ROOT OF REJECTION

The Fear Of Being Rejected vs The

Pride
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The basic needs of a

person is satisfied by means of love, respect,
acceptance and security.
The root of rejection causes the individual to be unable to receive any of
these virtues, since it creates a great void of love in the person.
Rejection is the enemy's master plan to destroy the body of Christ. It
robs us of the possibility of being used by God and receiving His
blessings.
Rejection is the least treated and diagnosed of all evils.
Almost everyone, regardless of country or race, has had some sort of
rejection problem. Rejection affects our relationship with God and with
those around us. Rejection is the result of the denial of love. Rejected
parents will produce children rejected or spoiled without
correct.
Remember:
Satan hates Love. Love does not exist within the satanic realm. Satan
builds his kingdom on rejection.
The wounds of rejection are synonymous with: repel, refuse, snub,
avoid, belittle. To despise, ignore, neglect, avoid, abhor and
disapprove of.
Rejection causes injury to the “I”. When the “I” is wounded there are
many personality abnormalities. The wounded personality changes
its behavior, attitudes and opinions / creates diseases, such as
“Emotional Stress”
Principle:
Unclean spirits are unable to enter a person by will. own,
must have open doors. Rejection causes a WOUND, an OPENING, a
DOOR through which evil spirits can enter.

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The Fruit Of The Fear Of Being Rejected Will Vary According To The
Level Of Rejection. The fruit of rejection affects personality.
Symptoms of Fear of Rejection (O)
1. They strive hard to achieve success and are given to competition in
order to gain respect and admiration.
2. They are independent and always isolate themselves after a failure.
3. They suffer from egocentrism syndrome.
4. They abuse the attitude of “my rights” (the ego)
5. They have feelings of Criticism, Judgment, Envy, Jealousy and
Greed (the 5 go together)
6. They are people prone to feeling Pride, Egoism, Arrogance and
Haughtiness.
7. They are possessive and manipulative
8. They often demonstrate emotional immaturity
9. They are Perfectionists (it may be hereditary, but it is more rejection)
That is why some people cannot be freed from the spirit of pride,
because this spirit is strongly protected by other spirits among these
and the strongest is Fear of Being Rejected(a) First you have to
deal with the
demons that protect him. For example: spirit of rejection, lust,
insecurity, shame, fear, religiosity between
others.

Isaiah 53:3-4.-“Despised and rejected by men,

a man of sorrows, and acquainted with grief, and as if
We hid our face from Him, He was despised and we did not see Him.
we esteem (4) Surely He carried our infirmities and
He bore our pains; And we considered him stricken,
stricken by God and afflicted”John 1:11.- “He came to his own, and
his own did not receive him.”
Steps to be free
10. Recognize that we have it.
11.Forgive and renounce unforgiveness and forgive those who rejected
you (parents, siblings, family, friends, church brothers, leaders etc.)
12.Renounce: the Root Spirit of Rejection, Self-Rejection and Fear
of Rejection and also renounce the kindred spirits of this spirit (fear,
jealousy, envy, lust, masturbation, pride, mourning,
abandonment, contempt etc.)
13.Take authority over these spirits of rejection and those like them and
cast them out in the name of Jesus of Nazareth.
14.Ask the Lord to fill the void in your soul with His love, and with the
word of God. Ephesians 2:6 - “And raised us up together and seated
us together in the heavenly places in Christ Jesus.”
The Root of Rejection
Posted on April 16, 2013 byMario Tobon

“And you did not receive a spirit that makes you a slave again
to fear, but the Spirit of adoption as sons and in whom you cry out
, ‘Abba! ’ Father!". Romans 8:15
Rejection is the Enemy's Master Plan
A person's basic needs are met through
love, respect, acceptance and security. The root of rejection causes the
individual to be unable to receive any of these virtues, since a great void
of love is created in the person.
What are the different stages of individual development where
rejection is generated?
1. Rejection in the prenatal age.
Children can suffer rejection while still in the womb. They are spiritual
beings and can perceive all of their mother's emotional problems. There
are women who became pregnant for different reasons: rape, acts of
incest, adultery, fornication or unwanted sex.
2. Rejection in childhood
• Lack of attention and care from parents, especially the mother •
Adoptions • Physical disabilities • Comparison between siblings • Hurtful
words and constant criticism from parents and family • Physical, sexual
and emotional abuse • Lack of interest (not listened to or protected) •
Overprotection
• Lack of love, caresses and flattery • Excessive control and dominance •
Abandonment by parents • Replacing love with gifts • Destroyed homes,
divorces, among others.
3. Rejection in adolescence
• Excessive discipline • Mental, physical or sexual abuse • Pressure
through bribes to do better in school • Embarrassing you in front of people
• Poverty in the family • Overburdening you with household chores •
Domineering parents • Pressure beyond your ability and control.
4. Rejection in adulthood
• Guilt over an unwanted pregnancy • A planned or unplanned abortion •
Inability to deal with belittlement • Shame over a body complex • Financial
disasters • Being isolated from family or sent to a convent • The inability
to communicate effectively.
5. Rejection in marriage
• Death of one of the spouses • Divorce • Infidelity by one of the spouses
• Mental, physical, sexual cruelty •
Inability to have children
Any cause of rejection will affect our relationship with God, with our
family, with our brothers and sisters and with all those people with whom
we relate.
Sometimes the image we perceive of our parents is the image we have of
God. On many occasions, we do not feel
worthy of approaching our Father because we believe that to H we are
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Root of rejection with aggressive reactions

The person who feels rejected tends to:
>Refusing to be comforted – Does not like to be touched, nor to give love.
>Rejection by others – needs time and space to express themselves.
>Show signs of emotional hardness – cold, insensitive, introspective and
selfish. He uses his tongue to hurt.
>Being skeptical and incredulous – Loses trust in all people. She is very
distrustful.
>Being stubborn – Only he or she is right. They do not take into account
the opinions of others.
>Show aggressive attitudes –
>Conceiving thoughts of revenge –
>Swearing and using foul language – >Arguing – Whether they are right
or not. When they lose they feel more rejected.
>Behaving foolishly –
>Rebellion – finds it difficult to submit; is always arguing and reasoning
why he has to obey.
Symptoms of self-rejection
It has to do with the person in his privacy
• Low self-esteem • Inferiority complex and insecurity • Feeling
inadequate • Sadness or mourning • Self-condemnation • Inability to
communicate • Fears of all kinds • Anxiety, worry and depression •
Negativity, pessimism and loneliness • Loss of identity.
They are people prone to feeling pride, selfishness, haughtiness and
arrogance. They are possessive and manipulative. They often
demonstrate emotional immaturity. They are people prone to
perfectionism in order to gain acceptance from others.
Some false escapes to cover rejection:
• Alcohol: due to stress and pressure from life's problems.
• Sexual gratification: they resort to masturbation, pornography,
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Drugs: drug addiction.
The “popularity at any price” syndrome.
Prayer:
Forgive and verbally renounce all unforgiveness towards all people who
have rejected you at any stage of your life. Prayer to bind the spirit of
rejection
“Strong man called spirit of rejection, I bind you, in the name of Jesus,
along with all your works, roots, fruits, tentacles, chains and spirits that
are in the life of………. And in the life of…..
Along with all its fruits and spirits of: Rejection of others – Self-rejection
and Rejection of God. And we cast you out from them, along with all your
works, roots, fruits, tentacles, chains and spirits, and I release them and
command you to go into darkness in the name of Jesus.
I bind you in the name of Jesus, and I declare that all your works, roots,
fruits, tentacles, chains, and spirits are dead works in your lives, in the
name of Jesus.
I bind you and cast you out of them, I cast you out to wherever Jesus
sends you and I order you not to return to them again.
I ask you, Heavenly Father, to place in them today the Spirit of Adoption
according to Romans 8:15 “And you did not receive a spirit that
makes you a slave again to fear, but the Spirit of adoption
and of the Spirit of sonship in which you cry out, ‘Abba! ’”
Father!". Amen

Let's continue.

Loss of identity. As a result of the loss of identity, it can be observed

that many people are trying to find their identity in their profession, in
gangs, in sports, in school, in church and in any place where they can feel
accepted.

3. Symptoms of Fear of Rejection.

People who are afraid of being rejected always behave in the same way.

They strive hard to achieve success and are given to competition.

They want to achieve success in some area of their life to prove their
worth to others and gain acceptance. They may even compete unfairly,
because they believe that this will gain them respect and admiration.

They are independent and isolate themselves. The fear of rejection

produces a tendency in people to isolate themselves from others,
especially during adolescence and after a failed marriage.
They suffer from egocentrism syndrome. “Everything for me.” Many
times, people develop self-centered attitudes, such as: self-indulgence,
self-justification and self-righteousness.

They abuse the “my rights” attitude. When rejected, a person's ego
demands to be treated fairly and correctly, according to its prescriptions
and standards, but not according to the standards of justice.

They have feelings of criticism, judgment, envy, jealousy and

greed. These five characteristics always go together, and are part of the
personality of an individual with a root of rejection. For example, when
they see someone prosper or be used by God, or when they feel
threatened that someone will take their position, these defects of their
character emerge strongly.

They are people prone to feeling pride, selfishness, arrogance

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esteem is forced to rise to an exaggerated level, forgetting the warning
that God establishes through His Word (Proverbs 27.2).

They are possessive and manipulative. From childhood to adulthood,

in marriage and out of it, the message from victims of rejection is: “That's
mine, leave it alone.” People who feel rejected console themselves and
comfort themselves with “possessions.” They are jealous and
manipulative of what they believe is their right.

They often demonstrate emotional immaturity. Rejection in

childhood and adolescence will delay maturity
emotional of the person. They may be 50 years old and still be
immature if they still have roots of rejection inside them.

Perfectionism. Sometimes perfectionism is a hereditary problem and

other times it begins when the person is rejected. The perfectionist tells
himself: “I will do my best to do what is expected of me, to please people,
and that will make them like me and accept me.”

Trouble sleeping. Sleep is often abruptly interrupted, and you may even
suffer from insomnia.

Some False Escapes to Cover Rejection.

Alcohol. Some people start drinking alcohol during times of stress

because they have no other way to escape the pressures of life.

Sexual gratification. Both men and women can begin to stimulate

themselves sexually and some of the ways are: masturbation,
pornography and many other acts of lust. The use of sexual gratification
of any kind never cancels the root of rejection.

The food. Some men and women become compulsive eaters, and they
do this to counteract the effects that the root of rejection produces in their
emotions. When the person

eat too much, the rejection becomes worse because he gains weight,
thus generating a new evil: low self-esteem, and furthermore, it gives rise
to a spirit of gluttony.

Drugs. People with rejection roots seek drugs to numb the pain of
rejection and as a result, spirits of addiction come into their lives.
The “popularity at any price” syndrome. Sadly, we have prayed for
many people who were so desperate for acceptance and affection that
they subjected their bodies to all kinds of sexual immorality. They
distorted their sense of worth so much that they did certain things called
“specialties” even without meaning to do them.

(CONTINUED…)

Extract from the book “Inner Healing and Liberation”

By Guillermo Maldonado

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Let's continue.
Sometimes the image we perceive of our parents is the image we have of
God. On many occasions, we do not feel
worthy of approaching our Father because we believe that to H we are
reject, since that is what we have received in our home. e going

Rejected parents will produce rejected children. Parents who have

suffered hereditary rejection before getting married will not be able to give
love to their children.
There are three types of rejection, which have different symptoms. Let's
see what they are:
1. Root of Rejection with Aggressive Reactions.
The person who feels rejected tends to:
Refusing to be comforted. She doesn't like to be touched physically nor
does she like to give physical love.
Rejection by others. People who feel rejected need time and space to
vent their feelings. If they don't have that time, their attitudes cause others
to reject them.
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Being skeptical and incredulous. When a person feels rejected, he or she
loses trust in family, friends, and people in general; he or she loses faith
in people's good motives and is suspicious of everyone.
Be stubborn. Usually, this person tends to say: “this is the only way,” and
no one makes him change his mind; he is a stiff-necked person. He is
certain that what he does and thinks is right,

without taking into account any other opinion.

Display aggressive attitudes. He acts out in anger to defend himself from
rejection.
To entertain thoughts of revenge. People who are victims of rejection may
become so resentful that they may plan revenge, feeling guilty afterwards.
Swearing and using foul language. Countless people who suffer rejection
speak dirty and obscene words when under pressure.
Argue. They argue senselessly and without foundation because they
need to feel that they are right. When they lose, they feel more rejected.
To behave foolishly. For example, a mother who orders her child to sit. As
a child, he obeys and sits down, but in his rebellious heart he says to
himself: “I am standing.”
The rebellion. This is a very common symptom in a rejected person; it is
difficult for them to submit; they are always arguing and reasoning why
they have to obey.
2. Symptoms of Self-Rejection.
This second part of rejection has to do with the person in their privacy,
with respect to themselves, and is reflected in the concept that this person
has of themselves.

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Inferiority complex and insecurity. Sometimes, you look for security in
people, things, animals or money.
She feels inadequate. He is very afraid of undertaking projects, no matter
how small they may be, and he is always thinking that he can't.
Chronic sadness. These are external manifestations of a person who has
a wounded spirit; he is always sad and depressed.
 Self-condemnation. The person feels down constantly, blaming himself for
the bad things that happen around him. She has a weak temperament,
and is therefore easily manipulated and controlled.
Inability to communicate. It is very difficult for him to open his heart to
people because he cannot communicate what he feels. She doesn't trust
anyone and believes that if she is honest about what she feels, she will
be rejected.
Fears of all kinds. She is afraid of everything, afraid of failure, afraid of
fulfilling her responsibilities and afraid of being alone.

Anxiety, worry and depression. It is very common to see these three

symptoms in a person with a root of rejection, due to the insecurity of
their heart. He is afraid and worries about things that have not happened
yet.
Negativity, pessimism and loneliness. The rejected person constantly
speaks in a negative way, is pessimistic and feels lonely even when
there are many people around him.
(CONTINUED…)
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Roots of rejection

Introduction:
Man was created in the image of God (Genesis 1:26). In order for
a child to grow with a healthy personality, he must conform to the
principles established by God for his full development. The main need
that man has is love, because God is love (1 John 4:8; Romans 3:23),
and established love as the basis of relationships between man and his
fellow men.
Among the basic needs for healthy development of the human
personality, there are three things: love, acceptance and understanding.
When love is denied, it generates deep deficiencies, wounds and roots
 of rejection that will sprout. Love produces security, acceptance
provokes trust and

understanding awakens well-being.

When rejection appears, which is denying all this, the inner world is torn
down and real personality deficiencies emerge.

Definition:
Rejection is a deep wound, produced in someone who was thrown
out, abandoned, despised, disapproved of, denied, set aside, cut off, not
accepted, generating a feeling that can destroy the person's life.

Sources of rejection

1.Family.
In the family we have the first source of rejection. The needs for love,
acceptance and understanding must first be met within the home. If that
does not happen, we are facing the formation of a problem. Let's see
where rejection manifests itself within the family.
1.1. Before birth: an unwanted pregnancy. Whatever the reason, the
fact that the mother did not want the child leaves marks of
rejection on him, even if he is never aware of it. The
psychological state of the mother is reflected in the child before
birth.
1.2. At birth: There are many circumstances at the birth of a child that
can cause rejection: trauma

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roots of rejection.
1.3. Adopted children: the child formed is united to the mother, both
by blood and by emotions. If he is given to people other than his
real parents, no matter how much he may be loved, a mark is left
on his soul.
1.4. Lack of demonstration of love by parents: they may love the
child, but if they do not know how to show it,
he will take it as rejection. Many parents are not
 demonstrative because they did not receive demonstrations of
love. But the child doesn't understand that. He does not interpret
food on the table as a demonstration of love. For him, love is
touching, hugging, kissing, being cared for. He needs to feel love
through attitudes of affection, acceptance and understanding. He
wants to be carried in his arms, to sit on his father's lap, to hear
expressions of love and affection. If that doesn't happen, he will
feel rejected.
1.5. Parents who suffered rejection and never experienced healing :
they tend to manifest rejection and a chain is created: parents
who were rejected do not show love to their children and these,
in turn, when they form their homes, do the same.
1.6. Parental alcoholism: When alcohol comes into play, the person
may react irrationally. Alcoholics and drug addicts often act out
of control and become violent, aggressive, and difficult to deal
with. Their children are constant victims of physical and verbal
aggression as a result of rejection.
1.7. Replacing love with things: In a world where everyone is running
and working so much, children are often left in kindergartens, or
to their own devices. They may not lack games, clothes, food
and school, but they lack the love shown in time invested with
them,
rejection is manifested.
1.8. Busy parents: child needs attention. If parents are busy with so
many everyday things that they no longer have patience or time
for him, he will surely interpret such an attitude as rejection. The
marks will certainly remain.
Undue criticism and exaggerated demands for perfection: there
1.9. are parents who only address their children in a tone of censure
and condemnation. They are always yelling at them and demanding that
they act like adults.
1.10. Parental Goals for Children: Parents often
They wanted to follow a certain profession but, for some
reasons, they did not succeed. Now they force their children to
follow the career or job they wanted, as a form of compensation.

