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Feelings CLC 15

This document provides examples of inaccurate and accurate ways to describe feelings in relationships. Inaccurate ways include sarcasm, labeling, commanding, questioning, accusation, mind reading, making threats, and judging. More accurate descriptions directly state how one feels without blaming, accusing, or making assumptions about the other person. Examples of accurate statements share feelings of resentment, discomfort, insecurity, dislike, concern, disappointment without attacking the other person. The document encourages openly and honestly sharing one's emotions in a respectful manner.

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Feelings CLC 15

This document provides examples of inaccurate and accurate ways to describe feelings in relationships. Inaccurate ways include sarcasm, labeling, commanding, questioning, accusation, mind reading, making threats, and judging. More accurate descriptions directly state how one feels without blaming, accusing, or making assumptions about the other person. Examples of accurate statements share feelings of resentment, discomfort, insecurity, dislike, concern, disappointment without attacking the other person. The document encourages openly and honestly sharing one's emotions in a respectful manner.

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CAREER LIFE CONNECTIONS

Name:

Feelings
What ventilations do you need to work on? Why?

INACCURATE VENTILATION ACCURATE DESCRIPTION OF


FEELINGSS
1. Sarcasm: I resent your telling Joan and me that we
You know –I t-all! haven’t the foggiest idea about how to
invest money.

2. Labelling: I resent it when you refer to women as


You’re a male chauvinist pig, stupid and fickle.
that’s what.

3. Commanding: I’m so angry at your, I don’t want any


Get lost! further discussion with you.

4. Questioning: I feel uncomfortable at your office parties.


Why do you always want to go to Sometimes I feel jealous when I see you
those stupid office parties? enjoying a conversation with a man.

Do you love me? I feel insecure. I’ve treated you so badly I


wonder if your still love me.

5. Accusation: I dislike your spending so much time and


You don’t care about our family money at the tavern and I feel disgust
anymore? when I see you drunk. I’m concerned
about its effect on the children.

These days women are walking all I feel threatened by your increased
over their husbands. assertiveness.

You don’t love me? If you did, you I’m disappointed because you forgot our
would have remembered our wedding anniversary.
wedding anniversary.

6. Mind Reading: I wonder if you really mean what you say.


You don’t really feel that way.

7. Making threats: John, I’ve been very unhappy over the


John, if things don’t change soon peat year. Sometimes I feel like running
I’m going to walk out of this away. I would like us to go for marriage
marriage. counselling.

8. Judging I enjoyed your company. I hope we can


You’re a fine person. get together again.

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