when I say they work. And I get it. That can make you nervous
and uncomfortable. What I’m saying is – FUCK those feelings of nerves and do it
anyway…

You’ll feel like a champion when you do and your woman will fucking love you for it.
And that’s a fact.

And “YES” – you should apply this advice to ALL areas of your life…

The advice being to NOT let nerves, fear and feelings of being uncomfortable stop
you from doing what you really want to do and what you know is right.

I’ll give you a good example of how this works that is totally not related to the
bedroom. The younger of my two brothers – Chad – was out one night in town with
a group of his friends.

They were leaving one bar, to head to another when they saw a girl getting beaten
up by 5 guys.

“Yeah”, that’s right - a girl getting beaten up by 5 guys.

Chad told me that they were literally ‘kicking her head in’ and that she was just lying
there in a pool of her own blood.

And nobody was helping.

Not one person.

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Not one person had the balls to help. They were all just taking a good look and
walking on by.

In that moment – with potentially a human life on the line – my brother and his
friends looked at each other and made a very quick decision…

A decision to HELP HER.

Did they feel nervous, fearful and uncomfortable?

HELL YES… they could have done what everyone else was doing and turned a blind
eye and walked the other way. But they would have had to live with that when they
looked in the mirror the next day.

So they waded in, pulled those guys off the girl and my brother ended up getting
punched hard in the eye. A split second later, the guy who punched him ended up
literally CRYING on the floor after my brother retaliated with a punch that – in his
words – “splattered the guy’s nose all over his face”

Translation… he broke the guys nose very badly.

So – Chad and his friends acted in spite of their nerves and fear and saved the girl.
They did the right thing and could feel good about themselves.

I wonder how the people who just watched and turned a blind eye felt when they
reflected on the events afterwards. Pretty pathetic I’ll bet.

Same goes in the bedroom…

When a man continuously gives his woman lame ass sex because he hasn’t got the
balls to try something new – he will feel horrible about himself.

To avoid feeling this way – you simply have to TAKE ACTION and ‘just do it’, even
when you feel nervous, fearful and have a little doubt in your mind.

Anyway, rant over ;)

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 Here’s what you need to do
on ‘night 49’…
The goal of this night is to give your woman the deep, hard fucking
she is craving.

And truthfully – there are a million and one ways you could do this.

However you choose to do it, I want you to make sure you do

these things:

• Be 100% dominant at all times. Really dominant

• Use A LOT of dirty talk and deliver it with confidence, using

your most powerful voice

• Make the sex very ‘naughty’

Throughout the Bedroom Boss program I’ve given you dirty talk
scripts that I’ve suggested you use for inspiration. On this, ‘night 49’
I’m going to give you a plan for the night that I want you to use for
inspiration… don’t try to copy it exactly – just use it to get your
creative juices flowing…

How to give her the deep, hard fucking she is craving…

Begin in the hallway.

Push her up against the wall and grind your crotch into hers whilst
kissing her very passionately.

Grope her. Grab her tits. Put your hands all over her. Don’t let her
know what’s coming next…

After a couple of minutes, spin her round so the front of her body is
facing the wall and make her stick her ass out for her.

Remove her clothes – leaving just her bra and panties on – lubricate
your fingers with your saliva and stick them straight in her pussy.

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Finger-fuck her to her first orgasm.
Talk like this to her as you do so:
YOU: “Your pussy is so fucking wet for me”
HER: “It is”

YOU: “You’re my naughty little slut and I’m going to dominate you”
HER: she moans

YOU: “I’m going to wank your little pussy and make you cum so hard”
HER: “Fuck yes”

YOU: “You want to come for your master don’t you?”

HER: “Fuck yes”

YOU: “You’ll cum when I tell you to”

HER: “Yes. Please. Let me cum”

YOU: “Cum right now. Cum hard for me”

Then, before she has hand time to catch her breath – put her over your shoulder and
carry her to the bedroom.

Once you’re in the bedroom, stand her by the side of the bed, bend her over (so
that her hands are resting on the bed) and enter her from behind.

Then being fucking her hard and deep at a fairly fast pace.

Grab her hair, spank her, rub her asshole and use A LOT of dirty talk as you penetrate
her.

Say things like:

“You love it when I stretch that tight pussy open”

“You love being my naughty little slut”

“You love having my big fat cock inside you”

And when she’s ready – which won’t take very long – talk her through the orgasm.

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After she’s had the orgasm, pull out and say:

“Get on your knees”

She’ll do as you say.

Then face-fuck her.

Be rough.

Be aggressive.

Show her you’re the BOSS.

Put her in her place. She wants you to. Trust me on that one.

Make her orgasm as she ‘sucks you off’ (see ‘night 15’ for details).

Then get her on the bed, have her lie on her back and enter her with her legs resting
on your shoulders, assuming she is flexible enough. If she’s not, just roll with the
regular missionary position.

Again, fuck her hard and deep – something this position is great for.

Talk very dirty to her.

Say things like:

“You love being my naughty little slut”

“You love it when I treat you badly”

“You love it when I fuck your tight little pussy with my big hard cock”

She’ll feel overwhelmed.

She’ll feel totally TAKEN.

She’ll feel DOMINATED.

She’ll absolutely love it.

Talk her through another orgasm and then take her to the staircase in your house.

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Bend her over the staircase and fuck her from behind and give her ANOTHER
orgasm or two.

Then, when you’re nearly read to ‘blow your load’ – pull out of her and sit her on the
stairs. Then say:

“Do as you’re told and suck my cock until I cum all over you”

She will greedily, eagerly and willingly do as she is told.

When the time is near, make her beg for your load (this is fun!):

YOU: “You want my cum don’t you?”

HER: “Oh yes”

YOU: “You want me to cum all over your pretty face don’t you?”
HER: “Yes. Give it to me”

YOU: “Keeping sucking that cock. Do as you’re told.”

YOU: “I’m going to cum so hard for you”
HER: “Yes. Please give it to me”

YOU: “Say please and call me sir”

HER: “Please cum for me sir. Please!”

Then give her what she wants and take a second to think about how truly AMAZING
that is…

Most guys can’t get a blow job when they’re in a long-term relationship because
their women lose all interest. But here you are getting your woman to BEG YOU to
‘blow your load’ all over her.

Priceless.

So that’s one way to give her the hard, deep fucking she’s craving. Use it for
inspiration.

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The Main Goal Of The Night:
The lip orgasm

What To Do:
Body-part orgasms are great fun. They
push the boundaries and really take the
sex ‘to the next level.’

Most people remain stuck at LEVEL 1

their entire lives, erroneously thinking
that female orgasm must always be the
result of clitoral stimulation. Such
thinking is severely short-sighted and is
a ‘pleasure-limiter’ of the highest degree.

Realizing that vaginal stimulation can

also ‘get the job done’ is a HUGE step in
the right direction.

But the real secret – the biggest

breakthrough of all – comes when you
realize that the female orgasm is more
or less entirely mental.

When you ‘get her off’ by stimulating

body-parts that have NOTHING to do
with her genitals – whilst simultaneously
TALKING DIRTY – you prove this point.

The lip orgasm is a great example.

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Here’s how it’s done…
Get your woman into a state of high arousal and give her a few orgasms. Begin with
a clitoral orgasm, progress to a fingering vaginal orgasm and then give her 2 or 3
orgasms during intercourse.

She’ll certainly be in a state of ‘high arousal’ by this point.

Now, pull out of her and kneel with her on the bed, so she can stimulate you with her
hands.

As she’s doing this, avoid touching her pussy or tits…

But do kiss her passionately and start sucking her lower lip from time to time.

Keep kissing her, as she continues to stimulate you, and pull away every now and
then and say things like:

“Your lips taste so good”

“Your lips turn me on so much”

You will see a noticeable increase in her sexual excitement when you do this.

Next, start saying things like:

“It makes you so wet when I suck your lip”

And then SUCK HER LIP.

Then say:

“When I suck your lip you feel pleasure in your pussy”

Then say:

“When I suck your lip you feel pleasure in your pussy and ass”

(NOTE: I like to mention her ass because it’s NAUGHTY and it reminds her how good
I make her ass feel and this keeps her ‘open’ to the idea of future anal play)

Now, the trick is to keep kissing her, sucking her lip and telling her how GOOD it feels
when you suck her lip.

Keep making the connection between sucking her lip and how good it makes her
pussy (and ass) feel.

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 This is dirty talk at its best… it’s damn powerful.

After a while you will notice that she is VERY turned on and VERY close to orgasm.

At this point change gears with your dirty talk slightly and start saying things like:

“It makes you want to cum when I suck your lip”

“It makes your pussy want to cum so hard when suck your lip”

“It makes your pussy and ass want to cum so hard when I suck your lip”

And then… when she’s ‘right on the verge’ – say:

“The next time I suck your lip you’re going to cum very hard for me”

At this point she will try everything in her power to get you to SUCK HER LIP. Tease
her for second or two, then suck that lip and prepare to be amazed…

The harder you (carefully) suck it the harder she’ll cum. Keep sucking it and she’ll
keep coming.

It’s like magic.

Is this good or what? ;)

Tell Your Friends

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The Main Goal Of The Night:
The ear orgasm

What To Do:
OK. So last ‘night’ you gave her the LIP orgasm. Tonight you’re going to give her an
EAR orgasm.

If your woman happens to be one of those people who HATE having their ears
kissed or licked, you may want to skip this ‘night.’

However, if – like many women– she enjoys it when you kiss, lick and suck her
earlobes; you should absolutely make the goal of this ‘night’ happen.

