The Dungeon Master BDSM CHECKLIST
Carefully review this list, look at each item on the list, if you don't understand what
that item is, discuss it what each item means with your Dominant. Before answering
each item, insure that you have a complete understanding of what it is. If you still
don't understand it, or if you have doubts leave that item blank and discuss it with
your Dominant.
Each item has two answers, the first answer relates to your preference or desire to
experience or not experience the subject. The next answer relates to your past
encounters or experience with the activity. Circle each of the answers as
appropriate. If there is something about the topic that you think is important for your
Dominant to know, annotate your comments on the back of the page.
It is important that you answer each item honestly, don't be afraid to admit that
you've tried something or that it is something you don't want to try. The answers you
provide will help your Dom to understand your needs and desires.
my preferences
1 = would never ---------------------(Yuk!! No!!)
2 = would only if told----------------(Do I have to?)
3 = would if asked-------------------(I guess I could)
4 = will, but slowly--------------------(It might be fun, Be gentle please)
5 = will occasionally-----------------(Sure, I'm ready)
6 = will anytime / all the time-------(Oh Yes! Love it!!)
my experience level
A = Never tried this
B = Tried it once
C = Tried it more than once
D = Do it all the time
(All topics are listed alphabetically)
Abrasion 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Age play 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Anal Fisting 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Anal plug
( public, under clothing ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Anal plug
( large ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Anal plug
( small ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Anal sex 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Anal torture 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Animal roles 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Arm and leg sleeves 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Asphyxiation 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Bathroom use control 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Beating
( hard ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Beating
( soft ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Being bitten 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Beastiality 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Blindfolds 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Bondage
( heavy ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Bondage
( light ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Bondage
( multi-day ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Bondage
( public, under clothing ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Branding 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Breast whipping 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Breast bondage 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Breath control 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Brown showers ( scat ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Caging / kenneling 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Caning 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Chains 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Charity Auctions 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Chastity belts 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Choking 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Chores 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Collars
( worn private ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Collars
( worn public ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Collar and lead
( private ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Collar and lead
( public ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Corsets 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Cuffs
( leather ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Cuffs
( metal ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Cutting 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Cyber Sex 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Diapers
( wearing ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Diapers
( soiling ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Diapers
( wetting ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Dildos 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Double penetration 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Eating at feet 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Eating off the floor 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Electricity play 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Enemas 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Erotic dance 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Examinations
( physical ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Exercise
( forced, required ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Exhibitionism 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Eye contact restrictions 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Face slapping 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Fantasy abandonment 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Fantasy rape 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Fear 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Fisting
( anal ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Fisting
( vaginal ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Flame play 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Foot worship 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Forced bedwetting 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Forced Eating 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Forced Homosexuality 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Forced Masturbation 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Forced Nudity 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Forced Servitude 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D Full head
hoods 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Gags 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Given away
(perm ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Given away
( temp ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Golden showers 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Gun play 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Hair pulling 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Hand jobs
(giving) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Harems 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Harnessing
( leather ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Harnessing
( rope ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Having clothing chosen 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Having food chosen 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Head / eating out
( receiving ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Head / eating out
( giving ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
High heels 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Homage
( w/ tongue ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Hot oils 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Hot waxing
( dripping ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Human puppy dog 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Humiliation
( public ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Humiliation
( private ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Ice cubes 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Immobilization 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Infantilism 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Injections 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Interrogations 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Japanese rope bondage 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Kidnapping 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Kneeling 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Knife play 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Leather clothing 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Leather restraints 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Lectures 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Licking 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Lingerie 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Manacles and Irons 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Manicures
( giving ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Massages
( giving ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Massages
( receiving ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Masturbation 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Medical scenes 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Modeling for erotic photos 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Mouth bits 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Mummification 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Name change
( for scene ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Name change
( perm ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Nipple clamps / clothespins 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Nipple torture 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Nipple piercing 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Nipple weights 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Oral torture 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Orgasm control 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Orgasm denial 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Outdoor scenes 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Pain
( mild ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Pain
( severe ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Personality modification 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Phone sex
( commercial ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Phone sex
( for Dom’s friends ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Phone sex
( for Dom ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Piercing 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Pony slave 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Prison scenes 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Prostitution
( actual ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Prostitution
( in scene ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Public exposure 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Punishment scene 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Pussy whipping 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Religious scenes 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Restrictive rules
( behavior ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Riding crops 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Rope body harness 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Rubber / latex clothing 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Saran wrapping 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Scratching 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Scat 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Sensory deprivation 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Serving as art 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Serving as ashtray 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Serving as furniture 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Serving as maid 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
toilette 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Serving as waitress 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Serving other Dom/mes
( supervised ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Serving other Dom/mes
( unsupervised ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Sexual deprivation 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Shaving
( body hair ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Shaving
( head ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Sitting at feet 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Skinny dipping 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Sleep deprivation 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Sleep sacks 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Sleeping on floor
( beside bed ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Sleeping at feet
( on bed ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Spandex clothing 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Spanking 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Speaking in third person 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Speculums 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Speech restrictions 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Spitting 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Spreader bars 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Stocks 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Straight jackets 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Strap on Dildos
( penetrated by ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Strap on dildos
( sucking on ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Strap on dildos
(wearing ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Strapping
(full body beating ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Suspension
( horizontal ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Suspension
( vertical ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Suspension
(inverted ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Swallowing feces 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Swallowing Urine 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Swapping
( one other couple ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Swinging
( multiple couples ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Tattooing 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Teasing 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Thumb cuffs 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Tickling 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Triple penetration 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Uniforms 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Verbal humiliation 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Vibrators 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Videos 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Voyeurism
( watching others ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Voyeurism
(watching Dom with others ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Water torture 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Waxing
(hair removal ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Wearing symbolic jewelry 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Weight gain
(forced ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Weight loss
( forced ) 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Whipping 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Wooden paddles 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
Wrestling 1 2 3 4 5 6 A B C D