When a child enters adolescence, many conflicts arise that parents

cannot understand. The child isolates himself, looks for others outside,
hides things from his parents, does not open up, becomes bitter, and has
difficulty relating to others. Many times he becomes a drug addict, an
alcoholic, or sexually free. The root of rejection may be behind these
attitudes.
If you are finding that you have been a victim of rejection, do not be
discouraged. We are analyzing the problem, to find the solution.
 2. The school.
After home, school is the most important place in the formation of
personality, since children spend a large part of their life there. There may
be a source of rejection, when teachers are not sensitive to the needs of
the child.
2.1. Criticism: From teachers who embarrass the child in the middle
of class, this can lead to rejection. The child who is the victim of
undeserved punishments and a lack of sensitivity towards his
problems feels rejected.
2.2. School failures: a child who fails to do things
Like everyone else, he ends up isolating himself and feeling
rejected. A memory problem, a vision problem, or a health
problem can lead to poor performance, and failure leaves marks
on one's own personality, due to the roots of rejection that are
formed.

3. Society.
Society also contributes to generating roots of rejection.
3.1. Failure to accept social values: When someone acts differently
from others, they may be rejected.
 3.2. For example, in the way of dressing, in social habits or in their
relationships.

4.Sin.
Man is susceptible to rejection because of sin. The guilt of transgression
brings self-rejection and leads man to flee from God, because he feels
rejected and thinks that God will not forgive him.

Symptoms of rejection

1. Emotional immaturity.
Just as love leads to healthy and proper emotional growth, rejection
blocks that growth, and the rejected person remains immature.
2. Possessive love.
A love that is possessive is a serious symptom. No one can fill that kind of
love. Neither family nor friends. The person is characterized by an
excessive emotional dependence that leads to trying to absorb all the
attention and love from the other, without ever being satisfied, because it
is an unhealthy attitude.
3. Goals and things.
Behind an exaggerated search for things, a root of rejection may be
hidden:
3.1. Possessions: This could give him a “status” and then he
would be accepted.
3.2. A well-paid career or job can be a tool that he unconsciously
uses to fill the void of love and acceptance that was created in
him during his childhood.
Intellectualism: This can draw people's attention to him or her.
3.3. Need for recognition and acceptance.
Extreme dedication: This leads the person to be totally self-
3.4. centered.
3.5.
3.6. Self-gratification: Many indulge in sex, lust, sexual
perversion, all in search of a soul satisfaction that never occurs.

4. Loneliness and fear.

It can vary from an internal to an external attitude:
4.1. Interior: insecurity, fears, self-pity, feeling of loneliness.
4.2. Exterior: isolates himself from others, or becomes a competitor.

5.Self-rejection.
It causes the loss of self-worth, which is as damaging to emotional as it is
to spiritual balance. Being aware that we have been rejected by others is
unpleasant; rejecting ourselves is a tragedy.
5.1. Negative self-image: the person has a tendency to compare
himself with others, which is a terrible deception. This causes
inferiority complexes that make him even more unhappy.
5.2. Being very critical: In most cases, it can have two manifestations:
unhealthy self-criticism - in which harsh accusation against
oneself is present - and criticism of others - in the form of
judgment and condemnation.

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people. Instead of developing his full potential to be the best he can be,
he seeks to imitate others. Sometimes it is projected onto the person of
someone you admire, or onto a group.

7 . Inadequate relationship with God.

He has a tendency to relate through his works (activism), as a way of
being accepted. But our relationship with God is based on His grace and
what Christ did for us, and not on
what i do.
 8 .Rejection destroys true faith.
The person dominated by roots of rejection cannot see God's promises as
his own, but rather thinks they are for someone more worthy, more loved.
Therefore, the relationship with God is
becomes unstable. They say: “That's for someone else; it's not for me.”

Conclusion:
By now you must be saying, “Could anyone have escaped those roots?”
Probably not.
What we have done so far is to become aware of the origin of rejection
and explain many of our personality defects. Once the diagnosis is made,
let's go for the cure!
We say that in Christ, all roots of rejection can be torn out, because there
is no greater demonstration of love for us than for the Son of God to
renounce glory in heaven, become a man, and thus pay the price of our
eternal redemption. The cross could have been the greatest tragedy,
because it is the picture of the cruelest rejection; but it became the basis
of our own acceptance, redemption, restoration and healing. The great
rejection of Jesus became the path to our acceptance and salvation. The
Word says that we are accepted in the Beloved. Thus, the rejections we
suffer throughout life can be instruments to reflect the beauty of Christ in
our character.
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In Isaiah 53:2, 3, we find the picture of Jesus'
rejection as our substitute so that we might be healed. God is pouring out
His love abundantly on you, and God's love is the perfect remedy for
getting out of rejection.
You can declare with me:
“I am completely forgiven, completely acceptable, and completely
accepted by my Father.”
Rejection output

1 .Steps to follow:
1.1. Forgive those who rejected you: any liberation necessarily
passes through forgiveness. There is a spiritual power in
forgiveness, which opens the windows of heaven in our favor
and stops the powers of hell. We forgive by an act of will in
obedience to Christ. When we say “I want to forgive” and “I will
forgive,” the Holy Spirit with all his power is already there to
 support us (Philippians 4:13). And now, with the love of the
Father, he releases forgiveness to those who hurt him. It is
important that you mention every name that the Holy Spirit brings
to your memory, before God. Pray right now.
1.2. Surrender every rejection to Christ: In Isaiah 53:3, Jesus is
portrayed as the most rejected of men. In short, Jesus suffered
our rejection. Don't forget: He was on the cross taking your
place, for your cause, paying the penalty of your guilt, suffering
every kind of wound that the devil projected upon you, with the
purpose of bringing you salvation, victory, healing, restoration
and all the blessings.
If you find that you have been rejected, Jesus experienced that
pain to an indescribable degree (Matthew 27:28). You and I were
the reason for such suffering; that was the price of our healing.
But greater agony came upon Jesus when he felt abandoned by
the Father (Psalm 22:1-3, 7, 8).
1.3. Accept the fact that you are loved (1 John 4:8): love
It is the essence of His being and His love does not
depend on whether we have loved Him; it comes from Himself,
which is the source and essence of true love. He loved us first.
Allow the Holy Spirit, channel of God's blessings, to bring a true
baptism of that love into your heart at this moment.
1.3.1. Love that gives its best to rescue the loved one
(John 3:16): Jesus came to the world for you and he is the
greatest gift from the Father in your life.
1.3.2. Love that endures time and trial (John 13:1): Nothing
will diminish His love for you.
1.3.3. Unparalleled love (John 15:13): He gave his life for you in
that infamous cross. He did not do it for someone who was
holy, who loved him and served him, but the opposite.
1.3.4. Love that conquers: Jesus is not satisfied until He sees
you totally freed from the marks of Satan, in glory with Him; all
because of His immense love (Ephesians 5:25-27).
1.3.5. Love that takes the initiative: God took the initiative to
seek you (1 John 4:10, 19). He did it all, you just need to
accept that love, with everything that it entails.
1.3.6. Love that elevates a lost person to the position of
a son (Psalm 51:5; Isaiah 64:6; Romans 3:10, 12, 23):
despite all this, despite this picture of perdition and misery, the
love of God finds us to pull us out of the mud, purify us,
 redeem us, heal us, restore us and, above all, elevate us to
the glorious position of sons (1 John 3:1, 2).
Fill yourself, therefore, with the love of God and He will be your
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Isaiah

1.3.7.Find your identity in Christ: you are now a child of God, a joint
heir with Christ (Romans 8:16, 17). You were made for the praise
of His glory (Ephesians 1:14). You are his workmanship (
Ephesians 2:10). You are a new creation (2 Corinthians 5:17).
When you begin to accept your new identity in Christ, your self-
image will change. You will stop seeing yourself through the eyes
of your own failures, and you will begin to have the vision of what
God wants to do in your life. Know that God is not
 He is
impressed with who you are or appear to be right now.
more impressed with what He can do in and through
you, through Christ Jesus.
1.3.8.Accept yourself: If God accepts you as you are, brings you into
His family, loves you with an eternal love, and has you as His
exclusive property, you must accept yourself. Accepting yourself
involves two things: forgiving your past and receiving the
love of the Father.
1.3.9.Cry out for deliverance and receive healing: the Father's ears are
attentive to your cry. The operation of His Holy Spirit in you will
remove the roots of rejection and a new life awaits you. The
emotional prison and oppression resulting from these roots will
be broken, as will the deceptions of Satan. The demonic powers
that work in those areas

shearyánrevcehnacziodo(Isaiah 49:1-3)e. of Jesus. Remember:

in God there is no

Pr. Jorge Rosanova

The root of harmful attitudes

JOYCE MEYER

Jesus said that every tree knows itself

and
identified by its fruit (see Luke 6:44). Imagine seeing a tree that
represents all the bad things that happen in the life of someone who is not
emotionally healthy. If you look at the roots of that person's life, you will
see things such as rejection, abuse, guilt, negativity and shame.

If you have problems with unhealthy attitudes, know that they are the
bitter fruit of what has taken root in your thinking. You may be the product
of an inappropriate reflection or image from your parents and others. You
may suffer from the effect of a bad example you were exposed to during
your early years.
If you have been told over and over again by parents, teachers, or any
other authority figure throughout your youth that you were worthless, that
you were no good, that there was something wrong with you, that you
could do nothing right, that you were worthless, and that you never would
be, you may actually believe it. Satan reinforces that message by
repeating it in your mind over and over until it becomes part of your self-
image, and you will reflect on the outside the way you look on the inside.

It has been proven that if people believe something about themselves

sauftiocpiernctiebfeu.ePrezrao,
cteonmgeonbzuareánascnoomtipcoiartsa:rSseu
dmeelnatefoprumeadenseqrue is renewed by the Word of God (see
Romans 12:2). This does not happen instantly, but it is possible with the
help of the Holy Spirit. God wants you to bear good fruit, and He will help
you do that by replacing your bad roots with good roots as you meditate
on His Word. Jesus invites you to be rooted and grounded in Him and His
love (see Ephesians 3:17 and Colossians 2:7).

--Taken from The Bible of Everyday Life, by Joyce Meyer. A publication of

Casa Creación. Used with permission.

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THE REJECTION

The basic needs of a person are satisfied through love, respect,

acceptance and security, the root of rejection causes the individual to not
be able to receive any of these virtues, since a great void of love is
created in the person.

Rejection is used by the enemy to destroy people's lives. It robs us of the

possibility of being used by God and receiving His blessings. Every
person at some stage in their life has experienced rejection.

The following is the tree of rejection and its roots. If you have experienced
any of these symptoms in your life, it means that you have been rejected
in your life.
Rejection generates three types of rejection: Root rejection, self-rejection
and fear of rejection, which present different symptoms. To understand it
better, let's look at the

next tree:
SYMPTOMS OF ROOT REJECTION

• Aggressive reactions
• Refusing to be comforted
• Emotional Toughness
• Aggressive attitudes

PReenbsealimoinenytpoesldeea revenge
Dirty Language

SYMPTOMS OF SELF-REJECTION

• Low self-esteem
• Inferiority complex
• Insecurities
• Self condemnation
• Fear of failure
• Depression and negativity
• Pessimism, loneliness, despair

SYMPTOMS OF FEAR OF REJECTION

• Competence
• Independence
• Isolation
• Selfishness
• Idolatry to oneself
• Criticism, judgment, jealousy, envy, greed, pride, arrogance,
control, manipulation.

rLeochparzimadearo, that is, that Jesus was among us, even though we
were never accepted in Him. Jesus experienced rejection, loneliness,
anguish, pain and betrayal; his own people rejected him. He endured all
of this so that we might be freed from rejection.

Let us remember what the book of Isaiah 53: 2-4 says: "He was despised
and rejected by men, a man of sorrows and acquainted with grief; and we
hid as it were our faces from Him, He was despised, and we did not
esteem Him. Surely he has borne our griefs and carried our sorrows; yet
we considered him stricken, smitten by God, and afflicted.

He came to his own, and his own people did not receive him (John 1:11).

Remember that if Jesus was rejected, how much more so us, but we must
understand that for God you are a precious pearl, you are a chosen
lineage, a royal priesthood and a holy nation, do not allow the rejection
that you receive to affect your relationship with God, remember that He
loves you and you are the apple of His eye, and most importantly God will
never reject you.
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THE HOLOCAUST OF REJECTION

Sweeping through our society, with the force of a hurricane, is the 20th
century tornado called rejection. Lives are being lost, homes and families
are being torn apart, as this hurricane gains strength. The damage
caused to the personality by this scourge, inspired by Satan, is very deep,
striking at the very root of the human being.

Being rejected is when you are denied the recognition that makes you
feel loved and appreciated.
Any treatment, whether open hostility or simple indifference, whether you
are abused or used for another's benefit, is harmful. The result is that this
makes you feel worthless and unloved. Such thoughtless and loveless
action will sow seeds of deep sadness and produce a harvest of
bitterness and mental and emotional instability.

The damage caused by rejection is one of the main causes of any

rebellious attitude towards any figure of

authority, whether towards parents, the police, or even God. Another sad
consequence is the increase in the number of rapes, murders and
violence in general.
dSei lumn antirñimo noonieos, pdoesrecaaduosapodre huanbaevr
isoildaocicóonn, coebido outside simply because not
is desired, in some inexplicable way the fetus can feel rejection. The
Divine order is that every little baby should be born of love, bathed in love
and raised in a loving environment of a stable home. Sadly, this is not a
reality because Satan-inspired selfishness increases human suffering
upon his helpless victims.

Childhood and youth are often a continuing story of destruction when they
are exposed to neglect or not protected with love. Being pampered or
spoiled can be just as damaging as not giving children clear guidelines
and freedom to develop and discover their own identity. Informing a child
that he or she was never really wanted, or telling him or her that you
would have wanted him or her as a different sex, is equivalent to stabbing
him or her with a knife.

If a child is born “inappropriately” in a marriage of “businessmen” whose

only goal is material achievement; or if it is simply an unplanned
pregnancy at an advanced age, the information, if communicated, can
produce a chain reaction of real rejection.

One of the most devastating forms of rejection is that produced by sexual

assault, from which many never fully recover, the mental shock and
emotional scars often remain even

after many years of marriage. Marriage can also be a real minefield of

ongoing hurt when one partner is denied such simple things as caring and
companionship, or even marital rights (1 Corinthians 7:3-5).
Divorce is the extreme form of rejection within a marriage and often the
pain and hurt that many think can be avoided by such an action turns out
to be much worse than if they had continued to honor their covenant
before God.

There is no easy answer to such a circumstance except to seek God's

sustaining grace (2 Corinthians 12:9),

esgiousra5r:t2e2q-u3e3)e.you are submitting to the Lordship of Jesus

God has made it abundantly clear that He has no child in His family who
is not planned, desired, and loved, because we have “been chosen in
Him before the foundation of the world” (Ephesians 1:4). His sovereignty
and loving care plan even our pleasures and troubles in such a way that
“all things [even the bad] work together for good, molding us and making
us like Jesus” (Romans 8:28-31). We no longer have to struggle and fight
to be accepted, because we are unconditionally “accepted in the beloved”
(Ephesians 1:6). His love is constant, always 100%, and never depending
on our successes or failures.

He supplies us with strength so abundantly that we are fully able to “walk

before Him in holiness and without blame” (Ephesians 1:4). And because
we have been redeemed (bought) “by the blood of Christ” (Ephesians
1:7), we are not only infinitely precious to God,

but our sins have been forgiven and forgotten, buried in the sea of his
infinite grace. Nothing, absolutely nothing, will ever separate us from his
love (Romans 8:38,39).

We can rest in the assurance that His great “wisdom and understanding”
(Ephesians 1:8) is sufficient to thwart all of Satan’s plans and has even
taken away the sting of death. Paul said,

“What then shall we say to these things? If God is for us, who can be
against us?” (Romans 8:31).

If God accepts us, what does it matter who rejects us?

TGolodroiae”st(oEfeesspioasra1 l:a6,g1l2o,r1ia4)d,esaDbiioesn–
d“olaquaelasbiaenmzpardee su we will be surrounded by His amazing
love. We no longer have to strive to obtain His love, but the life of the
Spirit becomes a river that carries us with its irresistible power and
sustaining force.

Hymnologists and poets have striven to express the eternal,

unconditional, and totally selfless love of God, but the human mind can
never fully express it.

all its magnitude and grandeur.

I am loved with an everlasting love,
Guided by grace I know that love
That the Spirit blows from on high,
You have shown yourself like this.
Oh what full and perfect peace,
Oh this all-Divine move,
In a love that cannot cease,
I am His and He is mine.
The sky is softer and bluer

The sweetest and greenest land, Something lives in every womb.