And truthfully…

You do it in much the same way you make the lip orgasms happen…

You start off by getting her REALLY TURNED ON and then give her a few ‘warm up’
orgasms… clitoral, vaginal, vaginal during intercourse and so on – you know your
options by now! ;)

Then focus on giving her the ear orgasm.

You could do this whilst kneeling with her on the bed (like you did for the lip
orgasm) or you could do it during intercourse.

It really doesn’t matter.

The trick is to lick her ears - and in particular SUCK her EARLOBES - and in-between,
use expert dirty talk to ramp up her sexual excitement and eventually ‘get her off.’

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Here’s how it looks:

“It feels so good when I suck your ears baby”

Then suck her earlobe.

“It makes you so wet when I suck your ears”

Then suck it again.

Keep going like this and notice her EXCITEMENT level rise.

Then, when she’s really close, start saying things like:

“When I touch your ears it makes you want to cum”

“When I suck your ears it makes your naughty little pussy want to cum”

“When I suck your ears it makes your tight little pussy and ass want to
cum” (notice each dirty talk phrase gets a little ‘harder’ as she gets more and
more turned on)

Then, when she’s right on the verge of climaxing, say:

“The next time I suck your ear you’re going to cum so fucking hard for me”

Then you can either TEASE her a little longer or get stuck in and suck that earlobe
for her… when you do – she’ll cum for you.

Generally speaking…

The harder you (carefully) suck her earlobe – the hard she’ll cum.

And so long as you keep sucking it – she’ll keep coming (within reason. She’s not
gonna keep coming if you suck it for 3 days ;)

And there you have it…

Another day – another orgasm.

This is fun!

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The Main Goal Of The Night:
Use her peak state of arousal
to leverage one of your fantasies

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What To Do:
On this ‘night’ you will use your woman’s peak state of arousal to leverage one of
your fantasies.

When I say ‘peak state of arousal’ – I mean when she’s close to orgasm and during
the orgasm itself.

This is the best time to talk to your woman about one of your FANTASIES because
she is so turned on and experiencing so much pleasure – she’ll just about roll with
anything you say.

And because you say it whilst she’s experiencing a ton of pleasure – she’ll associate
whatever your FANTASY is with experiencing pleasure.

Bottom line?

Do this with enough intensity and repeat several times and there’s a very high
chance she’ll want to make your FANTASY a reality.

Before we proceed, understand 2 things:

1. You have to use this technique with integrity. After all, you are effectively
conditioning your woman to associate PLEASURE to something she
previously may not have associated pleasure with. Take a second to think
about that – it’s pretty important

2. Be careful what you wish for. If you ‘condition’ her to want to do something
and then she wants to do it in real life – but you then realize you actually
DON’T want to do it, she’ll lose respect for you. Obvious example – don’t be
that guy that gets his woman really into the idea of being gangbanged by 5
guys at once unless you really want to let her get banged by 5 guys at once!
Got it? Good. Then we can proceed…

I’ll use a really obvious example to show you how this works. Once you understand
the concept, you’ll be able to use it to leverage pretty much any fantasy you like.

I’m going to use the example of having a threesome with your woman and
another woman. After all – this is something MOST guys would like to do if they got
the chance.

First of all, let’s talk about how most average dudes would go about trying to make
the threesome happen…

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Here’s the way the average, hopeless dude does it…

While having breakfast with his woman he says:

“Hey babe, can we have a threesome with another woman?”

She reacts one of several ways:

She says:

“NO. That’s disgusting”

Or, she SLAPS him.

Or, she gets in a mood and won’t talk to him for a while.

Whatever the case – it’s not good. Rapport has been broken and she probably won’t
want to have sex with him for a while, let alone have sex with him and another chick.
Understand that when it comes to SEX, women are not LOGICAL creatures. So no
amount of logical conversation is ever going to get her to have a threesome with
you.

However, talking to her when you’re giving her an ORGASM, about how good it feels
when another woman pleasures her will get you that threesome ;)

Here’s how it’s done (a sample dirty talk script):

The scenario – you’re doing her ‘from behind’

YOU: “You’re so wet right now baby”

HER: “God I am”

YOU: “You’re going to cum so hard for me baby”

HER: “I am”

At this point – she’s VERY CLOSE and VERY TURNED on. So continue with…

YOU: “You’d love it if a really hot chick rubbed your ass whilst I’m fucking you
from behind”
HER: “Fuck yeah”

YOU: “You’re going to cum as I fuck your pussy and she rubs your ass”
HER: “Oh God yeah”

YOU: “Cum hard baby. Cum hard as that hot chick rubs your ass and I fuck your
wet pussy”

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And that’s exactly what she’ll do.

Now, here are some things to think about:

You only mentioned the idea of doing anything sexual with another woman (or a
‘hot chick’ in this case) when your woman was REALLY turned on, close to orgasm
and during the orgasm itself. This is the smart way to do things because she will roll
with just about ANYTHING you say when you’ve put her in this type of orgasmic
state

Sub-consciously your woman has now started to associate having sex with you AND
ANOTHER WOMAN as being incredibly pleasurable

The more you repeat the procedure (varying it each time) the stronger her
associations between having sex with you and another woman, and experiencing
incredible sexual pleasure will become

Trust me when I tell you that once you’ve done this a few times – your woman will
almost certainly want to and be willing to have that threesome with you and
another woman.

A word of warning…

Assuming you choose to leverage the threesome fantasy…

When you choose the other woman, be very open to your woman’s suggestions.
And don’t ever suggest ‘doing it’ with one of your ex-girlfriends or one of your
woman’s friends.

That’s just not gonna happen…

That’s one step too far my friend.

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The Main Goal Of The Night:
Give her a ‘beating’ for being a bad girl

What To Do:
Before embarking on tonight’s sexual adventure, you’ll need to visit an adult toy
store (in person or online) and get a paddle.

A paddle is simply a sex toy that you can use to SPANK your woman.

Try to get one with a split in the end because this will cause a really loud slapping
noise when you spank her with it – and this will be a TURN ON for her. It kinda gives
it a ‘bark louder than its bite’… and that’s a very good thing because it means you
get this awesome slapping noise without actually hurting her.

Once you have the paddle, proceed like this…

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In a serious and very dominant way,
say this to your woman:
“You’ve been a really bad girl so I’m going to have to give you a beating”

I know what you’re thinking…

The word BEATING sounds extreme.

And it is.

But it’ll really turn her on. After all – she’s TRUSTS and RESPECTS you and
knows you wouldn’t give her a real beating.

One you’ve given her the bad news (!) – pick her up, put
her over your shoulder and take her to the bedroom.

Go into ultra-dominant mode

at this point.
Say:

“You’re going to do exactly as I say. Do you understand?”

Of course – she’ll say “YES” and she’ll probably be

mischievously smirking by now as well.

Whatever the case, say:

“Take off all your clothes right now, except

or your bra and panties”

Then, once she’s done as you told her to

do, say:

“Now get on your hands and knees on the bed

and stick that sexy little ass in the air for me”

Of course – being the obedient girl that she is… she’ll

do as she’s told.

At this point, go get your paddle.

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Once you have it, start to trace it along her back, legs and her ass cheeks – but don’t
SPANK her with it just yet.

Instead – TEASE her and build her anticipation.

She’ll probably shiver with nervous sexual excitement as you do this.

Say things like:

“Baby, you know you’ve been a bad girl so I’m going to have to punish you. And
the best way to punish you is with a severe beating”

She will SHIVER when you say that.

Keep talking to her as you continue to stroke her back, ass and legs with the paddle
and get her VERY TURNED on.

When she is VERY TURNED on – somewhere approaching being close to

ORGASM – say:

“I’m going to beat you 10 times with this paddle and it’s going to hurt” (she’ll know
you’re not really going to hurt her, but just say it anyway because it’ll turn her on)

“When the 10th blow strikes your ass you’re going to cum very hard for me”

“Do you understand?”

She’ll reply “Yes”

Then begin ‘beating’ her with the paddle.

Aim for the lower part of her ass cheeks (just as you would if you were giving her a
good spanking with your hand).

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Then talk her through the ‘beating’ like this:
Strike her with the paddle for the first time and say:

“You’re my a bad girl”

Strike her with the paddle for the second time and say:

“You love being punished like a bad girl”

Strike her with the paddle for the third time and say:

“It makes you so wet when I beat you”

Strike her with the paddle for the fourth time and say:

“It makes you want to cum when I beat you”

Strike her with the paddle for the fifth time and say:

“It makes you want to cum so fucking hard when I beat your sexy ass”

Strike her with the paddle for the sixth time and say:

“You want to cum for me don’t you?”

Strike her with the paddle for the seventh time and say:

“You want to cum really fucking hard for me don’t you?”

Strike her with the paddle for the eighth time and say:

“You want to cum like a really fucking bad girl”

Strike her with the paddle for the ninth time and say:

“You’re going to cum so fucking hard the next time I hit your ass”

Strike her with the paddle for the tenth time and say:

“Cum for me right now. Do as you’re fucking told and cum right now”

And, of course – that’s exactly what she’ll do.

And you haven’t even taken her bra and panties off yet!

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 If you’re starting to think:

“Holy crap. This is crazy”

Don’t worry because I still think that after some of the sexual adventures I take my
woman on even at this point in time – having studied and taught this stuff for
YEARS.

Seriously – I still sometimes find myself thinking “Holy shit. Did I really just make that
happen? Did she really just cum that hard?”

So if you’re thinking this is TOO MUCH – that’s normal. Just do it anyway because
you and your woman will LOVE the results.

After you’ve ‘beat’ her to orgasm, proceed in any way you like.

To stick with the theme of you ‘giving your bad girl a beating’ – I recommend peeling
her panties down to her knees and fucking her hard and deep.

