THE NEW ME

The New Me Total Life Improvement project.

Submitted in partial fulfilling for the requirements of the Award of

Diploma in Christian Ministry – School of practical Ministry
Development, Faculty of leadership, Administration and Governance of
Light bearers University.

Submitted By: Bongole Solomon

Date of Submission: 12th/ 8/2024
Supervised by: Prof. Dr. prince Kibiike& prof.Dr. Marjorie Kings
Assessed By: East African polytechnic college Kyambogo & Lightbearers
University Research Institute.
Dedication.

I dedicate this new me book to my family, world salvation member and

our dear professors.

Acknowledgement

I want to thank God for our professors for the great knowledge
bestowed to me and this amazing book of the new you which has
helped me so much but also challenge me to wake up and move in a
new direction which God expects me to and also to believe and take
steps.

It has encouraged me and made me think differently, so I appreciate

you so much our dear professor prince kibiike and prof. Marjorie of
light bearers university of Christian ministry.
 TABLE OF CONTENT

INTRODUCTION page 4

Chapter 1 page 5

Knowing my needs

Chapter 2 page 10

my life book

conclusion page 22
INTRODUCTION

I have been able to realize that i can become a new version of myself
and to fulfill my destiny in Christ and family.

I have now taken a new direction moving towards my God given

purpose of life and I see myself as God see me and I have been able to
discover ways of becoming the new me as by answering the questions
in the book of the new you given to me by my professor Prince Kibiike
of lightbearers university.
 CHAPTER 1

KNOWING MY NEEDS

I have come to realize that we don’t have to worry about the future and
even not to stick on the past because if we stick on the past, we hinder
our present and affect our future. I have come to know that I got to
appreciate the now of life and utilize it very well not to worry about
tomorrow. one thing I have discovered is I can have food today but
when it is not enough for tomorrow, I don’t have to first worry about
what I will eat tomorrow but to enjoy the food on my table today. This
has made me remember the scripture in the bible which says therefore
don’t worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about it’s own
things ( Mathew 6:34). I have learned to fix my mind and spirit into the
now of life and appreciate today. I have also realized that the only way
you can appreciate life is living in the present and also valuing today.

I have come to realize that the now has the beauty hidden in it only
when I consider it. I have as well learned to live in every moment of life.

Take time

I have learned that the moment you work and be determined and also
give in all your life to think through what you are doing, success will be
your potion and the moment you think you will never lack solution in
any situation you will win. Also get time to relax, play, move to get
refreshed and always do everything in its rightful time and never miss
use the days of your youth. Never give up on reading, praying and
dreaming because in them you will have a bright future. Never have a
selfish mentality it can destroy you but always share and wish others
well, it is road to happiness and success.
One of the things I have learned in passage is to appreciate and live in
every moment I encounter in life rather than worrying about the future
and being trapped in the past. I have come to realize that there must
be a mind transformation process for me to ignore the past because it
already happened and I can’t change anything and also worrying about
the future it has not yet arrived but to enjoy and celebrate in my now
of life, that’s how life will become sweet for me and fill its aroma in
order to have peace.

I have come to realize that at 3:00am I will wake up and pray for my
needs and also bless my day and also pray for my family and ministry
even my nation, then at 8:30pm I will again get a quite time to reflect
on how the day was and then to pray, to think and plan, read God’s
word for guidance, purpose and direction so that I don’t mess up with
what God intends to do with my life.
My physical needs

