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Cake day: 5 juillet 2023

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  • Don’t get better help or any app like that. They are all scams and do not keep your identity or what you say safe and secure.

    Best thing to do is someone in or around you that does online seasons.

    That’s what I do, I have a therapist that is from a place around here I trust and is hipa compliant so they won’t give your info and whatever you say to anyone

    There should be organizations around you that can help you with therapy if your low income for instance I heard volunteers of America have sliding scale based on income including zero Income.



  • You don’t home the algorithm. It hones you. Finds what you engage with the most and exploits you. Every short form video site does this. It makes it addictive to you so you stay on it and see more ads.

    It doesn’t care what you like. Only what keeps you on there. Even if it’s things you hate. And your probably thinking “oh lll just say I don’t like it”. They don’t care. Corporations don’t care. They just want to maximize the profit from you.





  • I stopped trying to label my gender like a decade ago and I stopped caring what society or other people see me as.

    Tbh it is kinda entertaining watching people get really confused on what gender I am.

    Safety wise I am “female” in places where my safety is required but friends family and just everywhere else I’m just me. Whatever the fuck hat Is at that time.

    Society views on gender sexuality and all of that are completely fucked up and just stupid so I ignore it as best I can. If someone doesn’t like me as me then they can never talk to me again. (Besides safety wise like at work and shit).

    That’s just my experience over coming out as trans 20 years ago.


  • As most people believe gender is actually not always that gender gfor everyone. Some just stick to one gender there whole life. Others transition to one they feel comfortable as. People like me, well my gender changes so often and so differently each time that it’s not possible for me to keep up.

    Gender is not “you are this or that” gender is “who I am right now”.

    Be you, whoever you are at this current time and know you are valid and that it is ok.

    Remember that what you dress or look like is separate from gender as well as sexuality. These are three different things. And they all also can change and that’s also ok.

    You don’t need to be any specific gender sexuality or appearance all the time. You can be any or all or none whenever you wish.

    I should know as my gender I consider “Schroeder’s gender” whenever I am perceived my gender changes.