Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the number of moments

that take our breath away.�.I'm looking for someone who's willing to be an EQUAL
and BEST FRIEND. Strong chemistry is a must, but so is a ATTITUDE, TRUST,
UNDERSTANDING and CONSISTENCY. No matter how far we are Love can exit....i hope to
hear back from you and Just wanna let you know That I am who I say I am, and I am
looking for a woman who doesn't play games. I hope that you could be that woman.
Would you like to talk and to find out what happens when a lonely guy meets a
lonely gal? I can give you my email address which is r.smith1188 at Yahoo
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real fmt......

Hello

Am really great to get your mail today ......How are you doing today ?? Am kinda
cool here .i would like to thank you for your interest in my profile..So I enjoyed
reading your profile as well. It looks like you are into a lot of pretty cool
things , i would like to say what a beautiful woman you are . I am ready to start
the next chapter in my life with someone who is ready for a serious relationship..I
dont Like to IM cos at times I do Busy a lot and I prefer you email me through my
regular email here ..So here I am just one little fish in this big pond seeing what
else is swimming around. Could be that you know exactly what this little fish is
looking for.... if so you may just cast your line and get a bite....... I am not
only looking for my life partner but also my best friend. I believe that every
relationship starts with a great friendship.I am an honest and caring person and I
hope you would be too. I believe honesty is the best policy. I like to experience
new things. I am willing to try anything once.I am here because I am ready to find
true love. I am well educated, well traveled, and financially secure; however, I
feel like something is missing, and that something is having a relationship with a
great woman with whom I can love and be loved.... unconditionally, romantically,
intimately.I believe in the old golden rule .. I am not really into the bar/club
scene to meet someone for a lasting relationship. They usually never work out..
Don't get me wrong I do enjoy going out to have a good time but not every weekend.
I am not looking for someone who plays mind games or is not interested in being in
a committed relationship.I enjoy the simplest things in life. I love the outdoors
and feel fortunate to be able to experience all four seasons. I like to go camping,
gaze at the stars on a clear night, take walks just to enjoy nature and scenic
drives to nowhere. I tend to take the road less traveled. I believe that you can
have fun doing almost anything as long as you enjoy the people that you are with.
Life is too short not to enjoy it! i would Like to know what your likes and
dislikes are,and more importantly what you are wanting from your future
partner,you sound very sincere on your intentions,it would be an ideal world if
everything you want came so easy to get,i know thats wishful thinking,but we all
live in hope..i don't know what to say. i want to get to know you better .
believe it or not,it's not that easy to be a single dad in the dating scene. i
really look forward to meeting you ..i am a single father that is very devoted to
my kid,but there is room for another love in my life. i like to do things out,
but i also like to be at home. cooking is one of Major thing i like .... i always
would rather talk out a problem than hold it in. you will find out that i am much
more interested in how your day went. i want to know everything that
happened. ...I am a self employed ( Computer engineer base On software and
Programming ) ... I've been a mom and dad for 2 years now. I'm not tired of it,
but it does get a little old.i guess i am a tad more caring than the average man
because of having to be a little more emotional for my Daughter when she needs it.
you sound like a very loving and caring person. i understand that you need to
know more, Don't be afraid to ask me anything.I would always welcome you to my Life
. i want you to know I'm not doing this dating business to get a cheap frill or a
one night stand,I'm a very genuine person and i want to find someone i can share
my life with,someone i can love,someone i can trust, someone i can be a friend
for,and someone who will accept me for who i am,i can be very romantic,I'm honest,
trusting,good listener, caring, healthy,funny at times,and i can sing for my
supper if need be and I love to play Guitar and at my Leisure time , I love to play
Golf , Bowling and billiard Pool . So dear you have a perfect human being, no
seriously I'm not perfect but i want to make someone very happy and i have so much
love pent up inside me,it needs to be exposed gently to that special someone.i hope
I've given you an inkling of my thoughts and needs.--i hope you will reply to this
letter,i will send a photo of me and my daughter to you soon .--so for now Dear,i
bid you farewell..

Richard
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Hey ! How are ya?

That's a lot to reply to. No worries about taking a while to email. It sometimes
takes me a couple of hours to reply depending on how busy I am. It's weird, when I
read your email, I feel like I could have written it. You say a lot of the same
things that I often say. Like you hacked my computer and figured out how I talk
and now your emailing me. Just kidding - odd sense of humor again. But seriously, I
feel like I know you.Thank you for the compliment. It has taken me years to accept
that graciously. I revel in it now, but I used to wonder, "why is everybody staring
at me?" like I was an anomaly or something. I didn't realize it was because people
find me awesome . Huge revelation. I used to think I was the hunchback of notredame
or something. I vacillate on what I am looking for. I think that I'm ready to find
my soul mate. Other times I wonder if a soul mate really exists. I've been in love
numerous times. I really want the real thing. I am a very organized, hard-working
person who is very dedicated to my job. I take my job seriously however, sometimes
I need to be distracted! :) I am very responsible and enjoy helping others. Nothing
makes me happier than to help someone out and make them smile! I am sincere in
actions and words. I love to learn new things. I enjoy spending time with people
and I don't really care what I am doing as long as I am having fun with people. I
enjoy laughing and having fun and I think I am pretty funny! :) Guess you will have
to find out! :)...I've been a programmer for the last 18 1/2 years and love
it....My dad is a builder so I have learned how to do a lot from him which I am so
excited so much . Before that I was a mechanic (aircraft and diesel) and loved it.
Before that I was a chef and hated it. (Too damn hot in a kitchen in the
summertime.) .. I signed up online because of several things. First, I'm not into
the bar or club scene and don't feel that is the most appropriate place to meet
someone. Second, I think I am a good specimen for you to examine. ......let me
start by introducing myself to you ...I'm American, Italian and Nigerian. about
5.10 " I was born and Raise in Rome , Italy . Have lived in several areas of the
places ! and LOVE to visit and explore new places. I've met some really cool
people, but like I said, dating is old.. I'm ready already. I will know when I meet
her. We will both know that it's right. I will talk about my feelings on this more
in depth when we get a chance to talk in person. I'm a little doubtful, cynical,
not hurt or broken or damaged, just realistic. I'm a total optimist, except when
I'm a realist. lol I do want someone I can connect deeply with, listen to and share
openly. I want to be able give everything and not hold back. I'm such a giving,
loyal, loving, devoted person. I am trying to change my pattern of jumping into
serious relationships. I'm trying to move slowly and not rush things. Please don't
take my hesitation as lack of interest. I want to be sure before I commit to
someone. I want to take a lot of time to get to know you before I get serious. I
want to concentrate on the friendship aspect first without taking away from the
passion. Is that possible? Or does it just take away all the romance? These are the
things I question. I don't have all the answers. I don't know about life partner.
If I find her, then I will be happy. If I don't, then I will be happy. I deeply
want to find somebody that I can live in harmony with, share our lives, support
each other, lift each other up when we're down, spoil one another, be on the same
team, facing the world together as a united front, enjoying all the crazy
opportunities that come along, cheering each other to the finish line, picking up
the pieces together when things don't go the way we hoped, loving and respecting
each other unconditionally. I really, really, really need someone who speaks kindly
to me, who listens, respects, and believes in me. I have been nice to people my
whole life and I really deserve to be treated the same way. Nobody is perfect,
there will be moments, but overall, I want to cherish and be cherished. I don't
know why, but I need a woman who will protect me and defend me as her man. I don't
know where that need comes from, but it comes from the depth of my heart. I think I
feel a need for a woman to take care of me - I don't mean financially, but I do,
kinda, I mean a Woman who will think of our future ahead of her own selfish desires
and make financial security a major priority. I'm a saver not a spender. I have had
the fortunate experience of being married to a spender which has mellowed me out to
some degreelol... I'm not as bad of a tightwad as I used to be. I've figured out
that there are things worth spending money on, IF you have the money to spend it.
If you don't have it, don't spend it... I am not looking for a rich woman, I
personally don't care how much money we have - just that we agree on saving and
spending.. I need a sense of security - emotionally, financially, every aspect of
the word. I am exceptionally honest, open, up front, direct, assertive. If I even
suspect that someone is lying to me, I walk away. There are so many women and I'm a
great catch that I don't need to waste my time on someone who isn't completely
truthful, totally interested, and kind-hearted. I don't like dishonesty - even
small things. If I accidentally walk out of a store with a pack of gum I didn't
purchase, I go right back in and pay for it. If someone gives me too much change, I
correct them. I am honest regardless of the consequences and regardless of whether
someone is watching. I am not too sure that I am missing anything or anyone. I'm
really happy, fulfilled, and content. What I really want is someone who will wrap
her arms around me, tell me she loves me unexpectedly, stroke my hair, tell me she
believes in me, want to spend her days and nights with me even when it's boring or
a drag, someone who will make me a cup of tea or pot of soup when I am sick, all
the things I'd do for her in a heartbeat. I'm not really lonely.. I have a lot of
close friends. I yearn for something deeper, almost spiritual, truly meaningful.
You sound like a very honest, kind, and sincere person. I'm not looking to fall in
love - I'm searching and waiting for true love, lasting love, the kind that takes
work, but the pay off is unbelievably worth it. I think a good relationship takes
more than just love...Like i say , I don't like arguing or yelling, that gets
neither person anywhere.. ! Also i love to cook, and have been told I'm good at
it....Italian, Thai, Cajun/Creole...from grilling to gourmet, including pies,
cakes and bread from scratch . I'm very intelligent. I moved to (Pittsburgh last
Febuary) i am about to buy a 4 bedroom home along ( 1502 Fox Chapel Road, Indiana
TWP - NAL, PA 15238 ) , Its like one of the best areas in (PA) to live in.. that
where the Fun begins !!....and Mind you Distance and Age is Nothing to me cause I
believe that distance between two hearts is not an obstacle, rather a beautiful
reminder of just how strong true love can be and Age is a Number but Love makes the
strongest man weak and the weakest heart strong and also Love gives you courage,
being loved gives you strength.I try to maintain a positive attitude and pray a
little harder when I can't! I am blessed with a wonderful family, a job, and a
house. One obvious thing missing is a special woman to share all of life's
adventures with..This is a great time of the year to explore new things .. I have
a daughter in which her Name is Brenda and she will be 8 yrs old this ( April
20th ) ..It hurt me when I lost My late wife and I'm looking for someone that can
be respectful, sincere, loving and passionate and most important just real!! I
will treat you like a Queen if you treat me like a king!! It's a 2 way street!
I'm different than most guys that you have met before i Guess .... and i know
this, that's why I'm looking for someone sweet, like me! I'm not arrogant just
confident..I don't know how far you are from me but as long as your not on the
other side of the world anything is possible cos I'm looking for someone special
to share my life with..One last thing, I can say without a shadow of a doubt that I
will not cheat on someone I am committed to. I will not even kiss another woman. I
hesitate to even ride alone in a car unless I know they are trustworthy and my
significant other is aware of it and ok with it. I have strong boundaries when it
comes to protecting my relationship. I don't get drunk when I go "out" with the
friends, bc drunk ppl (even me) can do stupid stuff. I don't put myself in
situations that a woman will have even a chance to make a pass at me. So I can
promise beyond all doubt that I will not cheat on my partner. Do you know that you
know that you know you won't cheat on yours? I believe that we need to know who we
are before we can answer that honestly. There are some people who cannot be
monogamous. They should be honest with themselves and find other people who cannot
be monogamous. It takes all kinds... But I believe strictly in monogamy. I also
believe that if someone cheats on me, it is over right then and there. Just call me
and let me know that you found someone else. That's all it takes and I go on my
merry way. I need that security, that absolute trust in my lover, best friend,
partner for life. I need that freedom to unleash my inhibitions. I kick anyone to
the curb that breaks that vow. I don't give second chances. It is my life and well-
being that is on the line. I need a woman who will protect me and defend me to the
death and not take chances with my life. . I'm not bitter or resentful.. I have
every right to be angry, but I don't carry that around.. It doesn't benefit me. I
use it to remember how important it is to choose wisely. It sounds
like we have a lot in common and I would love to get to know you better!!! I hope
to hear back from you and Can I trust you with my life?
Richard.