Needless to say…

Be sure to do the following things as you fuck her:

Grab her hair

Hold onto her shoulders

Spank her (with the paddle or your hand)

Reach round and play with her tits

Use plenty of dominant dirty talk

This idea of giving her a ‘BEATING’ because she’s been a BAD GIRL will really turn
her on and make her cum very hard.

Take a deep breath, make it happen and you’ll see what I mean.

Another great technique to use on this ‘night’ would be the COUNTDOWN orgasm
because it’s very dominant and puts you in a real ‘position of power’ that’s in-
keeping with the theme of the ‘night.’ (For details of how to do the countdown
orgasm, see ‘night 40’ of Bedroom Boss)

Tell Your Friends

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The Main Goal Of The Night:
Take her away for a night at a hotel

What To Do:
After last ‘nights’ beating – a change of pace is required.

While the really hard sex – complete with lashings of dirty talk – is almost certainly
what will result in the most powerful ORGASMS for your woman… sometimes you
need to tone it down a little, treat her like a princess and make it more romantic.

A night away in a hotel is the perfect way to do this.

If possible, book a bedroom that has a bathroom with a large corner bath. This
means NOT booking online and instead – calling the hotel the old-fashioned way and
enquiring about what kind of rooms they have available.

Once you have booked the room with a large corner bath… make your merry way
there with your woman.

Begin the evening with dinner.

This could be at the hotel’s restaurant if it comes highly recommended, or another
restaurant nearby. The choice is yours.

Whatever the case – stimulating CONVERSATION and plenty of HUMOR are the
order of the day.

After dinner, lead your woman to the hotel’s bar, buy her a glass of her favorite drink
and tell her you’ll be back in a few minutes. If she protests at you leaving her – just
give her a kiss on the cheek, a warm smile and say:

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 “Trust me babe”

Then make your way up to your room.

Once in the room, run a hot bath, pour in some bubble bath and either:

Turn the lights down low if they are on a dimmer switch

Or…

Light some candles

Then go back to the hotel bar, let your woman finish her drink (if she hasn’t already)
and lead her back up to the bedroom.

Begin proceedings by sharing that bath with her.

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Let her sit between your legs, with her back resting on your chest/stomach.

Enjoy this time with her by gently rubbing and stroking her neck and shoulders. This
will relax her in a very good way.

Be the first one to get out of the bath and go get her towel (pre-warmed on the
radiator of course!).

Once you’re both dry, turn the lights down in the bedroom and give her a massage.
After the massage give her a clitoral orgasm using The Welcomed Method (see
‘night 24’ for details of how to do this).

Then enter her and make-love.

Use the missionary position, the missionary position with your legs outside of hers
and also the spooning position (where you enter her from behind whilst you’re both
lying on your sides).

Use plenty of dirty talk, but make it less ‘dirty’ and more loving, sexy, romantic and
passionate.

Say things like:

“I love being inside you”

“You feel so good”

“You’re so wet for me”

“It feels so good to be inside you”

“You want to cum for me”

“I’m going to make you cum so hard”

Save the REALLY dirty talk for another night.

Afterwards, be sure to hold her for a while and share light-hearted conversation.

She’ll fondly remember this ‘night’ for a long time.

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The Main Goal Of The Night:
Give her a ‘Mindgasm’

What To Do:
On this ‘night’ you reach the ULTIMATE level…

A level where the sex becomes entirely mental…

A level most people cannot even comprehend…

You see, on this ‘night’ –

you’ll give your woman
a ‘Mindgasm’
The ‘Mindgasm’ involves ‘getting
your woman off’ – taking her all the
way to ORGASM – using only DIRTY
TALK. A ‘Mindgasm’ involves no
touching whatsoever.

The thought of doing this… of putting all

your faith in the powers of your dirty talk, may
make you nervous.

But I’m here to tell you that so long as you fully

BELIEVE in yourself and you have followed the
previous steps in the Bedroom Boss program
and got all the other types of orgasm working
– giving her a ‘Mindgasm’ will actually be a
piece of cake. It’s no big deal making it
happen.

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Think about it…

You’ve already given her an ANAL orgasm…

How the hell did that happen?

There is no erogenous zone like the G-Spot or A-Spot in her ass – but you still made
her cum as a result of pure ANAL stimulation.

The reason why you were able to give her anal orgasms, nipple orgasms, lip
orgasms, ear orgasms and – to a large extent VAGINAL orgasms – is because you
fully stimulated your woman’s MIND.

And her mind is the most important thing when it comes to ‘getting her off’ – far
more important than anybody part, the clitoris included.

To make this first ‘Mindgasm’ happen I recommend warming her up with several
other kinds of orgasms.

Choose the ones that REALLY get her going…

The ones that send her into a frenzy of pleasure…

The ones that make your woman go the ‘craziest’…

Then – when she’s still ‘recovering’ from her last orgasm – say:

“Baby. You’re going to do exactly as I say. Get on your hands and knees and stick
you pussy in the air for me”

She’ll do as she’s told and she’ll be super turned on by your dominant, extremely
dirty talk…

Then it’s time to talk her through the orgasm.

Here’s a sample script (use it for inspiration):

IMPORTANT: Because you are not going to touch her, you must be pretty much
relentless with your dirty talk. Do not pause for more than a second or two. After all
– you do not have the luxury of physical stimulation to ‘keep her going.’ This is all
about FUCKING HER MIND.

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 YOU: “You’re such a naughty girl. Arch your back and stick that pussy right out
for me”

This will make her feel VERY ‘naughty’

YOU: “You love doing what I tell you to do, don’t you?”
HER: “Yes”

YOU: “You love being naughty for me, don’t you?”

HER: “Yes”

YOU: “You love it when I give you permission to cum very hard, don’t you?”
HER: “Yes. Please give me permission”

YOU: “You love it when I tell you to cum very hard for me and wet the bed, don’t
you?”
HER: “Yes. Pleeeaaasssseeeee tell me to cum”

YOU: “When I tell you to cum you’re going to cum very very hard for me”

HER: “Fucking hell. I need to cum”

YOU: “You’ll cum when I tell you to. Do you understand?” (You’re just TEASING
her now. The more you do this the better it will feel when you give her
permission)
HER: “Yes. Please give me permission. I need to cum. Please!”

YOU: “Cum hard. Cum right now. Cum even harder for me baby. Keep coming”

And she’ll do exactly as you say.

At this point in the Bedroom Boss program – your woman is very ready to
experience her first ‘Mindgasm.’

You just have to be man-enough to ‘step-up’ and make it happen.

Pure dominance and relentless dirty talk are the techniques that will get the job
done.

Once you give her this first ‘Mindgasm’ – it becomes even easier to ‘get her off’
when physical touching is involved.

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The Main Goal Of The Night:
‘Get her off’ using her phone sex

What To Do:
‘When most men think of PHONE SEX, they imagine
masturbating whilst some hot chick tells them what she’s
wearing and what she’d do to him if she were with him at
that very moment.

Now I hate to burst that bubble and destroy the fantasy of

having some hot chick tell you exactly how she’d like to
fuck you, but that is pretty much the EXACT OPPOSITE of
how a great lover gives his woman satisfying phone sex.

I can tell you now…

It’s all about ‘getting her off’ – not about getting

yourself off.

The satisfaction comes from hearing her literally

SCREAM with pleasure down the phone as you
talk her through orgasm after orgasm. As ridiculous
as it might sound – some of my most satisfying sexual
experiences have happened when I was fully clothed, and
giving a woman phone sex…

There’s just something about using only your VOICE to ‘get

a woman off’- and hearing her totally lose it down the
phone line – that is very, very hot.

It certainly makes you feel like a BOSS!

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Plus…

It tends to result in RED-HOT sex when you finally get your hands on each other…
So, in the end – everyone’s a winner.

Now that you have the ‘Mindgasm’ working – you

have 2 options when you give her phone sex:
1. Talk very dirty to her and know that she’ll almost certainly rub her clitoris
to help ‘get herself off’ as you stimulate her MIND. There is nothing wrong
with this

2. Deliberately tell her that she is NOT allowed to touch herself in anyway –
thus leaving you to ‘get her off’ as a result of dirty talk and only dirty talk.
This will result in a ‘Mindgasm’

The first time you give her phone sex – I suggest using option 1 and then progressing
to option 2 within the same call.

Allow me to explain in greater detail…

First of all – there are 3 very important techniques

that you need to use for successful phone sex:
1. You must be very dominant and confident with your dirty talk. This makes
you believable and allows your woman to ‘go with’ whatever you say to her
down the phone line

2. Be relentless. Over the phone you cannot stimulate your woman physically
and you cannot give her any visual stimulation either. This means that dirty
talk is your only weapon. To keep her building towards orgasm, you much
be pretty much relentless when giving her phone sex, in a way that is not
totally necessary with ‘regular sex.’ If you aren’t relentless, there will be
awkward silences, she won’t be sure what’s going on and the whole event
will fall flat on its face.

3. When she is close to climaxing, tell her you are going to ‘blow your load.’
This may not be the truth – you may actually be fully clothed, but it is very
exciting for her to hear and may be all it takes to ‘push her over the edge’
and make her come

In fact, I actually recommend that you remain FULLY CLOTHED and do not
masturbate when giving your woman phone sex. The reason why I say this is
because if you whip your cock out and start pleasuring yourself you will almost

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certainly find it more difficult to talk to her with the quality of dirty talk that is
required to give her powerful orgasms over the phone.

How to transition from normal conversation to phone sex…

Once you have your woman on the phone and have established that she is alone
and somewhere private, you can gradually get her into phone sex.

DO NOT say:

“Hey honey, we’re gonna have phone sex”

If you do, you’ll freak her out (especially the first time).

