Unavailable father

In part two of this 5-part series, Natalie explains the impact of emotionally unavailable fathers on our relationship patterns

What's a Father to a Daughter? A father can play a multifaceted and crucial role in a daughter's life, providing not only a sense of stable security but also serving as an essential figure in her emotional and social development. Here are some key aspects of what a father can represent for a daughte

THE UNAVAILABLE FATHER You either pushed him away, “I don’t need his love”, and denied your deep need to be loved, OR you would do anything to gain his attention and approval, even if you abandoned yourself in the process. Are you still doing this with other men in your life?

The “father wound” runs deep—an emotional scar left by an absent, neglectful, or emotionally unavailable father. The damage isn’t always obvious, but it shows up everywhere, especially in your relationships, your self-worth, and the direction of your life. Without knowing it, you might be chasing validation from people who are just as emotionally unavailable as your father, repeating the same toxic cycles over and over. It disconnects you from who you are at your core, including your…

Growing up with an absent father, whether emotionally, physically or both, can leave deep scars. For many, the father represents a sense of safety, guidance and unconditional support. When this is missing, it can lead to feelings of abandonment, low self-worth and difficulty forming healthy relationships later in life. Children of emotionally absent fathers may struggle with emotional regulation, constantly seeking validation or approval, often feeling unseen or unheard. Without that…

Sickening how they don’t even care if they never see their children because of their repulsive behavior.