Without the eyes of Christ I would never have seen
The most joyful birds sing,

LYaossfoloyrdese cEolnypErol feusnmdaíobeauty shine,

Things that were once of fierce fear

Now they can no longer disturb my rest,
Surrounded by tender arms,
Leaning on the loving chest.
Oh to rest forever there,
Doubt and worry and resignation.
As He whispers in my ear,
I am His and He is mine.
Yours forever, yours alone, Who will separate the Lord and me?
Ah, with what a rest of happiness
Christ can fill the loving heart.
Heaven and earth may disappear and flee, Light of dawn in darkness
decline.
But as long as God and I are,
I am His and He is mine.
(G. Wade Robinson)

There is no wound of rejection in your life that cannot be healed by the

unceasing love of Calvary. Your mental tension and emotional scars will
soon disappear. There is no wound that cannot heal. No broken heart that
can't be healed. No prison of circumstances can hold you prisoner. No
poverty of spirit or necessity of life will be able to limit or contain you.
(Luke 4:18,19).

Arise and enjoy a love that no human word can describe, no human mind
can comprehend, or imagination on earth can see, God loves you.
Although it is indescribable, it is not entirely unknown,
pnoureqstureasendelbaimlideaddidesa”q,(uReoeml
Eansopsír8it:u26S)anntooso“tnrooss apyouddeameons, even if only in
part, “to know the love of God that surpasses all understanding”
(Ephesians 3:19).

Its width is so wide that it encompasses

 anyone.

Its length is so long, that it stretches from

eternity to eternity!
Its depth is so deep that it reaches even the
most unfortunate!

His height is so high that it lifts us up to

heavenly places to sit on the throne with
Jesus!

Accept it, enjoy it, rejoice in God's love.

Never ever think about rejection.
Chapter 8 More on the wounds of rejection

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MORE ABOUT THE WOUNDS OF REJECTION

According to statistics, murders and robberies are increasing to such an

extent that it is unsafe to walk around most of our large cities at night.
Equally worrying is the damage endured by those thousands who suffer
from a
negative self-image, to the point that they are even afraid to walk down
the street in broad daylight. I am referring, of course, to the wounds and
damage suffered that can develop into feelings of inferiority,
incompetence and insecurity.
These victims of rejection show few outward signs of the horrible internal
wound they have suffered. Only the specialist, or the people who have to
live with them, can see the tension. Victims constantly live in such a state
of near panic that only a small problem is needed to precipitate a crisis.
This permanent state of tension, to
imnecnountdroolsaedmosa,npiofirelsatatreisnteezsapadsemlroossmtrou,s
cyuulanroess dull eyes.

The first wound is the infarinridar Sip nrodice

p .p
by a harmful comparison of oneself with others
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REJECTION
INTRODUCTION
How is it possible that a person can have such acute problems in his life?
To understand this we have to understand the way God created us.

He knows us better than we know ourselves. Psychologists who study the

individual manage to find certain truths regarding our nature; but the
Person who created us knows us in detail and thoroughly in all aspects of
our existence. If something is not right, God clearly knows the origin of the
problem and has the ability to solve it, if we allow Him to.

If a car is not running well, we can take it to the garage. The mechanic,
who has studied and knows his trade, is able to repair some of the
damaged parts. But if the car has a very serious problem, it must be sent
to the factory where it was purchased.pQarutieesn,
eyssfaabbrráicnacroomn eolpaountoe,
rlcooennocfeunncsiuoneastmruiecntutoradye each new one. In the same
way God knows us and wants to repair our lives.

In Luke 4:18-19 Christ says, "The Spirit of the Lord is upon me, because
he has anointed me to preach the gospel to the poor. He has sent me to
heal the brokenhearted, to proclaim liberty to the captives and recovery of
sight to the blind, to let the oppressed go free, to proclaim the acceptable
year of the Lord."

Christ has come to heal the brokenhearted. He came to free the captives,
including the captivity generated by our own complexes. Christ has come
to give us freedom! Psalm 147:3 says: He heals the brokenhearted and
binds up their wounds. God does not scold us when we have wounds, He
heals us. Isaiah 53:4-5 says: Surely he has borne our griefs and carried
our sorrows, yet we esteemed him stricken, smitten by God, and afflicted.
But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our
iniquities; the chastisement that brought us peace was upon Him; and by
His stripes we are healed.
Christ carried our illnesses and our pains. Pain and illness are two
different words, with different meanings that can occur simultaneously or
in independent situations.

The Word of the Lord speaks to us about our physical illnesses and our
psychological pains. He also carried our sins. All of the above allows us to
conclude that illness, pain and sins are different nominatives that affect
different parts of our being. In 1 Thess. 5:23-24 Now may the God of
peace himself sanctify you completely; and may your whole spirit and soul
and body be kept blameless at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ. He
who calls you is faithful, and will also do it. In general, the word "cydrial" is
used, which is why the North Atlantic is called "esncurietsot", and which is
why the psyche is derived from "psychology". Reading the verse as it is in
the original, we find: May the God of peace himself sanctify you
completely; and may your whole spirit, soul and body be kept blameless
at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ. Faithful is He who calls you, who
also will do it.

Spiritual Healing We hear very often in our churches that Christ came to
heal us spiritually and forgive our sins. This is the basis of our health.
When we surrender ourselves to the Lord Jesus Christ, He enters our
lives, cleanses us from our sins, makes us His children and gives us His
salvation. The word soso in Greek means indiscriminately, to save and to
heal. In this sense, there are no two different words.

Christ did not come only to save us, but also to heal us, when He saves
spiritually, He also heals our spirit. Both elements are part of a single,
complete process. Physical Health.

The Bible also tells us about physical healing. James tells us that if
someone is sick, he should call the elders of the Church, who will anoint
him with oil, pray for him, and God will heal him. We hear about this
physical health very often. Churches constantly carry out large campaigns
where they pray for physical healing,

Psychological Health. (Of the soul) The psychological structure is a very

important part of our human nature. However, in our churches, the
healing that this area requires is almost never discussed. It is almost
never mentioned that Christ also came to heal our psyche. Such healing
is almost always left to psychologists, most of whom do not know Christ.
It is a pity that there is no adequate teaching in this area, since the Lord
came to heal our psyche as well as our spirit and body. James 5:14-16
not only speaks of the sick being healed and sins being forgiven; we are
also told to confess our sins to one another and pray for one another so
that we may be healed. Comprehensive Healing {in its complete process}
As a consequence of the above, the triangle of our healing would be
constituted in the following way: --Healing of the body, by calling the
elders, and they anoint us with oil. Christ carried our

diseases on the Cross.

--Healing of the psyche, by confessing our faults. Christ carried our pains
on the Cross. --Healing of the Spirit, when confessing
our sins. Christ carried our sins on the Cross. A very important aspect is
the fact that each of the healing processes is carried out through prayer.
Christ also came to carry all of our burdens on the Cross. Obstacles to
telling the truth. "The truth will set you free" said Jesus. But many people
are afraid to tell the truth about what they feel. Obstacles to telling the
truth include:

The fear of blaming others: There are people who do not tell the truth
about what they feel because they do not want to blame their parents, so
we must understand that expressing the truth about what we feel does
not mean that we are blaming them, they surely did the best they could.
After all, they had their own wounds caused by their parents, and they
had those of their parents. Furthermore, if you do not allow God to heal
you, you will pass on your wounds to your children.

We cannot be different from what we are; we are going to live with our
children, treating them as they treated us. Someone who is worried, worried,
or just wants to blame me for thinking that I had caused something
serious within the family?

The Fear of the Unknown. Another obstacle to telling the truth is the fear
of the unknown. You may think: But if I start telling the truth about what I
feel, what will I find deeper inside? We are afraid of what may be hidden
within us that we have not discovered. If I tell the truth, what will I find
underneath it all? Say the

The truth hurts, it hurt when it came in and it will hurt when it comes out.
It is not enough to talk about what has happened, it is necessary to feel
the pain again. You can cry bitterly about
what has happened to you, but if you don't get the pain out, you'll remain
the same as before. You have to get out what you felt when things
happened. What was the feeling that accompanied the difficult experience
you lived? It is precisely because of that feeling that we are afraid and it is
because it hurt us so much when that happened that now we do not want
that pain to happen again.

Almost always, in the middle of the healing process, when the person is
digging deeper and deeper into his past life, he or she ends up shouting:
This will never end! Do I have to continue feeling this way for the rest of
my life? This process does not continue forever! There is an end.
However, when you are halfway through the process, it seems like it will
never end. Think about whether you have 20 or 40 years of living with
these pains, you have 20 or 40 years to dig before everything comes out.
But, there is an end. The process is not going to continue forever. Christ
is the ineffable solution.

The Bad Concept of God. Another obstacle to telling the truth is our
concept of God:
ECsomcoomeos tDuipoasdpraer?to you?

Very rigid, ready to seize and punish you?

It is very interesting to know that our concept of God agrees with what we
experience and feel about our earthly father. We are not talking about
what our mind knows about God, but about what we feel about God.
Sigmund Freud, the father of psychology, said that we project God,
starting from the concept we have of our father. He spoke part of the
truth, since it is true that we form our concept of God's character
according to what he was and what our mother told us about our father,
but that is not what makes God exist as He really is. God exists as He is
despite our concept of Him, not according to our concept of Him.
However, our experiences with our parents paint the picture in our minds,
through which we filter our relationship with Him. Next, I will explain the
role of parents in this process:

Every human being needs 3 basic elements to satisfy their internal needs:
Love, Acceptance and Approval. Together, I'll call them Vitamin AAA.
We parents are responsible for injecting this vitamin into our children,
from the moment of conception.

The first 5-6 years of life are relevant for building character and
developing personality. During this time, vitamin AAA is vital, as it will
nourish your emotions and your concept of yourself and others. When it is
missing, or is of poor quality, adulterated because in most cases the
parents in turn did not receive it in an appropriate manner, a serious
problem is caused with devastating results, called REJECTION.

Rejection disables children from receiving love, security, identity,

acceptance, self-esteem, and a healthy self-image. This inability
emotionally destroys him to love and be loved. Their behavior will be
influenced by this lack.

Children are affected when parents fail to communicate the love,

acceptance and approval necessary to give them inner security. A
marked consequence in children and young people is the lack of identity
(or rather, they acquire a distorted identity). They don't know who they are
or what they want.

This lack of identity causes an internal crisis, resulting in:

1. insecurity
2. inability to love oneself and others (the Bible teaches us that we
should love our neighbors as ourselves. No more, nor less, but in the
same way that we love ourselves... but if you do not love yourself, how
could you love others in the way that the Lord commands?
3. The extremes of the lack (distortion) of identity are reflected in 2
notable points:
1. Homosexuality, lesbianism and transsexualism (although modern
psychology argues that the individual is free to express his sexual
preference, the Bible states that God "created them male and female."
This is a problem of the psyche (soul), and not genetic; much less of
"preferences"
2. Schizophrenia. Where the individual has several personalities and
behaves according to what he thinks he is at that moment. They usually
live in imaginary worlds thinking that it is a reality. Medicine says that the
origin can be organic or emotional 1. Youthful rebellion is another
consequence of emotional anemia. That is why it is said that rejection
always produces rebellion. Rebellion is silent internal cries asking their
parents for love, sAucsehpitjaocsióens cyoAndpircoiboancailó,nm, eyjaoqr
uceoneol caimdoorcqoumeolo"cshpaandtraejse transmitted to emotional":
"when you do this or behave well, I love you..." "if you do this " or similar
phrases... this situation hurts children and they grow up with that wound.
Young people do not become rebellious overnight, but rather to the extent
that anger over hurt and helplessness erupts. This happens through the
following infectious process in their emotions, which destroys them:
1. emotional wound 6) immorality
2. resentment 7) disappointment
3. resentment and hatred 8) chronic immorality
4. bitterness 9) suicide
5. rebellion
Let me explain: parents hurt their children and many grow up with
resentments and grudges inside. Hatred becomes present, leading them
to bitterness, where they isolate themselves and criticize the person who
hurt them, becoming rebellious in order to cause harm and attract
attention. Later they jump to immorality, practicing sex to gain
acceptance; drugs, alcohol, etc. After they have tried everything, they no
longer have satisfaction and feel empty and disappointed with life, they
lose interest in living and there is nothing that motivates them to continue
forward and improve themselves. They enter a depressive stage that
tends to become chronic, running the risk of opening the false door to
escape from this anguish and anxiety: suicide.