I. getting balanced meals

II. getting enough exercise and physical recreation .

i. getting balanced meals

what I have to do is to start learning what foods carry which food
value and when do I need to eat them in order to give myself a
balanced deity.
ii. getting enough exercise and physical recreation I need to
create enough time to run in the morning or evening and I
need also to know from the health professionals what kind
of exercise are fit for me and then put myself in order to do
them.
Also I need to get time and go to the gym and sauna to help
my body be healthy. I have also spare some time and move
round and sweat so that my body parts are fit and properly
working.
on the matter of the old saying according to the question
which one I am?
my answer is: I am one who doesn’t know but wants to
know (a student).
 Attitude
I have come to know that one of the things that govern a
person’s life is attitude. Your attitude defines you and
sometimes it destroys you.
About the parable of the grumpy old man taught me that
negative thinking can cause commotion to the all
organization, ministry and all people around you. So it is so
important to discover where the problem is and rectify it
than being negative minded all the time. I have realized that
you can be seeing problems when you are a negative thinker
while the positive thinker sees an opportunity in the
problem. So it has been a great lesson to me and I have
decided to have a positive mind set and always to see
opportunities amidst challenges in order to turn mourning
into dancing.
I will as well choose wisely my company because there is
saying that goes bad company corrupts good morals. So I
will always choose my friends, even people to be around me
wisely because I have realized that association brings
assimilation.

Establishing winning attitude

One of the things I have come to realize is that whenever you associate
with the wrong people in the wrong place automatically negative or
bad behaviors can’t be prohibited. But one of the things I have to do is
to choose wisely my company or where I go and why, then I decide
wisely to avoid self distraction.
I have realized that I have always to know the will of God for my life and
follow it than following people’s opinions. There is a way seems right to
the man but in the end it leads to destruction (proverbs 14:12), so that
means even my opinion has to be tested by the word of God and
guidance of the Holy Spirit.

People forget that association brings assimilation which simply means

that the people you move with is the kind of a person you become. The
bible says if you move with the wise slowly by slowly you will become
wise or you can automatically be wise (proverbs 13:20), so better
choose your company with care. For me I have now decided to delete
anyone who doesn’t add unto me anything good and am going to do
my best to associate with good and winning people so that I become
the best version of myself and become what God expect from me. I will
never fill good about my mistake but find way to change because am a
good person and I will forever fight as I pray, read the word and
practice it so that I can become the righteousness of God through Christ
Jesus and to move according to the way and will of God.

Thank you so much Jesus Christ for saving me through giving your life to
die for me and giving me your holy spirit oh God. I pray you give me the
grace to keep moving on the right track and if you see me deviating
from it, bring me back Jesus Christ so that I don’t ashame your name.

Thank you so much my God in Jesus Christ might name I believe to

stand by the help of your holy spirit
1. What do I love most in my life experience?

I. What I love most is having fellowship with God through the deep
worship, studying and meditating in the word of God, being alone
in prayer and serving God.
II. I love, taking care of God’s people including my family and one of
the acts of love is
 Serving them foods, teaching them the ways and the will of
God as individuals and family.
 Monitoring their spiritual growth financial and mental
growth.
 I love traveling for ministry and also I love excellent things.

2. Who do I think I am?

 I am an apostle by calling who mentors, motivates
and discovers people’s gifts and give them a chance
to become what God designed them to be.
 I am a father because I love, rebuke reprove,
motivate and value even people in and outside my
care.
 I am a learner because I always give attention to
acquiring knowledge and the correct way of
application and also I always give attention to
details.

3. What are my skills, talent gifts and abilities?

 One of the things i know about myself is bringing

people together, am so motivated by preaching
the gospel of the kingdom to the young, old and
 families and also reaching out to the hopeless
and restore hope to them with the word of God
and through love activities.
 Empowering others through leadership and
youth conferences
 I always create new ideas and implement them.
 I know how to drive, studied the mechanical
engineering and also do construction supervision
work etc.
 I always empower churches in deferent areas
when am called upon and when there is need
without complaining.
 Strengthening the weak in faith and build them
into giants in faith
 building others without selfish motives.
 Making friends and keeping them.

4. What are my 3 greatest accomplishments in life?

 Empowering others, i have been able to

empower more than 100 children when
going back to school with scholastic
materials through my organization live to
love charity organization
 I have been able to restore more than 5
ministries that were shaking and on verge
of going down I have been able to stand
with over 15 churches empowering them
and lighting the fire at their altars and
 setting a pace for them in prayer and also
teaching them a culture of prayer and more
so telling them to make it a lifestyle. I have
witnessed many testimonies and pastors
were amazed about what God can do, now
they are happy serving God with the fire of
prayer still burning.

