Its your fault

It's Not your fault

Is it my fault?

Truly…I hear this question all the time… Even people on the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program can agonise with this question. This is how they present it to me… “Melanie please tell me WHY I shouldn’t hold him / her accountable!” and, 'WHY shouldn’t he / she PAY from what he / she did?!” In fact this is one of the greatest (if not the greatest) stumbling blocks to creating a Thriver recovery. In this article I address why trying to gain accountability from the narcissist is one of the ...

It’s good to take responsibility for things you can control about yourself, but sometimes you also need to accept when things really were out of your control and blaming yourself is more...

Good Will Hunting

Lasting changes may require new systems or structures. Of course, not every change can be solved with structure, but as humans, we tend to consider making personal changes before making structural changes.

~ Mefiresu ~ | VK

Sexual contact without affirmative consent is rape. Period.