When parents do not love their children properly, they feel rejected and
the following happens:
1. They fight with themselves
2. They try to create a good image
3. The opinion of others affects them
TRAUMA AND REJECTION
To speak of rejection is to speak of "trauma", a word that etymologically
means "wound" (which in turn derives from the term "to pierce" (synonym
of "to bore": to make holes in something,
tartarauvmeas,ánhadcoelamdoes
preafretereancpiaartae)u.nPhoerclhootaqnuteo,dceujaansduomhaarbclaa,
msuossedlelo, something that fractures (breaks) our interior.
It is an event in a person's life, which is characterized by 3 components:
1. It is an event that occurs with intensity
2. It is an event to which we could not respond adequately (in the case of
children, obviously the impossibility is greater)
3. It is an event that causes a disorder or an unbalancing effect on us:
faced with any traumatic event, the individual tries, although ultimately
fails, to find a way out, through defense mechanisms (those mechanisms
or behaviors that the person, unconsciously, uses to maintain a balance
of personality).
Specific situations that leave deep marks:
12.
. ARebcuhsaozyo abuse
3. Low self-esteem (feelings of inferiority)
4. False guilt
DEFENSE MECHANISMS:
They are simply various human means we use to hide the truth and
protect ourselves from fear and anxiety.
They do not change the truth or reality of the situation
It just changes the way we see it.
In reality, they work by protecting oneself, by deceiving oneself, so that
one does not have to change.
Because many specific points (painful experiences) are protected by our
defense mechanisms and hidden in our buried memories, we cannot find
emotional and spiritual relief from their attacks. We need to identify the
situations, experiences, and attitudes that caused the negative emotions
and allow the Holy Spirit to resolve them in a specific way. In other words:
Specific memories are needed which eventually pass into specific
confessions of specific feelings.
Specific forgiveness, given and received
Resulting in deep internal healing and purification.
Below are examples of defense mechanisms:
1. Isolate yourself
Let's look at the case of a certain young woman. I never wanted to be
friends with any of my classmates, because I said: They always get me
into trouble. According to the young woman, she did not have any
problems, it was the others who had them. This was the result of his
inferiority complex, as he felt too inferior to have companionship and so
he isolated himself, let's say, to a third degree. I fill these three grades
with: not having problems with anyone, which gave me a sense of worth.
b) Trying to get attention.
Many times we want to be the center of attention, while everything
revolves around us, we feel that at least we have something of value.
That's why we try to get attention. A young man once told us: I am a
professional! As much as you are professional, so am I! He had very
acute feelings of inferiority; despite this, he had managed to obtain a
university degree and with this he tried to gain value in the eyes of others.
This is how he compensated for his inferiority complex with his career. c)
Feeling too sensitive.
He who feels inferior is too susceptible; he cannot resist criticism; he
looks at everyone as if they were superior to him. When he is criticized,
he feels even more inferior; he cannot accept criticism. It may also
happen that he does not accept praise. A young professional, he rejected
all kinds of praise. On one occasion we asked him if we appreciated
something he had done and he replied: Don't tell me that, because I am
not a friend of people who praise me, I want them to tell me what is wrong
with me. He said that because he realized that there was something
wrong with him. He thought that rejecting flattery made him gain courage,
because at least he had the ability to realize that he had problems. He
could not, therefore, accept such flattery.
d) Being too possessive.
He who feels inferior tends to be overly possessive. He is heard saying:
Those are my things, don't let anyone touch them. He's my friend. In this
sense, the behavior of the young women in a church caught our attention.
Some felt inferior and insecure, and if when they arrived at church on
Sunday they discovered that their best friend was in a relationship with
someone else, this fact was enough to motivate them to stop attending
church. They said: She took my best friend from me. They felt that if they
had one special friend, they had value, but they lost it if someone also
had friends with special friends.
e) Pursue Perfectionism.
There are people who have to do everything perfectly. If you don't do it
like this,
they feel worthless. If they can't achieve 100% perfection, they feel like
they're worthless. If you have five degrees of inferiority, you have to
compensate for it with five degrees of perfectionism.
Other people who are only slightly inferior can tolerate making some
mistakes without losing their balance.
f) Criticize others.
Those who feel inferior criticize others too much. They say: He knows
nothing, look what he has done.
How can you be so stupid as to do that?
If someone feels inferior to another person but sees that he is still able to
notice the faults of others, he feels that he is at least worth a little. On the
other hand, when this person passes by a group and hears them talking
in low voices, the first thing he thinks is: They are talking badly about me.
It never occurs to him that they might be planning to celebrate his
birthday. He's sure they're always talking bad about him.
G) Keeping painful memories away from voluntary thoughts, apparently
forgetting them (although this is not the case, since they are kept in mind
in order to repress them, which consumes us).
a lot of mental and spiritual energy)
H) Through certain behaviors such as intolerance, blaming others for
what one feels guilty about, denying pain and reactive feelings to it.
I) Others
In the present study, we will address the topic of rejection REJECTION:
SOME DEFINITIONS:
1. It is the absence or the perception of the absence of meaningful love,
in other words, of unconditional LOVE AND ACCEPTANCE.
The above results in self-rejection and a low
self-esteem, which results in rejection of others (we cannot and should
not love our neighbor more than we love ourselves) therefore, it produces
more rejection towards the original victim. REJECTION WORKS IN A
VICIOUS CIRCLE (which gives more opportunity to demons to oppress
and manifest) 2. It means "to separate something or someone from
oneself"
When it occurs in childhood and comes from the parents themselves, it
implies that:
The basic needs of love and acceptance that are essential for a healthy
mind have not been met. Instead, a series of negative thoughts and
feelings appear.
So much of himself ("I'm not worth it" "I'm useless"...)
As about others (distrust, doubts, resentment, anger, rejection, etc.)
WHICH will also affect the way we perceive God When there is a well-
founded basic personality, rejections at a later age hurt, but they can be
well processed.
If not, ALL real or fantasized REJECTION is perceived as destructive,
identifying it with early negative experiences: THE CAPACITY TO BOTH
GIVE AND RECEIVE LOVE HAS BEEN DAMAGED.
1. Sigmund Freud believed that the opposite of love is not hate, but
indifference, which hurts more than a slap.
2. Rejection is the opposite of acceptance, it is feeling nullified, excluded
and unwanted.
3. It is giving love without anyone wanting it, or desiring love and NOT
receiving it.
CLASSIFICATION.
1. OPEN REJECTION (manifest or evident). Defined as; obvious
behavior that carries a message: the child is not loved EXAMPLES:
2. tell the child that he/she was NOT WANTED
3. tell the child that they would have preferred that he/she had not been
born
4. tell the child that they were expecting a child of the opposite sex
5. Constant phrases that children hear:
I don't know why I brought you into the world...
Stupid, useless, you will never amount to anything...
You should learn from your brother...
He is indeed an example...
You will always be unhappy...
Get out of my sight..
I'm sick of you...
It had to be you...
I DON'T LOVE YOU ANYMORE...
How could I not get rid of you...
CLOSED REJECTION (covered, hidden: usually unintentional): occurs in
more subtle ways that often do not express the parents' intention
EXAMPLES:
1. Overprotection, smothering (usually with children, though not
uncommon in marriage)
2. Conditional love: "I love you IF..." (or "I love you WHEN...)
3. Premature death of one or both parents (which constitutes the loss of
the primary source of acceptance)
4. Confinement (depriving the child of parental love. E.g.;
hospitalizations, boarding schools, daycare centers)
6. Comparisons and favoritism (make differences)
7. Divorce of parents
8. Suicide of one of the parents (this is the ultimate rejection of oneself
and others)
Typically, young children who only receive negative messages about
themselves end up being victims of some of the following consequences:
Because of fear of failure (or rejection), they do not try to do anything they
would like to do, therefore, they often feel frustrated, bored and
dissatisfied.
They are very indecisive (insecure)
Perfectionists: They feel the need to do everything perfectly. So they
remain inactive, doing nothing and this depresses them. Or, when you
don't do something perfectly (according to your own standards) the
feeling of guilt increases. Their motivation is contaminated: they want to
be perfect to impress, or to feel important or loved (they are demanding of
themselves. This, according to the demands with which others
conditioned them (or one could say "labeled" "labeled"), that is, according
to strengths in the mind, habits of thought or behavior.
Most of the time, if not almost 100%, this is done unconsciously and
involuntarily... conditioned by their own rigidity (intolerance) with
themselves.
They often turn out to be secretive or liars. In fact, it's as if they were
saying: "I don't like the way I am, imperfect. Nobody can stand it when it
has flaws. So I won't tell or show anyone what I'm like...or tell them things
that will "make" me into the person they expect."
5 MAIN RESULTS OF REJECTION:
1. Inferiority, hatred (self-disgust)
2. Insecurity, feeling of being unloved, chronic loneliness
3. Inadequacy, weakness, shyness
4. Fears, apprehensions and doubts
5. Guilt (both real and imagined)
COMMON SIGNS OF REJECTION: When an individual has these mental
states, and relates to other people in circumstances where there are
pressures, we can expect the following problems:
1. Depression
2. Hostility
3. Anxiety
4. Escapism through: excessive work, TV, alcohol, extramarital
relationships, pornography, drugs, studies,
hobbies
5. Psychosomatic diseases
6. Rebellion: "If someone didn't love me, I'll let them know!" or "Since no
one loves me, I'll do what I want" "No one is going to tell me what to do."
!"
omination or manipulation of others (even those
children are capable of doing these things) 8. Biting your nails
9. Wetting the bed
10. Thumb sucking
11. Nervousness
12. Chronic lust problems
13. Fantasies
14. Obsessive thoughts
15. Schizophrenia, double mindedness
16. Paranoia
17. Inability to express feelings
18. Emotional isolation
19. Perfectionism (which is born from self-rejection)
20. Fears (fears)
21. Self-condemnation
22. Concern and doubts
23. Wrong images of God:
DDindifferent ios
The angry ios, more than ready to lash out
God angry and rejecting for our faults, disappointed, ready to throw us
away because we are not worth it
God who blames us
God who does not love us or whose love is conditional REMEMBER:
Rejection breeds rejection. Parents who have been rejected cannot give
adequate love (they give a distorted love) and usually pass this spirit on to
their children.
People who do not find acceptance in one area, seek it
in others (e.g., someone may become a workaholic, finding acceptance
through the provision of material things, "success" or fame) neglecting or
destroying relationships in other areas of life (because neglecting them is
a form of rejection and they will be rejected for it).
An endless struggle to gain acceptance is a clear symptom of the
rejection cycle at work.
The spouse who has experienced significant rejection before marriage
does not know how to give or receive love and has never learned basic
trust.
Well-adjusted spouses usually do not understand the neurotic behavior of
a rejected person.
People who have a pattern of rejection from childhood will often indicate
rejection in situations or conversations where there is NO rejection at all
(perceived rejection spirit - a lying spirit that tells its host that there is
rejection present when there really isn't - it's like it puts a filter on the
person's mind, and consequently, many innocent statements will be
interpreted as rejection statements or conclusions. If something can be
interpreted as positive or negative, the negative interpretation will be
immediately accepted as true, even if it was the furthest thing someone
could have had in mind) inary, a false interpretation of certain facts and
amplifies the rejection of supposed or true
Rejected people often marry each other and follow a pattern of mutual
Whether real or rejection.
imagined, it brings Another common result of rejection is to attach
back old wounds
yourself like a leech to another person who will
provide you with the love you have sought.
Monopolizing this person's time and affection, and extreme jealousy,
common
The other person's efforts to reduce these situations are interpreted as
further rejection.
Hence, the overwhelmed person wants to end the relationship and thus it
is proven, as it seems, that the deepest fears of the rejected person are
true.
Rejected people cannot allow (they are afraid that
Not only do they not only not allow their true friends to have the right to be
independent, but they also often try to control them, as a result, they push
them away and unintentionally, give rise to another rejection.
Loving a rejected person unconditionally will often result in the rejected
person displaying neurotic emotions or behavior, not knowing how to act
normally in a loving environment and feeling "out of control."
Often, he will behave in such a way that it causes more rejection in those
around him when he tries to prove the love they have for him. Shaming a
child for poor behavior also deepens rejection.
Comparisons and/or rivalries, as well as unequal or equal treatment
without wisdom (ignoring individual needs), can produce feelings of
inferiority that lead to rejection and vice versa.
They may suffer exaggerated patterns of rejection if the chain of rejection
begins with parents who are also in rejection. This search for acceptance
and identity can be distinguished by age groups (see the rejection tree).
Test everything; hold on to what is good.
THE TREE OF REJECTION
Phyl and Noel Gibson from Australia proposed a model called The Root
and Fruit of Rejection System. Doris M. Wagner calls it the Tree of
Rejection.
The explanation of the tree is very simple. Remember, "roots produce
fruit." Using our "going back in time" model, when helping a person who is
distressed by aggressive reactions, self-rejection symptoms, or ego-
centered issues, these are usually traced back in one way or another to
the rejection. When
something unpleasant appears as a fruit, it can usually be traced back to
a root.
ROOTS
1. MANNER OR MOMENT OF CONCEPTION.
Conception out of wedlock
product of fornication, adultery, rape, incest (the mother did not want to
become pregnant)
At an "inappropriate" time
Bad economic situation
Large family
Maternal illnesses, age, etc.
Large family
Problems that pregnancy will bring (expenses, illnesses, discomfort, etc.)
and a new child
Or it was not desired
A SENSE OF OFTEN ESTABLISHES
LIFETIME REJECTION
2. IN THE MOTHER'S WOMB.
The fetus, in some way, captures the messages of rejection, when the
mother verbally expresses:
Who does not love the child or hates him (or curses him)
Expresses the desire not to be pregnant
If the mother suffers abuse (verbal, physical, emotional and/or sexual) the
child could feel guilty, which would trigger serious feelings of rejection.
Attempted abortion
Traumatic incident (emotional suffering of the mother, surgeries (of the
mother and/or fetus), accidents, etc.
Death in the family
An unusual act/perversion of the mother
I hate pregnancy
Drug or alcohol dependence
Illnesses or complications during pregnancy
3. THE WAY IT IS BORN.
Long and/or difficult delivery with complications
Perinatal complications (e.g., hypertensive disease of pregnancy)
Acute fetal distress
Use of instruments (forceps)
Circular cord around the neck
Birth by cesarean section
Injuries during childbirth
Invasive therapies (e.g., intubation, CPR, etc.)
Mother died at the time of childbirth or with some trauma
Premature birth due to attempted abortion
4. LACK OF AFFECTIVE TIES WITH THE MOTHER. Incubator or
hospitalization: isolation from the mother Lack of physical contact due to
necessity (enf. From the mother or the baby, death of the mother,
isolation of the mother) or neglect (rejection of the mother, kidnapping,
etc.)
Discrimination based on physical and/or mental defects, color, sex, etc.
Twins (by competition)
Large families (lack of time and attention)
Care by nannies, third parties or in daycare centers
Abandonment by mother (e.g. children found in vacant lots, hotels, or
given away or adopted by mother)
SPIRITS OF ABANDONMENT, ISOLATION AND LONELINESS
5. BEING ADOPTED OR "FOSTERED"
They often feel rejection: why didn't they love me? why did they abandon
me?
ALMOST ALWAYS, SPIRITS OF ABANDONMENT
6. HEREDITARY REJECTION.
Emotional abandonment
It frequently manifests itself with physical abuse of any kind (often in the
same way that the perpetrator was treated). When this spirit is in the
family line, the parents' usual response is frustration, anger and
disappointment towards their children, and their method of discipline is to
beat them with sticks until they draw blood or leave bruises (the spirit of
anger is frequently accompanied by a spirit of violence).
Typically, people with hereditary rejection will reject those around them,
ESPECIALLY members of sEuSfTaEmEiliSaGENERATIONAL SPIRIT IS
PERHAPS THE ONE FIRST ON THE LIST OF HEREDITARY SPIRITS
7. INFLUENCE IN THE FAMILY.
Multiple special problems faced at home during childhood or adolescence
(we seek to discover the origin of the suffering). Among the most
common:
Absence of the father and/or mother, which may be due to: death physical
and/or emotional abandonment divorce, separation imprisonment
hospitalization confinement (psychiatric, military, etc.) others
Competition with siblings
Verbal, physical, sexual and/or emotional abuse
Constant criticism
Control
Alcoholism
Shame for a family member
Continuous fights
Disinterest in the child's activities
Incest
Sexual perversions against children or adolescents (including ARS)
Unfair, strict and/or rigid discipline
Discrimination based on sex, disabilities, behavior, abilities, height,
physical build, skin color, physical beauty, etc.
Distinctions and/or preferences between siblings
Comparisons with siblings and/or third parties
8. PROBLEMS CAUSED BY TEACHERS AND/OR CLASSMATES.
Ridicules
False and/or unfair accusations
Exhibition
Excessive punishments
Injustices, preferences, differences (different treatment)
Discrimination based on disabilities, sex, height, build, use of prostheses
or glasses, IQ, religion, behavior, skills, aptitudes, socioeconomic level,
physical beauty (eye color, skin and/or hair color, etc.)
SPIRITS OF UNFORGIVENESS, TRAUMA AND REJECTION
9. SELF-REJECTION DUE TO ONE'S OWN ATTITUDES.
Being unhappy about how one looks, one's gender or a physical defect
(including the use of prostheses, braces, glasses, etc.), socioeconomic or
cultural level, marital status, abilities, etc.
Not being able to forgive sins, faults, errors, weaknesses, etc.
SPIRIT OF PERSONAL REJECTION: To expel it, there must first be self-
forgiveness and confession of sin, since God was not wrong.
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EaNutoErLrecCHUAZROSO OF LIFE.
Divorce, death, separation or abandonment of the spouse (most common
and most painful)
Infidelity of the couple
Breaking an engagement
Job loss
Betrayal of a friend
Breakdown of family relationships
Become crippled in an accident
Marital incompatibility

Not being able to resolve emotional problems such as depression, fear,

obsessive/compulsive disorders, etc.
Rape
Physical, verbal, emotional and/or sexual abuse
Death of loved ones
Loss of health
Do not satisfy love tank
BRANCHES AND FRUITS:
R-1 AGGRESSIVE REACTIONS: Rejection produces rebellion.
FRUITS:
Rejection of well-being Rejection of others
Harshness, insensitivity Skepticism, disbelief
Aggressive attitudes Aggressive attitudes

Diesscaufísoio, nirersesTpeertqouPeldeaidtos
Harm to others REBELLION
The phrase that would describe the behavior of the person who has these
symptoms: "If someone doesn't like me, I'll let them know!"
R-2 SYMPTOMS OF SELF-REJECTION. FRUITS:
Low self-esteem (poor self-image) Feeling of inferiority, hatred, self-
disgust
Insecurity and ineptitude Sadness, pain and grief
Self-accusation and self-condemnation Inability or refusal to accept things
(especially fear of other people's opinions) Other fears, fears and doubts
Anxiety, worry, depression Negativism, pessimism
Hopelessness and despair Self-punishment
Eating disorders, addictions Shyness
Real and/or imagined (false) guilt Feeling of being unloved, chronic
loneliness
PHRASE: "They said they didn't want me and they're right, I'm worthless."
R-3 MEASURES TO COUNTERATTACK THE FEAR OF
REJECTION. FRUITS:
Effort, achievement Performance, competence
Withdrawal, loneliness INDEPENDENCE, isolation
Self-protection, etc. Egocentrism, selfishness
Self-justification, claims of superiority SELF-IDOLATRY
Criticism (or critical spirit), judgment Envy, jealousy GREED, self-pity
PRIDE, selfishness, haughtiness Manipulation and control,
possessiveness Emotional immaturity Perfectionism Arrogance
PHRASE: "Someone didn't love me; I'll prove to them that I'm someone"
GLOBAL FRUIT OF REJECTION:
The entire personality is affected. Recognition and type of fruit will vary
according to the degree of rejection. In the face of rejection, ALWAYS
LOOK for the following 4 spirits, which frequently appear in the following
pattern:
1. spirit of rejection (being a victim of rejection and becoming a victimizer
of others)
Three kinds of subspirits that often accompany him:
2. Inherited rejection (rejection of others and of oneself)
3. Perceived rejection
4. Fear of rejection
HEREDITARY SPIRITS Generalities.
Demons take advantage of many things that cause serious injury or
trauma in a person and this is what they adhere to: ENTRANCE OF
DEMONS BY BROKENNESS: Many cases of demonization can be
attributed to moments of trauma, particularly those related to aggression,
whether sexual or physical by another person. It seems so unfair that an
individual should be demonized on top of suffering trauma, but who said
we live in a just world? Satan is the prince of this world, and wherever he
rules, he will be unjust. "Demons are attracted to suffering," he observes.
Wilde- "because 1) they "like" suffering and pain, 2) pain produces
impotence, which makes their offers of power more attractive."
After involvement in the Occult, sexual abuse is the second cause of
demonization in the lives of Christians. THE BREAKING OF THE SOUL.
Some Christians have difficulty believing that the soul can be broken,
"however," Wilde says, "the evidence points to the fact that people are
breakable (Psalm 34:18 and 69:20; Prov 15:13; 17:22. In the only
reference to the "brokenhearted" in the New Testament, Christ states that
he has come to heal them. It does not say that he came to look for the
piece he created and throw away the rest" Therefore, there is always a
reason for demons to be pPrUesNeTntOesS: AT THE ENTRY (also
called "support point", "fortress", "root"):
1. Inheritance: GENERATIONAL SIN (family or generational spirit)
GENERATIONAL SPIRITS ENCOUNTERED WITH
FREQUENCY: They seem to be certain spirits assigned to family
descendants because someone opened the door for them in the past.
1. SPIRIT OF REJECTION.
Perhaps it is at the top of the list of hereditary spirits.
Hereditary rejection often manifests itself with physical abuse of some
kind (when this surfaces, it usually becomes apparent that the abuser has
also been abused, often in the same way).
When this spirit is in the family line, the normal response from parents is
frustration, anger and disappointment, and their method of discipline is to
beat their child with sticks (even to the point of drawing blood or leaving
purple marks for several days).
1. SPIRITS OF SUICIDE, ANXIETY AND DEPRESSION
Often these problems can be traced back to deeper issues in family lines
(for any mental or emotional problem, one should delve into family
history).
If an identical problem afflicted a family member in a previous generation,
then you must first deal with that generational spirit by name before
dealing with the spirit that is currently afflicting the person. That is,
treating the 2 spirits separately
1. SPIRIT OF LUST
Another common generational spirit (manifested in a history of
masturbation, infidelity, adultery, pornography and sexual perversions)
When a problem like this appears at an early age, we look for