Instead, start off by asking rapport building questions. Things like:

“How’s your day going?”

“What’s going on at work?”

“How was lunch with your friends?”

You get the idea.

Pretty simple stuff. But stuff most guys don’t do.

You’re just basically taking an interest in her day and listening to her responses.

Women LOVE men who LISTEN.

After a few minutes of this, she’ll probably ask you how your day is going.

Reply by saying something like:

“It’s going well baby, but it’d be much better if I was with you right now”

She’ll love this response because it lets her know that she’s super-important to you.

Follow it up with something like:

“If I was with you right now I’d hold you really close and kiss your forehead”

Listen for her moan/sigh. She will moan/sigh at this point as she imagines you
holding her close and kissing her forehead.

Now it’s time to give her FOREPLAY over the phone.

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Tell her how you’d kiss her, caress her and stroke every inch of her body. Just
describe very clearly what you’d do if you were with her in person at that moment in
time.

Don’t expect her to say much – understand and accept that you need to do 99% of
the talking.

Do expect her to make soft little sounds as she gets into the experience and zones in
on your words.

When you can tell she’s really into it… describe in detail – whilst keeping things VERY
SIMPLE – how you’d give her ORAL SEX.

When she is close to orgasm – talk her through it in the same way you’d do if you
were with her in person. (Well, you wouldn’t be able to talk her through ORAL SEX –
but you get my point).

Here’s a sample script (use for inspiration):

“You taste so good baby”

“You love it when I lick your clit up and down and up and down and up and
down”

“You’re so wet for me right now”

“You love my warm tongue on your clit, licking it up and down and up and down
and up and down”

“You want to cum right now”

“My tongue makes you want to cum as it goes up and down and up and down
and up and down your little clit”

“Cum right now baby. Cum hard as I lick that clit. Cum hard for me”

And that’s exactly what she’ll do.

That first time she ORGASMS down the phone will blow your mind. Guaranteed.

Notice how I didn’t even bother putting her responses into the script above… just
expect her to moan and sigh as you talk dirty to her. Don’t expect her to engage in
any dialogue with you.

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After she catches her breath, you can end the phone sex session with some light-
hearted conversation, or you can take things to the next level and give her a
‘Mindgasm’ over the phone.

Here’s how to make that ‘Mindgasm’ a reality for her…

Say:

“Baby, you trust me very much don’t you?”

She’ll say “Yes”

Then say:

“You love to do as you’re told don’t you baby?”

Again, she’ll reply “YES”.

Follow up with:

“Right now I’m going to make you feel very good, but first you have to do
something for me. OK?”

She’ll say “YES”

Reply with:

“Which hand do you have the phone in?”

She’ll tell you.

Say:

“OK. That’s fine. I know you touched your pussy when I was talking to you a few
minutes ago, but now I want you to put your left/right hand (whichever hand
she’s not holding the phone in) behind your back and promise me that you won’t
touch your pussy under any circumstances. Do you understand?”

She’ll tell you that she understands and if she trusts and respects you – she won’t
touch her pussy.

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 From here – be very DOMINANT, be very RELENTLESS and use all your dirty talk
powers to ‘get her off.’

To kick her over the edge, when she gets very close, tell her you’re going to ‘blow
your load.’

For instance, let’s say you’re talking her through doing her ‘from behind.’

Here’s a sample script:

“You love it when I bend you over and fuck your tight little pussy, don’t you?”

“You love it when I force my hard cock in and out and in and out and in and out
of your pussy”

“You love being my naughty little cum whore and taking my fat cock up your
little pussy”

“It feels so good when it goes in and out and in and out and in and out of you,
doesn’t it?”

“You want to cum for me don’t you?”

“My big, fat, hard cock makes your tight little pussy want to cum as it goes in and
out and in and out and in and out”

“I’m gonna pull out and blow my load all over your ass baby”

“You’re going to cum for me right now. Cum right now baby. Cum right now as I
blow my load all over your ass”

She will do as she’s told.

When you tell her you’re going to cum – pretend that you are coming. Make the
noises so she knows you’re not ‘faking it’ (even though you are ;)

Afterwards, let her catch her breath and tell her what a good girl she’s been for you.
Tell her how much it turns you on when she does as she’s told for you. Re-assure her
that she behaved exactly as you wanted her to do so.

End the conversation with light-hearted chat. The ‘light-hearted chat’ brings her
‘back to reality.’

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Night
57
The Main Goal Of The
Night:
Have great oral sex

What To Do:
Begin this night by giving your
woman a combination orgasm (see
‘night 4’ for details).

After you’ve given her the

combination orgasm, tell her you
want her to suck your cock. Then
train her to give you head EXACTLY
as you’d like to receive it.

Most guys just lay back (or stand

there) in silence when they’re getting
head. This is BORING for their
women and often means that they
aren’t getting head exactly as they’d
like it.

Know that your woman will be willing

to do pretty much WHATEVER you
want in the bedroom by the time you
get to this stage of the Bedroom
Boss program. So take advantage of
this and train her to give you the
best blow job you’ve ever had.

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To build her confidence – as opposed to breaking it – whilst you’re ‘training her’…
using my Compliment then Direct technique.

The Compliment then Direct technique involves paying her a compliment, then
telling her what to do.

If you just tell her what to do – she’ll likely feel like she’s doing everything WRONG
and this will smash her confidence and make her less likely to give you head in the
future.

Here’s an example of how the Compliment then

Direct technique works…
“That feels so good baby. Suck it harder”

“Your lips feel so good around my cock. Put your hands on my shaft as well”

“I love it when you lick up and down my cock. Lick my balls as well”

Get it?

It’s super-simple, and highly effective.

You’re making her feel like she’s AMAZING at giving you head and you’re letting her
know that you’re really enjoying it. This will turn her on massively.

At the same time, you’re training her to give you head in the exact way you want it.
Best of both worlds ;)

Of course, if you want to be really cool…

Talk her through a couple of orgasms as she gives you head before finishing by
‘blowing your load’ in her mouth or over her face and tits. Either way – she’ll love it.

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Night
58
The Main Goal Of The Night:
Give her multiple anal orgasms

What To Do:
The vagina is the default ‘hole’
to use for intercourse. But
remember – her most powerful
orgasms will probably happen
when you change things up and
fuck her ass.

It’s exciting for her when you

fuck her ass because its
‘naughty’… it’s wrong… and its
taboo.

And now that you’ve taught her

to have ANAL ORGASMS – her
fear of anal intercourse has been
replaced by a willingness to
have you up there that most
women will never experience.

On this – ‘night 57’- make it ALL

ABOUT HER ASS.

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Begin by giving her an anal orgasm using the fingering technique I taught you on
‘night 19.’

After this orgasm, get her in the ‘doggy-style’ position, lubricate the butt plug and
slowly fuck her ass with it.

As you do so, talk very dirty to her.

Say things like:

“This makes your ass feel so good”

“This makes your ass want to cum”

“You love it when I fuck your ass”

You get the idea.

Get her really worked up and then talk her through the orgasm.

Then pull the butt plug out, lube up your cock (having put on the condom if you so
wish) and slowly insert your length inside her ass.

Once you’re in her ass, begin slowly going in and out and talk her through her first
ANAL ORGASM. Keep going for as long as she keeps enjoying it and ‘get her off’ as
many times as you can.

Savor the moment each and every time she pushes back HARD on you as a
powerful anal orgasm during intercourse rips through her body. Few guys ever get
to make their women cum this way!

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Night
59
The Main Goal Of The Night:
Introduce a new sex position into your
‘bedroom adventures’

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What To Do:
On this ‘night’ do whatever you want, so long as you use the following sex position
at some point during your sexual session:

• Have your woman lay face down on the bed, with a pillow under her stomach.
Then enter her from behind

The pillow raises her ass in the air and makes it easy for you to penetrate her.

Once you’re inside her you can lean forwards rest on your hands or elbows and
thrust in and out of her.

You can also GRIND as opposed to thrusting.

A third option (that requires you to be fairly flexible in your hips and groins) is to
arch up so your torso is perpendicular to the bed. This will cause your hamstrings to
rest on your calves. Once you’re in this position, thrust in and out of her. This variation
gives you a quite simply fantastic view of your cock stretching your woman’s pussy
wide open.

Happy days.

Your woman will love all these variations of this sex position, especially if you use
plenty of dirty talk because she’ll feel like you are ON TOP and totally in control of
her. And as you know – women love to be dominated and controlled by their men
IN THE BEDROOM.

Get her off a few times, change positions or switch to oral sex and keep going until
you ‘blow your load’ for her.

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Night
60
The Main Goal Of The Night:
Exercise your newfound
powers of sexual creativity

What To Do:
On this ‘night’ I want you to take a break from listening to me.

Seriously. I want you to ‘go solo’ on this ‘night’ and put your newfound power of
sexual creativity into practice.

Use ANY of the techniques I’ve taught you in Bedroom Boss up to this point and
combine them in any way you like to have truly wonderful sex with your woman.
I’ll give you one tip and one tip only on this ‘night’…

Give her MULTIPLE ORGASMS. So long as you do that – you’ll be golden.

You may think this ‘night’ is a big weird – but it’s simply a case of TOUGH LOVE. I’m
being cruel to be kind…

You see, I don’t want you to get through all 69 ‘nights’ of Bedroom Boss and wind
up feeling like you can’t give your woman GREAT SEX unless you have my book to
hand.

The idea of this Bedroom Boss book is arm you with an incredible selection of sexual
techniques and enough sexual creativity to keep giving your woman amazing sex for
the rest of your life.