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My Dear Friend

How are you? I believe everyone should be trusted until they break that trust in
some way. I mean if we live as skeptics, how sad is that? I see myself as a
realist as well. There are those who live in la la land and are often disappointed
in others when I feel they should be disappointed in themselves. I mean thinking
the knight in shining armor is in everyone you meet is dangerous. I always see the
glass as half full not half empty, and if the glass is empty then fill it. Life is
simple really. You must love yourself and others will love you as well. What I
mean by this is, if you know yourself you know what you will or will not tolerate
in others.. So basically settling is totally out of the question. ..First of all
let me say,, you have such a way of expressing yourself ..It's really hard to find
a person that is interested in a possible long term relationship and not just a one
night stand. I am looking for a best friend and partner. Since the bar scene isn't
really my thing, I'm looking for a way to meet some new friends and hang out. We
can talk about going outdoors, sports, a good book and travel. Darling About online
dating- Well I promise you I have not dated anyone
online. Most of the women Won't even talk to me since I made it clear I am not
looking for a ONE night stand. ....I enjoyed reading your reply....I am not one to
jump in so quickly and definitely think it takes a little bit to get to know each
other to see if we could be compatible.I would say that at times I have been too
trusting, so I am gun shy....you know, it does not cost a thing to talk on here,
but once I go so far to meet someone, the idea of developing into something more
is already in my thoughts..To tell you Little about me here , My late Mom was from
East Alton Illinois and My dad was from, West Africa cos he was brought up from
Nigeria ... they both meet in Rome , ITALY , where i grew up and they instilled
many wonderful values in me.My Late mom raised me to be fighter and always come out
on top and that is what i plan on doing.I would be 41 years by May 15 ... .Can you
tell me how your day went?? what do you normally do at your Leisure time ??? .my
favorite activities are basically anything to do with being outdoors.. camping is
one of my favorite things to do and also trying my hand at new things and I want
you to know more about me. I
believe and have faith in the golden rule also. I was raised rather strictly by
Christian parents. I am not perfect, no one ever is. I believe everybody has the
power to control their good and bad sides---We make how we deal with life either
good or bad with our attitudes and how we present ourselves to others. and
sometimes LIFE HAPPENS, and we just deal with it best as we know how.......I still
have faith,and it is what has seen me through all the hills and valleys in my life-
plus having great parents...I do still attend church, and that is something that
will always be....so, if you aren't wanting to experience going to church with
me ....I do not date a lot because I do not enjoy going out with so many different
people....when I do go out on a date it is only because I am quite attracted to
that person (in all aspects...not just physically), I think it is of extreme
importance to be on the same levels with someone you are to share your life
with.i.e intellect, sense of humor and also similar goals in life.these things all
add up to admiration, loyalty and friendship..I would like to find this so that I
may begin the second journey of my life in which i let you know i my profile so
please ask me whatever you would like to know ...I think you are someone that is
seeking the same as I and so I would love to pursue this friendship with you to see
what happens...only if, at the very least, we would both have gained a great
love.of course, hopefully more...;-)..Let's I forget , I wanna let you Know That I
would be Living the state for Now cos i heard a Called from The Dr that's in charge
of My dad sickness from The Hospital there In Nigeria That My dad is not really
good that he want to see me ..I was so shock when I heard That My dad is not good
and Been The Only child of My dad i think i need to see Him cos he's the one
left for me now ..To cut this short ,I am On My way to Nigeria Probably In the
next 8 - 9 hrs cos I have booked my plane . so don't hesitate to mail me and I
will reply you back ... Cant wait to see answer to this question from you ...What
do you seek for in a relationship? What sort of relationship you seek for? What are
the basic qualities you seek for in a man? What interests you to me ? What do you
do for fun? Do you like public intimacy? How long have you been single? What's
being single like?How do you treat your man?Why do you need a man?Can you love this
me even though you continue talking to me ???What is love to you?Would you hit your
man for any reasons? Anyway, you seem like a big romantic at heart and that is what
I am. I hope to continue to talk to you. Got to go now and Hope to read from you
soon .

