Losing people

to be completely honest

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Are you familiar with the “Let Them” theory? I’ll tell you friends the more I grow the more I am okay with accepting the “Let Them” in my own life and relationships. ⠀ ⠀ This is something that took me a very long time to learn. I used to tolerate a lot because I didn’t want to lose people. But I learned the hard way if they were really my people they would never treat me like that. Don’t make the mistake of being so understanding and forgiving that you overlook the fact that you’re being ...

And that was the moment. The moment I recognized, we aren't friends anymore.We're just two people who talk sometimes. Nothing more, nothing less.

stop tolerating disrespect just because you don't want to lose people

You may lose people when you: Stop trauma bonding Honor your boundaries Realize you can't "save" others Refuse to do their emotional work

How do you tell the difference between a rocky patch in a relationship and a relationship that just isn't working? Everything may have seemed great at first but after a while the true colors will always come out. As things slide away from what you want, watch out for these tell tale signs of disrespect.Communicate your concerns and needs with your partner. Approach them in a respectful and patient manner (even if they are not doing so).If your partner consistently disrespects you and makes…

Friendship Quotes you don't lose friends, because real friends can never be lost. You lose people masquerading as friends, and you're better for it.