“at least be nice about-” no. Girl. Kill him over it. We’re done. It’s been centuries of this bullshit since time immemorial and he hasn’t learned. Obliterate him.
here’s the thing. it’s not enough to wanna fuck fat girls. if u like fat girls u have to learn how to be a good lover to em. learn where to get cute plus sized clothes, get a bed frame that can accommodate her weight, tell her she’s beautiful not just cute/hot. u gotta take care of her