Richard
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How are you today? I hope you are well! I read your last letter in total
amazement. It was like i wrote it. I understand and agree with almost everything
you say...I do know that I have a soul mate out there somewhere. I just haven't
found her yet. But you know, my definition of a soul mate may be different
from others. I believe that my soul mate will be compatible with me and my
lifestyle. Be able to be versatile - be able to see both sides of an issue,
flexible in joint decision making, loving me and accepting me for who I am.
Someone who can live without me, but chooses not too because I am on her mind and
in her heart. ...Thanks for your concern about me about my Dad and this really
shows how wonderful you are ...I love this so much ....Could you believe that
when I got here ..I am not really happy today; but totally tired I need to rest Now
But i just want to let you Know that I landed to Nigeria around 11 : 15 am here
which is Quite different from Our time Over there....But i rushed to the hospital
to check my dad,Am sorry i didn't get to you on time it's morning here ....Also
when i got here , I Called The Dr who is In Charge of my dad sickness in other for
Him to come and Pick Me Up so I waited at The Air port for about 45 Min for me to
locate Him .....I want to let you know That Brenda has been with My dad since Last
Dec..his major reason for doing this is so i could open up my heart again to
love..he claims i'm yet to forgive myself and move on with life after my wife's
death 2yrs ago.(funny)...so My Brenda has had her school here Immediately she left
the state and right Here, There's Nothing Like Grade , They are only base On
Primary School as well as High School ( secondary School )...Am so great here to
meet My wonderful daughter .....I miss her so much despite the fact that it not
unto 6 month but When I got to The Hospital I was so worried that How could This be
.I met My dad at the sick bed which make me weep so much and am Not really happy
when I met him.. Never mind I am delighted and very excited with your re-contact
to my initial introduction (I will patiently wait for lovely and
representative,elegant and sensual more pictures of you!).I feel like I have known
you for along time and thats a good thing. I can't wait until I can meet you in
person... You know, I almost cried reading your email. You managed to touch my
heart..... I don't know what to say.. or how to say what I want, without it
sounding weird or showing to much emotion, especially when it's coming from someone
you don't know... So, I guess I'll just say what's in my heart and hope that you'll
get a better understanding of the type of person that I am...I agree, that in time,
we should be able to open up to one another and discuss anything and everything
that our little hearts desire. A friendship and trust should be established first.
To me, you need to ease into a relationship. The three major C's; Chemistry,
Commitment, and Communication. Fortunately for me, I do know what I want, and wont
settle for anything less. I want to be able to love my woman unconditionally and
whole heatedly, to give
myself completely to her.I'm not talking about being her slave, but her equal. So,
that means that I too will be treated like a Queen, not play second 2 a King ! LOL
and One of the greatest values that I cherish and hold dear to my heart, is
FAMILY !! Please take all the time you need for responding, corresponding and the
exchange of pictures, ideas, comments, questions which come to your mind and your
heart: I will sincerely answer you in preparation of and informed decision which we
both are facing upon our own will and objective here ! You will find the most
honorable attentions with me; you are invited to touch my heart, my mind, my soul
and all senses and I truly hope we will find the most satisfying exchange hopefully
leading to the Love and Care which I am looking for!This is just a glimpse of who I
am. For some people, words are just words... For me, actions speak louder then
words. Anyone can say what you want to hear, or what they think you want to hear...
But your actions are loud and clear!! So, I guess, my next question to you would be
where be where do we go from here... Do we share the same interest in each other,
would you like to meet soon, maybe email a little more.. What? . I hope everything
goes well take care of yourself. Write when you can I so love you letters. Bye for
now )..Please feel free to say anything ....Hope to hear from you soon .. I
believe there is the possibility that we would make an ideal match.
To the question I asked you?
What do you seek for in a relationship?
I'd love to meet a good woman to spend time together and get to know each other.
Share who we are and what we like to enjoy the best in this life.I'll try to tell
you in general what I would like my princess to be like. I want her to be cheerful.
She may get upset or even mad, but not everyday. I need her communicate with me and
listen to me too, especially when things are not working in the relationship or in
the family..She would love me even though at times she didn�t understand me. I
would like her to enjoy going out at times, but other times may just prefer to stay
at home with me embracing each other.
She has to be hard working and family oriented, loving children is a must. Hard
working,passionate, but also tender would be wonderful.The list can go on and on,
and if you notice, some of the things are so very important like communicating with
each other, loving one another in a way and quantity that whatever is wrong or bad,
we work it out. These two I consider the most important
What sort of relationship you seek for?
I seek a relationship where both of us are worth the same as humans and partners
who commit to one another for love by own free will. A relationship built upon
trust, communication, respect,
support, fairness, companionship,sharing ideas, sharing good moments and bad
moments as well. I expect being together forever and grow old raising a beautiful
happy, loving family. When i decide to marry a woman, it means I have a firm
commitment to build a better life with her.I want a sincere and eternal
relationship that each is willing to share everything. No lying. No secret.Be there
for the other in both good and bad time.To achieve that, a true friendship and a
true love must exist.
What are the basic qualities you seek for in a woman?
A loving intelligent woman and wonderful caring loving tender but firm mother.A
partner, a best friend, cheerful, strong, hard working, tender,
passionate,dedicated, with great moral values,
family oriented.
What interests you to me ?
I'm interested in you because for what you tell me, you have the personality, and
values that I'm looking for in a woman, and very important to me, you are
interested in me, so I believe there is good chemistry between you and me.
What do you do for fun?
I enjoy simple things such as walking bare foot on the grass and listening to the
birds singing and the branches and the leaves on the trees moving, while i feel the
warm sun on my skin and look at
its brightness, the blue sky and how beautiful the colors around me are.I like
riding bicycles listening to different
kinds of music: rock in general, jazz, some country music, romantic,instrumental
and classic even though I really don't know names of interpreters or melodies of
these last two, In English or Italian.. I like watching Good movies too.I love
playing and watching sports, singing and playing music, listening to music,
watching TV, reading news in internet, traveling and taking pictures.I like some
outdoor activities as well. I have more fun with more people.
Do you like public intimacy?
When you say "public intimacy" Do you mean kissing? If you do, then i feel ok with
it as long as it's sweet and tender. I don't know if I responded to your question
though.
How long have you been single?
I've always been single since I lost My late wife
What's being single like?
To me it's both, a sense of accomplishment , independence, and free.Sometimes
easier to make decisions, which may be good, I think; yet it is also hard because
of the lack of emotional support, very lonely all the time. It okay's because I can
concentrate my energy toward my career and life goals. However, I always want
someone with whom I can share my dream and thoughtfulness and she also wants to
share hers with me.It is very important to have a balance
in life.
How do you treat your woman?
I treat her like my most precious gift from heaven other than my family . I give my
woman the place she has in my life, a unique one, my beloved and admired one. I
adore her and look forward to make her drams come true along with mine.With
unconditional love. With sincerity, honesty, fairness, respect and caring. These
are my values that I apply to every person as well.
Why do you need a woman?To share life, to be there for her, to love her, respect
her.Because I am a man and I want to take care the woman I love Can you love this
me even though you continue
talking to me ???
I sure can do that and lots of many other things. I can love you even more because
I continue talking to you,
What is love to you?To me, love is a feeling of selflessness, of no more me and me,
but you and me.Which implies thinking of the other person and yourself too of
course, but many times
willingness to sacrifice oneself for the one that you love. For me this applies not
only to couples but also family, relatives,
friends and even other people.Love is giving and forgiving. Give without requiring
a return. Forgive no matter how painful it is or how stupid the mistake is. When
one is sick, the other is always at bed side.Always think and do whatever to make
the other happy Would you hit your woman for any reasons?
NO, that's a big NO to me. I rather walk out or leave if it is the only way out
from hitting a woman. So when talking, discussing, explaining, requesting,
demanding and everything else fails to
communicate an idea, need or desire,people need a space and time out to cool down,
and look for a possible different solution to the problem when anger is under
control.