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The goal of Bedroom Boss is not to make you
reliant on me.
This is no different to me taking golf lessons.

I see my golf coach once a month for an hour or two. Sometimes once every two
weeks.

I do not see him every day or multiple times a week because if I did – it may make
me very good at hitting golf shots when he’s by my side, but could leave me feeling
a bit ‘naked’ when I have to hit golf shots on my own. And in competitions – I’m on
my own… he’s not by my side.

See the similarities with ‘the bedroom?’

I’m not by your side…

So right now – on ‘night 60’ – I want you to close the Bedroom Boss book and go it
alone. Just wing it. You’ll be fine.

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Night
61
The Main Goal Of The Night:
Watch an ‘adult movie’ with your woman

What To Do:
By this stage of the Bedroom Boss program – your woman is going to be pretty
sexually liberated because of the sexual adventures you’ve taken her on.

You’ll probably have heard me say less than complimentary things about the porn
industry in the past…

That it teaches guys lousy habits in the bedroom…

And that it’s usually lame to watch because the women don’t often seem to be truly
enjoying themselves…

However, there is good porn out there.

There is porn out there that has a STORY-LINE and isn’t abysmally acted.

There is also porn out there where the women are experiencing incredible pleasure.

And it’s this type of porn – the kind with a story line and where the women are
receiving incredible pleasure – that WOMEN will like to watch.

So your first task is to find that type of porn movie, buy it and put it in the DVD
player.

Don’t tell your woman you are doing this – just do it.

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Then take her to the room where the DVD player is ready and waiting and start
making out with your woman. Get her hot, wet and horny and then confidently go
over to the DVD player and start the movie!

Then go back to making out with your woman.

From this point onwards – you can have sex with your woman with the porn on in
the background.

It’s something new.

It’s different.

It’s something exciting.

I don’t recommend you do it on a regular basis (because it could become

distracting), but on 1 of 69 ‘nights’ - it’ll be fun.

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 A few tips on choosing ‘the right’ kind of porn to
watch with your woman…
1. Choose porn that has very DOMINANT male actors who clearly enjoy
giving women PLEASURE and know how to do it

2. Story lines such as ‘naughty school girls’ being disciplined by their

teachers, naughty secretary’s being punished by their bosses and women
who’ve run out of money having to pay for things ‘in other ways’ will turn
your woman on! The reason why these types of story lines will get her going
is because they are NAUGHTY.

3. Avoid the typical kind of porn where the guy just basically pounds the
woman with no interest whatsoever in her pleasure. This kind of porn will
probably bore your woman to tears

4. If you have no idea where to start when selecting a porn movie, get a copy
of The Fashionistas. I was introduced to this movie years ago by a woman I
was dating at the time. That should tell you everything. She freakin’ loved it
and I banged her several times with the Fashionistas playing the background

Finally, a word of advice…

When watching porn with your woman – think more in terms of ‘having sex with her
when porn is playing in the background’ because you don’t want to start paying the
movie more attention than you are your woman. That would be a very big mistake.

Porn move aside – ‘night 61’ is business as usual. Give her MULTIPLE orgasms and
you’ll come out a winner.

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Night
62
The Main Goal Of The Night:
Have sex in the car

What To Do:
On this ‘night’ take your woman out in the car
and have ‘car sex.’ This will make you feel 18
again!

If you’re not comfortable getting naked and

having sex on the back seat, here’s another way
to approach ‘car sex’…

Once you’ve parked your car in a location you’re

happy with, stay in the driver’s seat and let your
woman sit in the passenger seat. Then ‘meet her
half way’ (across the gearstick) and start making
out.

After a few minutes – when she’s really into it –

grab her hand and move it down towards your
pants, so she can feel your hardness.

From here – she’ll get the idea and unzip your

flies and start giving you head.

As she’s giving you head, tell her to kneel on the

seat. Once she’s in this position you can then put
your hand between her legs and easily finger her
pussy and get her off by stimulating her G-Spot
or A-Spot.

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Of course – you could be a total badass and NOT touch her pussy and just ‘get her
off’ using your voice.

Truthfully – by this stage of the Bedroom Boss program, you have so many options
for giving her sexual pleasure… its crazy. You’re that damn good in bed.

Whatever you do – be DOMINANT, use plenty of DIRTY TALK and be sure to give
her several powerful orgasms.

Do that and she’ll be a very happy girl.

Oh – and on this ‘night’ there’s only one place you can ‘blow your load’… in her
pretty little mouth… something that will make her feel especially naughty.

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Night
63
The Main Goal Of The Night:
Spoil her rotten

What To Do:
After the naughtiness and dirtiness of watching porn and having car sex on the
previous two ‘nights’ – it’s time for a change of pace…

‘Night 63’ is all about spoiling her and doing a few really nice things for her that she
didn’t ask you to do and really didn’t expect.

Begin by sending her flowers during the day. Have them

delivered to her place of work – or have them delivered
to your house if that’s where she’ll be during the day.
Be sure to select her favorite flowers and have the
florist include a romantic note. I can’t tell you what
the romantic note should say because it has to
come from the heart. Your heart.

For extra ‘points’ – send

her a small box of her
favorite chocolates
along with the flowers.

During the day (or several days

in advance to be on the safe side)
tell her that you’re taking her out
for dinner.

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You know how this works…
• Book a great restaurant

• Request a table in a quiet corner of the room

• Engage her with plenty of stimulating conversation and laughter during dinner

• Sit next to her, not opposite her

• Order for her

• Share one dessert and feed each other (NOTE: always feed her the FIRST bite)

Over dinner, stroke her leg under the table, kiss her hand and generally be
ROMANTIC.

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 Once you get home from the restaurant, run a hot bubble bath and – if there’s room
– get in with her. Have the towels ‘pre-warming’ on the radiator.

During ‘bath-time’ stroke her and kiss her tenderly.

After ‘bath-time’ – whilst she’s getting dried – casually hand her a perfectly gift-
wrapped box of new (and very sexy!) lingerie.

IMPORTANT: Before you buy the lingerie – check her panty and bra size by
going through her underwear drawer. Also buy a style of lingerie you know
she likes. For instance, if she wears a lot of thongs – go for that panty style. If
she wears a lot of French Knickers – buy that style.

If you’re not an expert in gift-wrapping boxes, ask them to do it in the lingerie shop.
All good lingerie shops with do this for you.

To be a total badass… write a note for your woman and put it in the lingerie box.

She’ll find it when she opens it.

As she’s slipping into the lingerie for you – put on some ‘love-making music.’ Think
along the lines of Marvin Gaye’s famous tracks Sexual Healing and Lets Get It On
and you can’t go far wrong.

Then, turn the lights down very low, light a few candles and make love to her.

Keep the dirty talk sweet, tender, sexy and romantic on this ‘night’ and not triple XXX
rated.

Be dominant, but in a subtle way… By all means gently hold her arms down above
her head, but save the ‘beatings’ and ‘punishments’ for another ‘night.’

On this ‘night’ – she’s the love of your life. She can be your naughty willing little set
of cum holes tomorrow ‘night.’

Use lots of kissing.

Use intimate sex positions – variations of the missionary position, her-on-top and
spooning will work great. Leave doggy-style for another night.

And of course – give her multiple orgasms during intercourse and blow your load
inside her.

She’ll feel very special – like a princess – afterwards.

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Night
64
The Main Goal Of The Night:
Tease her to breaking point

What To Do:
After spoiling her rotten and
generally being loving and
romantic last ‘night’ – tonight
you’ll show her a different side
of your bedroom personality…

On this ‘night’ you’re going to

go ultra-dominant and sexually
TEASE her to breaking point.

You’re going to restrain her…

You’re going to make her BEG…

You’re going to make her feel

overwhelmed…

You’re going to use the hardest,

nastiest dirty talk you can
possibly imagine…

You’re going to make her cum

extremely hard and give her
incredible sexual pleasure… but
you are going to make her
‘work’ for it…

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Let the games begin…
You need to set the scene by telling your woman that she’s “been a very bad girl”
and that you “must punish her.”

Once you’ve made this clear to her, put her over your shoulder and carry her to the
bedroom.

Now tell her to strip down to her panties and bra and to get on the bed and stick her
ass in the air for you.

If you’ve ‘trained’ her well – she’ll do as you say.

Once she’s on the bed with her ass in the air, bring out 3 cable ties and secure her
wrists together. To do this, put one cable tie round each wrist (not too tightly) and
use the third cable tie to join the two around her wrists together.

Telling her not to move from the position she is in under any circumstances, go get
the blindfold and place it over her eyes.

You now have her on the bed in her bra and panties, with her ass in the air, resting
on her forearms. Her hands are secured together with ‘cable tie handcuffs’ and she
is blindfolded.

This will make her feel vulnerable and exposed to you.

Because she TRUSTS and RESPECTS you and has surrendered to you many times in
the past – she will feel excited. She’ll also feel a little fear because of the position she
is in and because she doesn’t know what you are going to do.

Logically speaking, she knows you’re going to make her feel VERY GOOD. But logic
tends to go out of the window when someone bigger and stronger than you is
restraining you and not letting you see what’s going on!

Next step; get out your paddle and say:

“Baby. You’ve been a really bad girl and as I’ve already told you – I’m going to
have to punish you to bring you back in line, to put you in your place. Do you
understand?”

After she has confirmed that she understands, say:

“I’m now going to spank you very hard. Do you understand?”

Once she says “YES” – begin spanking her ass with the paddle.

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In-between each spank, keep talking dirty and reminding her that you’re “punishing
her for being a bad girl.”

She will be getting VERY turned on.

When you feel the time is right, say:

“I’m going to spank you 10 more times and on the 10th spank, you’re going to do
as you’re told and cum very hard. Do you understand?”