Hereditary spirits of lust seem to attract others who have the same
problem.
1. SPIRITS OF ANCESTRAL PARTICIPATION IN CARD READING OR
ASTROLOGY
Such practices could have allowed witchcraft to enter the family line.
Witchcraft is particularly strong; there are usually curses, spells and
unholy pacts affecting children.
born into those families. Satan is especially interested in entangling
himself with children so that they will be miserable for the rest of their
lives.
The earlier he can gain access, the more he can steal, destroy and
ultimately kill (nothing pleases him more than abortion: if he can kill a
child before it takes its first breath, his job is much easier - personal
opinion of Doris M. Wagner- People with this generational spirit voluntarily
associate with psychics, magicians, astral travel, New Age, necromancy,
tarot, ouija, horoscopes, spiritualism sessions, astrology and many other
related activities 1. SPIRIT OF ADDICTION
It will come as no surprise that certain problems seem to follow family
lines. It is commonly known that addictions to things like alcohol, drugs,
gambling, overspending, compulsive exercise, food, caffeine, tobacco,
etc. run in families.
A spirit of addiction can take many forms and still be the same spirit. E.g.,
a woman may have problems with alcoholism, but her son may be
afflicted with a drug addiction, if alcoholism has not enslaved him.
If the problem started at a very early age, it is likely that an opening was
made in the family line by a relative in a previous generation. Some
unholy "help" pushed the person into the problem
1. Victim: CHILD ABUSE WITH THE CONSEQUENT

2T.RPAecUaMdoAs
pErMopOioCsIoOcNoAmLet(iedsopsírciotuntardaqéul:irPidEoC) SOCIAL
(REACTIONARY) ADOS OF ANGER, RESENTMENT, RAGE,
REJECTION AND REBELLION
REACTIONARY SIN. It is the sinful reaction of a person who has suffered
abuse, against his oppressors, against third parties and even against
God.
The victim becomes the victimizer (activator of sin) against his oppressor.
Or if he finds himself in a position of less power than him, he turns his
rage towards other innocent people. This produces a chain reaction that
spreads sin, often for entire generations.
This reaction must be stopped by the free decision of the victims to
forgive those who abused them - just as Christ has forgiven them
themselves - even if their oppressors do not ask for forgiveness. That is
the example Jesus set, according to 1 Peter 2:21-25; 3:8-18.
Anger, resentment, rage, rejection of others and rebellion are reactionary
sins. Although reactionary sin arises because of evil, or perceived evil,
inflicted on an individual, it can itself open the door to evil spirits. Most of
the demons of anger, resentment, rage, rejection and rebellion come in
after the abuse against the victim gives way to anger or rage over what
happened (or is happening).
Demonic transmission, child abuse, and a dysfunctional home life are
among the most common causes of demons becoming involved in the
lives of children.
The flesh can open a person's life to demonic influence. Satan is always
involved in sin and so are the demons. Where sin flows, they flow; sin
makes them prosper: it is their very life, they are sin personified.
Until the bonds of the flesh are broken, it is not possible for demonized
believers to obtain effective deliverance. And if this one

smeaplorosddueclea, pviodralodegeunneaplersoonesa
dcuornadduecrea.cLasai isxiepmulpsrióena dlae enspíarditaus of another
new group, unless the sin to which the previous demonic spirits had been
attached is removed ("handholds of sin": sins that have given demons an
opportunity to enter a person's life, which must be recognized, confessed,
and rejected; otherwise, the activity of the evil spirits that bind life
continues). The Christian must put to death the works of the flesh in his
life if he wants to have victory in the war against sin in which he
participates; if not, he will soon become deceived. the moral sense):
1. Ray Stedman: "the instinct of self-centeredness that is within us; that
deformation of human nature that leads us to desire to be our own god.
That proud ego, that uncrucified self that is the seat of rebellion and
stubborn defiance of authority"
2. Ed Murphy: "It is our flawed humanity that leans toward self-
centeredness, is based in our sinful bodies, and includes our mind,
emotions, and will."
3. Neil T. Anderson: "The flesh is the tendency within each person to act
independently of God and to focus their interest on themselves. The
unsaved labor wholly in the flesh (Romans 8:7-8) worshipping and serving
the creature rather than the Creator (Rom. 1:25)[..] When you
experienced the new birth, your old self died and the new self was born
[..] (but) during the years you had been separated from God, your worldly
experiences had meticulously programmed your brain with thought
patterns, memory cues, responses, and habits that are foreign to the
Lord. So even though your old boss is gone (the old self, crucified with
Christ), your flesh remains opposed to God in the form of a
preprogrammed propensity to sin that lives independently of Him.
The flesh we struggle with daily is NOT the same as that old self that we
have always known, that we have always believed in. Before we met
Jesus, our existence was dominated by that sinful nature inherited from
Adam. We were separated from God and spiritually dead. That was the
"old man", the "old me" Jesus took our old man with Him to the Cross:
"knowing this, that our old man was crucified with Him [...] (Rom. 6:6) The
old self is dead and believers are new people as a result of the life of
Christ dwelling in us (Rom 6:5-8; 8:9; 2 Cor 4:7-11; Gal 2:20; Col 1:27;
3:1
4.
5. ) OCCULTISM
6. SEXUAL SIN.
7. CURSES FROM THE SPIRITUAL WORLD
STEPS TOWARDS FREEDOM: RESENTMENT VERSUS
FORGIVENESS (By Laura Cordero)
FORGIVENESS AS A WEAPON OF LIBERATION. In addition to the
Blood and Name of Jesus, Doris M. Wagner says that forgiveness is one
of the most powerful weapons that Jesus has given to the person in
slavery.

The first step towards forgiveness is to acknowledge feelings of

resentment and hatred. If a person buries the trauma, he or she also
buries the hatred. But God has structured our personality in such a way
that we cannot do this and leave things like this forever.
We will consider hatred as the main ingredient in those recurring mental
playbacks that are a sign that we need healing from some painful
memories. Because almost all traumas end up causing strong
resentments. Sometimes we are well aware of our grudges and we fight
against them in prayer, but with no results. Other times, we simply notice
general feelings of anger within us, but are unable to pinpoint the causes.
It seems as if they are

scuomn
efrregciduoenscdieablajocadueslandievedledperensuióenstreantmreemlo
osrciarisctoiannsocise,netset.eThis is frozen and buried resentment. At
other times, the tension of this repressed hatred is expressed through the
language of illness. There are many illnesses that have their roots in
unhealed resentments.
When Christians fail to express their true feelings, their bodies cry out
through the voices of sickness and pain. This is especially true of
resentments buried so deep that they cannot return to consciousness.
These feelings burst into the mind and then comes the replay/slow motion
video. Scenes and images emerge and anger spreads and dominates.
Christians are confused when they find themselves "taking revenge" on
someone within their reach, whether it be a spouse or a child they love.
This, in turn, fills them with remorse, guilt and spiritual defeat. They are
even more baffled because they cannot figure out where all this comes
from. Most likely, they have unwittingly tapped into some underground
pocket or current of resentment which, like oil in a well, bubbles to the
surface. When this happens repeatedly and does not seem to improve
through discipline, prayer, and deeper experiences in the Spirit, we must
look for the causes in the pressure and pain of unhealed memories.
ANGER AGAINST GOD?
Perhaps the most disconcerting and traumatic experience of all occurs
when a godly Christian is overwhelmed by feelings of anger toward God.
This is terribly difficult to admit.
David A. Seamands says he has spent many sessions gently guiding
some counselees to the point where they finally realize their resentment
toward God. The trauma has been so great that some have fainted in
their offices or felt nauseous to the point of vomiting. Because they love
God and want

seurmvierrlgeidyaacgorandtraarlEely.
Desetsápnuaébsrduemqaudeospacsuaaneldotraduemscaubinriecniaels,
they would like to place these feelings of resentment in the very presence
of God and leave them there for Him to wash them away with His love.
DEFORMED CONCEPTS OF GOD.
We forget that along with what we have been taught about God,
experiences, memories and feelings play a large part in forming this
picture. The overriding factor is the fact of what we feel God is and who
He really is. It is surprising how many genuine Christians are engaged in
a
internal conflict between what they think of God and what they feel about
God (and what He feels about them). Their cerebral theology is excellent,
but when it comes to their roller-logy (that is, what they feel when they
pray) it is appalling. This is the source of many emotional problems in
Christians and one of the strongest indicators of rejection and the need
for healing of memories. No matter how correct the doctrine they know is,
if they do not have a vivid image, sense, and impression that God is truly
good and merciful, there can be no lasting spiritual victory in their lives.
What contributes primarily to our concept of God are life experiences
(mainly those of our early years), interpersonal relationships, and the
teachings we have received. Without a doubt, what we have been taught
is extremely important. But what we have learned or grasped is also.
In fact, our feelings about God can radically affect our ideas. This
happens because these feelings are part of the dynamics that determine
the way we perceive the teachings given to us. This crucial fact is
overlooked by many pastors and Christian workers. They assume that if
the doctrines and ideas they preach or teach are biblically correct, they
will automatically clarify people's concepts of God and enable them to
believe and trust in Him. Although the Holy Spirit is the one who reveals
the Truth, what the listener hears, imagines and feels is

fcioltnrcaedpotoastryaveéxspedreiesnucsiapsa.trPoonreqsuesltaasblpeac
liadborsasd,einpcelnussaomlaiesnmtoesj,ores, are subject to the
deformations of sinful and damaged listeners. The content or meaning of
what we read in the Bible is greatly influenced by our memories
(experiences) and relationships.
The above causes that instead of trusting in a God who is predictable in
his firmness and trustworthy in his fidelity, many Christians are full of fear
and anxiety because at the level of their feelings (which derive from their
distorted way of thinking due to their
past experiences) have God as unreliable. They do not see God as a
Father who nurtures and affirms them and who always encourages their
growth, instead they see Him as angry, discontented, wrathful, vengeful.
.................................... they feel rejected by God. They feel that they are
not accepted by Him because they are unacceptable to Him and they find
themselves trapped in a vicious cycle of trying (striving) to please a God
who is impossible to please. Furthermore, certain "well-intentioned" (or
legalistic?) phrases that they hear, such as "you must try harder" "you
must please Him" "pray more, fast more, serve more" "it's just that you're
carnal" "hypocrite and yet you're a Christian", etc., instead of serving
them, sink them deeper and deeper.
They fill us with guilt... because it is not about "doing", but about "not
being able" due to distorted thoughts, which give distorted emotions and
in turn, distorted works THAT NEED HEALING, TRANSFORMATION
THROUGH THE
RENEWAL OF UNDERSTANDING .................. These Christians feel
hidden anger against God. Therefore, they come to consider that God is
unjust and partial in his judgments. He is an unjust God to them, but
treats others with justice. They often speak clearly to others of a loving
God and explain the plan of salvation by grace, but are unable to apply it
to themselves. Thus, Christians with damaged love receptors (remember
that this is a direct consequence of the rejection they have been victims
of) can receive the Good News and transform it into

pmraolmasesnausevmaasr.aEvsillpoosraessdoeqmueisteireinceonrdliaa,
hambiolirdyadladgerparceiascdinedDiriodse and they systematically
select passages from the Bible that emphasize wrath, punishment,
judgment, and the unforgivable sin. Unless Christian workers truly
understand the dynamics of this, they will not be able to help these
traumatized people. In fact, they will cause harm to them by adding more
shoulds and guilt by applying the spiritual disciplines of prayer, fasting,
and Bible reading to them.
It is not that reason or emotions attack faith, but that there are deep-
rooted emotions that overwhelm our reason as well as our faith. Os
Guinness, cited by David A. Seamands says this about this: "Imagine a
healthy, robust faith as a person who has a good support and a firm hand,
so that he can reach out and grab whatever he wants. Imagine this
person has an open wound on the palm of his hand. The object you want
to grab is in front of you, and your muscle strength is sufficient. But the
excruciating pain that results makes it very difficult or impossible for him
to grasp the object." This is a lot of pressure on the emotional wound. In
fact, the questions and doubts that seem to come from your head actually
arise from some trauma buried deep in your heart. Something has been
deeply damaged and distorted in their concepts/feelings of God that they
give in to doubt, so that they do not have to reopen those deep wounds.

exmaoomn
cctai
As long ipre
as your basic internal needs that I mentioned at the beginning of
this study have not been met and old wounds have not been healed,
doubts will remain. Because it is less painful to bear the pain of doubts
than to face the pain of traumatic memories of the events that caused
them.
Pastors and workers must be well acquainted with this, otherwise they will
deal directly and with extremely harsh remedies.

sdiemsepslpisetraasnqzuaemnáos
ppureodfuendaay.uPdoarrqauelaegsteanstepesrisnoonaasllqevuaierrlesn
really get hurt, sometimes more than anyone else in the world. They want
to believe so much that they cannot risk the terrible pain of being
disappointed after having believed. Because this disappointment is what
they have already experienced far back in their lives. For example: can
someone who has never experienced genuine (unconditional) love, but
only hatred, rejection, and even cruelty as a child, really believe that God
loves him? Can a child who has only received unpleasant criticism,
scolding, corrections and humiliation from a mother or father believe and
feel that he is pleasing to God and that therefore "there is no
condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus"? Shouldn't we expect
that he will gravitate toward the Scripture texts that emphasize judgment?
What kind of theological questions can you expect from a daughter who
said that about her father. "I never knew if he was going to hug me or hit
me, and I never knew what the difference was." Or of the one who said
"he was always present, but only ready to punish, to become angry at the
slightest fault and to dispense "justice" or "bnieecnes" imtée".a..b.
aonldaosnqóu,esedifcueen.. and. nturnecsaolelsotzuovso:
c"muaentdaopambáasllaoface with the pillow and cried when my father
ordered me to go to bed with him" Without thorough healing, how
could these people truly have an adequate theology of God as the
heavenly Father who loves and cares for us and who never abandons
us?
Yes, some of these cases are extreme, but they illustrate the point well:
not all theological questions and doubts are a sign of unbelief or rebellion.
In many cases they are symptoms of the need for deep, internal healing.
Only after this has taken place are these people able to shape their faulty
doctrines and properly understand the Scriptures. (For more on this topic,
see the excellent book "The Healing of Memories" by David A.
Seamands. Edit. Clie)

aPnotreoritorarmpeanrttee,,
deisréunqauedeeslopbeecdaideoncrieaachcaicoinaaDriioosyademleancc
uioalnasomos os responsible before Him, since we have chosen to give
the wrong answers to God and to our neighbor. This has brought us fear
and real guilt and reinforced our twisted perceptions and feelings toward
God. So, even though we have been victims of the sins of others, we too
have sinned and we must accept our share of the responsibility (not that
of others, but our own). We have a lot to forgive, but we, on the other
hand, also need to be forgiven for the
bad choices (the reactionary sin).
Yes, it is a complex picture, but its purpose is not to confuse, but to clarify
and help us discover and heal these images and feelings that distort our
concepts of God. For, despite our dedication to the most rigorous
Christian disciplines, we will never find "permanent righteousness, peace,
and joy in the Holy Spirit (Rom 14:17) until we find a God who is also our
Father.
Therefore, most of our failure to love God and

caomnofrianriecnoEnfli,apnrzoac.eYdelademnauyeosrtrpaairmteadgeenla
dieraDcioonstrcaomElo, enno rdeiaglnidoade is not against the true God,
but against our non-Christian or sub-Christian concept that we have of
Him. The only encouraging thing about this is that God knows, knows us
and understands us. He is not angry with us for our lack of trust or our
anger against Him. Rather, He is sad that our false image of Him prevents
us from getting to know Him as He really is. His heart aches for it even
more than ours. That is why He longs to help us find healing from the
wounds that have contributed to us having distorted feelings/conceptions
of Him. Thank God for that!
With that said, I'll move on to talk about forgiveness. A topic that is often
mentioned, but not always properly explained, as most of us are only
taught "you must forgive" but not

tseiqnuíaielraacnoosstuemxpblriecadne
lroegqauñeareyalgmoelpnetearecsuealnpdeordnóons..p..ilmlaibpaaednreu
n quarrel... and their only solution was "shake hands and ask for
forgiveness" (of course, this was an order or we would face the
consequences of disobeying it)... this made me legalistic about
forgiveness... doesn't the Lord also say "if you do not forgive, neither will
my Father forgive you"? Well, this is a good example of what I just
mentioned regarding the distortion of the Word due to bad experiences. I
perceived that God did not care about my pain, or anything that others did
to me, He, simply and just like my dad, only said "give him your hand
(here also came the thing about "if someone hits you on one cheek, turn
the other... for me it was "if someone hits you...give him your hand and
ask for forgiveness") and ask for forgiveness... I don't care what they did
to you, if you don't forgive, don't even talk to me..." at least that's what I
experienced, could I really forgive?
That is why I have said that it is important to know what forgiveness is
and why we should forgive. Let's see: ABOUT FORGIVENESS:

oPbEeRdDecOerN..A.. Rpeerso is not a message for us to bear the

suffering, but because He knows that He will continue to harm us as long
as we do not forgive and give the pain to Him, instead of saving it to keep
our offender in jail. Therefore, we can trust that He does it for our good
and that it is what is best for us.
1. Forgiveness is accepting to live with the consequences of another
person's sin.
Whether you accept it or not, you still live with those consequences.
1. Forgiveness is an option, a crisis of will...................... but it is also a
process:
The crisis of forgiveness really means committing to being willing to
continue the process as long as necessary, as there will be many times
when old feelings will resurface.