Richard
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Hi
I feel very flattered. Thank you for your complements and honesty...I couldn't
wait to come home from the Hospital and check my emails to see if I had a message
from you.I really had a nice day. I relaxed some in the morning and then did things
around the house. I went out to do a few errands and then later go to The Hospital
with My Daughter ... I really enjoy spending time with my family but am sad that
he's ill..I really do think you are a special person too and I want to meet you as
soon as am back to state . But I still want to keep emailing as well I love getting
email from you I look forward to it.. Dear , I will say I
think I am pretty good at communicating, but I am not good when an argument occurs,
it get scared and clam up. I get really nervous and scared inside when arguments
occur. I can talk anything out, but if voices are raised or it gets really tense, I
freak out.I am a very affectionate person I think . My daughter would probably tell
you the same thing.am so happy here that I can spend a Night with My Brenda
despite the fact that I do miss her alot and she was happy to see me too ...Dear ,
am going to ask The Dr when my dad would be alright which will determine when am
going to be back to state but i will let
you know as soon as Possible ,so I will be back to state as soon as I confirm
from the Dr when My dad would be alright . I think that we are on the same
level....You area very unique woman. I have traveled throughout the Italy
( italiano ) and I went to Russia and Poland when I was in high school. I like to
just get in the car and drive somewhere I've never been and see what I find. I am
not a messy person. i like things very neat and tidy ...I was surrounded by people
from many different ethnicities and backgrounds. It is something that I miss living
here.....I'd like someone to travel the world with. I've only been to the Bahamas
and Mexico. I've traveled in the italy a lot, several times a year. Vacation and
recreation are a priority and I work hard to make it reality. I have so many places
that I want to see: Brazil, Costa Rica, Puerto Rico, Australia, New Zealand,
Philippines, Scotland , Greece (hike Mt. Olympus), backpack thru Europe, (I have a
secret fantasy of competing on the Amazing Race. I have amazing sense of
direction.) walk the Great Wall of China. And there's so much in the US I still
want to see: Redwood forest, Golden Gate Bridge, Grand Canyon, ski UTAH, bike Moab,
attend the Fourth of July concert at Red Rocks, see the John Denver-Red Rocks
tribute, camp out during a meteor shower up in the high country . . . I have a lot
of dreams. If I never accomplish another one, I will die immensely happy, but I
never stop dreaming or making them happen. Life is too short. Live every day like
it's your last. I will tell you more
about what has so intensely shaped my life after we meet. I love your positive
attitude and zest for life.I promise you I will be honest with you. I don't cheat
or Lie . I have been cheated on once in my life before i got married to my Late
Wife so I know how it feels. I am too old to play games. life's too short. When I
am with someone, I want to be with them. I don't care what we are doing as long as
we are doing it together. I do think that we each need our own space at times and
that we need to go out with the girls or guys occasionally. I don't like to argue
or yell either. I think anything can be discussed and worked out. I would Like to
know something New about you again : ...Am I the Only One you are talking to
Online??? How Many People have you dated before ??? Have you ever Date anyone
Online Before , if you can that am new here ?? Have you ever talk to any man from
state that do come to Nigeria before???...am seeking for someone that is not afraid
to be loved as well express love.How do you want our relationship to proceed ? I
think about it ! Do you think about it also ?Sweetie Can you tell me How did you
spend your vacation in this year ? Do you have any plans for the period for the
future vacation ? Certainly I understand you need to spend a lot of time for
work also. But must especially you need to rest for some time i mean your leisure
time ! I think the most important thing is that someone should rest and work so
that everything should go in Normal way....Do you agree with me ? i want to tell
you I am grateful for all my merits to the God. i believe in God Jesus Christ, he
have died for the sake of our sins. I understand our of belief in the God can be
various. I hope it will not be a problem for us?At the same time I support any
belief..I do not judge anyone on there religious or political views so this should
never interfere in any friendship i have with you or anyone for that matter.. I
think a relationship is the same way. You have to look at your partner in
a new light everyday and make them feel special. i feel it my heart and soul .I
already start to dream of meeting of you and i believe it's very important to
meet before we have any serious relationship. You are good woman and I think you
are in my preference! Tell me,what do you think about me? Do you
feel close to me when write a letter to me ? What do you feel, when you write ? It
is very interesting to me to find out about it because I have serious intentions in
search of my soul mate.I would love to continue talking.. I feel it is bringing us
closer. I think writing is great but there is nothing better than talking face to
face and seeing and feeling the emotions that go along with the words."I was just
thinking about something I've heard parents, grandparents, teachers, celebrities,
and everyone else tell me before. They say when you find the person you're going to
marry, you'll just know it. My question is this--do you agree? Disagree? And, of
course, how will you just know?"
Do you want children?
How many children do you plan on having?
Would you rather have a boy or a girl?
What are your favorite names for a boy and a girl?
What do you think is the hardest part about being a mother?
What is one rule you would insist your children follow?
What method will you use for their education?
What method of punishment do you plan on using?
How important do you feel it is to keep romance alive after you have children?
I wait your e-mails as soon as possible !!!
Warm kisses of tenderness
Richard
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My Heart
How are you doing? Your message just about summed up everything I'm looking to
find in my "special someone" too--seriously! I also feel that I'm finally
ready to start a new chapter in my life...all I can say is wow ! Your emails truly
touch me in a way I have never known possible. I am so excited when I sign
on line and there is mail from you waiting there for me.... I have a smile on my
face when I do read your letter. It is very pleasant for me to receive your
mail at least once a Day ...My dad is not really good today but your mail lighting
up my dad and Brenda say Hi to you cos she was here when am sending
you a mail ... I would like to learn new things about you and your Life..There was
a heavy rain here too which makes The connection really bad .. before I
could email me it take a Long time .. I talked to my Brenda about coming down to
state with me and She made me to realize That , she cant wait to come
Home cos she already Miss her friends so Much ... so I totally let her Know That am
taking her back to state with me .. ..Do you know that There is a Distance
between us...but I think, that it is not a issue to be friends i.e you are there
Now In state while am in Nigeria . I know that we can continue from here till i
come back Home where am gonna meet you at The airport or what do you Think ?? Are
you going to stay there with me at the Airport where we gonna
have Our first Kiss , Huge and First date if possible ... I don't play games and I
am looking for a serious relationship with marriage being the ultimate goal
which I have told you before ..Darling , i haven't meet anyone online before but
you alone cos am new at this and Hope this would work for us ...because i
believe That What is more important to you the love you share, the memories you
have or the lover? Give love a chance to swallow you up. Don't just think
it will happen in a instant, it will surprise you before you know it, but it will
be the most rewarding experience you will ever have... ...I want to share my
thought and My heart with My Beloved.I love my woman to love children and
animals .I love Pet alot .. The most important to my life is that The woman i
want to go before her to the altar should love me . I think I do not demand
something it is impossible.. I think that physical appearance of the person has no
principal value. To answer your questions about dating, you are The Only am talking
with. I want to see how far we can go.I think we can be good friends as
I always tell you how important friendship is to any personal relationship. Love
is not about finding the right person, but creating a right relationship. It's not
about how much love you have in the beginning but how much love you build till the
end ...With friendship, sincerity and respect, I don't think religion is a
breaking point of any relationship .I evaluate people by their actions rather than
their beliefs , Since you support any belief, I don't think we will have any
conflict as long as one of us does not force the other to believe in a certain
way.Similar to your objective, I am also serious to find a great woman , I agree
with you that we should meet and it is very important to continue any serious
relationship.please tell me your favorite season? My favorite season, is a
spring! I love spring because in the spring all is comes to life, the nature wakes
up after winter, the cheerful rivers flow, trees become covered by green
foliage. I think it is fine! In the spring all receives a new life. Also I like
summer because it is very warm in the summer, it is possible to bathe, visit a
beach,
to sunbathe. Tell me do you have a ocean near to your house? Do you like to visit a
beach? I like to visit a beach .I am sure, water in ocean also give
healthy. I always dreamed to see ocean.tell to me about your vacation and travel.
It will be very interesting to me!I think about it! Do you think about it
also?I agree with all you have said because friendship first and Relationship
Start So we can Have Much in common, cos i don't want to Lose a woman Like
you . you are so gorgeous and beautiful, but i don't count that as a Big deal cos
all i base Upon is Love and Harmony.. Without that relationship is Nothing
and i will do anything to make you Happy since we have Know more about each other
and have Much in common . I want to thank you for sharing more
about you to me .. I trust you. After my last relationship my heart got damages
and it very difficult for me to be restored. I need to stop here cos it's Late here
.. Hope to hear from you so soon but remember that True love is something that can
be neither bought nor sold; it can happen to anyone either the young or
the old. Once there is love - true love, it can never be broken ...Write to me as
soon as you will have the time..Life does have a way of making changes we
do not always welcome , but then it throws us those so ever welcoming changes that
make our hearts sore with joy and smiles we can not forget .I don't
even believe that i would meet someone Like you here ..May God Put few bad people
In Our Life so when The right one came along we would be Thankful
... Now am rejoicing that I found you ... Here's my Mobile # 0112348081116725
( don't forget that i have a strong Italian accent & I think the time difference
is
6hrs and you can called me whenever you wanna talk to me ...
Answer To The Question I asked you ?
Do you want children? How many children do you plan on having? With having a kid
already, I would welcome a woman into my life that has children of
her own or not. Myself having another child is not in my interest for now But cant
decide ..Depending on My partner . I am 41 and over the time of bringing
another baby into my life.
Would you rather have a boy or a girl? I have a Daughter Brenda who is 8
What are your favorite names for a boy and a girl? if i were to have Kid that
would be a Boy and his name would be called Brandon
What do you think is the hardest part about being a Father ? I think the most
difficult part of being a Father is making sure she know I love her no matter
what happens. she will have be disappointed with the decisions I have for her ,
but it does not mean I love her. I also know how I turned out as an adult.
Making sure I have instilled as many good morals, values and experiences with her
is important to me. I want her to always strive for what she want, be
smart with her decisions and be a loving person that wants to do things for others.
What is one rule you would insist your children follow? To never lie. Even it
there is something she is so afraid to tell me, I always make sure she will be
honest with me or anyone else she choose to talk to.

What method will you use for their education? Right now she go to public school.
she will continue with public school up until college. Upon making a
decision to college, she will be the one to choose where she would like to go. I
think school is very important and I always tell her to do the best she can. I
never insist she bring home straight A's, but expect her to do the best to her
abilities.
What method of punishment do you plan on using? I am very tough on my kid. she
will respect everyone and everything she encounter on a daily basis. I
am not big on spanking especially with any type of item. she have been spanked in
the past, but I think punishment should represent what was done wrong.
I am huge on communicating and having her realize what she did wrong. I even help
her desirer what she punishment should be.
How important do you feel it is to keep romance alive after you have children?
Romance and intimacy should NEVER die in a relationship. I am a very
intimate, sensual, romantic and affectionate person. If there is no romance in a
relationship, I do not feel the connection is fully there. The connection a
man and a woman can have with each other could be so great that nothing should ever
make it die. Do you think this is just as important?
Question for you ?
Do you do things according to a plan. ?
Do you take time out for others. ?
Do you feel unable to deal with things. ?
Do you love to help others ?
Do you seek adventure ?
Do you often leave a mess in my room ?
Do you often carry the conversation to a higher level ?
Do you get stressed out easily ?
Do you often make others feel good ?
Do you good at analyzing problems ?
Do you usually stand up for myself ?
Do you easily discouraged ?
can you handle a lot of information ?
Do you waste your time ?
Do you catch on to things quickly ?
Do you usually wait for others to lead the way ?
Do you love order and regularity ?
Do you often do nice things for people ?
Do you get angry easily ?
Do you enjoy mingling with people on social occasions ?
Do you satisfied with your level of emotional development ?
Can you be able to express myself in unique ways (e.g.., words, music, art) ?
Do your personal religious beliefs are important to you
?Do you have a high desire for sexual activity ?
It is easy for you to engage in conversations with people you have just met ?
Do you greatly appreciate the physical beauty of the opposite sex ?
Do you ask questions in search of information ?
It is important for you to take time to "smell the roses" ?
Do you need to spend time creating things to feel satisfied ?
If you are not in control of a situation ?
Will you Leave or Not ?
Do your friends come to you when they are in difficult times because they know you
can handle emotional crisis ?
Do you think it is important to express your feelings whether they are positive or
negative ?
Do you prefer not to be around people who have emotional swings ?
Do you try to accommodate the other person's position ?
Do you try to be respectful of all opinions different from your own ?
Do you try to resolve the conflict quickly ?Do you try to avoid disagreement ?
If you could do any type of career, what would it be?