 I have witnessed restoration of marriages

 God also gave me marriage and now

blessed us with the fruit of womb, which
was not possible God made it possible and
now am called a married man

 I started a prayer mountain when sent and

did the role of an apostle until now it is
standing well established and it is called
the prayer mountain of joy and restoration.

 I have discipled many people including

senior ministers and changed their
perception and there ministries improved
and now they are happily serving God.

What are the 7 greatest things that I like about myself?

I. The boldness I have when challenged by tough situations.
II. The way I fix things when they are out of order
III. The spirit of discernment before making a decision and
also knowing what people think just through looking into
their eyes.
IV. Selfless life because some people even ask me but don’t
you love yourself, just because I feel whatever I have I
should share with others?
V. The power to motivate others who were giving up.
VI. The leadership skills I display when counseling young and
mature people who are old than me.
VII. The creativity and quick ways of adopting good cultures
of the people I always meet.
Now I have come to realize that all my ability will be limited by my
thinking as we saw from the manual the story of a girl who failed a test
and came to the mother and the mother tried to change her thinking
but she couldn’t. I have come to realize that one of our major problems
is perception. We perceive things negatively but after this story I have
learned a lesson and have decided to change my perception and try to
see things differently and as well changing my thinking about the
negative maters to see that things can improve and can be better.

I have come to realize that one of our greatest hindrance and enemy is
not the devil but our mind, if we can only transform our minds as
Romans 12:2 says be transformed by renew of your mind. So if our
mind is transformed our perception will be deferent even when the
situation is worse we shall see opportunities hidden and we shall be
able to escape them and the results will be amazing.

I have decided after reading this passage to be a positive thinker, to

eliminate fear and worry, to get reedy of complaining and avoid bad
company, even seeing differently and always in every situation see the
good side and have a winning mentality of seeing the best happening
though it didn’t work out but keeping myself encouraged and
motivated.
 Chapter two

My life book

Write down from 5 to 7 affirmations.

 The best is about to come out of me.

 The world is about to see the glory of God in my life and the poor
is about to seat with the nobles.
 My life is about to become a sign and a wonder because I have
Christ in me the hope of glory.
 Am beautifully and wonderfully made in the image of God that’s
why i will never be a failure.
 Am happy motivated I will never live a failed life.
 Just because it didn’t work today it doesn’t mean it will never
work, I will never give up on myself.
 Am ready to face the day because am born to win so i will never
quite.

1. What do I want to accomplish with my life.

I. One of the things I want to accomplish in my life is making
disciples of Jesus Christ that will live to glorify God and to
exploits for the kingdom of God.
II. I want to be a good father and husband who will be the best
to my family and also help them fulfill their destiny and
contribute to their lives making them Disciples of Christ.
III. I want to build a health Christian institution which impact the
whole man (mentally, spiritually, physically, financially and to
see lives transformed and destiny fulfilled.
2. What kind of service can I provide in gratitude of God’s
forgiveness?
 To love God’s people and show them the right path to take in
order for all of us to inherit the kingdom of God.
3. What can I do to become a better person, friend and family
member?
 Working on my personality character.
4. What kind of career do i want to live in?
 Apostolic ministry planting churches, going for missions,
conferences and crusades for many to give their lives to Christ and
be transformed.
5. What kind of home do I want to live in?

 A peaceful home with Christian value.

 A home with a father, mother and children living in harmony and
so welcoming.

6. What can I do to improve my health?

I. Following the doctors’ guidance on how to balance my diet.

II. Consult from doctors for the health tips about what I ought
not to do and what I have to do.
III. Doing life balance according to the health practitioner’s
guidance.

7. What can I do to increase my knowledge?

 By keeping learners mentality.
Why do I want this?
1. Why do I want to make disciples?
 I want to do it because am called in apostolic ministry and also to
fulfill the scriptures according to Mathew 28:19 which says
therefore go and make disciples of all nations so am moved by
this scripture to do everything I do in making disciples.
 I want to be a good father because the bible also commands us to
in Ephesians: 23-29.

