Weaponized incompetence

Weaponized incompetence is a poorly executed action or behavior that someone does on purpose, while appearing to do so out of incompetence. The goal of this tactic is to make oneself look like they are incapable of performing an action, therefore removing ownership and accountability for the action being completed. In any kind of relationship–personal,

Feigning incompetence is the new glamourized term for a*sholes.

Weaponized incompetence is intentionally doing a task poorly. Narcissists and other toxic people use this devaluation technique for two reasons. 1. To avoid being asked to do the task again 2. To devalue or punish you

POPSUGAR Wellness on Instagram: "Does your partner never do anything "right" — like how they fold clothes or load the dishwasher? Relationship and communication therapist Nirmala Bijraj, LMHC, (@alignedself.co) says it could be weaponized incompetence. We spoke with experts about what weaponized incompetence looks like in romantic relationships and how it can be extremely detrimental to someone's mental health at our 🔗 in bio."

Printing the divorce papers as we speak.

Weaponized incompetence refers to one partner in a relationship choosing to approach a task with little to no effort so as to not be asked to repeat that task in the future. Here’s everything you need to know.

I’m sure by now you’ve heard of the term “weaponized” in conjunction with the narcissistic education community. Realistically, you likely experienced #WeaponizedIncompetence in your relationship with your Nex. When they deliberately acted incompetent to avoid husband & father responsibilities or manipulate you into taking over their tasks. ❕Here are a few examples of how a Narcissistic coparent weaponizes a person or system can sound in real life: ❕🚩Weaponizing Partners: “You should be g...

Lee Hammock on Instagram: "Some narcissists will use weaponized incompetence and pretend to not know how to do things - - - - - - - - - #narcissisticrelationship #toxicrelationship #weaponizedincompentence #narcissisticrelationship"