If you could visit any place, what would it be?

If you could learn any new skill, what would it be?
If you could eat anything you wanted right now, what would it be?
If you could have anything you wanted right now, what would it be?
If you could change one thing about the world, what would it be?
If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?
If you could fly, where would you go?
If you could have one wish, what would it be for?
If you could meet one person from the past, who would it be?
Lastly , Do you have any confessions to make? I'm sure you have bad habits or flaws
but you haven't mentioned any of them!
I guess I ask you to Much Question ?
I hope your day has been a happy one for you and I look forward to reading your
next email too....
Richard

==========================="If you don't want to know...don't ask."

Good day
I am doing so much better now that I've read your wonderful, sweet e-mail. I can't
tell you how much better my days are when I read what you have to say. You truly
are the highest point of my day!..How are you? I think we both have so much pinned
up energy inside and we really don't know one another we are just pouring out some
of the feelings we're holding inside us. Though we don't know what the future hold
for us as to whether we will ever meet in person, but for this time and season we
have connected on an intellectual level and expressing ourselves to one another
through this mailings. Hope this would come True for Us ...I am so Much today that
I found a message from you .I very closely read your letters as they are very
important for me. I do not miss any word from your letters, I try to understand
all. I realize that you write letters specially for me. i think we are Now connect
to each other. I think we both have a lot of the same characteristics, wants and
needs of what we want in a relationship. I agree we do need to get to know
eachother first. Emailing back and forth is the perfect way. By the time we meet
in person, we will have a great idea of how the other person is. You do not have
to worry about me being honest and trustworthy. I am all of the above. I was
raised with great morals and values. I always treat someone the I want to be
treated. I agree with you when it comes to keeping a line of independence when you
are in a relationship. It is very important to have girls and guys nights out. I
have never been a jealous person and strongly believe everyone should not drop
everything just because they are in a new relationship.... My dad is Not really Ok
here today which make me so Lonely and Sad plus Brenda too .Here in Nigeria,
today is cloudy weather, the sky looks Grey . It is so romantic to look out of
the window and think of the future..Tell me, are you romantic woman cos I think
myself is romantic man, I love a supper at candles. Viewing of TV with special the
woman.In my opinion, in romantic are particles of happiness. Each person should
possess romantic feelings.My lovely I have joyful news to us! Dear , I would like
to receive your post address! Can you give me ? I would be glad if you can provide
and if you need Mine I wont hesitate to give it out to you ..... .Dear , you
constantly are in my ideas. I love your letters,and to me to like to learn about
you, your life. The lead days. I am sure, that we will have a Dinner talk once am
back to state.. You should Know that My dad Illness has been the one Delaying me
here but soon things would get alright ..hun .....In the last letter I already
told you that I think that our relationship already is more, than simply Than
friendship. I shared with you some feelings. and Honey I want you to tell me more
about you .I want you to tell me more about the questions i ask below Hun :i
wouldn't even bother you. but, I'm up for it. my questions for you are:
would you listen to me, i may have wisdom in some areas that you aren't familiar
with?
will you be loyal to your man?
can you be honest at all times even if its not in your best interest?
how will you treat a good man?
when you get him ?will you follow him to the ends of the earth?
will you be patient and accept what god has planned for you both?
will you put god first and then your Husband wishes?
How do you deal with frustration?
What are your ways of dealing with anger?
Is jealousy an emotion that comes easily to you?
Do you wish you were less or more emotional? Why?
What things make you extremely happy?
If you were to celebrate a huge success what would you do?
What is your favorite way to express your emotions of love?
When you are sad about something, how do you wish to be handled?
What do you do to relieve stress?
When you are feeling lonely, what makes you feel you better?
Lastly, tell me something about you that only your man?or a good friend would
know. for example: birthday, favorite color, song, full name ....Having a woman to
spend the rest of my life with so What I am seeking is a woman as laid out in
Proverbs 31. A woman who is strong (but not overbearing),loyal, respectful, kind
and sweet. That carry herself like the queen she is in all situations. That
arouse my intellect as well as physical desires. Looking for a that somebody that
I can share my entire self with. Somebody that is not afraid to be loved as well
express love..........

Answer to The Question I asked you ?

Do you do things according to a plan. ? Yea.. I do Plan My schedule so much ..so I
do things according to my plan for that day ...So , I try to but as you know in
life there are a great deal of things that we have no control over and we must be
able to adjust or plans/life accordingly.
Do you take time out for others. ?yea , I do create time for others when they need
me ..I think that it is very important to take the time to appreciate others.
Do you feel unable to deal with things. ?Nope , cos I believe that all things is
been created by God and he would always make every possible ..
Do you love to help others ? Yes, I feel that there is something to be said when
you can\ help others and expect nothing in return.
Do you seek adventure ? I do believe so adventure is all about taking chance sand
trusting those around you. So for me meeting you could be considered an adventure.
Now the more risk taking the behavior is the more I would have to learn that things
will be ok.
Do you often leave a mess in my room ? Nope,I try not to, I do believe that there
is something to be said for clean and organized areas but I would prefer to
spend time taking care of my family and clean up afterward.
Do you often carry the conversation to a higher level ?yea , I love to Carry Our
Conversation to High Level , i men beyond our imagination..What do you think?
Do you get stressed out easily ? Nope,No not really, when I get stressed out i like
to talk the issues through with someone so that I can understand them better.
Do you often make others feel good ? Yea,I aways try my best in making others feel
good and important. Sometimes something as simple as a smile and saying hi to
someone can make a difference in their day.
Do you good at analyzing problems ? yes, many people have told me that I am
considered a "what if" type of person.
Do you usually stand up for myself ?Normally I do stand up for myself but if it
means that I'm truly going to hurt someone by what I say or think it makes it very
difficult and then I try to think things through before I say anything.
Do you easily discouraged ? No, it takes alot to discourage me from doing things
can you handle a lot of information ? yea
Do you waste your time ?I try not to but I do think that depends on what you
define as important.
Do you catch on to things quickly ? yea ,in most cases
Do you usually wait for others to lead the way ? Yea,It depends on the situation if
I'm not comfortable I will let others take the lead. If I'm confident and trust the
person I'm with then I 'am ok with "leading the way." In a friendship and dating
relationship I would like to think it works both ways. What about you?
Do you love order and regularity ? I like to have order and regularity but that's
not always the way life goes so I feel like you must be ok with adjusting to the
situation. What do you think?
Do you often do nice things for people ? I try to do nice things for others without
thinking that I should receive anything.
Do you get angry easily ?No, it takes a great deal to make me frustrated or angry.
I feel like one should be able to talk things through.....
Do you enjoy mingling with people on social occasions ?sometimes it is difficult
for me because I tend to observe and then interact. I guess you could say I can be
shy and then warm up to people and unfamiliar situations.
Do you satisfied with your level of emotional development ?Given all that I have
experienced in life I would say yes. I also believe that there is always room to
grow Can you be able to express myself in unique ways (e.g., words, music, art) ?At
times I will struggle with expressing myself but I get there sometimes it does take
someone helping me by talking things through. As to creativity, um I would say I'm
just me I like music and some art but can I play an instrument yes
Do your personal religious beliefs are important to you ? yes because they help
define who you are as a person. As I think your beliefs would be important to you.
Do you have a high desire for sexual activity ?yes, with that being said you should
know I'm a very affectionate person. It is easy for you to engage in conversations
with people you have just met ?not always the easy time I have talking with
someone I just met is you. I think it is because I truly believe you are
interested in what I have to say.
Do you greatly appreciate the physical beauty of the opposite sex ? yea,I do not
feel that physical beauty is the most important part of a person. I do want you to
know your smile and eyes got my attention.
Do you ask questions in search of information ? yes in most cases.What about you?It
is important for you to take time to "smell the roses" ?I do feel it is important
to smell the roses. I think in some case I need a friendly reminder to do just
that.
Do you need to spend time creating things to feel satisfied ?no if you are not in
control of a situation ? Will you Leave or Not ?um-mm...it depends on the situation
alot of times I'm ok with not being in control. i would leave if there was a
chance or threat of violence to myself or others.
Do your friends come to you when they are in difficult times because they know you
can handle emotional crisis ?In most cases they do they look for me to support them
and care about them.
Do you think it is important to express your feelings whether they are positive or
negative ?yes I feel it is very important because even if they are negative
thoughts/feelings there is a respectful way to deal with it. Plus if you ignore
what the problem is it will only get worse and someones feeling will get hurt.
Do you prefer not to be around people who have emotional swings ? I like to think
that even when people are having emotional swings you should be there to help them
through it unless they ask to give them their personal space then that is what
needs to be done. I would like you to know that if emotional swings includes
yelling screaming and hitting would have a very difficult time with that because I
do not think that is any way to deal with things.
Do you try to accommodate the other person's position ?Yes, I think that in every
relationship that works both ways. What do you think.
Do you try to be respectful of all opinions different from your own ? yes,every
person is unique and your difference allow a person to learn and grow.
Do you try to resolve the conflict quickly ? yes, I do not like when others are mad
at me in general that tells me someones feelings were hurt.
Do you try to avoid disagreement ? I try to let my opinion be known if someone
takes issue with that I prefer they talk to me about it. Sometimes when someone
else can provide a different point of view it makes all the difference in the world
Buona notte, caro mio e Con tutto il cuore,
Richard