When she confirms, begin spanking her and ramp up her sexual excitement with
dirty talk in-between each slap of the paddle.

After you’ve given her the spanking orgasm, put the paddle to one side and start
rubbing her pussy through her panties.

Rub her pussy and her ass and make her feel very good.

Then start saying things like:

“You’d like me to touch your naked pussy right now, wouldn’t you?”

“You’d like me to fuck your wet little hole right now, wouldn’t you?”

“You want my cock inside you right now, don’t you baby?”

She’ll respond by saying “YES” to all of your simple, direct questions. And she’ll be
getting very turned on as you use The “YES” Ladder on her.

Carry on rubbing her pussy and asking her questions that make her REALLY want
you to fuck her and then, when she’s very close – stop rubbing her pussy, put your
mouth really close to her ear and say:

“You want me to fuck you right now, but I’m going to make you wait”

“Naughty girls can’t always have what they want”

“You’re so wet right now for me”

Keeping teasing her like this and continuously reminding her how much she wants
you to fuck her. It will drive her crazy.

When she’s right on the edge, talk her through a ‘Mindgasm.’

Once she’s caught her breath, go back to TEASING her…

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Start rubbing her pussy again through her panties and reminding her how good it
feels and how much she wants you to fuck her.

When she’s really worked up again, say:

“Baby. I know you want me to fuck you, but you’ve been a very bad girl and you
must wait”

“You need to be punished some more before you can have what you want”

This will drive her freakin’ crazy!

Now give her another SPANKING orgasm, but this time using your hand, not the
paddle. Remember to aim for the lower portion of her ass cheeks and do it hard
enough to make a nice, crisp slapping noise, but not so hard that it actually hurts her.
Once she’s had the orgasm, go back once again to rubbing her pussy and ass
through her panties.

Again, use lots of dirty talk to remind her how good it feels when you rub her pussy,
how WET she is for you and how badly she wants your hard length inside her.

This time, when she’s really close to orgasm and BEGGING to feel you inside her, lift
her up and sit her on the side of the bed.

Then say,

“Open your mouth baby”

You know what to do next…

Put your cock down her throat. Remember – she still has her hands cable tied
together and she still can’t see what’s going on.

Give her a good face-fuck and use a lot of dirty talk to ‘get her off’ as you do so. Tell
her how wet it makes her when you fuck her face and keep reminding her how badly
she wants you to fuck her.

After she’s had the orgasm and given you pleasure with her mouth, tell her to get
back on the bed and stick her ass in the air.

Once she’s in position, very dominantly say:

“Baby, I have to leave the room for a minute. Stay exactly as you are. Do you
understand?”

She will protest at you leaving, but hold your ground. Get her to agree to stay
exactly as she is – with her ass in the air – before you leave.

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Then leave the room for a minute or two.

This is purely to TEASE her even more.

Believe me when I tell you… by this point she will be going crazy, insane even, and
she’ll be desperate for you to fuck her.

Go back into the room and begin rubbing her pussy and ass through her panties
once again. As you’re rubbing her, say:

YOU: “Baby, you want me to fuck you don’t you?”

HER: “Oh God yes”

YOU: “You want me to pull down your wet little panties and fuck your pussy
don’t you?”
HER: “God yes. Please”

YOU: “You want me to stretch you wide open with my big fact cock don’t you?”
HER: “Yes. Please fuck me”

YOU: “You want me to fuck your pussy and rub your ass until you cum don’t
you?”
HER: “Please. I can’t take it. Fuck me now!”

At this point, pull her panties down to her knees and begin rubbing the head of your
cock and up and down the entrance to her pussy. She’ll try to push back on you, but
don’t let her. Keep teasing her and talking to her.

Say:

YOU: “As soon as I put my cock inside you, you’re going to cum very hard for
me. Do you understand?”
HER: “Yes. Please. Fuck me now”

Repeat this idea to her two or three times – the idea that as soon as you enter her,
she’s going to cum very hard.

Then give her what she wants.

As soon as you enter her, be sure to say:

“Cum now. Cum hard for me. Cum very hard”

And that’s exactly what she’ll do.

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 Then hold onto her ass cheeks, keep talking dirty, spank her every now and then, ride
her to a few orgasms and finally – ‘blow your load’ wherever you like.

When you ‘blow your load’ – give her an orgasm at the same time.

This is the real way to achieve simultaneous

orgasm…
YOU: “I’m going to blow my load inside your fucking pussy baby”
HER: “Oh fuck yes. Do it”

YOU: “When I blow my load you’re going to cum very hard for me. Do you
understand?”
HER: “Yes. Give me it”

YOU: “Your pussy feels so good; it makes me want to cum. You want my cum
don’t you?”
HER: “Yes. I want it now”

YOU: “When I blow my load inside you it’s going to make you cum very hard”
HER: “Give me it. Cum inside me”

YOU: “I’m going to count to 3 and on 3 I’m going to cum inside you”

At this point you’ll notice she gets VERY EXCITED. She knows what the countdown
means…. Orgasm!

YOU: “3. you’re so fucking wet and horny baby.”

YOU: “2. you want to cum so hard for me.”
YOU: “1. cum hard baby. Cum really hard for me” (say this as you’re ‘unloading’
inside her)

After you’ve shot your wad, pull out of her, take her blindfold off, carefully cut the
cable ties off her hands and hold her close. She’s earned it!

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Night
65
The Main Goal Of
The Night:
Give her a
‘Mindgasm’ in a
bar, nightclub
or strip club

What To Do:
The adventures on ‘night’ 65 can
take place in a bar, nightclub or
even a strip club.

What you’re going to do is give

your woman a ‘Mindgasm’ whilst
you’re in one of those 3 venues.

In fact, you could be a total

BADASS and do all 3 venues in one
night…

Start in the bar, progress to the

nightclub and end in the strip club.

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IMPORTANT TIP: Before taking her to a strip club, get her turned onto the idea of
women by talking dirty to her about having another woman lick her pussy when
she’s highly aroused. If you do this with enough intensity and only when she’s close
to orgasm and during orgasm – she’ll be more than happy to accompany you to a
strip club. (For more information on leveraging fantasies using dirty talk, see
‘night 52’)

Now, what’s really powerful about giving your woman a ‘Mindgasm’ in these venues
is that everyone in those venues appears to be having FUN, but you’ll be giving your
woman more fun than everyone else is having put together.

Another reason why your woman will love this is because it’s RISKY – you’re giving
her an orgasm IN PUBLIC. That’s not something most couples do, so it makes it all
the more exciting!

The great thing is that the ‘Mindgasm’ (or lip or ear orgasm) makes this relatively
EASY do without getting arrested or thrown out of the bar, nightclub or strip club.
I actually gave my girlfriend LIP and EAR orgasms, as well as ‘Mindgasms’ – whilst
we got a dance in a strip club from a very hot Brazilian stripper. The stripper literally
could not believe what she was seeing as my girlfriend came over and over again
whilst see waved her tits and ass in our faces.

It was quite a sight.

And my girlfriend LOVED it.

Try it with your woman and you’ll see what I mean.

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Night
66
The Main Goal Of The Night:
‘Get her off’ at the cinema

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What To Do:
Usually when you go to the cinema you choose a film you really want to see. And if
it’s a good film, a blockbuster, that’s been well marketed and is getting rave reviews
– that usually means that there will be lots of ‘bums on seats’ when you watch it.

And that’s cool.

That’s the cinema experience.

However, on ‘night 66’ of Bedroom Boss, you have to start thinking differently about
the cinema.

Quite simply, you want to go see a movie that won’t have many people in the
auditorium.

Choose a late night showing of a movie that has tanked and you should be OK.
There’ll hardly be anyone there – which is exactly what you want. LOL.

Once you’re in the movie theatre, choose your seats wisely. Go for two seats next to
the wall that are away from everyone else. Sit your woman next to the wall, on the
very end seat.

Teenagers all over the world regularly ‘make-out’ when they go watch a movie. But
you’re going to take things way beyond ‘making-out.’

You see, you’re going to give your woman an orgasm or two… or three or four if
you’re feeling really generous ;)

The techniques that usually work best for doing

this in the cinema would be:
• The ‘Mindgasm’ (just talk dirty in her ear)

• The lip orgasm (just looks like your ‘making out’)

• The ear orgasm (looks like you’re really going for it, but still just ‘making out’)

• If you’re feeling really brave, you could give her an anal orgasm. To do this, just
slip your hand down the back of her pants and enter her ass. No one will know –
it’ll just look like you’re stroking her lower back.

Now, the one thing to be aware of is that if she SCREAMS when you give her the
orgasm, you’re probably going to end up in trouble.

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 So now you’re probably thinking:
“Well, yeah, if I ‘get her off’ – she’s gonna scream Adam. Duh!”

Not so fast.

At this point, your woman has total sexual trust with you and a ton of respect for
you. In her eyes you’re her Sex God – her Bedroom Boss – and you have more
power and control over her pleasure and orgasms than you probably realize.
So, to make her cum quietly, here’s what you do…

When she’s very close, tell her what you’re going to do next and that it’s going to
‘get her off’ and tell her that she must cum in silence. Tell her that if she wants, she
can bite down on your finger as she cums. But she must not make any noise!

WARNING: She may bite down VERY hard, but just take it like a man.

