Spouse of an alcoholic

I think that of all the things I struggled with over the years as the wife of an alcoholic, control was probably the hardest. I am a control freak by nature, and also a 'fixer'. Put those things together and it spells a wife who thinks if she can just control the situation enough then she just might be able to fix it...

Relationships are complex, layered, and it takes a lot for a husband or a wife to make it work and keep the family structure healthy and whole. Alcohol use disorders, binge drinking, problematic drinking, and alcoholism can be devastating to families and relationships if allowed to continue. If you are observing warning signs of functional alcoholism and see it getting worse, it may be time to ask for help. Click to learn more.

If your partner lives with addiction, it may be time to leave the relationship if their behavior jeopardizes your safety and well-being. You're not alone.

You wonder if he’s actually an alcoholic even without the shakes and the constant drunkenness. But a functional alcoholic is still an alcoholic.

This prayer is a plea to God for help and guidance, asking for the strength and courage to cope with the challenges of living with an alcoholic spouse, and to support them on the path to recovery.

Today I'm brining you the story of a woman whose husband is an alcoholic. She is sharing bravely and submitted her story anonymously in hopes of support. I’m

Explore compassionate, faith-based articles offering guidance and support for Christian wives navigating the challenges of a spouse's alcoholism.

If your significant other is struggling with alcohol misuse, there are actions you can take to help both of you through the related challenges.

Explore compassionate, faith-based articles offering guidance and support for Christian wives navigating the challenges of a spouse's alcoholism.

The complete guide with tips and advice for when you’re living with (married to) an alcoholic (or you suspect your partner has an alcohol problem). Includes effective self-help strategies

Do you know someone who has an alcohol addiction? Find out how you can help and be a positive influence in their journey to be alcohol-free.

Explore compassionate, faith-based articles offering guidance and support for Christian wives navigating the challenges of a spouse's alcoholism.

Coping with an alcoholic is an incredibly stressful and hard thing - especially when they're a loved one, like a spouse or parent. Find 6 ways to cope here!

As the wife of an alcoholic I used to think 'If only my husband would get sober, then I could be happy/feel better/live a normal life/etc...." Sound familiar? Today I'd like to try to change how you think about that...

Sometimes you have to let go and succumb to the fact that no matter how much you love someone, sometimes they aren’t able to love equally. Alcohol is more important to an alcoholic than love. Some aren’t meant to be saved by you but rather are placed in your life to only be a lesson TO you. Set yourself free darling and create the life you want for yourself!

Untreated substance use disorders (SUDs) can wreak havoc in relationships. Spouses are among those who suffer the most, and it is not uncommon for SUD-affected marriages to end in divorce.

If you are in a romantic relationship with an alcoholic, it can be unnerving and overwhelming. The daily frustration of living with and loving an alcoholic can leave you wondering if the relationship is worth saving or if it can be saved at all.

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What you can do if someone you love is an alcoholic who hides their problem from the rest of the world.