Submissive Checklist

This checklist should be filled out by a Sub and provided to their Dom/Top before playing with them.
This will provide a quick "head-start" to identifying limits, negotiating and finding common ground for
play. Dominants may wish to work through the checklist, to get a better handle on their specific
interests. Switches should go through the checklist twice; one persons Dom and sub interests
may vary widely.

For each item, you need to provide two answers as follows:

For experience, write YES or NO next to each item to indicate if you have ever DONE that activity. Mark N/A if it
does not apply to your gender.· For willingness, indicate for each item how you feel about DOING that activity by
rating it on a scale of NO or 0 to 5. "?" means you don't understand what the item is attempting to
describe.
· NO means you will NOT do that item under any circumstances (a hard limit).
· 0 (zero) indicates you have utterly no desire to do that activity and don't like doing it (in fact, may loath it) and
would ordinarily object to doing it, but you would permit the Dominant to do it if it they really wanted it.
(sometimes called a "soft limit").
· 1 means you don't want to do or like to do this activity, but wouldn't object if it were asked of you.
· 2 means you are willing to do this activity, but it has no special appeal for you.
· 3 means you usually like doing this activity, at least on an occasional basis.
· 4 means you like doing this activity, and would like to experience it on a regular basis.
· 5 means the activity is a wild turn-on for you, and you would like it as often as possible.
· Mark with an asterisk (*) those items which you are willing to do only with your current sex partner(s), but
not with casual play-partners. Note any additional information or nuances, which might be important for
your Dom to know in the margin to the right. For example under diapers you might wish to distinguish
between "wetting" and "soiling". There is intentionally some overlap between categories.
Unless otherwise stated, the Sub is the recipient/target of the activity.

I am a Male/Dom/Master and sometimes daddy figure and here to teach. A

Man’s Man, tough, smart, intellectual, successful, chivalrous, and sapio sexual.

I am:
Man of honor, Man of substance, Force of nature, Dominant, Chivalrous, Mentor,
Life coach, Educator, Life changer, Sigma male, Romantic, Building contractor,
Property investor, Writer, Life coach, Gym goer, Open communicator,
Renaissance man, Real man,
Masculine presence, Confident, Commanding, Successful, Protective and a
Provider.
You are:
Elusive, Mature, Grown up, Communicative Open, Sexy, Emotionally available, A
partner,
Lusty, Adventurous, Non avoidant, Loving,
Empathetic, Compassionate, Giving, Unique,
Confident, Feminine, Curious, Submissive, Gym goer or Active, Healthy,
Romantic, Passionate and Fun.
I am open to training submissives and slaves and although I prefer the newbie
or curious girl I also enjoy retraining even the most experienced.

My inner self is guided by a deep personal belief that nothing is by accident and
that everything happens for a reason. The Mental, physical and emotional health
of Dom and sub are primary. I am Here to protect and give you a caring space to
feel safe yet vulnerable in my arms. I can make you surrender and cum while
making you feel truly special as I gaze into your eyes with “that look.” We could
be out for a walk on the beach or dinner at an elegant restaurant and only you
and I know the fires that burn within as we patiently waited for the next course.
I am eager to train and encourage those on life’s journey. I love women of all
ages and shapes. Each one has their own sense of style and beauty. I specialize
in newbies who want to explore and need initial training online or in person. I
am unattached, no kids and can host and play as needed. If you are a sub/slave
experienced or not I can help you bring all of your fantasies to life. I am a safe,
sane and experienced Dominant who takes pride in the lifestyle and is not
looking for a quick fuck. Long-term relationship is my goal. I am not in a rush nor
will I settle and want some thing that builds a wonderful friendship as the fire
between us grows.
I work only with those who are interested in understanding and learning about
the concept of sex starting between the ears and the body follows. Yes I can
spank, tie you up, call you names, push your limits, use your holes but the best
fuck is a mind fuck and that is where I focus my energy. While casual play is fun
I’m looking for open minded subs or slaves who are willing to get on board for a
journey of mind and body.

Yes we both have limits and boundaries and those will be discussed as we begin
talking. I’m happy to share more pictures with those who share a commitment
to the training and a healthy respect for the lifestyle. I can play for hours with
the right sub/slave. You should feel safe protected and respected for the gifts
you give. That I do. Each of us need to learn our place and purpose. There are so
many women with so many different needs and desires. What are yours? I truly
want to know.

Stop thinking about the play you desire and act on it. Life is too short to not
follow your dreams. I’m also a great mentor so feel free to ask anything you like
about Bdsm or life in general. I’m happy to give advice to those smart enough to
take it.

Your submission is a gift. It is a bond of respect I honor. To violate you or that

bond would be Inappropriate for myself or you. I hold myself and you to the
highest standards. Yes I love sex and enjoy time with a sub/slave, But the
mentoring or growth I get to observe with the new trainees Is a huge component
of my sessions. I love to see when a woman makes a breakthrough about
something personal while training, knowing she will be better for it and cannot
return to her old ways. If you are sapiosexual even better as we will get along
famously. I don’t care what you do for a living or how much you make or how
smart you are. Just be your authentic true beautiful self.

I love submissives or slaves who are open to growth and learning about
themselves through the lifestyle. Anyone can get laid and enjoy the pleasures of
the flesh as much as the next, but the intellectual and spiritual synergy as a
Master is what drives me. I love to work with those who are curious, new to the
lifestyle, seeking real time training, phone or online and in need of a mentor,
Teaching and training is what I do, is who I am, being a Master is all I will ever
be.

I am open to all those who wish to enhance they’re mental and physical state.
Please read the testimonials of my subs and slaves as they will show my true
character and the kind of man I am. The testimonials and pictures change as my
subs and slaves end training to respect their privacy. Be open, passionate, lusty
and as passionate as I am. Let’s have fun, explore and get to know each other.
Still in search of that special one.

If any of this resonates with you please be creative and strong enough to send
me a message. Remember obedience is damn sexy. I look forward to hearing
from you.