KNOW THYSELF - WORLD OF
EMOTIONS
Madhavi Gadkari
Student Counselor, NIFT
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WORLD OF EMOTIONS
People mention them as… “ Heart felt”…., “Gut
feelings…, “choose feelings over logic!”……, “Dil aur
Dimag ki kashmaksh…, ” “Logical v/s emotional”….
and so on
Do we have different dimensions of ‘self’
i.e. Thinking self & Feeling self
`WHY STUDY FEELINGS?
The world around us emphasizes
planned, predictable, logical behavior in interpersonal,
social and professional relations
Reacting to situations ‘emotionally’ is not taken
positively
We learn to control, monitor and modify emotions even
before we are truly aware of them
….And still have emotional problems…
THE END RESULT….
Confusion.. & Emotional
fatigue
FEELINGS
Emotions, emotional reactions… etc. are scientific terms used
for Feelings
Emotions are experienced at psychological and physical levels,
simultaneously
EMOTIONS: LAYPERSONS EXPERIENCE
Poetry, literature, paintings, sculptures, dance music etc.
depict the emotional experiences using physical
terminology such as…
~Pounding heart, blushing, Goose pimples, Chill down
the spine, Spinning head, churning stomach…and so on
Emotions are experienced by oneself without external
inputs also
EMOTIONS: LAYPERSONS EXPERIENCE
Expressing emotions by using physical terminology is
the most obvious experience common to everybody.
Are there hidden dimensions in the process of
experiencing Emotions…. Let’s find out..
EMOTIONS AND ITS COMPONENTS
Physiological experiences
Psychological experiences
Expression
Socially acceptable expression
Behavioral output
Thinking processes
EARLY THEORIES
EMOTIONS: SOME BASIC FACTS AND
PROCESSES
Emotions commonly recognized across the globe are called
primary emotions. These are:
JOY, SURPRISE,
EXCITEMENT
SOME MORE PRIMARY EMOTIONS
ANGER, DISGUST, DISTRESS,
FEAR, SHAME
SECONDARY EMOTIONS
Mix of more than few primary emotions
Subtle in expression
Difficult to decipher in case of unfamiliarity with person’s
background
SECONDARY EMOTIONS
Highly influenced & modified by personal, social and
cultural Factors
Secondary emotions indicate enhanced human
development in terms of sophisticated, symbolized
emotional expression instead of using direct and
unmodified primary emotion
INDIAN ART FORMS
In the Indian context we have a
long history in art and
performing arts, which
describes nine primary
emotions, called as ‘Navras’
COLOURS AND FEELINGS
EMOTIONS & BODY: HOW’S & WHY’S
Some specific structures
in the brain, some
hormones
(neurochemicals) and
some parts of our
nervous system comprise
the emotional apparatus
in human beings
EMOTIONS & BODY: HOW’S & WHY’S
The felt emotion (in the brain) influences various body
parts via autonomic nervous system’s activation of soft
muscles
Hence heart, head, stomach,feet, hands,
mouth,throat………become day-to-day medium of
expressing emotions
EMOTIONS & BODY: HOW’S & WHY’S
The Good News
You can train, condition and regulate your bodily
involvement in emotional expression through various
psychological techniques and processes
POSITIVE EMOTIONS AND ASSOCIATED
NEUROTRANSMITER
PSYCHOLOGICAL MATURING:STORY OF
EMOTIONAL GROWTH
Immense importance of
early childhood years
Intense learning through
emotional relations with
parents
PSYCHOLOGICAL MATURING:STORY OF
EMOTIONAL GROWTH
From simple
copycat of Mom-
Dad……
….we learn to
develop own
emotional
algorithms
PSYCHOLOGICAL MATURING:STORY OF
EMOTIONAL GROWTH
Childhood experiences contribute in development of adult
ego, super ego according to Sigmund Freud
Other theorists emphasize the role of environment in terms
of rewards-punishment
TRUTH LIES IN BETWEEN….
THE LONG LASTING IMPACT
Our search for satisfying adult relations/
partnerships leads us to look for …
“husband just like my dad……. wife
cooking exactly like mom…..”.
When under unbearable stress, we may
sometime slip back to old patterns of
emoting with others……… Beyond our
conscious knowledge or awareness
WE THE GROWN-UP PEOPLE
The Adult Persona
seems to have traces of
this growth story all
over us…..of course,
the learning goes on
later also
This part of us may be
called ….Feeling Self
Thinking-Self
depicts
intellectual
Thinking
growth
Persona
Feelings Action
RELATIONSHIPS: INTERPLAY OF
EMOTIONS
Beyond our conscious knowledge or awareness we
bring-in our own Thinking & Feeling self While~
Relating with others
Our emotional
communication may
match or mismatch
KNOWING ONESELF IS GOOD
BEGINNING
Internal world of likes-dislikes, must-must not,
preferred-not preferred feelings can affect the style of
thinking
Personal biases (both +/-), blind spots need extra efforts
to reach
Your style of facing bad situations may differ from
others
Gender plays a significant role
So…
I’m trying to know
Myself.
Do not disturb..!!