liemvparnetdaercliabcleasbeyzaal,gauúnnasdevsepcueésspduedheanbe
drarpneordsounadgo.lpseocthe less we expect it
Forgiveness needs to be reiterated frequently and it is far better to be
perfectly honest with God when we are struggling with old resentments. It
is better to tell Him sincerely that we are unable to deliver them and see
that it is impossible for us to change our feelings without His help.
What we can do is admit this and be okay with Him changing them.
When we do this, and remain determined not to feel resentment anymore
(reminding ourselves that we have already forgiven, that we have already
given God our "right" to take revenge) we will be surprised by the
changes that God will make in our feelings. We must be alert to this, for
when the enemy wants to tempt us with resentments that we have
already confessed to God.
The problem with some people is that they have made their resentment or
hatred a part of their very personality. They have built their lives around
these negative feelings (which, let us not forget, will last.
EsodnMpuecrpahmyi,neonsossu) tyamtiebniéen edxifciecluelntated
lpibaroa r"eMnuanuciaalrdaeegluloesr.raThe spiritual" (Edit. (Caribbean)
tells of a counselor who spoke wisely to a 15-year-old girl who was
sexually abused by her own father for several years, when she said to
him "why should I forgive him when he has ruined my first 15 years of
life?", and he replied "so that he doesn't ruin the next 15 too."
1. Forgive so that you may be free
Maybe you are not interested in freeing the other from his hook (although
this also happens) but at least start with yourself... remember that you
must love your neighbor as yourself... what is said at this point is not out
of selfishness, but so that by doing it first for yourself, you can then do the
same with your neighbor.
1. Don't wait for the other person to apologize (first) to you.

2E.sPdeercdior,nseindecotondoiccióonra(zdóenforma incondicional): do
not give freedom on bail, which is conditional, but complete freedom, as
God does with you and me
Allow God to bring to the surface the painful emotions you feel about what
hurt you.
Your forgiveness will be incomplete if it does not touch the emotional core
of your life. Very often pain scares us, so we bury emotions deep within
us. Let God bring them to the surface so that He can begin to heal those
damaged emotions.
To forgive is to choose never again to use another's sin against you.
the person who committed it
1. Don't wait to forgive until you feel like it
.You will never have them
Make the hard decision to forgive even if you don't feel like it.
do it
Once you choose to forgive, Satan loses his power over that area, and
God's healing touch is released to you. You will be free at that very
moment, without your feelings necessarily changing immediately. WHAT
IS FORGIVENESS?
1. Forgiveness is like removing a painful hook
2. It's like removing hooks that others have stuck in us.
3. It is a painful process, but when we forgive people, we are no longer
hooked on them.
4. As long as those hooks remain in us, we remain tied to those people.
1. When I let someone off my hook, they are not let off the hook of God
1. We must trust that Jesus treats the other person with justice, fairness
and mercy

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cpaomobpiaureldoesquperpdaosnolos and let God deal with them
2. People do bad things we can choose not to allow what they did to be
something that dominates
1. To forgive wholeheartedly, we have to admit the pain and hatred
1. Go through your list of names, one at a time (prayerfully ask God to
reveal to you who you need to forgive and why. Make a list of every
person and thing that comes to mind, no matter how insignificant or
ridiculous they may seem. If you have asked in prayer, the Holy Spirit
knows better than you do why and who He brings to your attention. Be
obedient. You will be surprised)
2. stay with that person until all the pain is over. Then move on to the
next one.
It is extremely important to emphasize that we must allow God to bring to
the surface the painful emotions that He knows are buried or disguised by
what was done to us. That is why the list must be made in prayer, to be
strengthened in Him and leanleisltpaoadlemrodme
Senutofudeerzpar..o.cteadmebriaénlapoorraecsióoneys
ipmerpmreisticrinqduiebleel tdeonleorr flows from the inside to the outside
so that God can remove it. If at that moment God speaks to you about
something special (showing you something, reminding you of something
else, etc.) do not resist, be obedient, He does everything for your good.
While it is true that there will be things, offenses that are more difficult to
forgive than others, REMEMBER that the main reason for forgiving is to
honor God with your obedience... He will do the rest and therefore, it is
His business, not yours (I am referring to what happens to the person who
offended you. Even ask Him for the grace to be able to pray according to
His will for this person(s).
Don't forget to include yourself and God on your list (not because He has
actually done anything wrong to us, but because those distorted images
we have had of Him are seriously causing us harm).

adyañuod.arnyoDs)ios requires our honesty in this regard, in order to be

able to PRAYER EXAMPLE.
"Lord, I forgive (name the person) for (mention what he/she did to you)
since this (remember that it is the actions and not the people themselves,
that hurt us) made me feel (mention frankly how you felt) in the Name of
Jesus I decide, out of obedience to you, voluntarily, to renounce the right
that I have believed to have to use this sin against him/her, therefore, I
declare him/her free from my hook and I choose to leave him/her in your
wise, just and merciful hands and I renounce all desire to (mention what
comes to mind. Example: revenge, that things go badly for him/her, that x
thing happens to him/her, etc.) I also ask that you change my thoughts
and feelings towards (mention the name of the person you are praying
for) from now on, since I cannot do it by myself, but for you everything is
possible. And I ask for your forgiveness, because (mention what the Holy
Spirit shows you as a reactionary sin) I pray in the Name of Jesus. Amen"
Do not forget that the above is only a model (suggestion) of
cooramcipólent,ampáossibbileen,,psueeasdleopsepnudnietonsteqauleEs
sepsíurigtuieSreann,toabyarhcáagnalao what I have mentioned about
forgiveness, but we should not (nor can we) limit the conviction and
revelation of the Spirit. Only He can lead us to all truth.
Later, I will send a study I prepared on forgiveness.
Below, I share with you some very interesting material on Schizophrenia,
written by Ida Mae Hammond, where she mentions that it is a revelation
given by God on the subject.
Let us remember that the Bible exhorts us to test everything and hold on
to what is good in 1 Thes 5:21
NOTE: I tried to insert the scanned image of schizophrenia, but since I
couldn't, I attach it as an attachment
THE REVELATION ABOUT SCHIZOPHRENIA.(By Ida Mae Hammond)

qAuletrnaobamjaorsmtraubyainmteuncshaammeenjtoeríean,
ldaelsipbueérsacdieónredpeetSidaraas, a person ministrations. Sara was
very anxious and longed for deliverance; she was a believer. She was
very cooperative, but the end results were very disheartening.
One night, Sister. Ida Mae Hammond received a revelation about the
person's problem and told her the following: "The problem is
schizophrenia. The Lord gave me this definition: schizophrenia is a
disturbance, distortion or disintegration in the development of personality.
Sara has more than one personality within her.
The Lord commanded me to place my hands together, with my palms
facing each other and my fingers firmly interlaced.
He told me that this represented the schizophrenic nature. Each hand
represented one of the split personalities within the schizophrenic, but
neither of them was the real self. The Lord told me: your hands represent
the nest of demonic spirits that constitute schizophrenia. I want you to
know that this is completely demonic. It is a nest of evil spirits that
theanmeonstradréoceónmlao voibdraand.e the person, when he was
very young. Now then, he had me separate my hands very slowly. As my
fingers slowly untangled, the Lord showed me that those satanic spirits in
the schizophrenic must also be separated, expelled and defeated. The
process takes time. It is a shock for the person to discover that much of
their personality is not the real self. He can get out of control when he
finds out what your true personality is like. You need time to adjust and
stop being in agreement with the false demonic personalities that are
becoming known. They must come to abhor the schizophrenic personality
and must be in complete disagreement with it. The Lord reminded me of
Amos 3:3 "Can two walk together except they be agreed?
One by one my fingers loosened to illustrate the separation of the

pderusonneaslpidíraidtue)s. dLeoms
o2núíaltciamso(smdáesdtoasrdeencsaedpaardaerdseo
frueescriboinoaeml good means. The Lord showed me that these fingers
represent the core of the schizophrenic: REJECTION and REBELLION.
When they finally separate, the person can consider themselves healed,
liberated, and aware of who their true self is.
The controlling spirit is called Schizophrenia or Double Mind. The Bible
says, "A double-minded man is unstable in all his ways" (James. 1:8)
This is the scriptural definition of a schizophrenic. The expanded
translation could say something like this: "because being as he is, a man
of 2 minds, hesitant, doubtful, irresolute, he is unstable and cannot be
trusted, because he is insecure in everything, in what he does, thinks,
feels and decides"
The phrase translated "double-minded" comes from a compound Greek
word that literally means "2 souls." The next stage in the revelation came
a few weeks later. The Lord ordered me to draw the outline of my hands
on the paper; then He named the fingers as various spirits of the soul.
Eolsdtreómcoónmio
coandtarodleEmsoqnuiiozosfereinnsitaailnaveintaeoltros demons to enter
to produce the distortion of the personality. Schizophrenia always begins
with rejection. It commonly begins in infancy or childhood and sometimes
while the child is still in the mother's womb. There are many causes for
rejection.
Perhaps the child was not wanted. You may have had sex that one or
both parents did not want. Conditions at home may have been unsafe. In
short, there are many doors that lead to rejection.
Schizophrenia can be demonically inherited. In other words, demons seek
to perpetuate their lineage and it is easier for them to do so within a
family. For example: a mother has a schizophrenic nature. The demons
will choose 1 or more of their children to feed that spirit of schizophrenia
within

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mpraindcreipeaslqdueizsoufmréinniicsatrsaireanmteorreachlazfoa.mEillia.
eEssla the
one who caresses, the one who handles, the one who spoils the
baby. The demon of rejection within her creates problems in her
relationship with her son. Thus, the child is left open to rejection due to
the mother's instability. I repeat, SCHIZOPHRENIA ALWAYS BEGINS
WITH REJECTION.
Now, one can have a spirit of rejection and not be schizophrenic. In other
words, everything depends on the way personality is formed. On the
contrary, the schizophrenic is always asking himself: who am I? The
identity of the true self is lost or confused.
Rejection (as shown on the left hand side of the illustration) is the demon
that controls one of the personalities within the schizophrenic. Rejection
shows a withdrawal type of personality. It is an inner feeling, it is an inner
agony, it is a starving for love, it is insecurity, it is inferiority, it is fantasy, it
is unreality, and it is all inside "I don't share that with anyone or anyone."
In such a personality, the following are installed:

dLeamseognuionsd.a personality put by the demons is rebellion (see the

right middle finger in the illustration). When a child does not have a
satisfying loving relationship in his life, then he grows up unable to share
and feel his relationships in love. Rebellion sets in and as he begins to
fight for love, he mistreats and satirizes those who have let him starve
and have not offered him love. Rebellion is based on stubbornness,
obstinacy, and selfishness. Here is another personality. This one is not
introverted and is not in retreat. It is an aggressive personality that attacks
in anger, bitterness, resentment, hatred and shame. The schizophrenic is
literally under these two opposing powers. You can jump from one
personality type to the other in an instant. The Lord showed me that I
should refer to the schizophrenic person as Sara1 and Sara2, Sara1
being the real person and Sara2 being the schizophrenic personality who
is experiencing eclatopse. rPsornatalindtaod,
rveearldmaednetrea,sleatrpaetrasboanadleid3ad of rejection and the
personality of rebellion. Naturally, this brings a lot of confusion both to the
person themselves and to those around them. The real person is not any
of the hands, the real self is shown at the bottom of the illustration,
between the arms. The demons have not allowed the real self to develop.
The schizophrenic does not know his real self. When it begins to be
released, the real self must have Jesus Christ. Jesus must begin to grow
in the person, to develop that personality and make it what He wants it to
be. Hence, the liberation of the schizophrenic requires time, sometimes
several months, and even a year or more. Liberation must work in
balance with the development of the real self. You can't rush it, because
the person has nothing to hold him up as support. If all the spirits were
suddenly expelled from a schizophrenic, he would feel completely lost.
Identity with the real self takes time. As the schizophrenic nature is
exhausted, the true nature must emerge to replace it. You must exercise
your sveiegjuoisr phaárbaitnoos tvoodluosntlaods. in agreement with the demons and
must break
The swirl at the top of the illustration, between the 2 hands, represents a
"hurricane." The schizophrenic continually creates storms around himself.
She gets caught in that storm and others are affected by what happens.
Note that some of the arrows also carry hurricanes or whirlwinds. If the
person you are trying to relate to is also unstable, you put your storm in
contact with that of the schizophrenic. So there may be a storm within a
storm. Other arrows are straight. This refers to stable people who can
relate to the hurricane in a stable way. Such a person can face the storm
without being harmed or injured. The whirlpool does not catch him. The
minister of deliverance must be able to enter like a straight arrow. These
moments of storm make the root of bitterness

fporromfuen(dvaemr
emnaten.oAdheorerac,hma)iryemquoessqeuiéntrreopdrueszecnatcaandla
osvedzedmoássof the hand.
The ring finger is designated LUST. The Lord showed that this demon
"marries a person to the world for love." Lust is rooted in rejection. If love
has not been satisfactorily received through the normal channels of life,
the carnal nature will begin to seek its own kind of love, sensual love. In
this way you open the door for the spirit of lust to enter. A companion
spirit in this group is Lustful Fantasy, that is, the fantastic concupiscence
that makes many people imagine themselves to be like the great lovers of
the film world or to experience sensual fantasies as preludes to open
acts. The spirit of prostitution in women can initially manifest itself in dress
and provocativeness. Sexual perversions represent extreme efforts and
attempts to overcome rejection. Sexual experiences, real or imagined,
can never satisfy the need for genuine love. They are substitutes for the
devil in exchange for an accumulation of feelings, feelings of shame,
insecurity and inferiority, which are nothing more than other
manifestations of rejection. A person who has a deep feeling of rejection
feels insecure and inferior.
The index finger of the left hand is Self-accusation. This demon causes a
person to turn against himself and tear apart his sense of personal
dignity. In most cases we have found Self-accusation associated with
"Compulsion to confess." He usually confesses to those who should show
him the most love, driven to do this in an effort to impress them into giving
him forced attention and thus finding something of a substitute for love.
Now, the right hand of the illustration:
The middle finger represents rebellion. Rebellion identifies one of

ldaesmfaolnsiaosspseerspouneadleidcaodnessidinesrtaarlacdoamsopeos
rplíorstitudesemcoomnipoesn. sEasdtoergersudpeol of rejection. Because
rebellion is the opposite of rejection. The first is explosive and turbulent,
the second is withdrawn and insecure.
The right ring finger represents Obstinacy or Willfulness. This demon
"commits" a person to selfish desires. This opens the way to
Stubbornness, Selfishness and Insensitivity.
Again we see that this is a compensation for rejection. Since the person
has been rejected or fears rejection, he or she is directed to pamper and
spoil himself or herself. So this is how you try to overcome your feelings
of rejection.
The index finger is called Accusation. It is also a compensating demon,
seeking to make rejection not be considered. It seeks to remove attention
from oneself and direct it towards others. The left index finger points to
the Self "I am guilty" while the right index finger points to others "you are
guilty." In this way the demon of accusation opens the door for the fellow
spirits of judgment.
The right little finger is Self-deception. His companions are Illusions, or
Arugtuolsleod. uEclcoíorgnuylloOergsuoltlroo.
Emsetcoasn3isemspoírciotumspdeenlseagtooriaou(t1o)inpfalraaneell
rejection. Those who feel rejected want to feel important. The spirit of
Illusion comes and tells you, "You are really somebody; you are a spiritual
giant" or some other kind of giant. The ego that has been wounded
seems to receive an upward push. But all this is demonic and only leads
to greater frustration and greater discouragement.
Through revelation, the Lord showed me how thumbs represent the
paranoid phase of Schizophrenia. Part of that phase is represented in the
left thumb because it has its roots in rejection. On the side of rejection are
the spirits of jealousy and envy. Those who have a deficiency in
reciprocal love relationships become jealous and envious of those who
experience satisfactory love. On the side of rebellion are the spirits of