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Confession :
On June 16, 2006, my beautiful wife of 35 years, Jennifer , and I were in a car
accident. Jennifer did not survive. The first several months that ensued were
horrible to say the least. I worshiped the ground Jennifer walked on and I was
devastated.Doctors tried to get me to take treatment ... I tried it for a few days.
It made me feel absolutely numb. This was not the answer for me. It was better to
feel raw emotion than nothing. So, I decided to embrace the grieving
process. I cried every day for many months. There were days I wanted to die, but I
kept going.I made a promise to myself not to date for a minimum of 2
year. I needed time to heal emotionally. I also did this out of respect for
Jennifer 's family, whom I love very much.I attended counseling for about 6 months
and this seemed to help quite a bit in learning to deal with my emotions.I also
learned to appreciate the fragility of life and the time I have with my family. I
thank God for loaning Jennifer to me and our Kid (Brenda ) . From personal events
I've witnessed, I also believe that in some ways my wife is still around
watching out for me and our Brenda from time to time...
Flaw :
For better or for worst i am sarcastic and straight forward . At times too
sarcastic and straight forward, but a lot of people like me too because when they
ask
for my opinion i always tell the truth. But sometimes it can hurt my family and
friends feelings. I like myself the way i am, I don't exactly hate this about me.
But I get frustrated when i hurt others feelings. The way i fix and avoid less of
these problems is thinking before i speak. When people ask for my opinion
instead of flat out telling them. I think if this could possibly hurt them and then
i think of a less hurtful way to tell them the truth
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My Dearest
I can more than handle the responsibilities of being in a real relationship. I am
always listening and learning. I am capable of loving and caring completely and
without guilt of neglect.. I believe honesty is most important and yes the truth
hurts sometimes but it far outweighs a lie in all situations.. Darling , i think
you don't know How i feel for you ..You don't need to be doubt of me though ..we
haven't meet but i do believe that you are whom you are and I cant doubt that ....
Loyalty is not a given but a choice and I choose to be true to the ones I love.My
favorite color is Blue and all shades of it. My Birthday is May 15 , my favorite
song is Seasons of Wither by Airosmith, And my Full Name is Richard
Smith ......I am a very strong Christian and believe in God with all my heart
and I am an Baptist churchgoer right from the time I was gave birth . God is
first in my life. How about you?.... And of course someone who is honest and out
going. But most important love Jesus and goes to church...i want to be with
someone that is is gentle, tender, sensitive, caring, attentive and wants to be
with me no matter what it is we are doing. I love camping because there is nothing
like being under the stars with that someone special holding you close and sharing
the moment.You are a good woman. I came back from hospital around 5 PM my time
here .. Although I did not drive, it is still along day and I am so tired .. I
slept only 5 hours last night because I was thinking about you, what we can do
together and also plan for future, if we commit to each other.I read every words
in every message you sent too. I really want to understand you. I like your values
and personalities. I want to be with a good and happy woman..Most women said I am
sweet and thoughtful. But I do think I am romantic.You will have to prove it
yourself.I am more creative and adventurous.You can expect un-expectations. What
do you think?Can you handle me?I love to cuddle, hold hands while walking, kiss,
hug and touch my woman .I am telling you my secret here.. For me, touching is the
way I say "I love you".When we meet, you will have to tell me where I can touch
you.i respect you and I do not want to do anything you don't like. I say "dear",
"sweetie", "honey" to my woman I love.i will do so after we meet.Can you wait?
Look ahead to the future.You still have a lot of things to enjoy and accomplish in
your life.There are a lot of good men in the world.You will find one that will give
a true love to you and always be honest with you..I love Question & Answer and
would like you to answer your own questions as well.I will want to know more about
you. would you listen to me, i may have wisdom in some areas that you aren't
familiar with?I love to listen to you.And I will tell you what I think whether I
agree or disagree.We shall share our ideas.This is what I like about us. will you
be loyal to your woman?I will always be loyal to my woman.No lying.No secret. No
new woman can you be honest at all times even if its not in your best interest?I
will always be honest, even though, it is not my interest. I am always truthful,
although I am sometimes in an disadvantage situation.I am honest in every situation
and that why all people trust me. how will you treat a good woman?when you get
her?With unconditional love.With sincerity, honesty, fairness, respect and
caring." will you follow her to the ends of the earth?Yes ,I will lead her to the
top of the world and will stay there.If the earth must end, we shall die together
at the top of the world. will you be patient and accept what god has planned for
you both?Yes will you put god first and then your wife wishes?I will put God
wishes first because always helps us no matter what.
Darling , Let's I forget ..
What is your favorite midnight snack?
What is the strangest food you have ever eaten?
What's your favorite ice cream?
What are your favorite restaurants?
What would you like to eat off your partner?
What foods do you think would make great sex toys?
What are your favorite holiday dishes?
What dish of your mother's is your favorite?
What are your favorite drinks?
What dishes do you make the best?
lastly, tell me something about you that only your woman?or a good friend would
know. for example: birthday, favorite color, song, full name ....?My favorite song
is Imagine by John Lennon.My favorite movie is Forrest Gump.My favorite place is
sea.My favorite sound is birds at dawn.My favorite smell are flowers.My favorite
animal is dog.My Favorite season is raining season.my favorite sports are football
and soccer.My favorite exercise is swimming.What do think about my answers
today .I am going to bed now.I am so tired.....I am so gun shy about opening up to
someone, but on the on the other hand i really want to have someone in my life. I
like being a part of someone's life even though I try to pass it off as if it
really doesn't matter but it really does..My passion is dancing, I grew up two
stepping but am wanting to find a partner that would like to take swing dance
lessons, I think that would be a blast. So do you like to dance??? I've not spent
too much time looking for my woman because I do not believe she exists, I do
however believe that everything happens for a reason and that God has a plan laid
out for us all and he allows us to make choices good or bad but ultimately we end
up right where we are supposed to be.I think he has brought you to me for a reason
and I will not question that, I will follow his direction and do whatever is
necessary to fulfill his desire.If my desires are fulfilled as well then that
would be bonus. We will never go to sleep angry, I will always wake up with a
smile and supply you with one as well. Your needs are very important to me and
assuring your satisfaction will be a daily goal. And yes I would go to the ends of
the earth for the one I love without question. I love life and treasure each day
as if it was my last.i never leave anything to regret.If you are still feeling
this way than I will look forward to hearing back from you. You are always in my
thoughts.Have a wonderful day as I plan on doing the same.If you are looking for
negativity than you have looked in the wrong direction.All things big and small
hold beauty.Take that thought with you today and I will talk to you later.
I heart you,
Richard
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I read you letter with total amazement! It is shocking how much we have in common!
Your letter blew me away! I agree that this relationship is sanctioned by God. I
have no other explanation on how else it has come to be. As i read your letters i
am drawn to the conclusion that we are meant to be. We have plenty of time and i
always look forward to you letters. I learn so much about you from them. They bring
a blessing to my day and joy to my heart...What can I say after all that. I can't
recall the last time a woman has taken the time to "express" hes desires, hopes,
needs and wants so straight forwardly right off . Hmmm... you do sound
sincere ..You just dont know how much we have in common but we are Perfectly and
Absolutely equal which means you are My Half part . I'm not saying this because i
think you want to hear it. No i mean it. As i set and read your email i thought
WOW. I never ever thought i would ever run into a woman that feels and think like
me after the lost of my Late wife . I want to get to know you more. I hope you feel
the same way ... However, I do believe we all deserve a chance to prove our
intentions.Thanks so much for your mail and I await to read from you everyday ..I
am glad that you doing fine. Well, I think I am doing so so ..I fully understand
your worries ..I will pay more attention in the future. I'm glad that you like my
letters and I enjoy receiving your emails as well. My Brenda asked me something
today which she asked me that when will she be able to talk to you and see you
when I heard this , I was speechless cos I didnt expect this can comes Out from her
mouth but i gave Him no reply .. so what do you want me to Tell Her which I refer
the question to you ..??? My Sweetie , dont you may think that this is Little
weired to fall in Love over the email but i wanna let you know that maybe thats how
Nature wants it .. if Nature didn't wants it , we wont meet each other Online ..But
Darling , Can we Question God for what he would doing Our Life ??? i just believe
that With Him all things are possible and he made us to know that ( Mark 10 2-16 :
So they are no longer two but one flesh.Therefore what God has joined together, no
human being must separate ) .i will be expecting your Call anytime from
now ....Also 1 Corinthians, 13:1-13 : i may be able to speak the languages \of
human beings and even of angels, but if I have no love, my speech is no more than
a noisy gong or a clanging bell. I may have the gift of inspired preaching; I may
have all knowledge and understand all secrets; I may have the faith needed to move
mountains-but if I have no love, I am
nothing. i may give away everything I have, and even give up my body to be burned-
but if i have no love, this does me no good. . I agree we have become good friends
and I am going to try writing you more often :) I know that your are looking for a
serious relationship, so am I However, as you know, love is
something that we really can not control. I have a good felling in my heart that
this is real,the same like you I am looking for a family, don't be scare to try. I
am looking forward not only meeting with you but also having you in my arms..You
have floored me....It is all good pretty woman all good.My life is
basically a simple but very active life...Dull moments bore me.....True quiet
time with you would be cool but I mean just sitting on the couch watching
tv .Darling you know That i have been falling In love with you and I cant wait
till the day am gonna be Instate ..I want to married You .Don't doubt this
Hun...You are the light.Could you handle a life of being on the go having fun and
being by my side????Could you get use to me making you laugh alot????Could you get
used to just doing what to heck we wanted to do in our off time????Could you
handle my desire..my passion...my giving nature???? Could you accept a real honest
heart??? You would not in your wildest dreams believe how well I would treat you.I
am a man of great
passion,desire and truth. I hold respect as my high symbol of life...God of
course rules all in my life......I am a very fun,very hard working,very
trustworthy man with a heart that is ready for total love from a committed
woman..spoiling you the best I can....I live life full board100%....Don't take me
too wrong...I
will make you laugh alot...humor rules of my all goes into the relationship...do
not take me wrong...humor rules and you will be smiling alot with
me..promise....You probably need to give me some serious thought..I am one of a
kind.I must rest now..hugs and kisses.I am on my way to the Hospital Now and will
get back to you soon cos The Dr told me That he would run some Medical test for my
dad .. Cant wait hear from you and Dont forget to put my dad in prayer Honey ..
Answers to The Question i asked you :