Here’s how it might look…

Let’s assume your fingering her ass in the cinema. When she’s very close, start
penetrating her ass with just the TIP of your finger, and then (quietly) say:

YOU: “Baby, you really want to cum for me right now, don’t you?”
HER: “Yes”

YOU: “I’m going to make you cum very hard, but you must cum in silence. Do
you understand?”
HER: “Yes”

YOU: “When I put my finger all the way inside your ass, you’re going to cum
very hard for me, in total silence”
HER: “Ok. Please let me cum”

Then slide your finger into her ass and say:

“Cum for me baby. Cum hard and in total silence. Don’t make any noise”

If you’re worried about her keeping SILENT as she has the orgasm, first try the
technique of telling her to cum in SILENCE in the privacy of your own home. You’ll
be amazed at how well she obeys your commands.

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Night
67
The Main Goal Of The Night:
Get the video camera out

What To Do:
There is something extremely arousing about filming yourself having sex with your
woman. And it’s great to watch it back with her afterwards.

These days, a humble smart phone – such as the iPhone or Samsung’s latest offering
– will shoot high definition video. So that’s all you really need, plus a tripod to mount
it on. If you want a cheap, high quality tripod that can rest on your bedside table, I
recommend you grab a Gorilla Pod like the one at left, available on Amazon.

I won’t waste time boring you with details of how to operate the video camera on a
smart phone. After all – most 6 or 8 year old kids seem capable of doing it these
days… so I’m sure
you’re more than
up to the task.

The thing to be
most careful of on
this ‘night’ is how
you approach the
subject of
FILMING your
sexual adventure
with your woman.

Here’s how I
suggest you do it…

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Start off by getting her really turned on and then give her a few orgasms.

As you’re doing this, tell her how SEXY she is, how AMAZING she looks and how
much her body turns you on. If possible, pay her a couple of non-generic
compliments… compliments that are unique to her and that you could not say to
just any woman.

When she’s highly aroused and you’ve given her a few orgasms, reach over, turn
the camera on and say:

“You’re so fucking hot baby, I’m going to film myself fucking you”

Notice that I didn’t say to ASK her if it’s OK if you film her. I just said to pull the
camera out, turn it on and tell her how hot it’s going to be to film yourself fucking
her.

Then have sex as usual, give her several orgasms and she’ll love every second of the
experience.

Feel free to watch it back afterwards and admire your ‘handy work.’

Making ‘home movies’ is fun!

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Night
68
The Main Goal Of The
Night:
Have sex in front of a
mirror (or two)

What To Do:
Last night you filmed yourself having
sex with your woman and you’ll have
noticed how much this turned her on.

On this – ‘night 68’ of Bedroom Boss –

you’ll have sex with your woman in
front of a mirror or two.

This will give you great views as you

fuck her – depending on where you
position the mirrors. And it’ll feel very
NAUGHTY for your woman, which will
really turn her on.

I don’t really care how you fuck her in

front of the mirror because the truth is
that so long as you do so dominantly,
use plenty of dirty talk and ‘get her off’
several times – she’s gonna love it.

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That said, I do have a few suggestions for
incredible ‘mirror sex’…
Feel free to incorporate them into this ‘night.’

1. If you have a mirror on the wall the top of your bed rests against – take full
advantage of it. ‘Doggy style’ is the way to go. Try it when you are both
facing the mirror and also when you’re side on. Both views will excite you in
different ways.

2. Position a mirror to one side of your bed. Now you can have sex in the
missionary position or with her-on-top and all you both have to do is turn
your heads to the side and enjoy the view!

3. Do the same as the last suggestion – putting a mirror to the side of the
bed. But take things a step further by putting a mirror at the foot of the bed
as well. Now, whoever is ‘underneath’ can look at the mirror at the bottom of
the bed and get a great view. The mirrors give you extremely sexy views of
what’s going on that you simply cannot get without them

4. If you’re ‘playboy’ enough to have a mirror on the ceiling, above your bed
– you already know what to do with it ;)

OK. So those are a few ideas of setting up mirrors in different positions, to give both
you and your woman great views of what’s going on. It’s not rocket-science and it’s
well worth doing.

Now, the real secret to having incredible Mirror Sex is to leverage the ‘naughty’
aspect of fucking in front of a mirror and really make your woman aware of it.
I can tell you that, at first – she may not be as willing as you are to look in the mirror
as you fuck her.

You must help her to overcome this shyness with dominant behavior and ample
dirty talk.

For instance, let’s say you’re fucking her from behind, while you both stand in front of
the mirror. Let’s say your face on, so she can see all of herself and she can see you
‘taking her from behind.’

If she’s not fully embracing the mirror, gently grab her hair and force her to look into
the mirror as you ‘take her hard from behind.’

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Then say:

“Baby, do as you’re told and watch yourself getting fucked”

She will get very turned on and, of course – she’ll do as she’s told.

Now imagine a similar scenario – where you’re ‘taking her hard from behind’ – the
only difference being that this time the mirror is to your side.

Again, grab her hair and direct her gaze towards the mirror and then say:

“Baby, you love it when I fuck you hard from behind”

“Watch my hard, fat cock going in and out of your tight little pussy”
The combination of watching you going in and out of her from behind, your
dominant behavior, and your dirty talk will drive her crazy.

Talk her through an orgasm and she’ll keep wanting more.

You may now be thinking this sounds great, but also wondering where all these
mirrors come from?

Well, if you don’t have a mirror on the wall that the top of your bed rests against – I
recommend getting one. Just make sure you have it hung by someone who knows
what they’re doing; a reputable builder/joiner.

Then I recommend buying a couple of moderately sized mirrors that you can – when
the mood takes you – position at the foot of the bed and to the side of the bed.
These mirrors could be 2ft x 3ft, or better still 3ft x 4ft.

I once dated a woman who had a couple of free-standing mirrors in her bedroom,
meaning they weren’t fixed to any particular position. Instead, she had them sitting
on the floor, leaning against the walls.

Every now and then we’d deliberately position them so we could see ourselves and
it was never anything less than HIGHLY ENTERTAINING and very sexy.

So that’s how you do Mirror Sex.

It’s naughty, it’s dirty and it’s a little wrong.

But that’s what makes it feel so good.

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Night
69
The Main Goal Of The Night:
Give her a weekend to remember

What To Do:
I remember a very successful, self-made millionaire once saying that people should
spend more quality time with their partners and go on more ‘getaways.’

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A ‘getaway’ doesn’t have to be 2 weeks on a tropical island and it doesn’t have to
cost the Earth.

It could just be two or three nights away.

Whatever the ‘get away’ is, the key is that it’s quality time that you spend with your
woman.

If you have kids, 2 or 3 nights away without them (whilst they stay at their
grandparents, aunts and uncles or friends) may be all you can manage. And that’s
fine.

If a ‘long-weekend’ is what you can manage, I recommend not going too far from
home. This will cut down on TRAVEL time, which is virtually always – for want of a
better term – a ‘ball ache’ and the worst part of any trip.

This ‘get away’ that I’m encouraging you to take your woman on is the perfect way
to celebrate making it through the Bedroom Boss program and transforming your
sex life for the better, forever.

Of course – your woman doesn’t know about Bedroom Boss and I DO NOT
recommend you start telling her about it now… just keep it to yourself.

This 2 to 3 night ‘get away’ is different to the night in a hotel that I recommend earlier
in Bedroom Boss. You see, the night away in a hotel was really ALL ABOUT SEX.
You shared a romantic dinner and then had great sex. You possibly repeated the
great sex in the morning.

And that’s awesome.

But this ‘getaway’ – ‘night 69’ of Bedroom Boss – is about more than GOOD SEX.
Fear not – there will be plenty of good sex – but it’s not the sole purpose of this time.

Here are some recommendations for

a great ‘getaway’:
• Keep the location a secret, but do give your woman plenty of advance warning
to keep the dates free and do tell her what to pack. If in doubt, it’s a thousand
times better to get her to ‘over-pack’ than ‘under-pack.’ If you cause her to under-
pack, it will lead to a problem at some point in the ‘getaway.’

• Plan your ‘getaway’ – but don’t let her know it’s so planned. Give her the feeling
that it’s just ‘happening’ and that it’s a big adventure. This will be so much more
exciting for her

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 •Avoid being selfish when
deciding what to do on your
‘getaway’ and choose things
that she will like doing, as
opposed to just picking
things you like. If being this
non-selfish is difficult for you –
take a second to consider the
fact that this attitude will lead
to MORE and BETTER sex and
you’ll probably come round to
the idea. Know that you don’t
have to spend every second of
every hour by her side on this trip. With that thought in mind – you might like to
book her in for a professional massage at the hotel where you are staying.
Remember – absence makes the heart grow fonder.

• If you stay in a hotel that has a pool, sauna and steam room, be sure to visit
those facilities at some point late at night when they’ll likely be no-one there. I
speak from experience when I say that sauna sex and steam room sex is very
exciting. Just know that someone could walk in at any time, so you have to be
prepared for that. Of course – you don’t have to have full-on penetrative sex… you
could finger her, get her to ‘suck you off’ or even give her a much more subtle,
but no less powerful ‘Mindgasm’, lip orgasm or ear orgasm

• Avoid over-eating. Aside from making you fat and unhealthy in the long-run,
over-eating makes you SLOW, LETHARGIC and kills your sex drive. So if you
want the ‘get away’ to have its fair share of red-hot sex – be sure to eat lightly and
healthily and drink plenty of water. Avoid excessive alcohol because it has some
of the same effects as over-eating. Also, ‘whiskey dick’ is hardly exciting for your
woman and not what you want on your ‘get away.’ Plus, it’s hardly the stuff a true
Bedroom Boss is made of!

• Give her an orgasm in the elevator. Most modern hotels have elevators these
days. If the one you stay in does, I highly recommend giving your woman a
‘Mindgasm’ in the elevator. Just remember to tell her to cum in SILENCE.