ednesecsotnefúialtnizmao, sgorsuppeochqau,emseieldlaoms ya
"pceorsnefcrouncitoacni.óHnacyonothroosnedsetmidoandioas all costs."
Suspicion and distrust grow in the individual until he is forced to confront
the other person. After the confrontation the pressures within him ease for
a while. But let the attacked person deal with his injuries. The person
acting under the influence of paranoid demons is quite insensitive when it
comes to the many injuries he causes, but he is
supersensitive to any offense towards herself.
The revelation appearing in fingers and thumbs has proven to be
infallible, according to numerous ministrations to schizophrenics. It has no
imperfections or cracks.
The demons listed at the bottom of the left hand are representative of
other spirits commonly found on the rejection side of the schizophrenia
picture. There will be some variations from person to person. The list is
suggestive rather than exhaustive. It is obvious that on many occasions
the demons that appear on the right hand are:
cdheaazlog(u2n):arfeocrhmazaos,emasieodcoiaanl
croecnhlaaztoríyadaaudtoerrloecsheaszpoír.itus The list of demons on
the right hand includes control and possession, which are directly related
to rebellion.
"For rebellion is as the sin of witchcraft, and stubbornness is as iniquity
and idolatry" (1 Samuel 15:23a)
This verse can be considered in two ways: first, I interpret it to mean that
for God, rebellion is as abominable as sorcery itself. I also interpret it to
mean that whoever has a rebellious nature, has a witch nature. The
purpose of witchcraft is to control. It is the control of another person,
through the knowing or unknowing use of the power that evil spirits have.
Rebellion often leads to control.
Now let's continue down with the right hand: there is a "root"

sduecaemdeanrgyurpaa"l.aEbrnastoqduaevsiedadiscienmyprreeqhuaiyer
ceonnfulnicatoasc,tictousdadseqpuerdón. Here lies the problem with the
schizophrenic, since he is incapable of forgiving. He has an unforgiving
spirit. Things that happened 30 years ago are as alive as if they had
happened a minute ago. The root of bitterness remains alive and from it
come resentment, hatred, anger, revenge, vengeance, rancor, violence,
homicide. There may be many more demons attached to such roots of
bitterness(3).
So how does the schizophrenic get out of all this?
hodgepodge? The 3 main areas that must be conquered are: Rejection,
Rebellion and the root of bitterness. As these areas are conquered, the
"house" - that is, life - must be filled by giving and receiving love, by
submitting to all valid authority, and by forgiving all people, regardless of
circumstances. When these three areas are conquered, the other related
spirits ask for your strength. There is a need for a big decision.
The person who can decide with complete persistence, "I'm going to be
different." "I will not let demons rule my life,"

fEinallampeanrte vinefreariaolrvdicetolariial.ustration, between the hands

there is a figurine that corresponds to the "real self". As the process of
liberation takes place, after a period of time, the "real self" must move
upward, as illustrated by the arrows, and move away from the false
schizophrenic personalities by ceasing to agree with all their influences
and all they represent. The real self must be constituted and take the
nature of the Lord Jesus himself. Spiritual exercises such as Bible study,
prayer, fasting, praise, and fellowship with other believers are an essential
part of successful deliverance.
Liberation from schizophrenia is the deepest, most committed, most
definite, and most difficult of all the liberations we have been able to find"
(So far, what has been written by the. Hammond)
1 .
2.
tlamhnbaié.nHlalammmaodnodmmeecnanciosmnaoudneadterífaednas,b
ut in my study, I follow the model of the sister. Doris M. Wagner when
speaking of 4 types of spirits of rejection, which I talk about in the Tree of
Rejection section
3. Here it refers to what is related to "handles of sin" and "reactionary sin"
already commented on at the beginning of my study CONCLUSION.
It has been a great honor to be able to share with you my study on
Rejection. This is a very sensitive topic, but also a very necessary topic
for many............................................................................. My intention
has not been to blame anyone, but neither to justify him. It is time for us to
prepare our hearts for the voice of God, who tells us "do not be afraid. I
help you" and answer "Yes, Lord, I accept your help; I really want to
change and leave everything that is a rather heavy burden for me and
that without your help, I will never be able to get rid of it: Thank you for
being willing to help me" But I also did it with the intention that those who
have not been deeply hurt by rejection, can understand,
raimdíacruylonso, icnafargnatirlems,ásinamaaqduuerlolos,s
cqauren
,aplersobyatballevmeeznhtea,stlaeshpipaóreccrietnas, false or
liars ... but they are not, "they are people with sorrows, wounds and scars
and with an erroneous programming that interferes with their present
behavior. If we understand that salvation does not give us instant
emotional health, we gain a basic understanding of the doctrine of
sanctification. It is impossible to know to what extent a person is a
Christian by judging merely on the basis of his outward conduct.
Isn't it true that we will know them by their fruits? (Mt 7:16) Yes, but it is
also true that we must understand them according to their roots, that is,
their past, and not judge them. We can have Juan, who seems more
spiritual and responsible than Enrique. But in reality, considering Juan's
roots and the excellent soil he grew up in, Enrique may be a saint in
comparison.

cPounefdoermquaecihóanyraepalroaglraesimadaogemnudceho more
than John in the
Jesus Christ How un-Christian and how wrong it is to judge people
superficially! People who do these things are very cruel. They are only
piling more weight on the person who can no longer carry their burden,
who is hurting and struggling in vain to let go of a deep-rooted emotional
problem. He feels guilty about the problem, because "Christians shouldn't
have this kind of problem"; and when someone makes him feel worse
about it (judging him, criticizing him, condemning him, "advising" him to
read the Bible more, pray more, have more faith "aren't you a
Christian?"...), he only doubles his load of guilt and despondency."
(Seamands, Healing for Emotional Trauma) If we understand all of the
above, we can be free to forgive those who have hurt us... because they
were hurt too... and to ask forgiveness from those we are hurting (or have
hurt) in order to break that evil chain so that, in turn, they will not hurt
more...
Some may object, "what is he doing? by belittling

lcousraerstnáunedsatreos?v¿iejsotás nperogbalnedmoaqsu?e is it

tpáotdraetradnedloEdsepífraictuiliStaarnetoxcpuuseadse and alibis to

avoid responsibility, so that we can blame life, heredity, parents, teachers,

boyfriends or spouses and thus explain away our defeats and failures?

That is, in the words of Paul: shall we continue to sin so that grace may

abound? (Rom 6:1) And I would answer with Paul's words: "By no

means!" What I am saying is that there are certain areas of our lives that

need special healing by the Holy Spirit. Because they are not subject to

ordinary prayer, discipline and willpower, but require special

understanding, in order to "unlearn" previous or past erroneous

programming and relearn and reprogram so that our minds are

transformed, renewed. And this is not done overnight, through a crisis.

eQxupieriomiennsitsatlir in the love of the Lord, that for all those who are
listening to His voice through these topics, apart from not hardening the
heart, as Scripture advises us, it is necessary that in prayer (that is, under
the guidance of God and in communion with Him) they make a list of all
those people whom they must forgive and thing by thing that they must
forgive ... likewise, also in prayer, ask the Lord for help to be able to make
a list where He shows them the following 4 things:
1. How and by whom they have been rejected (or are being rejected)
2. How they have rejected themselves (or are doing so)
3. How and who have they rejected (or are doing so)
4. How have you perceived rejection (real or imagined) All of this is very
important to understand, and the only one who can reveal it and convince
us is the Lord..........................................
Remember: let us do our part (what He asks us to do) and He will do His
(what no one but Him can do). I want to make the following reflections:
dHoalbolraors,apeonr tealnatlom, dae, erneclhoaszroe,ceuserhdaobsl.aEr
sdereufnertirasuema au:ndheeucnhao hqeureida left its mark, its seal, which
pierced our soul leaving a painful mark; which broke it, that is, it cracked
it, deformed it, twisted it in its affections, in its memories, in its emotions,
in its thoughts, in its concepts of itself, of others and of God... in its life
itself!
Let us explain this by means of the following illustration: On the stump of
a tree that has been cut down, naturalists can show and point out the tree
rings that reveal the history of its development year after year: Here, a
ring representing a year when there was a terrible drought; here, a pair of
rings from years when there was a lot of rain; here, another one when the
tree was struck by lightning; here, rings from years of normal growth; this
other ring, showing a forest fire that almost destroyed the tree; this one,
showing a tree that was almost destroyed by a fire.

odterloá,rubnoal,presptreesqeunetalondaofelcatóa.uTtoobdiogersatfoíase
dehaslulacrdeecnitmroiednetol .co.rEazsóton is what happens to us. A little
bit inside the protective shell, the mask that protects and hides, are the
rings that record our lives.
There are scars of deep, old sorrows, like when a little boy comes down
the stairs on Christmas morning and expects to find something precious
in his stocking under the tree, but all he finds is a rock as punishment for
some trivial childish prank. This wound has eaten away at him from
within, causing all kinds of interpersonal difficulties.
Here is a faded, tragic stain that has clouded her entire life... when many
years ago, secretly, in some secret place, an older brother took his little
sister and brought her up to date, in a practical way, on the miseries of
sex, not just its mysteries.
And here we see the pressure of a repressed, painful memory... trying to
stop a drunken father who is about to kill the mother and then snatch the
knife from her hands. This wounds chaunssainddooeunntererandcaosr
eynseulfrdimolioerndtousrainteextpalnictoabtliesm. pI, these are not
touched by conversion, nor by sanctifying grace, nor by the ordinary
benefits of prayer.
In the rings of our thoughts and emotions, is where the memory is;
memories persist, and they are alive. And, in a direct and profound way,
they affect our concepts, feelings and relationships. They affect the way
we see life and God, others and ourselves.
The Holy Spirit is the Divine Counselor and Psychiatrist, who is willing to
help us if we allow Him. Becoming aware of this is the main purpose of
this study. But it is necessary that we do our part, so that He can do His,
which is impossible for us. What is our part? Let's see:
c1o.
nHlAaZgrFaRciEaNdeTEDiAosL, PenRfOreBntLáEndMoAte.
cCoonnetsoadtaersrinbclerriedaaldidyadv:ahloars, and been rejected, and
with high probability, you have rejected... Face this terrible childhood
memory no matter how deep the feelings you carry inside are. Recognize
it yourself and also before God in a very clear way. He already knows it,
he has known it and he has suffered seeing you full of bitterness,
resentment, rejection of yourself and others. He has seen how much you
have suffered waiting for others to satisfy your needs for love, acceptance
and approval and you have only achieved the opposite... and inside, you
are full of wounds and false scars that hurt too much... How have you
believed the accuser's lies about your identity, self-worth, and God... He
knows it, but He wants you to recognize it, so that you run to Him, Who
has already accepted you in the Beloved: to His loving arms, which are
ready to comfort you and hold you in His lap, very close to His heart,
ready to cleanse you, affirm you, free you... the arms of your Father, your
heavenly Father.
2. ACCEPT YOUR RESPONSIBILITY IN THE MATTER. Don't be afraid
to be like this.....i.chiearcoienn, dsionpoasgoabrrae
olatrroesa,cqcuióennpoescoanmciunlopsaabqleuse, you have including
yourself.
You can't keep saying "I am this way because I was made this way." God
can transform you, but you need to be willing to renew your way of
thinking.
3. ASK YOURSELF IF YOU REALLY WANT TO BE HEALED. If you
like? Well, there is a price to pay... but don't be afraid! It will be cheaper
for you to pay it than to continue as you are. What is that price?: Take a
risk
1. Take the risk of believing God, of trusting in Him and in His Word, in
His Wisdom, in His Authority...
2. to forgive, releasing from your hook those who hurt you, harmed you,
and trust in the justice and mercy of He who has loved you with an eternal
love and gave His only Son for you, because He had

coulmpapbalseióynqdueetis.ie mapreerdteonhaarsteseanttiidmoisamsío,
.
p..edreo ltoamqubeiénnodfeulidstaeño that you have done, for "he who
confesses his sin and forsakes it will find mercy" (Prov 28:13)...
3. That the process will hurt, but His promise will be fulfilled: He heals the
brokenhearted and binds up their wounds (Psalm 147:3) "The Lord is
near to the brokenhearted, and saves those who are crushed in spirit"
(Psalm 34:18)... he who comes to Jesus will not be cast out (will not be
rejected)
Or is it that you don't really want to be healed? You just want to talk about
"your" problem. Do you want to use the problem to get sympathy from
others? Are you just using it as an emotional crutch, to keep limping
along?
God, in Hebrews 4:14-16 assures us that we can approach His throne
with confidence, which is the throne of grace, to receive mercy and find
grace to help in time of need...we can do this BECAUSE He can
sympathize with us because of our weaknesses...He understands us, He
even takes charge of the feeling of our weaknesses; not only of the
identity, the dignity, the dignity and the conflicts of God, but also of the sins of the
sinners, ...

He understands frustration and disappointment, depression, sorrow,

feelings of abandonment, loneliness or isolation and rejection...He knows
what it is to cry out with tears. He knows what it is to cry out to the Father
with loud sobs. He struggled with feelings that nearly tore him apart. He
knows it. He has been through it all, for He has been "despised and
rejected by men, a man of sorrows and acquainted with grief; and we hid
as it were Our faces from Him; He was despised and we did not esteem
Him. Surely he has borne our griefs and carried our sorrows, yet we
considered him stricken, smitten by God, and afflicted. But He was
wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; the
chastisement that brought us peace was upon Him, and by His stripes we
are healed" (Isaiah 53:3-5) (emphasis mine, as well as the
cpoarnétnigteos.is) can take care of what happens to you. He suffers God
wants you to know that He is not angry with you because of your
feelings...He understands you... He wants to heal you. He understands
the cry of abandonment, of rejection. He took upon Himself the full range
of our feelings, and carried the sense of our weaknesses so that we
would not have to bear it alone.
This is it, security and guarantee. What gives us grounding and hope for
our healing: The fact that God not only knows what our traumatized
emotions are and is willing to help us, but that He fully understands them.
This is the most important factor in our health. Take the risk! it's worth it...
NOTHING and NO ONE else can help you, only Him, because: "The
Spirit of the Lord is upon me, because he has anointed me to preach
good news to the poor.
He has sent me to heal the brokenhearted;
To proclaim liberty to the captives and recovery of sight to the blind;
To set free the oppressed;
To preach the acceptable year of the Lord" (1L. cPI4D:1E8L-1E9A) THE
HOLY SPIRIT to show you what the real problem is, its roots and
everything concerning it (your reactionary sin, buried pain, lack of
forgiveness, false and true guilt, fears, lies you have believed, distorted
images of God, etc.) and HOW YOU SHOULD PRAY. He will lead you
into all Truth, He promises...He will lead you into the knowledge of God
through Jesus Christ, who is the Truth {(and the Holy Spirit Himself, who
is the Spirit of Truth...that is, into the knowledge of the only true God, the
Triune God, for "you will know the Truth, and the Truth will make you
free...so if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed" (John 8:32,36)}
only He can enable you and equip you to overcome with the weapons He
has given you, which are powerful in Him (God) for the destruction of
strongholds, casting down arguments and every high thing that exalts
itself (which

lsleevhanldeovacnatuatdivooentotduovpidena)sacmonietrnatoelacloanoo
bceimdiieennctioa daeCDrisotso, (and 2 Cor 10:4-5; see also Jeremiah
9:23 and 24 and Philippians 4:8) (parentheses mine)
"Jesus walked through a lonely valley, he had to walk alone;
He had to walk it alone, alone, alone.
You too have to pass the test,
You have to go through it yourself;
No one else can do it for you,
You have to go through it, yes, yourself.
When we walk through the lonely valley, We are by no means alone;
Because God sent His Son to walk with us, Therefore now we no longer
walk alone"
(Hymns for the family of God. Parangon Associates, p. 217) GLOSSARY.
Please, I ask you not to skip it, if you pay attention it will be very revealing
to youALTIVEZ. Pride, arrogance// Elevated thingCOURAGE. Soul (which
includes will, feelings,

emmeomcoiorinae, sr)aAzoRnGamUMienEtNo,TpOen.
sRaamzioennatmosieynto {series of concepts

directed at demonstrating something or persuading (inducing, moving,

forcing with reasons to believe or do something) someone} that is used to
prove or demonstrate a proposition or to convince another of
somethingARS. Ritual sexual abuse (practiced by Satanists)ASIDERO.
Unresolved sin, trauma (hurt), or painful memory that provides a basis
(legal right) for an unclean spirit to operate in a certain area of a person's
life. Once this base is removed, the handle is destroyedCARNAL. Earthly
and only looks at the things of the worldCAUTIVE. Imprisoned in
warCIRCULAR CORD AROUND THE NECK. Situation in which the
umbilical cord is wrapped around the neck, and may or may not be tight.
This will determine the sensation or degree of asphyxia experienced by
the baby, who may still be inside the uterus.