2. I want to love God’s people because Christ showed us an example

in john 3:16 that love is expressed in actions so I want to move in
the steps of Christ though I can’t do what Christ did but to fulfill
the commandments he said in Mathew 22:37-38 which say love
your neighbor, with love many can be drown to the kingdom of
God.
3. Working on my personality character because most of the times
people can be tough and explain as their personality yet it has
also something to do with character development to become the
best version of me in society and the people I live with and those I
meet. I said working on my personality character because most of
the times it made me lose opportunities and created boundaries
with people who would have been a help to me so I want this in
order to improve myself and not to miss out any more
opportunities before of me.
4. I want a career of apostolic ministry because it is my calling from
God .
5. I want a peaceful home because I know without peace the home
can’t grow and family development is very difficulty so I want to
solve all these problems.
6. Following the doctor’s guidance on how to balance my deity.
I do this because they are professional in that sector for health
living it helps me avoid damages to my body systems.

7. Keeping a learners’ mentality.

it helps me improve myself and learn new things for the better
version of me.
If I maintain a learner’s mentality it always help me to keep
growing in wisdom, knowledge and understanding in all areas of
life where it might need to be.
How can I accomplish this?

1. Making disciples.
 one of the things I have to do is to make myself available
for Gods work and source out people in my calling to
team up and do Gods work together according to the will
of God.
 Investing more time in praying and reading of the word in
order to grow in the knowledge of the word of God and
grow more stronger in spirit so that am able to win more
souls and grow them into their God given destinies.
 Creating channels for financial stability of myself in order
to invest in this work of making disciples and also pray to
God to add more valuable people committed to serve and
invest in making disciples, as well as training those
recruited to invest in the disciples making work and also
making them disciples.
 Making teams of discipleship classes for those working
and those who are not learn in order to make them
match and become experts in making disciples.
2. I can accomplish this loving God’s people. Through the love
activities I do through sharing encouraging messages, giving
out hope to the hopeless, etc. but I had to have done a plan to
get farm in order to have enough foodstuff, build schools and
build institutions where many people can have jobs and others
learn new skills to go and improve their lives.
3. How can I change my personality character?
  By identifying the weak areas where needs
improvement and accepting to change and praying to
God to help me become a better version of me
4. I can accomplish this by studding about the people with the
same calling I have and how they became successful in their
calling then I learn from them.
 By keeping myself in the presence of God for guidance
and following his lead all the time.
5. I can have a peaceful home by developing peaceful approaches
even when errors are made in my home.
 I can study about family related books and how a
peaceful family should be and what it takes, then I
follow the steps.
6. How can I balance my deity?
 One of thing is to study what different foods carry in
them as their food value then I eat them accordingly
in a balanced form.
7. I can always have role models of the best version to become
and imitate them.
 I can always be near people who have what I want to
learn and ask them questions of how they became
who they are and also try to exercise the steps they
told me.
 another thing is that I have to become like a child if I
am to maintain the learners mentality in order to
avoid compromise, frustration brought by the tough
lesions I have to go through to become better version
of myself.
My goals
 making disciples of Jesus Christ.
 having all the equipments like sound systems,
trucks, tents, stages for preaching the gospel.
 Building vocational training centers for those
who never got a chance to go to school for them
to acquire skills.
 having the well organized and lively home.

Plans for fulfilling my goals

 One of the plan I have is to establish areal
estate and construction company to help
me in raising funds to buy the equipment I
need for crusade and missions and helping
in making disciples.
 Another plan is to talk to my friends and
sell my version to them and request for
those who can support it to do so then
another way is to welcome more partners
but having standards to follow to become
one.
 Studying about the people who gone ahead
of me in the field of ministry and acquiring
from them the principles they used to
reach their dreams if I find it Godly I follow
the principles.
 I will be asking God in every step I have to
take for guidance.
 I will look out for good mentors who can
help me achieve my goals.
 I will give myself to learning through videos
and books of the people of the same vision
as mine to help me knowing the right steps
to take and when to take them.
 Studying different cultures and languages
in order to be able to communicate to
them the gospel when I go to their nations.
 personalities and the right way to handle
them.
 Giving myself to reading the word of God
and gathering all the necessary information
required for preaching the gospel in its
rightful way.
 Dedicating my time in prayer and creating
purpose driven team to help in
accomplishing all the tasks in my vision.
 Teaching all the people around me my
vision and making them buy it and enter
into it in order to spread it and also help in
fulfilling it.
 Making people to own the vision I have
which will easily make my vision have a
breakthrough.
 I will create time and take my family out for
dinner, make surprises for them, create
time and pray with them.
 I will make sure I get time to sit with them
and know the challenges and what their
views on family and business matters.
 I will create moments off the ministry to
travel with my family and give them
awareness on so many things away from
the house and also teach them in action
practical ministry matters and even know
there visions and plans, so think by doing
this it can help me have a peaceful home
when they don’t see me as a man of God at
home but also as a father, husband and a
good parent.
My life script