I could go on and on, but you get the idea…

Go spend some quality time with your woman and enjoy a ‘get away’ with her. If 2 or
3 nights is all you can manage – that’s fine. Make it the best 2 or 3 days and nights
ever and have plenty of great sex whilst you’re at it.

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Remember, to give your woman great sex,
you simply have to:
• Take control and lead her in the bedroom. You have to be dominant. This gives
her permission to be totally submissive and to fully surrender to you during sex.
This is required for her to experience maximum pleasure

• Talk dirty to her. You know by now that sex is a very mental experience for a
woman. You have to ‘fuck her mind and not just her pussy’. Dirty talk is the way
that you fuck her mind

• Be creative. Be spontaneous. Try new things on a regular basis. If you fail to do

this, the sex will become boring and predictable sooner or later. ‘Boring’ and
‘predictable’ are the enemy of great sex

• Make it ‘naughty.’ In Bedroom Boss I’ve given you dozens of ways to make the
sex naughty… restraining her, using mirrors, talking really dirty, spanking her… the
list goes on and on. Just remember that, contrary to what we guys are often told
– women do love naughty sex (they just don’t usually say so out loud in public for
fear of being labelled as ‘easy, cheap and slutty’)

• Give her multiple orgasms every time. If you do this – in particular giving her
multiple vaginal orgasms during intercourse every time – she’ll know she’s hit the
‘sexual jackpot’ and that you’re a true STUD. Of course, vaginal orgasms during
intercourse are really only the tip of the iceberg. If you also give her anal
orgasms, ‘Mindgasms,’ lip orgasms, ear orgasms and all the other kinds of
orgasms we’ve talked about in Bedroom Boss – she’ll brag to her girlfriends
about what a champion you are in bed and she’ll never have eyes for any other
man. That’s a fact

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 Chapter 7:
What’s Next?
How  to  make  your  future  as  compelling  as  the  last  69  'nights'

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 Chapter 7:
What’s Next?

So you’ve made it this far…

You made it through all 69 ‘nights’ of the Bedroom Boss program.

If you’ve sat down and read the entire book, but haven’t implemented any of it yet –
you know what you need to do TONIGHT…

You need to make ‘night 1’ happen with your woman and get things started.
Remember – no positive change will happen in your life, or your intimate relationship,
until you TAKE ACTION.

Taking action is what separates ‘doers’ from ‘talkers’ – WINNERS from LOSERS.
Period.

If, on the other hand, you’ve made it this far through the Bedroom Boss program
and have actually started to make the ‘nights’ happen for real with your woman,
you’ll have no doubt made massive positive changes in your sexual relationship.
If you’ve made it through all 69 nights you will have developed many sexual skills,
some of the most important being:

• An understanding of how to give your woman a huge variety of ORGASMS,

including clitoral, vaginal, squirting, anal, nipple, ear, lip, spanking, and of course –
‘Mindgasms’

• How to fuck your woman’s MIND and not just her pussy. Needless to say, you do
this with expert DIRTY TALK

• Sexual creativity that is now on ‘another level.’ You’ve shown your woman 69
very different sexual experiences. You should now be able to dream up new and
exciting ways to have sex with her for the rest of your life. Your sex-life should
never become ‘boring and predictable’

It goes without saying that you have also learned probably the most important
sexual technique of all… the ability to be DOMINANT… to take control and lead your
woman in the bedroom.

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This dominance allows your woman to be her true sexually submissive self and to
fully SURRENDER to you in the bedroom. Only when she does this can she feel like a
true woman and experience unreal amounts of pleasure.

And only when you act dominantly can you feel like a real man and experience the
empowerment that can only come from giving your woman orgasm after orgasm
after earth-shattering, panty-soaking orgasm.

My challenge to you is to KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK.

Never become complacent.

Never think that just because you’ve been through the Bedroom Boss program you
now ‘know it all’ and can just sit back and relax.

Believe me when I tell that you that even after more than a decade studying ‘women,
sex and relationships’ and years teaching this stuff to guys all over the world – I am
still learning.

And it’s that never-ending desire to learn that allows me to continuously improve.
Try adopting that mind-set in ALL areas of your life… the mind-set that you never
‘know it all’ and can always keep learning.

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Better still…

Try to become a better version of yourself

each and every day.
If you commit to this, you’ll feel like a new person in 30 days…

You’ll totally change your life in 6 months.

And in 5-10 years you’ll be a superstar in whatever areas you want to be a

superstar in.

Let me give you an example of how this works…

If you commit to becoming a better version of yourself EVERY day you will become
an AWESOME lover. Not just a good one or even a very good one. You’ll become
awesome. You’ll be outstanding.

If you commit to improving your health and physical body EVERY day, you will look,
feel and move in an amazing way sometime in the near future.

Same goes for your work/job/career/business – commit to gradual, continuous,

daily improvements and you’ll be a ‘head turner’ sometime in the future.

The idea of continuous and never ending improvement actually came from the
Japanese and they used it to revolutionize their car industry and go from being
NOWHERE in the global market to absolutely kicking ass.

In fact, the Japanese were so into the idea of ‘continuous and never ending
improvement’ that they actually have a single word for it: Kaizen.

Having coached men all over the world to become better lovers I can tell you that
one of the downfalls of most human beings is that they are always looking for a
MAGIC BULLET.

The magic bullet is that one idea, tip, technique or strategy that is easy to implement
and changes everything in a very short period of time.

The truth is that magic bullets don’t really exist.

For instance, The A-Spot Method is close to being a magic bullet. But it’s not really a
true magic bullet because if you don’t combine it with DOMINANCE and DIRTY
TALK – it very often won’t get you the desired results (the desired results being
giving your woman vaginal orgasms).

Consider the example of an overweight person….

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There is no ‘magic bullet’ that will instantly and easily make them slim and healthy. To
become slim and healthy (a wonderful state of being that is eluding many
Westerners living in the so-called civilized world) it takes discipline…

It requires you to eat a healthy diet most of the time…

It requires you to exercise several times a week…

Hopefully you get my point…

Average people look for magic bullets to fix their problems or make their dreams
come true and when they can’t find the magic bullet they go back to sitting on their
asses watching 7 hours of television a day (that’s the AmJanen average by the
way!), accepting their problems and labeling them as being ‘just the way things are’,
never making their dreams become a reality and saying that successful people ‘just
got lucky.’

I don’t know about you – but I think that’s a pretty dismal way to live.

High-achievers, winners, champions and ‘people who just get shit done’ tend to live
VERY differently to average people. These people don’t look for magic bullets.
Instead, they strategize and use many techniques and methods to achieve their
goals…

To make their dreams ‘come to life’

And of course…

They commit to continuous and never ending daily improvements. You see, over
time – continuous and never ending daily improvements add up to MASSIVE
positive changes.

It’s very much like compound interest in the bank. At first 5% looks like nothing, but
if you leave the money in the bank for 20 or 30 years – it will eventually turn into a
sum beyond your wildest dreams*

*At the time of writing – November 2013 – I’m well aware that 5% interest rates on savings accounts in
banks are rarer than flying pigs ;) But you get my point.

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Here are some closing thoughts that will help
you carry on having better and better sex with
your woman:
• There is no such thing as MAINTENANCE in this life. You are either improving
or regressing… powering forwards or sliding backwards. With that thought in
mind, never get complacent and think to yourself ‘I’ve arrived.’ Instead,
continuously think of ways to take your woman on sexual adventures that feel
fresh, new and exciting

• Don’t buy into the idea that all sexual relationships become boring in the end.
“YES” – most average people’s do, but “NO” – that doesn’t mean yours has to. In
fact, the longer you stay with your woman, the better you get to know her and
the better the sex you have the potential to have with her

• Remember that you’re only human and so is she. No matter how good you get
at SATISFYING her – there will still (occasionally) be days where ‘she’s not in the
mood.’ It happens. Get over it. Likewise, if you’re ‘not in the mood’ or you can’t
stay hard once in a while – RESPECT it and accept. Respect and accept that not
being perfect is part of being human. Aiming for perfection will make you
UNHAPPY because it is an unachievable state. Aiming to become a better
version of yourself each and every day (whilst remembering that even the best of
us still have ‘bad days’) will make you very HAPPY for years to come

• Ultimately, having good sex is both very difficult and very easy. Ha! Talk about a
contradiction! But it’s true… You see, I can say it’s difficult because I’ve spent
YEARS figuring it out and I am still learning. I can say it’s easy because it basically
comes down to being dominant, talking dirty, being sexual creative, giving her
the naughty, dirty sex she craves and making her cum over and over again.
However you choose to see it – I can tell you this… it’s more empowering to view
sex as EASY, whilst simultaneously committing to continuous and never-ending
improvement

• The Bedroom Boss program is easiest to incorporate in a new relationship. If

you took a woman to bed for the first time and started with ‘night 1’ of Bedroom
Boss and then worked your way through all 69 nights – that would be the dream
scenario. But what if you’re in a relationship that’s 20 years old and she’s really
not wanted sex for the past 10 years? In that case you may have to do some
preliminary work OUTSIDE the bedroom to reconnect with her and make her
want to get sexual with you again – before you embark on the Bedroom Boss
program.

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 I’d love to hear your success story, comments, questions
and suggestions.

Feel free to drop me an email at: adam@betterinbed.tv

And I’ll talk to you soon…

Your friend,

Adam Armstrong

Master Sex Coach. Author of Better In Bed

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Unleash Her ‘Bad Girl’

Every  woman  has  an  ‘inner  bad  girl’  that’s  just  wai@ng  to  come  out  to  play.  Here’s  
exactly  how  to  unleash  your  woman’s  ‘bad  girl’  and  get  her  to  willingly  do  ANYTHING  
you  want  in  bed.

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