What is your favorite midnight snack? Funny you answer this ..cause last night at
midnight I didn't have my fav snack I was out with My Daughter ! I love Nutty
Buddys...I like to open them in half and eat the peanut butter first...hehe
What is the strangest food you have ever eaten? I have eaten many strange things
but I would have to say the strangest would have to be Shark...and I didn't like
it.
What's your favorite ice cream? Hands down Rocky Road !!! :)
What are your favorite restaurants? I have several, Flemings steak house, Sauce,
Macaroni Grill, North, China Phoenix.
What would you like to eat off your partner? Ok I was laughing when you answer this
question . Wow I can honestly I have never ate anything off any partner. other than
Whipped cream.
What foods do you think would make great sex toys? Again you have caught me off
guard...hehe..ok my face is RED! you would so laugh at me right now embarrassed at
a computer screen. We will have to talk about this in person. What are your
favorite holiday dishes? Oh my..I have so many cause I always cook them. Cornbread
dressing, Sweet potato casserole, and of course Pecan pie.
What dish of your mother's is your favorite? Slam Dunk... GUMBO my siblings and I
are always begging her to make it !
What are your favorite drinks? If im drinking alcoholic drinks ( which is hardly
ever ) i. e you remember in my Profile That I do drink socially , I would have a
Tom Collins. other than that I like Iced Tea without lemon, I like Diet Dr. Pepper
and Coke Zero, but as you may not know in the desert Water is your best
friend.
What dishes do you make the best? Oh My Sweet Angel , I am a fabulous cook and I
would have to say my best dishes ( taken from my family always asking me to cook it
)
Soul food : Fried Chicken with all the sides, anything Cajun/ Creole Crawfish
Ettoufee is prob my specialty. I can bake too...:)
Richard Your Man to be

Italian :

Il mio cuore ti appartiene vorrei tu fossi qui con me ad abbracciarmi,

accarezzarmi, baciarmi, io saro con te per sempre per darti il mio conforto, il mio
sostegno, il mio amore Sei piu prezioso di quanto immagini sii mio per
favore...Buona notte caro mio e con tutto il cuore. Sempre,
English :

My heart belongs to you I wish you were here with me to embrace, rubbing, kissing,
I will be with you forever to give you my comfort, my support, my love You are more
precious than images please be my ... Good night my friend and with all your
heart. Ever,

Question for you ?

1. What are the types of movies that you like to watch?
2. If any man wanted to watch a movie with you and you didn't necessarily like it,
would you watch it with him?
3. What is the one thing that you wish that people would see in you when they first
meet you or are getting to know you, but don't see right away?
4. How many friends would you say that you have?
5. If I were to meet them, how would they describe you?
6. What is your favorite thing to do to relax?
7. What is your favorite thing to do when you feel adventurous?
8. If you feel the need to go out with the boys, what do you like to do? Do you
play poker? Shoot pool?
9. What are you favorite music artists?
10. Have you ever been to a music concert?
11. Are you protective of your loved ones? How?
12. Would you say that you are passive, or passive aggressive?
13. Are you more of a "lets see what happens" or "lets make something happen" type
of person?
14. How much alone time do you think that you need?
15. What is something that you cannot live without? Possession or something more
important....
16. If I were being threatened by someone else, how would you deal with that?

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Life is funny in so many ways you never know who you are going to meet ,where you
are going to be, What will make you cry. Or what will make you so so
happy inside.You go through life learning exploring teaching contemplating the next
tasks at hand . You have bumps and barriers that seem to keep you
from moving forward but you always seem to get around them no matter what it
takes .Its amazing how strong we are as human being to carry ourselves
forward even thought there maybe lots and lots of obstacles in our path. Life is a
journey with unexpected interruptions and happenings but we seem to
carry on with strength from where does it come?I often wonder through life's
trials and set backs mis fortunates and the such we manage to overcome and
we are still standing. Are we resilient or just flexible to what life has to offer
us when it comes? If someone had said to me....Sometimes you wonder if
people really see you or are you invisible.Do they see you for who you are as a
person and not just an object. I have felt like I was invisible that I couldn't
be seen or heard. It isn't a very good feeling but I have journeyed past it .Got
courage from where I do not know to step out of my comfort zone.if you can
understand this having a conversation with someone you have never met in your life
this in depth I would have said it wouldn't happen. i feel so much
inside it is a breath of fresh air to me to be able to share it with you..If you
have a partner that makes you feel love, hope, courage, strength, being
happy,honesty, respect for who you are and willing to go that extra step to make
you feel wonderful in their eyes you can't go wrong. I think this is true cos I
think life is funny in such a way that with who comes in and out of your life as
much as why they do. Every time you think things happen for one reason, it
changes and realize it was for another reason. I think the things that make me
happy are the people I allow to be in my life. It is not a matter of what or
how much I have, but it is with who I am spending it with. I have never had to
worry about the materialistic factors of life. I have always had wanted the
other things such as the love of my life to make me happy. I am very happy when
the life in and around me are satisfied. I do not ask for much but I do feel
everyone chooses what will make them happy or sad inside. You create your own
happiness or misery. The things that make me cry could also be the
people in my life. I cry when I or someone close to me is hurt. I also cry or am
sad when I become discouraged or frusterated about something. I try to say
"whatever is meant to happen will happen", but sometimes you wonder when that time
will come. It seems as if things don't go the way we expect
sometimes and trying to see a light is hard to do at times.

Answer to The question I asked you ?