 Life is a mystery when you are starting the journey

sometimes it looks like a long way to go but when you
reach there you wonder why you were scared about life.
 One day I sat down when I was renting and through about
having land and building a house but I couldn’t see any way
through but blessed is the lord who helped me, now I have
peaceful home with fence, a compound with pavers and
garden of flowers looking so beautiful, a wife and children
which is fearing God and purpose driven.
 So you can sit and ask yourself why I was scared about the
future.
 I have now establish more than 1000 churches and they are
properly running on the solid foundation due to the time
and mentorship programs I give them and they are solid
disciples of Jesus Christ and now they are even making other
disciples of Jesus Christ.
 We have travelled in more than 100 nations taking the
gospel to them and we have seen a mighty hand of God.
 I have now more than one car to use while moving with my
ministry team, when moving with my family and while going
to my farm and to buy lands because God has blessed me
with successful real estate and construction company which
employs more than 200 people and improve their lives and
families.
 I have come to realize that there is power in believing in
God, believing in yourself and taking a step to start because
when I look at what I have become I remember that one
step I took to start and focused on the dream though we
went through difficult times we never gave up on our vision
so there is power in being determined and sticking on vision.
I remember the times we spent days and night without food
and the landlord on our neck, children not going to school,
moving on foot to do ministry but we never lost hope in
God, now see what has become of us. we give out food to
the needy and we luck nothing, taking other people’s
children to school, using cars for ministry and having
beautiful and peaceful home, we thank God for his
faithfulness.
Please never loose hope, stick to that vision, be determined
and take steps you will finally make it through and in all
never loose prayer and reading the word of God.
I have seen kings and presidents, ambassadors visiting our
project, appreciate the great work we have done and now I
feel a blessed man of God, am a successful father parent and
a great husband never give up on your vision but always
keep learning improving and never loose truck no matter
what comes your way, be ready to go through it and never
allow yourself to die in the middle of the story but always
tell yourself am the one to write this story of my life and tell
it to the next generation. I conclude by appreciating the light
bearers university and our dear prophesiers for the support
and wisdom they gave us, it was a foundation for our
success. thank you all who stood with us in this journey to
the top in our vision God bless you.
What I don’t like about myself ?

 One of the things I don’t like about myself is telling people

the right thing to do and they keep arguing, it takes me off
and sometimes I feel like not valued and wasted my time,
happen not to be so patient.
 Other thing that I don’t like about myself is when I have no
money I become so frustrated and it makes me to loose
focus.
 I sometimes becomes so serous even at home point one.
1. On the point of telling people the right thing and they
Argue which takes me off am now learning slowly to be
patient with them and bear with them.
2. Point two. Am now trying to give myself peace and tell
the Holy Spirit to help me.
3. Point three am now not so serous at home trying to be
free, create some jokes, but still praying to God in that
area that I completely be a free man from this so serious
nature.
Conclusion.

I have now come to realize that if am to become a new me, one of the
things that I have to change is my perception, character and the way I
define things, so in this matter am fully persuaded that change has
already started in my life and am going to give birth to all my God given
vision and dreams and also becoming the best version in my calling and
my family is going to be the happiest on this planet earth. My ministry
has improved and seeing more great changes and lives being
transformed after applying what I have in this book. Thank you so much
our professors and may God continually bless you with strength and
resources you need to impact more lives in Jesus Christ might name.

AMEN!!!!!