(ennaeclerc)aCnOalNdFelIApaRr.toT(ecnaenraclovnafgiainnazla),
oeslitsatroapleanrtaasdeor//exEpsuplesraadrocon firmeza y
seguroCONOCER. To deal with, to frequent, to rub shoulders with, to
relate to, to find out, to notice, to understand, to feel, to experience, to
allocate, to attribute, to discern (to give, to deliver, to appreciate, to
recognize)WEAKNESSES. They are characteristics of human nature that
can predispose or incline us to sin. They are not sin in themselves. They
can exist in the mental, moral, emotional or physical area (although in this
study I am not referring to the physical ones)DESTRUCTION. Ruin,
devastation // Action of destroying (undoing, ruining // Making something
useless // causing serious damage)HYPERTENSIVE DISEASE OF
PREGNANCY. See on SFAFIRMEZA. Persevere, do not vary in state or
resolution// Without getting tired or fatiguedSTRENGTH. Fortified
enclosureIRA. Passion of the soul that moves to indignation and anger,
pain, great irritation // Desire for unjust revenge (man) // Desire for just
revenge (God)TAKE. To transport, to lead something from one point to
another (in the case of 2 Cor 10:4-5, thoughts must be taken from the
area of influence of the enemy's lies, to the

sVigerndifaidcaddeol,apPeraolatbarma
bdieénDimosp)lOicBaEcDonIEfiNanCzIaAO.DTIiOen. eAuvnerasmiópnlio

(opposition and repugnance that one has towards some person or thing)
and antipathy (natural or instinctive repugnance that one feels towards
some person or thing) towards someone or something, whose harm one
wishes PRIDE. Vainglory, presumption (supposition, conjecture, opinion,
suspicion)SORRY. It is a natural antiseptic that must be used quickly
towards the offending person, once he or she has hurt us (since for God it
is the only acceptable reaction towards him or her). Otherwise, a spiritual
germ (unclean spirit) can gain entry into that wound and cause a spiritual
infection (which is called demonization) (Interesting definition given by
Frank Hammond in Victory over Rejection)POWERFUL. Having power //
Active, effective, having virtue for a thing // Excellent,
magnificentBREAKING. Broken into pieces,

dReosmmpeenru, zsaempaireanrtocoyndveioalheín, cruiainla,s

dpeasrtreuscdceióunnQtUodEoB/R/ACaNsTcaArR. (to break something
that is brittle, that is, something that is easy to break, that easily breaks
into pieces (it is fragile) // To destroy (to render something useless (to
make it useless, vain or null, that is, incapable) // Fig. destroy, cause
serious damage (great, of great importance); mistreat (treat someone
badly in word or deed // undermine, spoil) // Crush: hit something to break
or deform it (disfigure: disfigure, spoil the composition and beauty of
features and countenance) // Be moved {experience some sudden
commotion (violent movement or disturbance -outside of its natural state-)
of the spirit, which causes the countenance (face) to alter //
representation of an affection or feeling on the face)BROKENNESS.
Weakness of spirit or body, despondency // Fig. pity (expression that
moves compassion and tenderness, which provokes, inspires
compassion and pity (mercy) of another towards the one who suffers the
loss // Great loss (lack of what one had) // Damage (prejudice // Pain) //
Great pain or sorrowBREAK.

(Qeunecboravnatra/r/ /D/ Desovbialarru(nraomcopsear

duenasucopsoasiecnióconrovádnidreoclcai)ó, ntohrcaebritual or that he
was carrying) // Sometimes used figuratively to talk about a broken heart
or feelingRCP. Cardiopulmonary resuscitation (maneuvers used to
restore heartbeat and breathing when both have stopped)RESENTMENT.
Resentment or bitterness (animosity, enmity// Ill will; deep-rooted rancor
(that has taken root, becoming very firm and difficult to eradicate) deep-
rooted and tenacious (that sticks or clings strongly to something and is
difficult to separate) REPUGNANCE. Opposition between 2 things //
Boredom (annoyance, weariness: anger, displeasure, annoyance) and
aversion (disgust)RESENTMENT. Disgust, anger (unpleasant and
annoying impression that some things make on the soul // Anger,
movement of the soul that arouses anger against something

cpoerssaoSnFaA),. pSeusfarrim(aifelnictcoiófent,aal
baagtuimdoi:enEtsot,adoleonr, qcuoengpoojraf)apltoarduena oxygenation
in the fetus {(which may be due to various causes, such as, umbilical cord
around the neck, heavy bleeding from the mother, abnormal uterine
contractions during labor, high blood pressure in the mother (which may
be due to Hypertensive disease of pregnancy, also called Preeclampsia
or Eclampsia; previously called Toxemia gravidarum)} this is led to a state
of metabolic stress (imbalance) and emotional distressREVENGE.
Satisfaction (state that results from the realization of what was desired //
Repair of an injury or damage // Pleasure, pleasure, joy) or revenge that
is taken from an injury
BIBLIOGRAPHY (some books are intentionally repeated)I) USED FOR
THIS STUDY:
1. Holy Bible. Reina-Valera 1960
2. Pigs in the Parlor (Frank and Ida Mae Hammond. Edit. Unilit)
3. How to Cast Out Demons (Doris M. Wagner. Edit. Bethany)
4. Healing for emotional traumas (DA) Seamands. Edit.
5C
.liDe)is unmasked (Rita Cabezas. Edit. Unilit)
6. Larousse dictionary of synonyms, antonyms and related ideas
7. Healing Memories (DA) Seamands. Edit. Clie)
8. Spiritual Warfare Handbook (Dr. Ed Murphy. Edit. Caribbean)
9. Breaking the Chains (Neil T. Anderson. Edit. Unilit)
10. Inner healing through the 4-door model (Bernardo Stamateas. Edit.
Peniel)
11. Healing of the Wounded Soul, Volume I (Arline de Westmeier. Edit.
Unilit)
12. Vine, exhaustive expository dictionary (WE I came. Edit.
Caribbean)
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1. http://fahu.tripod.com.mx/FAHU/.id11.html
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111.
)AMuÁtoSesStiOmBardEe lEaLmRuEjeCr H(MAaZrgOa:rita Burt. Edit.
Clie)
2. How to Succeed at Accepting Yourself (Joyce Meyer. Edit.
Unilit)
3. Let them come to me (Daniel Bravo. Edit. Peniel)
4. Leaving aside what is childish (DA) Seamands. Edit. Clie)
5. The Five Love Languages in Children (Gary Chapman and Ross
Campbell. Edit. Unilit)
6. He loves me a lot...a little...nothing (Luis Palau Edit. Unilit)
7. Reason for joy and happiness (Josh McDowell and Dale Bellis. Edit.
Bethany)
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Edit. Unilit)
9. Marriage Health (Arline de Westmeier. Edit. Unilit)
10. Victory over darkness (Neil T. Anderson. Edit. Unilit)
111)Concepts of God
1. Total Love (Neil T. Anderson and Dave Park. Edit. Unilit)
2. Women's self-esteem (Margarita Burt. Edit. Clie)
3. Walking in the Light (Neil T. Anderson. Edit. Unilit) 4U.nCiluita)ndo what
God does is meaningless (James Dobson. Edit.
5. The Awesome God (Neil T. Anderson and Rich Miller. Edit. Unilit)
6. The Father loves his daughters (TD Jakes. Edit. Creation House)
7. Emerging from the Darkness (Neil T. Anderson and Dave Park. Edit.
Unilit)
8. Winning the spiritual battle. Steps to Freedom in Christ (Neil T.
Anderson. Unilit)
9. The Lady, Her Beloved, and Her Lord (TD Jakes. Edit. Creation
House)
10. Free from fear (Neil T. Anderson and Rich Miller. Edit. Unilit)
11. The Common Made Holy (Neil T. Anderson and Robert Saucy. Edit.
Unilit)
12. God's Love Languages (Gary Chapman) Edit. Unilit)
13. My Father God (Margaret Burt. Edit. Clie)
14. Woman, you are free! (TD Jakes. Edit. Unilit)

I1V5 .) PaEpCÁA ¿DóOnSDESeEsXtaUbaAs?

LE(HSeYathVeIrCHTaIrMphAaSmD.EEdIiNt.CVEidSaT)OY SEXUAL ABUSE:
1. When trust is lost (Discovery Series. RBC Ministries)
2. Incest, help for victims (Jan Frank. Edit. Clie)
3. Free from Addiction (Neil T. Anderson and Mike and Julia Quarles.
Edit. Unilit)
4. Woman, you are free! (TD Jakes. Edit. Unilit)
5. Sexual perversions (Bernardo Stamateas. Edit. Clie)
6. Inner healing through the 4-door model (Bernardo Stamateas. Edit.
Peniel)
7. An Escape Route (Neil T. Anderson. Edit. Unilit)
V) DEPRESSION, ANGER, LONELINESS, PAIN AND FEAR
1. When we burn with anger (RBC Ministries. Discovery Series)
2. When what God does doesn't make sense (James Dobson. Edit.
Unilit)
3. Leaving aside what is childish (DA) Seamands. Edit. Clie)
4. The Father loves his daughters (TD Jakes. Edit. Creation House)

56. . The dotarma ac,asrau daeml aadmooyr s(Gu

aSreyñCorh(aTp.mDa.nJ.aEkedsi.t.EPdoirt.taCvaosza) Creation)
7. Reason for joy and happiness (Josh McDowell and Dale Bellis. Edit.
Bethany)
8. Reunion with hope (Neil T. Anderson and Hal Baumchen. Edit. Unilit)
9. You can stop feeling guilty (You can stop feeling guilty series) Edit.
Unilit)
VI) PARENTS AND CHILDREN:
1. Healing for emotional trauma (DA) Seamands. Edit. Clie)
2. Teaching Your Kids About Sex (Loonar Buth. Edit. Unilit)
3. Stairway to Hell (Rick Jones. Chick publications)
4. Incest, help for victims (Jan Frank. Edit. Clie)
5. Healing Memories (DA) Seamands. Edit. Clie)
6. The other side of love (Gary Chapman. Edit. Spokesperson) 7E.dLita.
Usendiulict)tion of our children (Neil T. Anderson and Steve Russo.

8. The words of parents and their amazing power (Norman

Wright. Edit. Unilit)
9. The Five Love Languages in Children (Gary Chapman and Ross
Campbell. Edit. Unilit)
10. Dad, where were you? (Heather Harpham. Edit. Life)
11. Spiritual Protection for Your Children (Neil T. Anderson and Pete and
Sue Vander Hook. Unilit)
VII) COUNSELING (TOWARDS ONESELF AND TOWARDS OTHERS)
OTHERS. AS CHRISTIANS, WE ALL NEED TO BE PREPARED) I repeat
what I consider basic 1. All of the above titles and the following titles:
2. Pastoral counseling (Bernardo Stamateas. Edit. Clie)
3. Pigs in the Parlor (Frank and Ida Mae Hammond. Edit.Unilit)
4. How to Help Others Find Freedom in Christ (Neil T.
Anderson. Edit. Unilit)
5. Healing for emotional traumas (DA) Seamands. Edit. Clie) 67..
Discovering loyal mcoernatzeóndeleal mhoumjebrr(eK(eKneNn
aNira.irA. VAAVLA)L)
8.
Unmasked (Rita Cabezas. Edit. Unilit)
9.
The Devil's Dictionary (Robert Koch. Edit. Clie)
10.
Demons possessed (Bernardo Stamateas. Edit. Clie)
11.
Healing Memories (DA) Seamands. Edit. Clie)
12.
Deliver us from evil (Cindy Jacobs. Edit. Creation House)
13.
Liberating His Church (Neil T. Anderson and Charles Mylander. Edit.
Unilit)
14.
Spiritual Warfare Handbook (Dr. Ed Murphy. Edit. Caribbean)
15.
Occultism and inner healing (Bernardo Stamateas. Edit. Clie)
16.
Rivers of Revival (Neil T. Anderson and Elmer L. Towns. Edit. Unilit)
17.
Breaking the Chains (Neil T. Anderson. Edit. Unilit)
18.
A door called divorce (David Hormachea. Edit. Bethany)
19.
or
Vúlitcitmoroi,ansooborlevildaeomscousrqiduaedso(nmeoilsTtr.iApanrdtietr
asso, ne.sEddeicti.rU, ensipliítr)itu, soul and body, therefore, the problems
that are presented to us, whether personal or from third parties, must be
considered UNDER THE GUIDANCE OF THE HOLY SPIRIT AND THE
WORD OF GOD in the 3 spheres, that is, INTEGRALLY. If we don't do it
this way, we can leave loose ends. In the extensive list of Bibliography, as
in everything, we must be guided by the advice of God: Test all things,
hold fast to what is good (1 Thess. 5:21) And who better than the Holy
Spirit to lead us to all Truth? His guidance and wisdom cannot be
replaced by anything or anyone.
Blessings to all and my wishes that the Holy Spirit continues to guide us
to all Truth and that His promise is fulfilled: that when we know the Truth,
the Truth will set us free.
Laura Cordero

How to Overcome Feelings of Rejection

Beth Moore

Rejection in itself is not a strength. Our reaction to rejection determines

whether we have been caught by it. Only God knows the tragic number of
His children who have allowed constant feelings of rejection to enslave
them for the rest of their lives.
Rejection in itself is not a strength. Our reaction to
Rejection determines whether we have been caught by it. Only God
knows the tragic number of His children who have allowed constant
feelings of rejection to enslave them for the rest of their lives.

I would never say that overcoming rejection is easy, but it is possible for
those who put their heart and mind to it.

The unquestionable will of God for his children is that they may

sduiapreiraamr eenl treecghranzod.es ¿Cdoósmisodseulpaemraomr odse

eDl iroeschaanzuoe?sAtroplcicoarnazdóon

wounded, allowing him to renew our mind, until the rejected one thinks he
is accepted.

Jesus Christ will never leave you nor forsake you. He will never put it to a
luasdteod.
ÉrelceisbioncaalpHazijodedededeDciodsircroempontsiunaSmalevnatdeoq
ru,enaydaanqouleohqaugiaere. If you can get Him to reject it.

Believe what God's Word says about Him and about yourself. Your
definition is based on the love and acceptance of the creator and
sustainer of the universe. It turns out that He thinks you are worthy of
being loved and preserved. Seek your own identity in Him.

I have had the pain and joy of watching someone struggle victoriously
with rejection. This is about a sister, both she and her husband, were
active members of a church in another city. They had been married for
twenty-five years when she found out her husband was cheating on her.

He did not have a history of infidelity, but he had allowed Satan to twist
what was originally a friendship with another woman into an illicit
relationship.

ePnaarameomrapdeoordaer llaasotcroasmasu,
jeelr.esMpiosaomcigoanfqeuseódcóodnelváagsrtiamdaas, not that they
covered themselves for days but for months. Her husband agreed not to
file for divorce, but not to stop seeing the other woman. The marriage
seemed to have no more hope.

My friend gave herself completely to Jesus Christ and to reading the word
of God because, according to her own expression, He was her only
alternative for survival.

She had been a believer since she was young and had served faithfully in
her church, but she had never been forced to live and feel the word of
God to such an extent. The transformation of his life took place before my
very eyes. It was as if God had opened His Word like the Red Sea, so
that she could pass through the great flood of pain on dry land.

Over the course of the next four years, this man saw such inner strength
and spiritual beauty in his wife that he fell in love with her again. Either of
them would tell you that today they have a marriage like they've never
had before.

I am not suggesting that if every rejected wife does the same thing she
will always get the same results. Both parties must ultimately be willing
and patient to let God work the miracle of healing and forgiveness.

What I am suggesting, however, is that the rejected person who turns

completely to God and His Word can find glorious restoration and
acceptance in Christ, no matter what the end of the story may be.
Regardless of the type of rejection you have suffered, I desire that these
prayers, based on the Scriptures, be used by God to strengthen you
greatly.

Lord Jesus, you came and announced good news of peace to those

Tquuyeoe, sJteásbúasm, looss luenjooss and ya only the soqtrues

etesntaeb hands centered, dpaorpqoureupnomrimsmedoio Spirit to the
Father.

So then we are no longer strangers and foreigners, but fellow citizens with
the saints and members of the household of God, built on the foundation
of the apostles and prophets, with you Jesus as the chief cornerstone.

In you the whole structure, joined together, grows into one

holy temple in the Lord. And in you we too are being built up into a
dwelling place of God in the Spirit. (Ephesians 2:17-22)

God wanted you to be His. He wanted it! It's not that he simply felt sorry
for him. He had no obligation to you. He chose you because he likes you.
I was not supposed to live the life of the Lord that would blossom into love and
acceptance.

I thank you, my God, because you always lead me in triumph in Christ

Jesus, and you wish to manifest through me the sweet aroma of your
knowledge. For I am to you a sweet aroma of Christ among those who
are being saved and among those who are perishing (“Corinthians 2:14-
15).

Lord God, thank you for your Word that assures me that there is no
condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus, because in
Christ Jesus, the law of the Spirit of life, set me free from the law of sin
and death (Romans 8:1-2).

You will not take away your mercy from me. You will never falsify your
truth, oh Lord. You will never forget your covenant nor change what has
gone out from your lips (Psalm 89:33-34).

How grateful I am to you, Lord, because you have the power to turn the
curse into a blessing for me, because you, Lord my God, love me
(Deuteronomy 23:5).