1. What are the types of movies that you like to watch? I like comedy's, chic
flicks, vampire movies, and action, oh and true stories
2. If my woman wanted to watch a movie with you and you didn't necessarily like it,
would you watch it with him? Yes I would. But I would probably not
watch the movie and cuddle with her instead ;-)
3. What is the one thing that you wish that people would see in you when they first
meet you or are getting to know you, but don't see right away? That I am
truly a good person with no hidden agendas. I am who I say that I am.
4. How many friends would you say that you have? I have 1 true friends
5. If I were to meet them, how would they describe you? he would tell you that I'm
an extrovert, very outgoing. That I say what is on my mind. And that I'm
hard working and sweet. But I can be very forward and direct.
6. What is your favorite thing to do to relax? Listen to music, surf the Internet
7. What is your favorite thing to do when you feel adventurous? Just depends on
whom I'm with
8. If you feel the need to go out with the boys, what do you like to do? Do you
play poker? Shoot pool? I don't really go out to much with my girlfriends.
We talk on the phone, but my friends have family's and work long hours.
9. What are you favorite music artists? I like Madonna, Aaron Tippin, Toby Keith,
Faith Hill, Tim McGraw and a lot of others!
10. Have you ever been to a music concert? Yes, Billy Joel last year about his
time
11. Are you protective of your loved ones? How? Yes. Depends upon the situation.
If I hear someone talking down to a loved one, I will put them in there
place. If I see someone being disrespectful, I will become verbal and let them
know that it's unacceptable.
12. Would you say that you are passive, or passive aggressive? Passive aggressive.
Nothing about me is passive. LOL I make things happen
13. Are you more of a "lets see what happens" or "lets make something happen" type
of person? Let's make something happen
14. How much alone time do you think that you need? I need a couple hours a week,
sometimes more depending upon my week
15. What is something that you cannot live without? Possession or something more
important.... I just recently realized that I can not live without someone
to share my life with. I can live independently without help, but I need to share
my life with the woman that I want to love and desire. I so \miss desire.
16. If I were being threatened by someone else, how would you deal with that? I
would stand beside my woman and dare anyone to harm her
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Hi Darling ,
I am been really sad and Unhappy here .. I couldnt sleep here Honey .... My dad
condition has been bothering me here ..Please Always put him in your
Prayer for me ..I can't tell you how it makes me feel to hear from you daily. I
hope all is well with you. My desire my feelings are growing stronger and
stronger every day. You confide in me.That melts me inside. No one has ever in my
life talked to me about their hurt sand sorrows and I love that. We both
have gone through so much, and I feel like relate to you on a much higher level
than I have ever felt before. We have the same interests and the same likes.
I know I am a person that needs gratification, and you seem to fulfill my needs in
every way.I think that if we take our time and do everything right, this love
could blossom into a fairytale romance. All I ask - and I know I have said it
before � is that you be true tome and be true to yourself. I have put all my trust
in
you, and I have opened every fiber of my being to you and only you. I also said I
don't care about looks or money, granted they are nice things, but I am
after a love that will give me a reason to breathe. I want a future Wife in my
life,someone to hold,confide in, laugh with, cry with; someone I can watch
football with, fish with, walk along the beach at night with. I want it. I deserve
it, as do you. I sincerely hope that you feel the same as I do about you.You are
beautiful, you leave me speechless, you turn tears into happy bliss, you make bad
things seem not so bad. You astonish me and you brighten every aspect of
my life. Like you said, it�s amazing that we�ve grown so close in such a short
amount of time. The feelings blossomed rapidly and I don't want to lose that. I
have fallen madly in love with you. You are everything and more than what I have
dreamed of my entire life. You would make me happier than the richest
person in the world by sharing your love with me.i know I am not perfect, but I do
have goals in my life. I take good care of myself and my babies.Having a
life of being in love, yes I definitely want this and welcome it into my life. I
look forward very much to the part of having anything that is meant to happen
with you. If it is falling in love or marrying you one day, then our online
relationship would have proven the best thing that could have happened to us since
our 1st marriage. I am not afraid of falling in love at all... I am afraid of
someone falling in love with me and it fading away in their heart. Of course I
could
and want you to make me smile, happy and laugh every day. I think the joy of being
in love with someone is answering your next question.... getting used
to doing whatever the heck we want to. Being able to kiss the one you love,
holding them, touching, holding their hand, lay next to them as often as you
can, be intimate ANY time you want as well as sporadic, random thoughts with
anything that completes a couple. I would always love to have this happen
in my life. Knowing you feel and want the same way is a great feeling. Your
desires, your passions, truths, honesties, respects and wants are definitely
things I am and willing to accept from you. When two people are equal, it is the
only way a relationship succeeds. I am honest, sincere, and true, and I
have a lot of love to give if you are willing to be on the receiving end. Please
take this to heart, Baby; I love you.I know that they say absence makes the
heart grow fonder. I go to bed with tears every night waiting for the moment I can
hear from you. I don't know this feeling - I have never experienced it. I
want you by my side. I could never get tired of being near you whether on the
phone, through emails or talking in person. I missed you more than words can
say...I need to take a bath and get to bed. So I'm not going to send a long mail
tonight, ok. Please don't think I'm losing interest in you but if I start writing
I
will be on here for another hour and I'm a little tired and sleepy.. I genuinely
love you.Your Man forever...

I write you as soon as I get home from Hospital tomorrow.

Your Love Richard
Question for you Honey ?
* What's your favorite childhood memory?
* If you could relive any one day from your childhood, which day would it be?
* What were your childhood hobbies?
* Did you have any favorite family traditions as a child? Do you have favorite
family traditions today?
* What is your idea of a perfect day? A perfect date?
* If you could travel to any one place in the world, where would you go?
 * What is the best "relationship advice" someone has ever given you?
* What's the most romantic thing you have ever done?
* What is something you did as a teen that you parents never learned about?
* Who was the first person you kissed? What were the circumstances?
* What's the craziest dream you've ever had? What's the most recent dream you
can remember?
* What was your most embarrassing moment? How did you respond?
* Do you have any birthmarks? If so, where is it?
* Do you have any tattoos? Yes- where? No- would you consider it?
* Do you think there's a difference between love, romance and sex? How do you
define each of those terms?
* What's your wildest sexual fantasy? Is it something you'd like to act out or
just dream about?
* Is romance important in a couple's every day life? If so, what is the best
way to keep it alive?
English :
I am still on my knees begging for love, not to a stranger but to one I know ...
you. I've been in love and know it's fun. Each night and day I hope and pray
that you'll be mine forever more. I know it's hard to trust a man - giving your
heart, body and soul, but know it's me that's on my knees swallowing my pride,
begging you, please ... once again I say please; be mine.
Italiano :
Sono ancora in ginocchio l'accattonaggio per amore, non un estraneo, ma di uno che
conosco ... tu. Sono stato in amore e di know it's fun. Ogni giorno e
notte Spero e prego che sarai mia per sempre di pi�. So che � difficile fidarsi di
un uomo - che il tuo cuore, corpo e anima, ma sapere che sono io che il
mio ginocchio inghiottire il mio orgoglio, l'accattonaggio, la preghiamo di ... Lo
dico ancora una volta, per favore, essere il mio.
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Hi Darling ,
I have never been so anxious to read someone's email until I met you. So now
when I see you have wrote back, I am very anxious and excited to open it
up to see what you have to say to me. You said you would like to write me more
often - please feel free too. I would definitely enjoy that if you had time.
...I can't imagine you ever being invisible. To me, you shine like the brightest
light in the universe. I would know you immediately in a crowd of people,
darling. You would draw me to you like a magnet. You are the only person I have
ever felt compelled to tell my true feelings to without worrying if you
would make any kind of judgment of me. I can be utterly, totally, completely
honest to you. Yes, this feels like a breath of fresh air. It also makes me feel
more complete than I have ever felt in my entire life. The depths of my feelings
for you overjoy me, make me smile despite what is going on around me,
make my eyes tear up, not from sadness, but from pure joy. I couldn't explain this
to anyone, but you....Sweetheart ..Just wanna remind you that , I tried the
yahoo thing just on a whim after reading so much about online dating in various
newspapers, websites, etc. although was still reluctant, but then I decided
"why not" and now, I'm so thankful that I took that chance because if not, I would
have never found you! ... Once again I was totally blown away by your
email. I really had intended to sit down and answer it this morning but you know
sometimes life has a way of interrupting and changing our plans. I sit here
even tonight and just think how lucky I am to have had the Lord put you in my life.
I too believe we not only have things in common but we also perfectly
matched.I agree that we both do need to prove our intentions but like you I do
believe you are who you say you are.My heart this letter is my
heart-template in which my burning feelings for you will be ventilated.Sweetie, I
really enjoyed the moment I spent with you .. You've struck me as being
mild-mannered and quiet. In fact, your elevated words added some spice to my
life..our conversation through email was totally captivated by your charm
and good looks.you're my total preoccupation, believe me. I wondered why I should
ever get carried away by somebody I hadn't met before. Are there any
particular things thats was hungry for in you? But I suddenly realized that you're
exquisitely beautiful and unique. I must confess, I have fallen in love with
you, my dear sweetie. I could only see myself gravitate to you. i really resonate
with you, no doubt. Since that day, it appears that our lives are like a
'plural subject' with a 'singular verb' under the rule of concord for LOVE.To me,
you're a rose that should be protected from thorns around lest they prick
you. You're an angel that shouldn't be hurt. You're also honey that should be
covered against contaminants. by the grace of God, I'm &nbs